Parents Raised My Rent When My Golden Child Brother Moved In-So I Left, and Now They’re Desperate...

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  • @mr.jackson01
    @mr.jackson01 8 днів тому +91

    "Givers have to set limits because takers have none."

  • @Theroguelawl
    @Theroguelawl 6 днів тому +80

    I swear I've heard this story told a dozen different ways already.
    Golden child with kids who's a deadbeat making promises he can't keep
    Leech wife ofGC
    Blind parents playing over the top favoritism
    Hardworking OP doing everything against the odds.
    Then there's the phrases:
    "I thought things were finally calming down, but...."
    "Tearing the family apart"
    ""You're being selfish"
    "X/Y/Z called, but they sounded... different"
    "Weight off my chest/shoulders"
    "I don't know what the future holds"
    The AI uses the same lines in every story

    • @Arch_demon26
      @Arch_demon26 5 днів тому +3

      I know its really obvious its fake

    • @blender4464
      @blender4464 5 днів тому +13

      But they missed "maybe, just maybe" this time

    • @Arch_demon26
      @Arch_demon26 5 днів тому +1

      @blender4464 haha

    • @vintagetriplex3728
      @vintagetriplex3728 5 днів тому +6

      It's always the same phrases all the time.
      We are family
      Don't you care about your family?
      Family comes first !

    • @lancerevell5979
      @lancerevell5979 5 днів тому +6

      How about the war cry of the Entitled Parent.... "After all we've done for you!" 😅

  • @adikurnia5364
    @adikurnia5364 6 днів тому +19

    Once you Start Charge your Child a Rent, they Stop being your Family, now They are your Tenant

  • @janenc8040
    @janenc8040 9 днів тому +53

    Put an f***ing lock on your door. You pay rent. So how did family find out about the savings!?

    • @janenc8040
      @janenc8040 9 днів тому +4

      So how did family find out about the savings!?

    • @RedneckRealist
      @RedneckRealist 9 днів тому

      @@janenc8040 you know how tweakers can smell valuables and metal and what not? Well, thieves can smell money.

    • @NessaEllenesse
      @NessaEllenesse 6 днів тому +5

      OP made the mistake of telling them he was saving.

    • @reginadoggett9921
      @reginadoggett9921 5 годин тому

      The mother probably read his mail. Bank statements telling how much he has. It's his mother's fault for not making the brother with the family pay for his share. Because if someone is paying rent for a room from his parents, then he should be entitled to the whole room. Also, as it had been stated already once you force a child to pay rent, the child becomes a tenant. The parents become his landlords.

    • @janenc8040
      @janenc8040 Годину тому

      @ Fair enough. I haven’t received a paper bank statement in many years.

  • @danielrobles3668
    @danielrobles3668 6 днів тому +15

    Tell your brother that all that time that he's spending harassing you he can spend it looking for work

  • @tonygallegos6164
    @tonygallegos6164 9 днів тому +63

    Your stories are becoming to repetitive. You can almost say the next line before reading it. I don't believe that your finding these stories but there all the same. When you hear his eyes didn't quite reach their face, that the breeze hitting you when you go out the door, it's almost time to look elsewhere, your stories have been to predictable.

    • @Lfclfclfclfcpnepnepne5
      @Lfclfclfclfcpnepnepne5 8 днів тому

      They are AI generated, none of these story’s are true everyone

    • @terramarini6880
      @terramarini6880 5 днів тому +13

      So when you starting your own channel? Makes more sense than telling someone else how to run theirs. You are in his kitchen, if you don't like what he's cooking you are free to go find something more to your taste elsewhere.

    • @Peeter-z7o
      @Peeter-z7o 5 днів тому +1

      Yup.

    • @hectormarquez2402
      @hectormarquez2402 5 днів тому

      ​@@terramarini6880yet he's wondering why his channel is slowing down and people are telling him yet he's doing nothing

    • @hobisshine
      @hobisshine 5 днів тому

      @@terramarini6880🤡

  • @toddharms4740
    @toddharms4740 9 днів тому +18

    One would think parents would be supportive of a child leaving the home to live on their own. I mean, that’s what s supposed to happen isn’t it?

    • @todavayne7549
      @todavayne7549 3 дні тому

      Not if they are using said child as a crutch to enable the irresponsible golden child.

  • @Letha-AnnCooper
    @Letha-AnnCooper 9 днів тому +12

    Grow a shiny backbone honey nobody likes conflict. Everyone would prefer things were smooth going get that shiny backbone. Stand up to this garbage move out. Let your brother support your parents. Sometimes being selfish is the right thing to do. You shouldn’t have to support your freeloading, brother his kids and your parents.

  • @LoriSF124
    @LoriSF124 6 годин тому

    I’m loving them. I new to the stories.

  • @katsnboots4709
    @katsnboots4709 4 дні тому +1

    Thank you for yiu tike and effort. It is appreciated. ❤

  • @LODintheshadows
    @LODintheshadows 5 днів тому +3

    Dad: what you moved out and became independent? You need to grow up.
    Perhaps it's his parents that need to grown up and teach op brother some responsibilities?

    • @lancerevell5979
      @lancerevell5979 5 днів тому

      Moving out is literally the definition of being "grown up"! 😮

  • @finalfantasylord1
    @finalfantasylord1 2 дні тому +1

    A fine "do it for Dan" type story even when their cash cow moved out and gave damn good reason for it, they still acted like Ryan doesn't need to pull his weight despite the fact he's a leech to his very core.

  • @matthewseller3711
    @matthewseller3711 2 дні тому

    did the right thing when my dad put my rent up to half my income (I wasn't working and I'm not allowed to anymore.) Me and my brother moved out. We didn't have Peace quiet and privacy with my parents and little sister. It was the best thing for us to do. Things have changed now. I moved back to live with my parents (I couldn't stand my brother's bird.) But I found someone (I never thought would happen.) Got engaged and got married (And no one thought that would ever happen to me either.) and now live a happy life in Leeds

  • @MizzShortai
    @MizzShortai 5 днів тому +3

    Lmao id have replied to Ryan "thats rich coming from the man with a family he cant support and mooches off other people for support instead of being a man and being self sufficient."

  • @thedivinegoddess2001
    @thedivinegoddess2001 5 днів тому

    I can relate to this story so much! My “family” did the same thing with me! And leaving was the absolute best thing I could do ❤ God speed!

  • @deamonflowne9694
    @deamonflowne9694 5 днів тому +1

    Congrats on 20k subs

  • @princessmarlena1359
    @princessmarlena1359 8 днів тому +6

    Do it for -Dan- Ryan!

    • @MsIndigoNY2
      @MsIndigoNY2 6 днів тому +1

      Hey tell how you put that line through the name. Can it be done on a phone? Thank you

    • @Bendy_from_the_ink_machine
      @Bendy_from_the_ink_machine 5 днів тому +1

      Hello

    • @princessmarlena1359
      @princessmarlena1359 5 днів тому

      @@MsIndigoNY2 Oh hi! Sorry, just found this. Yes it can be done on a phone. You need to use the - on either side of the first and last letter of the phrase or word with want to put the line through. Be sure not to have a space between the - and the letters. And don’t let any characters touch the outside of the lines.

    • @princessmarlena1359
      @princessmarlena1359 5 днів тому

      @@Bendy_from_the_ink_machine Hi!

  • @christinel.purnell5859
    @christinel.purnell5859 6 днів тому +9

    These stories are just rewrites of other stories, maybe that's what your channel isn't doing as well.

  • @vidaapplebee8388
    @vidaapplebee8388 5 днів тому +2

    Humanity is doomed if all of these op' s don't grow a spine!!

  • @straycat1674
    @straycat1674 6 днів тому +2

    Something tells me that eventually, probably sooner than later, and incredibly expensive catastrophe is going to happen that would drain him drive every bit of his money and he’s gonna face bags and please and demands of giving everything he has to cover somebody’s ass. Be at his parents or his sibling, and they are exactly alike and will never stop. That’s why they radiate toward him, because he’s different he’s not like the parents. He will eventually have to choose between a future worth having and a family that will take him of everything he has have to give.

  • @LODintheshadows
    @LODintheshadows 5 днів тому +2

    If they don't know how they are going to make it without op, then maybe they should have thought of that before they pushed them to leaving. Maybe say, we will lower your rend by 50 and Ryan and wife can cover the slack, also this is your space and you are entitled to it. Crazy how simple that would be...

  • @dorothyfoust
    @dorothyfoust 8 днів тому +2

    brother and Sil need to get jobs

  • @missromiea
    @missromiea 9 днів тому +12

    I would have just moved out too.

    • @richarddawson2919
      @richarddawson2919 8 днів тому +1

      I was in a similar situation at that age and did the same thing. Told Mom I was moving out in 3 days, but glad I didn't have as much drama as op did.

    • @MsIndigoNY2
      @MsIndigoNY2 6 днів тому

      Fo sho

  • @capjacksparrow12
    @capjacksparrow12 4 дні тому

    Dude sounds like his whole family is Dominic Torreto.

  • @maxyroni_and_cheese
    @maxyroni_and_cheese 4 дні тому

    op: “Ryan and his family live here for FREE” also op: “guess how much Ryan pays”

  • @double-you5130
    @double-you5130 8 днів тому +3

    go no contact with these losers. all you are is an atm to them.

  • @CaAnPeSe4ever
    @CaAnPeSe4ever 5 днів тому

    I'm not going to set myself on fire to keep you warm. Wash, rinse, spin, repeat!

  • @annnichols3091
    @annnichols3091 6 днів тому +2

    Get a job, Ryan!

  • @MARTEY-t2i
    @MARTEY-t2i 5 днів тому +1

    ITS THAT WEAK NONE Confrontational Attitude that makes it easy for them to pick on you.GROW A BACKBONE AND DO FOR YOU

  • @TheIronwil
    @TheIronwil День тому

    I’d ask the parents why the “family is everything” mantra only seems to work in one direction. Why does OP have to pay rent, and then INCREASED rent, to cover their golden child’s lack of contribution? And they had serious gall, to try putting a baby bed in the room OP was paying rent for. I’d have hoped out of that situation so fast, all I’d leave is an after-image. But seriously, ask them when the golden child has EVER sacrificed for OP. Why the obligation of family only seems to matter when they’re taking from OP.

  • @BigBlessed9135
    @BigBlessed9135 8 днів тому +1

    My response to that mom would be. I have sacrificed more for Ryan. Then he is ever considered sacrificing for me. Me and you have sacrificed more for Ryan than you have for me. You're even willing to sacrifice our relationship and ryan has to repay nothing. I have been repaying you for years while Ryan chose to have children. be mad at ryan and his children for not being able to provide for you and be grateful that i've done it this long.

  • @Kirisakishinji
    @Kirisakishinji 8 днів тому +2

    1 sub I really like how you try to put some emotion when reading the story unlike most which use kinda robotic ai voice over

    • @starlaraxan
      @starlaraxan 5 днів тому

      i would put money on it being an AI voice over, considering how each update is "one point" or "two point zero" instead of what a normal person would do and just say "update one" or "update two"

  • @staceyearle2817
    @staceyearle2817 9 днів тому +7

    Not one time did they tell the brother to GET A REAL JOB 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @pwstraw938
    @pwstraw938 9 днів тому +2

    IF YOU NEVER TELL FAMILY. NO 🤬 EVER NOW AND THEM YOULL REGREAT IT ,THELL SEE YOU AS WEAK AND THERE TO USE AS THEY NEED.. FACT😉👍

  • @CharlesJohnson-y3r
    @CharlesJohnson-y3r 9 днів тому +2

    I can't understand people like this: moochers. And you with your victimhood.

  • @philbaker4155
    @philbaker4155 5 днів тому +2

    Block numbers ffs

  • @MatthewRatburg
    @MatthewRatburg 5 днів тому +1

    To Ryan. GET A JOB!!! J! O! B! JOB!

  • @naptime1900
    @naptime1900 8 днів тому +1

    Mom tell Ryan to get a job to help or kick him out.

  • @rebeccafowles-k9z
    @rebeccafowles-k9z 5 днів тому +1

    Op should tell his brother get job losers

  • @darylgreenway8137
    @darylgreenway8137 5 днів тому

    It's the parents job. It's not their job to take care of their brother.

  • @philbaker4155
    @philbaker4155 5 днів тому

    Pack your things and walk away easy

  • @drumercado9717
    @drumercado9717 2 дні тому +1

    waste of time watching this.. circles and circles

  • @shaundanaher8648
    @shaundanaher8648 4 дні тому

    this story is a repeat of Sister.s kids to Brothers kids

  • @leondillon8723
    @leondillon8723 5 днів тому

    A repeat. In the other video I suggested that it be titled "Ryan's Hopeless". Looks like that Alex never learned to lock a door. There was no need for him to "flip his wig" over the wall writings. Not his wall to repaint. Alex "grew up" when he hauled his freight.

  • @danielrobles3668
    @danielrobles3668 6 днів тому +1

    This is ridiculous so there's like six people living in the house in one paycheck

  • @naptime1900
    @naptime1900 8 днів тому +1

    Change the bank for your savings lock your credit.

  • @galevozar7727
    @galevozar7727 5 днів тому +2

    Hate the background.

  • @Elleffante
    @Elleffante 8 днів тому +1

    Onward and Upward. 😊

  • @aidanthornton173
    @aidanthornton173 6 днів тому +2

    *How did they know about OP's savings?*

    • @terramarini6880
      @terramarini6880 5 днів тому

      SIL was snooping through his desk, logical to conclude she found his bank book or some statements and started making plans for what to spend it on.

  • @straycat1674
    @straycat1674 6 днів тому

    Unfortunately, families like this are parasitic. They will turn on each other in a heartbeat. They will bleed whoever is doing the best dry until there’s nothing left to take. And then everything will always be someone else’s fault. There is no getting ahead in life with people like this. The brother is just like his parents. That’s why they enable him. Because he is like them. They will take and take and take and as long as it’s going great, they’ll be some semblance of peace. And they treat the other son the way they do because they can tell he’s not like them. So by supporting him having his back instead of the brothers, That would potentially bring the light the truth of who they are and what they’ve done. And you can’t have that!

  • @88RustyS
    @88RustyS 4 дні тому

    Sincerely, I never understood families like this. Oh, don't you want to talk about brother not paying rent? Frustrated and walked away? Well, follow them and demand answers, lol. Who do they think they are exactly? " Oh, I don't want to talk about this, family, helps family" your response should be "well to bad for family, answer my damn question"

  • @richardaragon1391
    @richardaragon1391 День тому

    Text Tim this statement. It's great to be needed but it sucks to be used. And we moved way pass being used into straight up scheming

  • @GlennSasser
    @GlennSasser 6 днів тому

    Brother going to make it large with his scheme to tell parents he is going to buy them a mansion. So are the moving from a singlewide trailer to a doublewide?

  • @paulwilliams5208
    @paulwilliams5208 5 днів тому

    I thought
    those who TAKE are the "selfish"
    not those who GIVE

    • @lancerevell5979
      @lancerevell5979 5 днів тому

      The Entitled always claim someone is "selfish" for not kowtowing to them. 😮

  • @basslover10
    @basslover10 День тому

    It gets annoying how repetitive these stories get. They say the same thing 4-5 times before moving the story along

  • @toniirion5225
    @toniirion5225 9 днів тому +2

    If you're bringing good stories you might want to get one that hasn't already been told. I heard this one about 2 weeks ago and I mean it's almost word for word.

  • @Sweetwitchhazel
    @Sweetwitchhazel 5 днів тому

    Are all families like this in America. Since when is it always ' take one for the family '.

    • @lancerevell5979
      @lancerevell5979 5 днів тому

      No, not at all. A few times in my life, I have been just separated from military service (twice), or between jobs, and stayed with my parents until I saved enough money to get a new place of my own. No asking for rent. I did help with groceries. I now own my old family home we've been in since 1964. Inherited from my late parents. 😊

  • @madeonpluto
    @madeonpluto 9 годин тому

    I like to hear redditors comments

  • @susanprather1021
    @susanprather1021 5 днів тому

    Like the content, not the graphics!

  • @Thaddius0
    @Thaddius0 6 днів тому

    its funny how life changes when you grow a spine. it takes a few years but the script eventually gets flipped

  • @queenrhubarb1676
    @queenrhubarb1676 2 дні тому

    Does OP not know what a lock is?

  • @DonnaStevens-uo9vp
    @DonnaStevens-uo9vp 5 днів тому

    It is totally unfair , but you Know your Mom and Dad aren’t going to do anything! No way I would pay more! Leave , get a dorm room , get roommates , just get out! Ryan is never going to do anything!

  • @tparkerparker6877
    @tparkerparker6877 6 днів тому

    Ryan don't know he has kids to take care of

  • @darkfan4706
    @darkfan4706 5 днів тому

    May i please ask and get an answer to, who keeps censoring my posts? I never make any ugly comments against characters WHO AREN'T ABUSERS and yet i keep having posts removed or getting suspended. Who is responsible for my censorship? Is it the channel, or actual youtube which is controlled by the ccp?

  • @djericjames
    @djericjames 9 днів тому +1

    8:40 - Broken audio section.

  • @WilliamTindall-q9o
    @WilliamTindall-q9o 5 днів тому

    He keeps talking about packing a little at a time, but I can't help but think, ok just how much staff does this dud have.

  • @FunkyHorror1
    @FunkyHorror1 6 днів тому

    I really like your stories but if you want more subscribers you got to put more human into the editing and diversity of story content because the AI is making mistakes and sounding like a broken record. I really hope this helps because i love these righteous stories. I dont get them anywhere else 😊

  • @amandagish5976
    @amandagish5976 5 днів тому

    These visuals are awful. Bouncing and crazy colors.

  • @stephaniestreeter7407
    @stephaniestreeter7407 6 днів тому

    Completely unfair move find a place to share you shouldn't be footing the bill

  • @kategallagher5610
    @kategallagher5610 5 днів тому

    i did subscribe

  • @yuzeles
    @yuzeles День тому

    well i would have blocked everyone after you moved in and told them you left, but you dont have the experience for that, but you should had enought exp to hand on your dad when he said your bro was in a though spot.
    its to leave kids out there in such places, but luck is also part of life

  • @JLNotHere
    @JLNotHere 8 днів тому

    A bunch of videos went private. Posted today what's going on?

  • @VictoriaPeterson-f2n
    @VictoriaPeterson-f2n 7 днів тому

    All these stories are all the same it seems. Just the names change.

  • @Fv4005conway
    @Fv4005conway 8 днів тому

    Don't make editing mistakes and don't repeat stories

  • @DCD762
    @DCD762 8 днів тому +1

    I already advised you and told you why the subs stop watching.
    Don't do repeats inside the same story

  • @DaphneDutton
    @DaphneDutton 4 дні тому

    Background is unbearable I will not watch. Story sounds ok at beginning.

  • @edtrine8692
    @edtrine8692 6 днів тому

    Jake from State Farm!

  • @dylanhunt4303
    @dylanhunt4303 7 днів тому

    These made up stories make less and less sense. They all use the same specific language phrases like: "whirlwind" of emotion and many others

  • @gostavoadolfos2023
    @gostavoadolfos2023 6 днів тому

    You will get more support of you stop sharing fake stories. Thus is a spin off of 2 classics : the camper borther and care giver sister.😅

  • @Addictedtocollecting01
    @Addictedtocollecting01 4 дні тому

    Don't use AI voice

  • @stephaniestreeter7407
    @stephaniestreeter7407 6 днів тому

    Your all not in it together they can pay for food electricity other stuff get out he is lazy his wife is lazy quit popping out babies

  • @imlaughing
    @imlaughing 6 днів тому

    If your channel is struggling, maybe, just maybe, tell a story without the same old phrases overused in every story. Listening to the story drag on and on is like a pun@h to the gut. The odd editing with overlapping voice is tearing the family apart.

  • @FranciscoQuinonez-tb7wv
    @FranciscoQuinonez-tb7wv 4 дні тому

    🤷🏽‍♂️

  • @layha1064
    @layha1064 6 днів тому

    The subscription is dropping because the stories are all the same. The AI trigger words keep giving it way. It's time to change up the content.

  • @aidoist
    @aidoist 4 дні тому

    This is way too repetitive, same phrases said all over, could easily be 5min shorter from just that alone

  • @IAmRacc
    @IAmRacc 5 днів тому

    ??? bro this is fake

  • @davidmohr4606
    @davidmohr4606 5 днів тому

    Maybe get rid of the distracting background in you videos...

  • @kerryday
    @kerryday 9 днів тому

    😊

  • @lowkeytheoneandonly
    @lowkeytheoneandonly 3 дні тому

    Stop with the dizzying jumping crap and have some real gameplay from real games and maybe people would watch more. I know that's why I've slowed down on your vids.

  • @ginaberntgen5554
    @ginaberntgen5554 6 днів тому +1

    Please everyone subscribe!!! And like!! I've been a member for a long time!! And the channel just gets better and better!! Thank you for all the hard work you do!! Your channel has become a part of my daily routine!!

    • @Anusdemon
      @Anusdemon 6 днів тому

      Shut up dumbass

    • @Anusdemon
      @Anusdemon 6 днів тому

      This channel deserves its failure

  • @PriyamMahadik
    @PriyamMahadik 9 днів тому +1

    First 😎😎

    • @Fyra-d1u
      @Fyra-d1u  9 днів тому +1

      First? Looks like you’ve unlocked the “Speed Commenter” achievement! 🎉

  • @heisenberg3505
    @heisenberg3505 4 дні тому

    Mostly leeches in these stories