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  • Insight on when a narcissist knows that they could never come back to you.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 140

  • @johncummings5755
    @johncummings5755 6 днів тому +30

    KNOWLEDGE = CHECKMATE

    • @tokyoblur24
      @tokyoblur24 6 днів тому +2

      Exactly! When you know, it seems like they automatically know that you know and realize their playbook and them are history.

  • @BlueBaby-m6t
    @BlueBaby-m6t 6 днів тому +95

    I couldn't go back to the narcissist because I have to much respect for myself!

  • @seameology
    @seameology 6 днів тому +33

    I'm hoping divorce papers and a half of a country away does the trick.

  • @GregMunro
    @GregMunro 4 дні тому +219

    A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient

    • @DarylSimpson58
      @DarylSimpson58 4 дні тому

      There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things

    • @GregMunro
      @GregMunro 4 дні тому

      Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white..

    • @TrentReeves-c2k
      @TrentReeves-c2k 4 дні тому

      This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks.

    • @GregMunro
      @GregMunro 4 дні тому

      You wont regret it

  • @rochellemack642
    @rochellemack642 5 днів тому +6

    I FEEL LIKE I'm healing sometimes & then the ruinmating starts OMG THIS IS A JOURNEY Prayer Works

  • @browneyes9507
    @browneyes9507 6 днів тому +11

    All you need to do is stay absent & silent they’ll get the message.
    He can’t find me 🎉nor talk to me ever again.
    5 yrs out 🎉🎉🎉

  • @patricebeene646
    @patricebeene646 6 днів тому +22

    NO!!! DOOR SHUT LOCKED!!!

  • @blaquecinderella3560
    @blaquecinderella3560 6 днів тому +18

    Truth on Truth 💯 I fully relate because now I'm truly healed and I know he can never attempt to hoover me again like before. It's an amazing place to be. What a journey

  • @QueenJessica-z5j
    @QueenJessica-z5j 4 дні тому +101

    Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.

    • @LunqCharlotte
      @LunqCharlotte 4 дні тому

      Its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 5 years ended, but i couldn't just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back.

    • @QueenJessica-z5j
      @QueenJessica-z5j 4 дні тому

      Intriguing! I'm curious, how did you find a spiritual counselor, and what's the most effective way for me to reach him?

    • @LunqCharlotte
      @LunqCharlotte 4 дні тому

      Meet father obah eze, a renowned spiritual counselor acclaimed for his talent in bringing back ex-partners.

    • @QueenJessica-z5j
      @QueenJessica-z5j 4 дні тому

      Thank you for this valuable information.
      I just checked father obah eze out, he’s really legit thanks for the recommendation

    • @Denise-kc8np
      @Denise-kc8np 5 годин тому

      Let Jesus snap the soul tie! You dodged a bullet, thank God you are free of someone who didn't deserve you and not, hopefully on a path to hell. You must be born again to enter the kingdom of heaven.l!

  • @leniecelewis3415
    @leniecelewis3415 6 днів тому +16

    That Big Bird Knows That This Door Is Shut And Locked Especially Seeing That Alcoholic Crypt Keeper He Was Cheating On Me With She Looks Like A Big Old Question Mark 😂😭

    • @armcandi36
      @armcandi36 3 дні тому +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @armcandi36
      @armcandi36 3 дні тому +1

      Screaming 😅😅😅

  • @shirlspark_stardust
    @shirlspark_stardust 6 днів тому +4

    I have been getting calls from burner numbers and this week past one of them was a facetime call no reply from me nah I am silent staying that way thank you Jesus getting me out 🙌🙌🙌

  • @user-vj2sn7vv5s
    @user-vj2sn7vv5s 6 днів тому +2

    I changed my number and it feels great, I am slowly coming out of the Fog and into the Sunshine.

  • @tyreewilliams7954
    @tyreewilliams7954 6 днів тому +2

    Facts Ms.Telsha, as always she can never come back. Peace Ms.Telsha 💯💯💯👍🏿🙏🏿

  • @InHisService772
    @InHisService772 6 днів тому +2

    Great video!! Please also watch her video on time blocking. It truly breaks down what they do to supply to get supply and to TRAIN the supply as well.

  • @lisalabella8355
    @lisalabella8355 4 дні тому

    Glory to God! This video just sent me into warfare! I was speaking in my heavenly language just now and said the prayer of repentance and rebuked the devil! The power of the holyghost just fell on me! Whew you are preaching sis and thank you for your obedience of speaking this truth to keep us informed of this demonic stuff! My question is are these children of the adversary that does this? Can they be set free? Help us Lord !

  • @lagoldie9783
    @lagoldie9783 6 днів тому +1

    Hi Ms. Telsha. Happy Sunday and good to see your post today! It's always a blessing when you share! Thank you! 🙌💯🙏 I get the burner number calls, they always hang up the phone after I say hello smh lol!😂 Like Drake said, they be tryna drain us of our energy! It's so true! Our ability to overcome is incredulous 💯. Thank you for sharing your light today 🙏👑🌹 Shalom!

  • @kimberleyhartley6631
    @kimberleyhartley6631 6 днів тому

    Thank you Telsha for this is true of narcissists. I had been in a romantic relationship where I was not treated as an equal, ghosted and depersonalized due to the impudence of one who had narcissistic traits.

  • @jamesgreen5924
    @jamesgreen5924 6 днів тому +2

    Go head cat woman with them glasses on 😅😊

    • @VeraOhiaer
      @VeraOhiaer 6 днів тому +2

      I love those glasses. I'm going to find a pair for me

  • @EyesOnTheHorizon-u9v
    @EyesOnTheHorizon-u9v 4 дні тому

    LOVE IT !

  • @candipayne2003
    @candipayne2003 6 днів тому

    Omg ❤ I love it see ya mad wouldn’t wanna be ya

  • @catherinewarren7364
    @catherinewarren7364 6 днів тому

    Well said

  • @patriziastella6564
    @patriziastella6564 6 днів тому

    Oh he knows that i know cause before i walked away from the relationship i sent him information about narcissist & he couldnt really say anything. He hoovered me 5 mnths ago asking how im doing & i did not reply back. I havnt heard anything since & i most certainly dont want too. The back ward walking giraffe can take his little toxic a.. somewhere else. 🤣🤣🤣

  • @marcusxsara8896
    @marcusxsara8896 6 днів тому +2

    ❣️😍❤️‍🔥🤩

  • @latonyaadams4379
    @latonyaadams4379 6 днів тому

    👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @donnahale1011
    @donnahale1011 6 днів тому +81

    The narc I dealt with KNOWS he can NEVER COME BACK...NEVER!!!

  • @neha.k
    @neha.k 6 днів тому +53

    It took me years to walk away. It's very tough when you are in a trauma bond with that narcissist. Whenever I used to walk away, he knew I would go back to him when he love bombed again n again. This took years of suffering finally realising my worth. Now I finally discarded that narcissist n never looking back. He knows what he has lost. None of his love bombing tactics are going to work again! May God free us from the narcissists.

  • @WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd
    @WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd 6 днів тому +36

    I cannot begin to express how WONDERFUL it feels to be healed enough that I love my life without him in it now. I'm sincerely happy that he is long gone, out of my life, and I don't have to see his face, or hear his loud mouth obnoxious voice ever again. The ruminating seems to be gone. And, I feel like the trauma bond is finally broken, and over. I really don't have any feelings for him at all anymore. I honestly believe that I am finally reaching the point of indifference where if I were to see him now I wouldn't feel anything. Just a whole lot of nothing is all I feel for him now. That is all... Damn, this feels good!

    • @arinoelplus5allmine645
      @arinoelplus5allmine645 4 дні тому +2

      Amen me tooo, it feels good❤

    • @mothebarakuoane363
      @mothebarakuoane363 2 дні тому +1

      It took me 2 plus years and I thought I would never heal. Right now, I wish I could send him a thank you note for leaving. It was painful but when the healing finally came, I found myself happier and more confident than I ever was. Financially I am doing better and I have so much peace! But it was hell for over 2 years. May we never meet another type like them🙏🏿

    • @WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd
      @WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd 2 дні тому

      ​@@arinoelplus5allmine645Amen... Praise the Lord 🙏🙌🙏

    • @WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd
      @WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd 2 дні тому +1

      ​@@mothebarakuoane363Amen... Beautiful spoken words of wisdom and truth. 🙏

  • @Payday-ky7mb
    @Payday-ky7mb 6 днів тому +15

    I don’t have the physical, emotional, nor mental strength to hear their voice. The rest I get is priceless. Go away and please don’t come back. A piece of mind is priceless.

  • @NoNonsensesir
    @NoNonsensesir 6 днів тому +21

    We often have to go through Narcissistic abuse to become enlightened. Its such a shame we didn't get the heads up to prevent some of the psychological and emotional damage that it leaves people with.

    • @Nolaboy17
      @Nolaboy17 6 днів тому

      I agree. Life is life, and we're living it. Only the strong survives.

  • @beedido439
    @beedido439 6 днів тому +17

    Almost a year without contact and some days I still struggle. I don’t have SO-ME, so they know nothing about me outside of blocked. This recovery is no joke. Thank God for Jesus who is with us on our top days and down days. I could not have made it without him. Still healing one day at a time.

  • @anndra1160
    @anndra1160 6 днів тому +19

    All my ex narc got to watch was my back side as I walked away and NEVER looked back! 😁

  • @JoannaHouse-pq5rn
    @JoannaHouse-pq5rn 6 днів тому +15

    Never Ever Never!!!!!

  • @YachicaK330
    @YachicaK330 6 днів тому +13

    He told his new supply I was his biggest regret in life. Imma make him eat all that … can’t wait to get this divorce.

    • @lanikinlywalker4596
      @lanikinlywalker4596 6 днів тому +2

      All you can do is laugh with the knowledge you have and walk away. Someone else’s problem now

    • @browneyes9507
      @browneyes9507 6 днів тому +2

      Look out new supply you up next 😂😂
      Same abuse

  • @Shalom.4.4.
    @Shalom.4.4. 5 днів тому +7

    I never changed my address with the post office so he can’t just Google my name and find out where I live now. I think people that have been in a domestically violent relationship should have a little more protection when it comes to their privacy! I hope he never finds me.

  • @CarlaMcmillion
    @CarlaMcmillion 6 днів тому +10

    Happy Sunday 🙌🏾❤, " Hit that Like Button"! 😀💃🏾

  • @peachesandpoets
    @peachesandpoets 6 днів тому +11

    I always dance to the "hit that like button" song. I be grooving 💃🏿

  • @cherylturner7188
    @cherylturner7188 6 днів тому +10

    Yes...Ex Narc...told me that he was "Scared of me" after talking to me now that I am in my healing phase.

    • @Healinglove
      @Healinglove 6 днів тому +2

      😂😂 Same happened here!

  • @Yomomma666xs
    @Yomomma666xs 6 днів тому +12

    I found it funny when they shelf you and go to other supply that's looking like a crashed bird not brushing their teeth looking like a number 10 I mean, at least go for a complete package right?! 😂 it's like downgrading from iPhone 15 pro max to dysfunctional iPhone 6s 😂 how low can you goooooooooo 😂😂🎧

    • @Lillian-z7c
      @Lillian-z7c 6 днів тому +1

      😅😅😅

    • @BriaSA12
      @BriaSA12 6 днів тому +2

      Emphasis on number 10

    • @rachaelmcdougall798
      @rachaelmcdougall798 3 дні тому +1

      Omg I told him his new girlfriend looks like grug and that he did well

    • @Yomomma666xs
      @Yomomma666xs День тому

      @@rachaelmcdougall798 😂😂😂😂

  • @ammoywright169
    @ammoywright169 6 днів тому +8

    Walking papers 😂😂

  • @plantisspeaks
    @plantisspeaks 6 днів тому +8

    Hallelujah 🙌🏾! No sad story to tell. Glory to God!

  • @ZoeBranning
    @ZoeBranning 6 днів тому +9

    If you can't learn to value or appreciate me then you don't deserve me and if you can't be happy with what I do for you then you shouldn't feel entitled to what I have! I will never see a one sided relationship as a privilege. I'm not a wicked person but I am social and I talk to everyone but we have to learn to be fair to one another If you love me I will love you in return but if you hate me then expect to hate you too! I will move on with my life and refuse to acknowledge your existence. I have told the truth.

    • @Yomomma666xs
      @Yomomma666xs 6 днів тому

      I'm with you! This is who we are. No one can drag us down. 😂

  • @marvinasimswewinqueendom2543
    @marvinasimswewinqueendom2543 6 днів тому +7

    God bless you my Divine sister!💕

  • @carlissable
    @carlissable 6 днів тому +7

    No, I didn't know what the devaluing was, but I knew exactly what disrespect was, and I wasnt having it. I discarded him within 3 weeks of planning and moving quietly and strategically. The aftermath video is posted hers in my videos. I discarded him in 2020 and blocked him on every avenue. I never went back and discarded him for life. I didn't play the radio with him. The person you see in that video was who he is and what prompted me to discard his silly arse. When I walk I walk.

    • @guitarsinger1231
      @guitarsinger1231 6 днів тому

      Oh wow you are smart and disciplined! Glad you were able to get away! Has he ever tried to know what happened to you?

  • @ChanellG904
    @ChanellG904 6 днів тому +5

    AMEN🙏🏾‼️

  • @מיכלדורון-ד8ת
    @מיכלדורון-ד8ת 6 днів тому +4

  • @ChanellG904
    @ChanellG904 5 днів тому +2

    Healing and becoming Whole!!!! Fell down but right back up stronger and much wiser than before. Watched this video again and Telsha your videos are definitely a blessing to me in my healing journey.❤️‍🩹🙏🏾It’s harder when you have children with the narcissist but everyday I am determined to break generational trauma‼️

  • @Hecallsmehisdaughter
    @Hecallsmehisdaughter 5 днів тому +1

    What if you have kids with them

  • @CarlMassop
    @CarlMassop 5 днів тому +1

    🖤✌️

  • @phillysfitness
    @phillysfitness 3 години тому

    2:33 addiction-ship 😩👺👏🏾💯 3:29 💯💯💯 3:50 shelving *😮 4:52 👏🏾💯 5:11 nice-guy-narc 6:53 4-6 months *time blocking 😂 8:30 deleted and blocked😊 10:19 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 11:46 💪🏾😆⚖️🧑🏾‍⚖️

  • @luvbug7179
    @luvbug7179 6 днів тому +2

    ❤❤❤

  • @MegaRockstar48
    @MegaRockstar48 6 днів тому +1

    Sandy Patou from France was my narc. Truly evil woman but her fb followers think she is wonderful and soooooooo datable 😂😂😂

  • @neldamayfield3037
    @neldamayfield3037 6 днів тому +1

    Girrrrlllll!!!! You hit this nail on the Head for MEEEEEEER!!!

  • @cashkonvirterz8696
    @cashkonvirterz8696 6 днів тому +1

    8 months after I said I do.... Her mask fell off... Now that I know what I know... I gotta bounce...

  • @ritapeters1330
    @ritapeters1330 57 хвилин тому

    Very good advice ..I subcribed ❤

  • @alanfalan-e7g
    @alanfalan-e7g 2 дні тому

    Move on get ur hair done an drink water skincare..makeup ...
    ... get someone nicer

  • @Bossladylj
    @Bossladylj 3 дні тому

    Wow!! Demonic Intel!!!! YESSSSS. I had a “flirttionship” (basically a texting love-bomb relationship) with a Narc this past summer and I am so glad that I ended it before I got to deeply involved. I can laugh now because it was a long distance relationship and we literally live 20-30 minutes away from each other. But he would text love bomb me daily and yet would never plan for us to see each other. So I ended and yes he came back a month later with text love bombing me. I am HEELED and moved on from this Demonic Intel Fool!! Love this video.

  • @charlesmoon6705
    @charlesmoon6705 2 дні тому

    Healing is a good feeling....thank you
    I still love her but not the same I wish she gets out of her trauma her father and uncle did by molesting her. That's her past but I finally figured it out.

  • @Butterflyyyy9
    @Butterflyyyy9 2 дні тому

    They won't stop stalking you and harass you until they're dead

  • @lindaclark4242
    @lindaclark4242 5 днів тому

    I met Jamie Foxx when him and Colin Ferrell during The Miami Vice movie met alot of them back to back I still don't understand why🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @2bless2bstress
    @2bless2bstress 6 днів тому +1

    🎉at Tea 😁☕ where's that 📷 wher u said the see 👁️ eye 👀 AYYy is full of them bc someone def removed that its not anywhere on the search 🔍🔎😅frrealest 😂

  • @Roses78
    @Roses78 3 дні тому

    The real issue is don’t confuse ego with narcissism. Ego is based on confidence in talent or abilities that can be proven or showcased a narcissist knows they have nothing to offer deep down but rely on vanity and typically envy the one with ego or confidence. There’s a lot of people in these comments claiming they left a narcissist when in all actuality they themselves are the narcissist as the west is littered with average people full of themselves.

  • @ashleypringle8331
    @ashleypringle8331 6 днів тому +1

    Hey thanks for message telsha, I’m loving the new look girl🥰

  • @tdog9150
    @tdog9150 4 дні тому

    Well I have listen to this lady for almost three years , and a lot of others , when I started down this road , had no clue what this was all about .. But she has been spot on , She even knew how I was feeling , But after almost 3 years , I walk in the light , no more dark clouds, I have zero interest in her and it. All just a bad dream . For those that are in it , head down keep walking , it will turn around ,,,remember what don’t kill yu ,, will make yu stronger ,, soon yu will tie a knot in Tarzan’s tail .. I thought it was all BS ,, but it is not ,,, then when yu look at people, yu just know ,

  • @tiffanycalloway5299
    @tiffanycalloway5299 6 днів тому +1

    The PEACE 🙌🏾❤️

  • @montellhorton748
    @montellhorton748 6 днів тому +1

    Nice!! Black 🖤🐈‍⬛ top❤😘

  • @GODS.CHOSEN.ONE..LIONHEART
    @GODS.CHOSEN.ONE..LIONHEART 4 дні тому

    Thank you for this education. It's literally life saving.

  • @lady2luuvly
    @lady2luuvly 19 годин тому

    is that an engagement ring telsha? 👀

  • @BrittneySharde15
    @BrittneySharde15 2 дні тому

    13:07 the best thing EVER!!!!!!

  • @DorothyJackson-ol9cc
    @DorothyJackson-ol9cc 2 години тому

    This is GOOD🎉

  • @honeybeetherose3334
    @honeybeetherose3334 6 днів тому +1

    Backwards walking pigeon with feathers missing 😂

  • @mackstanley3556
    @mackstanley3556 2 дні тому

    Wow you look great...

  • @WTWE-i3m
    @WTWE-i3m 3 дні тому

    Oh they know! 🎯💯✔️

  • @jbsmith3556
    @jbsmith3556 3 дні тому

    takes 1 to know 1 right

  • @sambadiallo8245
    @sambadiallo8245 5 днів тому

  • @youngw1ze
    @youngw1ze 6 днів тому

    After decades long toxic/abusive relationship and messy 3 year long divorce....the ex wife/narc had the 🏀🧶🥎 to ask ....with a straight face..."Why won't you sleep with me?"....😒

  • @DeniseCartharn
    @DeniseCartharn 6 днів тому

    This was JUST THE RIGHT MEDICINE I needed to confirm,my healing,is on point to keep, THAT DEMON AWAY FOREVER 😊😁😉

  • @staceydelbucchia2576
    @staceydelbucchia2576 5 днів тому

    God bless you Miss Tea...❤💯🙏🏼

  • @debbiegalica2992
    @debbiegalica2992 6 днів тому

    I knew who he was before I started my healing journey. But now I don't care anymore. He knew I knew. He's scared of me I know that. I know what he is thinking about in his presence. Im the chosen one. The Super Empath. Let him deal with it now.

  • @hawawiamel2945
    @hawawiamel2945 6 днів тому

    Dear Telsha... When you record from your house we hear a loud noise like a machine and it really makes listening to the topic difficult.... Love you ❤

  • @motowngirl5891
    @motowngirl5891 6 днів тому

    Blocking on the phone is a joke, they can still leave voicemails and texts
    I blocked him on Facebook then changed my phone number
    Then yesterday he sent me a 3 page love boxing letter
    When I blocked him on Facebook it was at the start of another one of his lovebomb phase

  • @jacky198012
    @jacky198012 6 днів тому

    Hi .. 👋 God blesss family … thank u for all the videos .. and information.. they been help me a lot ❤❤❤❤❤ I am running 🏃

  • @makenziepolston1220
    @makenziepolston1220 6 днів тому

    Great timing praise the lord Jesus blessed by this priceless message praying 🙏 healing in Jesus name blessed

  • @pamelathomas5324
    @pamelathomas5324 6 днів тому

    Up and it’s stuck baby he can kick rocks bare foot

  • @tennillewhite9509
    @tennillewhite9509 6 днів тому

    Heyyy Telsha👋🏽🥰 Truth Be Told👌🏽💯🎯

  • @chinaj9292
    @chinaj9292 6 днів тому

    Yess❤❤

  • @vivianperdue4329
    @vivianperdue4329 6 днів тому

    Its a wrap aint no coming back or going 💯

  • @mahaliacarribon3335
    @mahaliacarribon3335 6 днів тому

    Amen

  • @NubianBlackQueen2843
    @NubianBlackQueen2843 6 днів тому

    That Part!❤

  • @basicinfo2022
    @basicinfo2022 5 днів тому

    7:37

  • @XioC652
    @XioC652 6 днів тому

    What happened with diddy?

  • @Healinglove
    @Healinglove 6 днів тому +3

    OUT OF THE PETRI DISH FOR LIFE!!!!!
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