Case closed , No issue , please do exactly what you have said and set yourself and pastor free , you have decided to be honest to yourself and i like your honesty , no pretence .
This woman are right, go to your father and tell him the truth and leave the pastor alone. Don’t stay in that marriage and be deceiving yourself as mummy in the God. You are a good woman it is your father that made you to behave like this. Be strong and tell the truth, it is the truth that will set you free.
You need to tell your ex-boyfriend first before anything your happiness matters a lot don't let family push you to do things you don't want to tell your father also
Yes if you ex boyfriend as not married pls go back to him, tell your parents every body the your husband is not the father of the children. Leave what people we say.
Hello. It sounds like you've been through a very difficult situation. Being forced into a marriage against your wishes can be incredibly challenging. It's important to prioritize your own happiness and well-being. Maybe consider having an open conversation with your father and the man you love in London to find a way forward that respects your feelings and wishes."
Some parents mislead their children. Let ur father know all what happen, then go to where ur heart is, but remember ur children is for ur husband because he married you.
From the little I listen to so far I am wondering the kind of education we acquire in Nigeria or is it peculiar to individuals? How can a graduate not speak out for herself or even go independent.
Is it not ironic that a pastor can not see visions that he did not father any of these children.As for the lady, since there is genuine love between you and your first love, and he is the father of all your kids, you might want to divorce the pastor then marry your sweet heart.Your happiness is what matters here.
The fault is the father, the second fault is the husband, he became a spirit in the marriage, he have to do the needful, the woman and the husband, the father, they all need repentance.
@senanuagbo5322 Which father? What do you think of a woman who sees kingdom lifestyle as bondage? What do you think of a woman who went to school as a virgin but started clubbing without the father's notice? Mtcheeeeeeew😞
This is an eye opener for every servant of God and partakers of pulpit. You cannot foist nor force salvation on your ward. Whoever believes on him... and not he who is compelled or pretend to believe shall have eternal life is what the Scripture says. As much as this lady did something inglorious the father is to be blamed. Your father is legalistic while you are libertinist and yet to know Jesus Christ. As it stands, go and see the G.O or District overseer of your church if the church is big. They would know what to do about the situation. Meanwhile, every pastor, young and old should know that their number one ministry is to their family. As we talk, some young pastors are commiting the mistake this pastor made in a bid to please their seniors. Pray very hard so that your father will not place a curse on you. Whatever happens leave that marriage as quickly as possible so that your husband can face his reality and heal on time. Good luck.
Lady, it's best to tell your husband and your father the truth and go be with your lover since he is the one you love and is the real father of your children. But keep this in mind, it's very easy for 2 people to be in love when all they do is knacking each other with no stress of anyone taking responsibility for the children. You will soon see how deep the love you and your lover have for each other once responsibilities are in play.
Nenye you're shouting Pastor Wife Pasitor wife. Are pastor wives not humans? Zukwanuike biko. Stop shouting Pastor Wife Pastor Wife let her finish her confession
Her father is the root cause of this but go ahead and tell them the truth and move on with the guy you love. It will still help your younger ones when they want to marry.
Wonder shall never end. A pastor's wife, this is really complicated. You should have let your father know the first time before getting married to you husband. go to your father and let him know about the whole situation before its too late..
Go to your father, CONFESS to your Father and your husband. Divorce your husband to release him from this deceit. Then go and marry your ex boyfriend. You two belong together.
Two weeks? Not two months? Not two years? Hmmmmm. Is well Ooooh. Please, tell your boyfriend that the children are for him and let your pastor husband have his peace. God will give him his own wife.
It's a clear case! NO LOVE! The lady said it severally that she does not love the husband and proved it by having 4 children with the one she loves. Her mistake was accepting the marriage to please her father. Fathers learn from this. Pastors learn too & take care of your marriage before turning to deputy Jesus outside. The lady should invite her parents, in the presence of her husband, tell them her story....
The father is to be blamed since she said she does not love her husband and her children does not belong to her husband she should go and tell her father the truth if her father accept her going to her ex fine and better for her
Move out first, then meet your dad in a neutral place your hubby, tell them the truth. Let them know the fault is from your hubby. Tell your boyfriend the truth and get elders involved. You're forced into it.
Parents should only pray for the salvation of their children and not for religious activities on them. The lady should tell her father and her husband that the children are for his ex. Pastor's bride price should be returned.
Pls leave that dedicated pastor,b4 you face the wrath of God,confess to your father,your father knew how you came into the world,he knows whathe was doing
The reality of marriage is that if your marriage is not working base on attitude of your spouse you dialogue. You didn't love the ways of God and you chosed to commit adultery and bear children for another man in your husband's house and you are excusing evil. It could have been better that you never agreed to marry your father ' s choice.
1) Leave the marriage bcs pastor is not ready, 3 kids not his and he doesn't know, even though he doesn't stay at home. Tell the owner of the kids. But you have done terrible things here
Babe just call it quits. Tell ur boyfriend about d children. He has to support your fight financially and otherwise to be able to take u and the kids. Since you guys are still in love with yourself. It’s said man dies but once. Take d bull by d horn. Face d shame and d abuse from parents, family of d pastor, church and friends and at d end you gain your freedom. Good luck .
Though we don't have any excuse for our actions but the husband is the cause 1 Corinthians 7:5 , he opened the door for the devil madam you have to tell your husband the whole truth
What you did was wrong , this is unbelievable , the shocking thing here is you have no remorse of what you did ..my advice , bible says we should give no place to the Devil , already though your behaviour you have open the door for the church and your husband to be attack , rather than continuing this act , please be bold , call of this marriage and free yourself and your husband before the anger of God fall you .
Case close please tell your ex and divorce pastor and marry your ex and move on with your life and stop pretending as a pastor wife and stop deceiving church members thank you
Madam honestly speaking you no try You’re not faithful. You’re married and you’re still cheating on your husband? 3 kids none is your husband? Nawaoo Women women women This loud no be small
U knew u r married but still cheated on your husband. Please tell your father about your wickedness. But u will definitely find your karma no matter how long it takes. U should have divorced and even cheats but it's your life.
My dear sister, the truth be told, you’re not faithful to your husband. How can you be in a marriage and still sleeping with your ex? And people here are supporting your actions. What you did was wrong and adulterous. The three kids have had not even one belong to your husband? Nawaoo. Madam you try, honestly you get mind, there’s no excuse to justify your behaviour
My dear sister, the truth be told, you’re not faithful to your husband. How can you be a marriage and still sleeping with your ex? You’re a cheat. You don’t have shame at all. You should have divorced your husband and then go to your ex. And some people here keep supporting your actions , Nawaoo For your information, as far as your husband paid your bribe price, those kids belong to him. What you did was wrong and adulterous
madam u suppose to divorce your husband the first day u know pastor has no time for u.what u did is very wrong .u cannot go unpunish .Go and tell your father and husband and divorce the pastor .but know your husband has right to claim those kids .u r really devil and u can't escape the punishment of God .
My dear sister, the truth be told, you’re not faithful to your husband. How can you be a marriage and still sleeping with your ex? You’re a cheat. You don’t have shame at all. You should have divorced your husband and then go to your ex. And some people here keep supporting your actions , Nawaoo For your information, as far as your husband paid your bribe price, those kids belong to him. What you did was wrong and adulterous
Case closed , No issue , please do exactly what you have said and set yourself and pastor free , you have decided to be honest to yourself and i like your honesty , no pretence .
She will definitely find her karma, u think u can do anything n go scotfree
Take it easy with her.
Just make your decision, follow your heart and don't mind what church people will say. It's your life
This woman are right, go to your father and tell him the truth and leave the pastor alone. Don’t stay in that marriage and be deceiving yourself as mummy in the God. You are a good woman it is your father that made you to behave like this. Be strong and tell the truth, it is the truth that will set you free.
Yes she is indeed a very good woman,, in fact she is an angel🥺🥺🥺
O ga o, some women are dangerous, Abii. Find a way and tell your Parents before it is too late. Better to divorce that innocent man.
Go for the one you love.
Every ADULTERER has an excuse.
Even the husband is not innocent
Every one needs happiness in life Period
Madam, divorce your innocent husband!!!. And take your children to their biological father!!!. And......, be happy???.
You need to tell your ex-boyfriend first before anything your happiness matters a lot don't let family push you to do things you don't want to tell your father also
Our problem is always what will people say. Follow your heart.
Follow your heart Every body needs peace of mind and happiness
Yes if you ex boyfriend as not married pls go back to him, tell your parents every body the your husband is not the father of the children. Leave what people we say.
Hello. It sounds like you've been through a very difficult situation. Being forced into a marriage against your wishes can be incredibly challenging. It's important to prioritize your own happiness and well-being. Maybe consider having an open conversation with your father and the man you love in London to find a way forward that respects your feelings and wishes."
She should go and tell her father to end the whole thing. Her husband is taking care of other man's children.
Some parents mislead their children. Let ur father know all what happen, then go to where ur heart is, but remember ur children is for ur husband because he married you.
A lot are happening in Nigeria.A lot of secrets things that it is only God that would unwrap.
From the little I listen to so far I am wondering the kind of education we acquire in Nigeria or is it peculiar to individuals? How can a graduate not speak out for herself or even go independent.
Is it not ironic that a pastor can not see visions that he did not father any of these children.As for the lady, since there is genuine love between you and your first love, and he is the father of all your kids, you might want to divorce the pastor then marry your sweet heart.Your happiness is what matters here.
The fault is the father, the second fault is the husband, he became a spirit in the marriage, he have to do the needful, the woman and the husband, the father, they all need repentance.
@senanuagbo5322 Which father?
What do you think of a woman who sees kingdom lifestyle as bondage?
What do you think of a woman who went to school as a virgin but started clubbing without the father's notice?
Mtcheeeeeeew😞
If the reason she gave for marrying a pastor is true, then i refuse to blame her for what she did.
Looking after man's child is unacceptable
This is an eye opener for every servant of God and partakers of pulpit. You cannot foist nor force salvation on your ward. Whoever believes on him... and not he who is compelled or pretend to believe shall have eternal life is what the Scripture says. As much as this lady did something inglorious the father is to be blamed. Your father is legalistic while you are libertinist and yet to know Jesus Christ. As it stands, go and see the G.O or District overseer of your church if the church is big. They would know what to do about the situation. Meanwhile, every pastor, young and old should know that their number one ministry is to their family. As we talk, some young pastors are commiting the mistake this pastor made in a bid to please their seniors. Pray very hard so that your father will not place a curse on you. Whatever happens leave that marriage as quickly as possible so that your husband can face his reality and heal on time. Good luck.
Lady, it's best to tell your husband and your father the truth and go be with your lover since he is the one you love and is the real father of your children. But keep this in mind, it's very easy for 2 people to be in love when all they do is knacking each other with no stress of anyone taking responsibility for the children. You will soon see how deep the love you and your lover have for each other once responsibilities are in play.
Nenye you're shouting Pastor Wife Pasitor wife.
Are pastor wives not humans?
Zukwanuike biko.
Stop shouting Pastor Wife Pastor Wife let her finish her confession
You are sincere go and tell the pastor and your husband that children are not for the pastor's children.and go with your boy friend
Tell your ex boyfriend to take u out of Nigeria, so u can travel with him.
It is not her fault it,s the father's
Her father is the root cause of this but go ahead and tell them the truth and move on with the guy you love. It will still help your younger ones when they want to marry.
Wonder shall never end. A pastor's wife, this is really complicated. You should have let your father know the first time before getting married to you husband. go to your father and let him know about the whole situation before its too late..
Go to your father, CONFESS to your Father and your husband. Divorce your husband to release him from this deceit. Then go and marry your ex boyfriend. You two belong together.
It seems that in nigeria, people are still living in old ages. Honestly, how can parents choose a husband or wife for your children ?
Two weeks?
Not two months?
Not two years?
Hmmmmm.
Is well Ooooh.
Please, tell your boyfriend that the children are for him and let your pastor husband have his peace.
God will give him his own wife.
go for the guy U love and leave the pastor tell your father the truth.
It's a clear case! NO LOVE! The lady said it severally that she does not love the husband and proved it by having 4 children with the one she loves. Her mistake was accepting the marriage to please her father. Fathers learn from this. Pastors learn too & take care of your marriage before turning to deputy Jesus outside. The lady should invite her parents, in the presence of her husband, tell them her story....
The father is to be blamed since she said she does not love her husband and her children does not belong to her husband she should go and tell her father the truth if her father accept her going to her ex fine and better for her
Move out first, then meet your dad in a neutral place your hubby, tell them the truth. Let them know the fault is from your hubby. Tell your boyfriend the truth and get elders involved. You're forced into it.
Nenye pls stop judging her
Parents should only pray for the salvation of their children and not for religious activities on them.
The lady should tell her father and her husband that the children are for his ex. Pastor's bride price should be returned.
Pls leave that dedicated pastor,b4 you face the wrath of God,confess to your father,your father knew how you came into the world,he knows whathe was doing
The reality of marriage is that if your marriage is not working base on attitude of your spouse you dialogue. You didn't love the ways of God and you chosed to commit adultery and bear children for another man in your husband's house and you are excusing evil. It could have been better that you never agreed to marry your father ' s choice.
1) Leave the marriage bcs pastor is not ready, 3 kids not his and he doesn't know, even though he doesn't stay at home. Tell the owner of the kids. But you have done terrible things here
Babe just call it quits. Tell ur boyfriend about d children. He has to support your fight financially and otherwise to be able to take u and the kids. Since you guys are still in love with yourself. It’s said man dies but once. Take d bull by d horn. Face d shame and d abuse from parents, family of d pastor, church and friends and at d end you gain your freedom. Good luck .
Though we don't have any excuse for our actions but the husband is the cause 1 Corinthians 7:5 , he opened the door for the devil madam you have to tell your husband the whole truth
What you did was wrong , this is unbelievable , the shocking thing here is you have no remorse of what you did ..my advice , bible says we should give no place to the Devil , already though your behaviour you have open the door for the church and your husband to be attack , rather than continuing this act , please be bold , call of this marriage and free yourself and your husband before the anger of God fall you .
Case close please tell your ex and divorce pastor and marry your ex and move on with your life and stop pretending as a pastor wife and stop deceiving church members thank you
Madam honestly speaking you no try
You’re not faithful. You’re married and you’re still cheating on your husband?
3 kids none is your husband? Nawaoo
Women women women
This loud no be small
U knew u r married but still cheated on your husband. Please tell your father about your wickedness. But u will definitely find your karma no matter how long it takes. U should have divorced and even cheats but it's your life.
The pastor is innocent, but if he truly knows God, he would see all your tricks, he's one of the make believe pastor.
I blame you and only you because you should’ve insisted that you don’t want to marry the pastor since you know that lifestyle is not your way.
My dear sister, the truth be told, you’re not faithful to your husband. How can you be in a marriage and still sleeping with your ex? And people here are supporting your actions.
What you did was wrong and adulterous.
The three kids have had not even one belong to your husband?
Nawaoo. Madam you try, honestly you get mind, there’s no excuse to justify your behaviour
My dear sister, the truth be told, you’re not faithful to your husband. How can you be a marriage and still sleeping with your ex?
You’re a cheat.
You don’t have shame at all. You should have divorced your husband and then go to your ex.
And some people here keep supporting your actions , Nawaoo
For your information, as far as your husband paid your bribe price, those kids belong to him.
What you did was wrong and adulterous
You nor just get sence.... mumu woman
madam u suppose to divorce your husband the first day u know pastor has no time for u.what u did is very wrong .u cannot go unpunish .Go and tell your father and husband and divorce the pastor .but know your husband has right to claim those kids .u r really devil and u can't escape the punishment of God .
Follow your heart Every body needs peace of mind and happiness
My dear sister, the truth be told, you’re not faithful to your husband. How can you be a marriage and still sleeping with your ex?
You’re a cheat.
You don’t have shame at all. You should have divorced your husband and then go to your ex.
And some people here keep supporting your actions , Nawaoo
For your information, as far as your husband paid your bribe price, those kids belong to him.
What you did was wrong and adulterous
Follow your heart Every body needs peace of mind and happiness
Follow your heart Every body needs peace of mind and happiness