As someone who is not married yet, I appreciate your channel more than you can know. The love, transparency on struggles and the friendship you two have is incredible.
I will always appreciate you two for the transparency you haven given us from the beginning. Our generation needs this and God bless you and your family times a thousand times over. Glad you are both back again ❤❤❤
Wow you guys are so self aware and as strange as it may sound I love the way you fight. Seems healthy to me and all part of the never ending and unavoidable growth we must go through during all stages of life.
God bless your union …. I love your honesty and key learnings Remember Anna went through a life changing event. Some woman even go through post natal depression. We take on a lot. Gabes continue to treat Anna like the QUEEN that she is. Anna humility is key , continue to treat Gabes like the KING that he is . Most of all put God at the centre of it all 🙌🏽❤️🙏🏽
To this anointed couple... Heaven Bless you. The last thing we imagine is our precious seeds going wayward. It happens. Be patient. Hold no resentment.
My husband and I had a similar break-down/blow up a few weeks ago and we don't even have children yet 😂😢 I'm like Anna and he was just as shocked by the blow up as Gabes was. We managed to talk it through and have put measures into place to prevent it from happening again. Thanks for being vulnerable and sharing your struggles ❤ so glad you guys are back! 😊
Then imagine traditional African households where thr woman is expected to do everything n also spoon feed the husband. They dont even wake up at night to support u breastfeed
Love this kind of video ! Children can change and challenge your relationship and expose things in your heart that God wants to sanctify. The meaning of marriage is “sanctification” knowing this helps humble ourselves and see arguments and problems with different lenses. I can imagine how difficult it felt and how painful it is to be misunderstood by your partner. I love to reflect and pour out to the Holy Spirit and let Him tell me how I may have contributed to the mess. How did God help you guys during this issues? Did you guys pray together? God bless you both! Keep on winning together ! ❤
Raising kids makes or breaks a relationship/marriage...most men can't handle the emotional baggage women go through. The first year is hard. I have 7 and never ever had help from anyone. I can write an whole book for you guys!
@theebillionairess3377 Because we're in covenant with God, the 🍆 is good and we love each other. He works alot but is a provider for his family thats why he can't always be there. Any more questions??🙄😁
@@AAA-ec4vf no disrespect, but why bring in children with a absent father? Yes, he provides but you stated he’s wasn’t present because he works a lot. Do you think that’s fair to your children? 7 children is a huge financial, physical and emotional responsibility.
Thanks for your video. I learnt a lot, especially that “your partner has the best intentions” regardless. I’m in that downward spiral in my marriage, especially after we’ve had our baby last September. We are at a point we “hate each other”. All that’s sticking us together is our baby. You’re lucky you got out of the mess.
I love your openness and transparency! You guys make me excited for marriage- even with all the challenges. The challenges are what are making your marriage stronger and more beautiful because you’re learning how to communicate and be real with each other. 50 years from now, By God’s grace you’ll both be watching this video again and laughing in Jesus name 🤩🙌
Fully agreed with Anna on a lot of things cause we’re actually so similar 😂 ❤ great lessons here, well done Gabe for perseverance and working hard with her x so glad you both got through that season xx
I feel like there’s always one person in the couple who shares things that are bothering them instantly and the other who bottles it up, and it bursts out. Lol Also- super mum syndrome is real. We need to break that messaging we get- that links our worth to how well a child is taken care of, how tidy the house is. Etc.
“Hey Danku fam!…welcome back to our channel….welcome back!….really missed you guys 😅❤. Hope you guys and baby Jeremiah is doing well….am glad that you’re back,can’t wait for great content.
Wow, Gabe. The way that you explained and talked about this was superb!! I also am like Anna. Wow. I needed this so that I can prepare myself for when I do get married and have children. Thank you for sharing, you all.
And here comes my favourite u-tube couple. Thank you so much for this wonderful insights you've shared with us, I know you always do. But please my darlings may I ask for a favour? I know it's not a walk to the park but pleassssssseeeee I'll really really appreciate if you are a bit more consistent. Just add a little push please 😀🙏. I never miss any episode of yours and even watched most of your videos more than once. Thank you😘
I’ve just had a new born… she’s 6.5 weeks old … I hear you man! It’s challenging! Sleepless nights and tiredness causes for wife and I to be argumentative because we have low thresholds. As a guy lack of sex is something I am working through because there was no little to no sex during pregnancy because my wife had pelvic girdle pain and then post pregnancy she was recovering from caesarean… I am working and my is on maternity so learning to juggle helping out after work.
Oh wow gabs and Anna im🎉so happy to see you both you both look so so well. Welcome back hopefully you upload every now and then when you can. I absolutely understand you about having your first child, I have four now, My husband is abroad at the moment so yes it's nothing like you think until you're doing it trust me. And as they grow there's another stage again with them that requires you to work together again and understand each other. God bless you both for working it out in the end.
It reminds me of my husband and I. I say I'm good with everything then he thinks I'm cool then I get mad because I expect him to do it even though I said I'm good 😅😂
I reject that for them in Jesus name. Coming on a UA-cam page to project negative pronouncements of such is demonic. Every couple is different,their foundation is rooted in Christ and they will flourish.
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As someone who is not married yet, I appreciate your channel more than you can know. The love, transparency on struggles and the friendship you two have is incredible.
I will always appreciate you two for the transparency you haven given us from the beginning. Our generation needs this and God bless you and your family times a thousand times over. Glad you are both back again ❤❤❤
This is such a beautiful comment, thank you! We are very happy to be posting again ❤️❤️❤️
Wow you guys are so self aware and as strange as it may sound I love the way you fight. Seems healthy to me and all part of the never ending and unavoidable growth we must go through during all stages of life.
You guys are doing SO WELL! This is just a season
Really!!!! I got to read it
Oh my word, you gaarz! I was just bingeing on your old "struggles of marriage" and "love is..." episodes. So glad you're back!
Aww! We are so glad to be back ❤
God bless your union …. I love your honesty and key learnings
Remember Anna went through a life changing event. Some woman even go through post natal depression. We take on a lot.
Gabes continue to treat Anna like the QUEEN that she is. Anna humility is key , continue to treat Gabes like the KING that he is . Most of all put God at the centre of it all 🙌🏽❤️🙏🏽
So glad they’re back, let’s hope they keep it up❤
😬😬😬
To this anointed couple...
Heaven Bless you.
The last thing we imagine is our precious seeds going wayward.
It happens.
Be patient.
Hold no resentment.
My husband and I had a similar break-down/blow up a few weeks ago and we don't even have children yet 😂😢 I'm like Anna and he was just as shocked by the blow up as Gabes was. We managed to talk it through and have put measures into place to prevent it from happening again.
Thanks for being vulnerable and sharing your struggles ❤ so glad you guys are back! 😊
Such an intuitive and emotionally intelligent couple. Love it!
Thank you for your honesty, transparency and commitment! You are an example to our generation 🙌🏾🙌🏾
Then imagine traditional African households where thr woman is expected to do everything n also spoon feed the husband. They dont even wake up at night to support u breastfeed
And work too if it’s in the UK (with still the African set up lol)
This is a traditional 'african' culture people embraced once colonialism and religions kicked it.
Now many believe it's African traditional culture
This is the toxicity I refuse to allow. Marriage is a partnership.
Love this kind of video ! Children can change and challenge your relationship and expose things in your heart that God wants to sanctify. The meaning of marriage is “sanctification” knowing this helps humble ourselves and see arguments and problems with different lenses. I can imagine how difficult it felt and how painful it is to be misunderstood by your partner. I love to reflect and pour out to the Holy Spirit and let Him tell me how I may have contributed to the mess. How did God help you guys during this issues? Did you guys pray together?
God bless you both! Keep on winning together ! ❤
Women deserve to take full maternity leaves and be taken care of financially for at least 12 months when they have babies.
Welcome back beautiful couple
We missed you ❤🙏🏽
Raising kids makes or breaks a relationship/marriage...most men can't handle the emotional baggage women go through. The first year is hard. I have 7 and never ever had help from anyone. I can write an whole book for you guys!
Not even help from their dad?
@queen Yes and no he was working alot so wasn't always there when i needed him.
@@AAA-ec4vf so why did you continue to have 7 for him then?
@theebillionairess3377 Because we're in covenant with God, the 🍆 is good and we love each other. He works alot but is a provider for his family thats why he can't always be there. Any more questions??🙄😁
@@AAA-ec4vf no disrespect, but why bring in children with a absent father? Yes, he provides but you stated he’s wasn’t present because he works a lot. Do you think that’s fair to your children? 7 children is a huge financial, physical and emotional responsibility.
Thanks for your video. I learnt a lot, especially that “your partner has the best intentions” regardless.
I’m in that downward spiral in my marriage, especially after we’ve had our baby last September. We are at a point we “hate each other”. All that’s sticking us together is our baby.
You’re lucky you got out of the mess.
You can get out of your mess together too! We are sorry it’s so hard right now ❤️❤️
Thank you guys for being honest with us and also being accountable . God bless you guys❤😂
I love your openness and transparency! You guys make me excited for marriage- even with all the challenges. The challenges are what are making your marriage stronger and more beautiful because you’re learning how to communicate and be real with each other. 50 years from now, By God’s grace you’ll both be watching this video again and laughing in Jesus name 🤩🙌
Welcome back! Can't believe you're both parents now😊 it is a struggle 😮
Fully agreed with Anna on a lot of things cause we’re actually so similar 😂 ❤ great lessons here, well done Gabe for perseverance and working hard with her x so glad you both got through that season xx
I feel like there’s always one person in the couple who shares things that are bothering them instantly and the other who bottles it up, and it bursts out. Lol
Also- super mum syndrome is real. We need to break that messaging we get- that links our worth to how well a child is taken care of, how tidy the house is. Etc.
So true!
Or the one that keeps it in forever and goes passive aggressive
Not married but I know I'm latter. I need to work on that now 😢 learning to express my fears, worries, grievances and not being passive aggressive
You both are growing Beautifully ❤
Thank you ❤️❤️
"You get what you put in" love that😊 thanks for the video.
You are so welcome!
Missed you both!🥹 welcome back❤
“Hey Danku fam!…welcome back to our channel….welcome back!….really missed you guys 😅❤. Hope you guys and baby Jeremiah is doing well….am glad that you’re back,can’t wait for great content.
Wow, Gabe. The way that you explained and talked about this was superb!!
I also am like Anna. Wow. I needed this so that I can prepare myself for when I do get married and have children.
Thank you for sharing, you all.
Great advice, thanks for sharing you guys rock. God bless your family ❤
omg, not you guys coming up on my youtubeeee.
Welcome back! 💖
Thank you for sharing! 😊 I love the team work and support. 🤗
Glad you all are back,missed you all
YESSSS. Welcome back to UA-cam. Thank you for sharing your journey with us xx
And here comes my favourite u-tube couple. Thank you so much for this wonderful insights you've shared with us, I know you always do. But please my darlings may I ask for a favour?
I know it's not a walk to the park but pleassssssseeeee I'll really really appreciate if you are a bit more consistent. Just add a little push please 😀🙏. I never miss any episode of yours and even watched most of your videos more than once. Thank you😘
I’ve just had a new born… she’s 6.5 weeks old … I hear you man! It’s challenging! Sleepless nights and tiredness causes for wife and I to be argumentative because we have low thresholds. As a guy lack of sex is something I am working through because there was no little to no sex during pregnancy because my wife had pelvic girdle pain and then post pregnancy she was recovering from caesarean… I am working and my is on maternity so learning to juggle helping out after work.
I hear you bro. Keep going and stay supportive. It’s just a season - you’ll get through it together.
Anna, you’re glowing, Gabes, you’re doing great! Love you both 😊😊♥️♥️
Wowwww y’all are back 🎉🎉🎉❤❤ welcome x
Love you guys . Have been waiting my whole life #dekufam
Love this ❤ well done guys! Team work ❤
I love you guys! Glad you are back on youtube
Glad to see you guys! So much wisdom. Thanks for sharing.
I am happy to see your video. I love everything you guys said in the video... God will strengthen your relationship.... I love you guys so much❤
Oh wow gabs and Anna im🎉so happy to see you both you both look so so well. Welcome back hopefully you upload every now and then when you can. I absolutely understand you about having your first child, I have four now, My husband is abroad at the moment so yes it's nothing like you think until you're doing it trust me. And as they grow there's another stage again with them that requires you to work together again and understand each other. God bless you both for working it out in the end.
Oh wow I remember this couple for Rochelle Humes interior design show❤ this parenting content is what I love😅
I am so glad you guys are back. You were missed so much!!! Good content!! Water your OWN grass!!!😅
Welcome back! ❤
Soooo happy you’re back!! Great video 😍!!!
Thank you so much 🤗
Welcome back❤❤
I missed yall! Had to comment this before I watch the whole video, lol. Blessings to you both and your family!
I loved every bit ❤
It reminds me of my husband and I. I say I'm good with everything then he thinks I'm cool then I get mad because I expect him to do it even though I said I'm good 😅😂
love you guys , black love stay strong
Notes taken, it's the accountability for me 👌👏👏
Hello family, welcome back! Ok now let me watch 😅.
My fave couple are back!🎉
Welcome back. Keep on loving each other in Jesus name. Amen
Love this this so much! New subbie here xx
Children add a challenge you guys are doing a great job. I think its in song of Solomon that talks about the 'little foxes'
So refreshing to see a self aware Christian couple 🥹🥹
Relate to everything!
And to be honest he should’ve been proactive with the waking up… lol
You mean you know how to please each other, not he knows how to please you
Thank you for sharing your experience!!!
Sounds like me and my partner when we had our baby!
Miss you
❤️
Wow 7777777 whole years wow 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉so ve been following you both for the past 777777 years... Huh I need to get married💍💍💍 Lord ❤❤Please
typo there in your title.
This is why we missed our DekuFam! Thanks x
Welcome back! So happy to see you.❤
It is really a struggle in parenting!!
It's not a struggle;
It's a rewarding challenge.
But Gabe’s you could have been more proactive 😂. Really
Childcare mkes us go bald thats y i dnt want any
What was everyone complaining about lol? Who has that kind of support ooh 😂😂😂
MAJOR GASLIGHTING FROM GABE.... "protect Anna from herself"???????????????????????
sometimes you two behave as if you are the first and only people to ever have a child. LOL. so self-indulgent
This relationship will end in divorce, because Gabe is too controlling and Anna is losing herself in the relationship
I reject that for them in Jesus name. Coming on a UA-cam page to project negative pronouncements of such is demonic. Every couple is different,their foundation is rooted in Christ and they will flourish.