Jay RAISING STANDARDS In Men So You WILL NOT End Up In The BARE MINIMUM!

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  • @didinau
    @didinau 10 місяців тому +254

    Jay's parents raised him right ❤

  • @Sunny-bc2mu
    @Sunny-bc2mu 10 місяців тому +157

    "He´s a good man Savannah" I cackled at that reference

  • @jhastineantonio9637
    @jhastineantonio9637 10 місяців тому +151

    Literally jay is a husband coded

  • @SH_Xantra
    @SH_Xantra 10 місяців тому +71

    I loved Jay since predebut. That one scene in that episode where he did not give up, made me admire him. From then on he's remained my bias. Unchanged. The more he shows us the more I respect him and his passion. He's such an awesome guy. My love language is way to many, but words of affirmation, quality time, and acts of service would probably be my main three.

  • @meowzmeowzzz
    @meowzmeowzzz 10 місяців тому +97

    14:04 Well Jay believes on give and take. Last night he just said on his live that the relationship won't work if one person is the only one talking

  • @roses_are_rosies-g4h
    @roses_are_rosies-g4h 10 місяців тому +80

    It's unfortunate that we only have one Jay in this world

  • @linah1135
    @linah1135 10 місяців тому +61

    Jay is such an inspiration like every thinks he does he doing it with passion and that s why i respect him

  • @meowzmeowzzz
    @meowzmeowzzz 10 місяців тому +39

    4:49 WAHEHAHA YOU'RE RIGHT!! HIS WHOLE PERSONALITY IS JUST LIKE THAT

  • @kpopplanet2907
    @kpopplanet2907 9 місяців тому +1

    Jay was raised right, I respect his parents.
    my love language is
    1: I love physical touch, I love both giving and receiving, even though it's mostly from my mom I don't mind she gives the best hugs.
    2: I love quality time too, I'm not exactly a people person I go to any sort of gathering just for the food and I can't talk to strangers to save my life. However, I always treasure one-on-one conversations that put me at ease and that's also how I found the friends that I have today.
    3: Acts of service, tbh I didn't know giving my mom a massage, cleaning, or cooking meals were acts of service. Well, I learn something new every day.

  • @adrijanajudo4169
    @adrijanajudo4169 10 місяців тому +27

    We love jay

  • @EeveeGillmore
    @EeveeGillmore 10 місяців тому +17

    My Love Languages Ranked.
    1. Quality Time, I would always love spending time together, sharing interests, learning about the people I care about, it's the big thing I do to show anyone in my life I care.
    2. Physical Touch is super important to me though exclusive to romantic partner (if I had one xD)
    3. Words of affirmation. I'm usually checking in with people I care about, letting them know I miss them when we can't see eachother as often. I love giving lots of compliments though they sometimes get misinterpreted.
    4. Acts of service. This is where I start dropping off, I'll do things for people in my life I think they'll like but I slack a bit at helping out when asked if I'm not in a super giving mood.
    5. I almost hate to give or recieve gifts because it can be stressful to know if they'll like it, if I was too on the nose and they already have that thing, and I'm not the most expressive to recieving gifts eirhout looking disingenuine. I still do gift giving but more spontaneously than anything.

  • @Staymoarmyatiny
    @Staymoarmyatiny 10 місяців тому +24

    If I can’t have a man like jay I don’t want one 😂

  • @Stayyy-w6p
    @Stayyy-w6p 10 місяців тому +14

    My love languages is physical touch (hugs, cuddles, I like giving gifts and love. I also like complimenting people,

  • @kit4005
    @kit4005 4 місяці тому +1

    This video made me cry actually. I have met very few good men over the years. It's nice to know there are men out there who care about other people.

  • @KpopLoverXV
    @KpopLoverXV 2 місяці тому +1

    My love language is literally JAY! Lucky are those who are close to him. My goal is to meet JAY personally and tell him how wonderful he is as a person and that he inspires me to be a good person too. Manifesting it!!!! 🤞🙏

  • @deerheadlightss
    @deerheadlightss 10 місяців тому +24

    liv laugh love jay 😭😭 (slowly waiting for more zb1 content on yt)

  • @jake_letsgaur
    @jake_letsgaur 4 місяці тому +3

    "he's my bias for a reason" is the most beautiful compliment I've ever heard fr, I mean ify jay is the greenest of greenest flags

  • @L3n1_1
    @L3n1_1 10 місяців тому +4

    My love language is giving gifts, act of service and being touchy(i also always try to understand people feelings so i know how to act around people when I’m with them and help them when they’re down as well!!)

  • @heyyrachie
    @heyyrachie 10 місяців тому +22

    that's my motherfucking bias right there!!!🗣🗣

  • @risrisx
    @risrisx 10 місяців тому +3

    Rightt?? We can't settle for the less now, man. How can we lower the standards?? 😮‍💨😔

  • @starj1582
    @starj1582 6 місяців тому +1

    Jay is a good guy .I love him .I want him to be the happiest

  • @EnhalogyStay
    @EnhalogyStay 10 місяців тому +2

    Jay’s parents raised him right and bc of that he’s a gentleman raising standard 💋🫶🏻

  • @jeniseclark3672
    @jeniseclark3672 6 місяців тому +1

    You mentioned your fear of gas stoves. I lived in Kenya for 3 months with some friends. The stove in the guest house I lived in was gas. I used the stove part most of the time. The first time I used the oven. I wanted barbecue chicken. Turned it all on and waited. The house the only air you get is to keep the windows (no screen) and door (metal and no screen) open. It was a nice rainy day. So all of those were open to keep myself cool. I smelled this weird scent in the air but thought nothing of it. Granted this is my 1st time with a gas stove/oven. After half an hour I checked the stove. It was still cold. So I went and ask3d for help from my friend. She turned it all off and turned it back on. The. Ext thing we knew a loud BOOM happened. Fire shot from the oven about 5 inches from my friend's face. I felt the heat. The smell I smelt had been the gas leaking. Afterthat they bought a gas stove that had an electric oven.

  • @engeneyeoiii
    @engeneyeoiii 10 місяців тому +8

    For me.. I'm not good at expressing my feelings in words but I can take very good care , like I'm pretty good at understanding the other person. So yeah it's the Act of service for me!
    And I'm a listener type of person and trust me we want to share our problems too but it's just hard to express!! we just need the right person who can value our thoughts LOL

  • @iichxrryluna
    @iichxrryluna 10 місяців тому +2

    5:31 MINES PHYSICAL TOUCH TOO

  • @SaidaSainova
    @SaidaSainova 10 місяців тому +3

    How am I supposed to find a boyfriend after this

  • @iamlanalang1
    @iamlanalang1 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you❤

  • @ontheedge91
    @ontheedge91 4 місяці тому +1

    I'm still new to the group, but noticing stuff like this is why I thought he was the leader at first.

  • @mrsstyles1324
    @mrsstyles1324 10 місяців тому +1

    Jay is THE standard!!

  • @Gaby-df4ge
    @Gaby-df4ge 10 місяців тому +1

    He is so lovely with all members but specially Wonnie and Sunoo

  • @jeniseclark3672
    @jeniseclark3672 6 місяців тому

    My love language to others is Gift giving, time, and acts of service. Touch is iffy. Others to me it is time, acts of service (depending on what it is), and words of affirmation

  • @yesuijinbatsaikhan4934
    @yesuijinbatsaikhan4934 10 місяців тому +2

    1. Jumping!!! I am very jumpy and goofy around the person = Love Language
    2. Giving Gift
    3. Physical Touch especially hugging from the back but funny thing is i don’t like it when someone else does it from the back to me

  • @HAHAPO1008
    @HAHAPO1008 10 місяців тому +4

    Jay❤❤❤

  • @PrincessJhade-ms5nh
    @PrincessJhade-ms5nh 10 місяців тому +2

    Well I just saw Jay and i click automatically 😌. It's simple. I just love him ❤ my ultimate bias

  • @Cloudyskies333
    @Cloudyskies333 10 місяців тому +2

    If I don’t find a man like Jay istg

  • @sharrenceadrian
    @sharrenceadrian 10 місяців тому +2

    This is just my opinion, if Jungwon isn't the leader, Jay would be perfect for that role ❤
    Happy Valentine's Day Seb🎉

  • @lilyblue9025
    @lilyblue9025 9 місяців тому

    my love language would be 1. quality time (with loads of eye contact), 2. acts of service, 3. words of affirmation, but on the giving part, I like giving gifts (don't like receiving one), I am very good with physical touches from my side but when it comes to receiving them I donno I feel drained from suffocation or some from too much skin touching (god save me what am I even writing), compliments (though I don't like receiving them), I am also good at acts of services (mostly I do them without them noticing it, its like yk those small little detailed things)

  • @anlvsmingi
    @anlvsmingi 10 місяців тому +2

    blessing us with content on v-day thank u seb we appreciate you:)

  • @babybearcubbs
    @babybearcubbs 10 місяців тому

    When it comes to giving love, my top three are: Physical Touch/Affection, Gift Giving(I'm in my broke era tho) & Acts of service
    As for receiving, I'd love to have my physical affection reciprocated (doesn't have to be all the time but still yk?) Words of Affirmation (I'd like to know that I'm doing well, I'm not annoying and stuff like that😅) and Quality Time, I really like spending time with people and would 98% of the time be down whenever my SO is down to hang out

  • @Shanaznctzen
    @Shanaznctzen 10 місяців тому +5

    Jay is already my husband (in my *delusion* ) lol

  • @vilencea
    @vilencea 10 місяців тому +1

    my standars fr 😍

    • @vilencea
      @vilencea 10 місяців тому +1

      i mean standards

  • @KA_NNM
    @KA_NNM 10 місяців тому +1

    He's a husband material for sure

  • @stellacath5462
    @stellacath5462 10 місяців тому

    to give another person:
    1. Physical touch
    2. Quality time
    3. Gift giving
    4. Act of service
    to receive:
    1. Quality time
    2. Physical touch
    3. Gift giving
    4. Act of service

  • @forKJO2
    @forKJO2 10 місяців тому

    sunoo living the y/n life with jay😅

  • @aslangyu
    @aslangyu 10 місяців тому

    LMAO I'm afraid of electric stoves... i dont like that i cant see the flame 🤣

  • @kamen8361
    @kamen8361 10 місяців тому

    Me and Seb have the exact same Pikachu plushie 😂

  • @rhondaclipper2421
    @rhondaclipper2421 10 місяців тому

    Happy Valentine's Day To You Seb 💜👍😎

  • @madison_eva
    @madison_eva 10 місяців тому

    for giving my top love languages are
    1. gift giving - i loveeeee getting people things they love but wont get for themseleve
    2. physical touch - usually im really sensitive to touch and jumpy but i really love being all over people im close to
    3. words of affirmation - i dont do it as much as i should but i like to let people know i care for them as often as possible
    for receiving its probably
    1. acts of service - its just nice when people do something to take a task off my plate when im stressed out
    2. gift giving - its makes me feel loved cause it means they really listened
    3. physical touch - i love being close to people and its reassuring when people also want that

  • @_coi_na_bi
    @_coi_na_bi 10 місяців тому +1

    happy valentine's day Seb...

  • @foodisbetterthanrelationships
    @foodisbetterthanrelationships 10 місяців тому

    Giving =
    Physical touch / skinship
    Acts of service
    Words of affirmation
    Receiving
    Quality timr
    Acts of service
    Gifts

  • @KpopBLGrubhub
    @KpopBLGrubhub 10 місяців тому +1

    happy Valentine's day

  • @sara-yw7qj
    @sara-yw7qj 9 місяців тому

    Song name?

  • @dewiwulandari9287
    @dewiwulandari9287 10 місяців тому

    Next ni-ki please

  • @meijusayan23
    @meijusayan23 Місяць тому

    saw my jongseongiee so i clicked

  • @Qui_xo
    @Qui_xo 10 місяців тому

    YASSS ENHA REACTIONNNN LETS GAURRRRRRRRRRR

  • @markfresa
    @markfresa 10 місяців тому

    llore

  • @nnata7
    @nnata7 10 місяців тому

    seb, whats with the quality hehehhehe

  • @micaelalr
    @micaelalr 5 місяців тому

  • @rajnikalsi827
    @rajnikalsi827 10 місяців тому

    Third🎉🎉

  • @amberknowles8068
    @amberknowles8068 10 місяців тому

    First