Yog kawg os sister aws yus nyob yus kaj siab tshaj os..nyob lub neej zoo li koj ob lub ko ces yeej lwj siab nyob ntau ntshe yuav vwm tseem raug mus nyob tsev vwm os es hlub yus tus kheej ua ntej nrhiav kev kaj siab..khwv nyiaj mus ncig ntuj xwb tiag..
Yog kawg cov niag poj laib uas yees loj loj noj npaum cas los noj tsis txaus li ces nyob ib leeg zoo dua vim yus daim nqaij plees ua rau yus nrog ib leeg nyob yuav noj tsis paub txaus li ces yuav ua teeb meem ua ntu zus qee zaum tseem yuav txog qhov ploj qhov tuag los kuj yuav muaj li ntag ov
Sister you can make it without a loser man. I went thru the same with my ex husband. He was addicted to chicken, fishing n he was an abuser. I finally got the courage to leave after 20 years with my 5 kids. I took cared of ally kids myself with no child support. My kids all big now and most of them are straight A's. I haven't found a good man yet so I'm just raising my kids n working hard. Don't ever rely on a man. Us hmong women need to support each other and be more independent. Stop letting these hmong men walk all over us. You already made that first step n freed yourself from your ex husbands, now continue to live life and love yourself. A man cannot make you happy unless you know how to love yourself.
Congratulations sister. Children are a mom's everything. A man can always be replaced, as many time as we wish but not likely a woman's goal in life. Raising successful children is the best accomplishment ever!
I know I feel bad and emotionally every time I listen to all our sisters' sad stories, I can't stand for it because our sister, so weakness is hmong Man El cheater
Nej cov poj nrauj nco ntsoov tias yog nej muaj txog 4,5 tus me nyuam rov sauv lawm ces nrhiav txiv nyuaj muaj tus xav siv nej xwb tsis xav yuav nej vim luag hlub tsis taus nej cov me nyuam luag ntshai nej cov me nyuam vim tsis yog luag yug!
For all the women out there who think they don't need a man just because they had been mistreated or been with useless bums. Please look at yourself first. Maybe, just maybe it's your choice of men. There are a lot of good man out there but you either choose to ignore them or they don't look your direction because you have nothing to offer them.
Txhob tu siab os koj txiv ko Lis yeej Yog ib tug txiv dev nyob Los yeej tsus ntxiv dab tsi txhob txhaw txiv kav tsij hlub koj cov kids maj2 mam nrhiav thiaj tau tus zoo Yog koj muab tshaw txiv dhau ces koj yuav yuam kev os
Thanks for your advice okay before getting a divorce go see your luck first is it good to divorce your spouse uf no then dang just hold him or her tight
There are good men out there. You can start dating other races than Hmong men. Hmong men will never love your children. If he does, then his side of the family will not accept them. Hmong life is complicated. That's why focus on your health, happiness, and children.
Yes, don’t limit yourself to just Hmong men.. (unless you only speak Hmong) 🤷🏻♀️ I say open up to other races too.. there’s so many more men out there that will take better care of you..
Yes, u dont need a man to be happy. Ua friend noj fawm xwb zoo dua. Love & live for urself & ur children. Dont regret about tossing ur ex to the curb. The right person will come along, it just takes time.
The lesson here is, don’t ever depend on a man! Be your own parent to your kids, at the end of the day it’s up to you to be happy and do your best as a mom to them. These childish, selfish and immature men will never grow up! They take you for granted and only abuse you, use you to their advantage. You gotta love yourself first and put your kids first. Hope you learn this lesson and be stronger and wiser.
My MiL has been single after her and my fil divorced back in Thailand to come to US since he had a 2nd wife and she has stayed single since…that’s been over 30 something years and she has been living her life…independently and loving it. She said after the torture and torment my fil put her through, she don’t want no more men…just her, her kids and God. She live off her money, drive her own car, do her own thing.
These ads are quite frustrating. They need to be updated. Now is May already not March. Eau claire is not a state… Menominee is not a state. And you will never save your heating bill by 50%. Not everyone will qualify.
Thanks for sharing. Sister, tsis hais txiv neej los poj niam, yog ua neeg nyob yog liam npaum ntawv lawm ces zoo rau qhov koj muab nrauj. Hope our people take your story for consideration.
Proud of you sister! Your kids should be the most important beings to you. You shouldn’t have to be in a situation that you don’t feel is healthy for you and your kids. But next time, please really get to know a guy before marrying them. I’m a married woman with kids. Have you thought about dating outside of Hmong men? Perhaps other men are better and will be more accepting of your children. I just know that in the Hmong culture, most men aren’t accepting of children that aren’t theirs. I’m sure you will find the right one in the near future. You just have to have options and get to know someone and see if your values and life goals align. Words are cheap so look at their actions.
Txhob tu siab lub neej zaum 2 g zoo ces nrauj dua los nyb hlub yus tej menyuam dua xwb mas koj tseem nyb los yeej g tsav qhov twg tuaj g zoo que twg tuaj o ntxov mus ntxov g mob hlwb o ua tsawg tom poj nrauj los ua li los mas g yg yus xwb o
Sis there will be better days. These Hmong men aint worth s*it. You remarried too soon. Take your time and enjoy yourself by yourself first. Lawn to be beautiful again inside so it can reflect your outside. Life is what you make it. One door close the other opens, seek and you shall find. Put God in your life and things will fall into place. Good luck
No joke. If you never had a man that does any of the five, -cheater, chicken crazy, fisherman, gambler or abuser. Never judge a woman for being divorce. Most Hmong woman tolerate and stay for the kids until they can’t anymore. Unfortunately I have all of the five and I told my husband that I’m waiting for a good husband. That day May only happen when he’s old and gray and can’t go anywhere anymore. Sad. 😢
Don't need a man to stay alive. You could have do your homework and ask around about him and his history before marrying him. You can't blame him because he needs a shelter and you want a man😢
Cov niag txiv tham hluas nkauj ces yus ua mob nyob hauv lub kitchen nqaij twb tsis tau siab nws twb mus exercise plaub tsib lwm mis hu hluas nkauj xwb hos
Koob Haum Pojniam ces lawv ua kom yus lub neej puas xwb tiag. Qhov twg muaj Koos Haum Pojniam ib yam li Minesota ces muaj 10 phav tus pojnrauj rau sauv xwb ov. No wonder Minesota known as the state of 10 thousand lakes and more than 10 divorced Hmong women. Women organization will only ruin your marriage life.
Nyob zoo os niam ntsuab teev aw kuv xav muab kuv lub neej lwj siab rau koj piav ua ib zaj dab neeg thiab os vim tau lub neej lwj siab dhau lm tus2 siab li os
No… txhob piav lawm os.. yog koj lub neeg lwm siab npaum li koj hais ces txhob ub lawm.. yog koj piav tas los koj tseem yuav nyob ub ntxim ces tsis tas yuav piav li… vim pes lam mploog cov dab neeg uas tsis txawj zog lawm.. mploog mus mploog los, uas rau pes ruam tas li lawm..
I feel you too! Your not alone. Peace of mind is better than a toxic man 😢❤😮🎉 It’s so peaceful being alone! 😢 Don’t you hate it when their family; sisters don’t lecture him & they still tell you it’s fine & you need to be a patient! Also, they don’t appreciate anything you do! Means nobody is genuine enough to let you know he’s a “LOSER.” These men don’t want the kids, they just want the women, PERIODT! Hmong men can’t do much then to complain their needs when it comes to you & your kids! They don’t need a wife, they need their mom!! Nobody will never understand this pain!!! Very hard and sad & that’s when you realize it’s not worth it no more!!!😢❤😮
Advise to all the ladies who decide on divorce, first thing you need to say to yourself is not telling yourself that you will find better but it's the question of asking on self "can I accept the fact that I will be single for the rest of my life?" If I had married your second husband and he had said all that sh1t about my kids to me, he's out the door. He's the loser because he's the one that moved in with you. A grown man will move you in with him not the other way around.
Keep busy get up and go places, this is how you survive loneliness. Learn to live alone please husband can die husband can cheat and husband can stop caring for you….
When you get remarried, your kids are your own priority, not your new husband. In other words, love your kids more, they’ll be okay even if the new husband doesn’t love them.
Tus viv ncaus aw tsis txhob ntshaw txiv thiab ma yus tus txiv yus twb uv tsis taus lawm es yus tseem yuav mu uv tus tus thiab ces xum uv tus qub xwb os yog ua poj nrauj tseem yuav los uv niag yawg nrauj tsis license tsav tsheb thiab na nrauj tag lawm nyob twj ywm os
If he chicken fight and know what is propriety in life then fine, but no he over use his hobby. For example when you gave birth. He wasn't even there and was even rushing you on pickup.
Tu txiv eś cem yus tej me nyuam xyob txhiaj es ua cas nws ho tsis saib nws tu kheej ne yog nws tsis xyob txiaj ua cas ua hauj lwm them nws cov nqi qaub twb tsis muaj xyob ces txawm yog nws mas yus hmoov tas lawm thiaj mus yuav tau niag txiv xyob Txhiaj cov niag txiv deb ua twb tsis muaj chaw nyob ces yog tib co txiv noj mov hauv tshawj xwb tsum kiag nawb cov viv ncaus tsis muaj txiv yeej tsis tuag li os .
I don’t get these women. Why they have to uv and encourage other women to “uv” (tolerate) an unhappy and toxic marriage/life? Wouldn’t it the best to get out of that toxic/unhappy/unhealthy life, even that means you won’t marry another dude again? When you regret leaving toxicity, abuse, and trauma then that’s just messed up.
Your decision on your first husband is correct. Stop regretting your decision and thinking about your past. Live for the present and work on yourself and kids. Stop finding a new man until you’re ready and there’s always other race than Hmong men to marry!
Idk about anyone but I’m glad to be divorce and found a better man in my life.. 🤷🏻♀️ I’ve locked myself in the house for a good 9 years but the wait is worth it at the end. I never knew there’s better man out there. All I have to say is ,” don’t rush , be patient and you will find the right man!”
Kuv tuaj tìm nplog tuaj kuv twb muaj ob tug me nyuam lawm Kuv tu txiv g quav dab g tab si quav beer yu yug me nyuam lo tseem khiav mu hậu beer yeej g tu yu li yu phai plab thiab ma sab sawv g tau lo luag twb g pab yu tu me nyuam li ma sab yu thiab chim tshaj plaw yu txib luag ma luag tseem tia luag sab tshaj yu ce luag mu luag xwb ma tu siab lo tu chim lo chim lub neej no tàu ib tug txiv tsis tsheej haj ua dog ua dig ma laj ua neej tshaj plaw Tom ntej no ce ntshe kuv ib zaj yog zaj yuav muab rau koj hai thiab vim chim đạu thiab tu siab đâu lawm
Txiv neej CES yeej tsis muaj Tus zoo Tias yuav tsis ua ib yam li os, tsis tso qaib sib ncaws CES kav maum , xab tsheb, txiv coj xai ,quav txiaj , quav npas los muaj tag li nawb, zoo li kuv Tus CES kuv ruam2 es kuv Twb uav2 kab lab laus tas li no thaum NWS lub zog nraug lawm CES NWS thiaj yuav nyob taus xwb os sister aw 😢😢
Stop regretting that first ex-husband because he wasn’t a man. You would still be miserable if you stay and put up with him. You should focus on bettering your life and your children’s. If I went through 2 husbands like yours, I would be so sick of men. Learn to be independent.
Sister aw, all these losers are yawg nrauj for a reason…don’t be so desperate for them. They were not good to begin with, that’s y their wife left them. Love urself & ur kids. We women can live without a man, if he’s gonna cheat & lie. I’d choose a widower over a yawg nrauj any day
Lawv os lawv aw…cas ib qho ob qho los nej pheej mus hais nej lub neej qhia rau nej niag txiv tsev neeg thiab cov kwv tij na? Lawv tus neeg lub qe tsw lwj npaum twg los lawv yeej pos ntswg thiab qhuas kom koj nyob ua qhev. Ntawm kuv tus kheej mas kuv tsis qhia li nawb. Yog kuv tseem uv taus ces uv xwb. Uv txog thaum uv tsis tau lawm ces lawb txhua yam pov thoob khib nyiab xwb.
Ib tug neeg xav ua neej zoo ces tsis thas yuav cia lwm tus hais hais es mam paub. Peb tsis yog me nyuam yaus. Tsawg tus mas tej nkauj muam, kwv tij, niam txiv thiaj pab yus. Coob tus mas lawv tsuas muaj tuaj lawv tus neeg sab xwb. Txawm lawv yeej paub zoo zoo tias lawv niag neeg liam liam tsis tsheej haj los lawv yeej kws lawv tus neeg. Koj yeem mus qhia lawv ces lawv yeem ntxub koj. Lawv yeem tias koj phem es lawv tus neeg thiaj tsis xav nrog koj ua neeg. So..Yus xav rau yus tus kheej tias seb yus uv puas taus. Uv tsis taus ces lawb xwb. Txawm yuav ua poj nrauj pes tsawg zaus los zoo dua li yus uv nyob es luag tsim yus.
U need to understand that u divorced ur ex for a reason…therefore, not settling for LOSERS. Set ur standards and expectations higher. Make ur title worth moving forward. Stop being vulnerable too. Aim for what makes u happy. U can tolerate ur significant other…but do have a limit where they cannot cross u anymore. If u dont know how to choose ur man wisely…just open ur legs when u need it but dont settle and please a man period…be heartless.
Whether u divorced ur first husband or not, you will have lifetime of regret. If u didn't meet anyone good jus go. Do not allow these losers to take advantage of you.
He didn’t pay child support and then also didn’t pay your dowry…..red flag. Don’t expect him to love your kids if he can’t love his own. Love yourself.
Wow this lady sure have to much regret for her xhusband. Lady, when you decide to leave your husband you should never have any regrets period!! Idk how you are as a single woman but I used to be divorcee too and never in any of my relationships a guy would ask about my kids first like that. You need to remember that when a guy ask you about your children and say all kinds of things about them than they need to go don’t need to talk to them, date them, or even marry them. They are useless. Your children comes first who cares about those guys. If any guy love you they will love your children. You’re dating the wrong ppl in your life lady.
Sister, stop comparing your present life with your old life. The reason why your sis in laws said that to you is because you keep comparing your life to the previous one. Its better to be alone than to be unhappy!!!! You are your own sadness…. That means you are responsible for making yourself #1 as well. Whenever i am really mad at my husband, I remember how crazy I am to him. Lol.. only him can handle my crazy and I his crazy.. like sin bad said, “ we get each others crazy”. Lol
Txhob tu siab tag tag rau koj lub neej no os mog. Twb vim yog koj tsis ua zoo saib xwb tseem muaj tus zoo zoo uas nws yeej npaj siab yuav ua lub neej tiag tiag. 99.9 yeej lawv yeej tsis xav hlub lwm tus cov me nyuam nawb mog. Peb cov hmoob meskas ntawm no twb saib saib hmoob nplog tej me nyuam txom nyem. Es nim lav lav xa nyiaj mus hlub tej tib neeg txom nyem tub sab tsis muaj niam txiv hlub nyob nplog teb ne rau qhov twg lawm. Kuv hais kuv tus kheej yeej muaj ib co me nyuam tsis sawm hlub tsis sawm qhia, ua cas kuv hais li no vim yus qhia nws tsis nyiam mloog kawm khaw. Ho yeej muaj ib co mas lawv nyiam mloog kawm thiab qhia, mloog lus vim tsis muaj tus cob qhia xwb. Kuv paub kawg os txoj kev txij nkawm es sib hlub thiab tsis sib hlub na tus mi sister aw txhob tu siab mog tsis tau ncaj tus zoo xwb mog.
Tos kj khub xim los tim kj ne,nws nyiam qaib xwb na,kv tus mas yug qhib heev kawg los kv nrg nyiam qaib li tabsi thaum kawg nws yuav niam mos ab los yus tseem uv txg kiag qhov tsi zoo mas li nrauj li peb no mas tsi khub xim kiag li lm nawb.neauj tag mas thj li kaj siab os.vim kj tsi tau paub tus txiv tham hluas nkauj os nb es ntshe hnub no kj thj li paub tias tus nyiam qaib thb tus nyiam hluas nkauj zoo li cas kj mas li paub os.vim kj tsi uv nev.
We live in America and who needs losers like your 2 ex- husbands i your life. Not sure why you let people tortured and telling you to “Ua siab ntev”. If you keep on Ua siab ntev then you are going to be the one that suffering. Love yourself and your children and be free because life is too short to be not happy.
Ua dab tsi los txaum nej cov pojniam tag nrho li os .. Nothing can make a woman happy. 😂 Even a successful man, working hard, 200K a year. Women will complain that he works too much and is not spending time with her. I think we just stay single. It's better. Or maybe just buy a doll.😂😂😂
Thaum koj yuav pojniam lawm koj yuav tsum tau los settle down tiag2 los pab pojniam tu menyuam thiab ua lub neej tiag2. Txhob coj li thaum koj tseem yog hluas nraug es nrov twg txog twg ces lub neej yeej zoo xwb. Cov tsis zoo ces yus yuav pojniam lawm los yus yeej tsis los nrog pojniam nyob ua noj ua haus sib pab li ne. Ua dabtsi ob leeg sib pab, mus qhovtwg los ob leeg mus uake ces pojniam zoo siab heev. Pojniam ntshaw kev hlub ntawm tus txiv.
Yog kawg os sister aws yus nyob yus kaj siab tshaj os..nyob lub neej zoo li koj ob lub ko ces yeej lwj siab nyob ntau ntshe yuav vwm tseem raug mus nyob tsev vwm os es hlub yus tus kheej ua ntej nrhiav kev kaj siab..khwv nyiaj mus ncig ntuj xwb tiag..
May you are so dedicated to your listeners. You're on vacation, but still tell stories daily for us. Thank you.
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Niam laus cas kj yuav hai tau zoo ua luaj os
niam laus aw.. cas niam yuav raug kv tshaj li os tus viv ncaus aw..
Hais tiag2 lub neej no muaj txiv los yg txom nyem lub siab npaum no ces xum Yus nyb ib leeg zoo dua tsis kk tej niag quav dev ntawv li os yg kv nam
Yog kawg cov niag poj laib uas yees loj loj noj npaum cas los noj tsis txaus li ces nyob ib leeg zoo dua vim yus daim nqaij plees ua rau yus nrog ib leeg nyob yuav noj tsis paub txaus li ces yuav ua teeb meem ua ntu zus qee zaum tseem yuav txog qhov ploj qhov tuag los kuj yuav muaj li ntag ov
Sister you can make it without a loser man. I went thru the same with my ex husband. He was addicted to chicken, fishing n he was an abuser. I finally got the courage to leave after 20 years with my 5 kids. I took cared of ally kids myself with no child support. My kids all big now and most of them are straight A's. I haven't found a good man yet so I'm just raising my kids n working hard. Don't ever rely on a man. Us hmong women need to support each other and be more independent. Stop letting these hmong men walk all over us. You already made that first step n freed yourself from your ex husbands, now continue to live life and love yourself. A man cannot make you happy unless you know how to love yourself.
Congratulations sister. Children are a mom's everything. A man can always be replaced, as many time as we wish but not likely a woman's goal in life. Raising successful children is the best accomplishment ever!
Wooh!!! Stressed me out by listening to this story, couldn’t continue to listen anymore🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️!
I know I feel bad and emotionally every time I listen to all our sisters' sad stories, I can't stand for it because our sister, so weakness is hmong Man El cheater
Zoo ce hlub xwb tsi zoo ce kawg hloov tus tshiab xwb
Cov yawg nrauj tib3 nej cov me nyuam ces kawg tham hmoob cov txiv xwb mas
Nej cov poj nrauj nco ntsoov tias yog nej muaj txog 4,5 tus me nyuam rov sauv lawm ces nrhiav txiv nyuaj muaj tus xav siv nej xwb tsis xav yuav nej vim luag hlub tsis taus nej cov me nyuam luag ntshai nej cov me nyuam vim tsis yog luag yug!
Vim li no thiaj tsis Xav ua poj nrauj es thiaj pheej uv lub neej xwb
Sister you have to love yourself? Don't care about men?...you have to start your future and career?
Niam ntsuab teev rov qaug beer dua lawm.
People leave because there's a good reason. We can't judge people because we're not in their shoes. Idk I think it's best to be single.
Just saying….. HMONG RELATIVES will always take your side no matter if you WRONG and or RIGHT!
tu viv ncaus kj thiab kv lub neej zoo ib...yam li os tu siab tshaj plaws li g zoo ua neeg li os
Xav hnov koj piav koj lub neej yuav thaub laus tuam choj tuaj USA no. Koj txhob piav2 lwm tus lub neej mas.
For all the women out there who think they don't need a man just because they had been mistreated or been with useless bums. Please look at yourself first. Maybe, just maybe it's your choice of men. There are a lot of good man out there but you either choose to ignore them or they don't look your direction because you have nothing to offer them.
Right on!!?
Txhob tu siab os koj txiv ko Lis yeej Yog ib tug txiv dev nyob Los yeej tsus ntxiv dab tsi txhob txhaw txiv kav tsij hlub koj cov kids maj2 mam nrhiav thiaj tau tus zoo Yog koj muab tshaw txiv dhau ces koj yuav yuam kev os
People who only want you and not your children is not a true love sis .
Smh. I don’t understand women sometimes.
Puas yog tiag mas.....lol
Thanks for your advice okay before getting a divorce go see your luck first is it good to divorce your spouse uf no then dang just hold him or her tight
There are good men out there. You can start dating other races than Hmong men. Hmong men will never love your children. If he does, then his side of the family will not accept them. Hmong life is complicated. That's why focus on your health, happiness, and children.
Are you dating other race lol
Yes, don’t limit yourself to just Hmong men.. (unless you only speak Hmong) 🤷🏻♀️ I say open up to other races too.. there’s so many more men out there that will take better care of you..
@mileslee6426 nope. My sister married to a meka now. She is very happy and stays at home. Not like us Hmong women cooking every weekend.
Yes, u dont need a man to be happy. Ua friend noj fawm xwb zoo dua. Love & live for urself & ur children. Dont regret about tossing ur ex to the curb. The right person will come along, it just takes time.
The lesson here is, don’t ever depend on a man! Be your own parent to your kids, at the end of the day it’s up to you to be happy and do your best as a mom to them. These childish, selfish and immature men will never grow up! They take you for granted and only abuse you, use you to their advantage. You gotta love yourself first and put your kids first. Hope you learn this lesson and be stronger and wiser.
My MiL has been single after her and my fil divorced back in Thailand to come to US since he had a 2nd wife and she has stayed single since…that’s been over 30 something years and she has been living her life…independently and loving it. She said after the torture and torment my fil put her through, she don’t want no more men…just her, her kids and God. She live off her money, drive her own car, do her own thing.
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It’s a shame that you’ve only known childish and selfish men in your life.
@@amazinggrace8136 who are you talking about? I’m only telling it like it is to any of the women who’ve dealt with immature assholes.
@@jiaxiong8991 Just bc her exes were bad doesn’t mean she shouldn’t find a good man to depend on. No need to be a feminist over two deadbeats.
Vim koj Tus txiv twb tsi tau ua txhaum koj muab nrauj koj thiaj Li tsis tau lub neej zoo nrog luag ua o.
Luag hais tias khiav qav ntsib nab ces yog li no lawm lau.
These ads are quite frustrating. They need to be updated. Now is May already not March. Eau claire is not a state… Menominee is not a state. And you will never save your heating bill by 50%. Not everyone will qualify.
Koj yog ib tug zoo niam raukoj cov me nyuam
40 tawm xyoo nyob American es taeem muaj tej tus poj niam ruam npaum no thiab
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Thanks for sharing. Sister, tsis hais txiv neej los poj niam, yog ua neeg nyob yog liam npaum ntawv lawm ces zoo rau qhov koj muab nrauj. Hope our people take your story for consideration.
Tu siab kawg os😢😢
Sister peb ces tos tsis nrauj los xav li koj hais xwb mas sister
Proud of you sister! Your kids should be the most important beings to you. You shouldn’t have to be in a situation that you don’t feel is healthy for you and your kids. But next time, please really get to know a guy before marrying them. I’m a married woman with kids. Have you thought about dating outside of Hmong men? Perhaps other men are better and will be more accepting of your children. I just know that in the Hmong culture, most men aren’t accepting of children that aren’t theirs. I’m sure you will find the right one in the near future. You just have to have options and get to know someone and see if your values and life goals align. Words are cheap so look at their actions.
Txhob tu siab lub neej zaum 2 g zoo ces nrauj dua los nyb hlub yus tej menyuam dua xwb mas koj tseem nyb los yeej g tsav qhov twg tuaj g zoo que twg tuaj o ntxov mus ntxov g mob hlwb o ua tsawg tom poj nrauj los ua li los mas g yg yus xwb o
Vidncaus, txhob tusiab txawm tsis muaj txiv los tsis muaj tus tsimtxom, lauj siv koj, ua koj mob siab tas li. Txhob lees tus neeg tag nqi uas txomnyem los thawj koj nyob, nws yuav tig tom koj thaum ciaj sia.
Sis there will be better days. These Hmong men aint worth s*it. You remarried too soon. Take your time and enjoy yourself by yourself first. Lawn to be beautiful again inside so it can reflect your outside. Life is what you make it. One door close the other opens, seek and you shall find. Put God in your life and things will fall into place. Good luck
Nev g xav yuav ubtus nyiam.qaib ho mus yuav tus tham.hluas nkauj ma tseem mob 10 npaug o, ruam tiag2 k9j na
No joke. If you never had a man that does any of the five, -cheater, chicken crazy, fisherman, gambler or abuser. Never judge a woman for being divorce. Most Hmong woman tolerate and stay for the kids until they can’t anymore. Unfortunately I have all of the five and I told my husband that I’m waiting for a good husband. That day May only happen when he’s old and gray and can’t go anywhere anymore. Sad. 😢
Why don’t you leave? If he’s already the worst, you can’t find anyone worse than him. 🤷🏻♀️
He has all 5 ..but you haven’t left 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 and you’re telling her to leave 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
There’s till the hunters, gamers, lazy homeless-ers, soccer/flag football players, do divorced scammers, out there you can go find 😂
Koj tug feceboob hu li cas os nkauj hmoob.
Kuv txojkev hlub tsis zoo li cov txivneej uas koj tau ntsib ko os yog xav paub txogkev hlub tseeb ces nug kuv es kuv yuav yog tus hlub koj tiag2 thiab txawv kuv siab zoo hlub pojniam heev thiab tsis yog tibneeg siab phem siab coob2 os nug kuv nrog kuv tham nawb.
Txhob dag nws ma
Kuv yeej hais tiag2 mas yog xav paub kuv ces sau ntawv rau kuv Tau mas.
Don't need a man to stay alive. You could have do your homework and ask around about him and his history before marrying him. You can't blame him because he needs a shelter and you want a man😢
Cas tu siab ua luaj li os peb ib tsoom niam tsev .
Sister yog kuv mus yug me nyuam es nws tsis nrog kuv mus ces los txog tsev ces kawg nrauj xwb zoo dua
Yog tseeb li thaum pib twb tsis nrhiav txis nkawm!
Ghep nhat quang cao
Cov niag txiv tham hluas nkauj ces yus ua mob nyob hauv lub kitchen nqaij twb tsis tau siab nws twb mus exercise plaub tsib lwm mis hu hluas nkauj xwb hos
When you have small children it’s best to be single after you divorce your baby daddy. Best advice to you.
Koob Haum Pojniam ces lawv ua kom yus lub neej puas xwb tiag. Qhov twg muaj Koos Haum Pojniam ib yam li Minesota ces muaj 10 phav tus pojnrauj rau sauv xwb ov. No wonder Minesota known as the state of 10 thousand lakes and more than 10 divorced Hmong women. Women organization will only ruin your marriage life.
Nyob zoo os niam ntsuab teev aw kuv xav muab kuv lub neej lwj siab rau koj piav ua ib zaj dab neeg thiab os vim tau lub neej lwj siab dhau lm tus2 siab li os
No… txhob piav lawm os.. yog koj lub neeg lwm siab npaum li koj hais ces txhob ub lawm.. yog koj piav tas los koj tseem yuav nyob ub ntxim ces tsis tas yuav piav li… vim pes lam mploog cov dab neeg uas tsis txawj zog lawm.. mploog mus mploog los, uas rau pes ruam tas li lawm..
Cov poj nrauj pom lawm los pauj .
I feel you too! Your not alone. Peace of mind is better than a toxic man 😢❤😮🎉 It’s so peaceful being alone! 😢
Don’t you hate it when their family; sisters don’t lecture him & they still tell you it’s fine & you need to be a patient! Also, they don’t appreciate anything you do! Means nobody is genuine enough to let you know he’s a “LOSER.”
These men don’t want the kids, they just want the women, PERIODT! Hmong men can’t do much then to complain their needs when it comes to you & your kids! They don’t need a wife, they need their mom!!
Nobody will never understand this pain!!! Very hard and sad & that’s when you realize it’s not worth it no more!!!😢❤😮
Zoo qhov koj muab niag txiv dev ntawv pov tseg lawm os tus Viv ncaus aw tej tug txiv dev uas tsi hlub yus cov me nyuam li ko na
Ua poj nrauj txhob teb foos txhob tham foos nrog txiv neej li hos yog leej twg paub yus tus xov tooj ces pauv kiag xov tooj tshiab lawm xwb hos
Advise to all the ladies who decide on divorce, first thing you need to say to yourself is not telling yourself that you will find better but it's the question of asking on self "can I accept the fact that I will be single for the rest of my life?"
If I had married your second husband and he had said all that sh1t about my kids to me, he's out the door. He's the loser because he's the one that moved in with you. A grown man will move you in with him not the other way around.
I’ve learned that guys are LIARS especially when they say they will change or that he will help you love your children. That’s a lie…
Keep busy get up and go places, this is how you survive loneliness. Learn to live alone please husband can die husband can cheat and husband can stop caring for you….
Muab cuam khib nyiab xwb os tus txiv no nas
When you get remarried, your kids are your own priority, not your new husband. In other words, love your kids more, they’ll be okay even if the new husband doesn’t love them.
Tus viv ncaus aw tsis txhob ntshaw txiv thiab ma yus tus txiv yus twb uv tsis taus lawm es yus tseem yuav mu uv tus tus thiab ces xum uv tus qub xwb os yog ua poj nrauj tseem yuav los uv niag yawg nrauj tsis license tsav tsheb thiab na nrauj tag lawm nyob twj ywm os
Anyone listened to Pa Thao Channel..What happened to that channel? No more stories
If he chicken fight and know what is propriety in life then fine, but no he over use his hobby. For example when you gave birth. He wasn't even there and was even rushing you on pickup.
Ntuj aws, tau niag txiv Liam li kos mas so annoyed. Yog kuv los kuv yeej Tsis yuav ib yam thiab os. Dhuav tshaj plaws.
Tu txiv eś cem yus tej me nyuam xyob txhiaj es ua cas nws ho tsis saib nws tu kheej ne yog nws tsis xyob txiaj ua cas ua hauj lwm them nws cov nqi qaub twb tsis muaj xyob ces txawm yog nws mas yus hmoov tas lawm thiaj mus yuav tau niag txiv xyob Txhiaj cov niag txiv deb ua twb tsis muaj chaw nyob ces yog tib co txiv noj mov hauv tshawj xwb tsum kiag nawb cov viv ncaus tsis muaj txiv yeej tsis tuag li os .
I don’t get these women.
Why they have to uv and encourage other women to “uv” (tolerate) an unhappy and toxic marriage/life?
Wouldn’t it the best to get out of that toxic/unhappy/unhealthy life, even that means you won’t marry another dude again?
When you regret leaving toxicity, abuse, and trauma then that’s just messed up.
Your decision on your first husband is correct. Stop regretting your decision and thinking about your past. Live for the present and work on yourself and kids. Stop finding a new man until you’re ready and there’s always other race than Hmong men to marry!
Your kids are part of the package. If he doesn’t love your kids, only wants you. Then not worth losing your relationship with your kids over an idiot.
Idk about anyone but I’m glad to be divorce and found a better man in my life.. 🤷🏻♀️ I’ve locked myself in the house for a good 9 years but the wait is worth it at the end. I never knew there’s better man out there.
All I have to say is ,” don’t rush , be patient and you will find the right man!”
I date other race
Tug noog thi 1
Kuv tuaj tìm nplog tuaj kuv twb muaj ob tug me nyuam lawm Kuv tu txiv g quav dab g tab si quav beer yu yug me nyuam lo tseem khiav mu hậu beer yeej g tu yu li yu phai plab thiab ma sab sawv g tau lo luag twb g pab yu tu me nyuam li ma sab yu thiab chim tshaj plaw yu txib luag ma luag tseem tia luag sab tshaj yu ce luag mu luag xwb ma tu siab lo tu chim lo chim lub neej no tàu ib tug txiv tsis tsheej haj ua dog ua dig ma laj ua neej tshaj plaw Tom ntej no ce ntshe kuv ib zaj yog zaj yuav muab rau koj hai thiab vim chim đạu thiab tu siab đâu lawm
You can’t marry a deadbeat, then complain about how much of a deadbeat he is…
Txiv neej CES yeej tsis muaj Tus zoo Tias yuav tsis ua ib yam li os, tsis tso qaib sib ncaws CES kav maum , xab tsheb, txiv coj xai ,quav txiaj , quav npas los muaj tag li nawb, zoo li kuv Tus CES kuv ruam2 es kuv Twb uav2 kab lab laus tas li no thaum NWS lub zog nraug lawm CES NWS thiaj yuav nyob taus xwb os sister aw 😢😢
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May..aws...koj mus ua si tim Thailand ko es puas kub thiab lom zem os...hope you and your husband are doing well and have fun there okay.
Stop regretting that first ex-husband because he wasn’t a man. You would still be miserable if you stay and put up with him. You should focus on bettering your life and your children’s. If I went through 2 husbands like yours, I would be so sick of men. Learn to be independent.
Laj tos kawg
Sister aw, all these losers are yawg nrauj for a reason…don’t be so desperate for them. They were not good to begin with, that’s y their wife left them. Love urself & ur kids. We women can live without a man, if he’s gonna cheat & lie. I’d choose a widower over a yawg nrauj any day
Lawv os lawv aw…cas ib qho ob qho los nej pheej mus hais nej lub neej qhia rau nej niag txiv tsev neeg thiab cov kwv tij na? Lawv tus neeg lub qe tsw lwj npaum twg los lawv yeej pos ntswg thiab qhuas kom koj nyob ua qhev.
Ntawm kuv tus kheej mas kuv tsis qhia li nawb. Yog kuv tseem uv taus ces uv xwb. Uv txog thaum uv tsis tau lawm ces lawb txhua yam pov thoob khib nyiab xwb.
Ib tug neeg xav ua neej zoo ces tsis thas yuav cia lwm tus hais hais es mam paub. Peb tsis yog me nyuam yaus.
Tsawg tus mas tej nkauj muam, kwv tij, niam txiv thiaj pab yus. Coob tus mas lawv tsuas muaj tuaj lawv tus neeg sab xwb. Txawm lawv yeej paub zoo zoo tias lawv niag neeg liam liam tsis tsheej haj los lawv yeej kws lawv tus neeg. Koj yeem mus qhia lawv ces lawv yeem ntxub koj. Lawv yeem tias koj phem es lawv tus neeg thiaj tsis xav nrog koj ua neeg.
So..Yus xav rau yus tus kheej tias seb yus uv puas taus. Uv tsis taus ces lawb xwb. Txawm yuav ua poj nrauj pes tsawg zaus los zoo dua li yus uv nyob es luag tsim yus.
U need to understand that u divorced ur ex for a reason…therefore, not settling for LOSERS. Set ur standards and expectations higher. Make ur title worth moving forward. Stop being vulnerable too. Aim for what makes u happy. U can tolerate ur significant other…but do have a limit where they cannot cross u anymore. If u dont know how to choose ur man wisely…just open ur legs when u need it but dont settle and please a man period…be heartless.
Whether u divorced ur first husband or not, you will have lifetime of regret. If u didn't meet anyone good jus go. Do not allow these losers to take advantage of you.
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He didn’t pay child support and then also didn’t pay your dowry…..red flag. Don’t expect him to love your kids if he can’t love his own. Love yourself.
Wow this lady sure have to much regret for her xhusband. Lady, when you decide to leave your husband you should never have any regrets period!! Idk how you are as a single woman but I used to be divorcee too and never in any of my relationships a guy would ask about my kids first like that. You need to remember that when a guy ask you about your children and say all kinds of things about them than they need to go don’t need to talk to them, date them, or even marry them. They are useless. Your children comes first who cares about those guys. If any guy love you they will love your children. You’re dating the wrong ppl in your life lady.
Sister, stop comparing your present life with your old life. The reason why your sis in laws said that to you is because you keep comparing your life to the previous one. Its better to be alone than to be unhappy!!!! You are your own sadness…. That means you are responsible for making yourself #1 as well.
Whenever i am really mad at my husband, I remember how crazy I am to him. Lol.. only him can handle my crazy and I his crazy.. like sin bad said, “ we get each others crazy”. Lol
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Txhob tu siab tag tag rau koj lub neej no os mog.
Twb vim yog koj tsis ua zoo saib xwb tseem muaj tus zoo zoo uas nws yeej npaj siab yuav ua lub neej tiag tiag.
99.9 yeej lawv yeej tsis xav hlub lwm tus cov me nyuam nawb mog. Peb cov hmoob meskas ntawm no twb saib saib hmoob nplog tej me nyuam txom nyem.
Es nim lav lav xa nyiaj mus hlub tej tib neeg txom nyem tub sab tsis muaj niam txiv hlub nyob nplog teb ne rau qhov twg lawm.
Kuv hais kuv tus kheej yeej muaj ib co me nyuam tsis sawm hlub tsis sawm qhia, ua cas kuv hais li no vim yus qhia nws tsis nyiam mloog kawm khaw.
Ho yeej muaj ib co mas lawv nyiam mloog kawm thiab qhia, mloog lus vim tsis muaj tus cob qhia xwb. Kuv paub kawg os txoj kev txij nkawm es sib hlub thiab tsis sib hlub na tus mi sister aw txhob tu siab mog tsis tau ncaj tus zoo xwb mog.
Tos kj khub xim los tim kj ne,nws nyiam qaib xwb na,kv tus mas yug qhib heev kawg los kv nrg nyiam qaib li tabsi thaum kawg nws yuav niam mos ab los yus tseem uv txg kiag qhov tsi zoo mas li nrauj li peb no mas tsi khub xim kiag li lm nawb.neauj tag mas thj li kaj siab os.vim kj tsi tau paub tus txiv tham hluas nkauj os nb es ntshe hnub no kj thj li paub tias tus nyiam qaib thb tus nyiam hluas nkauj zoo li cas kj mas li paub os.vim kj tsi uv nev.
We live in America and who needs losers like your 2 ex- husbands i your life. Not sure why you let people tortured and telling you to “Ua siab ntev”. If you keep on Ua siab ntev then you are going to be the one that suffering. Love yourself and your children and be free because life is too short to be not happy.
Boring.
Ua dab tsi los txaum nej cov pojniam tag nrho li os .. Nothing can make a woman happy. 😂 Even a successful man, working hard, 200K a year. Women will complain that he works too much and is not spending time with her. I think we just stay single. It's better. Or maybe just buy a doll.😂😂😂
Thaum koj yuav pojniam lawm koj yuav tsum tau los settle down tiag2 los pab pojniam tu menyuam thiab ua lub neej tiag2. Txhob coj li thaum koj tseem yog hluas nraug es nrov twg txog twg ces lub neej yeej zoo xwb. Cov tsis zoo ces yus yuav pojniam lawm los yus yeej tsis los nrog pojniam nyob ua noj ua haus sib pab li ne. Ua dabtsi ob leeg sib pab, mus qhovtwg los ob leeg mus uake ces pojniam zoo siab heev. Pojniam ntshaw kev hlub ntawm tus txiv.
May..aws...koj mus ua si tim Thailand ko es puas kub thiab lom zem os...hope you and your husband are doing well and have fun there okay.
Boring