Meth, the Mob, and Mental Health - Barriers for Gang Members Seeking Addiction Help | The Hui 2022

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  • @kathleenwong3119
    @kathleenwong3119 4 місяці тому +20

    The system didn’t fail him. His “brothers” failed him.

  • @ArohaCookson
    @ArohaCookson 5 місяців тому +31

    As a Maori, my hearts goes to the kids who are born to these types of whanau. My father is a true east coast Maori, hard af worker, an amazing husband, father and koro. Im so grateful I grew up in a loving household. Turn away from the ganglife, there is a much bigger legacy you can leave behind 🤍 These gangs wont be visiting you at the ururpa when your gone, your kids will and surely you want them to think the world of you when your no longer here.

    • @mhutch5082
      @mhutch5082 4 місяці тому

      Dont speak on the mob little girl. Don't speak on things you don't understand

    • @RogueX777
      @RogueX777 4 місяці тому +1

      @@mhutch5082oh be quiet. Mobsters are wannabes, why don’t yous go over to America ☠️ let them show yous

    • @ArohaCookson
      @ArohaCookson 3 місяці тому +5

      @@mhutch5082 little girl 🤣 oh everybody goes through hardship. Don’t give me that bullshit!

    • @mhutch5082
      @mhutch5082 3 місяці тому

      @@ArohaCookson clown

    • @ArohaCookson
      @ArohaCookson 3 місяці тому +7

      @@mhutch5082 some of us have jobs, clearly you don’t wasting your time online talking shit. Jealous I always have a fridge full of food huh 🤭🤣

  • @Tupunaforever
    @Tupunaforever 5 місяців тому +17

    so sorry for your loss e wahine Jade, may Mr Atkins RIP. Thankyou for being brave to tell his story, it's much appreciated. Not all inmates will want the new facility, but if it means saving a few from the busling crowd that want the help, kei te pai. All the very best.

  • @unnamedchannel1237
    @unnamedchannel1237 4 місяці тому +22

    Do you think the system let him down - “ definitely”
    How about taking responsibility for your own life and not rely on the “system”

    • @Itwasalladream1987
      @Itwasalladream1987 3 місяці тому +4

      Many of these people need the system to provide support for growth and change through therapy and utilizing tools. It's about breaking cycles not pointing fingers, many of these people have been born into hardship and are surrounded by risk factors.

    • @alphaomega3633
      @alphaomega3633 2 місяці тому

      It's People like you that view the World, one dimensionally who are the problem. There's many reasons why the system fails People and if you can't see why, I'm sorry that you have a comprehension disability.

  • @shonatyson5934
    @shonatyson5934 3 місяці тому +6

    If he was brought up with love, not violence the outcome would have been an amazing man, I think is parents were to blame not society.

    • @Itwasalladream1987
      @Itwasalladream1987 3 місяці тому

      A mixture of both, they still need support outside of their whānau trauma to help them pivot and lead happy healthy lives.

    • @mummylilbear6088
      @mummylilbear6088 3 місяці тому +1

      Not necessarily, how many men die from same thing but who do work hard and grew up in great middle-class houses. Depression doesn’t care what race, how much money you have. 😢

  • @Denzel-s2g
    @Denzel-s2g 5 місяців тому +19

    Speak up now or forever hold your say, reach out an seek help. ❤ Don't be afraid whether it's a relationship breakup, mental health issues,drugs,trauma etc.
    If you don't ask you won't receive.

  • @user-uo7vf3ne9w
    @user-uo7vf3ne9w 5 місяців тому +30

    Put the patch down and stand on ur own like a man, that wud of been the first bit of advice, 2nd throw that P pipe away and get into work and fittness, rugby etc, im sure if he spoke with his prezz they would b understanding if he wanted to pull away from the gang life to focus on his well being, R.i.P bro

  • @davidboyd8113
    @davidboyd8113 3 місяці тому +5

    There are hundreds of men that take their own lives each year and no one cares and the system lets all them down so don’t think He had that on his own and where were his brothers did they try to help

  • @leaisoufeauyoutube
    @leaisoufeauyoutube 5 місяців тому +24

    Our mental health system is 💩 short staffed, without resources, and people wanting help but not wanting to do the work. It takes partnership between the client AND service. Therapies, counselling etc is not a one stop shop, you have to want to change your life. One love whanau ✌️

  • @AmonAnon-vw3hr
    @AmonAnon-vw3hr 3 місяці тому +3

    Can't help people who refuse help.

  • @SadeMoala
    @SadeMoala 5 місяців тому +20

    The suicide is a generational curse. Which can only be broken in the name of Jesus. This is a sad story

  • @ronniegrey4445
    @ronniegrey4445 5 місяців тому +4

    Stay Strong Girl.

  • @pounamuriver7411
    @pounamuriver7411 5 місяців тому +2

    Yes we need our kaumatuas the most ❤

  • @redback38
    @redback38 5 місяців тому +2

    Being a good parent is so crucial, its not just being present in there lives its really knowing your kids which is important. I know this girl will break the cycle, all the best girl❤️❤️👍

  • @charmaineskipworth7891
    @charmaineskipworth7891 5 місяців тому +3

    What a beautiful whahine❤ ..so sorry for your loss..

  • @SpatialAdmirer273
    @SpatialAdmirer273 5 місяців тому +3

    Rip brother

  • @DoinglifeGodsway
    @DoinglifeGodsway 4 місяці тому +3

    Suicide mental health is a state of torment in the mind. But if you believe 2 Timothy 1:7 For the Lord has not given us a Spirit of Fear but Power , Love and a Sound Mind.

  • @HinemoaNewton
    @HinemoaNewton 4 місяці тому +2

    No more excuses too better oneself if you have your own family wear the patch of arohanui oku whanau

  • @jamiematthews4848
    @jamiematthews4848 5 місяців тому +8

    You need a women like her on your team

  • @AmonAnon-vw3hr
    @AmonAnon-vw3hr 3 місяці тому +1

    9:17
    And what of the other 58%?
    Forgotten, ignored and dismissed simply because they weren't gang members.

  • @taniawilliams14
    @taniawilliams14 5 місяців тому +4

    Armon Tamatea is one of the best minds in the country around what works for our people.

  • @ibringtherain7669
    @ibringtherain7669 5 місяців тому +6

    Zero sum game! Comes to ruin, kill and destroy. The illusion of pride and ego. Only the system wins here. All heading to the cliff edge.

  • @paulheywood2116
    @paulheywood2116 3 місяці тому +1

    Strong woman you are girl

  • @JohnLaker-cf3dw
    @JohnLaker-cf3dw 5 місяців тому +5

    It doesn't help when your on drugs and somebody else is in your head bad doings not owning people back stuffed someone's life up
    Being hard missing someone's day up there so much to it

    • @terrikara6876
      @terrikara6876 5 місяців тому +2

      Yes, there are many layers ❤ healing is possible, one layer at a time, one day at a time...

    • @ManaBlack208
      @ManaBlack208 5 місяців тому +3

      Man read your comment hard to understand

  • @terrikara6876
    @terrikara6876 5 місяців тому +1

    Whanau, blood, gang, or friends, we are first responders - offer a listening ear, a hug, a prayer & if you know of some support reach out - Love n blessings to our whanau - kia kaha ❤❤❤❤

  • @skyline472
    @skyline472 5 місяців тому +5

    Rip Tuta bro

  • @Ripfire777
    @Ripfire777 5 місяців тому +2

    Speaking up can also be the final straw too cause you finally speak up and nothing happens it smacks u down even more, theres no hope truth hurts.

  • @JADALEIGH08
    @JADALEIGH08 5 місяців тому +2

    Much love ❤. It's hard when their attached to the gang and it's thier normal. Breaking that cycle and.going against the grain of their peers

  • @Honest-Tee07
    @Honest-Tee07 5 місяців тому +5

    2 of my brothers committed suicide in 2020 & 2022 neither of my brothers were gangstas, neither of them had gone to jail, the first who took his life was on meth. Where my brothers ate concerned the family support was there, the mental health services were there but besides trying to say my brother was suffering from a P induced psychosis they didn't know what was wrong then decided to give him a pill for psychosis, a pill for depression, a pill for bi polar and I pill for anxiety which I thought the pills all at the same time, considering what they were for would of fugged him up more than anything or been pointless cause wouldn't they cancel each other out?! Personally I think gangs and drugs play a part for some but not all if anything they want some bullsheeit to stop and death seems to be the only thing that works to do that 😢 I hope and pray all suicide deaths find the peace they wanted from life in death 🎗 #FukSuicide

  • @RAZZIE420
    @RAZZIE420 5 місяців тому +2

    Fk that's heavy RIP brotha bouns

  • @irifikkk8489
    @irifikkk8489 5 місяців тому +3

    Doing da pukanas with the glass taiaha lol

  • @anton97658
    @anton97658 5 місяців тому

    He tino pōuri tēnei kōrero, ka tuku aroha kia koe e Hine. Moe mai rā Bonus, kua wehe atu koe tōmua, he pōuri 😢

  • @mhh8072
    @mhh8072 5 місяців тому +1

    Sad 😢

  • @ngarutalaman4401
    @ngarutalaman4401 4 місяці тому +2

    Mental health support in New Zealand is non-existent and it's sad

  • @KysRoa-en9bn
    @KysRoa-en9bn 3 місяці тому

    It's worse haveing mental health

  • @johnnymartin3846
    @johnnymartin3846 5 місяців тому +11

    Pity for a mob member please! Imagine the harm he caused family’s and helped others to be atics

    • @gerrardodonnell5084
      @gerrardodonnell5084 5 місяців тому +5

      Come on brother stop looking at the end result and look at why, how and what can we do to support.

    • @johnsonkeast9277
      @johnsonkeast9277 5 місяців тому +5

      He was still a son, brother, father and tangata whenua....this is not the place or time for slander ehoa, Nga Manaakitanga

    • @sbnz1207
      @sbnz1207 3 місяці тому +1

      Suh a dismissive comment.... I've recently lost a family member to suicide, he saw his gang as family as he hadn't had much support through life. He was a beautiful person. People , I can only imagine, must be absolutely rock bottom and desperate to take their own life - it's not the easy way out, it's just a very, very sad situation for that person and the people who love him and are left behind. It's just not as simple as you are making out.

  • @Adam-g8v7v
    @Adam-g8v7v 5 місяців тому

    It's the black power to

  • @Michael-vw6rg
    @Michael-vw6rg 3 місяці тому

    Suicide not a very good head space❤❤❤ very sad to hear this story its not the first he will never be the last??

  • @AmonAnon-vw3hr
    @AmonAnon-vw3hr 3 місяці тому +1

    The dude think a group who walk the streets covered in swastika tattoos are the victims of "racism" lol

  • @dave24-73
    @dave24-73 3 місяці тому

    Looks to me that you need a system to allow people to relocate miles away, and start over. Where there is a level of protection. But then you get Maori activists saying you are taking them away from their families.
    The gangs are now too big to break up.
    And only going to get bigger as the gangs are recruiting people younger and younger.

  • @Sal-yt6yi
    @Sal-yt6yi 5 місяців тому +1

    The interviewer needs to lower her damn head..looking like she's looking down on everyone she talking to 😂

  • @trillionairextreme
    @trillionairextreme 5 місяців тому +1

    In a better place with his people #arohamai #kiakaha

    • @ManaBlack208
      @ManaBlack208 5 місяців тому +1

      Wat hell with the demons 😈

    • @trillionairextreme
      @trillionairextreme 5 місяців тому

      @@ManaBlack208 #theblackpower #mangukahahard #tuhoe #kingcountry

    • @ManaBlack208
      @ManaBlack208 5 місяців тому

      @@trillionairextremeBlackpower?,he was a mobster

    • @trillionairextreme
      @trillionairextreme 5 місяців тому

      @@ManaBlack208 Why ask the questions if you don't like the answer. #bp #mk #ganggang

    • @ManaBlack208
      @ManaBlack208 5 місяців тому

      @trillionairextreme1277 Who said I didn't like your answer?I don't understand it,so your saying his people are blackpower where he is buried but he was a hardcore mongrel mob?I'm asking you,is his people where he's buried blackpower?

  • @WestyUru
    @WestyUru 5 місяців тому +32

    Where were the frogs when this brother needed them ? Frog Life

    • @daesean77
      @daesean77 5 місяців тому

      The mutts

    • @JamieH-i8p
      @JamieH-i8p 3 місяці тому

      😢Bonus was up LST kicking it at Nigga Krayzees his brother in law catching up with kloe and leeroy and raaarking the Bois up RIP

  • @Tankhorse02
    @Tankhorse02 5 місяців тому +2

    🎵Tiptoe through the tulips… with meeeeee eeeeeeee… 😈

  • @davisnicholls8714
    @davisnicholls8714 5 місяців тому +7

    The choice is yours, choose the the narrow path or the wide path, Jesus is the ONLY WAY The TRUTH and the LIFE, repent and turn to God, God bless our kiwi friends.

  • @amomentsnotice
    @amomentsnotice 5 місяців тому

    There has to be gang members that can communicate with their members on issues like mental health Whakawhanaungatanga financial issues & the hidden histories of Indigenous People’s World Wide, suicidal tendencies in my opinion is all about fear, a fear that comes from the Colonial System through English a Spell Casting Colonial Matrix Program commonly known as a language.
    👁️⚫️🌍🌎🌏☠️👽✨☮️

  • @chrismills8287
    @chrismills8287 5 місяців тому +7

    Gangster flops

  • @DorisPohe
    @DorisPohe 5 місяців тому +9

    Tragic tamariki born into gangs don't have a choice tino pouri.😢

    • @ManaBlack208
      @ManaBlack208 5 місяців тому +2

      Yeah their parents are sending them to hell