I gave my twin nephews full scholarships to study in a prestigious secondary school in SE , Nigeria where if you fail to get promoted to the next class, you either repeat or leave the school. I sternly told them that if any of them failed at any level, the person must LEAVE the school and their scholarship terminated immediately. One couldn’t pass JS1 and I terminated his scholarship immediately. I don’t even know the school he is attending now. The second one is going to SS2 at the prestigious school by September , and he is still enjoying my scholarship. Sometimes, you have to be very firm so people will respect your boundaries. Thank you , Dr Charles Apoki .
Good to know you are helping your nephews. I am appealing you reach out to the other twin, find out how he is faring except you know he is stubborn and unwilling to learn. Children have different learning abilities, some are slow learners. Give him some support within his academic ability.
Dr Apoki. Sir you are my kind of person. Because of this , my siblings criticise and blackmail me despite the fact that I trained many and brought two of my siblings and my mother abroad. Whatever you do is never enough. If you are not tough , people take you for granted and will mess you up. I am the first in my family and have sacrificed my life to the family , still it’s never enough. Create boundaries and put electric babwires in life. If not people will mess you up. You are 💯 percent Sir. I wish I could give you more one thumbs up. You speak the truth. I have saved this video and will always play it back. You will live long Sir with more grace. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
It,s unfortunate today that people mistake being strict to wickedness. Jesus Christ was and still strict. My late mom was very strict. It helped me tremendously. Human beings are meant to be strictly corrected. As a Christian you have to be wise as serpent.
So spot on. This is a message for me from God (Godwink). It Came at the very right time. i must admit that God have been using you to speak to me lately. That is, youve been one of my Godlinks Keep them coming
Sir,I am a victim.your message shocked me.i now I understand accountability and responsibility., boundaries.i am bearing the consequences of my humility to my wife and house.thank you sir
"If people can disregard you without consequences you will soon be grounded"- Dr Charles Apoki. This is indeed an opener i learnt a lot, had to watch twice in a roll, Thank you sir you're indeed a blessing to this generation.👍
Thanks for the gems and pearls of wisdom Dad! I must confess I was choking with laughter 🤣🤣throughout your presentation because of your impeccable sense of humour! Much love and respect from Kenya.
You are a very wise man Dr Apoki. Good principles and you speak the truth. You are passionate about your life. Blessings ro you. May i get more firn with my family in the name of Jesus🙏🙏🙏🙏Amen🙏
Sir I enjoyed the words of wisdom from you 🙌 thank you sir, when you said you curse your third leg that wanted to put you into trouble, I busted into a laugh 😃
The problem is some have allowed others to weaponise the Holy Writings against them. They literally follow Jesus' advice of 'turning the left cheek'. When salesmen disrespected his dad's house, he didn't cajole them; he whipped and drove them away. Don't let unscrupulous individuals use God's mercies to enslave you.
Society has given a wrong narrative about Righteousness, mistaking/confusing it for Holiness, too bad 90% Christians and many other naive people are oblivious of the fact that fact. We're the eyes of the light (God), We're awareness. So many humans are yet to be awakened sir.
😂😂😂 Most of us wish to have someone we can run to. Thanks DR. I run a school too. I'm the front and the back. Any attempt to involve my husband will result in an early fold up. 😢 Your wife is very fortunate. Thanks for the pep talks.
I totally agree with you , if you were not responsible or loyal with money the first time , you likely not be the second time. If we do not start calling people to order the world will be very difficult to live in.
Negative marking is also applicable to civil aviation exams for pilots, engineers and indeed all aviation professionals. If you are not sure of the answer DO NOT GUESS.
Thank you so much sir! If snake did not act like snake children will use it for rope. I'm just laughing when you are telling the story about you and mummy when she browed you money. ( Back to sender got me laughing) You're funny sir! But everything you're teaching us is true. I appreciate you sir.
Listening to the first part of this video just made me realise that Nigerians don’t read… if we did most people will realise that the first 6mins of this video are without facts but just talk.
I live in America, and i have been a Republican for over 10 years now. Donald Trump is not an exemplary leader. He is a time bomb waiting to explode. His second term will be a disaster for America. Trump is a typicalAfrican politician( ruler) @chimnanuukaejiofo4154
I was literally talking to my wife about this and how I feel I let people get away with too much for the sake of peace. When I get tired and start tearing into people, I'm the bad guy, and now thats ok.
There's a paradigm shift in Nigeria after the protest which a lot of people have not realized yet. It's high time we change our ways of doing things and each person should be held accountable for his or her actions. This should apply to all human endeavour. There should also be consequences for our actions and inactions.
Stick to motivational speeches and leave politics aside. American politics is different, what you are saying about Donald Trump is the result of the media programming you get from listening to CNN.
I gave my twin nephews full scholarships to study in a prestigious secondary school in SE , Nigeria where if you fail to get promoted to the next class, you either repeat or leave the school. I sternly told them that if any of them failed at any level, the person must LEAVE the school and their scholarship terminated immediately. One couldn’t pass JS1 and I terminated his scholarship immediately. I don’t even know the school he is attending now. The second one is going to SS2 at the prestigious school by September , and he is still enjoying my scholarship. Sometimes, you have to be very firm so people will respect your boundaries. Thank you , Dr Charles Apoki .
I agree with you.
❤
I am learning
Good to know you are helping your nephews. I am appealing you reach out to the other twin, find out how he is faring except you know he is stubborn and unwilling to learn. Children have different learning abilities, some are slow learners. Give him some support within his academic ability.
Listening to Dr. Apoki helps me to manage people . Especially family members who think they are entitled.
Dr Apoki. Sir you are my kind of person. Because of this , my siblings criticise and blackmail me despite the fact that I trained many and brought two of my siblings and my mother abroad. Whatever you do is never enough. If you are not tough , people take you for granted and will mess you up. I am the first in my family and have sacrificed my life to the family , still it’s never enough. Create boundaries and put electric babwires in life. If not people will mess you up. You are 💯 percent Sir. I wish I could give you more one thumbs up. You speak the truth. I have saved this video and will always play it back. You will live long Sir with more grace. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
*"What you allow, will continue."*
@@buravan1512 so true
@@casmirifeanyi7788 I agree 100% you teach people how to treat you
"We tolerate too much rubbish." -Dr. Charles Apoki. Thanks for the courage to tell it like it should be. Salute!
If you're too sweet people will eat you for breakfast, lunch and dinner... That's a fact Thanks Dr
Facts because you have turned into a candy.
True
Don’t make the mistake of letting people escape without feeling the impact of their bad behaviour. Next time they will take dressing !!
It,s unfortunate today that people mistake being strict to wickedness. Jesus Christ was and still strict. My late mom was very strict. It helped me tremendously. Human beings are meant to be strictly corrected. As a Christian you have to be wise as serpent.
You can say that again.
"To present yourself as a vegetable people will eat you any how." my friend Dr Charles Apoki
Snow flakes melt under pressure. You must be tougher than nails. Don’t be nice, but be a good person. Personal policies. One must have boundaries.
So spot on. This is a message for me from God (Godwink). It Came at the very right time. i must admit that God have been using you to speak to me lately. That is, youve been one of my Godlinks
Keep them coming
U re absolutely right, Dr. Apoki. Ppl take u for granted when u re not strict on the boundaries
😂😂😂😂I love hearing stories about his wife .., cracks me up eee😂😂😂
Me too
Sir,I am a victim.your message shocked me.i now I understand accountability and responsibility., boundaries.i am bearing the consequences of my humility to my wife and house.thank you sir
May the Lord continue to strengthen you and enrich your wisdom.
"If people can disregard you without consequences you will soon be grounded"- Dr Charles Apoki. This is indeed an opener i learnt a lot, had to watch twice in a roll, Thank you sir you're indeed a blessing to this generation.👍
Yeah!
I have so much admiration and respect for you Dr.
😅 Dr Apoki, you are very humorous 😂❤
Wow, Thank you so much sir for this piece. The young generation are proud of you, so much to learn from you
At the end of your video , I always join you to say “GOD BLESS YOU “ 😁🏆
Love that!
Thanks for the gems and pearls of wisdom Dad! I must confess I was choking with laughter 🤣🤣throughout your presentation because of your impeccable sense of humour!
Much love and respect from Kenya.
Your act of not giving a f*ck is commendable 💪🏻
Thank God we still have ppl like you grandpa. God bless you ijn amen 🙏🙏🙏
People must bear the consequences of their actions
Wow ... My mind has been empowered, thank you for sharing, I'm heading to go make account to my sister for her phone thst got damaged in my hands
Don’t be nice. Be a good man but don’t be nice. By Dr Akpoki
Papa is doing amazing. 100k soon 🎉🎉
🤣🤣 that “curse” part… Thank you for who you are sir 🙏
DON'T CELEBRATE RUDENESS! Thank you Sir!
Dr.Apoki, your mother reminds me of my grandmother . I still can't eat in people's homes long after she is gone.😂😂😂
I thought I was alone. I never knew I could found a disciplinary man like you in my page. We're in the same page 😅Kudos Dr. A!
😂 You’re the best Sir
Brother and DR Charles APOKI my respect for you Sir.
Thank you Sir. God just answered me through you. Be blessed!!!
I'm indeed overwhelmed by your broad experiences in life. Keep up the good work.
You are a very wise man Dr Apoki. Good principles and you speak the truth. You are passionate about your life. Blessings ro you. May i get more firn with my family in the name of Jesus🙏🙏🙏🙏Amen🙏
Sir I enjoyed the words of wisdom from you 🙌 thank you sir, when you said you curse your third leg that wanted to put you into trouble, I busted into a laugh 😃
Good evening sir thanks for your advice you are a great mentor God bless you sir
True we tolerate so much that's why Africans might not go far.
We joke too much
Thank you so much sir
You said it all nothing but the truth
God bless you sir
You’re always saying the truth sir. God bless you sir.
My name is Dr Charles Apoki, I'm not a nice man😂😂😂
Thank you so much, Sir.
LIFE
For every Action a consequence is attached.
Thank Dr Charles, you just make me know my very right more in anywhere and everywhere enjoy watching you more grace sir.
God keep keeping you my mentor.... migwo Sir
The problem is some have allowed others to weaponise the Holy Writings against them. They literally follow Jesus' advice of 'turning the left cheek'. When salesmen disrespected his dad's house, he didn't cajole them; he whipped and drove them away. Don't let unscrupulous individuals use God's mercies to enslave you.
True intense realism 😊
Back to sender😂😂😂
I also hate spending money for burial.
Proph Aboki you are a Christmastime teacher ,if they will understand , you are great remain blessed . from prophet Nwosu Andrew from Imo state .
Thanks for the message Sir it's life changing watching from kenya ❤
People set boundaries "if" you set them. Thats deep
Great advice Doc!
Blessings Grandpa.
I thank Bishop Fiano coltis for bringing you to us. I wish I knew you before now, thank you sir.
Worth listening to..
this is the messages that should be echoed
Ride on sir
15:02 in Business, there's a period of attraction, retention, addiction and rejection.
Thanks, watching from Nbi kenya
Thanks you sir 🙏
Koboko warrior lool.thank you sir
What am going to with trustful honesty great man, am jut laughing like crazy here, love you sir, yes you're a nice man with dignity and policies.
FACTS!!
Thank you sir.
Anyone who doesn't have value for your time, will not want to be accountable to keeping appointments....
Yes yes sir 🙏,u ar right sir 🤙
Society has given a wrong narrative about Righteousness, mistaking/confusing it for Holiness, too bad 90% Christians and many other naive people are oblivious of the fact that fact. We're the eyes of the light (God), We're awareness. So many humans are yet to be awakened sir.
If I hear “pim”😂😂😂
Back to sender 😅😅😅
Same with America's Iraq war, no one was held accountable
Daddy well spoken l taught l was the only one with this crazy mentality
Wisdom
Facts
Wisdom 🤝
Greater height by GOD Grace sir
You too get wisdom. Na man you beeee.
😂😂😂 Most of us wish to have someone we can run to. Thanks DR.
I run a school too. I'm the front and the back. Any attempt to involve my husband will result in an early fold up. 😢
Your wife is very fortunate.
Thanks for the pep talks.
More of Allah's blessings 🙌
I totally agree with you , if you were not responsible or loyal with money the first time , you likely not be the second time. If we do not start calling people to order the world will be very difficult to live in.
Negative marking is also applicable to civil aviation exams for pilots, engineers and indeed all aviation professionals. If you are not sure of the answer DO NOT GUESS.
Don’t reward rude people
Dr. Charles Apoki, everything you said is correct except for your reference to US politics.
Thank you so much sir! If snake did not act like snake children will use it for rope. I'm just laughing when you are telling the story about you and mummy when she browed you money. ( Back to sender got me laughing) You're funny sir! But everything you're teaching us is true. I appreciate you sir.
ACCOUNTABILITY IS ALSO VALID IN RELATIONSHIPS, BECAUSE YOU CREATE A FAMILY FIRST BEFORE YOU CAN CREATE A COMMUNITY "
Legend
Dr Aboki is my guy.
Correct guy.
🔥🔥🔥🔥🙏
Actually, most women, if not all, hate men who really think. Most also hat accountability.
Listening to the first part of this video just made me realise that Nigerians don’t read… if we did most people will realise that the first 6mins of this video are without facts but just talk.
Okay
Koboko warrior 😂😂😂
20 minutes walk
Daddy pls I need you to really look into the issue with donald trump
It's not what it seems
Agreed. He is wrong on the Donald Trump issue. But i get his overall advice
I live in America, and i have been a Republican for over 10 years now. Donald Trump is not an exemplary leader. He is a time bomb waiting to explode.
His second term will be a disaster for America. Trump is a typicalAfrican politician( ruler) @chimnanuukaejiofo4154
I was literally talking to my wife about this and how I feel I let people get away with too much for the sake of peace.
When I get tired and start tearing into people, I'm the bad guy, and now thats ok.
You get the message
😂😂😂koboko warrior
Lol @ may you never stand up if its not my wife.
😅😮😊
There's a paradigm shift in Nigeria after the protest which a lot of people have not realized yet.
It's high time we change our ways of doing things and each person should be held accountable for his or her actions.
This should apply to all human endeavour.
There should also be consequences for our actions and inactions.
Stick to motivational speeches and leave politics aside. American politics is different, what you are saying about Donald Trump is the result of the media programming you get from listening to CNN.