The Fray - How to Save a Life - Lyrics
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- How to save a life - The Fray
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Lyrics to "How To Save A Life" :
Step one you say we need to talk
He walks you say sit down it's just a talk
He smiles politely back at you
You stare politely right on through
Some sort of window to your right
As he goes left and you stay right
Between the lines of fear and blame
You begin to wonder why you came
CHORUS:
Where did I go wrong, I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
Let him know that you know best
Cause after all you do know best
Try to slip past his defense
Without granting innocence
Lay down a list of what is wrong
The things you've told him all along
And pray to God he hears you
And pray to God he hears you
CHORUS:
Where did I go wrong, I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
As he begins to raise his voice
You lower yours and grant him one last choice
Drive until you lose the road
Or break with the ones you've followed
He will do one of two things
He will admit to everything
Or he'll say he's just not the same
And you'll begin to wonder why you came
CHORUS:
Where did I go wrong, I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
CHORUS:
Where did I go wrong, I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
How to save a life
How to save a life
CHORUS:
Where did I go wrong, I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
CHORUS:
Where did I go wrong, I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
How to save a life
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Congratulations to the person who spent 5 years looking for this song💀
Kurapika? This u?
@@catbatmat159 😶😶😶
@@Watts2020 😐.
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Thank you Scrubs to let me know about this amazing song.
Your welcome
This song is really beautiful
EXACTLY
''Come on come on GOD! GOD!''
Damn 12 years later this still hits but in a different way
2022- still touches souls, makes connections, reminds us to save a life
very beautiful song i can relate cause i saved a life while playin this song ty the fray u awesome with love xxxxxxx
I miss you always Joel Grijalva RIP little brother!
Grabe, sarap sa pakiramdam pakinggan to bago matulog/habang nag rready papasok sa work at pag nasa byahe. 🥺❤❤
Someday someone will be thinking on me while playing this.
You ok?
Bro you should tell someone you trust how you’re feeling dawg I pray for the best for you brotha
Bruh....dont.
For my brother shane, sorry i wasn't there for you bro.. always in my heart...
I still listen to this 🤍.
As a child I never understood this was about Suicide, I thought it was a break up song.
Sorry to all the people I couldn’t save. I write to lift spirits. I wrote this one along time ago after a loss.
i wasn't able to save him and i hate myself for being late at that time and till now i blame myself.
It's not your fault. You did the best you were able to do in your situation, don't blame yourself.
I can't believe this is 10 years old
It's actually older
5 years. I spent 5 years looking for this one song. I have finally found it.
You could’ve just typed “where did I go wrong, I lost a friend” lol
Same Dylan, Recently I Heard This Song In My Class And I forgot the lyrics again. But Somehow I remembered just now "how to save a life"
Congrats! :)
How can you find a song when the singer litterally mubles? "WHEEEDIRAWROOOUAH AWROUAASH HEHE"
Hahahha
I once had a friend (I don't even know him that well actually) who texted me, "can we meet up? I need to talk to someone cos I'm thinking of suicide". I said okay but I panicked so I messaged friend who studied therapy. He gave me 3 advices that I will always remember:
1. Your role is only to listen, get him to talk and process his own feelings.
2. Best advice you can give is help him find resources to get professional help. Do not give life advices.
3. Whatever happens, his happiness and his life is not your responsibility. Do the best you can to help him but don't let his emotions drag you down with it
Definitely what I always need when I'm depressed, and suicidal: people with no attachment, or stake in my life, to give me apathetic attention so I can gain my resolve.
Best response my best friend committed suicide I was living in Kauai mind you I had been sexually assaulted and tried multiple times to kill myself he stood with me on the phone everyday till I got home .. idk what made me come home but I did and I've known him my whole life not knowing he had tried killing himself and his mother was forbidden to tell me because he said I'd blame myself forever for it... He wasn't wrong it will be five years but all we can do is listen....
Being a suicidal person who's gone through countless therapists, psychiatrists and etc, here's some other advice for you. Don't take advice from therapists on how to handle a situation. 99% don't give a shit and the way they "listen" is extremely patronizing. The patient is a paycheck.
@@mikeg6285 a lot of that depends on perspective sometimes. It is unfair to say all therapists do not care, although I’m sorry you’ve been treated that way.
@@mikeg6285 I'm not a therapist, and I don't have a ton of life experience because I'm only 20. I have learned that those 3 things can be helpful just from helping my friends from hardship. The most important thing is just showing up (emotionally, physically, however you can). Sometimes the friend is on the other side of the country, and all you can do is sit on the phone with them in their sorrow. Any effort is worth it. Pushing off the end for even a single day is worth it. All I ask is that we stay long enough to see the sunrise, and then perhaps the next, and the next after that. People forget that life is worth living for the little things, like friendship and sunrises.
RIP Landon, I wish I knew how to get through to you. I wish I was a better big brother.
Rest In Peace, May he be in a better place now
Sometimes we just don't know what's going through someone else's head and heart and that's why we have to be grateful for the lives we're given and learn that we can't do it all - we're not perfect. Just do the best you can going forward ❤
May God bless you both 🛐
Rip
I’m sorry bro I know this comment is three years old but I’m sorry
@@thatwhiteguy5847 Thank you Trent. Time and distance are helping.
2021 everyone? This was never gone in my playlist.
Nope
Same
Sup
2021
Yep ofcourse
*"and I would of stayed up with you all night"* that line makes me cry every time.
My ex committed suicide and i saw something coming but failed act... not that i knew what to do . But i did nothing.... that line makes me cry every time. Regret is powerful
It's would have or would've
@@Pauly421Not important.
@@psychokittyletsplayandmore8589To you maybe. Some of us appreciate correct grammar.
@@brandinichole1119 same here and i did nothing
One of my friend's neighbors was going to kill themselves by overdosing
Though I had never met her (my friend had moved to Idaho) myself, I was terrified for the young girl and convinced my friend to let me talk to her
She had a rough home life and was ready to end it all
I talked to her for 2 hours and finally managed to convince her to calm down, not take the pills, and go to sleep
Afterwards I turned on the radio and this song immediately started playing.
I did know how to save a life :)
Hi ,9 Years later
Hero
Imagine being cool like this XD what a loser (just kidding btw)
you're great
hi
this makes me miss my best friend, sadly he doesn't talk to me anymore now that he has a girlfriend :'(
+Miss SnowWolf Ughhhh I feel you :<
I'm sorry... right there with you.
You and him talk anymore? I mean I know this is 5 years later but ya know.... Why not ask?
Are you two still friends? It’s been six years so I just wanted to check
I feel the pain
My best friend was being followed, but she had alerted the cops days before and was assured she would be safe. Her best friend was sick, so she went to the store to buy some cold medicine, even though we told her not to. She said she would be fine, and I let her go, joking with her like always and saying goodnight.
She never came home. She was found the next day, dead. Her stalker was taken to jail, but I wish I'd known how to save her life. I know I could have. But I didn't...
@TheMaxDivision - it wasn’t your fault, you didn’t know. You thought she would be safe because the police said so, and that means it wasn’t your fault. I hope you’re doing okay, and sorry for responding so late
She died doing the right thing for her best friend because she cared more about them than getting killed by her stalker. you shouldn't blame yourself. She is somewhere above in whatever afterlife there is and she's thanking you for giving her all that you did, your guardian angel. I'm sorry for your loss.
That's heartbreaking
I know how you feel not being able to help someone you care about It's not your fault
i’m so sorry for your loss
2022, this song still hits my heart ..
Yeah, same. In a time where everything is rough for me, this really speaks to me.
@@Wolffman109 I totally agree 🙏 stay strong brother 🤍
Myn too
Betting there’ll be a 2023 comment just like yours now
2023 💔
Listening to this song makes you wish that you have someone to talk to and you feel secure when you're with that person.
Amen
I wish I had a person like that a few years ago. Im fine now but man that woudve helped.
Hey guys you can text like everyone on UA-cam Comments.
There will always be some people to care about you!!🥰🥰
Tell us youer Problems. (mabye not TO personal if you know what i mean 😅)
and make shure its a video with lots of kliks. There will be more people who can help you.😉
We will always be here for you guys.
(us, the youtube community)
Take cere of you selfes...♥️♥️ There are lots of people who love you 💕
Byee
👋is ✨and I have no idea why I would be able to make it to the best thing in life and his own family that I can make sure I have the best of our time and will not be there for a
Listening to this song makes you wish people weren’t so fake
Sang this with my sister in 2010.
She passed away in August.
Hits harder than ever.
Lost my brother last march. Thinking of him while i was reading the lyrics. Hits hard forsure. I wish i could have saved him... the guilt and regret of not being a better brother is the hardest thing to live with. Wish i knew what i knew now.
So sorry for your loss
My condolences. Stay strong. Your sister I'm sure would want you to. Sending prayers and good vibes. Head up 👊🏾
Condolences. ❤️
i lost my sister last august too, this song reminds me of her so much
Songs don’t hit like this anymore :(
it's been 11 years since the official video, the song never dies. :)
it came out in 2005 young one.
It's 2021 and I still love this song.
Its 2022 and i already found it 😅
Hi
Hi
2022 and almost to 2023! 💪🏻
@@Ashley_617 it 2023
This was a buddy of mine’s favorite song. He was all about helping people and making them laugh. He passed sadly from cancer and for years I couldn’t listen to this song without losing it. He is the reason I’m a fire fighter today. Rest peacefully Sean. “Until next time my friend be well!”
:/
Sori my brother, Seun is with the angels now looking upon you,life is cruel sometimes.
he surely is proud of u Mr.Fireman..Gb😊
While listening to this song, I remember all the people who hurt me and ruined my life.
luweh
, I hope your life is better now and that you realize that it is you that makes your life better, not others.
@luweh - are you okay? I know it’s been seven years and your account might not even be active, but I want to know. If you need to talk, I’m here for you
@@lunar_memories9981 thats so sweeeeeeet 🥺😿
Amen🤣🤣🤣🙏
Forgiveness
You don’t hear songs like this on the radio anymore and it’s really sad. Rap music and songs about materialistic things have taken over the radio
I had the same sort of problem, but it was one of my friends that was going to slit her wrist. I tried SO hard to talk her out of it, I was in tear on the computer on Facebook trying to stop her but it didn't work. She did slit herself, but her uncle heard her fall, found her and rushed her to the ER in time. It is a scary thing to have going on. I failed, but she at least didn't die for my mistake. You know how to save a life. Me... not so much. I'm glad it went well for you.
Are you both okay?
I'd say this song is about someone who's close friend who either died from or was going through a drug addiction. The narrator was trying to help him through his addiction but the friend denied it, but now it's too late to do anything as the friend's passed away or he's too deep in his addiction. I won't go into details but if you look at the lyrics you can piece it together.
I think its about suicide
it’s about a breakup
@@anthonyonstrings No it's not
its about trying to stop a friend from commiting suicide
@@personperson3804 It isn't, the OP was right. Ultimately it means whatever the listener wants it to mean, but the lyrics themselves were written about the failed intervention of a drug addict.
I cry everytime i listen to this..!!!:(
Yasuri Washimoto you are not alone
Same
Save ur tears for happiness
If you ever see a person who's depressed just give them a hug. It'll go a long way
I always do💗
this comment is so beautiful
How would you know they're depressed? 🤷
Definitely NOT hugging a random depressed person. That's a good way to get yourself shot.
@@trawlins396 Not a random depressed person. Walk up to a person you know who is depressed and give them a hug
POV: You're only here bc you like the song from Grey's Anatomy..
Facts
My ex suffered from mental illness, and suicidal thoughts
All I wanted to do was make her happy and let her know she can be loved. When I confessed how she made me feel and we split up it got so ugly and she’s hated me since and blocked me out. I don’t miss the relationship but I really miss that friendship, I miss you Ashley!❤️
Oh my God..same girl..
Well she is just not tight for you then and you helped her joe you can go in and help another girl that will stay your girlfriend and your bestfriend xx
Me too. The exact same story. Man, I miss her.
Same here buddy!! But over time I've only come to a realisation that if someone was that close a friend, a best friend, she would also understand our feelings and thought process- which didn't happen. Just like their mental health is important,so is ours. I definitely miss my best friend, but the toxicity was too much to handle for me either. May us and they themselves meet the person who is right for us. Cheers!
right here w you dude
Being friends with someone who is a social outcast is a good way to start.
Its just you and them...
I mastered the feeling of sensing that one person who is awkward to the group and sticking with them so they do not feel left out.
Please don’t do this you guys don’t be friends with someone just because you think you can save them. Only be friends with someone if you want to be friends with them
@@ayyyemossy1355 im just saying to be kind. You dont have to befriend everyone. But it doesnt hurt to be kind to people even if your not their friend.
Happy anniversary to my almost death day. Been 4 years since then, I won't go back to how I was. I'm happy now. It'll get better.
I’m glad your happy now!! :D
good for you man :D
Good to hear duke!
🙂
Congrats you are so strong, Stay awesome
As a firefighter of 8+ years, I have pushed on 38 dead people’s chest, only 7 have had a second chance. Each time the bigger number gets higher, I listen to this song, it makes me think:
What did I do wrong?
What if I did ____ different?
What if I was there just a bit faster?
What if I was already at the firehouse when we got the call?
(And much more questions flood my brain)
And I’m sorry to the 31 people that didn’t get a second chance, and no matter how you pasted and what your life was, I hope you are resting peacefully now.
(Promise to myself)
Each time I push on someone’s chest and they do not get to have a second chance, come back here and ask a question.
But at the end of the question, tell yourself this:
‘the only promise of living is death. No matter how hard you try to save everyone, every life must come to an end, and that’s the beauty of living’.
Dear number 31,
If it was not pouring down rain, I could have gotten to you a bit faster.
If it wasn’t raining that bad, could I make it in time for it to count?
Would having that extra time change the outcome?
Remember:
‘the only promise of living is death. No matter how hard you try to save everyone, every life must come to an end, and that’s the beauty of living’.
Rest In Peace, number 31.
Been there brother. I ended up leaving the fire service because of the one that I wanted to save and I failed her. Even though it was a fatal car accident, she was a girl I knew. I was there with her to the end and many have said over the last 33 years that there was nothing more that I could have done. I will forever feel like I failed Melanie. So I know what you mean. I will repeat to you what was told to me. Remember the ones you did save, because it's not that you didn't try with the others. You have them every fighting chance to live, not giving up when they already have. Don't give on it like I did,the fire service needs good people, not the gloryboy types but the dedicated. Do not ever allow a Melanie to change what you should do. Stay strong brother and keep jumping on the truck. Those you lost would want it that way, and the ones you didn't,well, they would not be here with out you.
@@stevenbaker8184 thank you.
Dear number 32,
I’m sorry, I wish I could have stoped the bleeding, I wish you still had your legs attached. I’m sorry it had to end that way.
There was nothing I could do, I’m happy I got to be there by your side when you passed, I’m happy I made it easier for you.
Remember:
‘the only promise of living is death. No matter how hard you try to save everyone, every life must come to an end, and that’s the beauty of living’.
I wasn’t pushing, but my grandfather funeral was today, it was his time, and I’m relieved for him. He suffered from dementia and Alzheimer’s for 16 years. Rest easy, I hope you are where you want to be.
“I look forward to having a lunch with you again”
I have saved 13 people from suicide and listening to this song just hits me hard knowing how many people i indirectly helped from savings these lifes. To who ever reads this comment have a great day ❤️.
you're such a great person and always be proud of yourself
what a good person you are❤
@@harleytrett733 he is not a great person he is a hero too
@@angelabarbosalopesrodrigue2602 cool idc
@@harleytrett733 I think what they were trying to say is that this person is a hero and a good person, not that they aren't a great person.
I had a friend, that wanted to die and I convinced her that its not worth it, and how much I love her as a friend, and told her it will get better soon, and Everything will be ok, and that there are so many things that she will miss out on in the world and how much I would miss her and she didn't do it, and now she is doing alot better
I feel soooo bad for the person this song is about, its good but sad song
sounds/music good lyrics sad
It's a good sad song.
I can't hear this song without tears. She was such a sweet sweet soul. Tried to call me but I was too busy going out of town.
Sorry for your loss. May she rest in peace
Dude what happened
@@KomatsuHB215LC-1 She tried to call me to say bye I guess. She shot herself in the head. My wife went over there because she didn't answer the phone and found her and called me. I lost it.
Same this song hurts me so much my dad was an alcoholic and had a heart problem he died 11/15/22 :(
@@BRIANnj1 Good for him!
She lost her fight, but i made a promise and I'm still here fighting just for her 💔
Aww
Is she suicide
Rest in peace Kyndall pickard. You were my everything, my bestfriend. ily❤
Rest In Peace
I'm so sorry.. RIP
I have lost friends to suicide throughout my life, this song just sings to me 🥺💔❤ now i am grown whenever my friends new or old needs me or they don't i always tell them they should NEVER hold back whenever they need me or someone, i will be there i don't care what time it is ❤
Too many people are lost already, but we're still here for them no matter what happens ❤ you are not and you are never alone ❤
This song hits me hard. My best mate was married & found out his wife had terminal cancer she sadly passed away. As a result he hit depression HARD.. he text me & our other mates we ALL left to be with him, he needed us. That night we spoke all of us long hours, early morning we had all fallen asleep during that time he committed suicide.
We was broken. Please if you or a loved one are going through pain please please look for the signs get them help be with them it just might save their life. 😢
I remember singing this song with my best friend Pat when he broke up with his boyfriend. I literally stayed up all night with him just smoking just to make sure he didn't try anything crazy. Even though I'm a straight man myself, I cant stand people who hate gay people at all. So much mindless hatred!
you are a very good friend and he is very lucky to have you
@@graceschmechel7657 thanks. I couldn't let Pat go off and do something crazy. Not to mention he did tell me he was feeling like dying so I had to step in and make sure he didnt do anything crazy.
I know how Pat felt. I know the feelings and emotions he probably went through. In some ways, I kinda wish that I didn’t know first hand how depression/ suicidal thoughts felt. But it’s part of life. And we’re all put on this earth for a reason. Don’t let anyone or anything tell you that you weren’t.
i lost my grandfathet in 2010 this song reminds me of him u miss him so much
2010 was a horrible year. I'm sorry about you Grandfather. I knew 6 people who died in 6 months. Youngest 11, Oldest was 62. Never another year like that!
@@ssmith543 I know right? Lost 3 people in 2010. So awful.
My dog died today.
I've recently lost my best friend, he was more like an older brother to me. December 25th of 2021 we would talk about planning to celebrate after graduation. He always says he wants us (his circle of friends) to be complete when that time comes. January 2022, two weeks later, I returned home from vacation and I haven't heard a word from him (not knowing he was already ill that time). I thought he was just busy, so I just sent him a message, but never responded. A few days more, I woke up to get my phone and saw a post saying he passed away. I refused to believe it so I went to their house. There I found him, lying down on the bed pale. *"Where did I go wrong? I lost a friend.*
You said we'd drink after graduation before parting ways, but why did you go first?
*Somewhere along in the bitterness, and I would have stayed up with you all night."*
The guilt, knowing I could have been there for him.
So for anyone out there, meet your friends like it's your last. Cherish them.
I just came here for Grey's Anatomy
POV: You're from Grey's Anatomy 🤧😩
When i was 14 I knew the best girl in the world, but sadly, she was struggeling with depresion, I was not in my best too, so even when she was having sick thoughs everyday, she just wasted her time and talked to me because she was the greatest person ever. I tried to be as brave as I could and told her that i love her, and that i would fight against everything in order to make her happy, we started a relationship althought she was much more older than me, but her depresion just went worst and she started to struggle with anxiety too, the only thing that she was able to do in order to feel quiet when she was suffering a crysis was to cut herself, so everything just fucked up, my parents thought that she was playing with me, she was older than me, and she liked to punish me everytime we had an arge cutting herself, i ended up thinking the same, i ended up thinking she had not the guts to suicide, and as far i as felt like she was toxic i left her on her own, i did not talk to her, she finally suicided, and now when i hear this song i remind myself how much i hate myself, she would not had leaved, but i did, she just needed me to talk, she just needed me to stay up with her all night, and i ran away, now i wish everyday i would have know how save a live when i was 14. I wish it had been me. Because we would be both alive, or at was she would be. I still loving her, I still see her face in the dark, i still hear her voice when i go bed, sometimes i even feel the heat of her body, but she is not here anymore, and I will live he rest of my like knowing that she loved me so much more than i did, and that is the reason because she is not here. Rest in peace honey.
This is a beautiful song and great presentation as you allow us a chance to fill the void of space with our experiences! Jesus is the savior and we are the instruments. We have to be willing to participate
This song never dies. Hits as hard today as it did in the early 2000s.
This song is bittersweet; the lyrics are very deep and meaningful however the rhythm has a uplifting story saying “no matter what happens, keep going and it’s ok not to be ok and DO NOT be scared to ask for help”
Born in 94 and been listening to this song my entire life, it saved my life!
me to buddy hang in there you got this ily
This video always gives me pain. Ever since my Dad died, I blamed myself. He died early in the morning of a heart attack, and by the time he was found it was too late for him to be resuscitated. That same morning I woke up earlier than normal, but being the lazy piece of shit I was, I went back to sleep. Next thing I know I'm waking up to my mum screaming. If I had just gotten out of bed and gone out to the living room to greet my dad, I might have been there when he had his heart attack and maybe called the ambulance. Maybe he would've survived. I'll never know for sure, and I don't think I'll ever forgive myself completely.
Alr man I've never been in this position but it was not your fault alr I want you to know that it will never be your fault I love you
i have a few friends that really know how to save a life...mine especially :) i dont know what i could do without my friend jordan and my gf brianna theyve both been there when i was down and now im happier than ever because of them i love you guys :)
I listened to this song when my first patient passed away. Today i found a patient trying to take her life. I did cpr. Dont know if she will make it. Thank you scrubs for making me become a nurse.
May god bless and protect yall.
Its hard when your friend needs you and is suffering from depression but you're also silently struggling too with your life.
It's true that someone you need can be someone who needs you the most. Our generation is a mess.
I was 13 years old attending a friends memorial service that included this song. . . Even I wish I would have treated him better. . . He took his life no longer than 4 years after my step father and up until then, I didn't truly know what that meant.
When I’m gone they’ll listen to this and realize I needed them
Are you gone? Don't leave
I had a friend, he was suicidal and I got him out of that.
Happy 1 yr anniversary of this comment I listen to this daily
I can't play this song just once, so infectious, need to play at least 4-5 times. Driving fast in the car alone down the back roads, singing at the top of my lungs!
I didn't say the singing was good.
Snap🤣🥴❤️
i came here not because i lost a friend but because i dont feel myself anymore. I dont have someone i can lay or rely on, someone to talk to and shared my problems with. I know its kinda hard but we just need to accept the fact that at the end of the day we just only have ourselves. :))
Wanna talk about it ? What’s your if
Ig*
nyleebrcn_
That’s true.. i was thinking the same thing as i was listening to this song. Life is a tragedy, it’s unfair and in the end you only have yourself. Stay strong and if you ever need someone to talk to i am here 🤍
Sincerely
u can vent anonymously on there 👌
I'm just here because of Sapnap..
For you, Naed. I would have done anything to save you.
Anyone listening this in 2021?
A few months ago, my friend used to face time me a lot. I was confused because they usually call me like twice a week. But I later found out that a lot of not so great things were happening in her life, I realized she called me so she can have some sort of joy. She doesn't call me every day anymore but every time I miss a call from her I feel so bad and guilty. I used to hate her in elementary school but little did I know that she'd become someone I talk to often and became close to her. She doesn't know it, but i care so much about her. Every talk and conversation makes me hope she stays away from those negative thoughts. Moral of the story, always be there for your friend. They might have something going on in their life and you're the only comforting thing for them. And for the person I was talking about, I love you. I may not show it but you are someone that matters to me, love you ❤
Im leaving this comment here so whenever i get a comment or a like ill get reminded of this masterpiece ❤️
In the summer of 2019 I changed because of my grandmother's death and it changed me into someone I hate i wish I was the real me again, because in 2019 that's when I lost everything.
Everyone in the comments has such beautiful reasons why they love this song..... I love it because of Grey's Anatomy.... am I the only one???
Me!! This one and chasing cars.
I always say that it's the grays anatomy song because that's where I know it from
This song has always a place on my heart.. reminds me of an old friend somewhere in Greece
We're just adding comments on how the song makes us remember, and think. Suicide is now the most common reason of death, so don't think everybody is lying about it. 'Cause I know for a fact most people wouldn't make up stories like that. So please think before you type next time, thank you. ^_\)
i love this song it brings back old memories :)
Same 😊
Time to come back and listen to this song again it is calling you
I came here because of Grey's Anatomy
2023 this song will always be so important. We will see our loved 1s again ❤ if you're reading this there was nothing you could've done differently to change the outcome of them parting from this lifetime but they are still with you. We see flesh but they (we) are so much more then that our soul never dies .. sending lots of love and light to all .
When you manage to get donor organs for three critically ill patients, only to find out your donor died of rabies.
This song is an intervention. Such a truth in the words it must be some sort of universal experience. For I hear it and I am right there, failing them again. You try so hard to break through. So careful with the fact that they are in denial. You try understanding and then silence and then rage. Nothing works. For they are blinded by the lie of their addiction s. Then this one last desperate attempt to reach them. Because their spiral is reaching out and pulling you down with them. And you don't have the words , the grace to break through. Eventually all there is are memories. Wishes that you had known how to fix them. What you would have given to just know how. And you mourn them and you mourn for that lost possibility. If only you had been better, smarter, smoother could you have changed things? I'm sorry Gary. I am sorry I didn't know how to save you.
2022 and still into this song...been saving others but struggling on my own...not asking for anything...but I'm proud of myself for staying strong...if you happen to read this and you're going through alot, just breath and keep living...i know that if i can...you can too. ❤️❤️❤️
Promise to keep breathing too dear one. The world needs you
@@Luphirasoul it's just that whenever i try to be my best, it's like everyone starts turning their back at me... So i just kinda get used to it.
@@cristinesabido2856 You should self delete.
@@Luphirasoul No one is needed
I know the feeling. You've got a big heart and stronger than you'll ever know.
Everytime I write a book, I find a song for the ending... I finally found it. My book ends with the main character's best friend sacrificing himself so she can walk free. Years go by as she feels guilty for his death until she gets married and has a family. Ten years later, she realizes she fulfilled his last wish for her to live happily ever after. ❤😥
This song reminds me of Yamile
Wish i could have saved my baby... 😔
Girlfriend broke things off with me a week ago. She suffers from severe PTSD, from childhood trauma, and has been self medicating with alcohol hard. My anxiety is in high gear. I feel so powerless.
you’ll be alright, its not your fault. you can do this, she had issues to deal with and you never know, she could always come back after she focuses on herself for a while. dont get hung up on her- let yourself live, think about yourself. good luck, man.
@@c0ffinnailzz thank you so much, for the support. ❤️
just posted a cover of it , never gets old 🥺
I have always told my sister to hug those with "angel war scars" (sh cuts) and one day she ran up to a teenage girl in the shop and hugged her and the girl asked why she hugged her and she said 'my sister tells me to hug people with angel war scars' the girl looked confused until my sister pointed at her wrist. Then my sister said "my sister has them too she battled too :)"
Beautiful and sad or sad and beautiful? But reality is much more than we can imagine. Nice one there Nicole.
Are u ok now nicole
Honestly I wish I would've been able to save myself. I'm alive and well and happy, but it feels like I died after I got into drugs. And I'm happy and sober (weed and alcohol dont count), but I'm never gonna have that straight edge life again. Even if i stay clean, there will always be a piece of me just dying to do whatever substance, to smoke a cigarette, to get drunk at 9 in the morning. It feels like the addiction just changed me on a fundamental level and i wish i would've never started. Ive been a zombie for like a year :(
I think about them all the time, even when I don't want to. I'm paranoid about my eyes being too dilated, I can't remember senior year of HS and I can't remember what I did this summer aside from just getting high and being sad. And I'm always craving it and at night I get these weird visuals and it used to be cool, but now it's just annoying because I'm trying to sleep and the walls are moving. I'll see bugs crawl on my skin occasionally and I won't have a clue if it's real or not. I'm recovering, but it feels like I died. That kid's never coming back.
I save my sister's life a lot, everytime I hear this song I remember my sister
Put it on 0.75 it's amazing
Have you ever wanted to die so badly but theirs that one person that needs you so push it down and smile for them caues they have been hurt enough and you don't want to hurt them more
This really hits hard…
I talked a close friend out of committing suicide when we were in 8th grade. I helped him through all the bullshit in his life. Now he doesn't talk to me and hates me. I was only defending my Mexican background and heritage because he was talking shit. It sure does show you how ungrateful people are
this song has such a deep mean in my life, if your going through anything remember taking your own life don't stop the pain it'll only pass it to someone else. My uncle took his own life when I was 14. I miss him so so much. prayers for everyone going through something I love you all.
My Uncle died on the night of the 4th of July. He fell off a cliff and bled out all night until they found him the next morning. He died the moment he was in the hospital. He kept calling my dad but we were at a firework show so he didn't answer. If I could go back in time I'd tell my dad pick up the phone. I know how to save a life. The crazy thing is my Uncle was a crazy drunk and a drug addict. I still loved him but it's crazy of all the things a rock fucking kills him. This song reminds me of him. ❤️
I'm self-harming and have thought about suicide for so long. Today I came across this song and I hope that one day I'll meet someone who'll be there when I am taking my final decision.
Idk who you are, but please dont kill yourself. There are people out there who love you or at least think about you. Idk how old you are, but, no matter how old you are, there is always a chance turn things around. Tell people you trust about your feelings, you dont have to fight alone.
I hope your okay, there are always people you can talk to
Why does this fits so well with the Death Note Drama series? L was just trying to help Light but Light kept rejecting him and had Mikami kill him anyway. Light regretted this the moment L died and cried so real hard. All L wanted was to talk. It's so sad. On the other hand in the first movie,Ryuk was killing off Light and he was trying to not die. While Light died in his father's arms,L really did wonder if he could've had saved Light's life. In both situations,they both lost a friend somewhere in the bitterness to each other and could'nt save each other and the other one regretting everything. It's really sad if you think about it.
Who’s here from the and only sapnap?
Found my dad dead from am overdose one morning and this reminds me of him. I'd have stopped him if I'd known he wasn't sober anymore.