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  • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
    @ForPurposeDrivenMen  5 місяців тому +20

    consistency is what separates the purpose driven men from everyone else. consistency is the only way we can reach our goals.. do the work even when you don’t feel like it, because trust me brother, it’s worth it.
    Connect with me on social media IG @maliquedlewis
    instagram.com/maliquedlewis?igsh=MWk1ZjV6eTBmNGRyeQ%3D%3D&
    Email me forpurposedrivenmen@gmail.com for one on one consultations

    • @henster305
      @henster305 3 місяці тому +1

      It’s amazing how god is using you and speaking through you to better our lives, god bless you in your journey brother.

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  3 місяці тому

      @@henster305 thank you brother God bless you too

  • @jonathanmiller4689
    @jonathanmiller4689 5 місяців тому +82

    Finding this channel after the breakup that left me feeling so lost in life has been such a blessing, I cannot express how grateful I am for the work that you do for this channel and for us.

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  5 місяців тому +13

      Mannn.. I’m grateful for you guys too. I’ll never stop making videos. Thank you for your support. I believe in you, keep going 📈🫡

    • @dylandegwa
      @dylandegwa 5 місяців тому +7

      Same here bro, just went through a breakup a few weeks ago and his channel has been helping me through it a lot. All you gotta do is lock in on yourself , better results will come

    • @parkerphillips8737
      @parkerphillips8737 5 місяців тому +4

      Same bro. I’ve got a whole new mental

    • @Mphela88
      @Mphela88 Місяць тому

      Same bro went through a breakup weeks back. This channel really uplifting my spirit ❤

    • @AlejandroSilva-vd5pw
      @AlejandroSilva-vd5pw Місяць тому

      Didn’t go through a break up but I did had a mental breakdown 2 weeks go this channel really help me out also I’m grateful 🥹 it’s mind blowing 🤯 that some brother on the internet 🛜 is helping me see clear! God bless all my brothers and sisters! 💯 love ❤️ yourself first before others!

  • @thetechfromheaven
    @thetechfromheaven 5 місяців тому +3

    I've been struggling with depression and several addictions since the pandemic and your videos are a gold mine of inspiration. I'm calling it quits to all the stuff that is pulling me down cold turkey, no more beer, no more weed, no more social media, porn and videogames, no more couch locking activities and doomscrolling and most importantly, no more effing excuses. My phone is only going to be used for doordashing and tracking my daily physical activities in a scheduled manner. No more excuses. Thanks for doing this for the world to listen, all the Blessings to you brother.

  • @qt1622
    @qt1622 5 місяців тому +14

    Motivation is a fallacy , it is a fleeting emotion. Stay consistent, stay inspired for them days you don’t feel motivated.
    Love this talk , in this addictive algorithm that is UA-cam this is the cure. “This is not Netflix , this is change your life flicks”

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  5 місяців тому

      Yessir!! We have to stay inspired 🙏🏽🫡 change your life flicks 🔥🔥

  • @Nickstuff100
    @Nickstuff100 5 місяців тому +8

    Ive worked two jobs most of my adult life and im 37, no excuses

  • @JugMan81
    @JugMan81 5 місяців тому +13

    I rather consume this content than Netflix programming

  • @JusCamIke
    @JusCamIke 5 місяців тому +23

    Needed this message, heading to the military soon… Change of environment, leadership skills, etc. Next chapter💯

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  5 місяців тому +4

      thank you for your soon to be service brother 🫡 next chapter will be amazing

    • @JusCamIke
      @JusCamIke 5 місяців тому

      @@ForPurposeDrivenMen you have my gratitude 💪🏿

  • @luxeterna772
    @luxeterna772 5 місяців тому +1

    This is the real masculinity we need in these days

  • @AlejandroSilva-vd5pw
    @AlejandroSilva-vd5pw Місяць тому

    I’m showing up everyday no more bad habits no more smoking weed no more rap music no more negative thoughts negative response being not negative in my mind is hard trying be one percent better each day! You are a blessing my brother! Your videos really help me out the background Instrument and the way you speak feel like you talking straight to me! God is good all the time all the time god is good!!!!!

  • @RayTalksS
    @RayTalksS 5 місяців тому +9

    “CONSISTENCY IS KEY” We all say in unison 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @CEOof2BB
    @CEOof2BB 5 місяців тому +3

    I felt like this is exactly what i needed to hear this morning. At first i was about to turn on the tv and chill but then said Naah... let me open up the laptop, hop on youtube and tap in with the guys. Much respect to you my boy. One time when i was like 17/18 a dude that was a few years older than me told me that i was like his little big brother. It didn't make sense to me then, but it does now big that's how I'm starting to feel about you!! Keep doing your thing!!

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  5 місяців тому

      I respect that a lot bro, it’s only up from here from here for us 📈🫡

  • @izzy_515
    @izzy_515 5 місяців тому +3

    Gem after Gem 💎

  • @humbledev_
    @humbledev_ 5 місяців тому +3

    That message did hit hard bro. My sons is watching me now and It’s scary to know how much of a purpose less man I was acting before I realized.
    Even though it’s a struggle I have to make grow into a purpose driven man not for me but for them. I appreciate you brother

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  5 місяців тому +1

      I appreciate you too brother 🫡 once we realize we gotta be on our purpose, we never go back, we may fall short but we’ll always get up to strive for greatness. that’s the beauty of this journey

  • @614-Diamond
    @614-Diamond 5 місяців тому +2

    Happy for you bro, I appreciate your words.

  • @TMS468
    @TMS468 5 місяців тому +5

    Thanks man, thanks to your videos I’ve changed so many things. I was running every day at 5am bc I wanted to start exercising, but didn’t have the money for the gym yet, I finally got in the gym and I’m going from monday to friday bc that’s the schedule they have. I’m waking up at 3:30 am and starting the day, the first one to be on the gym and giving my all every workout session. I’ve also decided that I’m quitting my smartphone and getting a cellphone with buttons bc I want to live in real life and have all my focus on my goals, everything i need is in my computer and if someone needs to talk, we can talk con a phone call or see each other in person. The only social media im keeping is UA-cam, usually i just listen to the videos as a podcast and your content and others are very helpful and add to my life. Thanks from the heart, man

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  5 місяців тому +4

      You’re more than welcome brother I’m super proud of you man, what you’re doing is amazing keep going and keep giving life your all. 🫡 nothing better than the present moment 🔥

    • @pmdSauce
      @pmdSauce 5 місяців тому +1

      This is legendary🔥

  • @robinbucaneg3408
    @robinbucaneg3408 Місяць тому

    BROTHER! When you said, "Don't make the sun more consistent than you". That hit HARD

  • @Kashiestt
    @Kashiestt 5 місяців тому +1

    Never stop what you’re doing, bro your channel help me get back on my path getting back, consistent with my channel inconsistent with every day life I commend you for that God bless you

  • @fabianunterrainer4266
    @fabianunterrainer4266 5 місяців тому +2

    Just found this Channel, you're amazing man! Very chill and being real. Love this style of videos, keep it up😊

  • @Becomingbetterdaybyday
    @Becomingbetterdaybyday 5 місяців тому

    Been watching you every now and again for about 6 months now and finally realizing my life has been the same because I’m 60% into becoming better and I need to fully lock in and let all the distractions go away and become the man I want for myself.

  • @subarucrosstrek
    @subarucrosstrek 5 місяців тому +2

    “i put my all in to life to get all out of life “ 25:22

  • @Cyan1d3.0c3aN
    @Cyan1d3.0c3aN 5 місяців тому +9

    Going through a breakup that's entirely my fault. Been wasting my life for three years when I had a perfect woman by my side helping me out. Found your channel the other night and you've been a huge inspiration thank you

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  5 місяців тому +2

      Glad I’ve been of help brother, I know it’s only up from here! 📈💪🏽

    • @derrellgibbs1022
      @derrellgibbs1022 5 місяців тому +2

      Literally me rn

    • @Cyan1d3.0c3aN
      @Cyan1d3.0c3aN 5 місяців тому

      @@derrellgibbs1022 you're not alone bruh we can do better we got this

    • @Cyan1d3.0c3aN
      @Cyan1d3.0c3aN 5 місяців тому +1

      @@ForPurposeDrivenMen that's the mindset I'm trying to maintain instead of sulking man thanks for your help 🙏

    • @Cyan1d3.0c3aN
      @Cyan1d3.0c3aN 5 місяців тому

      @@derrellgibbs1022 you not alone bruh we got this

  • @masanzamtshazo851
    @masanzamtshazo851 4 місяці тому

    Consistency is key. Thank you brother. You changed not only my life but my mindset.

  • @bjrnnorman8916
    @bjrnnorman8916 5 місяців тому +1

    Its an honor to be a subscriber of this channel before 100 thousand

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  5 місяців тому

      Thank you brother it’s an honor to have your support 🫡

  • @bjrnnorman8916
    @bjrnnorman8916 5 місяців тому +2

    It is fair enough, you are a true example of not being afraid of the light. I am just 21 with lots of so called achievements but you are miles ahead of me. Maybe its because your faith is so strong, however it was still your decision to stay at it, that leap of faith is what i also must do.

  • @ishnova6267
    @ishnova6267 5 місяців тому +3

    This was a very powerful video like all I have seen so far but especially in the last couple minutes. Although I have no kids I desperately yearn to create my own family and provide them with the love, care, attention, and effort that I wasn’t showed as a kid. Though I know this within myself something about hearing “your future son is watching this” genuinely bought me to tears and I just wanna say thank you for your consistency, dedication and commitment to not only yourself but to us. We are all one, we are all family and you are a living example of the divine love we were all created with to bestow upon this perverted realm….Thank You, and much love🤞🏾❤️

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  5 місяців тому +1

      Much love to you too brother thank you for your amazing comment, I’m grateful that I do what I do, if we have this mindset of consistency I just know we’ll be even better fathers for our kids in the future. Thanks for watching bro 🫡

    • @ishnova6267
      @ishnova6267 5 місяців тому

      @@ForPurposeDrivenMen Asè🙏🏾🫡

    • @rxtrx765
      @rxtrx765 5 місяців тому +1

      "desperately yearn to create my own family and provide them with the love, care, attention, and effort that I wasn’t showed as a kid" -- this something most people can sense and its called desperation. best is to learn how to love yourself first. you might have been raised by a narcissist and you should try learn to heal that emotional trauma first. it might save your life, i know it did save mine. it took years..

    • @ishnova6267
      @ishnova6267 5 місяців тому

      @@rxtrx765 Thank you 🙏🏾 , I recently went through something that taught me this exact lesson. I am currently on the path of loving, developing and learning within myself, so that I may have the honor, knowledge, experience and wisdom to guide, raise and protect the family that I know I will have . I appreciate you though as this just confirms that I am on the right path to earning my right as a father and man 🙌🏾🧘🏾‍♂️

  • @lovezealously
    @lovezealously 5 місяців тому +1

    Thank god for this channel! Every message I need to hear is being told me face to face from a brother who wants me to grow

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  5 місяців тому +1

      Amen brother I believe in you and I know you can do this 🫡 keep going 🔥

  • @anthrxc
    @anthrxc 5 місяців тому

    Your words are brutal to the point that my soul hurts. I love it. I wish all the best for you, for me and for everyone watching.

  • @Remiri
    @Remiri 5 місяців тому +1

    I like when you repeat the statement like a mantra 🔥

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  5 місяців тому

      🔥🔥🔥 that’s how we ingrain it in our minds and we won’t forget it 🫡

  • @lilpeices
    @lilpeices 5 місяців тому +1

    Nah that last line hit so hard; Glad you came back on to say that...Shalom Brothers

  • @DanteMarturello
    @DanteMarturello 5 місяців тому +1

    75k Brodie! You deserve man, thank you . I’m happy to see on your purpose and reaping the benefits of your work.

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  5 місяців тому

      Thank you brother! Wouldn’t be possible without you guys 🙏🏽🫡

  • @Mphela88
    @Mphela88 Місяць тому

    - how you going to show up for others if your not showing up for yourself. You have to show up for yourself
    - Showing up is the success

  • @Dugajug24
    @Dugajug24 5 місяців тому +3

    On Point!💯

  • @chrissilewis366
    @chrissilewis366 5 місяців тому +3

    🙏🏽 Thank you for this reminder to stay Consistent ! 💯

  • @envyflaco
    @envyflaco 5 місяців тому +4

    its funny cuz I recently realized how I was going off track then boom Im seeing this vid u jus posted all on gods timing Bro

  • @LMM93
    @LMM93 3 місяці тому

    I love that you are calm and collected. It’s not overstimulating at all I could listen to this all day. Thank you for the work you are doing. New subbie.

  • @times_222
    @times_222 5 місяців тому +4

    80% of success is just showing up !!!!!

  • @subarucrosstrek
    @subarucrosstrek 5 місяців тому +1

    listening to these vids have became a daily habit for me on my daily walks or while at work and it’s one of the many things i look forward to every day!❤ keep it up Malik we love you

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  5 місяців тому +1

      Love you too bro I’ll never stop making these videos 🙏🏽🫡

  • @valerierodriguez7270
    @valerierodriguez7270 5 місяців тому

    Im glad u came back on for that last part. As a dad I needed that

  • @leorodriguez9344
    @leorodriguez9344 3 місяці тому +1

    Stay true to your vision and activate yourself every single day. Thank you very much for keeping me motivated during these dark times.

  • @8ior
    @8ior 5 місяців тому +2

    its so crazy you speaking about this topic, this was the same topic i was trying to work on this week. HOW GOD WORKS!

  • @adamlam9648
    @adamlam9648 5 місяців тому

    Dame brother! I feel like the universe sent your videos to me at the right time. Much love and thank for the knowledge.

  • @JedLiKenneth
    @JedLiKenneth 5 місяців тому

    The ending was like a post credit scene for Marvel. Ahaaaa. All jokes aside, truly grateful for these reminders that resonates deeply. Much love & abundance to all who’ve made it this far in life.

  • @jarquenezfranklin6511
    @jarquenezfranklin6511 5 місяців тому +3

    Everyday put in the work 💯💯💯

  • @HunterChadd-p1r
    @HunterChadd-p1r 3 місяці тому +1

    Yes sir 👏

  • @lejunerichberg8943
    @lejunerichberg8943 4 місяці тому +1

    That message definitely hit hard💯🙏💪🏾

  • @dandrecovin4426
    @dandrecovin4426 2 місяці тому

    Bout brought me to tears bro right at 18:56 all the way till 20:11 you rapped bro. Spoke right to my heart! Thanks for the reminder needed it. 🙏🏾♾️💯

  • @Liqo315
    @Liqo315 5 місяців тому +4

    This was a amazing topic to speak on🧘🏿‍♂️💫👁

  • @Sunwu-h9m
    @Sunwu-h9m 5 місяців тому +1

    Facts brotha preachh✊

  • @minkailujalloh2392
    @minkailujalloh2392 5 місяців тому +2

    God will bless you brother ❤

  • @Uncommony
    @Uncommony 5 місяців тому +2

    All or nothing mindset is no good. 10% is better than no % long term, not short term. The Young Big Homie is dropping gems again. Stay Uncommon!

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  5 місяців тому +1

      Thank you brother, that’s 10000% true! Stay uncommon!

  • @KeyMarco
    @KeyMarco 5 місяців тому

    Keep giving us young men that MOTO 🕯️🕯️🕯️

  • @StoicVoices7
    @StoicVoices7 3 місяці тому +1

    I’m going though a heartbreak me and it sucks, I broke up with her because she wasn’t giving me attention and doing other stuff like hanging out with another guy so it has been 1 month almost since I stopped texting her and she hasn’t called me. She is posting videos in a new job, new trips and going to clubs it is so delusional

  • @nevillelewis9206
    @nevillelewis9206 5 місяців тому +1

    Hard work pays off if we work smartly.

  • @riazsaliu1762
    @riazsaliu1762 5 місяців тому +1

    Stay strong you’ll thank yourself years from now

  • @MikelBaptiste04
    @MikelBaptiste04 5 місяців тому +2

    Love These Long Videos Bro Bro Keep It Going 😎

  • @Blessedupxl
    @Blessedupxl 5 місяців тому +1

    Sup man. All i want to say is thank you bro. Ever since i started my UA-cam channel, i have been obsessed with the journey. Sure i don't have the subscribers, sure i don't have the best editing software sure im not the best when it comes to talking. I'm on my 28 video and i can wait to reach my 30th video.

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  5 місяців тому

      You got the perfect mindset towards it brother im proud do you keep going! 🔥🫡

  • @thonykafuako5749
    @thonykafuako5749 5 місяців тому +2

    Ayoo bro, I got the same edition of the book. Finished reading it 3 weeks ago. Second time doing it.🔥

  • @RED42SHADOW
    @RED42SHADOW 5 місяців тому +1

    Appreciate the videos man you’ve helped me a lot and you help me stay locked in and not focus, but once you learn how to control your thoughts and your feelings and makes it way easier to stay consistent and not lose track and down the path

  • @jaswag-hr1en
    @jaswag-hr1en 5 місяців тому +7

    Hey brother, it’s incredible how much your channel has grown! I shouted you out on my channel, on my video: “subscribe to these motivational and self-care channels” and at that time you were only at 2k subs! It’s insane how much you’ve grown since then and I’m very proud to be apart of this brotherhood. Thank you for your consistent passion towards blessing and inspiring the lives of others 💯

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  5 місяців тому +3

      That means a lot brother thank you and I’m glad to have you part of the brotherhood as well. None of this growth would be possible without you guys. Thank you 🙏🏽 I’ll always be consistent for yall 🙏🏽🫡

  • @SilkkThePainter
    @SilkkThePainter 3 місяці тому +1

    thank You brother for the inspiration.

  • @pmdSauce
    @pmdSauce 5 місяців тому

    Thank you for your video brother, thank you for reminding me to stay consistent on the path🙏🏽. Btw the music you have in the background really allows me to lock into your message🔥

  • @Mathewkipkoech-o7z
    @Mathewkipkoech-o7z 5 місяців тому +2

    very true broo you are my daily motivation💯

  • @thevideodept
    @thevideodept 5 місяців тому +1

    When he knows he knows

  • @wlycmk2053
    @wlycmk2053 4 місяці тому +1

    28:39 my son is 14 months now , that shit hit a hard bro 😭💯
    Then the black “lock in” screen came and I seen my self in the reflection making a stank face like damn he spitting

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  3 місяці тому

      That’s real motivation right there bro, shout out to you and your son, you got this 🫡

  • @alyfahhaam6246
    @alyfahhaam6246 5 місяців тому +1

    i love you bro, thank you

  • @HunterChadd-p1r
    @HunterChadd-p1r 3 місяці тому +1

    D work 💪

  • @Collinskirui.
    @Collinskirui. 5 місяців тому +1

    Good work bro, keep up the energy💯

  • @tatsukinomiya
    @tatsukinomiya 5 місяців тому +1

    100% dawg

  • @jonathancoleman6482
    @jonathancoleman6482 5 місяців тому

    I’m 28 your videos helping me alot

  • @ET-gh7qy
    @ET-gh7qy 5 місяців тому +1

    Respect bro

  • @subarucrosstrek
    @subarucrosstrek 5 місяців тому +1

    28:48 sorry for the spam comments but last line hits HARD glad i stay till the end fr💯

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  5 місяців тому +1

      Thank you brother and no need to apologize, these videos are for you guys, comment as much as you want. Thank you for watching 🙏🏽🫡

  • @Jaysaidy6
    @Jaysaidy6 5 місяців тому

    Locked in 🔒

  • @ZayBeatztm88
    @ZayBeatztm88 2 місяці тому

    Needed this

  • @subarucrosstrek
    @subarucrosstrek 5 місяців тому +1

    build new healthy habits and cut out the old bad habits and life changes fr

  • @brianbachmeier34
    @brianbachmeier34 5 місяців тому +1

    Discipline yourself brothers.

  • @LMM93
    @LMM93 3 місяці тому +1

    Im a woman but im locked in.

  • @HunterChadd-p1r
    @HunterChadd-p1r 3 місяці тому +1

    I'm just listening to you.
    Say what you say that Oh

  • @airplanemodeincog
    @airplanemodeincog 5 місяців тому +1

    How do i get out of the feeling of fear of missing out and being able to have nights in for myself?

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  5 місяців тому +1

      Just have to stay at home and know it’s for a better reason, a better cause, you have to love self improvement more than you like having temporary fun. You got this bro 🔥

  • @sirscraggy420
    @sirscraggy420 5 місяців тому +1

    If you make merch I'll wear it everyday.

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  5 місяців тому +1

      Thank you brother, (August I’ll have something 🤫) 🙏🏽🔥

  • @JesusLightsYourPath
    @JesusLightsYourPath 3 місяці тому

    I'm a woman and I'm not sure what I should do during my monthly. Should I still exercise just as hard or should I go light? I think as long as I still do a little bit of exercise I won't fall back into my old habits.

  • @whatisthis7688
    @whatisthis7688 5 місяців тому

    Can you put this on Spotify please

  • @rann.goodman
    @rann.goodman 5 місяців тому +2

    If I choose to lock in on something like a passion, like music, is it bad? I watched you locked in video but I'm bothered cause I'm scared that music may not be a great choice to lock onto

    • @ishnova6267
      @ishnova6267 5 місяців тому +2

      Trust your intuition and from watching a few of his videos and my own insight I’d say don’t worry about the difficulties or challenges or whether or not it may be a great choice, sit and look within and ask yourself is it something that you in you soul want to do because you love to do it and if the answer is yes then do it. Don’t worry about anything but the fact that you love what you do, get up and chase your dream. Movement is key as long as you are taking steps towards your passion and it aligns with everything within yourself the most high will take care of the rest for you. Just don’t let a focus of monetary gain or public attention determine your decision and you will be fine

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  5 місяців тому +2

      Exactly what ishnova put 🔥🔥 trust your gut brother! Don’t be scared, have faith and put in your best

  • @Damin-122
    @Damin-122 5 місяців тому

    I like That My Brother. Our Future selves AKA our Higher Selves #MenToKings👑👑👑👑👑🫡🫡🫡🫡🫡 #RealBrotherHood. Dropping Gems 💎💎💎💎✨️✨️✨️ ✨️ 💯Bro For Real this is what im talking Bout My Brother your 1 of the realest doing what your doing no doubt @ All. Thats what i mean by your Messages Be So Powerful & Profound. Thats what i mean when i say i can see just the title and Know The Assignment. Wow Brother I Swear Nothing But Love ❤️ For You from Heart ❤️ You went to College For Communications. I get it. Communications was just a Bonus Bro What you Have Is A Gift its Your DNA. Blessings Brother Blessings 🙌🏿 🙏🏿 Just like Name PurposeDriven came about where it came from the ✨️✨️✨️ to your shoulder/arm Bro. Was already written. amazing Brother Truly. God's Glory For Sure. You been planting and he been planting right back into you. Amen 🙏🏿 These Videos Are Your Results. Well Done My Brother. #Keepplanting✨️💪🏿🫡👑

  • @subarucrosstrek
    @subarucrosstrek 5 місяців тому +1

    listening to these vids have became a daily habit for me on my daily walks or while at work and it’s one of the many things i look forward to every day!❤ keep it up Malik we love you