"I'm Gonna Cry" Devastated Zach and Tori on Losing Baby Number 3 | Little People Big World

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  • Опубліковано 20 вер 2021
  • Tori and Zach open up about the devastating day they found out they lost baby number 3 and how they have been trying to cope with such terrible news.
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  • @danielledaman7601
    @danielledaman7601 2 роки тому +447

    I love that Zach is putting his energy and focus on Tori’s wellbeing. He is being strong for his wife and family though just as heartbroken as she is. He’s a great husband. Sorry for their loss.

    • @nadinekuzinski
      @nadinekuzinski 2 роки тому +1

      yh

    • @rosaaam2694
      @rosaaam2694 2 роки тому +6

      I couldn't imagine losing a baby that I was growing, the attachment of growing them. It's tough

    • @MRCM-un1ui
      @MRCM-un1ui 2 роки тому +3

      He is definitely making his parents proud right now for being there for his wife even though that he is hurting as well. Not only that but he is showing an example to his kids now on how you are there for your spouse and how you never walk away and how you always just stick by them through the worst of times. Their kids are being raised by the great parents that they could have

    • @kelseyjay3733
      @kelseyjay3733 2 роки тому +3

      Well yeah what else is he gonna do that’s what husbands are for!

    • @kimba4star
      @kimba4star 2 роки тому

      @@kelseyjay3733 not every man has that empathy or strength to allow their partner to grieve in their own way. Not all Men know what to do or say or express themselves. The Comment is acknowledging and praising his support. We shouldn't assume all Men are this attentive. I am sorry fir their loss and praise their strength and love for each other.

  • @shelbimorgan2572
    @shelbimorgan2572 2 роки тому +248

    The look on Tori's face 6:02 just broke my heart. I am so sorry for your loss. I am going to pray for your healing.

    • @deneedalton4151
      @deneedalton4151 2 роки тому +2

      Stop making deformed babies that your body is gonna reject

    • @deneedalton4151
      @deneedalton4151 2 роки тому +5

      Another deformed baby with lots of medical problems is not what they need

    • @deneedalton4151
      @deneedalton4151 2 роки тому +1

      Is caren drunk or high in this video whats with all the slurred words and quivering head? Is she sick?

    • @suziephillips2320
      @suziephillips2320 2 роки тому +15

      @@deneedalton4151 What a cruel & thoughtless person you are! Do you have only hate in your heart that you feel the need to bully someone who lost a much wanted baby? Your comments are only going to hurt them but obviously make you feel like a big person.
      If you feel the way you do, most TV's have that thing called a remote--use it to change the channel. No one is making you watch a TV show or a UA-cam video!

    • @suziephillips2320
      @suziephillips2320 2 роки тому +2

      To Yena & Kim Smith, Amen to that & I am glad I wasn't the only one Dannae made angry!! To say things so cruel to people who lost a much loved & innocent child is bullying!
      I also reported him or her for bullying &/or harassing a couple who are going through one of the most painful things was appalling.
      If he or she feels that way, that is his or her right to feel that way, but stay off their channel and you don't have to worry about what Tori & Zach do!!

  • @flychick7
    @flychick7 2 роки тому +135

    I went thru a miscarriage with my first pregnancy and it was extremely hard because I wanted a baby so badly. I went on to have have 3 easy full term pregnancies by the grace of god. You will get thru this but my heart is with you both!

  • @louisenewton7556
    @louisenewton7556 2 роки тому +141

    I suffered 13 miscarriages and 2 stillbirths....you never get over the pain and guilt of not holding onto them....my prayers are with them I know what you are going through guys xx

    • @dare_challenge_a_god1536
      @dare_challenge_a_god1536 2 роки тому +10

      Iam sorry maam

    • @lifeasthesmjs695
      @lifeasthesmjs695 2 роки тому +3

      💕💕💕💕

    • @sidneypittman9857
      @sidneypittman9857 2 роки тому +4

      I am so sorry, sending all my love to you

    • @ashleyerwin3566
      @ashleyerwin3566 2 роки тому +14

      I had one miscarriage and i could not imagine going thought 13. Im so sorry.

    • @froggylvr15
      @froggylvr15 2 роки тому +11

      I'm so sorry I also suffer the loss of 8 miscarriages it's so hard each one takes alil piece of your soul hang in there hun sending lots of love!

  • @categurl3967
    @categurl3967 2 роки тому +106

    Zach is a wonderful husband and father, he was raised well

  • @beckyjo8745
    @beckyjo8745 2 роки тому +344

    No words can explain how it feels to lose a baby like that especially when it was wanted so much. My heart goes out to Tori and Zach i know their pain and heartbreak only to well. 🙏💞🙏

    • @michaelfoster886
      @michaelfoster886 2 роки тому +9

      I'm hurting for them as well Becky. And you could really feel Tori and Zach wanted this baby. But I firmly believe all women should wait 2 to 3 years until having another baby. I know Zach will get through this cause he is such a strong individual but Tori is the one I'm worried about. She is such a strong women but when it comes to her kids you can tell she is going to take this hard.

    • @lucindakennedy3351
      @lucindakennedy3351 2 роки тому

      @@michaelfoster886 p

    • @lucindakennedy3351
      @lucindakennedy3351 2 роки тому

      @@michaelfoster886 )(

    • @robertgreen8131
      @robertgreen8131 2 роки тому +2

      Hi Becky
      How are you doing today?

    • @carolwangsness4222
      @carolwangsness4222 2 роки тому

      @@robertgreen8131 hiby CT

  • @nancysahrakar3125
    @nancysahrakar3125 2 роки тому +30

    Zach is such a loving man. I've always liked him. So much grace and humanity in him. The world needs more "men" like him!!

    • @justcallmenikki9532
      @justcallmenikki9532 Рік тому +1

      I sooo agree! Zach is a wonderful loving husband and an amazing father!! I’m so sorry for Tori!! I had 2 miscarriages and it took a good while to recover from the loss! But I was blessed with a beautiful baby girl who is grown now and we are best friends as well! In the end, never lose hope for me it was third time is a charm!! Sorry guys for your loss it it so very sad and so very hard to deal with!!

  • @suziephillips2320
    @suziephillips2320 2 роки тому +175

    My sympathy's to all of you, especially Tori as she was carrying that little soul.
    In May of 1997, I lost my baby. While it was too soon to know if it was a girl or a boy, I immediately got the feeling it was a girl. The due date would have been Christmas Eve 1997. It is always a bittersweet moment at Christmas as not only am I missing a person who would turn 24 this year, my parents are now gone too.
    I pray for healing and know that God holds these little babies close to him!

    • @lynnedge9755
      @lynnedge9755 2 роки тому +5

      Tori and Zack you guys need to thank God for the 2 children you have now you guys have been blessed

    • @violetsvisionscat3399
      @violetsvisionscat3399 2 роки тому +1

      Blessed Be ♥️♥️❤️
      I'm so sorry for your hurt. xx

    • @Broadwaybutterfly21
      @Broadwaybutterfly21 2 роки тому +4

      @@lynnedge9755 they don’t need to do anything. Let them grieve.

    • @lynnedge9755
      @lynnedge9755 2 роки тому

      @@Broadwaybutterfly21 Who are you?? I didn’t say anything that’s not true,BooHoo get over yourself put your thumb and your index finger together rub them Now you have a minny violin

    • @stayathomemarine
      @stayathomemarine Рік тому

      @lynn literally this the worst thing you can say to someone. You are not validating their grief

  • @gailcarey3597
    @gailcarey3597 2 роки тому +191

    It gives me comfort to know our unborn babies are safe with our Lord awaiting our reunion.

    • @amberleitao4727
      @amberleitao4727 2 роки тому +5

      Amen 🙏🏻

    • @momwifelife6723
      @momwifelife6723 2 роки тому +4

      Amen

    • @mandycote5662
      @mandycote5662 2 роки тому +1

      Only if one is born again/ biblically- people make God out of their own self image including religions- God is personal not what we think to believe He should be - opinions- He is about having a relationship therefore it’s a requirement to actually meet Him

    • @mariapersson337
      @mariapersson337 2 роки тому +2

      Amen 🙏

    • @lauren_mcinulty7102
      @lauren_mcinulty7102 2 роки тому +1

      @@370.y I get ur trying to be funny but this rlly isn’t the topic to do that on

  • @cherrynicole4511
    @cherrynicole4511 2 роки тому +429

    You don't have to wait 12 weeks to talk about pregnancy, you can do it whenever you want. I'm sorry for your loss guys :(

    • @roses2385
      @roses2385 2 роки тому +36

      Some people prefer to wait because the risk for miscarriage goes down after 12 weeks.
      I made the mistake of telling friends and family that I was pregnant right away. People started buying me baby things right away and then on Christmas day I started heavily bleeding.
      I was in denial despite deep down knowing something was very wrong.
      I ended up finding out I did indeed miscarry. I was so devastated. When I found out I was pregnant again I decided to not tell a soul until I was at least 12 weeks or more.
      But that's me and of course anyone can their loved ones when they're ready to.
      🖤

    • @Linda-ou5lu
      @Linda-ou5lu 2 роки тому +14

      I agree, no need to wait to share your news. In this case, where the worst has happened, at least they have the love of family and friends to support them. Miscarriage is not a secret that needs to be kept. These couples need support during that awful time. May God heal their broken hearts.

    • @pillowtalk1925
      @pillowtalk1925 2 роки тому +7

      @@roses2385 people prefer it because society has made the topic of miscarriage/infant loss taboo. It’s a loss of a child regardless of them being born or not. Society makes it seem like it should only be kept to the mother and that no one else needs to deal with it.

    • @pillowtalk1925
      @pillowtalk1925 2 роки тому +2

      @@roses2385 if the worst that can happen happens, it leaves countless parents grieving with no help because “well if something happens it shouldn’t be a bother to anyone but who it happened to”. If your family member dies I’m sure its not treated the same.

    • @GMW.artist
      @GMW.artist 2 роки тому +11

      @@pillowtalk1925 It's not about taboo.. it's just simple fact that the first 12 weeks aren't a certainty and until you have had a viability scan... It's completely fine and "normal" to wait before you broadcast a pregnancy.

  • @JennyD915
    @JennyD915 2 роки тому +40

    My heart absolutely broke for Tori seeing the pictures from Amy’s wedding where both her sisters in law are pregnant. The excitement for them, but the heartbreak of not having her own pregnancy and growing baby. My heart really goes out to them. 💜

  • @kathrinekathrine
    @kathrinekathrine 2 роки тому +62

    I had a friend who had a miscarriage. I felt so bad seeing the hurt in her eyes and I was the only one she wanted to talk to. seeing the hurt in their eyes. condolences to the whole family. wishing nothing but the best for them.

  • @loko7914
    @loko7914 2 роки тому +62

    Ugh, my heart breaks for them. Especially since Zach and Tori are two of the kindest human beings.

  • @lucykanniard3635
    @lucykanniard3635 2 роки тому +42

    I'm so sorry for Tori and Zachs loss. My heart goes out to them both. I know to well the pain they are going through. My heart goes out to anyone who has went through a miscarriage.

  • @christineshultz7615
    @christineshultz7615 2 роки тому +9

    I've never had a miscarriage but i lost my 22 year old son 6 months ago to an unknown brain aneurysm. It's so hard. I hope they find peace.

    • @mariexoxo1478
      @mariexoxo1478 Рік тому +1

      I’m so sorry ... I can’t even imagine that. Praying for your comfort.

    • @tessnolastname8141
      @tessnolastname8141 Рік тому

      RIP to your boy
      Love and respect to you 💗

    • @CatBahptista
      @CatBahptista 2 місяці тому +1

      😔

  • @winsomecousins8938
    @winsomecousins8938 2 роки тому +18

    My heart -felt sympathies go out to my favourites on the show - Tori and Zach. So sorry to hear of the loss of their little angel.

  • @8jerasikapark8
    @8jerasikapark8 2 роки тому +19

    So sorry for your loss. The dad is so sweet. Hugs for all of you

  • @renes.1242
    @renes.1242 2 роки тому +28

    I'm so sorry for their loss. Much hugs, love, and prayers 🙏

  • @suestephens1091
    @suestephens1091 2 роки тому +12

    Thank you for sharing your lives with us. So very brave to go on and air this episode. Hugs and prayers.

  • @marlacejackson1344
    @marlacejackson1344 2 роки тому +10

    I'm so sorry for your loss! Zach has a way with words that definitely show how much he cares for Tori. He cares about her health and well being. Tori and Zach will never forget and need not to forget knowing that baby added a little more love within their little family. You've got this lil mama💕

  • @paulinereynolds1802
    @paulinereynolds1802 2 роки тому +30

    So sorry for your loss guys

  • @NOs-1991
    @NOs-1991 2 роки тому +35

    My heart definitely goes out to both Zach & Tori. They were both very excited about welcoming that baby into the world, & then to be told that the baby's gone.....that leaves a painful hole in your heart.

  • @heatherlynsey3092
    @heatherlynsey3092 2 роки тому +236

    Damn seeing Matt choke up was tough. He does love those grandbabies.

    • @hrothgarrthemage3991
      @hrothgarrthemage3991 2 роки тому +6

      Not as much as he loved drinking!

    • @MoDavI-sl7iy
      @MoDavI-sl7iy 2 роки тому

      Of course he does

    • @hrothgarrthemage3991
      @hrothgarrthemage3991 2 роки тому +4

      @@MoDavI-sl7iy He really loved the bottle!

    • @maddieashton6609
      @maddieashton6609 2 роки тому

      Seeing strong men cry is beautiful to me, my heart goes out to him and the family

    • @BekahMarie11
      @BekahMarie11 2 роки тому

      It’s very hard I’m sure to see your son upset about losing his baby. So you’re sad about your grand baby but also for your own child. 😢

  • @rebeccaofsunnybrookfarm6698
    @rebeccaofsunnybrookfarm6698 2 роки тому +60

    So sorry to hear about the loss of their child...my condolences. It isn't the natural order of things for parents to outlive their children.

    • @lucyjane103
      @lucyjane103 2 роки тому +2

      The baby was a few weeks old.......

    • @alexandramoyer8785
      @alexandramoyer8785 2 роки тому +3

      @@lucyjane103 doesn’t matter

    • @alexandramoyer8785
      @alexandramoyer8785 2 роки тому +3

      @@lucyjane103 still painful

    • @lucyjane103
      @lucyjane103 2 роки тому +1

      @@alexandramoyer8785 I've been there. Overly dramatic for TV program .....

    • @rosierose5996
      @rosierose5996 2 роки тому +5

      @@lucyjane103 that's unkind. Everyone's experience of loss is different.

  • @christopherthurman
    @christopherthurman 2 роки тому +6

    I lost my baby at 38 weeks pregnant. It litterally rips your very heart out. My heart breaks for the whole family.

    • @sdl5731
      @sdl5731 2 роки тому +1

      My worst nightmare. I don’t know how you live thru this.

  • @lisan8561
    @lisan8561 2 роки тому +40

    Best things you can do for Zach and Tori: don't avoid talking about their baby, calling by name. Men & women grieve differently. There's no deadline for grief.

    • @lindafredrickson6587
      @lindafredrickson6587 2 роки тому +2

      “No deadline for grief.” What a profound statement!

    • @sharjerzyk7765
      @sharjerzyk7765 2 роки тому +4

      I lost my husband almost 3 years ago. Still Alone, LOST and sad Every single day! The pain doesn't go away. Grief doesn't go away. For sure NO DEADLINE

    • @brendafoster4712
      @brendafoster4712 2 роки тому +1

      @@sharjerzyk7765 No, it does not ever go away, ever😰...I am so very sorry for your loss of your soulmate and life partner...staying busy when you are ready and grief support groups help the profound sadness during this very difficult journey in life and knowing that you will be together in God's Kingdom for eternity, when it is time...my heart goes out to you❤️

    • @sharjerzyk7765
      @sharjerzyk7765 2 роки тому +1

      @@brendafoster4712 Thank you Brenda

  • @PrayerfullyBlessedMama
    @PrayerfullyBlessedMama 2 роки тому +9

    When Amy spoke I thought of my relationship with my oldest son, who is 13. Phew…
    Life begins at conception, we announced right away! I have two Angel babies and my heart is STILL with you, Tori!

  • @josephmatson5982
    @josephmatson5982 2 роки тому +120

    My heart goes out to Tori and Zach I'm truly sorry this has happened to you guys

  • @kcs4652
    @kcs4652 2 роки тому +78

    Matt’s wife is so sweet and caring and so generous and thoughtful. I don’t watch this series but I did when I was a small child. I liked it, my family would watch together. Sorry I don’t know her name but she’s a bright woman.

    • @tj6930
      @tj6930 2 роки тому +7

      It’s actually Karen. The most unKaren Karen ever.

    • @wiseguysoutdoors2954
      @wiseguysoutdoors2954 2 роки тому +6

      She's who split Matt and Amy. It's clear she was far more than just a secretary!!

    • @MamaBear_2629
      @MamaBear_2629 2 роки тому +1

      @@wiseguysoutdoors2954 Matt and Amy’s relationship was over way before hand. You can’t judge a situation you have no idea about. It was CLEAR their marriage was in trouble wayyy before Matt and Karen were together, or even a thought.

    • @wiseguysoutdoors2954
      @wiseguysoutdoors2954 2 роки тому

      @@MamaBear_2629 screw you, believe what makes you feel good!!

    • @shahwilloughby4603
      @shahwilloughby4603 2 роки тому +1

      @@wiseguysoutdoors2954 be fair .. Matt and Amy's relationship had turned to shit YEARS before Karen came on the scene. Amy was hating on Matt for a long time.

  • @charlenaretly6914
    @charlenaretly6914 2 роки тому +5

    My heart goes to you all having gone through this same thing multiple times. Love Zach's positivity, both of yours. Mourn the loss of the life that was there, in your lives. LISTEN to the doctors when they tell you it wasn't "your fault". Have the strength to seek professional help if you need it! Hugs from Florida.

  • @80sGamerLady
    @80sGamerLady 2 роки тому +21

    My deepest sympathy. I wanted to wait until my second trimester to tell people as I was older when I started a family. These things happen more often than people realize. 🌈

  • @kendramandisa
    @kendramandisa 2 роки тому +8

    I know how they feel, I've lost 4 myself. I held 2 of those babies in my hands, it's absolutely devastating. Zack and Tori, I pray you have peace and understanding. Take time to really feel all those emotions and don't hesitate to ask other's for help, if you feel you need it. Don't bottle up any emotions, let them all out. That baby is with the Lord, safer than he or she would've ever been on this earth. Everything happens for a reason, even when we don't understand it.
    Zack, you're a wonderful husband and person. It's so great to see you so in tune with Tori, letting her have her time needed and being there for her every step of the way. That's exactly what she needs and she's lucky to have you. You're both Blessed to have one another, it's not luck actually. You have a beautiful, gorgeous, strong family and I'm so happy for you all!! ❤ God Bless you all!!

  • @sonyajeffkaisabenjaminsuem885
    @sonyajeffkaisabenjaminsuem885 2 роки тому +6

    We are so, so and so sorry for their loss!!! God bless this child's soul and rest in peace to that baby and God bless the grieving family and friends with much love.

  • @georgianaearley7717
    @georgianaearley7717 2 роки тому +5

    So sorry about your loss. Sending prayers and hugs for all of you. Your family is so awesome and this baby will always be in your heart. Just know we feel your pain. ♥️

  • @agr8tyme
    @agr8tyme 2 роки тому +3

    Sorry to your family and to you for your loss! Your hearts will always have a place for this baby. May your hearts also find peace.

  • @danielsgirl0nLy
    @danielsgirl0nLy 2 роки тому +7

    Zach is such a loving and caring husband, he’s really been great thru the loss that they’ve both experienced. I’m sure that took such great strength. What an inspiration. I hope God blesses their family and helps them thru this horrible tragedy.

  • @mherrera5088
    @mherrera5088 2 роки тому +4

    I'm so sorry for the loss of this precious one. May they rejoice in paradise.

  • @Cdcnow49
    @Cdcnow49 2 роки тому +7

    I'm so so sorry. May God wrap his arms around each and everyone of you at this time of loss. Prayers🙏

  • @melindarozas1334
    @melindarozas1334 2 роки тому +9

    So sorry for everyone's loss!! Sending condolences!! RIP little one!!

  • @lynnrelyea1860
    @lynnrelyea1860 2 роки тому +7

    I'm so sorry for your loss of your baby, Zach and Tori 💔 My heart aches for you both, knowing the pain of losing a child😪 Zach, you are an amazing husband and it's beautiful how much empathy and understanding you have for Tori. You're also an amazing Dad! Tori, sending love and healing hugs!!!

  • @jupitersworld244
    @jupitersworld244 2 роки тому +24

    I don’t think Zachary realizes it’s not just about his wife he matters to. I know he wants to support her but what I didn’t realize was how much our situation hurt my husband as well…

  • @annforesman3342
    @annforesman3342 2 роки тому +8

    This is so sad sorry for your loss Zach is such a good husband you can see that I hope in time things get better

  • @dancing_qu33n
    @dancing_qu33n 2 роки тому +3

    I've watched this about 9times and everytime I cry too, idky I keep coming back to watch. Sending my love and virtual hugs Zach and Tori❤

  • @donnamurphy5698
    @donnamurphy5698 2 роки тому +5

    I am so very sorry for your loss. Sending love and prayers for you all.

  • @tiatowery6409
    @tiatowery6409 2 роки тому +20

    I’m sorry for your loss.I had a miscarriage at 5 months after having 2 full term babies too! That was 22 years ago and I still think about it every day God bless you and Zack I’ll pray that the pain lifts a bit for you.God bless.I learned the same way a routine ultrasound technician didn’t know what to say or do and left the room to get the doctor I remember it like.I remember it like it was yesterday

  • @pjmasks7185
    @pjmasks7185 2 роки тому +19

    So sad for Zach and Tori they are wonderful parents 😢 💔

  • @twylahauzer
    @twylahauzer 2 роки тому +5

    Prayers for Zack and Tori and family. I have been through this and know how you are feeling it will get better.

  • @marybethmclemore4025
    @marybethmclemore4025 2 роки тому +8

    It's so sad to hear, they will never heal but it will take time. Praying for both Zack and Tori.

  • @pateintprosper9382
    @pateintprosper9382 2 роки тому +3

    You can see the pain 💔 in their eyes. God bless that little angel 😇

  • @newfiesisters8623
    @newfiesisters8623 2 роки тому +6

    I love Zach .. he is so there for Tory.. his love and commitment is so obvious! Love this family! I wish them a lifetime of love and happiness, and will cheer them on! xo

  • @shanibmulkins
    @shanibmulkins 2 роки тому +12

    Prayers to them. Its a very difficult event to experience. I've had 2 myself and you never forget those babies.

    • @Afmedic85
      @Afmedic85 2 роки тому

      I had 2 as well. The 2nd was especially tough because the person who had been the most helpful after the 1st had been found dead in her home a month before

  • @lovingtjp1111
    @lovingtjp1111 2 роки тому +12

    I was watching them since I was 8 years old. My heart goes out to them completely 🥺❤️‍🩹

  • @stephanieyee9784
    @stephanieyee9784 2 роки тому +4

    This is so sad. I hope Tori, Zach and their families ard alright.
    Best wishes to you Tori and Zach, I hope time has helped heal some of the pain from your loss.
    You have two beautiful babies and are a lovely family.

  • @jennynroger1
    @jennynroger1 2 роки тому +4

    feeling so sorry for them all. Such a loss. praying for them.

  • @tiggerhaines4307
    @tiggerhaines4307 Рік тому +2

    Aww I’m sorry to hear this. I was pregnant with mine and I was 5 weeks when I lost mine. I know how hard it is to lose a baby. I am glad that Zack was there to be with you all the way. Hugs to you, Zack and the kids.

  • @lorrainehicks6484
    @lorrainehicks6484 2 роки тому +3

    I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

  • @Msilly52
    @Msilly52 2 роки тому +6

    Zach and Tori we send you our love, it happened to me too...stay strong and pray, only time heal those thing that life teaches us. What it teaches us is that even if we didn't get to hold that baby, she or he will away be part of the family and we will always send out love...peace, love and light from far away in the mountains of Puerto Rico

  • @marycoutu5782
    @marycoutu5782 2 роки тому +2

    Tori. I am so sorry for your loss. I lost a baby at full term. It was devastating. God has gained another angel!

  • @schnauzermom7133
    @schnauzermom7133 2 роки тому +6

    I had two miscarriages…one before our first born and one before our youngest! It’s bittersweet…it’s absolutely heartbreaking, but I would look at my two sons when they were young and evenly today and can’t imagine life without them! I wouldn’t have them without my two that didn’t make it here!

  • @joadamiller4191
    @joadamiller4191 2 роки тому +6

    I’m so sorry to hear the news about your new little baby ❤️🙏🏻. I know what you’re going through because it happened to me too more than 30 years ago now. I’m praying for you both to feel comfort from the Lord, and hope for your future little ones. Jackson and Lilah are beautiful and I hope you can just focus on them for now ❤️🙏🏻

  • @annettemarie5417
    @annettemarie5417 2 роки тому +11

    God bless you all Zach and Tori my heart and prayers are with you much luv and hugs 😇✝️🙏💜 im so very sorry for your loss 😢

  • @susansmith493
    @susansmith493 2 роки тому +5

    Zach is a wonderful, strong husband and father.

  • @lauraanderson958
    @lauraanderson958 2 роки тому +6

    Oh my heart breaks for them , I recently lost my nephew , he was 4 months old and it broke my sister and all of us really , loosing a child at any stage of pregnancy and from birth is a pain that literally goes to your soul and takes away your breath and it’s a level of pain you never knew existed , it’s a pain I wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy , a pain I wish no parent ever has to face 🥺🥺

  • @sandriatyson6517
    @sandriatyson6517 2 роки тому +4

    I understand what they are going through it’s not an easy thing or feeling to go through and no can tell you differently I’m so sorry for your loss Zach and Tori 😭💞

  • @Beauvaiscrochet
    @Beauvaiscrochet Рік тому +3

    I’m going through a miscarriage right now. It’s hard to see how many others have gone through it but it’s comforting at the same time...

    • @shivvypoppy
      @shivvypoppy Рік тому +3

      I had multiple miscarriages between the years of 2017 and 2020. Turns out I had a huge ovarian cyst AND a fibroid (which was growing another fibroid on top of it) that was smack dab in the middle of my uterus. My body thought I was pregnant so I felt sick a lot, was experiencing a LOT of fatigue, lower back aches, hip issues, horrible (more painful than usual) periods and just felt overall worn down. I thought it was the grief I was experiencing from multiple deaths in the family and working 50 to 60 hours a week. During this time, I had been seeing a gynocologist that didn't use the sonogram to investigate my inner organs so she never saw any of it. She just felt around. I thought this was strange because my first and only gynecologist that I started going to when I was 17 years old always used a sonogram to make sure that everything was okay during my annual pap smears. In January of 2020, I finally went back to my very first gyno, who is AMAZING, and he used his usual sonogram. He was able to diagnose my "infertility" in less than 5 minutes. Within two weeks, I had a myomectomy to remove the cyst, fibroids AS WELL AS some endometriosis that I had no idea I even had. I was pregnant within the year. I had my first (and only, so far) baby girl in July of 2021. Please, please, PLEASE don't give up. God put the desire in your heart to have children and however that comes about, I truly believe that you will be blessed when the time is right. When God/the universe puts a desire for children so deep in your heart, that you *will* have/adopt/foster a child into becoming someone who will make a difference in the world. I wish the best of luck/blessings in your journey. ✌️❤️✊

  • @jeanegill2877
    @jeanegill2877 2 роки тому +2

    So sorry to hear this news about your loss we have followed your family for a long time we feel like we know you well from Manchester England

  • @b1riz
    @b1riz 2 роки тому +1

    God be with you . Your story touched me my daughter went through same thing all i was able to do is say it was not ment to be but she saw your story it was a comfort that it was not just her and she was not alone thank you

  • @chrissycornell8502
    @chrissycornell8502 2 роки тому +2

    What a wonderful family.Thank God Tori & Zack have ya all for the love and support they need!!! God Bless!!!!!!

  • @corrinesmith876
    @corrinesmith876 2 роки тому +2

    I am so sorry for your loss . 😑 praying for your family . Sending a hug your way .

  • @lorigee1
    @lorigee1 2 роки тому +19

    My heart goes out to you guys. It is hard to go through a miscarriage, especially after having those first babies normally. I know because I had two boys and then four miscarriages and THEN…one beautiful, healthy little girl. Nothing I did wrong. The pregnancies were not viable was what I was told.

  • @Ochtroost
    @Ochtroost 2 роки тому +3

    My sister lost her twin. After a pregnancy of 31 weeks. So I know how you feel, I know how it hurts, I know the pain and I’m sending all my hugs and love to you two ❤️. Take your time to give it a place.

  • @deblamkin8824
    @deblamkin8824 2 роки тому +16

    Tori, your a beautiful woman. Your children are beautiful too. I can't began to know all your feeling. I am so sorry. Please know that LPBW fans love you. ❤

    • @hrothgarrthemage3991
      @hrothgarrthemage3991 2 роки тому

      You just KNOW that she's upset because she wanted to FINALLY have a kid who would grow to be over 5 feet tall.

    • @brittaniesidebottom
      @brittaniesidebottom 2 роки тому +2

      @@hrothgarrthemage3991 She’s upset because she lost a child, whether they have dwarfism or not is completely irrelevant. That’s still their child regardless.

    • @hrothgarrthemage3991
      @hrothgarrthemage3991 2 роки тому

      @@brittaniesidebottom Yeah I know it's their child. But I bet she'd love a child more if it weren't fun sized.

  • @lauriehollister9428
    @lauriehollister9428 2 роки тому +2

    Praying for your family. I am so very sorry for your loss.

  • @kaylaking7845
    @kaylaking7845 2 роки тому +6

    My heart breaks for them. I know this pain as I miscarried my first pregnancy at 10 weeks after an accident. We also told everyone and announced at about 6 weeks. Miscarriage/infant loss are so common and it's important to know you are not alone....and it's okay to hurt and grieve however you need to. Hug you babies extra tight and just cry! I am so incredibly thankful for my 3 year old son and baby girl.on the way. A painful and devastating loss. So sorry Tori and Zach

  • @ellevaniti4525
    @ellevaniti4525 2 роки тому +19

    My deepest condolences to Tori and Zach and everyone in the family. I know just how you're feeling unfortunately and I wish no one had to know what this felt like.
    The way Matt and Caryn reacted was so beautiful. I just suffered a miscarriage and spent two days in hospital getting surgery because of complications associated with it and this is one of the first videos I've seen since coming home.
    When I miscarried my first baby five years ago the very first this my mother said was "Well most of the time people don't tell anyone until 12 weeks anyway." She then went on to completely invalidate my grief every single step of the way so much so that five years on when I finally got pregnant again after two years worth of trying I didn't tell my mother at all and had no plans to until 12 weeks. I didn't make it there. She has no idea at all that I just spent two days alone in hospital (because of covid, my fiance tried to be there but they refused to let him) and I'm not going to tell her because I don't need this baby's life or the loss we feel invalidated too.
    All I can say is I wish my parents had reacted the same way that Matt and Caryn reacted. That's the way you're supposed to react. When your kids hurt you hurt with them too and you just utterly wrap them in love. Not tell them that it's not supposed to hurt so much because you never got to hold your baby and you weren't at that 12 week mark yet where everyone else is supposed to consider you baby's life valid. You're life starts revolving around that new baby and the life you'll create with them the moment they're there and to lose that baby is to lose an entire life you've dreamt up and decided upon.

    • @wynetta80
      @wynetta80 2 роки тому

      Sending condolences. I just posted some of my story. I truly understand you.... three of my 7 losses which two were 4 months apart we didn't tell but maybe 5 or 8 ppl. Some ppl do not think common sense wise. I think they should either ask...or send love and prayers. It's hard very hard.. not just mentally speaking but physically. I have 4 healthy children one is now 11 months old. Her pregnancy and my 7 yr old pregnancy we didn't tell but same 8 ppl. We announced finally to ppl for both 20 wks-30 weeks. My sister didn't announce her last one until delivery Even though she hasn't dealt with pregnancy loss. But she was super high risk.
      Anyway hugs to you momma. Take your time...don't let anyone make you feel invalidated. Grieve as long as you need...its not a expiration date. And it doesn't matter how far along you were it's your baby it still had a soul and is apart of you.

    • @irenedavo3768
      @irenedavo3768 2 роки тому

      Sending love 💕

    • @janetjordan2246
      @janetjordan2246 2 роки тому

      Ohh my heart just broke and left a hole ..dear little one..you would have been so loved if you were to have a mummy like Tori and daddy like Zack ..I'm sorry you didn't get the chance to meet them..but you sweet baby had other things to do..so Tori and Zack you are an amazingly fantastic couple with beautiful children and I hope you both pull through this ..
      **Tears**

    • @ellevaniti4525
      @ellevaniti4525 2 роки тому

      @@wynetta80 Thank you for sharing your story with me, it gives me hopes that maybe one day I'll get to hold one of my babies in my arms and not just in my heart. I'm so utterly sorry for your losses and that you have to know what this feels like too. I was speaking to my fiance last night and we decided that if I fell pregnant again soon we aren't going to tell anyone until I am six months. Not because we won't be excited for a new baby but just because now after I've had two losses we don't want people to invalidate our grief and suddenly think we are okay and that our loss didn't happen because a new baby is on the way.
      I definitely feel what you said on the soul part. I can feel this little soul hanging around. It came when I was pregnant and hasn't left.

    • @ellevaniti4525
      @ellevaniti4525 2 роки тому

      @@irenedavo3768 Thank you so much!

  • @swayzierated6756
    @swayzierated6756 2 роки тому +1

    I'm deeply sorry for your loss 💔💔🙏🙏 I pray that you and your family recover from this ❤❤

  • @tammybeckett408
    @tammybeckett408 2 роки тому +2

    So sorry for your loss my heart and prayers go out to you 👃

  • @thrithteller
    @thrithteller 2 роки тому +2

    I've watched tori grow up over the years and I'm truly amazed at the women and mother shes become...she has shown strength through this...I pray you have your rainbow 🌈 👶 soon

  • @normaforrester4000
    @normaforrester4000 2 роки тому +1

    So sorry for your loss! I give God thank for your two beautiful blessings you both have

  • @theresalong6403
    @theresalong6403 2 роки тому +1

    I am so sorry for your loss, I know how you fell, your babys need you ,they don't understand. prayers

  • @desireelaughery3275
    @desireelaughery3275 2 роки тому +5

    Praying for you Tori,I know what you're going through. My heart aches for you. Praying for both of you.

  • @frankbrennan7040
    @frankbrennan7040 2 роки тому +2

    So sad to hear of your loss be strong you have an angel over your family,will keep you strong for your others at home take one day forward you both are great parents Peace be with you both.prayers.

  • @bettyboop1949
    @bettyboop1949 2 роки тому +6

    I experienced a miscarriage Tori.... you are right, you go from feeling like you've been run over by a truck, to feeling "normal " in a blink of an eye. When things like this happen in life, there are just no words of wisdom. You both are loved and you're not alone.

  • @suziboggus5206
    @suziboggus5206 2 роки тому +2

    My heart is broken for you and Zack. I am so sorry .

  • @debbienicholson7089
    @debbienicholson7089 2 роки тому +1

    I'm so sorry for your loss, GOD BLESS YOU

  • @dixiedammit2395
    @dixiedammit2395 2 роки тому +5

    Tori,Zach and family, May Angels hold you all tightly and give you comfort in these difficult days. Hugs...❣🙏❣

  • @lindafredrickson6587
    @lindafredrickson6587 2 роки тому +4

    My sympathy Tori and Zach. I’ve been where you are. I thinking crying is good for you, to relieve some of the grief. Bless you.. Your son and daughter are beautiful.

  • @Franciscosincorporated
    @Franciscosincorporated 2 роки тому +1

    I'm so sorry to hear about this please know we will be praying for you guys 🙏🙏 and you guys stay strong

  • @adriagui6923
    @adriagui6923 2 місяці тому

    I praise you for your willingness to share something so private and devastating. The biggest thing I learned was how lonely this process can be. I felt so alone and like no one knew what I was going through. My husband felt like his role was to be the rock for us, which is needed, but it left me feeling alone with these sad feelings. One day, I decided to look up a support group of women who had gone through this and I took comfort in that. That helped me out a lot. Knowing others where with me in this struggle. I want to thank you for sharing. This can help someone out there going through this. God Bless!

  • @amberjo4327
    @amberjo4327 Рік тому +1

    I'm so sorry for your guys's loss, you both have eachother & your babies, glad you have a rainbow baby now ♡♡♡ stay strong n wonderful together

  • @ruthholley8699
    @ruthholley8699 2 роки тому +1

    Hi Tori and Zach I'm so sorry to hear about the lost of your baby, that little angel is in heaven resting. My prayers are with you and your family. I watch your show all the time and I love you guys!!

  • @msnegron-lu6tw
    @msnegron-lu6tw 2 роки тому +1

    Wow so sorry for your loss Torri and Zach sometimes in life things happen that makes us hurt and cry but everything happens for a reason. Hope and faith is good but love is the best. God bless you and family even more.

  • @shelbyallan4184
    @shelbyallan4184 2 роки тому +2

    So so sorry! Prayers sent!

  • @Sabrina-01
    @Sabrina-01 Рік тому

    Poor sweet girl . No words an take the pain away. Heal mamma.

  • @heleenglazenburg1405
    @heleenglazenburg1405 2 роки тому +2

    After 28 years IT is still difficult to watch people go through the pain I felt.It is tough but IT Will get better.

  • @sandrakellums2039
    @sandrakellums2039 2 роки тому +1

    I have always been a small fan of the show tuning in from time to time. Now I am a BIG fan so amazed at what incredible parenting skills they have. Honestly you can tell that they are not putting on for the camera but there's true time, love and patience that is spent building the best family they can. Zach and Tori I would also send my payers and wishes over your unbearable loss and want say you two were born to be parents and are great at it! Nothing can replace your loss but I hope you are blessed with many more babies because thanks to the great job you all do these will be the ones running this country one day!

  • @baboo7192
    @baboo7192 2 роки тому +2

    I’m so sorry for your loss. I too lost my baby between 6-8 weeks along. 😢

  • @atay3308
    @atay3308 2 роки тому +2

    Sad to see people bringing hateful comments to s heartbroken video about loss. Truly showing their colors.

  • @jessiesgirl545
    @jessiesgirl545 2 роки тому +2

    I love you Zack and Tori and babes.... You have a beautiful family.... May you find peace and healing❤️

  • @janinekarnbach6577
    @janinekarnbach6577 2 роки тому

    Sorry to hear of your loss