The Tragic lives of Truman Capote's Swans

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  • The lives and death's of all of Truman Capote's so called "swans"
    00:00 introduction
    01:37 Barbara "Babe" Paley
    12:37 Nancy "Slim" Keith
    27:00 Pamela Harriman
    36:48 Gloria Guinness
    45:34 Lucy Douglas "C.Z" Guest
    50:41 Marella Agnelli
    57:42 Lee Radziwill
    1:09:02 The Fallout From "La Cote Basque 1965"
    All of the information that i used in this video was pulled from "Capote's women" by Laurence Leamer
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  • @StoriesThroughTime
    @StoriesThroughTime  4 місяці тому +455

    I’m so sorry if the audio is messed up and gets too loud or too low in some places or if I sound weird or rushed, I’m still new to recording 🫣. I really wanted to get this video up before the premiere of Feud season 2 but it took me way longer to edit than I thought it would because it was so long! Also I'm sorry if i mispronounce any words or names! All I know is I am NEVER making an hour long video again 😭.

    • @pegzoconnor7205
      @pegzoconnor7205 4 місяці тому +66

      That's OK thank you for acknowledging very good and informative video thank you.

    • @StoriesThroughTime
      @StoriesThroughTime  4 місяці тому +31

      @@pegzoconnor7205thank you so much 🤗

    • @familycorvette
      @familycorvette 4 місяці тому +81

      I just subscribed because this comment is so touching in its self-doubt and you only have 205 subs. I hope you grow in confidence as you create more videos your channel is a bang-up success. Good luck!

    • @pegzoconnor7205
      @pegzoconnor7205 4 місяці тому +1

      Lee Radzwill was pathetic. So self-centered. No problem fooling around with her husband's friend and no surprise he dumped her for somebody else, the fool. To allow her beautiful sister to be insulted by low life, decietful Capote.. She deserved nothing from Jackie. She could never compete with her beautiful sister and that's just the way it is. She probably could've had a great friend with her sister had she not been such a self-absorbed jealous narcissist.

    • @StoriesThroughTime
      @StoriesThroughTime  4 місяці тому +30

      @@familycorvette ahwww thank you so much 🤗 🥹

  • @Huckfintress
    @Huckfintress 4 місяці тому +464

    Marry for money and you’ll pay for every penny

    • @nativevirginian8344
      @nativevirginian8344 4 місяці тому +15

      True. I lived it.

    • @CoffeesChypresBooks
      @CoffeesChypresBooks 4 місяці тому

      😢

    • @angelwingz892
      @angelwingz892 4 місяці тому +26

      Marry in haste, repent in leisure. My ex knew the cost of everything and the value of nothing. It killed my love for him.

    • @HelgaCavoli
      @HelgaCavoli 4 місяці тому +11

      Men marry for heirs. Male hetero heirs.

    • @interestinginfo6765
      @interestinginfo6765 3 місяці тому +15

      If you marry for money…you’ll EARN every penny.

  • @julietteyork6293
    @julietteyork6293 4 місяці тому +353

    Moral of the story: Be careful who you confide in. If you have a writer in your immediate circle, be extra careful.

    • @shadrach6299
      @shadrach6299 4 місяці тому +25

      Don’t confide in anyone

    • @stephaniemccarthy1676
      @stephaniemccarthy1676 4 місяці тому +8

      Amen. I write and agree.

    • @s.peters2866
      @s.peters2866 4 місяці тому +11

      My grandmother used to say trust no one.

    • @squarebear619
      @squarebear619 4 місяці тому +15

      Confide only to a therapist.

    • @Hector8
      @Hector8 4 місяці тому +3

      Jejejee...so that's why some folk prefer to keep me at arms length. And here I was thinking it mighta been BO! But hey, super díscreet so all secrets r safe with me. And my boss the chief editor. The chief sub. Copy editors who might sub any submitted copy. The odd nosy colleague...
      So you see, lips perfectly sealed. You may now spill th beans in perfect confidence :P

  • @paulaartandmusic4412
    @paulaartandmusic4412 4 місяці тому +287

    Two lessons: never share your secrets and never repeat what someone shares with you. It ruins friendships and reputations.

    • @kerri-annebarton9615
      @kerri-annebarton9615 4 місяці тому +12

      ‘Loose lips sink ships’ said someone…? 🤔💭

    • @truthseeker7564
      @truthseeker7564 3 місяці тому +10

      I’ve learned to shut up people who speak ill of others. I used to listen not willingly but they come at you so quickly and spew their toxic word. I never added to it but listening made me feel just as guilty. What do you do with that info. Now, I stick my fingers in my ears and say lalalala please don’t talk about that person they’re my friend and don’t stop until they stop. It’s very effective. I’ve even gotten an apology. I said don’t apologize to me, apologize to the person.

    • @conniejenni5504
      @conniejenni5504 3 місяці тому +14

      I disagree. I find it so sad that Capote was such a terrible treacherous person. He betrayed his friends.

    • @2034916
      @2034916 3 місяці тому +11

      @@conniejenni5504a just such a mean spirited little man.

    • @wpatrickw2012
      @wpatrickw2012 3 місяці тому +7

      Capote must have not have been a good a writer as people claim or he would have been able to disguise the identities the swans much better.

  • @SMtWalkerS
    @SMtWalkerS 4 місяці тому +329

    What a fascinating story! Money, houses, travel, jewels, husbands, lovers, ignored children. These women had so much, but there is a thick strand of unhappiness and selfishness. Very, very interesting. Great job! Thank you!!

    • @StoriesThroughTime
      @StoriesThroughTime  4 місяці тому +16

      Thank you so much for your nice comment 🤗.

    • @geraldtyus8645
      @geraldtyus8645 4 місяці тому

      He was a sad, pretentious, Bama yuckster who was not authentic. All those broads, with the exception of Pamela Harriman, were redundant once the ink on the marriage license was signed. Lee Radziwill remained broke until Herb Ross. Pamela was the real pimpette.

    • @garycolton6522
      @garycolton6522 4 місяці тому

      A dog with two swinging Johnson could not satisfy these b@#&itches.

    • @bovnycccoperalover3579
      @bovnycccoperalover3579 4 місяці тому +12

      So many material things but what of their spiritual lives and the friendships - real or calculating. Just tragic.
      The worst for me was Lee and Jackie. My two sisters were my best friends. I lost one sister on a specific date in January of 2013 and the open wound is scarred but will never heal.

    • @donnakawana
      @donnakawana 4 місяці тому +8

      What your describing really is mother's who were raised by nannies an had visitation with their kids. After school before Dinner, an if they hadn't an engagement.. then kisses an hugs before Nanny took us to bed. I mean them to bed ...
      It's a learned behavior an a learned expectation.. Rich ppl are involved in everything. Meaning there's an itinerary everyday.. it's to be followed strictly... So you didn't have kids to raise them you had children to carry on your name...! You had nannies to raise them an tutor's to train your children.. you as a parent checked on you an that's it...!
      Crazy times still happens today...
      This was a great video you did a great job on this. I wish..... Well that's luv's

  • @miguelfernandes5628
    @miguelfernandes5628 4 місяці тому +194

    I ended up a 10 year friendship after finding out this former friend shared all of my personal business to everyone he knew. Such betrayals can wreak havoc in the mind for a long while.

    • @courtneybrubaker9738
      @courtneybrubaker9738 4 місяці тому +17

      Sorry they happened to you.

    • @beckybnyc322
      @beckybnyc322 3 місяці тому +18

      Not only did they share my confidences. They stole 30k over the course of a month. It really does wreak havoc in future friendships 💔

    • @dawnpatrol4099
      @dawnpatrol4099 3 місяці тому +11

      I can relate. I was betrayed by someone I thought was a friend but was actually a snake. She got me good. I trust no one anymore.

    • @carolynhunter-drake8591
      @carolynhunter-drake8591 3 місяці тому +9

      This is what happened to me. I ended a 30-something year friendship, after hindsight-20/20. Only when she was not in a relationship, was she available, but would S.O.S. me, and I would come running. I am in a 24 year relationship, but she wanted me to live a single life. These are some of the things that started to open my eyes, after almost losing my better half. So, the next time she phoned after almost two years of not answering my calls, I happened to be at work, so I could not talk anyway. I just told her I would phone her soon. Oh well.

    • @purplelove3666
      @purplelove3666 3 місяці тому +2

      ​@@carolynhunter-drake8591so why didn't you marry this better half?

  • @joansutton
    @joansutton 4 місяці тому +802

    the worst aspect of these sorts of people - they ignored their own children.

    • @StoriesThroughTime
      @StoriesThroughTime  4 місяці тому +135

      They all seemed to follow the same formula of Nannie’s, boarding schools and no real affection/attention! 🤦‍♀️

    • @frostpond
      @frostpond 4 місяці тому +76

      THAT’S what it was like in the “old days”… (well, except for Jackie and Audrey Hepburn - who loved their children and took very good care of them.)

    • @annette2326
      @annette2326 4 місяці тому

      They're so vapid. It may have been for the best that they k8ds were raised by loving servants.

    • @lizadivine3785
      @lizadivine3785 4 місяці тому +53

      @@frostpondJackie left her children for long periods of time. Her skill was finding good Nannie’s to care for them during her long absences such as miss Shaw and Marta scugbin

    • @lizadivine3785
      @lizadivine3785 4 місяці тому +78

      @@herminepursch2470my mother always said money makes misery a little easier to handle.

  • @TechnicJunglist
    @TechnicJunglist 4 місяці тому +161

    Capote, like Warhol, loved to surround himself with shiny, charismatic, & rich individuals. Both grew up poor and reveled in the limelight of their success. Excellent video. Thank you.

    • @StoriesThroughTime
      @StoriesThroughTime  4 місяці тому +10

      Well said! And thank you for your comments 🤗

    • @HeathertheGreat_
      @HeathertheGreat_ 4 місяці тому

      Andy. Overrated popcrapola. Insult to art.

    • @samanthab1923
      @samanthab1923 3 місяці тому +7

      It’s funny he gravitated to some of the same folks. Lee ⭐️

    • @astroboy3828
      @astroboy3828 3 місяці тому +2

      😊

    • @astroboy3828
      @astroboy3828 3 місяці тому +12

      Both had mean streaks and a jealousy of women.

  • @ajwilliams3872
    @ajwilliams3872 3 місяці тому +20

    The problem with the Swans and Truman is that they were all 2 much alike. They were self absorbed, out for themselves, loved to gossip others secrets but expected nobody would gossip theirs

  • @nancyvillines4552
    @nancyvillines4552 4 місяці тому +135

    One thing I'll say is that anything Truman said need's to be taken with a grain of salt.

  • @lisal.5119
    @lisal.5119 4 місяці тому +178

    I never heard a better rendition of these women and the world they lived in. Outstanding job! 😊

    • @StoriesThroughTime
      @StoriesThroughTime  4 місяці тому +11

      Thank you so much! 🤗

    • @michaeldoucett4913
      @michaeldoucett4913 3 місяці тому

      ​@@StoriesThroughTime I am so blown away! This comprehensive, captivating compilation, finally has put the pieces together . Thanks so much for doing a gingatic amount of work to bring this historical soap opera to live! Ive heard fragments of all these lives , but to see it compiled in such a timeline is super fantastic ! A myriad of historical adecdotes- The fame- the betrayal -superficial marriages- There really is so much to learn from the swans story and all thier lives- Somehow ,the grass isnt always greener? I always find hyped, beauty , fame and notoriety look at end of life alway say so much? All of those glamorous women lived unique lives, but at what price? I barley make a middle income , yet travel around the world? Go to India every year ect- Finding a way to go to far off lands, and enrich my life and passions without wealth,-proving its not about money? I was at a function with Mellinda G and a royalty event a few years ago...-a princess ect- Actually, I was hired to photograph 80 weathy socialites .haha-Engaging and working with them, I was fascinated looking into each of thier souls (eyes) as my main focus and somehow feelinga bit of thier truth? - all of them were trophy wives,(Not melinda) All running ar0und with bright smiles but shallow conversation? 5o/60/70 and a few young ones? All had weathy husbands that were much older? a literal mashed up plastic surgery! Think "Tanya, in white lotus,Jennifer Coolidge" with all of them-I traded recipes and told travel stories and made them all laugh ! for a day I thought I was being left in thier wills, hahaha,,.. . I could help sense the superficial sides and endless bragging/ insipid banter/conversation? "My dress is thirty G's"! haha that kind of thing! ------------ I digress , I am grateful for this! I had recently watch "The summer" the film made by peter and Lee with the maysles that eventually became grey gardens .A doc about Jackie Os relatives living in squalor- IT wasnt till I saw the unffolding of the real story made by netflix (drew barrymore and Jessica Lange) where we all learn about the legends of privilege they came from! BIG AND LITTLE Edith beale? This wonderful short doc just did it for me the same way- I know all these stories, but to see it in chronicle order is bravaaaa! Thanks SM! btw-Im gay, truman but that biggest hag of them all- The "in Cold blood" shocking betrayal , and then the swans, say so much about his about his own life lesson! Im a rugby (haha) masculine gay, so I never like the smart bitchy arrogant gays little truman!!!! ! ahha- btw do one on Wiliam F Buckley and fueding with Gore Vidal and every other person-Especially his debate with James Baldwin at cambridge-Id love to see that one-I cringe when i hear him talk!

  • @alonzobishop3671
    @alonzobishop3671 4 місяці тому +131

    Gore Vidal’s comment on Capote’s death as being “a wise career move” was pretty spot on…

    • @LoneWulf278
      @LoneWulf278 4 місяці тому +4

      😂

    • @nativevirginian8344
      @nativevirginian8344 4 місяці тому +20

      Vidal was evil incarnate.

    • @RustyHBriggs
      @RustyHBriggs 4 місяці тому +12

      ​@@nativevirginian8344 And a brilliant delight.

    • @bovnycccoperalover3579
      @bovnycccoperalover3579 4 місяці тому +26

      Vidal was even more vicious than Capote. I saw him with Dick Cavett when Norman Mailer went ballistic on Vidal and he was nonplussed. Such a snake, a witty and amusing one but still a snake.

    • @samanthab1923
      @samanthab1923 3 місяці тому +2

      @@bovnycccoperalover3579I was just thinking of that!

  • @lindalealphamale
    @lindalealphamale 4 місяці тому +143

    At least ignoring their children reduced the kid’s exposure to their second hand smoke.

    • @bonnie_gail
      @bonnie_gail 3 місяці тому +20

      benign neglect - it's actually a blessing in a way because if they got involved in their lives the children would be exposed to more of their toxic behaviours (I speak from experience, as an adult I realized I dodged a bullet by my toxic parent not being involved in my life growing up)

    • @c.c.6930
      @c.c.6930 3 місяці тому +2

      That was funny!

  • @catherinesmith9820
    @catherinesmith9820 4 місяці тому +133

    These ladies were the idols of my youth. This was so thoroughly done, and so informative I immediately felt much better about myself and all my life's choices.

    • @StoriesThroughTime
      @StoriesThroughTime  4 місяці тому +9

      Lol thank you !

    • @sarahholland2600
      @sarahholland2600 4 місяці тому +17

      I think they were all rather sad. Status & looks was all their lives were about.

    • @bovnycccoperalover3579
      @bovnycccoperalover3579 4 місяці тому +10

      Not my idols. Never actually heard of them until now. Knew of William Paley as a tyrant who ran CBS as a dictator. The only one that ever bested him that I heard was Sheldon Leonard. Leonard was the producer of the wonderful Dick van Dyke show which Paley, for some reason. He planned to replace van Dyke's show with Howie, a series starring Paul Lynde based on a play by Phoebe Ephron, Nora's mother that ran for five performances on Broadway that it was that bad! Leonard went behind Paley's back to CBS's largest advertiser which I believe was PB &G . They told Paley in no uncertain terms that if he took van Dyke off the air they would remove all their advertising from CBS. I love the mighty fall low. There's always someone bigger on the horizon.

    • @lanabuehrer5616
      @lanabuehrer5616 4 місяці тому +9

      How sad that women who wasted their own lives and talents, were someone’s idol.

    • @tctctc33
      @tctctc33 3 місяці тому

      @@lanabuehrer5616 settle down over there, it was a different time

  • @Silvanam444
    @Silvanam444 4 місяці тому +120

    Something worth mentioning is that Truman's complicated relationship with his mother probably influenced the way he viewed his "swans". His mother basically abandoned him (she left him with some relatives at 4 years old) after divorcing his father. It was said by Truman and others that his mother desperately wanted to go from a nobody in the south to a glamorous life in New York. She changed her name and went into Manhattan looking for a rich man and the opportunities that came with it only to come back time after time crying to Truman about being broken-hearted and apologizing to him. She would repeat that cycle throughout his childhood. I believe that he adored the luxury and status that came with these women, but equally resented them and didn't consider them as equals because in his eyes they were looking for an easy and superficial way to make it, going out their way to do whatever it took to maintain their life style.

    • @StoriesThroughTime
      @StoriesThroughTime  4 місяці тому +26

      Thank you for your comment ! Very fascinating and sad 😞 ! I definitely want to do a video about Truman and his relationship with his mother.

    • @dostagirl9551
      @dostagirl9551 3 місяці тому +19

      Makes sense. Also makes sense why he urged his “perfect” swan to stay in her marriage. I think a part of him enjoyed seeing them suffering for their greed.

    • @pcCAT33
      @pcCAT33 3 місяці тому +11

      Still no excuse. He just didn't grow up.
      Nevertheless, he was witty and talented. Because of his flamboyant character and the few works that touch upon an era, he will never be forgotten.

    • @vickiepaul8258
      @vickiepaul8258 3 місяці тому

      Exactly. I don't understand why women trust gay men so much. They want what you have as much if not more then any woman.

    • @bonnie_gail
      @bonnie_gail 3 місяці тому +5

      @@pcCAT33 I don't get his appeal

  • @idl9ave419
    @idl9ave419 4 місяці тому +137

    Nice job - and MORE archival photographs and video's that I haven't seen before. Someone did a lot of research to find these.

    • @StoriesThroughTime
      @StoriesThroughTime  4 місяці тому +32

      Thank you for your comment 🤗 and yeah I spent hours searching and collecting the photos 😭

  • @benedettakiriaki
    @benedettakiriaki 2 місяці тому +14

    That's exactly how historical documentaries and biographies should be: Truthful, no-nonsense but also respectful and unbiased. I hope someday you have your research published, I would genuinely love to read something written by you. Keep up the good work 🙏👍

    • @StoriesThroughTime
      @StoriesThroughTime  2 місяці тому +2

      Wow thank you so much for your support! It means so much! 🤗 ♥️

  • @Tomovox_PAMS_Radio_JIngles
    @Tomovox_PAMS_Radio_JIngles 4 місяці тому +73

    I've been watching a lot of videos this week about Capote and The Swans; until the FX series I was completely unaware of any of this. By far yours is the most enjoyable and comprehensive. I feel like I received a multi-year education in this one video. I love the editing with the quick blackouts and slow fade-ins between images. The narration isn't grating or annoying like with nearly all the other videos I've watched. Now I feel like I have a better understanding of this world of High Society and the story of Capote and The Swans. Thank you for such an amazing and well-done video.

    • @StoriesThroughTime
      @StoriesThroughTime  4 місяці тому +5

      Thank you so much for your comment 🤗 I’m glad you enjoyed !

  • @beverlyhayshouston2770
    @beverlyhayshouston2770 4 місяці тому +73

    Brooke Hayward , the daughter of Leland Hayward and Margaret Sullivan wrote an autobiography titled Haywire. It is wonderful.

    • @luannshoop1339
      @luannshoop1339 3 місяці тому +10

      Haywire was a good read. Two of Brooke' s siblings committed suicide.

    • @arribaficationwineho32
      @arribaficationwineho32 3 місяці тому +5

      Pamela was a real bee-ayhcth. Or spelled however….

    • @samanthab1923
      @samanthab1923 3 місяці тому +6

      Poor Brooke was never well shot of Pamela. She was the classic evil step mother when she was married to her dad Leyland. But then she married Averell Harriman who had raised her hubby Peter Duchin. Nightmare

    • @elizabethferguson7002
      @elizabethferguson7002 3 місяці тому

      😂😂try Biotch 👍​@@arribaficationwineho32

    • @vanessashaw5365
      @vanessashaw5365 3 місяці тому +1

      I own that book. Riveting

  • @peaches1206
    @peaches1206 4 місяці тому +133

    Such. Emptiness.
    Well done!

    • @StoriesThroughTime
      @StoriesThroughTime  4 місяці тому +5

      Yes, Very! And Thank you for your comment peaches 🤗

  • @tinahammons1653
    @tinahammons1653 3 місяці тому +11

    The affairs these people have are absolutely mind blowing. Was anyone faithful my goodness!!

    • @s.r.r.
      @s.r.r. 8 днів тому

      Evidently not!

  • @rosemarykennedy5430
    @rosemarykennedy5430 4 місяці тому +57

    A most comprehensive and interesting account of Capote’s Swans ❤

  • @SS-qx7nh
    @SS-qx7nh 4 місяці тому +84

    This video was GREAT, and will enhance the rest of Feud for me. I personally appreciated the long format! Liked and subscribed!

  • @markmh835
    @markmh835 4 місяці тому +23

    I was a child and teenager during this time, far from this social scene, but with an east coast unmarried (gay?) uncle who moved in this scene, so I had occasional brushes with it. Even at a young age, I could never understand it. Marital vows and parental duties meant nothing. Unlike my parents, in this social set marriage meant nothing more than a business arrangement between a man and a woman. These women brought little to the table other than beauty, charm, and -- at times -- sexual prowess, social connections, and inherited wealth. Meanwhile, the motives of the women on the prowl were transparent but rarely spoken out loud: they sought great wealth (of course), social status, fame, and a man they could manipulate. Absolutely none of these motives on either side could lead to happiness, and I saw that with my own eyes growing up.
    In time, I thought this world was "dead." Modern women had a range of choices and should have a desire for quality education. I had the good fortune to attend an elite graduate school in the 1980s where, much to my surprise, I found women of this "old order" -- mainly debutantes from the South -- pursuing the same set of vacuous goals as The Swans despite pursuing graduate degrees. Graduate schools became the new hunting grounds for husbands among the students, the alumni, and the professors. My disgust for this social set knows no limits. Do modern women think so little of their own capabilities that landing a rich and/or high status man is all that gives them identity? I moved as far away as I could from these sorts and never looked back. 😵😒

    • @s.r.r.
      @s.r.r. 8 днів тому

      You are to be commended. I hope you found real happiness in your life.

  • @gaylarned9818
    @gaylarned9818 4 місяці тому +95

    "You can never be too rich or too thin," I believe is attributable to Wallace Simpson, Duchess of Windsor. She also had it embroidered in needlepoint on a pillow.

    • @twistoffate4791
      @twistoffate4791 4 місяці тому +9

      I always thought Coco Chanel first said it, but I guess I'm incorrect.

    • @yoohootube
      @yoohootube 4 місяці тому

      @@twistoffate4791 both Nazi sympathizers

    • @vermont741
      @vermont741 4 місяці тому +16

      Wallis not Wallace

    • @irish66
      @irish66 4 місяці тому +8

      stupid saying.

    • @squarebear619
      @squarebear619 4 місяці тому +8

      And too unhappy apparently. 🥴

  • @AB-cw1fi
    @AB-cw1fi 4 місяці тому +97

    Great job, full of information, a great deep dive!

    • @StoriesThroughTime
      @StoriesThroughTime  4 місяці тому +13

      Thank you so much 😭. It was a lot of work but seeing nice comments like yours make it worth it 🥹

    • @lauramcgowan3740
      @lauramcgowan3740 4 місяці тому

      This women were gilded leeches !

  • @lauragray2377
    @lauragray2377 3 місяці тому +22

    This was waaaaaaayyyyyyy better than the show! Good job 👍

  • @nelsonmcduff5218
    @nelsonmcduff5218 4 місяці тому +40

    The similarities between Babe and Marella are uncanny. They even looked alike.

    • @hughjanus5336
      @hughjanus5336 3 місяці тому +7

      Marella Agnelli, of whom Truman Capote famously said, comparing her with Babe Paley, "If they were both in Tiffany's window, Marella would be more expensive."

  • @susantuttle1160
    @susantuttle1160 4 місяці тому +56

    Point of information: Slim's hometown was Salinas in Monterey County-- Central California --- near the coastal towns of Carmel & Santa Cruz. She attended Dominican College which is still in the small city of San Rafael, Marin County, NORTH of San Francisco. Just needed to clarify these place names & locales!

    • @StoriesThroughTime
      @StoriesThroughTime  4 місяці тому +11

      Thank you for the information 🤗 Sorry I got it wrong !

    • @RustyHBriggs
      @RustyHBriggs 4 місяці тому +4

      ​@@StoriesThroughTimeThe locals pronounce it "San Rafell," rather than "Raf-eye-el."

    • @msyallen
      @msyallen 4 місяці тому +5

      I need to go back and research these people. They kept the wealth between them.

    • @msyallen
      @msyallen 4 місяці тому +2

      The Bay area.

  • @carmell51
    @carmell51 3 місяці тому +25

    Their greatest gift and greatest asset was their children, and they ignored and felt like we’re just a toy to visit and play with her once in a while. Their lives were disgusting and empty. I was a beautiful young girl. My mother had come from wealthier family that was now struggling during the depression. She always steered me away from the socialite lifestyle. She also married my father, who is a down to earth, hard-working man. He was a great father. He worked hard and developed his own business as a contractor, she always steered me away from the people who tried to get me to model and do things like that. She told me it wasn’t important. What was important was knowing God and having children and having a good husband who you loved and loved you. I thank God for my mother and my father.

    • @scottfamily5963
      @scottfamily5963 2 місяці тому

      This is a beautiful tribute to your mother and father. You are smart, healthy, decent people with a healthy internal compass and integrity. I hope life continues to be good to you.

    • @c.w.8200
      @c.w.8200 2 місяці тому +1

      My mother is satan incarnate, a malignant narcissist and my father is an extremely weak man who never tried to help us, I prayed every night that my mother would ignore me or someone would take my pleas seriously and call CPS, I believe these children were probably lucky to be ignored by their parents and the professional nannies might have done far more for them than most of these society creeps could have done.

  • @lauriewarner4848
    @lauriewarner4848 4 місяці тому +30

    A few years ago I went down the Capote and his Swan rabbit hole. I thought I knew so much. Until this lovely post I learned I had just scratch the surface. Thank you so much for all of the information. You are on your way to being a YT ⭐️ star. Keep up the great work.

  • @beverlyhayshouston2770
    @beverlyhayshouston2770 4 місяці тому +96

    The character Dill in To Kill A Mockingbird was based on a young Truman Capote.

    • @lizabeck1221
      @lizabeck1221 4 місяці тому +22

      Yes! He used to spend summers with his grandmother in Alabama and was close friends with Harper Lee.

    • @pageribe2399
      @pageribe2399 4 місяці тому +11

      Actually, I believe it was a couple of maiden aunts who cared for Truman in Monroeville, AL.

    • @emmarubenstein9085
      @emmarubenstein9085 4 місяці тому +4

      He sure was 😊

    • @beverlyhayshouston2770
      @beverlyhayshouston2770 4 місяці тому +16

      @@pageribe2399 A Christmas Memory is a little film about Truman’s time spent with those Aunts. Geraldine Page is the eccentric one who baked hundreds of fruit cakes to mail to strangers. It has some funny moments and is actually very poignant. The two other Aunts are extremely strict and very unforgiving. I watch it periodically and it’s very moving and memorable.

    • @dreamsofturtles1828
      @dreamsofturtles1828 4 місяці тому +8

      ​@@beverlyhayshouston2770 I never saw the film, but heard Capote narrate A Christmas Memory himself (its here on YT). It made me realize what an extraordinarily talented writer he was. And the heart he had for a woman who, by the social standards of the day, was a pitiable, weak minded nobody- but was actually a great & beautiful soul. who made his childhood happy (as it could be)

  • @jenniferblume4559
    @jenniferblume4559 2 місяці тому +4

    Fantastic Video. You captured the life of these rich socialites so well. I showed my mother who grew up in the same era and C.Z. Guest was her fashion icon as they were both horsewoman. Well done, thank you❤

  • @pstewart6537
    @pstewart6537 4 місяці тому +25

    An extensive and thorough recount of so many lives. Thank you for sharing your work.

  • @hoperemsen6335
    @hoperemsen6335 4 місяці тому +24

    Enjoyed this; your diligence in bringing this to us is evident. I particularly like your voice; falling asleep to podcasts helps my insomnia and I'm always looking for just the right kind of voice. You have one. (For that purpose, I tend to use the same ones on repeat so as not to miss the story.) I look forward to future uploads. You've gained a new subscriber -a retired preschool/K teacher from Georgia. Take care!
    (Give yourself a break re mistakes...no worries, dear!)

    • @StoriesThroughTime
      @StoriesThroughTime  4 місяці тому +4

      Wow thank you so much for your nice comment 🥹 ! Im still working on my voice but I’m so glad you enjoyed ! 🤗

  • @user-qg5wg9ut2o
    @user-qg5wg9ut2o 4 місяці тому +29

    Thank you for your phenomenal back stories about these wealthy icons of American industry. ❤🎉

  • @valentinat3250
    @valentinat3250 4 місяці тому +31

    Did the swans actually eat food? Or just smoke?

    • @diannamorrison2431
      @diannamorrison2431 4 місяці тому +2

      😂

    • @somethingclever8916
      @somethingclever8916 3 місяці тому +8

      Until the 1990s smoking was allowed everywhere.
      High schools even had a student smoking section.
      You could smoke in doctors offices, in court, in movie theaters, stores, college classrooms, restaurants.
      Even doctors encouraged smoking to deal with stress and anxiety

    • @Pylypczak
      @Pylypczak 3 місяці тому +5

      @@somethingclever8916yes. I graduated in 1970. Our high school had smoking areas for the kids.

    • @kathybutterfield2760
      @kathybutterfield2760 3 місяці тому +1

      In Feud, it said they ate small amounts of rare meat and small salads. I wonder if they excercised?

  • @jamesallison4875
    @jamesallison4875 Місяць тому +2

    This was a compelling piece of work! Your voice is lovely and the organization of the story immaculate! Very good work. I couldn’t stop watching.

  • @msj7872
    @msj7872 4 місяці тому +61

    Fabulous video. Your careful fleshing out of these women is greatly appreciated. "More tears are shed over answered prayers than unanswered ones". Truman was right to title his book "Answered Prayers". These women had everything they set out to achieve and were all very unhappy. I can't help but wonder how different things would have turned out for Truman if he went into recovery from alcohol and drugs. I think his betrayal of his swans resulted from the bad judgement that came from his alcohol/drug abuse.

    • @AG-iu9lv
      @AG-iu9lv 4 місяці тому

      Alcohol and drugs only make you into a more intense version of who you are without them. Capote was a usurious prick at his heart and core, then.

    • @c.a.savage5689
      @c.a.savage5689 4 місяці тому +10

      And the alcohol/drug abuse also had its own underlying reasons. Self-loathing being one.

  • @Delete629
    @Delete629 2 місяці тому +4

    This is the best account of this story I’ve came across. Good job❤

  • @drdebocherry
    @drdebocherry 4 місяці тому +11

    Best thing l ever heard on UA-cam, compaarible to this was watching Diana Ross performing a composite of her greatest hits on Johnny Carson back in the 70-80's (?), it was the best musical performance I had ever seen by that point in time. This was the best literary historic. Thank you for this experience❣️

  • @tedtalksrock
    @tedtalksrock 4 місяці тому +16

    This video essay was deeply engaging. Very impressive and beautifully done! What a story.
    This work is head and shoulders above others in You Tube. So thoroughly researched and well-assembled. And I loved the archival photographs you added.
    Honestly, I feel as though I just finished a biographical book. Your work is really compelling. ❤

  • @Colorbrush21
    @Colorbrush21 4 місяці тому +14

    Out of all the swans, Babe was the most beautiful to me. She had the most striking cheekbone structure, huge dark eyes, and a beautifully shaped mouth. Lee Radziwell had beautiful bone structure and wide eyes. The others - Gloria, CZ and Slim were pretty women. Pamela was just attractive. One thing they all had in common - the relentless drive, ambition and personality to get the rich men they hunted down.

  • @anemicvampyre605
    @anemicvampyre605 3 місяці тому +10

    I enjoyed this compilation of Truman’s Swans. New follower.

  • @ritamix33
    @ritamix33 4 місяці тому +13

    OMG, THAT WAS SO GOOD! Who put this together?? Thank you! I'm watching "Feud" on Hulu and had NO IDEA who these women were and needed some info. You did a great job! 👏

  • @NinjaGrrrl7734
    @NinjaGrrrl7734 4 місяці тому +14

    Please come back. This was excellent. You had me glued to your words throughout.

    • @StoriesThroughTime
      @StoriesThroughTime  4 місяці тому +5

      thank you so much ! I'm working on my next video now. its different from this one but i do plan on making at least one more video about Truman. thank you for your comment and support 🤗.

    • @arribaficationwineho32
      @arribaficationwineho32 3 місяці тому +2

      Dr Feelgood was very popular in that set

  • @Blabette
    @Blabette 3 місяці тому +10

    You just got a new subscriber, I loved this! And I loved hearing a real human voice, it’s becoming so rare these days.

  • @cheenjoopearl
    @cheenjoopearl 4 місяці тому +28

    This was very, very, well done. Thank you.

  • @homszerrudo1025
    @homszerrudo1025 4 місяці тому +9

    Beautiful, wistful and painful. This was such a great video. Thank you for making a comprehensive effort into the subject.

  • @lukkymee2000
    @lukkymee2000 4 місяці тому +7

    Wow, just stumbled upon your video by pure accident and now I’m hooked! Can’t wait to dive into your history on the royals. Love this channel. Well done!🌟

  • @Financiallyfreeauthor
    @Financiallyfreeauthor 3 місяці тому +8

    This is riveting. As an English major I was a little familiar with the basics of capote’s life but it was amazing to hear all this detail

  • @bovnycccoperalover3579
    @bovnycccoperalover3579 4 місяці тому +8

    This is so much enlightening, complex and incisive than all the fluff pieces like like so much jetsam and flotsam on UA-cam. Thanks for taking the time to do a good job.

  • @mickeybell8933
    @mickeybell8933 4 місяці тому +30

    New subscriber....I want to witness your channel grow...your voice is so soothing and easy to listen to

    • @StoriesThroughTime
      @StoriesThroughTime  4 місяці тому +3

      Ahwww thank you so much Mickey! ❤️

    • @mickeybell8933
      @mickeybell8933 4 місяці тому +3

      ​@@StoriesThroughTime....how often do you plan on dropping videos
      I haven't had a chance to look at your shorts

    • @StoriesThroughTime
      @StoriesThroughTime  4 місяці тому +9

      @@mickeybell8933I try to upload at least 1 short everyday, but I haven’t been able to upload any for the past 3 days because I was focusing on getting this video out 😭. But I’m hoping to upload at least one full length video every week 🤞.

  • @UserCF-hs1df
    @UserCF-hs1df 3 місяці тому +5

    This was an interesting and well-done compilation of the lives of these rich socialites, filled with all the artifices that money could buy, but completely devoid of happiness. They should have been pitied, not admired.

    • @StoriesThroughTime
      @StoriesThroughTime  3 місяці тому +2

      Thank you so much for your comment! 🤗 And I agree with everything you said. They were all glamorous and rich and got to spend their husband’s money on whatever they wanted but also had to put up with their husbands humiliating them with multiple mistresses. I’d be a miserable chain-smoking mess as well 😭

    • @UserCF-hs1df
      @UserCF-hs1df 3 місяці тому +2

      @StoriesThroughTime Thank you for all of your hard work, time, and effort that you put into this documentary. It was very much appreciated. I agree with you that if we were born in that era, we, too, would have succumbed to those behaviors because it was what rich socialites were expected to do.

    • @andeannafarnes4719
      @andeannafarnes4719 Місяць тому

      I am sure there were plenty of women who married less wealthy men that endured similar sexual betrayals. It is possibly nicer to be miserable and rich as miserable and middle or lower class. 😅

  • @user-ho6th1gx8u
    @user-ho6th1gx8u 4 місяці тому +32

    I really enjoyed your insights on this interesting group of ladies.
    Love your channel.

  • @hylieaphrodite4086
    @hylieaphrodite4086 4 місяці тому +13

    I'm grateful for "Feud" once again introducing and teaching me about more iconic women of the past. This is the first time that I properly learned about Capote's Swans.. I have seen the book that it was based from awhile back in stores and online... It always piqued my interest. So I was instantly hooked when the promo came out. I'm 3 episodes in and I am so enamored with these women.. Thank you for teaching me more in-depth about them individually.. It was really helpful. I do wish that they included "Gloria Guinness" in the series her journey to becoming the "Swan" that she is was so intriguing to know about. ❤

    • @StoriesThroughTime
      @StoriesThroughTime  4 місяці тому +6

      Thank you for your comment 🤗 and I don’t know why they would leave out Gloria 😭. She really had such an interesting backstory. I haven’t got caught up with episode three yet but they also didn’t mention Marella or Pamela in the first two episodes either 🤦‍♀️

    • @hylieaphrodite4086
      @hylieaphrodite4086 4 місяці тому +3

      Pamela did a cameo in episode 3 haha sorry to spoil I had to@@StoriesThroughTime Yes definitely.. I wish they included Marella as well.. If they could put Pamela in.. I don't see why they couldn't with Gloria and Marella..

  • @timothybarrett9005
    @timothybarrett9005 2 місяці тому +9

    Real housewives of nineteen sixty five...

  • @michaelknight4041
    @michaelknight4041 4 місяці тому +12

    This was very enjoyable. Well done covering so many aspects of such a complicated story, stories i should say.

  • @Harley157d
    @Harley157d 4 місяці тому +13

    They're all so empty and unhappy. To have it all just to have nothing at all. So sad

    • @cindymaceda2999
      @cindymaceda2999 4 місяці тому +2

      But they had FUN, beautiful homes and yachts, traveled the world, entertained geniuses and interesting, talented personalities.

    • @s.r.r.
      @s.r.r. 8 днів тому

      ​@@cindymaceda2999Obviously none of that gave them happiness so they did not find what they really wanted. I doubt there is any happiness in a life based on pursuing material things. Happiness requires a spiritual connection with your partner that is mutual. People seek the wrong goals and wonder why happiness evaded them. That being said, a deep spiritual connection is also hard to find.

  • @pinebee634
    @pinebee634 4 місяці тому +18

    The Swans seemed to be as a Tiffany vase, beautiful, elegant, unique and expensive - but easily damaged, and no doubt if you turned them around, full of cracks and chips. No use to a good home not needing superficiality, and maybe that's how Capote ultimately viewed them and treated them.

    • @kathybutterfield2760
      @kathybutterfield2760 3 місяці тому +2

      Yes, and it was ssid that they actually viewed him as an intertainment, beneath them socially, close as they were...

  • @sidneyfox4625
    @sidneyfox4625 4 місяці тому +26

    Excellent storytelling ❤ so terrible what Truman did.

    • @nicholassullivan1239
      @nicholassullivan1239 4 місяці тому +7

      Yes,
      Quite the betrayal.
      Two wrongs don't undo, but these women certainly sounded like horrible humans.
      Despite his betrayal, they all lived the life they chose 😊

    • @mirianscott7669
      @mirianscott7669 3 місяці тому +2

      it seems that Truman was a horrible human being!… and then he was shocked they wanted nothing to do with him?!…

  • @naomiderooy5
    @naomiderooy5 4 місяці тому +10

    Got what you wanted and lost what you had, seems to be the moral...Thank you for this excellent video!

  • @manda.watching.YouTube
    @manda.watching.YouTube 4 місяці тому +8

    I really love this video. I appreciate the topic, all the information, pictures, and length 😻 Thank you.

  • @residentevil4life
    @residentevil4life 15 днів тому +1

    wow thank you for all work in creating detailed bios on each woman, really gives you a better understanding of how "in the know" Truman was among the rich, famous, and royalty.

    • @StoriesThroughTime
      @StoriesThroughTime  3 дні тому

      You’re very welcome ☺️ And thank you for commenting! I’m glad you enjoyed 🤗

  • @carbine090909
    @carbine090909 4 місяці тому +9

    1:12 Gosh she has the quintessential WASP look I remember as a kid - rich friend's moms on the east coast. It's amusing how rich people are "forced" to sell their grand estates to buy smaller estates as though they're facing hunger and homelessness.

  • @Claptonite555
    @Claptonite555 4 місяці тому +7

    Thank You for such a great video, beautifully narrated.

  • @keepcalmmom
    @keepcalmmom 2 дні тому +1

    I'm really enjoying these wonderful stories. The pictures are amazing. Thank you so very much for creating this.

    • @StoriesThroughTime
      @StoriesThroughTime  2 дні тому

      Thank you so much for your comment! I’m glad you enjoyed the video 🤗

  • @diannamorrison2431
    @diannamorrison2431 4 місяці тому +7

    So much effort to look perfect all the time - must have been exhausting!

  • @alankelly-hamm2702
    @alankelly-hamm2702 4 місяці тому +30

    Well done narrative. A wealth of details that was fascinating to hear. These women certainly lived their lives on their terms

    • @StoriesThroughTime
      @StoriesThroughTime  4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for your comment 🤗 and yes they did!

    • @vickitaylor680
      @vickitaylor680 4 місяці тому +15

      @@StoriesThroughTimeseems liked they lived on their rich husbands terms.

    • @StoriesThroughTime
      @StoriesThroughTime  4 місяці тому +5

      @@vickitaylor680 lol that might be more accurate 😂

    • @marygreenlund6134
      @marygreenlund6134 4 місяці тому

      Babe Paley had a list of rules regarding what she could / could not say . Bill married her because even though he was very successful, he was not with the IN crowd because he was Jewish. He cheated on her left and right. Everyone knew it.

    • @lauramcgowan3740
      @lauramcgowan3740 4 місяці тому

      Not just Simpson and Chanel were Nazis ? Thank you for a good look it all

  • @jscho8674
    @jscho8674 3 місяці тому +7

    This was so well researched. Great video! ❤

  • @hanagloriaedelblum5693
    @hanagloriaedelblum5693 4 місяці тому +7

    This is excellent for so many reasons. Thea K you for the deep dive summary of these lives, which influenced many for where we are today.

  • @Khodam101
    @Khodam101 4 місяці тому +9

    I loved it and subscribed after reading your comments. Please don’t give up, you are doing great!😊

  • @emiliebova
    @emiliebova 4 місяці тому +10

    Money and lack of brains ruined Capote’s Swans. They were not women to be admired. Capote fell under their spell to his detriment. He should have stuck to befriending Harper Lee.

  • @smpeljas
    @smpeljas Місяць тому +2

    Excellent! Thank you so very much! I, too, was born in “Doctor’s Hospital “. My dearest mother, told me that we couldn’t afford the suggested “Debut”. My mother was my Best Friend! Every little snippet you shared, I remember, each😊 and every photo when I saw these! For any girl who followed these very wealthy women, it was fabulous to make something resem😊b😊ling this one’s dress or that one’s outfit. Home design we followed very closely and to scale! Ours was a special life, indeed. Thank you for this wonderful video! God Bless you! Nurse Jane, Deale, Marylandbling

    • @StoriesThroughTime
      @StoriesThroughTime  Місяць тому

      Thank You so much for your comment Jane! I’m So glad you enjoyed! God Bless you too 🤗

  • @carolmiles4590
    @carolmiles4590 3 місяці тому +4

    What an outstanding portrayal of these interesting women. I also saw many photographs I have never seen before. Well done. Someone did their homework! Thank you. New follower.

  • @katd1845
    @katd1845 4 місяці тому +7

    This was EXCELLENT!!! BRAVO!!! now i can watch 'the feud' and not be confused and feel dumb lol Thank You!!!! ❤

    • @StoriesThroughTime
      @StoriesThroughTime  4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you! I’m glad you enjoyed 🤗

    • @katd1845
      @katd1845 3 місяці тому

      @@StoriesThroughTime 💙

  • @clarissanickersonfourman
    @clarissanickersonfourman 4 місяці тому +7

    This was an amazing video. Very captivating.

  • @Dawn66Marie
    @Dawn66Marie 4 місяці тому +6

    Truman Capote clearly was not a friend, very sad

  • @user-bn8mj9no6f
    @user-bn8mj9no6f 4 місяці тому +16

    A good book to read is HAYWIRE. By Brooke Hayward. About her childhood and parents Margaret Sullivan and Leland Hayward.

    • @bovnycccoperalover3579
      @bovnycccoperalover3579 4 місяці тому +2

      I read it. Very good but tragic book. Haywood was at Berkeley at the beginning of the counterculture revolution before it went mainstream. If not for LBJ's disastrous Vietnam War, it might have remained counterculture.

  • @bucketree
    @bucketree 4 місяці тому +9

    Well written and researched , thank you

  • @drdebocherry
    @drdebocherry 4 місяці тому +6

    Audio was perfectly fine❣️

  • @Dana-fn5zt
    @Dana-fn5zt 4 місяці тому +12

    Now that I’m fully awake, I’m going to re-watch your video, it was 3 o’clock in the morning when it popped up in my feed. From what I did watch earlier, it was very interesting. I just subscribed….

  • @shesaknitter
    @shesaknitter 4 місяці тому +6

    Fascinating learning the back stories of these woman and the details of the story of Truman and the Swans. Well done! I remembered some, but not most of the details of this controversy from when the story was published. What I especially enjoyed was the background of "To Have and Have Not," my favorite Bogie and Bacall movie and one of my favorite movies, period.
    Thank you so much! A thumbs up and I've subscribed to your channel.

  • @user-wn4ol5ht1y
    @user-wn4ol5ht1y 4 місяці тому +4

    This was beautifully done, thank you🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @deminnie5838
    @deminnie5838 4 місяці тому +15

    BP was no great beauty. If she wasn't wealthy and in expensive clothing and surroundings no one would of been praising her looks.

  • @angelassoapbox
    @angelassoapbox 2 дні тому +1

    This was really well done and thorough! I learned more about the swans than with any other channel. I have watched. Bravo. New subscriber!

  • @AvecPoesie
    @AvecPoesie 2 місяці тому +2

    This video is fabulously entertaining and intriguing throughout. Delighted to have discovered this channel. 🖤

  • @3blackcats999
    @3blackcats999 4 місяці тому +10

    Thank you so much for such an interesting piece!

    • @StoriesThroughTime
      @StoriesThroughTime  4 місяці тому +3

      Your welcome! 🤗 I’m glad you enjoyed it and Thank you for your nice comment 💕

  • @msamsonrn1
    @msamsonrn1 4 місяці тому +6

    This was so interesting, and perfect timing for it.

  • @CQ-369
    @CQ-369 3 місяці тому +4

    Loved the photos snd
    content! Capote was such an interesting character.

  • @alexsullivan2957
    @alexsullivan2957 4 місяці тому +2

    Thank you so much for putting this together. I've been waiting to see the show for Quite a while And I am very thankful for your video and subscribed inmediately

  • @xChaosReignsx
    @xChaosReignsx 4 місяці тому +5

    Loved this! So interesting you had my attention for the entire video

  • @kerri-annebarton9615
    @kerri-annebarton9615 4 місяці тому +7

    I’ve NEVER heard of Truman or his ‘Swans’ what a fascinating story! Thank you for this. I listened intently and enjoyed it immensely! Truman was such a bitch‼️ This story gave me insight into how those ladies and gentlemen of the upper crust - existed? So shallow and superficial 🫠
    Makes me feel even more thankful and appreciative of my life waaaaaay down here in little ole Aotearoa ☕️🫖 otherwise known as New Zealand 🇳🇿💕

  • @ruthbutah7484
    @ruthbutah7484 2 місяці тому +2

    This video was AMAZING!!! Great job. I've subscribed.

  • @trustno1903
    @trustno1903 3 місяці тому +6

    Fantastic work! I think you will gain many subs (me for one), as fans of FEUD come searching for info. You've got it all here in this presentation!

  • @jro6681
    @jro6681 4 місяці тому +5

    I adore your channel ❤️ I just found your channel and subscribed. I have always loved Truman Capote ❤and your videos are excellent.
    I thank you for putting in the work to make these wonderful videos.

  • @ltbrazley6497
    @ltbrazley6497 4 місяці тому +6

    That was very well done. Very detailed and informative, thank you,

  • @eagleeye2300
    @eagleeye2300 3 місяці тому +3

    Trumans betrayal of The Swans...vengeance for his mother who was rejected by society...It makes so much sense.

  • @kevinpoole6122
    @kevinpoole6122 3 місяці тому +2

    Thank you for this most excellent digest! The production value is first rate-research, visuals, and pace. You are a wonderful educator!

    • @StoriesThroughTime
      @StoriesThroughTime  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much Kevin! I’m so glad you enjoyed the video 🤗

  • @qsutton1
    @qsutton1 3 місяці тому +1

    This was an amazing video. Thank you for taking the time.