The emotional journey of becoming a surrogate

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  • Опубліковано 28 січ 2025

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  • @KellyBroughton-q8i
    @KellyBroughton-q8i Рік тому +1

    I love this so much! You both are so incredible to be doing this for someone that cannot carry a baby! 😍 Cannot wait to watch your surrogacy journey roll out.

  • @dianadumin2318
    @dianadumin2318 Рік тому +7

    It takes a special couple to give another couple a chance at parenthood! ❤

  • @jp911
    @jp911 Рік тому +2

    Omg you two crack me up! Laughing thru the video especially about the family pictures! I do agree dad is important because he will be support in all of this. I agree that it should be someone that is unable to have a child not unwilling. Bless your heart for this gift!💝

    • @FamilytaleVlogs
      @FamilytaleVlogs  Рік тому +1

      😆😆 thank you for the kind words and the smile this morning!

  • @janicemichaloski5292
    @janicemichaloski5292 Рік тому +1

    I think that you both are so awesome for doing surrogacy helping someone have a baby is so special ❤

  • @ginnywyatt5720
    @ginnywyatt5720 Рік тому +1

    ❤❤hope your journey is a great success.... thanks for sharing...

  • @gwenda206
    @gwenda206 Рік тому

    Do what YOU wanna do! I’m here to watch it go down on UA-cam 🥰

  • @lwallis62
    @lwallis62 Рік тому

    How exciting. Will be amazing to follow this journey. 🤗

  • @omaopa6923
    @omaopa6923 Рік тому +1

    Your summer definitely did you both well, you both look so healthy and happy,we are just one week into spring and we are being told it’s going to be a hot one ( in Australia 😂 ) not looking forward to it

    • @FamilytaleVlogs
      @FamilytaleVlogs  Рік тому

      Happy Spring!! We did have a great one, hope you stay cool!

  • @apriltownsend8463
    @apriltownsend8463 Рік тому +1

    I went through a depression where I had to force myself to shower even once a week for a while and I wasn't even postpartum. I was just going through a lot health wise and it got to me.

    • @FamilytaleVlogs
      @FamilytaleVlogs  Рік тому

      It definitely affects everyone differently. Hope you’re doing better!!

  • @SteffiW1709
    @SteffiW1709 Рік тому +1

    My best friend was struggeling with getting pregnant. It took six rounds of IVF until it finally works. My goddaughter is about to getting 3 in some days. 👧🏼🥰 I told my best friend that I would be her surrogate without any hesitation. But here in germany this isn‘t legal. We are so happy it works with IVF. ❤️

  • @tiffandfam7466
    @tiffandfam7466 Рік тому +1

    It's totally understand how hard it is keeping a house clean with little ones running around 😉 my husband always reminds me...we have kids it's not always gonna be perfect 😊 and also my daughters teacher is a surrogate and I think that's a wonderful thing a woman can do for another woman ☺️

    • @FamilytaleVlogs
      @FamilytaleVlogs  Рік тому +1

      Haha it’s good to get that reminder from time to time 🤣

    • @elisa7357
      @elisa7357 Рік тому +2

      And for male couples too...

    • @tiffandfam7466
      @tiffandfam7466 Рік тому

      @@elisa7357 didn't mean to leave out anyone ☺️ ❤️ to everyone who's heart desires a child 💞

  • @barbarboyland2877
    @barbarboyland2877 Рік тому

    Love you all always beautiful family always

  • @thatscoliosisgirl8050
    @thatscoliosisgirl8050 Рік тому +1

    I think it’s such a noble thing being a surrogate! I can’t wait to watch your journey if/ when you choose to go further. Do you worry about bonding with the baby and then having to part with them? That’s always been my worry about me, personally. I feel myself start to bond with them almost immediately after I know I’m pregnant. Just curious what your perspective is ☺️

    • @FamilytaleVlogs
      @FamilytaleVlogs  Рік тому

      Hi!! Thank you! To be completely honest - I don’t worry about bonding and being sad at all! I think knowing that I’m just “the oven” and the baby and I aren’t tied genetically at all definitely helps going into it 😊

  • @kittyfarkas
    @kittyfarkas Рік тому

    Why are your videos not coming up? Im surprised about this news

  • @CharlotteJanvier30
    @CharlotteJanvier30 Рік тому

    The tips of keeping a house clean with kids.. My OCD is crazy. I tidy up every 20 minutes or so 😂 if they take their eyes off some toys for more than 5 minutes I put them away 😂 don't ask me why, I just have to tidy them 🤦🏼‍♀️

  • @elisa7357
    @elisa7357 Рік тому +3

    Don't forget that there's a lot of intended parents... ones that medically can't carry a baby due to health problems, missing uterus, and/or recurrent losses. But also male/male gay couples (and anything in between)
    Is it something you would consider? Or would you only exclusively carry for female/male couples?
    I am starting my surrogacy journey for 2 men in January: :) with own 🥚

    • @FamilytaleVlogs
      @FamilytaleVlogs  Рік тому +1

      Absolutely! I’m completely open to carrying for any intended parents whether that’s due to medical reason or same sex! So excited for you!! 🥰

    • @elisa7357
      @elisa7357 Рік тому

      @@FamilytaleVlogs I'm excited for you two also!

  • @becci2303
    @becci2303 Рік тому +1

    After three kids you learn to live in mess. You stop stressing so much and just say to yourself “one day I won’t have to clean up after them”. It is a lot easier to come to terms with than trying to have a constantly “perfect” home. I mean, it’s just “mess” what is it going to physically do to us? Nothing 🤣🤣❤️

  • @alexandfamilyvlogs529
    @alexandfamilyvlogs529 Рік тому

    There's a surrogate that delivered twins for a Chinese couple through an agency and they both have lawyers. The intended parents haven't shown up and it's been 2 years. I'd suggest being careful if your IP is out if the country! ❤

  • @CharlotteJanvier30
    @CharlotteJanvier30 Рік тому

    Do you get paid for surrogacy where you live? In the UK you don't have to go via an agency, you can just offer to be a surrogate for someone but under the conditions that you don't get paid for it. The only things that the intended parents can pay you for is travel expenses I think. Anyway, like I commented in the last video, I'd love to do this. Just as I would like to donate my eggs also. I'd love to help others. Good luck xx

    • @FamilytaleVlogs
      @FamilytaleVlogs  Рік тому

      Yep in the US it’s paid, but there are a ton of variables to that obviously, and I hope people don’t do it for the money.. ♥️

    • @CharlotteJanvier30
      @CharlotteJanvier30 Рік тому

      @@FamilytaleVlogs ah ok! I definitely wouldn't do it for the money. I'd just love to help others and the fact I loved being pregnant and the whole experience as well. I'd also love to donate my eggs some day x

  • @roxannegomez5661
    @roxannegomez5661 Рік тому

    I’d do it if my husband wasn’t a weirdo. 🤣. He’s worried that we will be too sad to give the baby to their parents… I’m like dude, its not our kid so its not like that. I’m going to bring it up again.

  • @haliejones2127
    @haliejones2127 Рік тому +1

    Yea my advice is you don’t and you just embrace the mess 😆

  • @alexisbuckles4651
    @alexisbuckles4651 Рік тому

    Nope. My house is chaos. Always.

  • @Suebearish
    @Suebearish Рік тому

    One day you will miss the toys. Can try getting just a couple out at a time