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I disagree about watching videos keeping us stuck.
For me, it has been a huge blessing and key to my healing and understanding of what I went through.
The average person who has not experienced it can’t understand this at all! Because of that, you can’t talk to people about this. And we need to work through it.
At least that is how it is for me.
Amen
Watching videos really helps me
Amen
GOD said vengence is mine and im going to make them right thier wrong im going to make them pay you back👏👏💙💙💙
Janice Davis waiting with bated breath
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GOD said he kept a lot of things hidden from me to protect me he said the rejection was for my protection and the set back was for the set up my GOD👏👏💕
Good one!! I needed to hear this. Thanks
Sandra Mullins Congratulations 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I’m so happy for you! I’ve been with and married a narcissist for over 20 years. I’ve never knew what a narcissist was til my sister sunt me a link to Dr. Bryant. All this time I knew there was something wrong with this man and knew he had some type of psychological problems. I just never knew what it was. I’m definitely trying to get out this marriage! God knows I’ve tried 3 times before. I’m just praying and having Faith God helps me thru this journey.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@@jordanallen8420 is that legal?
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SAME THING THAT HAPPENED TO ME.
The kids are meant to hover you. Marriage means nothing to a Narc, learned that the hard way.
Moving on, best decision one can make. A marriage with a Narc will always be one sided, they can careless about vows, partnership, reciprocation.
When you leave or divorce them, they will Believe Your always theirs no matter what, no matter how long or how much time has passed.
Sharrie Bianchi My ex husband once told me “ I got papers on you”. When I told him that can change at any time you should of saw his face drop.
@ Sherrie Bianchi. You are spot on. I noticed that my children are the golden ticket for the hoovering. It's a damn shame. I can only pray for the day when they are adults. The 30 year relationship/marriage was nothing more than a game to him. It's unreal to us but this is how they operate. We have to move on, no matter how much it hurts, and heal. Stay strong.
From my experience.. theyll abuse and triangulate and harm you mentally.. theyll go just so far to give the appearance they're cheating.. you'll be so trauma bonded that you may finally reach out to another man( example).. maybe cheat or do something you wont normally do. Now this is fuel to make you look so bad forever. If they take you bk.. you'll live to regret EVERYTHING they're gonna do to you and say *Well at least I didnt cheat on you*. Get out before you are ME
@@lynnvs6372 I see this s bit here. He's messaging his office manager at 11, sitting next to me. At this point my heart is guarded against him. I snoop on his phone. Part of me hopes I find something. She can have him and All the games.
Sharrie Bianchi is this true?....
GOD has been sooo good to me he protected me when i was going through all the abuse i was abused emotionally mentally physically and spiritually financially on every level of my life from 2007 til 2016 jesus jesus jesus Hallelujah JESUS👏👏
This was my situation for nearly 32 years this month. My divorce is pending as I speak. It will go before a judge in a couple of weeks. It took me decades of my life to understand what I was dealing with. My soon to be ex narc was an ordained evangelist hiding behind the cloth/pulpit! This fact alone held me hostage. God doesn't like ugly! A divine intervention from God woke me completely up because I was straddling the fence. Keep in mind that before the Divine intervened, I'd educated myself on Narcissism. Back in the day I'd never heard of narcissism because the internet was non existence. Finally, on my job about 11 years ago I ran across an article accidentally on narcissism. I've been on a quest ever since to rid myself from this toxic person. At times I would give him chance after chance even up until 2018! It's almost over. Praise God.
Lil sister, you are not alone. And. Almost completely destroyed by the preacher. But God. GOD SAVED ME AND HAS PRESERVED ME. I AM FREE. FREE FROM HIS EVIL CLUTCHES. HE NEVER WAS FAITHFUL IN THE MARRIAGE. THE ONLY GOOD THING THAT CAME OUT OF THIS SITUATION WERE MY 3 KIDS.
The ex married me and used me and the kids to be a cover to his other lifestyle. I eventually came to the realization that his male friend was his lover.
So sorry... happened to me too. Boyfriend only, but after 1,5 years I found out. What a disappointment to get used like this and all the lies all the time. Only to keep the facade in our small town.
Lucky that I didn't catch STDs or HIV!
Yes spot on! I feel exactly the same way!! It doesn’t bother them they will be gay bi sexual it doesn’t matter to them. So glad you realized this too
It seemed he went through best friends according to the leap years. Never kept a longtime friend or childhood friend. His narc type is covert malignant with sociopathic traits (but seems like an overt due to his alcoholism). In my opinion THE worst kind. Now that I'm out, if I sit and ruminate on ALL of the horrible things he did, said...IS, it almost takes my breath away and I don't understand completely (getting there tho) how & why I stayed for 20+ years. Might I add he is a raging alcoholic. Drinks everyday, sometimes for 12 hours and has at times, 27 HOURS straight. These friends are usually drunks too because he never friended a sober person. These friends either got tired of how much and how fast he drank, his obnoxious, temperamental behavior, hit on or innapropriate with their spouses or girlfriends. It went through my mind, on several friends, I could swear it was like he was in LOVE with them or wanted to BE them. On top of that, I found messages between him and my gay nephew! I was shocked, betrayed (doubly) heartbroken, felt like a fool, disgusted. So I know he could go both ways now. Supply is supply is supply. Mother-effers!!! He is so sick, perverted & twisted. How did I get so enmeshed, attached & blinded by such a Sociopathic monster?
So true I never married the narc-thank God for the discard. I suspect he was screwing his best guy friend. I thought they were just friends. NO!!! They were not just friends.
The narc has been married 30 plus years to female new supply. He keeps his male best friend as the side dude.
The narc and his male best friend take vacations together without the wife. They are sharing the hotel room. Yea I know what’s going on.
Ouch and damn...
Father bless this channel! What a blessing❤️🙏🏼🙌🏽
You are one of my favourites on the narcissist topics on UA-cam. Congratulations on 10k 🙌🏾🙌🏾
I agree
I had never ever heard of a narcissist in my life he fought me on my devoice for a yr after i left him my devoice just became granted and FINALIZED may 6th HALLELUJAH JESUS👏👏
Praise God Free!
Janice Davis Drink to that!!!!🥂🍾🍷👏🏼
I thank God I am now a Narc survivor. Thank you for all you do!!
Amen sister.
God spoke and said to me dont look at the way he revealed it but that hes revealed it he said you went through what you went through to see and to know what i have placed on the inside of YOU what ive called you to do your purpose and calling👏👏
Janice Davis Whoooooo!!!!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
God bless you Janice
GOD BLESS YOU THANK YOU👏👏💜💜💜 yesss God freed me out of that narcissitic toxic abussive marriage 3 yrs ago and has healed me and revealed to me a few months after he freed me that he is a NARCISSIST SOCIOPATH👏👏
I ( WAS) married to that Low-Low -Mid range narc , I remember we were in our Bedroom and I was crying with my hands over my eyes , about something he had said to intentionally hurt me , when I looked up he was "" Just Staring "" at Me !
He had Nothing For Me !! By The Grace Of God ,Fortunately , He Got Beat At His Own Game !
He married me because he needed a green card. Gave me a child and never helped me with bills. Now he’s making money, he moved out, got his own place and buying everything brand new. He says he can’t live with my mom who lives Nextdoor and has nothing to do with our side of the house. . Took almost half the tax money and left me with the gas turned off. He picked the perfect time because my stepfather had just passed away. New supply already on deck, he’s trying to tell me she a babysitter. Went over there the other day and the babysitter was there and my child wasn’t even there. My mind is blown. Yet he’s still telling me he wants his wife, he just can’t live under the same roof as my mom whom didn’t do anything to him. Now I look back at everything all I see is lies. I’ve been discarded, and trying hard to find myself. 12 years of my life. He didn’t do shit for me. He was very mean to my boys from another relationship, and always tried to separated our daughter from my boys. He was crooked and he left me bankrupt. He never spent money when he was here, since he’s moved out every single time I see him he’s got on a new pair of sneakers and new outfit. I gave that man my heart, all of me trying to make him happy and he gave me absolutely nothing. Someone told me the opposite of LOVE IS SELFISHNESS and that he was. Prayers for everyone that experience these people.
Maritza Villaruel
Wow I’m sorry he did this to you
I was 15 years with mine
Abuse everywhere you look
Damn shame
He will get his just stay no contact
You are on your way to healing sis. When you know better do better. Let him go with a smile. Hold on to yourself real tight, you will need yourself.
blessings to you...may you continue to heal and have peace!
I'm sorry you were married to that man. I had married a narc man too. I lost thousands of dollars on him. I'm divorcing him.
Sounds similar to my story. My narc used to play dumb. I fell for bs and worked by fingers to the bone trying to maintain family and finances because I thought he was just an impractical person. When we split, he moved away and bought a brand new suv and lavished up his apartment with new decor and furniture. Left me struggling. Were gonna get our justice. Just hold on.
I can not even put in words how much you have changed and helped my journey in being free from the narcissist that infected my life with his vile self!
Thank you! This post describes EXACTLY what I have experienced as a long time supply in what I thought was a marriage but turns out I was only supply.
Yes. Stay NO CONTACT forever!
Omg ms Carme, you are dead, dead on with this video, very very thorough and so true, every word!!
GOD said you went all you went through in order to be able to help others that are going through what you been through👏👏
Janice God bless you , I totally understand because I’ve been trough something similar
@@sandrama1277 THANK YOU 💞 GOD BLESS YOU GOD WILL CONTINUE TO GUIDE AND PROTECT US BOTH❤🙏
He was getting creapy with my grandkids. Called him out on it. Then he ghosted me. No hoover after 2 years.i think my gut feeling was right
Jenny Pietrick Spot on!!! I’m glad you called him out on it and noticed quickly. It’s happening a lot these days! The percentage rate of predators is escalating every year
Thank you so much for your videos. I really appreciate them. I had a lot of clarity of things that I was and still going through with my husband. I never heard of a narcissist until I thought I was going crazy and decided to do some research on what I was experiencing. Very sneaky people. Lie about stuff they don’t even need to lie about and back stabbers. 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ my prayer now is “Jesus take the Wheel”. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Hi Doc, married to a malignant narcissist for 16 years. Could not leave as l had children with her. I had to be the buffer between her and my children when l realised she was nuts and did not love/care about our kids or me for that matter. All the crap started after we had our first child...that’s when she ripped her mask off. I was abused in every possible way; verbally, emotionally, psychologically, physically and financially. She wanted me to respond to her violence with violence but l knew that would result in me being ‘labelled’ for life, losing my children, getting a criminal record, not being able to travel to other countries which was a part of my job. She is 5’6” and l am 6’2” she cries fake tears easily and is highly manipulative and convincing with her lies so l thought the police would not believe me if l told them that l was being abused, sleep deprived etc.
Anyway, been NC since Jan 2017...she deliberately lost ‘my’ 4 properties (she knew l planned to give one to each of our three children). I never said ‘my’ during the marriage. I was a high earner and she never worked a single day despite telling me that she was training to be a doctor at the start of our relationship. She took control of the finances as l was constantly working or travelling. She spent/ hid all my money so l now have to start again. I haven’t worked since leaving but feel happy again and plan to return to work next month.
My kids are not with her and this allowed me to leave her. My kids are abroad and we Skype and love each other very much.
Anyway, it’s all upwards from here so l am optimistic for the future. Keep up the good work Doc!
Hi Snow Flake, thanks for your kind words. Wishing you all the best in life.
Hi Elizabeth, appreciate your kindness and wish you nothing but happiness.
Very sad long you relised .whats going on .put your foot done .sort out that the matters.
Hi, I recently experienced the same thing. I am a nurse and working on becoming FNP. My husband did the same thing and we have five children. It's so difficult especially during this time of COVID, job uncertainty, and homeschooling. I pray everyday for peace of mind. It's hard to understand how people can do this to each other. I pray for you and everyone else who has ever had to experience this horrible situation.
Birth control is a major miracle
GOD has turned my pain into purpose i have been researching and studying NARCISSIST abuse for the pass couple of yrs now and ive shared this abuse with my childten and family they now know what i been through tbey support me👏👏💜💜💜
Amen Dr. Carmen! Always protect you children. You are breaking it down! ❤️ your videos and your sense of humor!
Wow! You nailed it. This is an accurate description of my soon to be ex NARC of 30 years! We have 3 kids and they're lives were screwed by their selfish ass sperm donor!!!He used my life against me but I thought it was me. I thought I was losing my mind! I could never do enough to please the narc because everything was my fault! I was blinded by this "so called man of the cloth!" He managed to deceive his entire congregation by wearing a mask but I knew he wasn't the minister that he portrayed to be. he used the scriptures against me. I didn't know he was doing that at the time because I simply didn't realize he was a very sick person until about 5 to 7 years ago. I still didn't quite understand his issues because I hoped he would finally change. He never did. Let me say this, Narcs aren't Christians, they are satan's little workers. They're very satanic individuals; wolves in sheep clothing. They are little 5 year old brats and I regret wasting my youthful years with this monster.
Why is it that I've always prided myself on being very intuative, and a strong, Intellegent women, yet I didn't even realize until almost 2 yrs ago that I was in a narcissistic relationship! Been in this almost 20 yrs. I knew what the word meant, but, I didn't know it was a mental disorder! I broke up with him many a time over the years, but, ( long story) always ended up back together for some reason or another! Co-dependant relationship, I'm ready to file for divorce, I'm tired of being roommates, and still paying most off the bills, Hell all the bills, he always borrows(yea right) then never gives back! I'm learning so much , Thank you❤
You are doing Enough dr. Carmen you're a brilliant. thank you thumbs up all the way
I think you have excellent communication skills!!! You explain things so well!! Thank you so much!!
Keep it coming as I said before its the quality of a thing now 10k strong and growing awesome.
you're the definition of a woman i aspire to have as a wife! you're such a beautiful beam of pure light! i've been struggling with a bad breakup of 7 years with a narc and my heart still hurts tremendously. Your videos have been saving my sanity for the last 3 weeks! Thank you Miss Bryant you are a saint i appreciate all that you do for us!
Lol but you only know me through videos
Safeguard yourself and your heart always....that is narc bait
I met a couple on the lower level. They are the absolute worst...NO boundaries!
I never could reconcile " til death do us part " with "I want you dead", and his actions backed up the latter. Not sure if it was the malignant narcissism, or the outright psychopathy he had (s). All I knew was that was the impetus for me to start saving mine and my kid's lives when that remark was made. This spectrum Is No joke. God help anyone tangled in the web of a malignant narcissist.
Whewww, say it again girl...same here.
Yes same
I think my ex-husband married me to help him raise his kids, period! Discarded me when his youngest was almost 18, relationshit lasted 16.5 years.
Dr Carmen thank you for your advice you help me keep my sanity. 🙏🏻 It seems every time I’ve experienced something with the Narcissist you touch on that topic. I’m so appreciative of you sharing your expertise & knowledge.
Btw I’m finally free of him... my divorce was just last week. And now I begin to heal. I wish well for everyone experiencing such nonsense from these sick individuals. Sadly, I believe we are affected for a lifetime and must work on ourselves for the rest of our lives from the horrible injury they create within us. The Trust issues and depleted confidence I now have is what I truly need to heal from and regain my self confidence back.
Also I’d like to say I’m grateful to know I’m not “crazy” something he would always say to me “your crazy” “your insane” or “your sick”
I’m Not and neither is anyone out there who finally realized what their dealing with!
Again, thank you so much for your wealth of information. I will continue listening and healing.
I have experienced a lot of narcissism in my life: my family members and ex boyfriends. I was born with this surrounding me. Now I protect myself from all of them. Thank u sooo much.
Thank you for this message. This is so true and so very helpful. 🎯😇❤⚘
They always have a motive!!!
This information is preventing alot of turmoil for me after ditching a narcissist. I still can't wrap my brain around what happened. Thank you!!
CONGRATULATIONS on 10K! Awesome message today thanks! I had a great laugh to "receding hairline to the spine" lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I love your humor!
Have a fabulous day!❤
Your absolutely so on point!!! Thanks for the realistic update on these mixed up people!!! Every point you made was on point!!
Im being Devinely GUIDED AND PROTECTED👏👏💕ive had know contact with this NARCISSIST i have not once looked back hes now hoovering me online stalking and plotting to return God said when he returns stand your ground GLORY HALLELUJAH👏👏💕💕💕
Reality twisting, they stop at nothing to destroy anyone who sees through their mirror, thank you as always. Please can you release some of your books to the library in the uk? Love and light to all who are suffering,including myself ✨💕✨
You are doing a magnificent job on this topic!!!!!
Thank you!!!!!
God is blessing you and your efforts to reach victims of narcissistic abuse, 20, 40, and 60 fold.
May He continue to bless you every time you turn around !!!
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My narc never would marry. He just proposed a lot. Any time he knew I was fed up, he would propose.
Whew!!! You are speaking Dr!!! You hit it when you said they can be predators! Jeeeeeezzzzzuuussss!!!!!
Your the best Dr Bryant. I appreciate you so very much. Thank you for all of the help that you give not only to me but to the masses. Many blessings to you. 😁😁😁😁🙏🙏🙏🙏💖💖💖💖💖💖
Wow!! You are so right Dr. Carmen. Mine did all of this and more.😰😢😢
This is so very sad,they will try to break you down,only for God to lift you up. they are incapable of giving love,they can't even feel. stop giving them and give to self.learn to love self,and see your worth and get out. God has you,trust him he's going to restore you. Thanks dr.carmen for this vital information, very good video 😁
You are one of my favorites to watch about narcissists, How do you just let go and protect your kids you had with them so they don’t do this to them.
Fill your life with strategic prayer
Wow!! Heard many of these types of explanations before, never though in a manner that is so riveting and spot on!! Thank you for sharing your wisdom and compassion with us!!🙏❤️ I’m a survivor of DV , spouse is Law Enforcement , he is trying to destroy me whilst I’m battling breast cancer. Would love to speak with a lawyer and find a therapist. Currently he has all money in a private account, has taken everything and I’m just learning about this having been a false past 20 years. The entire PD where I live, and DA’s office protect him. I fear for myself and my animals.
I am profoundly grateful to have found you. I've listened over two days to almost all your videos on narcissism. Thank you. Somehow, even before hearing in this presentation your profession of faith, I just had a Holy Ghost hunch that you are Christian! Thank you for the clinical. Thank you for pointing the way to your mentors site. On my way there to augment the clinical with the truth of the Word. Bless you. Just love you. Would like to meet you one day. Keep it real. Now I got to go be great!
I like your strength and confidence. Good job
Carmen, you are spot on with these parasites. You will never know how much your information has helped.
Yes, I have got your book, have a blessed day.
Much Love from Australia
10K 🎇 listening 🎇
As for the Narcs we 👀 you devils.
Yes they are watching and who cares. Let's strengthen ourselves, teach others, and move forward and leave those narcs behind. Ain't no body got time for that!
they have an excuse whats yours..ffs
Yessssss demons
My MIL thinks she is 18 but she is 60. She acts 12! Horrible-
GOD says im restoring the years of pain the yrs of tourment GLORY HALLELUJAH👏👏💕
Yes! Everything you say is true! When I received back payments in a settlement. The Narc had in their mind I should have given them 10,000. Then I found out from the lady before me she gave him everything even the vehicle he drove. She suffered from a heart condition and it didn't faze him. 20 yes with him and he abandoned her! And he did the same to me. He isn't driving his own vehicle again this time it is his sister's Mercedes!
They get married because they want a mommy that loves them unconditionally while they do as they please outside the marriage. They want the illusion of having a stable, intact happy family. Having that regardless whether it is a facade or not grounds them, having control over that keeps them balanced.
No that thinking keeps people stick in the relationship they need fuel it has nothing to do with wanting to be loved it has everything to with get whatever they can and using people to meet their needs there is no love involved in their thoughts or actions
@@overcomingnarcissistabuse
Oh...I hope that didn’t sound like I was saying there was any love in the dynamic I described. I don’t believe any kind of real love exists for them. I believe real love that exists between two healthy people is nothing they ever experienced or would recognize or feel secure with. But I do believe they repeat patterns that they grew up with, whether it was a toxic mother that taught them or another caretaker.
They want a stable landing pad from which to fly. You become they're retirement security....
It took me 13 Years to no he had been Married 3 to 4 other times , when I Found out he said they never meant anything to him , he forgot their Names. I needed it for VA Medical Papers. So 30 Years of Marriage I'll be a no Name. LOL
Right on. Kept living and forgiving for ten years then ghosted and smeared. Healibg now and no longer under his spell.
How did I get into this relationship with this scarecrow....hilarious. Dr Bryant is intelligent and hilarious. Love the way you phrase things !
Hearing this actually helps me greatly. I gives me such insight on his behavior. Woohoo! Is so awesome to know you're a Christian I have had no support from my church family and counseling. I just keep getting "Are there ways you could be a better wife", etc.
I hate to hear that
I feel like a huge weight lifted off my shoulders so I am very grateful to you for being so helpful
After my eyes were opened, unfortunately I saw it in one of my close friendships too... I’m still having a hard time processing it. But I have to place boundaries and keep to my new standards. It hurts in both situations, but I feel like this is a short term pain, in exchange for a long term gain :)
OMG, I love you! Don't worry your times comin! I'm sorry, it's not funny but you crack me up!
Hard hitting, no flossing over the hard facts. I'm so glad to have finally come across this channel because it speaks to my 5 year marriage - more like incarceration - with a narcissist. Thank you Dr. Carmen.
THE movie's have Thors hammer, BUT Dr. Carmen AND HER mother HAVE Father's TRUTH HAMMER, THANK YOU Dr. CARMEN
Yes..You All...saved my life and sanity...and it helps because y'all address the different situations that we encounter.....the ex asked me to marry him..(brought a ring off Wish $14, wrong size)...i said "No" 3 times...come to find out he apparently gave the ring to the other chic..he dicarded me..so i have bowed out..now he is in jail and keeps writng asking for me to forgive him...which i have..but i am (3 mo) no contact....apparently shes not a good source of supply, anyhow..um done.... he is proud of the fact that he has a lot of women...flirted with anybody....i have my own..and he started saying "our" but work for tempt agency..like um supposed to take care of him... i wish him n her luck..because what we had....was hate...he was well endowed...tall dark handsome...but claims he could tell if a female has hiv...so i lost interest..wanted him to leave..but he wouldnt...then he got caught as a repeated offender (currently serving,1 yr 11 mo)... the new supply has young kids...apparently not a good supply, because she would not accompany him to his sentencing date...anyhow i feel sorry for them...because i think he is a predictor....he has no boundaries...Glad um out.....
You didn’t have to say that you’re a Christian... I felt that within the first 2 minutes of hearing you talk. The Holy Spirit radiates through you! God bless you and God bless this ministry!
Thank you Queen and thank you for being here
Omg I just spit my coffee laughing so hard at describing how the aging narc looks...Ive called my narc every name in his rages but nothing phased him until the day I screamed "You're Nothing More than an Old Wrinkly Man"..Holy Crap, It was as if I just hit him with a baseball bat...he stopped raging, went to the bathroom and looked in the mirror. He came out sat kn the couch with tears and said do you really think I look old? I thought to myself..HELL YEAH. But I didn't say anything and the rest of the night he sulked and left me alone.
LMAOOOOO!!!!!
April Murphy LMAO!!!!!!!!!😂💀👀🤣😭
Yes even mentioning white hairs
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HHAHAHA. That was too much! LOL
Leadership position.....The call of GOD Spiritual healer and counselor mentor profetess GLORY HALLELUJAH Thank YOU JESUS👏👏🙏🙏💙💙💕
We are now 10K tribe strong 💪 and still growing🙌🙌🙌Thank you Dr. Carmen for your humor, compassion, and insights🙏You and Apostle Helen really make a big difference on our healing🙏Please continue educating us with these videos.
Yes, I agree. You do not get stuck from watching these videos. I have healed in the past 5 years of watching these videos. I guess it also depends on what else is going on in your life. My main focus and Healer is God and these videos are just information to never fall into this Narc trap again. I've heard people who have dated and been hurt by 2 and 3 Narcs. I had one Narc and learned a great lesson from that marriage. My Narc married me because I was a very good supply.
It sucked to realize I was the best supply he ever had. He has even taunted me with telling me "You were the best woman I ever had." Knowing what I know now that don't mean sh*t except that I was an empathetic, codependent doormat😢I am determined to heal, level up and be better tho. This illiterate thing on two crooked a** feet will not break me.
Preach Dr. C the children come first ! One peg leg and a glass eye! Hair receding back to the spine! Stop trying to do my work just burst out laughing got folks looking at me!
these videos have given me so much knowledge and courage to move forward. Thanks for your insight.
This is a great video! I never understood that the narcissist also lovebombed my children (he is not the father of my children) but now I realise that is EXACTLY what he was doing.
Thank you 😊 😇 and I have to say Beautiful Jewellery 😍😍😍
Iam healed phocused guarded AND spiritually grounded wit my sword on my side for his return hallelujah JESUS👏👏
Amennnn JESUS MY GOD LORD HAVE MERCY👏👏💕💕💕
Dr. Bryant, I have been watching a lot of videos about being involved with a narcissist and your right watching them has helped me alot.
Thank GOD, for the videos because, I have successfully been in no-contact for about 10-11 months and doing well.
I just watched your video and I must say that I was absolutely, blown away from your in-depth breakdown of what narcissism really looks like. Maybe it was the way you were explaining their true motives.
When I think back on my experience I thank GOD that, I have always been a slow kinda woman who truly values staying absenant while getting to know the person I think maybe the one.
When we started communicating with each other before going out, there was always a question mark popping up in my mind about information he was revealing to me. Which really made me a little stand off-ish about were he was going with his inconsistency.
One: today, I know it was GOD warning me to "Just Listen" to what he is saying to you. Two: "Observe" what he's actions are communicating to you.
When, I saw that his word's and actions didn't line up, then I knew exactly what I was dealing with a liar.
The funny part about the whole thing is when he was afraid that I may tell people who he really was. He began to start a smear campaign against me. Except, I flipped it back on him by saying absolutely nothing. I immediately went into no-contact. I feel great just moving on doing me. When I brought my home last year, I knew he probably was unable to sleep for days just thinking that "How dare she be happy?" I even caught him hoovering around my house just to see, lol! As he passed me by on my street we, locked eyes together.
I think he was arrogant enough to think, that I would believe he missed me. When donkeys fly. Anyways' thank you and all the other videographers for helping me heal and move forward.
Because, now I know what a toxic person looks like even when they aren't a narcissist!
Im new to your channel for only a couple days now God led me to you ive been led on utube to listen to readers and God has begain to reveal this NARCISSIST whole hand to me in depth from all sanarios and has been giving me conformation about what i already know about this NARCISSIST👏👏💕👍💕
Yes they look horrible. They are blind to their looks. He is with someone he talked about all the time. She is a widow with money and just built a brand new house. The narc looks like her dead husband. Maybe the reason she is with him. He is with her because she makes him look good. Kidney failure, going blind, emphysema.
I'm informing my Nieces & Nephews.. I've learned a lot, I'm gonna keep Learning 💯. I never knew there are so many people going thru this.
If your a good Women , your on the Narcs hit List
You will have 25 000 in a few months but what matters is your content, genuine.
Thank you
100k is just around the corner. #TerritoryIncrease
Loved that throw up gesture! Just went thru that when I saw my ex at our middle child's high school graduation. Fortunately I had went no contact a couple of months prior! (27 yr marriage when he recently divorced me & married a woman half his age with 2 children under 4 & moved his new family into our marital home that is supposed to be sold. So now we're all living in the same town! But God is good! I realized he was a narcissist 4 yrs before he walked out but am just now learning what all this stuff means. But God started preparing me 5 months before my ex walked out & has been leading me to do things, like go no contact before I even knew what that was! All of the things I'm now learning are confirmation of his broken personality & illness & my true value and kind personality. Hard & long lesson to learn. My 28 yr old daughter ( 9 yrs younger than her new step-mom) is having a difficult time with all this but won't talk about it. I'd like to find out how to protect my kids without bashing their dad, but giving them tools to effectively deal with his manipulation. Anyone have recommendations?
Thank you!! More people need to see and hear this instead of hiding it
Another great video! Your platform is very informative etc! 😄😄
Dr. Carmen Bryant.. You are the best!! Love ur videos.. Ur videos have helped me so much ❤
Love you back
Yessss 10,000 subs! . You did that! Congrats. Doing the happy dance.
Hi Dr Carmen! God bless you my darling...thank you so much
Omg!! You're so right!!! Mine doesn't think he can get an STD or get his new supply pregnant
And even though he lives with her now he still thinks of me as the primary supply because he still gives me money. He says I'll always be #1...he said I have 20 years, I have his kids, I have his money.
He's even said he doesn't want me to move out of the house because he wants to come back home "one day"
He basically tells me his plans, but says it in his love bombing way. Thankfully I have learned a lot (even though I still slip) to know the truth behind it
You are so hilarious and informative. Thank you for all that you do!
Hello dr Carmen i appreciate your content so much because your describing what i see every day even thought im not married or in a committed relationship im learning who's in my circle and who's isn't in my circle & doesn't have my best interest at heart. Thanks to alot of you therapist are helping me mature mentally from speaking from experience and the heart. Thanks again carmen.!!!!!!!
Congratulations Dr. Thank you so much.
Watching your videos along with Saddler and RCBlakes is healing for me. To each it's on. I'm making more progress now than ever before. I felt like I was loosing my mind trying to Parallel parent with a Narc, which is actually single parenting. Thank you Ms Bryant!
Dr. Bryan, thank you for explaining how a Narcissists mind works. I really enjoyed watching your video.
Thanks again.
The Predator was THE Narc! The own parent was the very person to avoid. Now I trust NO ONE and I mean NO ONE! I keep my child with me Always. I prayed and prayed for Jesus to protect us and when Covid happened, it saved us from harm. I truly believe the Lord answered my cries.
I appreciate your videos, the time it takes from your busy day to compile videos for others to learn from. I’m learning so much, finding affirmation in my pain and struggle and your insights, Dr. Carmen, your expertise is helping me to get myself and my son to a better place. Soon, I will leave the man I thought had loved me but found he truly hates me and even his own son. Without your videos where would I be now? Thank you so much 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
I’m so honored and so grateful this is helping you to recover
Dr. Carmen Bryant - Overcoming narcissist abuse Thank you 🙏🏼 🙏🏼🙏🏼
I’m just at the beginning steps and I struggle to keep from falling apart. I know that when I file for divorce he is going to show a whole new side of ugliness and rage. So I’m treading carefully. Thank you again and may God bless you always♥️
Thank you for this video. I'm learning a lot. Yes 32yrs I've supplied him
Wow! Very intelligent sister! Much needed information! Thank you!
I think my ex was a cerebral narc. Very methodical. Thinking all the time. Voices in his head, all the time. Had to sleep with the Tv on all night, so it would quiet his brain down. Always needed some sort of sound. I not think he may be in the early stages of dementia or brain damage from years of alcohol abuse. His brother noticed the memory loss when the ex went and stayed with him and the new supply mentioned his memory loss to me in an email, which he blamed her for. Hahahahaha, he told me he was just blocking me out so never heard me when I said something. I would tell him all the time he was becoming forgetful, he said, "no i'm not', I would then say, 'how would you know?'
Thank you for sharing that video. I need this information so I can protect myself and spot a Narcissist.