Speaking as a 45 year old gay man, I don't think I'd mistake you for gay. That said, you're a good looking young guy, so the ladies AND the guys are probably just being hopeful! The most important thing is that you seem very comfortable with yourself and not insecure about it, which is really all that matters.
You popped up on my feed. Being a 40 year old gay dude, I’ve learned that someone who calls out F*g the most are usually the ones who are insecure with themselves. You’re young, you have your whole life ahead of you still, don’t let people get under your skin for what they say. It will drag you down. Do you, bro.
Dude - this is easy to say but particularly at your age - this is hard for you to understand - always be YOU - whoever that is - and DON’T GIVE A DAMN ABOUT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK!!! Do they pay your bills? You are a great guy!
Dude I’m in your exact situation, I’m straight but everyone thinks I’m gay bc of my interests like I don’t like sports and most boys do but I love music and art and people assume I’m gay and have thought that since 2nd grade I’m in 10th now but like I’ll tell u what I did , I found friends who wouldn’t make fun of me or call me gay and even if there isn’t alot of friends they will for sure help , I also started to care less what others thought about me and just started to open up more and be myself but for me personally I don’t think u seem gay at all but yeah just don’t take it to heart I did years ago and it was the worst decision ever but listen ur a great guy man and don’t let anyone like tell u otherwise
Thanks alot to be honest ever since I got more into sports and such I’ve got a lot less comments so I feel interests play a big role in it, which is ridicules ofc so just keep being you. I’m glad you have been able to find people who except you for who you are
I definitely don’t think you look ,talk, or act gay, you might give off a slight vibe in person since u were raised with two sisters but I wouldn’t assume anything. It’s definitely okay to be uncomfortable and not want to be called or told that u act something you’re not. Especially if you were insecure about it in middle school. I don’t know how to help you with this issue sadly but I do think you seem straight overall, you don’t talk or act gay
So gay means coming off as what , feminine? Most gays I know don't seem 'gay' at all. Including me. But yeah a lot of 'typical' gays promote the confusion of : gays are feminine.
So sad that the stigma of being gay still persists. Who the hell cares! Be as you are. It’s a great thing to be gay, if that’s what you are. And it’s OK to be straight, if that applies. Or anything else in between for that matter. Fortunately, there’s not such a “charge”⚡️about sexuality in Europe.
Thanks for your honesty, Evan. It was opposite for me in high school. Literally no one thought I was gay, or even joked with me about being gay. I was hardly out to myself (and 2007 was a much different world than 2025). And, I observed how the only out kid at my tiny Christian school was treated, so, I thought it best to keep it to myself. My hope for you, is that you're able to have a solid friend group who will love and support you, and allow you to love yourself. Wish you a great 2025, man. Thanks for being vulnerable. Take care, -Kenneth
The idea of someone coming out on YT and being celebrated for it is a pretty recent phenomenon! I was a kid in the 80s, and I remember being bullied by my Gym teacher. There was an iron supplement advertised on TV, marketed to women, called Femiron. The Phys-ed teacher called me Femiron Ryan....Every fucking week! For a cheap giggle...So I thought 2007 was pretty recent, and it is interesting to hear your story! We have to be careful of our culture backsliding. Take care!
Be as you are. Express what you feel and dox what you really want to do. Don't be afraid. Maybe is the environment. Maybe people doesn't deserve you (sometimes even your family), if they don't respect you and accept you they lose you, you don't have to kill your true self to make them love you, if you're "dead", there's nothing to feel. You have to follow what you feel. Even if it feels risky or not acceptable. Cause it may be what you are meant to discover and achieve yourself. Treat you kindly and be there for yourself. I feel you 100%. Keep it doing it like this. I'm here.
Might be because people are jealous because you're really good-looking. Another reason is they are gaslighting because they are attracted to you or have tendencies themselves.
Ignorance and insecurities are often reasons people label. You seem very genuine. That's why I subscribed and follow you. I enjoy how you present yourself and your content. Please don't think too much about the opinions of others. People who love you for you are worthy of your thoughts, time, and attention. 🙏🏾🥰
The short answer to your question is: No, you can't look at someone and tell they are gay or straight or other. You specifically, nothing in your speech or mannerisms would lead me to suspect you were anything but heterosexual. Bullied. What you are describing is being bullied. It's not all threats, intimidation. It's not always physical. It's usually mostly mental, verbal, and emotional. If in middle school someone called you gay and you reacted strongly, it gave them what they wanted - a reaction. As to why - you're a handsome fella. You probably care about your appearance and are well put together out in public. Bullies always project their insecurity on others. Turn it around - if someone calls you gay just respond calmly with "I'm not, do you WANT me to be? Is that what YOUR into?" Or say nothing just laugh and walk away. Your call. I know, from personal experience, even if the bullying has no merit, it still hurts. What helped me is realizing that the people doing the bullying weren't my friends - they were nobodies, they meant nothing to me, so why did I care what they thought about me? And if anyone around me wanted to believe what my enemies thought of me without seeing for themselves who I was - then I didn't need them in my life and no loss if that's who they are. Actions matter and it tells you all you need to know about a person before they even open their mouths to speak. I hope this brings you some measure of peace. You are not alone.
people say the same thing abt me even after I clarify it’s not the truth time and time again. it’s been so annoying all my life, idk why people are so obsessed with the curiosity of peoples sexuality when it has nothing to do with them… it’s rlly ridiculous. Ignore them, tell them off, just do you. They don’t know you.
i could listen to this man speak all day on any subject. he has one of those voices that has a chilled relaxed vibe to it. just nice to listen to for a few minutes of this video.
Same here... People need to learn how to mind their own business. Nosy people act as they have something to gain by aways being in the "know"! It would seem that society would be more focused on supporting each other rather than focusing on what does not matter 🤔. Schools and families need to do a better job at socializing kids.
Just brush it off. They say that to make you insecure and they want you to feel less masculine. Something about you makes them feel insecure/jealous and they project it onto you. Keep being yourself and let them be miserable.
As an older Irish gay man in the U.K. myself, who grew up in an Irish Catholic background in Rural Ireland, I don’t think it’s so much a bad thing if people assume that you are gay - in fact, it might very well attract a lot of supportive gay fans - we gays are not all straight-phobic and we welcome straight allies like yourself 🇮🇪☘️🇮🇪😍
U look fine to me. I am a straight-looking gay guy, people assume I am straight bc of heteronormativity. And just saying if u truly think there is nothing wrong being gay, then u should stand up for your word.... otherwise is hypocrisy. So simply just do not give a single fuck what they are saying. People get misjudged all the time. What they ar assuming about u is not gonna define u. btw Im pretty sure those voices will fade later.
Never let other people unsettle you. People really don't care about who your sexual orientation. They are just messing with you. Let me save you a huge amount of time and anxiety. I have moved to different cities in my life. When ever I did that I met an entirely new group of people. Each different group saw me as a different person than the people who knew me in the old city. I didn't change, they just saw me as a different person. My epiphany was it wasn't me, it was them. The prescription is if the current people you are hanging out with are making you unhappy, find a new group of people to hang out with.
It’s true. All the people who try to put that label on ppl, whether they are or not, it’s just a form of discrimination. And it’s funny cuz it’s the same people in that community or that “support” it that will put that label on you even if you tell them it’s not the truth.
oookkk sooo. Firsly Love youself. Love youself unconditionally and love those around you. Gay,straight, or not, you are human and people need to respect you humanity and your boundries. Secondly, The kinds of people who use "gay" as an insult are the kind of people who think being gay is "weak" or "inferior" or otherwise "bad" because to them its not "normal". So, to be brutally honest, they are trying to spin the narrtive that queer folk are "bad" and "evil" when being gay is about being yourself. Its homophobia plain and simple. If someone tells you "you're gay" in a way that's intended to make you feel bad then: 1.They don't know that, they don't know how YOU feel and who YOU are attracted to. That's up to you to explore and discover what you're body tells you what you are attracted to. 2. Its not their business. If you like guys and their getting their noses up in what you do behind the sense then that's inappropriate (unless you want them to ask about it). You have your right to privacy and they need to respect that boundry. 3. If you act or do or say anything that makes you look gay to them and they call you out for it, then I'm really sorry to say, they're trying to control you and trying to make you feel bad for not being EXACTLY like them ie straight and masculine. They are trying to make you feeel bad for not being "normal" in their eyes while also hurting other's (indirectly) in the process. 4. If you are gay then be proud of it!!! Love yourself. Be healthy. To be healthy you need to take care of yourself. To take care of yourself you need to accept the reality of who you are and accept that. Being gay or bi or trans is wonderful and an innate part of millions of people's lives. You sexuallity cannot change and it will not go away. And if you do like guys then no matter how hard you try to hide it, it will always be there and hiding it will only hurt you. The same way we all have brains or lungs or hearts, most of us have a sexuality. And that's nothing to be ashamed of and stopping it working will kill you. Using homophobic language is harmful. Letting homophobic language spread and allowing people to think that's ok signals to people that its appropritate to say that "gay people are bad". When we're not. We are doing the same thing as everyone else. Just trying to survive and be happy in this world. If you're curious then i'd highly recommend doing some more research. ua-cam.com/video/X2rC--FyV7w/v-deo.html ua-cam.com/video/fmGVClXpf_Y/v-deo.html ua-cam.com/video/ja4Csn1FhSA/v-deo.htmlsi=AnGe6ug3sF4EyKwg ua-cam.com/video/eXpcUtXRR8U/v-deo.htmlsi=ovVzDgwGPE-DnXri All people are created in the image of God (Gen. 1:26-27). All of humanity is equally valued in God's eyes, and should be in ours (Gen. 9:5-6).
Someone mentioned it earlier: algorithms recommend things based on what they infer about us, using statistics and known behavior. I’m not saying you’re gay, but maybe the algorithm showed this to us so we can give you a reminder that there’s nothing wrong with being gay. So, whether you’re straight or gay doesn’t really matter. What might be worth exploring, if it’s within your reach, is why it bothers you that people think you’re gay. That’s a question only you can answer, maybe with the help of a therapist. It could be internalized homophobia, which many of us grow up with, or misunderstandings about masculinity and sexuality, which aren’t necessarily the same thing. Or it might be something else entirely. Try to relax and take it as a compliment. You’re a handsome guy and probably have some features that are stereotypically associated with "twinks." That doesn’t mean you’re gay-it’s just one possible reason people might think so.
This is an excellent comment. UA-cam recommended this video to me and I had the same reaction. Evan, you seem like a nice guy and I know it is easier said than done, but you should try to not worry about the opinions of people who don’t know you. You say you don’t want to be perceived as something you’re not but I guess ask yourself…would you be bothered if someone assumed you were great at basketball or that you enjoy video games or that you’re from Michigan. I have no idea if any of those things are true, but if they aren’t true, you probably wouldn’t feel bothered or disrespected by those assumptions unless maybe you had a bias, unconscious or otherwise, against people with those identifiers. I believe you when you say you don’t have a problem with queer people…maybe you live in an area where there are lots of people who do have a problem with them and you’ve witnessed people say homophobic things to be cruel and you don’t want to be on the receiving end of something like that because of their assumptions, which is understandable. In any case, I hope you can still feel free to be who you are, and if that’s a straight guy who grew up with sisters and has a trait that some ignorant person tells you is “gay”, give em the old razzle dazzle and hit ‘em with a “well actually I’m straight but what’s your deal? You have a problem with the gays? It’s 2025, get over it!”
Evan, there is not a gay bone in your body. Regardless of what people say, thats not important. What is important is that you are proud of who you are. Dont hang out with negative people or allow social media to label you. Yes, there is a lot of crap out there, but you are a good man!
You're exactly right, it IS a gesture of disrespect. Here's a thought...if they disrespect you, then who the hell cares WHAT they think? They aren't worth your time. Ignore them, and go on with your life. Those people calling you gay are just looking to get a rise out of you, and piss you off, because deep down, they're very likely pretty unhappy people. Happy people don't care about who someone else loves, or has an interest in, nor do they care if you don't share their interests, they'll accept you for who you really are.
As many have said or hinted at here, don't worry about what others say or think of you. I was called a Jew, Jesus freak, a recluse and a party boy, accused of chasing women, and being gay, being poor, being rich, and once called a molester because I attended college in California. In fact I have had a great and successful life and never bowed down to anyone's comments of my life or choices. It is not easy if you live on social media and require +likes+ for validation. But if you are true to yourself and your beliefs, no one else should have any negative impact on you. Go be the best version of yourself and become the person you want to be.
Evan, only you know who you are. Never be ashamed of who you are. Never be affected by other people's thoughts or comments, it will make you a stronger person.
Being gay is a sexuality. Not a personality, not a voice type, not a label. You are you. Straight or Gay. Don't let anyone change or try to fix that. edit: also, even if you were gay, it's okay. But I would never tell an openly gay person that they're straight- so neither should it happen the other way around.
One of my friends at school was sooo camp everyone took the mickey out of him. Funny thing is he was straight and really chased the women. I was the gay one and everyone thought we were a couple, it was hilarious and we were quite happy for people to think what they like. That is their crap and what they thought of either of us was none of their business!!!! Keep saying to yourself "what other people think of me is none of my business!" You cannot change what people think, it's like trying to stop the sun rising, ain't gonna happen!!
Im gay and had a friend who was the same way. Raised by women somewhat eccentric, but str8 as an arrow. Everyone thought he was messing with me, but we never did once. Just good friends. He did'nt give a damn and the best guy ever. Dont give a $hit what other people think man. Be you, do you. None of those people will matter or even be around once you hit the real world.
Right now the reason might be because you look well groomed and have clear skin, the stereotype is that gay guys care more about their appearance and look more clean.
When someone says you're gay, tell them, "I'm not gay, but I am a strong ally. Why do you think calling me gay is an insult?" If you don't like their answer, shake your head with disgust or disappointment for their homophobia, and walk away. Be a man.
no matter how i think about it, the only thing i can think of as to why you have this insecurity is subconscious homophobia. That said, sometimes it is inevitable simply because of people's use of the word "gay", they point it out like its a bad thing. My advice would be to just not take people too seriously
I didn't understand that: "you want to be treated as a straight guy if you are one" the corollary to that is 'you want to be treated as a gay guy if you are one'. How should I treat a gay guy differently to how I treat a straight guy?
Do you have anyone that your feel close enough to that you just sit and express your inner most feelings? Someone you trust would not be judgmental so that you could talk to and speak about whatever is on your mind? Some you trust to keep your discussion's private and take them to the grave with them? From listen to this video it sounds like you have more questions than answers. That is not a bad thing! We all have things running through our minds that can seem to clog our minds and feelings. Take some to find someone. It may take awhile to find that one person, don't rush, we all need someone to trust, though that is sometimes difficult. I wish your happiness and success through the upcoming year. Stay strong and focused.
They say it to you to get a response. Some may just be jealous of your looks, and try to make you feel bad for looking less haggard than they do -- where you are kind of like 'upstaging' them in life. And others may well just be testing the waters to see if you are.
Naa yer being yourself, and being open and vulnerable with us, which is very healthy. Just something a lot of guys unfortunately don't admit sharing or confronting until their mature enough to not give a feck. You be you, and we got yer back regardless of your sexuality (none of our business anyway unless you share it!). And that's coming from a bi guy that keeps to himself. You reach a point of not giving a feck and focus on the right people you connect with that get you and yer vibe. That's what matters. And honestly, it just shows you're comfortable in your masculinity to be real, vulnerable and blunt with us too. Respect!
YOU DONT NEED TO LISTEN TO THEM !! Just be how you are because i know you are good person and kind .. Don't let people treat you badly.. Have a nice Day and stay safe, Evan
Don't let "labels" affect you!!! Don't let what people say affect you!! You seem to be a very "down to earth," kind, and honest individual!! Just go on with life, enjoy life, and ignore all of the bigots!!! People use "labels" to both "build themselves up," and to "knock other people down." DON'T LET THEM !!! You are a wonderful young man!!!🙂🙂👍👍
Hey, Evan! By "gay" do they mean intelligent, sensitive and non-threatening? Then that's fine! You know how you feel, how you are. I would not let the "opinions" of others who are undoubtedly insecure about their own feelings worry me in the least. They don't count as "friends" and as your life progresses, you'll find some real friends! :) Jack
I’m gay and I don’t see it. Sounds like your peers are projecting something they’re insecure about - I’d quietly look at them. When an orange is squeezed under pressure orange juice comes out. When a peer is squeezed under pressure (the pressure of everyday young life stresses) gay comes out because it’s inside them.
You definitely don't give off a "gay" vibe to me, not that there is anything wrong with being gay. You do seem to give off a vibe of being sensitive and that is a quality that more straight guys should nurture within their character. Sensitive and gay, unfortunately, are confused for being the same thing but people need to learn how to mind their own business. Speaking out about it is a great way to channel that energy back into the universe! I'm subscribed and looking forward to future content from your channel!
FWIW, UBU (you be you), but on the way to 25 years old, our bodies do a lot of crazy things. I swear that the percentages of straight and gay people at the ends of the spectrum are very small numbers with the majority being bi of some balance. I think of a straight dude as someone who clicks two rocks together and laughs stupidly and says" guys, I created rock music." Remember, UBU.
Don't mind them. The same happened to me when people called me homophobic names and spread rumours about me holding hands with a guy, causing me to miss several days of school until a few people asked if I was gay and responded straight.
Oddly enough, you were recommended to me by the algo. I am a gay man and follow primarily gay creators (not exclusively). So, what ever that means. *shrug*
Jesus, man. Accusations that you're gay are the least of your concerns. You need to work on your communication skills. This was almost unbearable. "I feel like, almost like, ya know, like"
Don't worry about what other people think. Be who you want to be. Be true to yourself. People will love and respect you for who you are. Those who don't screw them.
yeah you seem gay for sure. also I have heard that "i had sisters only" or "i grew up around all girl household" from gay guys who haven't come out yet quite often. also the fact that you would even make such a video shows that it's more on your mind that it ought to be, for a non-gay male. Batman voice isn't helping your case any either. but it's all good and I say this with peace and love, just to offer another perspective.
Usually when people think your gay and it's not the case it's wishful thinking on their part 🫢 it's people projecting, just ignore them.😅 It's mostly likely them that's got the gay in them.😂
I always had the opposite problem so I get why it's uncomfortable. As others have said, just be you and try to be confident. My gaydar is bad at the best of times, but I try to focus on who people are. That's it.
it seems like you're trying too hard to appear straight. just be yourself, it shouldn't matter to you how other people comment on you. its worse for a straight man to appear insecure than to appear gay imo. i say this as a gay man btw.
They probably hope your gay in hopes to be with you. Most people who are straight don't care to ask if someones gay and are least interested in knowing. Its the Gays and Bi's who having a difficult time coming out and can only hope that someone is the same as them to feel comfortable as themselves You are handling it right and your feeling are normal. Just let them know you can be trusted as just friends like them for who they are they will turn out to be great friends to have, I have had many gay friends for many years I love them dearly like family am lucky to have them.
Hi Evan: I think it's actually a compliment that people see you as gay. You are young and handsome, so I will assume you'll get hit on by guys as well as girls. Just tell the guys they can be friends but no more. The most attractive people usually get attention they don't want.
Especially if other guys are calling you gay, it's most likely because: a) they realize you're a good-looking dude and they're insecure about the competition, b) they realize you're a good-looking dude and they feel (unconsciously) attracted to you, so it's probably wishful thinking or defensive projection. Either way, the most important take-away is: you're good-looking, screw the haters.
LOVE YOURSELF. Nothing else matters. Period. As you grow, you will realize this more and more to be 100% truth. Anybody who spends time or effort into guessing someone's sexuality seriously needs to get a life. Also, when guys start harping on about "gay' this and "gay" that, there's a pretty good chance that they don't know how to deal with feelings that they are experiencing themselves. I know plenty of gay guys who come across as straight, and lots of straight guys who are perceived to be feminine. Bottom line is, there are no correct "rules", and nobody knows anything for certain. People thar gossip are insecure with themselves. So honestly, I would not let it bother you as much as it seems to. And whatever you do, DO NOT start making changes in the way you dress, behave, wear your hair, etc. to try to prove that you are straight. The issue is THEIRS, NOT YOURS. stay exactly as you are, because there is nobody better than your authentic self.
My story: This happened when I was 20. I grew up in a small farming town in a very Fundamentalist church. In a town where 'real' guys like cars and girls, I was a true Geek. I loved to read. My father informed me that only lazy men read books. Being different, the church rumor mill labelled me gay. The pastor's wife called my mother to ask about my 'sex life.' I left for another church across town, but you know small towns. I went to Sunday School and church for four weeks and was totally ignored. Not one person spoke to me. It was a very difficult time. How do you prove you do not have a secret life? People assume, Well you just haven't been caught yet. My parents were of little help as they did not want to be ostracized also. All I can say, you are not alone in your struggle.
I'm gay and you do not in anyway come across as gay. I'm not swishy or flashy, the only people who know i'm gay are the people i told and they were surprised. I didn't lose any friends when I came out in fact once they accepted it, it's no big deal. But like i said, you in no way come across as gay. Don't let it bother you, people gonna be people.
You don't owe anyone an explanation for your sexuality or preferences-embrace who you are and live your life to the fullest. Moreover, must be envy, because your face is drop-dead gorgeous!
I'm about to turn 60 and am single & live alone...and I can go where I want when I want & am accountable to nobody. Most others I know are twice divorced & paying child support to 2 different spouses & are quite jealous of me. They wished they'd thought with their head & not their hormones...I guess my advantage was watching my parents fight all their lives & then divorce only to remarry. I ended up being caregiver for not only them but my sister. I leave you with this saying of my mom...From the time you're born until you ride in a hearse things are never so bad that they couldn't be worse. You be you & ask the question...Jesus...what'll you have me do? He said Him that cometh unto me I will in no wise cast him out. YOU BE YOU! Took a lot of guts for you to post what you did...others out there are thanking you...may not take the time to tell you on this platform...but trust me...they are thanking you.
There is nothing wrong with being uncomfortable when people assume you are something that you are not! As a gay guy it bothers me a tiny bit when people assume im straight 😂
It doesnt matter to me one way or another. IMHO, it's a way for insecure people to ASK if you are. They are projecting. They want to know because in all likelihood they are and they're interested. I guess you should be flattered? maybe? Regardless dont let it bother you too much as long as theyre not hateful. Just smile at them and say nothing.
It’s just because you’re a pretty boy. That’s all. You’re not ruggedly handsome. You’re pretty, fine, like a model. People are dumb, basically. Put it outta your head.
I don't know why anybody would think that you are gay you are a masculine looking young man don't pay any attention to what people think or say l am sure that any young girls would like to date you l am sure you have a lot of people who care about you take care and think positive bless you young man 👨
Don't let people get under your skin. It's not worth it. I'm very into fashion and dress well, always got product in my hair and get that stereotype. Keep your head up bro. 😁
Speaking as a 45 year old gay man, I don't think I'd mistake you for gay. That said, you're a good looking young guy, so the ladies AND the guys are probably just being hopeful! The most important thing is that you seem very comfortable with yourself and not insecure about it, which is really all that matters.
You popped up on my feed. Being a 40 year old gay dude, I’ve learned that someone who calls out F*g the most are usually the ones who are insecure with themselves. You’re young, you have your whole life ahead of you still, don’t let people get under your skin for what they say. It will drag you down. Do you, bro.
You are who you are. It doesn’t matter what people think about you as long as you have people that care about you.
Thanks my favorite gay person
@evanromano8496Thanks also btw I’m bi!
@@Rockstar47bi person my fault
Are you 100% on your sexuality?
@@paulsimpson307 I'd say yes, definitely he is.
Dude - this is easy to say but particularly at your age - this is hard for you to understand - always be YOU - whoever that is - and DON’T GIVE A DAMN ABOUT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK!!! Do they pay your bills? You are a great guy!
What THEY think is usually a projection of who THEY are, not you.
Dude I’m in your exact situation, I’m straight but everyone thinks I’m gay bc of my interests like I don’t like sports and most boys do but I love music and art and people assume I’m gay and have thought that since 2nd grade I’m in 10th now but like I’ll tell u what I did , I found friends who wouldn’t make fun of me or call me gay and even if there isn’t alot of friends they will for sure help , I also started to care less what others thought about me and just started to open up more and be myself but for me personally I don’t think u seem gay at all but yeah just don’t take it to heart I did years ago and it was the worst decision ever but listen ur a great guy man and don’t let anyone like tell u otherwise
Thanks alot to be honest ever since I got more into sports and such I’ve got a lot less comments so I feel interests play a big role in it, which is ridicules ofc so just keep being you. I’m glad you have been able to find people who except you for who you are
I definitely don’t think you look ,talk, or act gay, you might give off a slight vibe in person since u were raised with two sisters but I wouldn’t assume anything. It’s definitely okay to be uncomfortable and not want to be called or told that u act something you’re not. Especially if you were insecure about it in middle school. I don’t know how to help you with this issue sadly but I do think you seem straight overall, you don’t talk or act gay
Thanks for your thoughts it means a lot
So gay means coming off as what , feminine? Most gays I know don't seem 'gay' at all. Including me. But yeah a lot of 'typical' gays promote the confusion of : gays are feminine.
You seem straight to me but there's nothing wrong with being gay or bi. Also I love how you speak in hushed tones it's kinda ASMR tingly.
Cool thanks
So sad that the stigma of being gay still persists. Who the hell cares! Be as you are. It’s a great thing to be gay, if that’s what you are. And it’s OK to be straight, if that applies. Or anything else in between for that matter. Fortunately, there’s not such a “charge”⚡️about sexuality in Europe.
So what if you are? Just be you. Life is a hassle when you start worrying about what other people may or may not be thinking.
I subbed thinking "he seems a like a nice young gay boy, lemme give him a sub."
Thanks for your honesty, Evan. It was opposite for me in high school. Literally no one thought I was gay, or even joked with me about being gay. I was hardly out to myself (and 2007 was a much different world than 2025). And, I observed how the only out kid at my tiny Christian school was treated, so, I thought it best to keep it to myself.
My hope for you, is that you're able to have a solid friend group who will love and support you, and allow you to love yourself. Wish you a great 2025, man. Thanks for being vulnerable. Take care, -Kenneth
The idea of someone coming out on YT and being celebrated for it is a pretty recent phenomenon! I was a kid in the 80s, and I remember being bullied by my Gym teacher. There was an iron supplement advertised on TV, marketed to women, called Femiron. The Phys-ed teacher called me Femiron Ryan....Every fucking week! For a cheap giggle...So I thought 2007 was pretty recent, and it is interesting to hear your story! We have to be careful of our culture backsliding. Take care!
Thanks man
Be as you are. Express what you feel and dox what you really want to do.
Don't be afraid. Maybe is the environment. Maybe people doesn't deserve you (sometimes even your family), if they don't respect you and accept you they lose you, you don't have to kill your true self to make them love you, if you're "dead", there's nothing to feel.
You have to follow what you feel. Even if it feels risky or not acceptable. Cause it may be what you are meant to discover and achieve yourself.
Treat you kindly and be there for yourself. I feel you 100%.
Keep it doing it like this.
I'm here.
Might be because people are jealous because you're really good-looking. Another reason is they are gaslighting because they are attracted to you or have tendencies themselves.
I know woman with a more masculine attitude a men with a more feminine attitude but society is who made those labels and we need to be able to change.
It’s not up to others it is just what you say. There are men who personally don’t align with what society says but that doesn’t make you gay.
Facts
You can turn everything into something that makes you stand out. Girls appreciate a guy who is comfortable in his own skin no matter what people say.
Ignorance and insecurities are often reasons people label.
You seem very genuine. That's why I subscribed and follow you. I enjoy how you present yourself and your content.
Please don't think too much about the opinions of others. People who love you for you are worthy of your thoughts, time, and attention. 🙏🏾🥰
The short answer to your question is: No, you can't look at someone and tell they are gay or straight or other. You specifically, nothing in your speech or mannerisms would lead me to suspect you were anything but heterosexual. Bullied. What you are describing is being bullied. It's not all threats, intimidation. It's not always physical. It's usually mostly mental, verbal, and emotional. If in middle school someone called you gay and you reacted strongly, it gave them what they wanted - a reaction. As to why - you're a handsome fella. You probably care about your appearance and are well put together out in public. Bullies always project their insecurity on others. Turn it around - if someone calls you gay just respond calmly with "I'm not, do you WANT me to be? Is that what YOUR into?" Or say nothing just laugh and walk away. Your call. I know, from personal experience, even if the bullying has no merit, it still hurts. What helped me is realizing that the people doing the bullying weren't my friends - they were nobodies, they meant nothing to me, so why did I care what they thought about me? And if anyone around me wanted to believe what my enemies thought of me without seeing for themselves who I was - then I didn't need them in my life and no loss if that's who they are. Actions matter and it tells you all you need to know about a person before they even open their mouths to speak. I hope this brings you some measure of peace. You are not alone.
people say the same thing abt me even after I clarify it’s not the truth time and time again. it’s been so annoying all my life, idk why people are so obsessed with the curiosity of peoples sexuality when it has nothing to do with them… it’s rlly ridiculous. Ignore them, tell them off, just do you. They don’t know you.
i could listen to this man speak all day on any subject. he has one of those voices that has a chilled relaxed vibe to it. just nice to listen to for a few minutes of this video.
Yep. Evan if you do ASMR you will get big views. Bank that.
I am not much into the labels anymore but I definitely get a twinge in my stomach when someone miss identifies me.
Same here... People need to learn how to mind their own business. Nosy people act as they have something to gain by aways being in the "know"! It would seem that society would be more focused on supporting each other rather than focusing on what does not matter 🤔. Schools and families need to do a better job at socializing kids.
Just brush it off. They say that to make you insecure and they want you to feel less masculine. Something about you makes them feel insecure/jealous and they project it onto you. Keep being yourself and let them be miserable.
As an older Irish gay man in the U.K. myself, who grew up in an Irish Catholic background in Rural Ireland, I don’t think it’s so much a bad thing if people assume that you are gay - in fact, it might very well attract a lot of supportive gay fans - we gays are not all straight-phobic and we welcome straight allies like yourself 🇮🇪☘️🇮🇪😍
U look fine to me.
I am a straight-looking gay guy, people assume I am straight bc of heteronormativity. And just saying if u truly think there is nothing wrong being gay, then u should stand up for your word.... otherwise is hypocrisy. So simply just do not give a single fuck what they are saying. People get misjudged all the time. What they ar assuming about u is not gonna define u.
btw Im pretty sure those voices will fade later.
Never let other people unsettle you. People really don't care about who your sexual orientation. They are just messing with you. Let me save you a huge amount of time and anxiety. I have moved to different cities in my life. When ever I did that I met an entirely new group of people. Each different group saw me as a different person than the people who knew me in the old city. I didn't change, they just saw me as a different person. My epiphany was it wasn't me, it was them. The prescription is if the current people you are hanging out with are making you unhappy, find a new group of people to hang out with.
You don't give me a gay vibe at all. But if you did, you'd be just the same awesome person. It wouldn't matter.
Thanks a lot for those kind words
Just be you Evan. You seem like a great person.
It's not easy to put yourself out there on social media. Must respect for your authenticity and transparency
It’s true. All the people who try to put that label on ppl, whether they are or not, it’s just a form of discrimination. And it’s funny cuz it’s the same people in that community or that “support” it that will put that label on you even if you tell them it’s not the truth.
oookkk sooo. Firsly Love youself. Love youself unconditionally and love those around you. Gay,straight, or not, you are human and people need to respect you humanity and your boundries.
Secondly, The kinds of people who use "gay" as an insult are the kind of people who think being gay is "weak" or "inferior" or otherwise "bad" because to them its not "normal". So, to be brutally honest, they are trying to spin the narrtive that queer folk are "bad" and "evil" when being gay is about being yourself. Its homophobia plain and simple.
If someone tells you "you're gay" in a way that's intended to make you feel bad then:
1.They don't know that, they don't know how YOU feel and who YOU are attracted to. That's up to you to explore and discover what you're body tells you what you are attracted to.
2. Its not their business. If you like guys and their getting their noses up in what you do behind the sense then that's inappropriate (unless you want them to ask about it). You have your right to privacy and they need to respect that boundry.
3. If you act or do or say anything that makes you look gay to them and they call you out for it, then I'm really sorry to say, they're trying to control you and trying to make you feel bad for not being EXACTLY like them ie straight and masculine. They are trying to make you feeel bad for not being "normal" in their eyes while also hurting other's (indirectly) in the process.
4. If you are gay then be proud of it!!! Love yourself. Be healthy. To be healthy you need to take care of yourself. To take care of yourself you need to accept the reality of who you are and accept that. Being gay or bi or trans is wonderful and an innate part of millions of people's lives. You sexuallity cannot change and it will not go away. And if you do like guys then no matter how hard you try to hide it, it will always be there and hiding it will only hurt you. The same way we all have brains or lungs or hearts, most of us have a sexuality. And that's nothing to be ashamed of and stopping it working will kill you.
Using homophobic language is harmful. Letting homophobic language spread and allowing people to think that's ok signals to people that its appropritate to say that "gay people are bad". When we're not. We are doing the same thing as everyone else. Just trying to survive and be happy in this world.
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All people are created in the image of God (Gen. 1:26-27). All of humanity is equally valued in God's eyes, and should be in ours (Gen. 9:5-6).
Someone mentioned it earlier: algorithms recommend things based on what they infer about us, using statistics and known behavior. I’m not saying you’re gay, but maybe the algorithm showed this to us so we can give you a reminder that there’s nothing wrong with being gay. So, whether you’re straight or gay doesn’t really matter.
What might be worth exploring, if it’s within your reach, is why it bothers you that people think you’re gay. That’s a question only you can answer, maybe with the help of a therapist. It could be internalized homophobia, which many of us grow up with, or misunderstandings about masculinity and sexuality, which aren’t necessarily the same thing. Or it might be something else entirely.
Try to relax and take it as a compliment. You’re a handsome guy and probably have some features that are stereotypically associated with "twinks." That doesn’t mean you’re gay-it’s just one possible reason people might think so.
Thank you for the thoughtfulness and genuine advice. I feel like the reason it bugs me is because I don’t want to be perceived as someone I’m not.
This is an excellent comment. UA-cam recommended this video to me and I had the same reaction.
Evan, you seem like a nice guy and I know it is easier said than done, but you should try to not worry about the opinions of people who don’t know you. You say you don’t want to be perceived as something you’re not but I guess ask yourself…would you be bothered if someone assumed you were great at basketball or that you enjoy video games or that you’re from Michigan. I have no idea if any of those things are true, but if they aren’t true, you probably wouldn’t feel bothered or disrespected by those assumptions unless maybe you had a bias, unconscious or otherwise, against people with those identifiers.
I believe you when you say you don’t have a problem with queer people…maybe you live in an area where there are lots of people who do have a problem with them and you’ve witnessed people say homophobic things to be cruel and you don’t want to be on the receiving end of something like that because of their assumptions, which is understandable.
In any case, I hope you can still feel free to be who you are, and if that’s a straight guy who grew up with sisters and has a trait that some ignorant person tells you is “gay”, give em the old razzle dazzle and hit ‘em with a “well actually I’m straight but what’s your deal? You have a problem with the gays? It’s 2025, get over it!”
those people sound like trolls ingore them
Hahha your right
I'd take it as a compliment, most gay guys take good care of themselves so I'd consider it a win lol.
Evan, there is not a gay bone in your body. Regardless of what people say, thats not important. What is important is that you are proud of who you are. Dont hang out with negative people or allow social media to label you. Yes, there is a lot of crap out there, but you are a good man!
Gay, bi, straight, who cares. You seem like a cool guy so just go with the flow mate. Hot guy so you can be whatever and whenever. 👍❤️
You're exactly right, it IS a gesture of disrespect. Here's a thought...if they disrespect you, then who the hell cares WHAT they think? They aren't worth your time. Ignore them, and go on with your life. Those people calling you gay are just looking to get a rise out of you, and piss you off, because deep down, they're very likely pretty unhappy people. Happy people don't care about who someone else loves, or has an interest in, nor do they care if you don't share their interests, they'll accept you for who you really are.
As many have said or hinted at here, don't worry about what others say or think of you. I was called a Jew, Jesus freak, a recluse and a party boy, accused of chasing women, and being gay, being poor, being rich, and once called a molester because I attended college in California. In fact I have had a great and successful life and never bowed down to anyone's comments of my life or choices. It is not easy if you live on social media and require +likes+ for validation. But if you are true to yourself and your beliefs, no one else should have any negative impact on you. Go be the best version of yourself and become the person you want to be.
Evan, only you know who you are. Never be ashamed of who you are. Never be affected by other people's thoughts or comments, it will make you a stronger person.
Being gay is a sexuality. Not a personality, not a voice type, not a label. You are you. Straight or Gay. Don't let anyone change or try to fix that.
edit: also, even if you were gay, it's okay. But I would never tell an openly gay person that they're straight- so neither should it happen the other way around.
One of my friends at school was sooo camp everyone took the mickey out of him. Funny thing is he was straight and really chased the women.
I was the gay one and everyone thought we were a couple, it was hilarious and we were quite happy for people to think what they like. That is their crap and what they thought of either of us was none of their business!!!!
Keep saying to yourself "what other people think of me is none of my business!"
You cannot change what people think, it's like trying to stop the sun rising, ain't gonna happen!!
Im gay and had a friend who was the same way. Raised by women somewhat eccentric, but str8 as an arrow. Everyone thought he was messing with me, but we never did once. Just good friends. He did'nt give a damn and the best guy ever. Dont give a $hit what other people think man. Be you, do you. None of those people will matter or even be around once you hit the real world.
UA-cam has to censor the word "straight"?
@billd3356 no it's texting lingo. Shortening a word.
Right now the reason might be because you look well groomed and have clear skin, the stereotype is that gay guys care more about their appearance and look more clean.
When someone says you're gay, tell them, "I'm not gay, but I am a strong ally. Why do you think calling me gay is an insult?" If you don't like their answer, shake your head with disgust or disappointment for their homophobia, and walk away. Be a man.
I fw your profile pic
no matter how i think about it, the only thing i can think of as to why you have this insecurity is subconscious homophobia. That said, sometimes it is inevitable simply because of people's use of the word "gay", they point it out like its a bad thing. My advice would be to just not take people too seriously
I didn't understand that: "you want to be treated as a straight guy if you are one" the corollary to that is 'you want to be treated as a gay guy if you are one'. How should I treat a gay guy differently to how I treat a straight guy?
I meant like you want to be recognized for who you are it just came out weird
Do you have anyone that your feel close enough to that you just sit and express your inner most feelings? Someone you trust would not be judgmental so that you could talk to and speak about whatever is on your mind? Some you trust to keep your discussion's private and take them to the grave with them? From listen to this video it sounds like you have more questions than answers. That is not a bad thing! We all have things running through our minds that can seem to clog our minds and feelings. Take some to find someone. It may take awhile to find that one person, don't rush, we all need someone to trust, though that is sometimes difficult. I wish your happiness and success through the upcoming year. Stay strong and focused.
People know I’m gay, and sometimes send me pics of girls and it makes me uncomfortable. Either way you’re going to be okay. Who cares what they think
They say it to you to get a response. Some may just be jealous of your looks, and try to make you feel bad for looking less haggard than they do -- where you are kind of like 'upstaging' them in life. And others may well just be testing the waters to see if you are.
I stole this from someone else. Ignorance and insecurities are often reasons people label.
You are whoever you are and owe no information on that to anyone. Who you find attractive is no one’s business but your own.
Be You, it doesn't matter what people think!
Don't listen to them really don't let them bring you down man!!
It's 2025. Just be yourself
Naa yer being yourself, and being open and vulnerable with us, which is very healthy. Just something a lot of guys unfortunately don't admit sharing or confronting until their mature enough to not give a feck. You be you, and we got yer back regardless of your sexuality (none of our business anyway unless you share it!). And that's coming from a bi guy that keeps to himself.
You reach a point of not giving a feck and focus on the right people you connect with that get you and yer vibe. That's what matters.
And honestly, it just shows you're comfortable in your masculinity to be real, vulnerable and blunt with us too. Respect!
YOU DONT NEED TO LISTEN TO THEM !! Just be how you are because i know you are good person and kind .. Don't let people treat you badly.. Have a nice Day and stay safe, Evan
There isn't anything wrong with being gay. Be gay.
Don't let "labels" affect you!!! Don't let what people say affect you!! You seem to be a very "down to earth," kind, and honest individual!! Just go on with life, enjoy life, and ignore all of the bigots!!! People use "labels" to both "build themselves up," and to "knock other people down." DON'T LET THEM !!! You are a wonderful young man!!!🙂🙂👍👍
Take it as a compliment, buddy. Move on and forget about it.
Hey, Evan! By "gay" do they mean intelligent, sensitive and non-threatening? Then that's fine! You know how you feel, how you are. I would not let the "opinions" of others who are undoubtedly insecure about their own feelings worry me in the least. They don't count as "friends" and as your life progresses, you'll find some real friends! :) Jack
I've been gay since Nancy Sinatra: ''these boots are made for walking'. You only live twice.
This dream is for you, so pay the price. Make one dream come true, you only live twice.
Whoever was saying that is just insecure themselves. You seem like a nice guy though, and we’d be happy to have you! 🏳️🌈💪🏻
im gay but i can barely accept it at all.
I’m gay and I don’t see it. Sounds like your peers are projecting something they’re insecure about - I’d quietly look at them. When an orange is squeezed under pressure orange juice comes out. When a peer is squeezed under pressure (the pressure of everyday young life stresses) gay comes out because it’s inside them.
You definitely don't give off a "gay" vibe to me, not that there is anything wrong with being gay. You do seem to give off a vibe of being sensitive and that is a quality that more straight guys should nurture within their character. Sensitive and gay, unfortunately, are confused for being the same thing but people need to learn how to mind their own business. Speaking out about it is a great way to channel that energy back into the universe! I'm subscribed and looking forward to future content from your channel!
FWIW, UBU (you be you), but on the way to 25 years old, our bodies do a lot of crazy things. I swear that the percentages of straight and gay people at the ends of the spectrum are very small numbers with the majority being bi of some balance. I think of a straight dude as someone who clicks two rocks together and laughs stupidly and says" guys, I created rock music." Remember, UBU.
Don't mind them. The same happened to me when people called me homophobic names and spread rumours about me holding hands with a guy, causing me to miss several days of school until a few people asked if I was gay and responded straight.
Oddly enough, you were recommended to me by the algo. I am a gay man and follow primarily gay creators (not exclusively). So, what ever that means. *shrug*
Well if you are not gay, we are gay for you! Just ignore
Haha, sry to disappoint ig thanks for the support anyway
Jesus, man. Accusations that you're gay are the least of your concerns. You need to work on your communication skills. This was almost unbearable. "I feel like, almost like, ya know, like"
You'll realise as you get older that people have a certain ability to make little sense in any situation.
Evan, it doesn't matter if you're gay or not. You seem like a great person. I loved finding you and your channel. Hugs! ❤
Don't worry about what other people think. Be who you want to be. Be true to yourself. People will love and respect you for who you are. Those who don't screw them.
Ignore the haters: here In Support no matter ur preference
Cool thanks
@evanromano8496 ur welcome here as a friend and nice guy
yeah you seem gay for sure. also I have heard that "i had sisters only" or "i grew up around all girl household" from gay guys who haven't come out yet quite often. also the fact that you would even make such a video shows that it's more on your mind that it ought to be, for a non-gay male. Batman voice isn't helping your case any either. but it's all good and I say this with peace and love, just to offer another perspective.
do you often stereotype people?
Lwk fax, sry for keeping my voice so low I don’t want to disturb other people in my house. Thank you for being honest and not just bullshting me.
Usually when people think your gay and it's not the case it's wishful thinking on their part 🫢 it's people projecting, just ignore them.😅
It's mostly likely them that's got the gay in them.😂
Good point thank you
I get no gay vibe from you. I'm glad you clarify that you have no problem with gays.
I always had the opposite problem so I get why it's uncomfortable. As others have said, just be you and try to be confident. My gaydar is bad at the best of times, but I try to focus on who people are. That's it.
it seems like you're trying too hard to appear straight. just be yourself, it shouldn't matter to you how other people comment on you. its worse for a straight man to appear insecure than to appear gay imo. i say this as a gay man btw.
Does it matter? I’m sure you’re a good person from what I’ve seen and heard.
Try to stop kissing another guys in public, holding hands etc.
Good tips 😂😂
They probably hope your gay in hopes to be with you. Most people who are straight don't care to ask if someones gay and are least interested in knowing. Its the Gays and Bi's who having a difficult time coming out and can only hope that someone is the same as them to feel comfortable as themselves You are handling it right and your feeling are normal. Just let them know you can be trusted as just friends like them for who they are they will turn out to be great friends to have, I have had many gay friends for many years I love them dearly like family am lucky to have them.
Hi Evan: I think it's actually a compliment that people see you as gay. You are young and handsome, so I will assume you'll get hit on by guys as well as girls. Just tell the guys they can be friends but no more. The most attractive people usually get attention they don't want.
Especially if other guys are calling you gay, it's most likely because:
a) they realize you're a good-looking dude and they're insecure about the competition,
b) they realize you're a good-looking dude and they feel (unconsciously) attracted to you, so it's probably wishful thinking or defensive projection.
Either way, the most important take-away is: you're good-looking, screw the haters.
Just my opinion but I think it’s because you’re very attractive so guys hope that you are 🤷🏻♂️
LOVE YOURSELF. Nothing else matters. Period. As you grow, you will realize this more and more to be 100% truth. Anybody who spends time or effort into guessing someone's sexuality seriously needs to get a life. Also, when guys start harping on about "gay' this and "gay" that, there's a pretty good chance that they don't know how to deal with feelings that they are experiencing themselves. I know plenty of gay guys who come across as straight, and lots of straight guys who are perceived to be feminine. Bottom line is, there are no correct "rules", and nobody knows anything for certain. People thar gossip are insecure with themselves. So honestly, I would not let it bother you as much as it seems to. And whatever you do, DO NOT start making changes in the way you dress, behave, wear your hair, etc. to try to prove that you are straight. The issue is THEIRS, NOT YOURS. stay exactly as you are, because there is nobody better than your authentic self.
My story: This happened when I was 20. I grew up in a small farming town in a very Fundamentalist church. In a town where 'real' guys like cars and girls, I was a true Geek. I loved to read. My father informed me that only lazy men read books. Being different, the church rumor mill labelled me gay. The pastor's wife called my mother to ask about my 'sex life.' I left for another church across town, but you know small towns. I went to Sunday School and church for four weeks and was totally ignored. Not one person spoke to me. It was a very difficult time. How do you prove you do not have a secret life? People assume, Well you just haven't been caught yet. My parents were of little help as they did not want to be ostracized also. All I can say, you are not alone in your struggle.
A coming out straight video? It had to happen. No problem, Evan, we gay boys don’t judge. You do you.
Whether you are gay or not, who cares what others think! people will never find happiness, if they always care what others think!
I'm gay and you do not in anyway come across as gay. I'm not swishy or flashy, the only people who know i'm gay are the people i told and they were surprised. I didn't lose any friends when I came out in fact once they accepted it, it's no big deal. But like i said, you in no way come across as gay. Don't let it bother you, people gonna be people.
You don't owe anyone an explanation for your sexuality or preferences-embrace who you are and live your life to the fullest. Moreover, must be envy, because your face is drop-dead gorgeous!
I'm about to turn 60 and am single & live alone...and I can go where I want when I want & am accountable to nobody. Most others I know are twice divorced & paying child support to 2 different spouses & are quite jealous of me. They wished they'd thought with their head & not their hormones...I guess my advantage was watching my parents fight all their lives & then divorce only to remarry. I ended up being caregiver for not only them but my sister. I leave you with this saying of my mom...From the time you're born until you ride in a hearse things are never so bad that they couldn't be worse. You be you & ask the question...Jesus...what'll you have me do? He said Him that cometh unto me I will in no wise cast him out. YOU BE YOU! Took a lot of guts for you to post what you did...others out there are thanking you...may not take the time to tell you on this platform...but trust me...they are thanking you.
There is nothing wrong with being uncomfortable when people assume you are something that you are not! As a gay guy it bothers me a tiny bit when people assume im straight 😂
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It doesnt matter to me one way or another. IMHO, it's a way for insecure people to ASK if you are. They are projecting. They want to know because in all likelihood they are and they're interested. I guess you should be flattered? maybe? Regardless dont let it bother you too much as long as theyre not hateful. Just smile at them and say nothing.
Im gay and I don't get a gay vibe from you at all, don't worry about it
No one wants others to thimk we are someone we are not.
Nothing wrong here.
Perfectly reasonable .
It’s just because you’re a pretty boy. That’s all. You’re not ruggedly handsome. You’re pretty, fine, like a model. People are dumb, basically. Put it outta your head.
Continue to have confidence in yourself despite what others say or joke about. Their opinions can't make you anything your not.
I don't know why anybody would think that you are gay you are a masculine looking young man don't pay any attention to what people think or say l am sure that any young girls would like to date you l am sure you have a lot of people who care about you take care and think positive bless you young man 👨
Don't let people get under your skin. It's not worth it. I'm very into fashion and dress well, always got product in my hair and get that stereotype. Keep your head up bro. 😁
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EVERYTHING WILL BE OK . PEOPLE HURT AND SLAM OTHERS.
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Don't worry just be your self thats all that matters
Bro, it's ok to be bi
Not sure that I am I’ve never really been into guys
@evanromano8496 you aren't, read my other comment. you'll understand why people write things like these.