Death of Middle Class: Single Mom Syndrome, Colorism, Simp Culture, & What's Next if Trump Wins?
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- Опубліковано 8 сер 2024
- In this episode of Black Out, we dive into some of the most controversial and thought-provoking topics yet. We discuss the backlash received for producing this show and address the intense conversation around colorism with the question, "Is Tyla Black?"
We share a shocking story of parents discovering that their baby is not theirs and explore the complex dynamics of single moms turning their sons into replacements for their partners.
We also share our thoughts on Project 2025 and cover the dramatic incident where Lil Durk’s son allegedly shot his stepdad to protect his mom during a domestic dispute. Our discussion turns to tattoos and dating: what's the biggest red flag when it comes to tattoos on women, and how many tattoos are too many?
We speculate on the future of the middle class and ask, "Will the middle class be gone in 20 years?" Finally, we break down what it means to be a simp.
Tune in for these discussions and more, only on Black Out!
#BlackOut #Colorism #Parenting #SingleMoms #Project2025 #LilDurk #DomesticDispute #Tattoos #RedFlags #MiddleClass #Simp #Controversy #TalkShow #TrendingTopics #CulturalConversations
0:00 Intro
4:57 Responding to Blackout’s Criticism
11:33 “Is Tyla Black?” Discussing Racial Identity Struggles
25:49 Crazy Story of Babies Switched at Birth
35:39 Do Single Moms Raise F-Boys?
46:25 The Biggest Red Flag Tattoos on a Woman
53:47 The Exact Definition of Simping & Simp Culture
59:36 Lil Durk Son Protects Mom In Domestic Dispute
1:06:31 How Legit is Project 2025?
1:21:13 The Death of the Middle Class
1:28:43 Defining “Motion”
1:34:59 Outro
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I'm from Canada, when i gave birth my then husband had to follow the nurse wherever she went when our son was born until they brought him back to me to breastfeed. It was a policy that he would always be under one parent supervision at all time until we left the hospital.
I was born in South Africa and raised in America. What we need to realize in America is the way we view race here isn’t how it’s viewed in other parts of the world. Tyla is black in America but in SA she is called colored. They are their own race, they have their own culture and for the most part they are marginalized in SA. That’s who she identifies as. She doesn’t denounce her blackness or being Indian but where she’s from it doesn’t matter what she’s mixed with her race is “colored”.
Tyla delusional once u have melain in ur skin yu blk east indians are blacks there's two race black & white. There's no thing as colored ppl either yu white or black. She already a industry plant
Right! This is an ignorant convo! She’s an Amapiano artist pushing her culture. I think they think she’s an RnB artist. Some people are mixed. She has no control over her parents making her
Tyla would only be Black in America to the group thats still holding on to the racist one drop rule. Thats the group that doesn’t understand how she classifies herself. The rest of us know she’s not Black and don’t care.
We get it. Me being of Haitian decent. We measure you buy how white you are. Thank the French. Who did the French work with?? Arabs. Look how many spanish words are Arabic in origin. This a Roman and Arab tactic. The US had no black or colored allowed. In Haiti your lighter than me, you better speak creole and announce your house fast. Me not being there for so long I am considered white. This is a black topic. Period all over the world. Why do you think we have beef with Dominican??? House negro vs field negro. We have been doing this for 500 years. Are beef isn't the white men. We sent them to America. That colored I am not black mentality down there gets you killed. You better say you black and proud. We never submitted to Blanco Mente. It the same story everywhere. We do not like in-betweeners. That's our downfall. Petion/ Boyer (colored) vs Cristoph/Dessaline. War of knives look it up. We didn't always get along. Privileged negro vs Field negro. Watch Underground same story. She is running from the question because that Arab will effect her money in North Afrcia. Arab ville world wide. You know it.
They just named a perfect example. Peter Tosch vs Bob Marley. Go to Jamaica and ask the dark-skinned who they back and represents the essence of rasthafari and marroon rebel. Marley or Tosch?
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1. Teach boys Law and Economics 2.Teaching young boys how to assert themselves and effective communication skills include Q&A
Boys need affection too so you’re saying a mother shouldn’t hug, kiss and lay with her son? Some of these men need hugs
Boys also need a balance and a masculine edge. When men are alone amongst men, those men who never had a father or male guidance get destroyed.
Absolutely men need the delicate touch of mom n her affection but many of us miss out on so much not getting the touch n tone of a good man to show us the way.
This is one of the best episodes of "Blackout" there has been. Some of the most real talk about a number of issues and trying to help people understand power structure, race issues, etc. Thank you guys for keeping it real and please be careful. To much honesty is dangerous especially now. Appreciate it fam.
When I was packing my daughter up to leave the hospital, a nurse came in with another baby, and was like, here's your baby, I was like whaaat? She was like ooops and hurried away.
My favorite new podcast, just what our community needs
Shoutout to yall for ALWAYS producing generational life changing content.
The fact that yall say the things publicly we speak on privately is RESPECTED to the fullest ✊🏾 #KeepBuilding
“The darker you are the deeper your problems”- nas
Truth! The system jacked up. I enjoy listening to this platform. It's refreshing!
Great conversation 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
Richard Prior said justice is, Just Us.
I appreciate you guys so much.🙏🏽 By the way, I feel If Trump gets in office, there may no longer be an EYL in America. Project2025 doesn’t want sharp, knowledgeable black men financially educating and empowering black people in America. Don’t ever stop🙏🏽💙
I love your work guys❤.
Being coloured in sa means you're a mix race white and black parents, not just light in complexion.
Love n salute to yall guys always keeping it real n honest with the people
Great Show!!!
This was great. I needed this.
This show is amazing! Keep going!,,
Good job gentlemen, Great topics!
Love it Mane
The child is never to leave the room. Period. Most don’t know this is an option. I didn’t, but luckily I had a doula. Every test they need to run on the child can be ran in the room. I’ve done it twice. You have to advocate for yourself bc unfortunately doctors will not and/or are not trained to do so.
Which city is this in? The top handful of hospitals nationwide have multiple layers of security. Parents can't even take their newborn and run the elevators will shutdown 😂
Great episode!! I love how you talk about the 3 different classes of people right now. I totally agree. I'm part of the struggling class but prayerfully, I won't be for long. See you at Invest Fest!!
I think it’s a very narrow minded perspective to label people as either just black or just white. People around the world have a wide array of heritages and hues. Even here in the US. It’s a very colonial mentality of one drop rule; that everyone that has a drop of black is black. To encourage a disposition of choosing your side is very limiting. Biracial people are not black, they are not white, they are both. To label them as black is erasing an entire part of who they are. Whether we like it or not J.Cole, Barack, Alicia Keys, Drake, etc are all biracial people. They are both. We need to change this idea that because they have a drop of black, they are exclusively black. It’s a slave/ colonizing mentality that created this and enforcing it.
This show is still educational. It shows that even though they’re very smart finance guys they still “black out” about real life everyday topics like the rest of us. This show proves there’s a time and a place for everything. They even have a disclaimer before the show comes on that it’s not for sensitive people. It proves you can be successful and still be human as long as you have discipline and know when to speak about certain things at the right time. You can learn about the market on Monday and double back Wednesday for a real nigga conversation when you neee a break from numbers, data, and analytics. These guys are human too. #blackout
Much respect to these two Kings. No lies told here👑 👑🖤🖤
You guys are legends. I wish the world listened more.
Loved everything about this episode one of the best ❤
Single mothers are not just government caused. Some guys want to bag the woman but don't want to raise the child. If we went back to waiting to have sex AFTER marriage that would significantly reduce the problem because both parties would would gauge if the person is worthy for marriage and if you're ready for marriage. Accomplish that THEN you're ready to raise a new life.
That is also not true; me being a person who had a child post marriage and saw a whole 'nother side of the person and walked away because I have some form of respect for myself and my child.
Again - I don't think Kendrick's issue with Drake is him being BIRACIAL. His fiancee is biracial. Plently of black activists were biracial. Drake does not align with any Black politic publicly and proudly but aligns himself with the culture to sell records. There's fully black people who do not align with black politics either (clarence and candiace...).
Great episode
I love what y’all are doing and I’m going to keep tuning in.
Thanks guys, great topics, especially the Middle Class topic. 💵💵
20+ year L&D nurse here... We banded EVERY baby prior to leaving the mother's room... I wonder how this happened? 🤔
i love this show
Black people are not monolithic, there are many different sides that make up a persons life, so the fact that you guys have to explain the reasoning for beginning this extension of your original platform is pointless and ridiculous. People are nuts and just want something to complain about.
Motion is currency 💯 Big facts!!!!!!!
Tyla might not be 100% black but she 100% African born and raised
Much love and respect to you two black kings, y'all hit the nail and was authentic on every point enjoyed watching this may you guys have continued success, blessings 🙏🏾
I've been watching you guys for two and a half years I'm just not talking to you again we had a farm so we don't have it now but I got to do something and then seeing you guys appreciate you keep up The Good work
Keep hustlin. Yall doin great work! What was Square's misstep?
❤ that is a wonderful
Great point about Brad
Colorism is real. I could write a book about my experience as Black Latina and West Indian descendants. The conversation and dynamics between family can be really hurtful. It is a consequence of the colonization.
I know you fine as hell
Man I wish you’d write that book. I would love to hear about this. What’s the phrase that means “forward the race” in Spanish?
Mejorar la raza...
proud of y’all brothers 😎✊🏾 Keep Going 💰🏁🙏🏾
LOVE!
I had a man like that. He thought I was going to take care of him like his mother did. His mother thought he was her husband. Told him not to buy a house but stay home with her. She is right these don't know their place as a man
Y'all need to keep this show raw and uncut like it's meant to be. We need this entertainment. This is the cleanest dirtiest show out. Do not stop this!
I think classism is a major reason. The movie origin is a must watch
100% agree. That movie should be a mandatory watch for everyone.
Please put time stamps, easier to listen topics i want
I love Ian 🤣 He is my spirit animal
ian shoty troy i love you guys keep up the great job
“Black as the color of your shirt” really Rashad???? Men you all need to understand race as a global topic. Don’t speak on it if your understanding only lies on what you learned in America.
We gotta get Dr umar on blackout!!
Any tattoo on the face. 😂
Happended in Virginia also. The family had the wrong baby for 2 years. They did not want to return the child to the birth parents. The birth parents had their baby but the baby died. There was a movie made about it.
"Pushing a bunch of little Dusty's away" - 😂😂😂
Let’s Go Ian! 🎉🎉🎉🎉
who’s the darkest male public figure that y’all have had on these platforms ? Billy Carson ? shout out to 19 keys 💯
Can yall have 19 Keys as a guest?
I like the show; it adds balance. I also appreciate the male experience & explanation.
15:50 😂😂😂 Ians face was priceless
SHOTY, WISE WORDS MY BROTHERAND WHAT YOU GUYS ARE DOING FOR COMMUNITIES YOU ARE A BLESSING. LET'S ENDURE TO THE END MY PEOPLE, STAY STRONG AND YAH BLESS YOU ALL🤎
Happened before to the baby girl born in Harlem Hospital. The parents did not get financial compensation.
The last 5-10 mins of this show should be a big theme whenever you get to mentor these young dudes out here! Salute to this conglomerate of a network you all are expanding on.
Ian was preaching🙌🏾
First off black come in all shades and eye colors that has nothing to do with being tainted second tell the Brazilians that they’re black theyre they’re the ones say they’re not!
“Dirty macken” 😂😂😂😂
Im late watching episode , I was on a flight, I usually watch live .
I wanted to post a comment on one of your previous episodes about the story of a baby switched at birth, where you talked about a couple who found out the husband was not the biological father.
Loooove that backdrop Rashad. And thank y’all for the conversation on racial identity using Tyla’s South African Colored heritage. The contemporary colonizer piece is so important to highlight. This is why I love watching, like you guys said, this is the most educational arm of the brand and the best part is that it’s relatable through culture.
I know a lady who's 11yr son was clinically diagnosed with Edipus Complex. She had a PHD and retired from the military. It was shocking to see her still allow him to sit on her lap, cuddle on the couch with her and even sleep in the bed with her.
My rich uncles going crazy with this show 🔥But idk if y’all advice is for men wanting to get married 😂😂😂
“Why your voice go up” killed me lmaooo
Ian is hilarious! I love how he doesn’t give af #unfiltered
I am not tripping on the topics you cover here. It's needed ! We need dialogue, our cultural portfolio needs diversification
American definition of race is simplified. Crayola colors are not an ethnicity. A lot of times it matters what the person identifies . Dominicans don't want to be identified as "black" and the ones I've met don't want their kids to marry dark.
I'm a Jamaican & I agree with everything he said about Jamaica 🇯🇲
Love these blackout sessions. I'd like to know the stats behind the woman who went viral for speaking on the mother/son relationship. Does she have sons? Was she this type of mother then changed? Did her mother do this with her brother? Was her dad raised like this? What was her experience to have such a strong opinion that she thinks is the standard for all songle mothers? As a single mother of boys myself, I've never looked at watching a movie, giving my sons a hug or kiss, or being affectionate with them as a way to meet the needs of my singleness. At my big age, being single is a choice, not because I'm short of men in my life or admirers. Ive always held my boys to a high standard as well as being a disciplinarian type mom, but can and will show them much love, it doesnt negate that there are moms out here like this but one thing I will not do is judge a mother, but people get on these platforms and go in. Shits crazy.
Bob marley dad is white english not jewish!!
Watching movies and being nurturing with son is bad? Sounds like a lot of people have been neglected growing up.
I wish I could attach a Pic for you. Here in Dubai, some spas have an IV drips for skin lightening. It's about $110. There's one place that calls their drip , Snow White. All I think about is this must be what Trump was talking about when he said inject the bleach under the skin😂
"Muy Taxico" 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Ian can’t stay on topic to save his life 😂😂😂
Yessir!
Good job you guys, but I prefer finance because we get this content frequently, however, finance, stocks our folks need this spoon fed DAY AND NIGHT!!! Never taught in home nor school nor daily conversation! We as folk are at the bottom of the totem pole in these United States regarding economics, wealth and finance!! You guys are spectacular in this realm especially for the young minds turn them at round. Love you Ian ❤ crack me up lol Keep up the good work. 🙏🏼😘
Rashad you got it wrong about South Africa:
-African
-Indian
-White
-Colored
I work remotely with several teams from South Africa.
Please do better research. You’d be considered African. You’re not mixed with anything.
Y'all forgot the tattoo's that weren't done in a shop... it's a lot of green roses and Pooh bears out here😂😂 #1 red flag
Shoty - I appreciate the colorism take. This whole episode was amazing!
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We agree Bro Shoty. Read Blueprint for Black Power by Amos Wilson.
On the tattoo conversation…I’m sure you were talking about significance others. But I have my wife’s name and she has my name. We just celebrated 20 years of marriage. And…I definitely don’t see anything wrong with putting your kid’s names on you (after you make sure the kids are yours…going back to those hospital swapping discussions).
Too $hort was talking about simps in the '80s.
I knew yall was getting ready to go all the way live the moment I figured out that Mr Bilal ( Shotty) was actually talking shit quietly on MM😅
DO NOT LET YOUR BABY LEAVE YOUR SIDE! My baby girl was born in Grady hospital. I didn't allow them to take her, mainly because I was opposed to them immunizing my child. They made me sign a waiver and I slept in the room with the mother to protect my child.
The single mom convo is always so frustrating!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
At some point, men (NOT ALL) gotta grow up and for SOME single moms, that's the problem. SOME men feel like because you've been with them for some time, you carry their seed, they make a certain amount of money, that they can treat you any way they please. That is CHILDISH. I will always choose self respect over raising a child in an environment that will teach my son to behave in that manner or in a household where there is serious resentment.
I grew up in the 70s, and majority of my friends had fathers in the household, and everybody in my ghetto neighborhood had fathers.
The fathers disappeared from black men selling drugs. I saw so many of my male friends get murdered or sent to prison for drugs or murder. This removed the fathers from the home. 1970s to 1990s
What does he mean by “regular black person” lol
We need to stop with this crazy idea that if someone disagrees with us they’re not black. Even though these are the same people that always cry saying all black people aren’t the same smh
That baby swap sound like a Lifetime movie
So if one baby is with the wrong parents, another baby is in foster care, does the other parents have someone else’s baby ?!?!