Please acknowledge that physical violence as a form of "disciplining" is trauma. And then you've been gaslit into thinking that is just the correct form of parenting
Y'all when I tell you... I resonated with this SO HARD!! I'd be out in public somewhere with my mom, do something stupid and then she told me I would be getting a beating when I get back home. We'd run other errands together, talking and laughing and having a great time! But AS SOON as we pulled up into that driveway she told me to go upstairs and get ready for my beating. Like what?! We were just laughing for the past 2 and 1/2 hours bro 😭😭😭➰➰➰
@@paracelsus_aba i have caribbean parents too but honestly pretty reasonable as i was on the quiet introvert trying to be well behaved type of child heck if anything i got beat way more at school and very rarely at home.
@@ajshawn9496 honestly same, my sister got more beatings then me. But she didn't hate me for it as she was the more outgoing type. It was kinda hilarious because my mother and her always fought for the smallest of things. Too bad we're orphans now....i really miss them.
Wow this really hits home especially the part where your mother had work and college there was a point in time where I couldn’t even see my mom for the day because of the work conditions she had it just shows how much a mom will sacrifice for there kid❤❤❤
I don’t have black parents (I’m white) but the part where you said that the parents act like that towards their children is bcuz of generation trauma hit SO HARD. When my mama told me abt the punishment she had to go through, something inside of me broke. She had one of the shittiest childhood I know and she still raised 3 beautiful kids all by herself. Sometimes she has harsh and gave us some traumas that’s true (her childhood doesn’t excuse the things she did) but I just think back on them and my childhood was WAY easier than hers. I just see her as this broke little girl that tried to do her best. Nobody learned her how to take care of 3 children by herself so of course she made mistakes on the way. Life can’t always be easy but I’m just so thankful for having her as my mom. She’s not perfect but neither am I. I love you mama. ❤️
Definitely was raised with respect!! Black parents tend to instill respectful mannerisms always 🙏🏽. Sadly it’s getting more rare these days as some want to be friends with their children and not correct them!
I kinda feel bad for y’all who had to deal with generational trauma. Great vid as always yo-yo and keep up the amazing work. Also I sometimes wonder does punishment like those create angry people or people with bad anxiety and mental health issues cause when it comes to this topic. I keep on seeing mix results
@@SammyRobinson62232 It is amd usually the ppl who say that they turned out fine are usually quick to anger, have shitty coping mechanisms/addictions so that they can live with that shit, if they have kids then they'll do the same exact shit to them even for little things, they'll be wayy more like to want to solve most problems/conflicts with violence etc etc etc 😐😐😐😐
I was raised by my grandma during my preteen years and she was an asshole. I rolled my eyes while we were in the car at night time and she slapped me a few seconds afterwards. Threw a pan at me cuz I clicked my tongue when she told me to clean out the cabinets in the kitchen. Grabbed my hair cuz I rolled my neck and she saw me through the reflection of the damn window while she was doing dishes. Lady was evil af.
Honestly believe he deserves all the subscribers and more. You can see the amount of efforts he puts in making this and omg the HUMOURRR, not one vid where I haven't laughed or been smiling throughout.
nah this shit aint jokes, just from the intro alone i new this video was gonna bring back my childhood memories. black parents dont play. they ask you a question and u respond wit anything but sir or mam and its punch to the chest. best yoyo vid by far i was crying laughin, not sure wich type of tears tho. getting put on "punishment" and standing in the corner for 3 hrs, and dont forget about wen they lose the belt, they start gettin creative as shit
My Mom doesn’t woop me anymore. But she still cuss me out. Although she doesn’t beat my butt anymore, she still teaches me how act towards others be myself in the right way. I love her a lot.🥰 (I didn’t talk about my dad because he passed when I was 4😞)
Ngl Watching my moms slave to that 9-5 made me wanna work a lot to point of burn out. I regret that I couldn’t get the opportunity to get her out of it that since she passed man. Thats why I fw yoyo
Yes it’s like all is black kids loved the same life fr😂😂 sometimes you gotta laugh at the pain once you realize the trauma they really put us through🤦🏽♀️😂
This video is totally relatable… I’m sure so many people share the sentiment. And it’s awesome that you’ve been nurtured to handle that treatment, and maybe it’s even in your nature to be able to take all that and not hold anything against your parents. But I can’t help but think about the other people watching this video. People living with their parents as adolescents, frustrated with their parents’ treatment of them, some treatment even bordering on abuse. And you’ve made a video in which you share all of your awful experiences, yet say that parents cannot be blamed for any of it. Must be the most frustrating thing for those other people to hear. I’m sure it’s not all that bad. Some amazing moments had with parents were after beatings. But I wouldn’t be saying that blame can’t be placed on parents as a UA-camr with a platform
My dad used the "beatings" to teach me life lessons. He taught me how to plead my case properly and would have sort of mock trials where I'd have to convince him I didn't deserve to get a whooping and tell him everything that actually happened. Often times my mother was the witness to these and would try to convince my dad to whoop me. But my dad was fair. Sometimes I got off because I proved that I was telling the truth or gave him enough details to make a judgment that what I did wasn't wrong. He's the reason my memory is so good because I had to remember things and details to ensure that I didn't get in trouble. My mother on the other hand was always looking for some reason to beat me, especially after she and my dad divorced. She took all of her hatred and resentment toward him out on me and I think those trials were part of the reason she hated him so much. If I was telling the truth or in the right, he just knew because I've never been a good liar. So often times she accused me of something dumb to try and get me beaten and he'd dismiss it once I presented my side.
My biggest flex to my friends is that my mom actually apologized to me when she realized that I was just really clumsy, still use that flex to this day
For the generational trauma discipline I can relate. I recently found out my dad thought he was being soft on me the way he was easing me like his because he made a commitment to never parent like his dad, who beat him and his mom after coming home drunk all the time Love you dad ❤️
I grew up in a split household and I was with my father. It's rare that a father has custody of children but I remember mostly negative things about my father but one thing for sure I love my dad. He did his best to raise me and my other 5 siblings. I tol watched my father graduate and do what he loves and it pushes me to strive for what I love. Now my mother I love my mom even though I didn't see her most of my childhood. Every memory I have of her is positive. She truly loves me and my siblings. Now as an adult I do communicate with both my parents and one day I wish I could see them stand in front of each other and shake each other's hand and say they forgive each other. I know it won't happen because they too prideful but it would be nice
I don't have black parents, but I do have a white ginger mother and an Hispanic father.as sweet as they are they made sure to keep me and my older sister in line.but I still love them,and could never be the person I am today without them.
My mom was the type to pretend like she didn't know stuff and then randomly bring it up when I completely forgot about it. I remember I left a vm on her work phone where I made a mistake and cursed. I was a full blown adult but you don't curse around black Christian parents at any age. 😂 Weeks go by and one day I'm sitting in her office and she says "Let me let you listen to this voicemail". I'm not thinking ANYTHING of it because it's been WEEKS and she used to play the voicemails out loud all the time so I just thought this was one of the crazy ones. She plays this voicemail at max volume and just stares at me. 🤣 I was an adult so she couldn't do anything but the SHAME. BAHAHA! She legit just played the message, deleted it, and continued working. Lololol. Both my parents have jacked me tf up before though. I know people say it's abuse and blah blah blah but I'm not crazy bro and I love my parents to death. They didn't do everything right but they did their absolute BEST and that's all I can ask for. I'm a mom now and I don't do everything my parents did but sometimes... I get it. 😂 Kids TEST YOU. LOL.
Yoyo one thing i agree with you is punishment, Discipline and Beating me and my sister done wild things to get beat by Belt, Sandel, Cooking spoon (Metal), pcp pipe, and Home Depo DIY weapons and of course the outta nowhere slapped as well
LOL - so relatable... I have European parents and it was basically the same. I remember getting a surprise beating with the belt when I was dead asleep... ambushed by my dad 😂😬 Funny you mentioned karate, as I learned how to position my hand so my mom would snap her wooden spoons - it was like a delayed beating, because when my dad got home I'd never know when it was coming... but it was coming haha. Love that you recognize that they were doing the best they can. My folks both came from some scary families, and they got some serious beatings - far worse than myself and my two brothers. I love my folks. They helped me to learn a serious work ethic, and so much about life, too. Took until I was a parent myself and until I was maybe 25 to see eye to eye, but we got there. Thanks for this vid!
I feel you there - Slavic parents know how to bring down the fire. I once got a surprise beating with the belt when I was dead asleep... dad ambushed me 😂 Sometimes you don't know when it's coming, but it's definitely coming lol
Rip Akira Toriyama man :( the impact dbz had on me as a child is insane deadass one of the reasons I started drawing
Rip to Akira, he inspired so many people with his amazing work 🙏
Rip to akira🙏🙏
Yeah...
I can definitely relate bout that 😔
Rip
Black parents don’t help you study, they just get louder
Fr I remember I had a homework assignment about money and my mom trying to help me out meanwhile yelling so loud about how I got it wrong😭😭😭😭😭
This legit just happened to me 15 seconds ago
This is so true 😭
blud really wanna reach his sub goal
I don't think that's a good thing
It just helps you get more _insecure_
You know you fucked up when he starts laughing 💀
Like we got the fkin joker in this hoe 😭
My dad would sigh, click his tongue a few times, and then his voice would go from happy man to the Batman @@Yoyo808
@@Yoyo808yoyo just for giggles you should do a vid on how the hub got banned in texas 🤣🤣🤣
being told you finna get beat when you get home was a fear worse than death
My stomach sitting in my ass the whole day
YES
Yep 😂😂
as a filpino i can confirm this is true
Heart dropped to my ass cheeks😂
“What’s 17 more years?”😂😂
"can always have another kid"
“I can always start again!”
Invincible
i love ur input on generational trauma in black families its seriously not talked about enough😭🙏
FR
Please acknowledge that physical violence as a form of "disciplining" is trauma.
And then you've been gaslit into thinking that is just the correct form of parenting
The Venom Joke was crazy😂
Bro got swallowed 💀☠️💀
@@shivaenverny9472
Dead ass💀
Fr😭
Fr
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Everything in this video is hella relatable 💀
Nah fer bruh like this was to real
Fr and im not even black😭
Fr
Fr and even worse, I'm black 💀
Nah bc when you do nothing and sit and smile like the sun is shining and the birds are chirping they’ll BEAT YOUR ASS THE HARDEST ☠🙏
They can just SMELL happiness lmaoo
“Guerrilla warfare parenting ” had me dying 🤣🤣🤣
Y'all when I tell you... I resonated with this SO HARD!!
I'd be out in public somewhere with my mom, do something stupid and then she told me I would be getting a beating when I get back home. We'd run other errands together, talking and laughing and having a great time! But AS SOON as we pulled up into that driveway she told me to go upstairs and get ready for my beating. Like what?! We were just laughing for the past 2 and 1/2 hours bro 😭😭😭➰➰➰
Nods in high anxiety in adulthood
They be putting on that mask til u get to that front door 😂
Accurate asf it’s worse for me I got Caribbean parents 😂😂😂😂
@randomguywithacar ong😭😂
@@user-wu1rn9tj2b aye man we’re tough ash cus of the beatings gang😭😭😭
Tbh, my Caribbean parents were chill. Yea they'd still put me in place, but i had to reach a particular threshold.
@@paracelsus_aba i have caribbean parents too but honestly pretty reasonable as i was on the quiet introvert trying to be well behaved type of child heck if anything i got beat way more at school and very rarely at home.
@@ajshawn9496 honestly same, my sister got more beatings then me. But she didn't hate me for it as she was the more outgoing type. It was kinda hilarious because my mother and her always fought for the smallest of things. Too bad we're orphans now....i really miss them.
I have Hispanic parents and all of this is relatable coming from a single mom(that had 4 kids) (btw R.I.P Amira toriyama)
I love all of you black people May Allah bless our motherland of Africa and bless our brothers and sisters in the west
Having black parents is like surviving from the monsters in little nightmares I swear😭
Going thru the school day with the fear of a beating looing in the back of your head was horrifying
especially when you did nothing wrong 😅
Dawg the walk home was worse 💀
shout out to Moms man. Big ups to her, glory to God💖
Even though she beats my ass, still love her
honestly as a caribbean gyal this was hella relatable 😭 couldnt think of a better video to describe black parents
100% The tools for cut hip could go from belts to cords, pans and even flip flops. 😂
Dude that anger graph is soooo accurate! My parents are the same! 😂
Wow this really hits home especially the part where your mother had work and college there was a point in time where I couldn’t even see my mom for the day because of the work conditions she had it just shows how much a mom will sacrifice for there kid❤❤❤
Us black kids lived the same childhood on almost every level. Aside from being PUNCHED, Yoyo and I went through some of the same disciplinary actions.
4:28 We need that story Yoyo
Fr.
LMAO FR
Summed up in one word: Fear.
I don’t have black parents (I’m white) but the part where you said that the parents act like that towards their children is bcuz of generation trauma hit SO HARD. When my mama told me abt the punishment she had to go through, something inside of me broke. She had one of the shittiest childhood I know and she still raised 3 beautiful kids all by herself. Sometimes she has harsh and gave us some traumas that’s true (her childhood doesn’t excuse the things she did) but I just think back on them and my childhood was WAY easier than hers. I just see her as this broke little girl that tried to do her best. Nobody learned her how to take care of 3 children by herself so of course she made mistakes on the way. Life can’t always be easy but I’m just so thankful for having her as my mom. She’s not perfect but neither am I. I love you mama. ❤️
Bro i died at the mom calling you're name with the open heart surgery joke 😂😂😂
Definitely was raised with respect!! Black parents tend to instill respectful mannerisms always 🙏🏽. Sadly it’s getting more rare these days as some want to be friends with their children and not correct them!
as a black kid with a old school black dad he dosent have to hit you his voice and appearance is intimidating enough to scare you straight
I kinda feel bad for y’all who had to deal with generational trauma. Great vid as always yo-yo and keep up the amazing work.
Also I sometimes wonder does punishment like those create angry people or people with bad anxiety and mental health issues cause when it comes to this topic. I keep on seeing mix results
The answer is mostly yes to all of that..😐😐
@@wolfboy20
Damn that’s tragic
@@SammyRobinson62232 It is amd usually the ppl who say that they turned out fine are usually quick to anger, have shitty coping mechanisms/addictions so that they can live with that shit, if they have kids then they'll do the same exact shit to them even for little things, they'll be wayy more like to want to solve most problems/conflicts with violence etc etc etc 😐😐😐😐
Gotta stop the cycle
As a person diagnosed schizoaffective with PTSD I will verify...yes. I also have anger management therapy and have had to for almost 20 years. I'm 37
WHEN YOYO WAS DEAD, I KNEW SHE WAS FINNA GET THE DRAGON BALLS BRO LMAO
My parents are WAY too much like this
This is accurate, I am a black mom and I can confirm!! 😂😂😂
I was raised by my grandma during my preteen years and she was an asshole. I rolled my eyes while we were in the car at night time and she slapped me a few seconds afterwards. Threw a pan at me cuz I clicked my tongue when she told me to clean out the cabinets in the kitchen. Grabbed my hair cuz I rolled my neck and she saw me through the reflection of the damn window while she was doing dishes. Lady was evil af.
This is one of the reasons why i’m not a violent person.
Honestly believe he deserves all the subscribers and more. You can see the amount of efforts he puts in making this and omg the HUMOURRR, not one vid where I haven't laughed or been smiling throughout.
5:23 respects for toriyama
And a relatable ass vid
RIP to the goat Akira 🙏🏾 so inspirational to the manga world. You will be missed ❤
3:12 bro got hit with a black flash 💀
nah this shit aint jokes, just from the intro alone i new this video was gonna bring back my childhood memories. black parents dont play. they ask you a question and u respond wit anything but sir or mam and its punch to the chest. best yoyo vid by far i was crying laughin, not sure wich type of tears tho. getting put on "punishment" and standing in the corner for 3 hrs, and dont forget about wen they lose the belt, they start gettin creative as shit
Yo the no apology thing I felt that shit
My Mom doesn’t woop me anymore. But she still cuss me out. Although she doesn’t beat my butt anymore, she still teaches me how act towards others be myself in the right way. I love her a lot.🥰 (I didn’t talk about my dad because he passed when I was 4😞)
I’m am so sorry for your loss man
the last time I got beat was 10 years ago and im black my parents are hella nice😭🙅🏽♀️(im sorry for ur lost)
Ngl Watching my moms slave to that 9-5 made me wanna work a lot to point of burn out. I regret that I couldn’t get the opportunity to get her out of it that since she passed man. Thats why I fw yoyo
Waited my whole life for this
Yes it’s like all is black kids loved the same life fr😂😂 sometimes you gotta laugh at the pain once you realize the trauma they really put us through🤦🏽♀️😂
this video is way too relatable
0:36 Had me crying 💀
Earliest I've ever been, thank you for uploading just in time for my chill time 🙏🏿
0:15 my parents will be like you gotta mouth so use it😭
And when you do use it, they like "Oh so you talking back?!"
Black and hispanic moms would be besties 😂😂
Southern blk parents built different "You're so smart? Go pick the switch" 💀
4:08 Is too relatable 💀
My dad dead be saying when my siblings crying WHY YOU CRYING YOU WANT ME TO GIVE YOU SOMETHING TO CRY ABOUT
This video is totally relatable… I’m sure so many people share the sentiment.
And it’s awesome that you’ve been nurtured to handle that treatment, and maybe it’s even in your nature to be able to take all that and not hold anything against your parents.
But I can’t help but think about the other people watching this video.
People living with their parents as adolescents, frustrated with their parents’ treatment of them, some treatment even bordering on abuse.
And you’ve made a video in which you share all of your awful experiences, yet say that parents cannot be blamed for any of it. Must be the most frustrating thing for those other people to hear.
I’m sure it’s not all that bad. Some amazing moments had with parents were after beatings. But I wouldn’t be saying that blame can’t be placed on parents as a UA-camr with a platform
Yo-yo thank you, your vlogs have inspired me to get my fat ass in the gym 🙏🙏❤ love to content bro been with ya for years
im convinced black parents hold grudges after watching this video 😂
After getting beat and then they hit you with a "What you want from the store." Classic.
Yo the bars from the last 30 seconds are crazy yoyo getting better
2:05 This is me Fr 💀💀💀
YoYo can make the craziest things sound funny
I sub just found your channel me and my brothers can relate to this to having black parents really great video
My dad used the "beatings" to teach me life lessons. He taught me how to plead my case properly and would have sort of mock trials where I'd have to convince him I didn't deserve to get a whooping and tell him everything that actually happened. Often times my mother was the witness to these and would try to convince my dad to whoop me. But my dad was fair. Sometimes I got off because I proved that I was telling the truth or gave him enough details to make a judgment that what I did wasn't wrong. He's the reason my memory is so good because I had to remember things and details to ensure that I didn't get in trouble.
My mother on the other hand was always looking for some reason to beat me, especially after she and my dad divorced. She took all of her hatred and resentment toward him out on me and I think those trials were part of the reason she hated him so much. If I was telling the truth or in the right, he just knew because I've never been a good liar. So often times she accused me of something dumb to try and get me beaten and he'd dismiss it once I presented my side.
Vid hard and the outro 😭🔥🔥🔥
Bro everything you said is so relatable 😂
YO, THAT FREESTYLE DON'T MISS!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
This video is so relatable. I am black and my parents are so amazing.
My biggest flex to my friends is that my mom actually apologized to me when she realized that I was just really clumsy, still use that flex to this day
Yay we didn't have to wait 2 weeks for yoyo to upload
For the generational trauma discipline I can relate. I recently found out my dad thought he was being soft on me the way he was easing me like his because he made a commitment to never parent like his dad, who beat him and his mom after coming home drunk all the time
Love you dad ❤️
YoYo with another banger Thank goodness for you ❤😭
W video already, keep it up Yoyo🔥🔥
1:44 my mom just called me 😂😂
My parents rn are like this 😭
I grew up in a split household and I was with my father. It's rare that a father has custody of children but I remember mostly negative things about my father but one thing for sure I love my dad. He did his best to raise me and my other 5 siblings. I tol watched my father graduate and do what he loves and it pushes me to strive for what I love. Now my mother I love my mom even though I didn't see her most of my childhood. Every memory I have of her is positive. She truly loves me and my siblings. Now as an adult I do communicate with both my parents and one day I wish I could see them stand in front of each other and shake each other's hand and say they forgive each other. I know it won't happen because they too prideful but it would be nice
I love my mom man so much idk if I can ever give back the amount of love and affection she gives me
Man woke up and chose to bring up a every significant issue we all experienced
these animation videos are my only sense of joy this boring spring break
The abuse is crazy 😭😭 Keep ya head up gang 🙏🏾
This actually facts ngl
i think this is the earliest ive ever been yo a yoyo video
"She made me breakfast." You can hear the betrayal
I don't have black parents, but I do have a white ginger mother and an Hispanic father.as sweet as they are they made sure to keep me and my older sister in line.but I still love them,and could never be the person I am today without them.
Ahh memories…
Dawg💀
honestly, like how are able to have a clean connection while driving!!
Man, my mom is exactly like this, what the heck?!
Dude having Irish parents are so similar their parenting techniques are so similar😭‼️‼️
I feel you there... my mom came from an Irish family and my dad a Croatian one... it's like YoYo just reached into my memory banks lol
My mom was the type to pretend like she didn't know stuff and then randomly bring it up when I completely forgot about it. I remember I left a vm on her work phone where I made a mistake and cursed. I was a full blown adult but you don't curse around black Christian parents at any age. 😂 Weeks go by and one day I'm sitting in her office and she says "Let me let you listen to this voicemail". I'm not thinking ANYTHING of it because it's been WEEKS and she used to play the voicemails out loud all the time so I just thought this was one of the crazy ones. She plays this voicemail at max volume and just stares at me. 🤣 I was an adult so she couldn't do anything but the SHAME. BAHAHA! She legit just played the message, deleted it, and continued working. Lololol. Both my parents have jacked me tf up before though. I know people say it's abuse and blah blah blah but I'm not crazy bro and I love my parents to death. They didn't do everything right but they did their absolute BEST and that's all I can ask for. I'm a mom now and I don't do everything my parents did but sometimes... I get it. 😂 Kids TEST YOU. LOL.
I laughed so hard that I cried and had to use my inhaler I'm still weaseling at this moment 😂 (RIP) DBZ in general
I'm a black man and both my black parents were navy trained, my childhood felt like boot camp
The part about calling your mom must be universal😂😂
Yoyo one thing i agree with you is punishment, Discipline and Beating me and my sister done wild things to get beat by Belt, Sandel, Cooking spoon (Metal), pcp pipe, and Home Depo DIY weapons and of course the outta nowhere slapped as well
LOL - so relatable... I have European parents and it was basically the same. I remember getting a surprise beating with the belt when I was dead asleep... ambushed by my dad 😂😬
Funny you mentioned karate, as I learned how to position my hand so my mom would snap her wooden spoons - it was like a delayed beating, because when my dad got home I'd never know when it was coming... but it was coming haha.
Love that you recognize that they were doing the best they can. My folks both came from some scary families, and they got some serious beatings - far worse than myself and my two brothers. I love my folks. They helped me to learn a serious work ethic, and so much about life, too. Took until I was a parent myself and until I was maybe 25 to see eye to eye, but we got there.
Thanks for this vid!
I gotta watch this, it bouta really relatable
Bro I swear eastern european parents are the same as black parents on god 😭🤣🤣🤣
I feel you there - Slavic parents know how to bring down the fire. I once got a surprise beating with the belt when I was dead asleep... dad ambushed me 😂
Sometimes you don't know when it's coming, but it's definitely coming lol
I felt that ending 🙌 great vid man
9:15 nah this fire 🔥
Finally a UA-camr posted
I gtg to a restaurant but when I come back I’ll finish this Banger
hispanic parents=black parents they the same fr😂😭
This triggered so much I needed to laugh at now that I’m grown 😂❤
bro we need these freestyles on spotify or sm
Yoyo you always get me bricked
Bro every single thing that u said happens to me except my parents still married and my dad works to provide for the family and is the authority