To Be A Man DAX REACTION Carlie Shea What Now Reacts
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In the vibrant realm of online content creation, Carlie Shea, the luminary behind the UA-cam sensation SheaWhatNow, recently took her audience on an exhilarating journey through the sonic landscapes of Dax's thought-provoking masterpiece, "To Be a Man." Shea, renowned for her insightful reactions and charismatic presence, delved deep into the heart of Dax's lyrical narrative, skillfully intertwining her own sentiments with the poetic nuances of the acclaimed artist.
As the beats of Dax's "To Be a Man" echoed through Shea's reactions, a symphony of emotions unfolded. The fusion of SheaWhatNow and Dax was nothing short of magical, creating a dynamic dialogue between creator and creation. The alchemy of Shea's raw authenticity and Dax's profound lyrics illuminated the screen, captivating viewers in a spell of shared experience.
In her reaction to "To Be a Man," Shea navigated the intricate layers of Dax's message, offering her audience not just a commentary but a voyage into the very essence of what it means to be human. The synergy between SheaWhatNow and Dax's artistry was palpable, as Shea's nuanced responses mirrored the intricate dance between artist and muse.
From the palpable anticipation at the start of the video to the crescendo of emotions evoked by Dax's poignant verses, SheaWhatNow's exploration of "To Be a Man" became a testament to the power of genuine reactions. Every pause, gasp, and reflective expression etched a narrative, painting a vivid picture of the shared encounter between Shea and Dax's creation.
As Shea delved into the intricacies of "To Be a Man," the screen became a canvas upon which emotions, thoughts, and artistry converged. The dance between SheaWhatNow and Dax unfolded not just as a reaction but as a collaborative exploration of the human experience, a journey that transcended the pixels and resonated with the beating hearts of those immersed in the SheaWhatNow community.
In the realm where SheaWhatNow meets Dax, "To Be a Man" is not merely a video and a reaction-it's a symphony of shared humanity, a testament to the profound connection that can be forged through the language of music and the art of reaction. It's in this harmonious interplay that SheaWhatNow and Dax create not just content but an experience, inviting viewers to join them in the transformative dance of emotion, reflection, and the undeniably powerful allure of authentic connection. - Розваги
I got my fiance to react to this with me! Its being posted to the channel tonight! He has a very different take on this... watch here ua-cam.com/video/bBH06bPDvOk/v-deo.html
Thank you yo!!! Appreciate you!
This one hits me deep Dax. Awesome job.
I appreciate you Dax
Dax you are awesome I love your music 🙏🏼
Man... Thank you so much for making this song and filling it with so much truth
Thank you for the song Dax. Thank you for the reaction Shea.
Any man whoever opened up about his feelings to his partner knows why we dont show our emotions
Truer words never spoken.
Doesn't usually go well. Definitely not good for your image or relationship.
I remember a younger me doing that with women I was dating and wondering why it always turned sour afterward. An older me now understands. Been single for 7 years now, smartest thing i've ever done. Don't plan on carrying on my last name or anything else, just living for me.
@@happybaals too much time worrying about images and less time focusing on being free
Yeah made that mistake once. You could see the change in her eyes immediately.
I’m a 62 year old man who raised a family. Work so hard for all my life. Totally taken for granted by the family. He speaks for the vast majority of the good men.
I know what's that painful feeling Man, I know that hurts... Deeply.
Stay strong Gentleman, you're not alone 🤝
Isn't that the truth. I spent 28 years doing that, staring work at 1, 2 in the morning, sometimes midnight, to get home at 3 pm and do it all again with not so much as a thanks.
Yes! I was found to be abused, manipulated, and neglected meanwhile my father, mother, grandparents, and more died over a few short years. She didn’t care. Used and weaponized my vulnerability and children against me. And still I get punished for helping myself. It puts a new perspective on women as a whole for me. It will never be the same for me. Now or ever again.
I'm 62 brother share your experience. Just know Ilove you brother
I’m 52, I was raised like that too. My father was(is) my hero, but I only told him I loved him when he was dying. I broke the chain with my son, we say it to each other all the time.
It’s not about crying or not crying. It’s about NOBODY CARES about our emotions. This is a fact as we are expected to be the pillars that hold up the family structure and society
agreed. also the moment a man shows a sign of emotions they are labeld as weak by the very women that think men are heartless and have no emotions.
I dont mind being a pillar if we are actually respected and appreciated. Todays society is shit for us.
You nailed it!!
I love you brother don't give up you are strong even when you feel weak
Because we ARE the pillars. We do hold things together. But not society. Society is controlled by women, that's why it's crumbling
we don't just "feel" like this. This is the reality. 80% of divorces are filed by women. 70% of those are because of "money issues".
Facts! 80 percent of women who leave their husbands make more money than their partner. WTF?? Lol let’s go back too the 50’s with that data!!
Also 80% of suicides are men. And 75% of men under 30 are virgins.
@@truthandthelight4041 For many of these women, this is how they "accumulate" wealth.
50% of a house or farm and land is a good payday....
Sucks but it's the truth.
That’s really sad for a woman to leave her man because of money issues smh… 😢
50% divorce rate goes to 90% if she makes more money to
"Most men lead lives of quiet desperation" -Henry David Thoreau
He is correct.
100 percent
So try, I've asked for someone to sit with me and talk. But they just laugh
@@rawirinutira2678 We`re here. Are you from the US?
@@jamesreisenauer1778 no I'm from New Zealand
@James Reisenauer and thank you man 🤘🏽
“Screaming on the inside but don’t make a sound”, this hits so hard.
I got you! It’s sad how many of us feel this way.
I agree this is me everyday...
And not "allowed" to make sound.
The daily struggle, just make the screaming inside...
“They don't know what you're worth 'til the day that you die
And that's when they start cryin'
Then move on to a man to confide in
That's why we feel”
This line hits the hardest to me!!
I can understand why. Because I may not have experienced this but I know it's true.
This is facts. As a fireman I work long hours and have been in some dangerous spots, all for the sake of providing for my family and give them everything they want in this life. In the end she left anyway. It wasn’t enough
@@schmeelkie075_gamingThank you for your service. You're a legend.
How many men are left alone after being broken by life? It's easier to find a new man until he is broken also.
How many men are broken and feel alone in the company of those closest to us.
We say nothing just wake up and do it all again.
@chrisb7198 this, all of this
As a husband and stepdad in Texas I can't show any emotions. I'm their rock. That's what they need. Its just how I was raised. Men don't matter to this world unless they can provide.
I feel you Texas here also. I’ve showed my emotions by reacting once and that was it. I hear about it every time it’s convenient for the other to hold it against me.
@@rickalvarado4941that's toxic shit bro im sorry you deal with that. That needs worked on but we know how well it goes
This might make you love your man more
Exactly
An emotional man is a dangerous man. I teach my boy to be stoic.
Just to clarify. We are not asking to give up this responsibility. Just to be supported in our difficult journey. That's what this song is telling you is expected of us. And We as Men All embrace it!
Agreed. Most men love and embrace the responsibility that comes with being a man. We just need to be heard in a way that we’ve never been heard before. 🤙🏽
Couldn't agree more. More than anything, we just want to be treated with respect and kindness from the people we would take a bullet for.
Great explanation and agree completely.
They say small things matter. But for men, even the tiniest of the tinest thing means a lot.
Hell, just mildly appreciated goes miles.
This song had hit hard for me. In 2016, I had a major surgery, lost my older sister to cancer, and my ex-wife left. I felt I had to be strong for my family even though I was mentally shutting down. I never allowed myself to be emotional. When I heard this song, I finally realized I wasn't alone. I broke down. Ugly cried broke down. Thanks, Dax, for showing all of us we deserve to be seen and heard!
This song 100% explains how we men really feel inside and how society expects us too be like, its too much for most of us.
100% Truth. This is completely how it is
I cried in front of my first love once then I saw disgust for me in her eyes and it’s not about not having feelings it’s about the world not caring about mens feelings
Truth. The women say they want us to open up, but as soon as we do, it's over.
This. Men know what feelings are, but they don't work in our favor. Nobody wants men to show weakness because the world needs strong men.
Yeah bro its a cold world
Feeling something is not weakness. As the song said, don't forget, Jesus wept, and brother so can you.@@beebs_magoo
Same she looked at me in disgust and never looked or treated me the same afterwards. Sex love all stopped. I had just lost a 3 year project cause I might make my boss look bad. She encouraged me to let out my feelings about it so I did. Worst thing I’ve ever done: I trusted her with my emotions and feelings over it for her to look down on me as less of a man from then on.
Only a man will truly understand what its like...Stay strong fellas...Much love.
Ya she kinda had a bad representation of it
@@4gvnjonah208Don’t blame her for that. It’s just the way it is.
It's is a struggle being the provider the dad the husband all in one day
@@pascalramael5678 music like this don’t “make” you depressed 😂… I have control and it’s you with out it because Dax don’t make me sad lol grow up… 😂
@@4gvnjonah208 well grow a brain.... And a beard .... Because if you had a little bit of both you would realise that most people that listen to this music are depressed and feel sorry for themselves. If someone has a depression go get help from a professional and don't listen to music like this that only will make you feel depressed
"... for what you provide in THAT home." Not YOUR home, that one. Hits hard.
It's true. I'm getting a dog so I have someone who loves me and is excited to see me when I get home. Men need hugs too.
Every single time I opened up and was vulnerable it was used against me. Every. Single. Time. That's what men learn. Nobody is telling us that we can't, but they are telling us through their actions that it is detrimental. I have found a group of men that I can talk to, and I use that support. But I don't think I will ever be able to open up to another woman that way. It's too painful.
Exactly. You think that maybe you'll be safe confiding in the one person that should be there for you at your lowest. We all know that's not what happens, they take that pain, twist it around and shove it back in.
This is what I'm dealing with
@@thefringeminorityreport4797 brother be vulnerable feel that shit & stay strong
THIS
A woman is not built to deal with the issues of a man. Other men can and will help u through shit.
My wife sent this video to me at work and ask me if this how most men really feel not knowing that's exactly how I feel everyday. The way DAX articulates the words of what literally every man can't put into words is amazing! One of my favorite artists now, thank u DAX!!!
Truth man.
The fact you have a wife that even considered this, and sent it to you, you really have a special woman, cherish her until the day you don't wake up.
@angryfarmergamer2124 thank u. I know i'm blessed and have a one of a kind wife.
the hardest part is taking our processing and talking to the woman in our life and opening up. its hard AF, but when you do its possible.
@@AmericanFarmerHVAC2024my best friend had a wife that putting through hell for 26 years and didn't even let him see his daughter for the past and then he found a woman who actually understood and he did just that until yesterday at his last breath. So yeah.. truth bro
I watched my husband cry many times. He feels peoples pain and it makes me admire his merciful heart... He had cancer and couldn't fully provide.. i just went and applied for food stamps and found help quietly so he didn't need to worry. I told him how proud i was to have such a great lover, father and husband.
He's wheelchair bound and struggles with chronic pain and we'll be married 40 years soon. He's a good man ... Growing in his faith and praying for the world's pain all the time
Not every man is harmed by women. All three of my daughters love him utterly ... Even when he cries.
Btw. One daughter buys her brothers Valentine's candy and a rose on Valentine's. She wants the guys to know they get love too. I think maybe that's what girls should do on Valentine's Day. Let it be love on all the men in their life..... Gratitude for good men day.
Wishful thinking
Telling a man to embrace his feelings etc is bad advice. You’re setting a man up to failure. A man who can’t control his emotions is dangerous for society. No, the trick is to teach stoicism and giving them a safe space. But most women lose interest and attraction if a man expresses his feelings. He expresses a reality, you offer a bad solution.
I was told I was safe to share what I was feeling and thinking... told I was safe too... I dumped 32 years of what I've kept bottled up... then I got dumped after I was promised she wouldn't leave... yeah... I'll never share again... we aren't safe sharing what we feel... it's not wanted...
Yes, we DO feel this way. This song literally made me cry
Same
But we all do it alone with the door locked. Lol.
We do feel this way, all behind closed doors or while others sleep.
@@ravenous9259💯
F'ing A right that video is like watching my life
This song was released 8 days ago. You are the 1st solo female reactor to touch it.
Thank you.
Rosalie Reacts
@@anechointhedark I think Rosalie reacted to it before this one too right
In response to the feminist argument that "men have it easy ", this experiment has been done, the lady wrote a book called self-made man. I would urge people to check it out.
Yes we men feel this way. It is the hardest time in all of history to be a man. I appreciate Dax for making this song and video. Saying with eloquence what so many men can not.
I feel like this everyday. I try so hard to not show emotion it takes up alot of my energy.
“No one cares, work harder” Is the societal message to men in general. And that sucks, but he’s right that being a guy is lonely. Great video by Dax, and great reaction as usual!
Your job is pushing you harder to do more, running your body into the ground, and god forbide you say something... all you get back is a list of bills and other things that need money...
As a 30 year old man who works a full time job and runs a business on the side with a son I cried my eyes out watching this! Thank you I needed this
Jesus loves you
@Hdhdjdudh-fv5jk uhm, EFF "jesus" ... we just need to regain the narrative and control over woke AF ideology. MEN - like WOMEN - are just as very much HUMAN BEINGS as anyone else. We should love ONE ANOTHER ... that certainly doesn't involve your fantasy fiction novel's protagonist. #ffs 🙄
"Since we can't define what a women is" had me stay tuned for your opinion. I love your grounded mentality. We need more of you and DAX. Sub for sure, thank you so much. No one knows what some of us evil men struggle with. Same breath, women carry sooo much. My wife is an amazing woman and I don't know how I would live without her. When we marry we became one. A piece of each other, through good times and bad. If I lose her I will lose a part of me. That's how the heart breaks. It's how we were built, there isn't any changing in that. Thank you Shea. ❤❤
Thank you Joshua. Profound words for sure. You are lucky to have a good wife. and she is lucky as well. ❤️
You keep on with your words, opinions, and influence. You earned a new fan today. The world needs more of you. ❤️
I did this. I tried to open up about my feelings and struggles to my wife, and i can tell you she used it as one of the many reasons to end our 4 years marriage. I dont blame her, at the time, I couldn't provide for my family the way I should have. Today things are better for me, I wish she had stayed a little bit longer, but its fine, life goes on. I honestly believe dax is so spot on in this song!
I feel you bro. My ex-wife did the same thing against me when I showed vulnerability and expressed my feelings. 24 years gone.
Hang in there man. I’m going through this now, where opening up is extremely one-sided and accountability is sparse. It leaves you stuck with your feelings and they just bottle up inside you. I’m praying God brings you comfort and surrounds you by other men you can confide in.
I feel you. I made the same mistake too. Women are not to be confied in. We need each other.
Don't let anybody persuade you otherwise, but a wife should stay with her husband when things get hard and he is trying to make ends meet and finding a stable long term solution. It takes years to gain stability which is why only spoiled victimhood females leave.
Its not about who hurt him. This is so much more than a song. Before hearing this song i didn't even know that anyone was capable of putting these feeling into words. As a man i know how this affected me and i cant even begin to imagine how many other men hear this song and are shaken. Simply because its so spot on
Have you heard the remix with multiple verses? Last verse hit me so hard like all my thoughts and feelings put into 3 lines blown away Dax bringing hope back to the male species haha
This song brings me to tears every time I hear it, because I’ve lived it. This song actually inspired me to seek help for my own mental health. I think it’s incredibly sad and pathetic how men’s mental health is treated. You only need to look at statistics, suicide rates for men is 3 times higher than that of women, and instead of asking if we’re ok, we’re told that we need to suck it up and stop being babies. Sadly that message has been said to men mostly by women. We’re told to be vulnerable and share our feelings and emotions, but when we do it ends up being weaponized and used against us. It needs to change.
@@pascalramael5678 obviously you’re perfect and have never been hurt or experienced the struggle that men have been through. Personally I find this song as a way of showing people that men’s mental health is important too. Just because it doesn’t mean anything to you doesn’t mean that it’s the same for others.
For ear too long men’s mental health has been overlooked and it’s about time people like Dax are shining a light on it!
Heard him first with "Alcohol"
Crushed me, like all the other songs, ain't no where to turn to, no one to talk to.
Like she say, this is vulnerable, that's not what we tryna be, we just need to"be accepted, respected
@@leeroy5665 And knowing that you're not alone.
Knowing that you're not the only one in the fight is sometimes all the help you need to make it through that dark night to the next day.
As I mentioned in a recent penning about being a loner, reading alone at a cafeteria table. I felt alone, and lonely because I thought I was the only one.
But there were always a multitude of us sitting at tables all around me (perhaps not in THAT cafeteria).
Unseen warriors in the fight.
So remember, you're not alone in whatever fight you go through.
Someone has your back, even if you never see their presence.
100% accurate, i can't believe how hard this hit me. He's a voice for a large majority.
True silent majority.
He's singing for us men we feel it's every second of every day!
This song is spot on. Thanks Dax
As a single father of 2 kids this song speaks all of my feelings much love to Dax and you
Single father of 4. Salute to you brother. Keep grinding. It'll be worth it in the end.
@mattyic3 @timothygarza1413 both of yall are legends! Keep up the hard work.
Single dad of 2! All about my kids. They are my drive and motivation.
Yes I needed this about to be a single dad of 3 trying to do 50/50 without courts I pray it goes well because as a kid who’s been through it. Therapy isn’t good enough.
It's amazing how many of us feel this way and hide it, then Dax comes along and has the balls the say it and gives us all hope. At the very least we know we aren't alone.
You understand more than most, but it’s so much deeper than you realize. Thankyou for being a voice for us.
Thank you for your kind words. It's world wide, it feels like the more you give the harder it is. Just want to be loved unconditionallying.
what everyone seems to forget is that we are not looking to change the way we live in the world, only the way we are treated. We are not seeking to be allow to cry more, we are not trying to pass off the role of protector, or provider. We care about being treated with respect and appreaction for what we do and the way we conduct ourself, that's it. The saddest part is that so many men live without even though it cost nothing to provide respect or appreaction.
THIS. EXACTLY THIS.
This. THIS.
Well said
I see a lot of women reacting to this song on youtube, and they still don't seem to get it. I think the fundamental disconnect is that they think that we're like them, that we're the same. But we're not. We're very different. I don't think they get it.
@mr.mayhem4054 That is a huge difference that not only women forget, but society as a whole forgets. Most men instinctively know that men and women think differently. Many women, on the other hand, expect everyone to inherently understand their world view and style of thinking. Not to say men are "smarter" or anything. We just know when we don't know, generally speaking.
I feel this more than words can say. As a vet with TBI and PTSD, divorced, existing under a problem for homeless vets. Yeah this hits hard.
Stay Strong and always believe and pray to God. He knows your heart best and he forgives us if we believe in him. This live is short but eternity with God is forever God bless you!
Thanks for ur service man
@@winxo1115 God has me and my HOG family is there when He feels distant! I praise God Every morning even if I question his answer of no. I guess that is what faith is about.
Thank you for your service first off. My son did a tour and cousin did 2 tours both to Afghanistan. Sorry for what you're going through
Stay motivated, Brother. AIR ASSAULT!!!
When our daughter left for the military, my wife cried while giving her a hug goodbye.
When we got back into the truck to leave, she asked me if I wasn't sad to see her go because I didn't show emotion.
I told her I was crying on the inside but had to show strength for our daughter and her.
men deserves so much love & recognition !.. the whole hate on men epidemic needs to stop ..
I completely agree. I’m so sick of feminists hating men for nothing
@@SheaWhatNow yes same!! , i keep biting my tongue everytime i see a 'men ain't sh t'' comment , but I will stop holding back & start fighting back for men .. enough is enough ! x (btw loved your reaction! x )
@@jessstylinson1234 I used to reply to the "men are scum" comments with "if it's not okay to claim that all women are gold-diggers, it's also not okay to claim that all men are scum. Generalising hurts both sides, and undermines progress by causing resentment and fear in the individuals who aren't the problem. We all need to do better."
Apparently that was 'confrontational' and 'mansplaining'.
I had no idea that men felt like this. I played this for my husband and then asked if he felt that way. I was floored when he said, "Yes, every single day." No one should be made to feel expendable, or like a commodity. Fantastic reaction, Carlie! But you never disappoint. 🎶🔥💖🙏🏼😎
Maybe you should take a look in the mirror then
@@ragingpirate5727she could be the best wife in the world. Most men will still feel this way deep down because of life. Doesn't mean it's always the wife's fault
@@Sleepy_Dorkyup, once you've been beaten down and shoved into a bottle by society no one person no matter how amazing can put you back together
you could be a fantastic wife and he will still feel the same. Your husband has the burden to carry your family through anything. He knows he will gladly give up his life protecting you and he wouldn't want it any other way. He knows he is the shield, he is holding back the world beating against the door of your home. The pain in men is the worry of failing our loved ones... it crushes our souls. So love your man, all we want is the love and respect from our women, walk with him in life and show him he has your support.
@@rickrouse7865 We had a long GREAT talk because of this song and I have a whole new perspective on his side of life. So when he's had a rough day at work, and he comes home and takes a few minutes just to sit in the truck and 'shake it off' I know to just give him time. If he's out there longer than about 15 mins I'll stick my head out and ask if everything is OK and when he says yeah, I say "O.K. come in when you're ready."
As the father of 2 boys, I've been trying to teach them that it's ok to acknowledge if they get hurt, physically or mentally, but to always get back up, and overcome. They are stronger than anyone thinks, and more resilient than they know. This goes for all of my children.
Being a single dad, also taking care of my chronically I'll mom after my dad died. This song speaks volumes to me. I feel weak showing emotions.
This song makes me cry every single time I hear it (I listen to it MANY MANY MANY times a day) and it's because it's exactly how I feel. I connect with every word in this song almost feels like he's reading my mind but in reality it's the the harsh truth of the world these days. We love you Dax. Keep speaking our truth!!
This song is 💯% facts... and it hits in a way that i have to leave the room when it plays and people are around... cant get teary eyed in front of others
I love this song. It hits me so hard as a vet and single father. It brings tears to my eyes, can't listen to it in front of people. Dax is incredible. I love his work.
I will never listen to this song in front of people for that very reason.
A friend of mine said to me, when he introduced me to this song, "Every man needs to see this music video!" And I cry EVERY TIME I watch it. Dozens of times & it still happens.
Why would this make a man cry ? Only times I cried were death of my dog, my grandmother, and when I was running late for mt wedding.
@@dssd31 "I only cried when Old Yeller died"
Somehow this makes you a big man?
Actually being proud of something like this is pretty much the definition of "Toxic masculinity".
Emotions are nothing to be afraid of.
@@dssd31I guess you’d have to be a man to understand.
Did you just accuse a brother of "toxic masculinity?" Wow. You pretty much look like the definition of SIMP right now. Let me guess, women should always be put on pedestals too, huh?
@@dssd31you're a woman aren't you?
Thank you for speaking for us guys. Appreciate the kind words. Its hard out here. I cant even get any women to even talk to me.... its hard to not give up.
Man up was something I heard as a young man. I'm 47 and this song is 100% dead on with how many of us feel.
That’s exactly how we feel. Also, your instinctive response of who hurt you is one of the many reasons why we don’t express our emotions because they are Weaponized anytime we do. You can laugh it off as oh, just kidding, but that was your go to response and it’s the same as every other woman.
Exactly! In my opinion she took away every good thing she said by saying that at the end..her words could’ve been chosen better on that one.
this is true, women can listen to the song and try to understand but they will NEVER understand what it really means. a women in a men's shoes would commit suicide faster than most men already are.
“They don’t know Whatchu worth till the day that you die… and that’s when they start crying… then move on to a man to confide in.”
That should tell you everything you need to know… that one line has so much behind it
PREACH BRO they don't care when we're gone they'll find someone else but expect us to stay single if they go like da faq
That lyric REALLLY hit. My Grandpa was seen as a loser by his wife and daughters. . . the man basically BUILT half a major city in the US. When he died and MANY people came out of the wood works to grieve his loss they were shocked at his impact and that they NEVER respected him.
Had a similar situation that landed me in a psych ward after trying to keep it together for a decade after Iraq. . . men simply get NO respect and no one thinks about what we do until we are GONE.
@@aquaticaaficionado2004 Joyner and dax are artists that give us our flowers. If you want to listen to a woman speaking on OUR problems listen to romaarmy
Yes, can't stop crying cause this song is too real.
3:17 - "As your friend...it is ok you are a human being too..." Exactly. Our female friends will show us a level of understanding that we greatly appreciate and value. However not in all cases but in a good many, that same woman as our partner will look at us differently for expressing feelings such as these. Thank you for shining light on that.
As a man and as a father of boys. This hits hard. I grew up being told not to show emotions but as I got older I didn't care and would show my emotions but I realized... no one cares. I raised my kids to know it's ok to cry, but at the same time prepared them that other than me, no one else will care. And you still need to be tough. I havnt seen my daughter in 7 months and I've honestly cried more In those month than I have the rest of my adult life. I'm in the hardest part of my life right now and I'm only here now for my kids. 😢
You need to put yourself first, dude. I know that that's a hard concept for a lot of men to grasp, but it will actually improve not only your life, but your relationships with those you care about. Well most of them anyway. You'll also find out which ones truly care about "you" and not just what you can "provide" them.
@BrickMudge it's been hard but I have started doing that. And I finally get my daughter every other weekend for now until we go to court and it has honestly helped me the most.
@@Slick242006 I have three grown sons, two of whom have two evil baby mama's who hold their children, three of my four grandchildren hostage. I guess I'll have to wait until they're adults and just hope that they reach out to us. But I'm not holding my breath. It's an evil world, especially if you're a father.
This song is exactly how I felt until about 6 1/2 years ago when I met my wife. My previous marriage was hell and my ex wife made me feel like this. My current wife has never once missed a chance to tell me how much she loves and appreciates everything I do. She never puts me down and when she’s upset with me or something I did she always tells me in a calm tone. She is the reason I’m still alive on this earth.
Same story for me brother.
Great that it worked for you !
Congrats 👍
Happy for you 👍 🙂
Same
I am genuinely happy that their is a man who is getting love and appreciation and hopeful that there are woman capable of reciprocating the love and affirmation they expect.
This captures it. Made me cry the first time I heard it from all the emotions I put aside to work 6-7 days a week and make it all work financially and still be there for my kids.
It’s crazy how I melted seeing how you reacted In such a compassionate way to this video….thats literally the kind of compassion I would like for my wife to display….im not hiding from my responsibilities….i go to war every single day…but at least some compassion shown would make me feel a little better….shes just cold…I’m literally just supporting her public image.
Love how you didn’t flip this into “well it’s harder to be a woman!!” because that’s not what he’s saying. Women definitely face a ton of struggles too but he’s just stating things that a lot of men feel and seeing a woman empathize with that was super refreshing. Great reaction!
Women live on easy mode bro
Exactly. Everyone has their struggles, and just because one person expresses that they're struggling doesn't give someone else free reign to go "But my life's worse".
For a guy, there’s a time and a place to be vulnerable and it’s not usually at the same time everyone else can. He’s got to make sure his family makes it safely through the tough times before he can tend to his own wounds. But by then, everyone has moved on and it looks like he’s the one that’s clinging to the past because he sacrificed this grieving time to be strong for his family so they don’t disintegrate like many families do during and after a crisis.
This is exactly the truth.
Brother, you hit the nail on the head. My SO tends to express hurts and frustrations in incredibly hurtful and attacking ways, and I have to simply swallow the pain, screaming internally while showing unreciprocated unconditional love and support. If I try to share any emotions I might be feeling at the time, it's viewed as self-centered disregard. If I try to talk about it later, I'm just a jerk bottling everything up to "use it against them later". I've tried talking to them about it a few times, telling them I'm perfectly happy to set my feelings aside to support them if that's what they need... just let me know when a constructive time would be for me to talk about my feelings... The only response was to run in circles avoiding an answer. I'm left with but two options: 1) accept that my feelings, no matter how neutrally they're expressed, will always be met with vitriol, or 2) bottle everything up indefinitely.
I appreciate this opportunity to listen to this song. Then the way you did the brake down this song made me cry. Thanks lesson learnt
New here! But I am subscribing. This was such a calm, thoughtful reaction. I love it. And yes, this is how many of us feel. We wouldn't want the responsibility any different. Just some respect and appreciation for the weight or what's carried. Especially, what we carry outside and have to bring home and not "let go of."
I sit here weeping listening to this as a man! It’s so very true for us guys! I wish women would get us truly. This song hits home so much with us. So lonely……
Being a man ans taking care of a family is such a lonely life and only other men understand.
I am that guy that got diagnosed with an incurable autoimmune disease. I went from doing great and opening my own construction company to being nearly crippled in 6 months. I died a little inside the day my fiance told me "you broke your promise to take care of me." It felt like nothing i had ever done for her had mattered. She ended up leaving. Yeah Shea unfortunately we feel that way because this song is life for many of us.
Woe, sorry that happened to you. Life is a struggle that only ends when we meet God. Jesus loves you man, and you are never alone.
Dude, I am sorry you were done dirty like that. She obviously didn't understand what "Through sickness and health" meant. Don't ever take her back when you get back up on your feet. I don't know if it will help, but Jordan Peterson had an autoimmune disease, and he went to the carnivore diet, and it helped him tremendously. I wish you health and happiness bro.
You deserve better!!!
Soldier on my brother. God will turn your sorrow into joy somehow.
Hey, thanks! Been following Dax for quite a while. I'm not too big on reaction channels but couldn't pass up seeing a lovely lady reacting to This song. I see that He seen it too! Awesome!
Some men have a lot to say but few want to listen. I once apologized to my niece & nephew for pausing a DVR movie & reminiscing the paths I've taken, for so long. My niece said, "it's ok, uncle. You can keep it paused. We like your stories better anyway". 🥰
May not sound like much but it meant a Lot.
Nice seeing you. Enjoyed your reaction. Leaving a 👍 of course & a comment.
Merry Christmas!!! And, Have a Safe and Happy New Year!!!
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This song touches the deepest part of a man’s heart!!!
I am a disabled veteran and this song is so very true. I can’t cry, feel pain, sadness, or any kind of weakness in front of my wife and kids. I always feel I have to be the strong one and stand tall . This comes from my grandparents who were ex military in WW2, father who served in Vietnam and the military. I hold so much inside and never share it and to be honest never will.
Your battles wage on inside you, brother. You're not fighting alone. Silent brothers fight beside you every day.
Show cracks in your armor you’re no longer a man
@jerimiahreece8507 absolutely true
You do have to be the strong one. Stay strong soldier. But before you hit rock bottom, reach out, we are all going through this as men. We all need to vent, process and figure things out with people that understand from time to time. Every man has a breaking point, only other men can understand, don't burden your wife, she can't handle it. Find someone to talk to even if you have to pay them like a councilor. Or just ask a buddy or a stranger to get things off your chest to process everything. You got this king
Thank you for your service
Being in the military and having to push through everything all the time, like now being deployed and away from my children, family, and friends. You are still expected to stay strong for everyone and push through. It is definitely hard being a man. It’s not an everyday thing sometimes we do get a moment to breathe but then we have to get right back to it. Dax definitely provided a song we needed. ❤️
Just randomly came on youre channel but love how you understand what he's talking about. Much love.
I 100% agree with her and Dax, for me to say this I'm 21 years old living my lowest doing everything I can to get out of my situation. Hearing this song also put me to tears
Much respect Shea. Any man that raises his son and doesn't teach him to control his emotions, doesn't love him. I understand why you think men should be able to be vulnerable but it's not acceptable for a man. Society will eat him alive. What men REALLY need is for women to understand why we must be strong, and then be on our side anyways. Men must NEVER cry in front of his woman. She WILL leave you soon after she sees through your armor.
True. Even when I was in an accident and broke my neck and became a paraplegic. I was staying strong with my girlfriend of 7 years until I was dealing with a never ending UTI and I finally broke down and couldn’t hold back some tears. The way my girlfriend reacted was almost unbelievable. She didn’t console me in any way. Just stood there next to me with a weird look on her face. Sad to say we didn’t make it more than 6 months after that. Women won’t be with a man that can’t be the strong on 24/7 ….
and this is what is wrong with society, and why men lead the statistics in suicide. this outdated shit needs to change, the world is hard enough, do not need to make it harder.
@darkwulf2k it isn't outdated it's innate, it's natural, like an infant knowing it needs to suckle. As men we need to understand this gender role rather than fight. That said, women should do the same.
Always been this way and it will always be this way. It's nature.
And a society of vulnerable men is doomed to failure
"As a man our son is our horizon" That really hits man
Yes we feel like this -everyday it’s a challenge / war that no one knows about we just smile and do what we have got to do !!
Thanks for the wonderful reaction! God has our back as we walk this life. It’s a refreshing tune that resonates in a big way.
I relate to everything he says in this song and live alone because of it.
As a child I was not allowed to express my feelings and emotions and as a adult I went through hell in two different marriages and the second one I was only seconds away from taking my life when the Lord stepped in and delivered me from it and then from the narcissistic relationship.
To this day I can not even express my feelings and emotions to anyone without being harshly judged for them by men and women alike and it has always been used against me to tear me down.
GODSPEED
I know this Pain to hold Back your Emotions, hugs to you 🫂
My Dad worked three jobs when my brother, sister, and I were young. Days, nights, and weekends. He kept this up until I went into the seventh grade. After that, he worked sixty hours at one job when he became the boss. I never saw him get emotional until I was in my forties and my Mom was diagnosed with cancer. It shocked me to see him get upset because, up until that day, he was a machine. I'm now in my sixties and my Mom has beat cancer but sadly my Dad has passed. Now I do the same. I rarely show how upset I am until the sh!t hits the fan. Circle of life, as Dax said. Hard work, success, and responsibility have always been my focus, and I'm unsure if I'll ever know any other way to live. "To Be A Man" hits hard and has me thinking about my father and his sacrifices. Great song that I hope many men get to hear and like me think about.
This comment hit me the hardest of all I've seen!
I’m so glad some woman actually pay attention to our mental health
Absolutely hard hitting song I felt this song the moment I heard it and it hits me right in the feels everytime I hear it
Turning 42 this year and I can say up untill the late 2000's this is how all men were raised. I was raised in the 80's and 90's where the line was " ARE YOU CRYING??? I'LL GIVE YOU SOMETHING TO CRY ABOUT."
I have only seen my Dad cry twice in my Life. Once when his Father and his Wife died one month apart due to cancer, and when his Mother passed away in 2019.
Dax F'ing nailed this! Not many people are willing to touch this subject, but I'm glad he did. Thanks, Dax! And thank you, Shea, for doing this video!
That first scene with the kiddo running up to dad. It's something that rarely actually happens. It's what I feel is a man's deepest desire.
As a man, I wanna take the opportunity to say that in this song Dax breaks down word for word what it is like to be a man, we go through our life knowing that we are replaceable, knowing that our worth is measured by what we do, and when we can't do enough we hurt, but we can't show our hurt because we are relied on to be strong, we are not allowed to break even when we are broken, we have to keep it together, bottle it up, drink from another bottle of spirits, pack that shit down and move on, we are not loved unless we provide, and from the day we are born we are taught that our worth comes from what we can provide, I have been broken countless times, but every time I gotta keep my shit together, I can't stop because I have to keep going, and when I'm out of work I beat myself daily behind closed doors, just because at that point, I had lost my worth. And when he says about the unconditional love, and how when we find a woman we give our last name we feel the only reason they stay is for what we can provide, and honestly it's true, it feels like nobody cries for us until the day we are gone, and when we are gone it's too late to know it.
As a solo father of 3, this song hits hard to my heart. I struggle EVERY DAY to make ends meet. Barely make $16K/year because of a car wreck some time back. Make too much for SNAP, no programs for MEN to help them pay the bills, no men's shelters I could have gone to when I needed them, no support at all.
Seeing some women out there struggling with ONE child, and getting $100K from GoFundMe, but as a man, be lucky to get a pat on the back or a simple thank you.
I feel you brother, you're not alone. I fought and struggled as a single father. I watched female friends get all this help while I had none. I was looked down upon by the courts and to this day she has never paid a dime in child support and my son just turned 21. My son and I where living in my car for a short time and no shelter would help us. I fought and struggled with no government help, worked 20 years as a welder, went to school during that time and now do IT work for one of the largest auto parts company in the country. You're a great father and you keep fighting that struggle brother. I see you. We all see you. And we will see you after the fact as well. Don't give in.
All of that is completely unacceptable and it's not right. You with 3 children making 16k a year are definitely well below the income guidelines for snap benefits. Apply online
@@brianjones2891 I am owed over $40K so far in support. Courts will do NOTHING. Seen men go to PRISON for oweing about $1500.
@@Rhondas_Flippin_Life Have applied. Nope, no TANF and SNAP for a male! The kids got medical coverage though, just not me.
Hey man, I hope you know that I am praying for you. Keep your head up
Yes, yes, we do feel like this.
As a man and working with the Police I can say this hits home. I'm dealing with extreme depression. I keep coming to this song for hope and almost in a way it makes me feel like I'm not alone. I'm about to go through a divorce and have 2 step-kids and my own on the way. My wife is not there for me and is never there for me if i need someone to talk to. I wish more woman were like you. I've resulted to drinking just to keep the anxiety and depression away even though I know it's not the answer but it's the only thing that numbs the pain and gets rid of the side-effects of depression and anxiety. I'm hoping it doesn't kill me but it gets me through another day.
Coming from a father of 2 and a husband to a sick wife. I feel that with this song I can show what I'm feeling and not be judged. I just want to say thank you for this video.
So many things to say about this song… too many real things. Thank you Dax for putting this out. Between him and NF, my emotions are everywhere
As an army medic veteran…the last 20years of my life have been shit in society…given a 52/50 because CA wanted me disarmed. I’m seen as the enemy and I love everyone…every man hurts and every veteran needs a hug…
This is it. I live this song everyday. I've worked very hard my whole life, but a year ago that all came to a screeching halt. I have felt so useless, and completely unimportant. Luckily my wife is very understanding and my angel. But I still feel like this, and it's not ever going to end.
Thanks for reacting to it. But yes...this is EXACTLY how it has felt to be a man for the last 50 years. God bless you and God bless Dax.
This song hit me personally deeply. I lived this my entire life. My wife is my best friend but I still fight showing emotions due to my entire life having to shove them down.
This song speaks volumes to what it is like to be a man. I am thankful for Dax vulnerability to put this out because many of us do not have an outlet to express the way we feel.
Yes. THAT is how men feel.
There's not a lot that makes me cry, but I can't help but nearly break down when I hear this song. Men have always been expendable, but never more so than in our current society.
As a husband and father, I could not agree more with this song. We thank you for your support.
Every time that I play this song and put it on repeat, I always a tear or two. This song hits so hard.
I had my wife listen to this song, and the remix, and I don't think she even paid attention. My 9 year old daughter, on the other hand, she started crying and told me she loved me.
as a single father of 3 girls this song hits deep in my heart ,i have played it for my kids to help them understand the burdens a father carries in silence ,so when they get older they will help instead of expecting the man to provide everything
Perfect maybe one day we can fight the expectations that they want to leave us in and not think twice about but let everyone open their minds more then they are told to do from he she and them cause it's only what we provide and it really shouldnt be that way at all where is our females that grew up with us through rough times and know us even if you didn't grow with us don't get side tracked and grow with the real ones.. and don't be scared cause if them evil doers u know the evil doers that pull u aside and whisper in your ear "cause this guy did this and this and that" don't get side tracked ladies
I understand how you feel I'm single far of two girls and this song really hit home big time
For the longest time I didn’t feel that I had any right to cry or ask for help. I looked around as I was growing up and saw the men at church who never wavered and were always able to help and be dependable and I felt that I should follow their way of life completely. This also included my father. They were men that I couldn’t follow closely enough when it came to knowing how to do different things(build stuff, take care of business, etc.) I was young and I understood the fact that I hadn’t reached my full potential, but learning what my dad did when he was younger than I was and what he went through to reach his level of success made me think about the fact that I was a failure that couldn’t match up. It wasn’t neglect that formed this mindset, instead it was my own mind that started to dig my grave. I lived in that hole for about 8 1/2 years, while I was desperately trying to show that I could be his equal and live up to the expectations that I made up in my own mind. Perfection is a level that no human can possibly reach and yet I tried using that as my marker. I did well in school and sports(my dad said I did better than even he did), but I just couldn’t see it that way and whatever I did was never good enough to myself. This lasted from 5th grade until my second year of college. I was never good enough and I was the only person who ever said it. Of course this lead to thoughts of suicide because I knew then and there that I would never be able to reach where I wanted to be. I found that everything that I did was pointless and would eventually lead to nothing when I was gone, so I stopped caring. I didn’t go to therapy and I didn’t ask for help. I didn’t feel I deserved to cry even whilst I was alone because it was a waste on someone like me. After coming back from college after playing college ball for the first 2 years, I left the team. This brought me to my breaking point because that’s never the way anyone would want to leave a sport that they loved to play before. It got to the point where I stopped showing any emotions at all cause why would it matter what I did or showed? The point where my parents really started making me consider therapy was when my grandparents died(2 of them, 1 in each side of the family). I went to both caskets and didn’t show much as show a grimace, however, I didn’t realize this was my reaction. I was sad that they were gone, but couldn’t allow a failure like myself to express anything at the time. After I started going to therapy, I finally told someone what I’ve been doing to myself. It was also the first time in years where I shed a few tears. It felt like a weight was slowly getting lifted off me as I continued to go. I started joking around with my folks more and telling them what I thought. I’m much better than I was before and the only people who I have to thank for that are my parents. If you are feeling the same way, just know you aren’t alone and you are not a failure. You may fail many times and some may seem like the biggest screwups of your life, but just know that these small failures in life can lead you where you want to go. You just have to keep trying. If you read this, I hope you have a good day.
Facts. The only line I’d add to the song would be put ‘you dreams to the side but get blamed for not having new goals.’
You have to put away your dreams and win the real bags, but you still have to be ambitious and driven and lively all at the same time lol
The part that hits the hardest is when you finally open up and cry, she leaves you to confide in a man that doesn't