If you’re dating a bunch of people, you’re dating for ATTENTION. If you’re dating one person at a time, you’re dating for INTENSION. There is a difference.
I think some date multiple people to avoid getting screwed over. They don’t want to put all their eggs in one basket and then have them leave, and they have to start all over again. I never liked doing it that way (and didn’t have the time for it), but I know people who did, and they did it to sort of protect themselves.
I’ve been with my husband 14 years and I’m not far off from these girls ages so we could even use married couples like me and my husband to show how messed up these girls are lol 😂
If I’m sleeping with a girl and i know she’s sleeping with another guy I know it doesn’t have a future. But I may carry on for awhile I just won’t get attached
@@dalegreening6476 bu she didn’t talk about sleeping, she literally said compete, who would compete for a lady dating multiple dudes… I mean you can smash but what the competition about? Marry her? After you got 🐱🤣
@@dalegreening6476 u just help ruin it If you died right now are you a 100% sure you’d go to Heaven? all people have sinned and fall short of the glory of God. What is sin? Sin is essentially any bad thing we've ever done. Because of sin the punishment is a burning hell. “But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” Revelation 21:8 KJV Do u know why you have to be saved? Do u know the story of Jesus? (If yes skip next step) if not do next step. God came down to earth as a man. Lived for 33 and a half years. He never sinned his whole life. Eventually some people got jealous of him and got him convicted of phony charges. He got crucified on the cross. Died. Was buried for 3 days then he was resurrected by his own power. Do you know why Jesus went through all this bloody mess for us? It’s because remember your sin is the problem why you can’t go to Heaven right? The only thing that can wash away your sin is the blood of Jesus Christ 6For while we were still helpless, at the right time Christ died for the ungodly. 7For one will hardly die for a righteous person; [d]though perhaps for the good person someone would even dare to die. 8But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us. God did all that to save us from hell. So think about that. would you ever die for somebody? a decent person? maybe. A good person, perhaps a few would die for him. But with us "Much more than, being now justified by his blood, we shall be saved from wrath through him.” Romans 5:9 KJV Ephesians 2:8-9 “We’re saved by Grace through faith which is not of ourselves it is the gift of God not by works for fear any man should boast” Salvation is not by good works like “water baptism, attending church, any good thing you do” “For godly sorrow worketh repentance to salvation not to be repented of: but the sorrow of the world worketh death.” 2 Corinthians 7:10 KJV Feeling godly sorrow leads to salvation To be saved you have to feel guilty for being a sinner do you feel guilty for being a sinner? “that if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.” Romans 10:9 KJV If you agree with all that. All you have to do be saved is this. You have to mean it. Dear God I repent as a sinner I believe Jesus is God who died buried and resurrected so his blood can wash away my sins. So I only trust in the blood alone to save me. Not my good works. save me from hell in Jesus name. I pray amen Just saying it wont save you you have to mean it
@@Bullet44Its because you're a HYPER SECURE dude (possible gives ZERO FUCKS SERIOUSLY) dude. Might be (just my opinion) Lack empathy/sociopath or psychopat or narcissist (no judgments
So Brian has dated multiple people too and didn't settle down with one (after he called the dates amazing) lol women are annoying but men are idiots 😂😂😂
America and Britain yeah. Its beautiful here in Spain seeing all the young couples in their 20s, pushing their baby strollers, all my Spanish colleagues are married and most are my age give or take. All of my peers in US are still single and none of them have children. People here are just more civil, presentable and family oriented. Most don’t make even the American poverty level wage. And the 304s here don’t act like American women here either. Some of my friends are, and they don’t treat or see men the way my US peers did or act like them, they just have s addictions. I even work with all women and its much much better than working with women in US who are all drama.
@@jasonmarlowe76 I’d say southern Europe/Eastern Europe is very different. Modern women yes, western yes. But not stereotypical “western/modern”. I went to school in US. I know the contrast. Bring a girl from US that gets alot of attention online here. She will become depressed. I know because I’ve seem it. Most women here are attractive and healthy. Don’t use online media often either or see it as childish. Bring an American 10 over here, she’ll become a 4 immediately and realize she is just average in a proper culture. I’ve literally witnessed American girls cry and complain about Spain and hating it. Its because the American friends they have that are men are brining home Spanish women.
@@sukaenacornelius9285 Can you just beam me up to Spain please? I'm not just in the US, but I'm in a part of Oregon that's full of liberal women that treat men like crap.
So Brian has dated multiple people too and didn't settle down with one (after he called the dates amazing) lol women are annoying but men are idiots 😂😂😂
@@michaelchevreaux7780 In other eras, just dating more than one person was considered "Two Timing". In the old films if a one dater sees their date on another date they'll say "Why you two timing cheating rat!"
This is absolutely exhausting to listen to. There's like half a dozen OF girls on this panel, _OF COURSE_ they're going to have an impossibly skewed view of relationships.
There is not that manyon the panel, I think it was 2-3 out of 7 or 8. Even when they have no OF women on or only 1, the women still have very bad takes on dating and how they act... This pod did a deep dive yo see what % of the guests were involved in OF or sex work..and it was a small minority of the guests, I thinkbthey found only 10-15% of all their guests were OF or sex workers vs "regular women".
Tragic but 100% true. And we need to stress out that this was always the case, it is not something new really. It was the case in the past too, a 100 years ago, 500 years ago or 2500 years ago - e.g. ancient Greek comedian Aristophanes wrote his comedy "Lysistrata" in which the women of Athens and Sparta organise a sex-strike to blackmail their husbands to end the war, hence he was clearly getting inspired precisely by "wives' sex-striking. Today people think that in the past married men literally SAed their wives, that is not really the case. Men forcing themselves on their wives happened, sure, but really not as much as people think since it was a dangerous affair : you do not want to to SA the woman that feeds you... if you know what I mean. The woman could always complain to her own side of the family and then, if she managed to convince them that you are violent to her, you were in for some trouble, you could be beaten up seriously or worse. But it was not even just that. The No1 risk men run back then was not being stabbed in the streets but being poisoned at home by some poisonous herb put in their food or drink purchased by some witch and put there against them by their own wives.
@@dendanskehelt4296 Ι am more concerned with nations in their homelands (European nations) rather than "races" in random places around the world (USA, Canada, Australia, South Africa etc.). Race is too generic to matter.
@@Fokas-n8t Nation. Genos= means kind or race. And only the white race were created by Yahweh and must remain pure, the others are corruptions that exists only for destruction.
Shut up and actually listen for more than 10 seconds and his point will become clear. Interrupting every 15 seconds is going to make it impossible to communicate.
Yes that is what you do with 304. People shouldn't give money to them. This make young women think "men only care about one thing" times a thousand. It's other women that pressure other women to be promiscuous. "Get your bag queen"
@@mremu4358 A little bias today? They have the courage to live the life they want for themselves. It's a weak person who follows their families wishes when that person wants something else for themselves. It takes courage.
Everybody wants their cake and eat it too and they don't want any consequences with it yeah they didn't notice it's about I in a single plural phone every time even you were talking the same thing do you like being alone that's your decision enjoy What happened morals and accountability should not even exist because of the immoral people out there accountability and respect for their body or further but but I guess you can't have that because you'll make me feel guilty or second guess because because I will be lonely the rest of my life
@@dankarstens8447 You have no right to suggest that your morality is any better than mine or theirs. So shut up and think about what I just wrote to you. Until you figure this out, you will always be much more a part of the problem than to any positive solution.
Met my girlfriend in bumble, less than 24-48 hours she decided to remove her app. She’s been with two men in the past. I’m the 3rd. Unfortunately, whatever. There is definitely one thing. She will adore you more and love you more and express her emotions even more when she has less body counts. I might be number 3, it’s definitely better than number 10. When a woman is only focus on you and not anyone else. She also proved it , that’s a green flag.
Bro I'm flabbergasted you found a girl that is your only the third, I almost don't even believe her, but I'll give you the benefit of the doubt all I'm going to say is that's like a unicorn right there
This is what I do 100%. I used to say, I’m doing what I do. You can do whatever you want to. Just don’t be surprised if I break it off when I hear you’ve been out with someone else. The fact is, how good could something be if you’re looking for something else from the start?
My philosophy has always been if I'm not the 1000% clear cut obvious choice for you, if I don't make you forget that other men exist and you are hem-hawing and trying to decide between me and X number of other guys, then PLEASE do us both a favor and do not choose me. Also, if you are still hung up on some guy you dated 5 years ago, and you feel you are settling in ANY way with me, also do not choose me. Go off and enjoy playing games and creating drama with your X number of other dudes and I hope you have have a nice life, because it won't be with me, I'm out. I'd reather have my peace and be single.
I really like the term "degree of division" because relationships take work. I get using dating apps but again splintering your attention at the very start of this process can definitely generate the ick factor for some people.
What HE'S saying is play the field. Until you find someone that you love. But the thing is, women sleep around. Men do too, but in the context of dating around, there's nothing wrong with it. The issue is women has a way of dating; they date the person, leave them "hanging" and come around when its convenient. I seen this all too often. Not just with myself, but others. They date, and keep seeing the same person, but date another man on the side. Bro, I seen this. Its abhorrent. Especially if the person has kids with the father or married to the woman. I seen first hand, a woman dating around, holding hands with another man, while the daddy is at the club's front door talking to the bouncer about mommy. That kind of thing - not fun to see. Its the kids that will be scarred later.
Personally I think if you go on a date and decide to keep dating you should focus solely on that one person. Give them your complete loyalty and dedication. If it doesn't work out let them know, go your own ways and persue someone else. Never persue someone else while dating an individual.
@panama2468 If you think sex on the first date takes away the hoops out of a relationship then you're way lost. Dating needs to change with the culture. If the culture uses up the man in a date then the man needs to change the parameters of what the date is. Make it a hangout and not sexualized. If you don't want to feel like you're being used to pay for a meal then tell them you want to get to know them before you try to date them. If they say no then you know they belong to the streets and can move on. Otherwise you become part of the problem
I come clearly from a different culture where I see one person at a time and sleeping with someone else is cheating. I have no clue what culture this is.
This is exactly why a guy having multiple women as sexual partners is praised whereas a woman who has multiple sexual partners is looked down upon. The fact is that a guy has to work for it and a woman just has to "be there". Women can have sex whenever they want, the guy can't.
"You're afraid of a little competition?" Goes to show their frivolous, immature & shallow nature... No, it's just straight up nasty. Like, have we forgotten that open sex has risk of stds??? That's a thing ya know, remember?
The fact that they and most of the world today think competition is a good things is just wild to me. I’m married and women are still trying to get with my man because they view marriages as more competition when it should be clear to them that the best woman has already won.
6:13 I don't know if this is just in Scotland but whenever a guy buys condoms, the cashier or sometimes a random stranger will say "someones getting lucky" but the girls who bought them would sometimes say "why do they never say were getting lucky?"
I had the same approach to dating for a long time, and it led me down the very specific path to meeting my wife. This is a good rule to go by when dating.
Brian, dating one woman is not extreme. It used to be the norm until it wasn’t. I can’t imagine it would be healthy for anyone, physically or emotionally to be involved with multiple people at one time.
@@panwu6602 Its not cultural decay, its normal. There's different kinds of "multiple dates at a time." Men here date multiple people, date until they decide to cut it off. Women have a different dating style, multiple people, and HOLD onto them when convenient, and cut off anyone they deem "boring."
@@CarlosXPhone The fact that you'd think that indecency and degenerate behaviour is normal only proves I'm right. Like I've said - we don't do that here.
@@panwu6602 Sigh. Whatever. If that's what you like to think. This is not exclusive to U.S., it happens in Chyna, it happens in Africa, and other places.
I never understood people who needed to be talking to someone 24/7- constantly hopping to person to person. When do you have time to yourself to grow and self reflect? I barely dated in high school because I didn’t like anyone and I’m not wasting my time or someone else’s. Needless to say if I did like someone I’d put my energy and effort into just them, I couldn’t imagine it any other way… weird how someone could enjoy talking to so many people
Having been in the nightclub business in NYC for three decades, I can tell you for sure that any above average woman in her twenties will have one guy entering, one guy leaving, and one guy in the middle of their relationships. This is just how it is. As a guy, you might get lucky and find an exception but you would be playing against the odds. If you stick around to genuinely nurture a love relationship then you will probably end that system she has created in her life. But if it comes to a time when that love relationship is ending, you will be the guy leaving and a new guy will be the guy who is entering. And that will happen before you, the guy, even knows her intentions...
I was seeing a girl I met on an app a few years ago she was doing the same thing. Talking to others while me and her were going on dates. That type of shit rubs me wrong and turns me off so I ended up ghosting her. lol
I like solitude. If a woman wants to offer me something better than the absence of people, I'm willing to be convinced. Good luck wrestling me out of my happy place though, it's real cozy in my little Paradise, got my own pond and everything😁
I'm The Same As You, I Am A Good Man, I Do Treat A Lady Like A Queen 👸 I Believe In Being Sacred To Only Her, Respectful, Kind,And Giving, But You Ladies Want Other Men, You're Right To Do So But She Won't Be For Me
Any relationship is hard work with ups and downs. If you are looking for a real partner in life, then Brian is correct. However, I would never tell a girl that this is what is expected of her. The real recipe for finding a real-life partner is that your basic values and mindset should match without instructing each other.
I fully don’t understand these women. He insults and belittles these girls (rightfully so). However, why on earth would any of these girls want to hookup with him when he behaves the way he does?
Isnt it hypocritical for them to call out promiscuous women when they have no problem with men sleeping around? Nothing wrong with being with multiple girls? Really?
He usually speaks out against male promiscuity too but i've also noticed the double standards. They'll downplay it or give benefit of the doubt to the men who do it. He'll even play sound bites from andrew tate during the show.
Things stands - women want a desirable man. As a symbol of her status. Target of envy from other women... So a guy having lot of women bf them is fine, desirable even. But they expect He commits to only them. Which is not often the case.
@@7jjessie True, both genders want same in a sense. Only the way to the goal is diff... Point is, men have an advantage in infidelity. Bc it is in part desirable trait for women. A Proof: "Look the Bad boy is only mine, Beast tamed..." Flip side. Men desire women body, but in a serious relationship? 30% children have diff biological fathers... So for men, loyality, low body count are highly regarded.
Pretty sure that way is weird .in east europe single is single and when she not single she not single.ppl do cheat in any place .just in usa its weird to expect single person to be really single
If a woman dates one at a time it means she is serious about a relationship. There won’t be any games or drama. It’s either yes or no. But I can understand dating 2 guys within a couple weeks but after 1-2 dates she should drop one and know which one she wants IF she is serious. That’s the key. But yes dating 3+ is a joke and a big red flag that she is just using men or a 304
The plastic surgery question about the average looking woman just showed they flat out just don't get it. That just makes ya'll look even worse and isn't even close to the track he was headed.
If you’re dating a bunch of people, you’re dating for ATTENTION. If you’re dating one person at a time, you’re dating for INTENSION. There is a difference.
INTENTION*
I’ve always dated multiple people, and I date with intention…just not the intentions that most prudes agree with.
I think some date multiple people to avoid getting screwed over. They don’t want to put all their eggs in one basket and then have them leave, and they have to start all over again.
I never liked doing it that way (and didn’t have the time for it), but I know people who did, and they did it to sort of protect themselves.
Intention
@@joshdelagarza231😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
Brian should have a panel of parents married for 20+ years, just so we can all see how messed up these women are.
I would just like to see the reaction of 20 plus year married people to these disgusting individual women
My wife and I just celebrated our 21st, been together 23.
@@jc7111
Ya’ll are the 00000000000.1%. Congrats though
He usually gets at least 1 good girl a show.
I’ve been with my husband 14 years and I’m not far off from these girls ages so we could even use married couples like me and my husband to show how messed up these girls are lol 😂
This lady just asked if he doesn’t like competition, bro as soon as I know you seein other dudes, you are not somebody I should compete for… 🖕🏾
If I’m sleeping with a girl and i know she’s sleeping with another guy I know it doesn’t have a future. But I may carry on for awhile I just won’t get attached
@@dalegreening6476 bu she didn’t talk about sleeping, she literally said compete, who would compete for a lady dating multiple dudes… I mean you can smash but what the competition about? Marry her? After you got 🐱🤣
@@dalegreening6476That's crazy. I'm good on that.
@@dalegreening6476 u just help ruin it If you died right now are you a 100% sure you’d go to Heaven?
all people have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.
What is sin? Sin is essentially any bad thing we've ever done.
Because of sin the punishment is a burning hell.
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.”
Revelation 21:8 KJV
Do u know why you have to be saved?
Do u know the story of Jesus? (If yes skip next step) if not do next step. God came down to earth as a man. Lived for 33 and a half years. He never sinned his whole life. Eventually some people got jealous of him and got him convicted of phony charges. He got crucified on the cross. Died. Was buried for 3 days then he was resurrected by his own power.
Do you know why Jesus went through all this bloody mess for us?
It’s because remember your sin is the problem why you can’t go to Heaven right?
The only thing that can wash away your sin is the blood of Jesus Christ
6For while we were still helpless, at the right time Christ died for the ungodly. 7For one will hardly die for a righteous person; [d]though perhaps for the good person someone would even dare to die. 8But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.
God did all that to save us from hell. So think about that. would you ever die for somebody? a decent person? maybe. A good person, perhaps a few would die for him. But with us
"Much more than, being now justified by his blood, we shall be saved from wrath through him.”
Romans 5:9 KJV
Ephesians 2:8-9
“We’re saved by Grace through faith which is not of ourselves it is the gift of God not by works for fear any man should boast”
Salvation is not by good works like “water baptism, attending church, any good thing you do”
“For godly sorrow worketh repentance to salvation not to be repented of: but the sorrow of the world worketh death.”
2 Corinthians 7:10 KJV
Feeling godly sorrow leads to salvation
To be saved you have to feel guilty for being a sinner do you feel guilty for being a sinner?
“that if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.”
Romans 10:9 KJV
If you agree with all that. All you have to do be saved is this. You have to mean it.
Dear God I repent as a sinner I believe Jesus is God who died buried and resurrected so his blood can wash away my sins. So I only trust in the blood alone to save me. Not my good works. save me from hell in Jesus name. I pray amen
Just saying it wont save you you have to mean it
@@Bullet44Its because you're a HYPER SECURE dude (possible gives ZERO FUCKS SERIOUSLY) dude. Might be (just my opinion) Lack empathy/sociopath or psychopat or narcissist (no judgments
I cant stand 6 inch raptor claws on women!!! How do they even wipe their own A$$????
They don't...hence the song "Roses"-your roses smell like...LOL
They don't 💀
I call them poop scoopers😂😂😂
So Brian has dated multiple people too and didn't settle down with one (after he called the dates amazing) lol women are annoying but men are idiots 😂😂😂
@@commonsenseisntcommon1776 baby wipes and/or bidet.
Dating in today's society is terrible.
Hence why I'm single for 5 yrs now
America and Britain yeah. Its beautiful here in Spain seeing all the young couples in their 20s, pushing their baby strollers, all my Spanish colleagues are married and most are my age give or take. All of my peers in US are still single and none of them have children. People here are just more civil, presentable and family oriented. Most don’t make even the American poverty level wage. And the 304s here don’t act like American women here either. Some of my friends are, and they don’t treat or see men the way my US peers did or act like them, they just have s addictions. I even work with all women and its much much better than working with women in US who are all drama.
@@sukaenacornelius9285 Sounds like I should move to Spain
@@jasonmarlowe76 I’d say southern Europe/Eastern Europe is very different. Modern women yes, western yes. But not stereotypical “western/modern”. I went to school in US. I know the contrast. Bring a girl from US that gets alot of attention online here. She will become depressed. I know because I’ve seem it. Most women here are attractive and healthy. Don’t use online media often either or see it as childish. Bring an American 10 over here, she’ll become a 4 immediately and realize she is just average in a proper culture. I’ve literally witnessed American girls cry and complain about Spain and hating it. Its because the American friends they have that are men are brining home Spanish women.
@@sukaenacornelius9285 Can you just beam me up to Spain please? I'm not just in the US, but I'm in a part of Oregon that's full of liberal women that treat men like crap.
so weird that him saying this sounds like an alien concept to these women today.
Because They ARE Like Aliens 👾 Compared To Previous
Generations In Grandmothers Time.
So Brian has dated multiple people too and didn't settle down with one (after he called the dates amazing) lol women are annoying but men are idiots 😂😂😂
@@michaelchevreaux7780 In other eras, just dating more than one person was considered "Two Timing".
In the old films if a one dater sees their date on another date they'll say "Why you two timing cheating rat!"
@@ResisterCIO
As a Vietnam Era Vet,
I'm Old Enough To Remember.
This is absolutely exhausting to listen to. There's like half a dozen OF girls on this panel, _OF COURSE_ they're going to have an impossibly skewed view of relationships.
There is not that manyon the panel, I think it was 2-3 out of 7 or 8. Even when they have no OF women on or only 1, the women still have very bad takes on dating and how they act...
This pod did a deep dive yo see what % of the guests were involved in OF or sex work..and it was a small minority of the guests, I thinkbthey found only 10-15% of all their guests were OF or sex workers vs "regular women".
@@zenzorkle5160 thats quite a large percentage
Even if a man is married its still called getting lucky....
Tragic but 100% true. And we need to stress out that this was always the case, it is not something new really. It was the case in the past too, a 100 years ago, 500 years ago or 2500 years ago - e.g. ancient Greek comedian Aristophanes wrote his comedy "Lysistrata" in which the women of Athens and Sparta organise a sex-strike to blackmail their husbands to end the war, hence he was clearly getting inspired precisely by "wives' sex-striking. Today people think that in the past married men literally SAed their wives, that is not really the case. Men forcing themselves on their wives happened, sure, but really not as much as people think since it was a dangerous affair : you do not want to to SA the woman that feeds you... if you know what I mean. The woman could always complain to her own side of the family and then, if she managed to convince them that you are violent to her, you were in for some trouble, you could be beaten up seriously or worse. But it was not even just that. The No1 risk men run back then was not being stabbed in the streets but being poisoned at home by some poisonous herb put in their food or drink purchased by some witch and put there against them by their own wives.
No wonder Western men, look for NON Western women.
Because they're not told to NOT racemix.
@@dendanskehelt4296 A bit late to think of "protecting the race". It is over by now.
@@Fokas-n8t As long as one whiteman still stands, it's worth defendning. Racemixing is not good in any way.
@@dendanskehelt4296 Ι am more concerned with nations in their homelands (European nations) rather than "races" in random places around the world (USA, Canada, Australia, South Africa etc.). Race is too generic to matter.
@@Fokas-n8t Nation. Genos= means kind or race. And only the white race were created by Yahweh and must remain pure, the others are corruptions that exists only for destruction.
Shut up and actually listen for more than 10 seconds and his point will become clear. Interrupting every 15 seconds is going to make it impossible to communicate.
No younger woman is 100 percent single. They are always in some type of combination more or less.
Nothing wrong with casual dating until you meet someone special. The issue is if you’re having casual sex with all these people too.
F the 304's
Literally or metaphorically?
@@RichardYu1983 aint nobody wanna stick their thing in them.
Yes that is what you do with 304. People shouldn't give money to them.
This make young women think "men only care about one thing" times a thousand.
It's other women that pressure other women to be promiscuous. "Get your bag queen"
@@RichardYu1983 🤣
@@RealHomeRecording Just saying either way it’s good advice.
These girls must be making their parents proud…
Throwing your guilt around in the world today?
They probably don't even care cause they clearly didn't bother raising em
@@mremu4358 A little bias today? They have the courage to live the life they want for themselves. It's a weak person who follows their families wishes when that person wants something else for themselves. It takes courage.
Everybody wants their cake and eat it too and they don't want any consequences with it yeah they didn't notice it's about I in a single plural phone every time even you were talking the same thing do you like being alone that's your decision enjoy
What happened morals and accountability should not even exist because of the immoral people out there accountability and respect for their body or further but but I guess you can't have that because you'll make me feel guilty or second guess because because I will be lonely the rest of my life
@@dankarstens8447 You have no right to suggest that your morality is any better than mine or theirs. So shut up and think about what I just wrote to you. Until you figure this out, you will always be much more a part of the problem than to any positive solution.
Met my girlfriend in bumble, less than 24-48 hours she decided to remove her app. She’s been with two men in the past. I’m the 3rd. Unfortunately, whatever. There is definitely one thing. She will adore you more and love you more and express her emotions even more when she has less body counts. I might be number 3, it’s definitely better than number 10. When a woman is only focus on you and not anyone else. She also proved it , that’s a green flag.
🎉how sweet
Bro I'm flabbergasted you found a girl that is your only the third, I almost don't even believe her, but I'll give you the benefit of the doubt all I'm going to say is that's like a unicorn right there
You are def not number 3
Are you married my brother Arch Angel Michael?
Why is she your girlfriend and not your wife?
The fact that they're even seriously discussing this is disgusting.
This is what I do 100%. I used to say, I’m doing what I do. You can do whatever you want to. Just don’t be surprised if I break it off when I hear you’ve been out with someone else. The fact is, how good could something be if you’re looking for something else from the start?
"Let's wrap this up" Yes warp it up twice to be sure with that one
Blondie's mentality: rules for thee but not for me
She needs to listen and stop cutting Brian off to be to understand the answer to the question she asked.
They all need to shut the F up. They need to stop formulating a response before he even gets two words out of his mouth.
She doesn't like the answer, that's why she keeps cutting him off.
My philosophy has always been if I'm not the 1000% clear cut obvious choice for you, if I don't make you forget that other men exist and you are hem-hawing and trying to decide between me and X number of other guys, then PLEASE do us both a favor and do not choose me. Also, if you are still hung up on some guy you dated 5 years ago, and you feel you are settling in ANY way with me, also do not choose me. Go off and enjoy playing games and creating drama with your X number of other dudes and I hope you have have a nice life, because it won't be with me, I'm out. I'd reather have my peace and be single.
I need an update on what happened after the show lol
I really like the term "degree of division" because relationships take work. I get using dating apps but again splintering your attention at the very start of this process can definitely generate the ick factor for some people.
It’s not fine to fuck around Brian, multiple Partners are bad across the board, Andrew is needed here.
What HE'S saying is play the field. Until you find someone that you love. But the thing is, women sleep around. Men do too, but in the context of dating around, there's nothing wrong with it. The issue is women has a way of dating; they date the person, leave them "hanging" and come around when its convenient. I seen this all too often. Not just with myself, but others. They date, and keep seeing the same person, but date another man on the side. Bro, I seen this. Its abhorrent. Especially if the person has kids with the father or married to the woman. I seen first hand, a woman dating around, holding hands with another man, while the daddy is at the club's front door talking to the bouncer about mommy. That kind of thing - not fun to see. Its the kids that will be scarred later.
4:50 "Maybe it's a bit extreme"
Uh, this was and still is the norm everywhere else in the world. Muricans are fkd.
Personally I think if you go on a date and decide to keep dating you should focus solely on that one person. Give them your complete loyalty and dedication. If it doesn't work out let them know, go your own ways and persue someone else. Never persue someone else while dating an individual.
Well that would be the logical thing to do but women aren't logical their emotional and they're damaged goods most of the time
They just want him to "make it clear" from the beginning so that they can maintain control in the relationship. Gentlemen don't do this.
You come across great here Brian. I’m taking something positive away with me from this conversation. Thanks
Yesss it’s nice to see a different side of him
The man is more valuable than the woman he's dating. Women need to know their place first and set boundaries theyre not allowed to cross.
Brian: “I want a girl…”
My head: “I want a girl with a short skirt and a looooooooong jacket”
Quiet, CHILD, the adults are talking!
Harsh truths.
Brian is inventing monogamy. I think you got something there, bud.
Of all of the Whatever podcasts and videos, this has to be the best I have seen or heard. Simple, calm, straightforward.
I always assumed all of them hook up with Big Bri after the show
😂 if I was him, I would make them take the make-up off first.
You aren't looking for a traditional woman if you demand sex on the first date.
And youre not looking for a man you desire if he has to jump thru hoops to earn your affection
@panama2468 If you think sex on the first date takes away the hoops out of a relationship then you're way lost. Dating needs to change with the culture. If the culture uses up the man in a date then the man needs to change the parameters of what the date is. Make it a hangout and not sexualized. If you don't want to feel like you're being used to pay for a meal then tell them you want to get to know them before you try to date them. If they say no then you know they belong to the streets and can move on. Otherwise you become part of the problem
@@reaper5454Traditional women don't date😁
@@Babigens Agreed, courting was a much better way of doing things
@@reaper5454 Fat chance for that nowadays.
Rare Brian W on this clip. Actually spit facts with confidence.
I come clearly from a different culture where I see one person at a time and sleeping with someone else is cheating. I have no clue what culture this is.
This is exactly why a guy having multiple women as sexual partners is praised whereas a woman who has multiple sexual partners is looked down upon. The fact is that a guy has to work for it and a woman just has to "be there". Women can have sex whenever they want, the guy can't.
True. Most girls could walk into a supermarket go up to a man say “come back to mine” and chances are he would
@@dalegreening6476she could ask to fuck right then & there and dude would break the law to hit it. 😂😂
😂 Who praises men? Besides other men.
Bri totally ripped off Jim Jeffries in his “Studs vs. Sluts” analogy.
“Keep it down” 😂😂
This guy needs to get married.
Pick one. Go.
In this day in age 😂😂 only idots will get married .
Divorce speed rate
"You're afraid of a little competition?"
Goes to show their frivolous, immature & shallow nature...
No, it's just straight up nasty. Like, have we forgotten that open sex has risk of stds??? That's a thing ya know, remember?
The fact that they and most of the world today think competition is a good things is just wild to me. I’m married and women are still trying to get with my man because they view marriages as more competition when it should be clear to them that the best woman has already won.
@@user-st9pd6ux5i This world has simply become more & more frivolous, shallow & overall out of touch
Ever tell a woman You won't date anyone else......if she doesnt have competition she won't be able to respecto You.....
6:13 I don't know if this is just in Scotland but whenever a guy buys condoms, the cashier or sometimes a random stranger will say "someones getting lucky" but the girls who bought them would sometimes say "why do they never say were getting lucky?"
Exactly.
Love the honesty Brian is putting down ❤😊
They are all just mind blown.
I had the same approach to dating for a long time, and it led me down the very specific path to meeting my wife. This is a good rule to go by when dating.
The girl in the red sweater is perfect.
Yet, someone who knows her is already tired of hearing her crap . betting the odds as it were...
Too much makeup
You can't make this shit up....SMFH🤦🏿♂️
My Female Bernese Mountain Dog Was Sweeter And More Intelligent Than Some Of These 304s.
She explained nicely with tears that she didn't want to contaminate me. Totes understand.
Marquette is so cool. So comfortable in his own skin. Very still. That is confidence.
Lol he's a good actor. I'll give him that
Brian, dating one woman is not extreme. It used to be the norm until it wasn’t. I can’t imagine it would be healthy for anyone, physically or emotionally to be involved with multiple people at one time.
Get up in her!!❤🎉😊
Damn, people in America date multiple people at the same time? That's crazy!
Yeah. You didn't know? Many women are like this. I seen it first hand. It hurts, especially if you ARE interested in the woman. Yeah, this happens.
@@CarlosXPhone I'm in eastern europe. I guess we're build differently here. Or the moral decay haven't reached us yet.
@@panwu6602 Its not cultural decay, its normal. There's different kinds of "multiple dates at a time." Men here date multiple people, date until they decide to cut it off. Women have a different dating style, multiple people, and HOLD onto them when convenient, and cut off anyone they deem "boring."
@@CarlosXPhone The fact that you'd think that indecency and degenerate behaviour is normal only proves I'm right. Like I've said - we don't do that here.
@@panwu6602 Sigh. Whatever. If that's what you like to think. This is not exclusive to U.S., it happens in Chyna, it happens in Africa, and other places.
if he's "busy" then to be fair that's a red flag because it indicates he has no time for someone. sorry mate
2:32 obvious side-bar about Brian. Why wasn't this addressed?
What do you reckon was the gist? Would you/wouldn’t you? Or bitchin about the blonde chick?
@scholesiefirsttime well Brian is a bit sassy. If I had to take a guess, they either said he was a virgin or didn't get women.
@@scatman1009🤣🤣🤣🤣
So unrealstic. Everyones talking to someone. Like...always.
I never understood people who needed to be talking to someone 24/7- constantly hopping to person to person. When do you have time to yourself to grow and self reflect? I barely dated in high school because I didn’t like anyone and I’m not wasting my time or someone else’s. Needless to say if I did like someone I’d put my energy and effort into just them, I couldn’t imagine it any other way… weird how someone could enjoy talking to so many people
Marquette looking like Baba Shakti
When did dating only one person become weird? I’m honestly so glad I’m not in the dating scene in this world anymore.
That girl, third from his left in light blue, is so cute.
She's Based
@@michaelchevreaux7780 Based?
@@michaelchevreaux7780 Don't know what that means
Brian talks all that about modest women but would fold for the girl at the end 😂
Would fold? Or "did fold"
@@motorsport2kor “should fold”🧐
Ran out of lotion, aye? 😂
He doesn't want a modest woman he wants a woman who makes him her God (bowing etc) a modest woman would worship God
@@tommyngongo8024 AYE! my dude
Sad that he has to explain this lol. I ain't dealing with no other dudes in the picture
Brian sounds like a kid learning how to cuss 😂
Brian you can ask them if they’re seeing other dudes, but you have to realize they lie 90% of the time
Having been in the nightclub business in NYC for three decades, I can tell you for sure that any above average woman in her twenties will have one guy entering, one guy leaving, and one guy in the middle of their relationships. This is just how it is.
As a guy, you might get lucky and find an exception but you would be playing against the odds. If you stick around to genuinely nurture a love relationship then you will probably end that system she has created in her life.
But if it comes to a time when that love relationship is ending, you will be the guy leaving and a new guy will be the guy who is entering. And that will happen before you, the guy, even knows her intentions...
Exactly. Its not guaranteed for most dudes,....im one of those dudes
I was seeing a girl I met on an app a few years ago she was doing the same thing. Talking to others while me and her were going on dates. That type of shit rubs me wrong and turns me off so I ended up ghosting her. lol
Don’t think ppl realize why this has become the normative culture in society these days…..
That girl in the red dress could have anyone she wanted but she chose this life? Pretty sad.
its funny how he says she was average, what does he think he is. lol
That's no good she's got to be dating no one
Brian spitting facts. I date for an end goal and make my feelings known I want to focus all attention on her and just her
I like solitude. If a woman wants to offer me something better than the absence of people, I'm willing to be convinced. Good luck wrestling me out of my happy place though, it's real cozy in my little Paradise, got my own pond and everything😁
Brian laying out the rizz lol.
No its not fine for men to date multiple women at the same time and visa versa.
So these guys have dated several ladies, did not wife them up but they will complaint of body count
Look at what some of you are wearing. If you want respect, dress appropriately.
I still wonder what the “7” means on Brian’s lapel…
Who is that in blue dress with head band . She was a angel man
It amazes me how 304's want the traditional treatment when they are not traditional women.
The Young Lady In The Pink Shirt Is Very Beautiful!
Lmao Brian, why are you talking about romantic mutual connections to individuals that clearly want the attention of more than one man?
SMH 🤦🏽♂️
I'm The Same As You, I Am A Good Man, I Do Treat A Lady Like A Queen 👸 I Believe In Being Sacred To Only Her, Respectful, Kind,And Giving, But You Ladies Want Other Men, You're Right To Do So But She Won't Be For Me
Anyone know what episode this is ??
Any relationship is hard work with ups and downs. If you are looking for a real partner in life, then Brian is correct. However, I would never tell a girl that this is what is expected of her. The real recipe for finding a real-life partner is that your basic values and mindset should match without instructing each other.
The girl nearest to the front on the right in red is the only women closest to a 10 ever seen on this podcast
That guy is getting worse every day. Man up dude. Blablabla, trying to defend monogamy. Just stand by it. Polygami sucks and is sick.
Bro is being unrealistic can't expect them go commit to you on the first date they don't know you. That's giving abandonment issues.
Well, before the social media age, when people were normal, dating was an actual commitment, not a series of job interviews.
Did that podcast bring out anything good?
She called his bluff lol
I fully don’t understand these women. He insults and belittles these girls (rightfully so). However, why on earth would any of these girls want to hookup with him when he behaves the way he does?
Considering most of the "guests" have OF accounts and/or podcasts, it is for exposure.
He reminds them of the father they wish they had in their lives.
Isnt it hypocritical for them to call out promiscuous women when they have no problem with men sleeping around? Nothing wrong with being with multiple girls? Really?
He usually speaks out against male promiscuity too but i've also noticed the double standards. They'll downplay it or give benefit of the doubt to the men who do it. He'll even play sound bites from andrew tate during the show.
Things stands - women want a desirable man. As a symbol of her status. Target of envy from other women...
So a guy having lot of women bf them is fine, desirable even.
But they expect He commits to only them. Which is not often the case.
Women trend to experience, men to virtue.
@@7jjessie True, both genders want same in a sense. Only the way to the goal is diff...
Point is, men have an advantage in infidelity. Bc it is in part desirable trait for women.
A Proof: "Look the Bad boy is only mine, Beast tamed..."
Flip side. Men desire women body, but in a serious relationship? 30% children have diff biological fathers... So for men, loyality, low body count are highly regarded.
There's no such thing as a used man. Except for maybe his bank account
Pretty sure that way is weird .in east europe single is single and when she not single she not single.ppl do cheat in any place .just in usa its weird to expect single person to be really single
Yep, as a woman you merely need to exist and you can get some... As a dude you need to have achieved something beforehand..
The most attractive women on this panel are the ones that dresses conservatively.
If a woman dates one at a time it means she is serious about a relationship. There won’t be any games or drama. It’s either yes or no. But I can understand dating 2 guys within a couple weeks but after 1-2 dates she should drop one and know which one she wants IF she is serious. That’s the key. But yes dating 3+ is a joke and a big red flag that she is just using men or a 304
/* revekah moving and me not slow*/ STD juice will cause problems on testes as well. Good for you, monogamy is a must.
Is that the NFT guy?
Lol yup
The plastic surgery question about the average looking woman just showed they flat out just don't get it. That just makes ya'll look even worse and isn't even close to the track he was headed.