How To Ask Your Crush Out (that works!)
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- Опубліковано 21 лип 2024
- Do you have a crush you want to ask out? Are you pretty new to asking someone out on a date? Where do you begin!? Well, there are a few ways you can approach asking your crush out - we’re going to break down a few ways on how you can! So, here are a few tips on how to ask your crush out.
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Writer: Michal Mitchell
Script Editor & Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera ( / amandasilvera )
Animator: Evelvaii
UA-cam Manager: Cindy Cheong
References:
Gee, C. (2021, March 12). How to ask your crush out in five minutes. wikiHow. Retrieved from www.wikihow.com/Ask-Your-Crush-out-in-Five-Minutes#:~:text=Ask%2C%20%E2%80%9CDo%20you%20want%20to,because%20they're%20taken%20aback.
Gee, C. (2022, February 3). How to ask out your crush. wikiHow. Retrieved from www.wikihow.com/Ask-Out-Your-Crush
Serai, V. (2021, December 3). How to ask your crush out: 15 steps to be brave, confident & cool. LovePanky. Retrieved from www.lovepanky.com/flirting-flings/get-flirty/how-to-ask-your-crush-out
It was a fail for me but I'll respect their decision. Also you're right it does take a lot of courage to confess so I'm proud of myself for doing it!
Bro just pull an American phyco on her
I’m proud of you to!
You're so cool, wise, and badass! I'm proud of you too. It takes a lot of character to confess and even more character to respect their decision.
I wish I could have your courage ha ha
How is this from 3 months ago
I'm way too flustered to compliment my crush. When he just looks at me, I'm embarrassed even though we're good friends. He's too cute for this world! Someone, please! Tell this dork I love him!
Update: I just confessed to him!!!!! He asked for time to think about it but I still feel happy for telling him how I feel.
Update 2: HE SAID YES!!!!!
I love this🥹
you got this!
As a male, if I got asked out I would be surprised but also happy, and most guys if they get asked out will say yes pretty much no matter what.
just murder them. its easier
@@thelegender110 You don't know what he's up to though, especially because they're already good friends.
2:56 this animation ahahahaha I can't
How did you comment 2 months ago in a video that was published today?
@@mankrip- It was unlisted back then. I think they had a link to it in some description
@@irishboy06 no I'm a timetraveler
@@Marscompany I've just exposed your secret to your time travel illusion
“Perhaps there’s someone out there crushing on you!” Yeah, no.
Same… #singleforever 😂😂😂
@@avenger291 _you never know_
Bro, this made me laugh for a solid minute. Thank you :)
@@Megaboss232 jaja, i didn’t expect much people to see this comment!
SAME!!! 90% of the girls in my grade hate me and/or pretend I don't exist. I am the BOTTOM OF THE BARREL social ranking wise
Year and a half into a relationship with the girl who was my "impossible" crush for eight years, the only thing I have to say, beside that this is very accurate... Is that I regret not having the courage to ask her out sooner
She was in the same position as me, and we both put up walls because we were afraid we were going to be obvious and "ruin" the friendship
Be courageous, be brave... What's the worst thing that can happen? If you get a no, you still end in the same spot you began in
Yes, but...
So my crush is a friend of mine, and I'm afraid if I let them know and they reject me (which is most likely what's going to happen) then our friendship will be ruined and things will be awkward. Plus, I'm not sure if I'm allowed to date yet and I'm too afraid to ask if I am. So there's that. Anything you can suggest?
@@cray-zkat7664 I think you should tell your parents about the crush and they can help you. Good luck. I hope they like you back
@@justjasmine_ idk if I will. I think I'll give it a bit more time. But thanks!
@@cray-zkat7664 I'm so sorry for not responding your comment sooner, your response was lost among my notifications, I'm sorry
If it's still relevant, I think you should talk to your parents, and make them listen to you, depending on how strict they are, you should phrase it around the basis of how mature and responsible you are, and what you are willing to make, to not neglect your responsibilities, you need to show maturity
Now, as for your crush, I was on your exact same spot of doubt, and I and the fact that it worked out for me and my gf, doesn't garantes anything for you, unfortunately...
However, I still think you should talk about your feelings with your crush, again, talk maturely, be responsible, clear, talk about what you find great about this person, be willing to listen to what they say, without taking it too personal, and above anything else, don't expect anything good or bad
I know the fear of losing that friendship is paralyzing, but I have learned that, if they are mature, and their response a negative, they'll aknowledge your feelings and even if it's awkward for a while, they'll be there for you after the dust it's settled and you'll feel better
@@alejandroreyes8878 thanks! Also it's okay that you answered a while later. The thing is, idk how I'm going to handle this stuff yet because I've never been in a relationship before or been asked out (except for one person who... Was a terrible option). I think for now I'm going to wait a bit just to see what happens, and if I do confess... I'm probably going to give them a note at the end of the day telling them and saying to text me if they want to talk about it. Thanks for the advice!
This came at absolutely the perfect time, I want to ask my crush out to homecoming next week and this is giving me the plan and confidence that I needed!
Edit: SHE SAID YES!
hey man go for it!! its very scary, but no matter the outcome, its good in some way. i finally did it a couple months ago, and it didnt turn out as i hoped, but realizing that i had that confidence in me was a huge step in my life. so go for it! best of luck!
Thats awesome, good job
I JUST SAW THE EDIT THATS GREAT MAN!!! HAPPY FOR YOU
My school's homecoming dance is this Saturday, I still haven't talked to them, but I will this week with the help of a friend, so wish me luck! 🙏❤
gg:)
1. Ask them to a particular event
2. Compliment them first
3. Get to know them better or befriend them first
4. Give them hints you like them first with flirting
5. Talk about something you both have in common and then tell them you want to continue the conversation somewhere
6. Ask them out when they're alone in person
7. Find your courage and stay true to your initial feelings
Thx, the video isnt loading to me for some reason
8. She/He says yes
9. Release it was just a dream
8. If rejected, engage in a relationship with Pico instead, got it
@@georgeb5262 10. Do a funny depresso
I guess someone looking for advice on how to ask someone to go on a date, will probably also have problem with all the other advices here xD
I've become great friends with my crush and gave her hints. I hope to ask her out sometime during these next couple of weeks. This video really helped me a lot.
Update: She rejected me. :(
You’re already friendzoned bro. You took too long to make a move. You got to ask the girl out like within the first time of meeting her, maybe the second or third time if you know you’ll see her again.
You got it bro 💪
@@crl122486 That doesn't work on all girls tho, some girls like building a strong connection through friendship before trying to date someone. Other times they might see you as a friend first but then slowly catch feelings so confessing too early isn't always a good idea
@@weirdwen_ but it works for MOST girls. Besides, you weed them out right away too so you dont waste time. You’d be surprised
@@crl122486 nah bruh
As an introvert having a crush on an extrovert is scary.
Every year around Halloween time, the thought of whatever girl im into at the moment going to a halloween party dressed like a sexy devil or some shit makes my stomach turn. Mainly because in high school, this girl i was talking to went to a party, got drunk and started hoeing around. My friends all roasted me for falling for a hoe who "sucked maad dicks at that party"... she had a bf but was still trynna hang out and drink w me late nights after work, so i always knew she had hoe tendancies (even tho i never hooked up w her behind her BFs back like she wanted to... i wanted her to be my girl)... so i just stopped talking to her after that and now im over party chicks. Got enough trust issues as is, a chick who is super social and goes out a lot is a lot for me to handle, i like a chill chick.
100% agreed man!
That too, the fact were both the same gender is even more intimidating 😢
And they are a different religion 😭💀
@@Lil_Tan790 so update??? did it work out??
@@The_electrohashira SHE LIKES ME BACK BRO!
@@Lil_Tan790 omggg congratsddd. Can you tell me the "Love Story" (only if you want)
I am so happy I have an understanding that I had a crush, asked them after being friends for about 2 years, asked them out on dates and got a yes from them. And I asked her while she was in a group of friends. Her friends all know me too and really asked me when I was going to ask her... Now 6 years on, We are both engaged to each other, advice for anybody. Ladies and girls are only human too. Just be yourself and just have fun with each other. I always somehow make her laugh and she loves it. When she needs help, I will go help her. It really is a 60/40 give/take relationship. While both trying to be the 60 of it.
Congrats dude!
At one point, I regretted not asking one of my crushes, especially when I had the chance and they were alone. Hopefully one day if there’s someone I like, I’ll not miss another chance.
When it comes to that it's just "now or never" coz u already have the chance and if you slipped that away, you won't get another, it may seems like, but as time goes by it'll harder for you...
@@glitzygirl2412 Same with me.
But what can I do now?
It occurred to me that videos like this may be more geared towards a younger audience, but I still feel like I have a lot to learn. For most of my life I have suppressed and denied my emotions for fear of rejection and I am only now realizing the effect and disfunction I've created for myself. These videos mean a lot to me because it helps me realize what changes in direction I may need in order to help myself.
Not really, they do a good job at directing to multiple audiences. Some of it you can tell it’s what teenagers go through, and other parts of the segment have a clear direction towards adults
@@SuccessfulMentality94 what?
This is too cute, I really like how dynamic yet soft the animation is
I have a question that I REALLY need an answer to:
How do you get over a built up obsession over someone else, whom you will most likely never be with. I'm talking about a chronic obsession, one that is starting to affect daily life, health, etc.
This is especially pertaining to people who require a very strong bond with the person of interest before wanting to have them as a romantic partner, such as a longtime friend. The reason why it's so difficult to let go is because you've known them so long, it's difficult to recreate the same type of bond with someone new.
i think i know how to help, for me i found myself highly fascinated over someone who became my best friend. apparently this person was just “that great” that i started having dreams about them (nothing weird, just us two vibing and having fun) and i was honestly annoyed with the amount of time i dreamt about this person and got it confused with a crush but every time i imagined myself and them in ANY romantic situation just made me internally cringe. the best advice i have is to make space from them, for me it took two years for me to stop dreaming about them or to stop thinking about them constantly, so:
- make some space
- find something else to fill that space
- take some time to do things that you enjoy (drawing, playing a game with other friends, cooking)
for me i eventually lost contact with them (just because we stopped being interested in the same things so conversation was difficult to keep up), im not sure if this helps, but just remember to find something else to fill the space otherwise you’ll go straight back to them :)
(also i should mention that this person and i used to ft every day, every night and just chat about how our day went or we would just listen to music and laugh, so we were VERY close but like i said before we lost contact due to not really having anything to talk about to one another)
@ٴ what do you mean by “reverse the roles”? Do you mean like, put yourself in their shoes?
Have you confessed? I think confessing and letting all those feelings out can help. That way if you get rejected you'll know for sure that they don't feel the same and wont hold on to false hopes. Then maybe it might make it easier to slowly distance yourself, both for your own good and for theirs. Try focusing on yourself and the things you enjoy, keeping yourself busy, staying productive can help keep your mind off that person. Just know it'll take time but you can do it
@@weirdwen_ I did a while ago, it’s pretty clear she didn’t feel the same.
@@Electirc yeah if they've made it clear the best thing to do is just accept it, and do your best to move on with your life. You kind of have to swallow your pride but over time if you just fill your mind up with other things gradually those obsessions will begin to diminish. And someone else will come along eventually, patience is super important. It's a skill I need to work on as well
I recently started questioning my feelings for a new classmate of mine. I kinda like him, but if someone asked me why I wouldn't really have an answer to that. When I first met him, his whole vibe made me uneasy actually, he acted like a gentleman but he also acted indifferent and uncaring. Idk how to accurately explain it, but how he was acting seemed like just a front. But the more I talked to him and joked with him, the more interested I became. Idk, I'm mostly doubting myself because I've never confessed my feelings before, so this is all new to me.
Same. I’ve liked him for 6 months but now I don’t know anymore. He looks nice but sometimes he acts a bit like a jerk. Maybe that’s just because he’s around other people so he tries to keep the tough guy title or something. Now I have another and he’s much nicer, like to everyone.
I just asked my crush out. It was hard getting over that nervousness but it's better to have a yes (she said take things slow but yes :D ) or a no as opposed to that nagging sensation of never asking, that thing will eat you alive.
Thank you for the instructions :D
I have a history with being too quick to confess, and although I've been pacing myself to do so slower and slower I still feel like I muster up that courage to ask too quickly. So thanks for the advice, I appreciate it 💜
Wow you have a lot of courage, that's awesome! It took me years to get the courage to confess so I guess I'm the opposite since I take too long
@@weirdwen_ yeah same here
Being too quick to confess is a red flag. Once, a guy confess to me & asked me out, I'm shocked so I rejected him quickly though I don't want to do it, honestly I like him also. But having no signs first that he likes me gave me so much pressure & shock when he first confess, so it's like I'm stuck, and just rejected him coz I'm a little bit nervous
@@glitzygirl2412 Did you try letting him know that? Like talking to him and explaining why you feel the way you do?
@@weirdwen_ nope, I'm waiting for him again to reach me, but he didn't bother me anymore, I feel so weak & sad for days, I kept thinking about him. But I'm over it now. And if he comes back I think I'll give him a chance.
This episode was funny and super cute x3 Even if now not useful for me, maybe it can be in the future. Anyway I admire the humor of the animator who made this :D The text as well and Amanda's voice fits here perfectly as always x3
I could’ve use this today… I asked him to go to homecoming with me, and he said no
She said no. But don’t let the deaf of rejection stop you. I was scared of rejection but I still asked her out and I’m proud of that. I know it’s really hard to build the courage to ask someone out but it’s totally worth it. You probably end up crying and go out for a run at 1 am but you’ll feel much better (maybe she wasn’t the one meant to be, you’ll find someone else) and the ones who aren’t sure if you should ask ur crush out just go for it n all the best ❤❤ and the ones who got rejected WE GO JIMMMM 💪🏼💪🏼
I find these videos really helpful and i usually watch them a few times to help retain the information. My teen years were full of many mistakes that I don’t want to repeat. Sure it was full of a lot of heartbreak because I didn’t succeed once(or at all to this day), but I’m not gonna let that get me down. I’ve just gotta keep being me and I’ll find that special someone. Others who share my situation, please don’t be discouraged. I always hated hearing the cliche advice, but it’s cliche for a reason, it’s the truth. You have to learn to move past mistakes and heartbreak and embrace it as a part of your growth/journey.
I’m just going to say never be worried about being put in the friend zone. You may not go out with them but at least you still have a good friend. Their are plenty more people out there.
Me who only had one crush in my life: I don’t know what this, who you are, all I know is that I like you, in a different way.
Why is this unlisted?
Update: They finally made it public
I don't know, it's been 3 months
@@__Someone__ Bc they made it public 7h ago, it was unlisted when we commented
Got my crush after 3 years/3 dates. It took her consulting with her family to get to this stage but we've been together for the past 5 years so it worked. It probably helps that her dog absolutely loves me.
Next video after this, how to overcome your own self and its tongue twisting to actually ask the person out. Even though I'd known my gf prior to asking her out on the second date, I still got into this state. (First date was through our mutual friend, who was my roommate at the time, having the three of us see Guardians of the Galaxy as the first date.)
This is a really good animation, it was very pleasing to the eyes 👀
i have returned to this video to say that it worked. i am very happy :)
I have an enormous crush on this girl I met at the gym. We met this January and to this day in October I still haven't found the balls to ask her out. We share the occasional chit chat and small talk, but nothing more. I'm dying to ask her out lately, but I don't see her regularly, don't know how to talk about something more interesting since we're there to workout of course, and also it's kinda hard to find a good moment when we can be alone a bit to ask her out without making it awkward in front of other people. But I have to try. Last time we spoke she told me some things that made me like her even more
Damn, bro. You'll have to just do it
@@ahmadumeta4 you come at the right time my friend. i asked her out a week ago. she obviously said no XD
but i'm really glad i did it. before asking her i was obsessing over her, always thinking "i have to do it, i have to do it". now it's like i lost a heavy burden. i'm still a bit salty because i was very interested in her, but i don't obsess over this story anymore
The crumbling of my looks and finances helps the outcome of these encounters immeasurably.
Success! Was not expecting her to confess first but I asked her out immediately after she confessed to me. Gave me so many hints and I was kind clueless...
When you ask them out, the answer won't always be "yes" or "no". Lots of people are afraid of saying "no" because they fear it may offend or hurt your feelings, so they'll dance around the question instead of giving you a clear answer.
And their positive answer needs to be clearly assertive because even a "yes" can be a "no" if they are sounding like they're scared of you. If they're scared they may be saying "yes" just to calm you down, but they won't show up at the date.
The solution for this? Simply ignore anything that isn't a straightforward AND confident "yes." Otherwise, you should discard the date immediately and respectfully tell them "thanks, but forget what I said" and move on. Don't waste time with people who seems to be afraid of you.
This animation is too cute ❤
All i can say to this channel is
"You made my day π°π"
You have a nice animation style :)
Hoooowwww????
Been a year and finally had the confidence to talk to her, and for a week straight we talked and I got to know her more and just found out she has a boyfriend. I don't know what to do.
Do what you did, but in reverse: progressively talking to her less
Is it weird that I admitted my feelings but never asked to go out, got rejected, yet felt relieved?
OMG I DO THE LOOK AND LOOM AWAY SO MUCH😭😭😭 I JUST CANT HELP BUT SMILEEEEE AND LOOKKKK
woah PSI! you are a lifesaver
It's all true, I will go out with anyone who compliments me :3
That's hard to believe, especially since most of them men who compliment often are doing that to compensate for being less desirable.
that is more of a bad than a good thing..
@@wiseguy240Winston That's true, if a man compliments me I know there is an ulterior motive to look out for!
@@Gokaruto It's okay, I don't get complimented that often so I generally have to rely on, getting to know the person, understanding and comparing core values and overall their moral compass to determine if I will go out with them.
Well isn’t this the perfect sign and timing.
:o I love that you used CAVETOWN as the band!
LMFAO I brought a crush to a Cavetown concert not too long ago! 😂
Just don’t wait too long or you’re gonna be in the friendzone and then it’s an uphill battle that’s not worth it. Don’t go the friendship, then relationship route because when you break up, you lose a valuable friend too. Ask them out within a week or two and reject the friendship consolation prize.
Uh why would you reject the friendship consolation prize? That's literally the 2nd best option. Even if a potential partner is out of the question, you can still gain a valuable friend. Unless of course you're too down on your feelings to consider that choice.
Backflip towards them confidently
some times i'm grateful i live in brazil and we don't have to make it cristal clear that it's a date, you just hope they got it, it's more "natural"
Tysm for the advice! I’ve never been able to build up the courage to confess tho
It takes a lot of courage, like a lot. You'll overthink first about the rejection, but I tell you, if she reject you once, ask her again after some time....
@@glitzygirl2412 Ty!
@@swellestgaming2340 no prob! :)
I love how they used FnF Bf and Gf to show the tips and it kinda works too
pov:they have a freaking partner
I’m the words of a very wise Jedi master: Don’t try it.
this video’s visuals are hilarious
Loved the sarv cameo!
I love the FNF references being so subtle yet so obvious, I love this channel
Are u stalking me, everytime im thinking of something you make a video about it
They deserve someone better
Greet video, nice as always, keep it up!
i just see him at school. it's been a month. but i find him attractive and he seems like a really nice person. i wanna know him. so i decided to ask him out.
I had a crush, but I hardly knew her and she probably didn't know I existed. One day I just went and tried to confess, which.... failed, horribly.
Look for someone else then.
You may not always get what you want. Sometimes, you may get something that's even better 🙂
I will totally use it when I crush on a girl, since I finally made girls a priority of mine's since I'm also making some friends and connections.
the game references make my brain go brrr
SHUT UP I LOVE CAVETOWN
I've had a few people ask me why I smile at them then immediately look away when they look at me, and all I tell them is that it's just my Tourette's. I mean, they're still confused about it, but I'm not lying to them lol
I love the fnf references!! Honestly this artist is the best, all of their animations are amazing
I'm gonna definitely do what was listed.
dude i love the animations lol
I told her that I have a crush on her at Central York Middle School on the last day of school party outside
Great video!
I love these animations
My crush is that person who I don’t get to talk to much…he’s very kind, but he’s in a different class most of the time and I only get to see him during music class 💀
I agree with the ask your crush out in person and when they're alone its worked on the few girls in my life I have dated except for my ex I did things a little differently I asked her out through Facebook at the time and then redid the asking out in person when I finally got to see her after learning her and I's schedules would link up at work and she gave me a yes so I think it was successful
I blush just being around him , i cant even make a sentence without my whole face becoming a tomato
I love how many times they said "dont stare"
I’ve taken this as a sign🧘♀️
That thumbnail is genius
Thanks for this video existing
Fucking hate this video, I tried this on my 5 year old sister and she ran and told my mom. We were playing house so I don’t understand what went wrong. ( I’m 55 and she’s 10)
Same bro!
💀
4:02 LOL That conversation isn't the best of a non-creepy way of asking someone out. Other than that, great advice and video!
This video was awesome but that little "we believe in you" at the end was everything. Thanks Psych2Go :D
The day I was going ask my crush out, one of my mates got with her. And every day she told me how much she likes him, to me... When I liked her... Pain...😭
YOU COULD HAVE POSTED THIS YESTERDAY BEFORE I CONFESSED MY FEELINGS TO MY BEST FRIEND-
what happened??
@@Ol_Ds we're still friends
I used to think I was kinda bad at flirting because people would react awkwardly to it, but perhaps it just meant I'm alright at flirting but those people just weren't interested. The alternative to thinking about this stuff and growing is not thinking about it and wasting my time, so thanks for the vid.
Hh
hey psych2go! i really enjoyed this, i'm thinking for your next video, can you do a video about video addiction and how to deal with tilting in video games, because i suffer from it a lot and i'm not very proud to say so :(
I love how you used the FNF characters to make your points 😂 Great vid!
Just forget about it, focus on your life goals and achieve something in life. My advice😂
@@FireRams_arisinglion yeah boi😂
Agree!
why not both?
Papyrus doesn’t need these tips he’s already too great
Ngl, these videos always make me giggle. The animations are just so goofy sometimes.
For those of you who wonder why there are comments from months ago on this vid which was published today: *this video already existed months ago although it was unlisted, they just made it public today*
It’s called a crush for a reason, you’ll be crushed.
I love the reference to Cavetown!
Okay. I’m gonna try this.
🤜🤛
The ending tho
Lol I love the panocio reference in the thumbnail 😂
My crush left to Hawaii for a week, and on the day she was getting back, I left to travel across my state to see family. I’ve missed her, and stumbled upon one of these videos, and realized I have feelings for her. I’m currently debating between telling her soon after I go back home, or waiting until a dance in January. I’m luckily alone with her most weekdays, so going for the sooner time could work. When I get the courage, or just have the ever so powerful 3 AM motivation, I might just text her about it, go to sleep and hope for the best. It could work, but that’s just a theory.
Don't ask them out at the 3am pls. In person would be best, and it can be to go do something casual just the two of you
@@alexandred.4248 Yes, I’ve learned my lesson
I don't know if anyone is going to read this but I don't really care.
If I could give you one tip, it would be this one:
I know it sounds stupid and too obvious, but you just have to talk with them. You can send them also a message if you want.
If you don't talk to them, nothing will happen.
I asked my crush, and now we're together since 4 months!
Hope I helped someone with this little text :D
POV: you’ve been talking to your crush for 2.5 years but haven’t asked them out bc they most likely don’t like you
@@CipherionYT well, that's interesting. I would ask them tho
I just got rejected and im still kinda sad but watching this video make me wonder why am i so sad.Btw love your video!!!
One of my favorite crush stories: there was a girl at work I thought was cute. She was kinda quiet, never said much, until one day she adopted a dog and just came to life. Showed lots of pics, smiled with her eyes. I thought it was so charming and endearing. One day later on, she popped up on a dating app - so I shot my shot cause I had her number. She turned me down, said she was flattered but that she didn't want to mix up personal and professional life, which didn't bother me. I thought she was just being nice, but our dynamic changed later on. She started being much nicer to me, smiling and being flirty without being so flirty I got the wrong idea. She was a really classy girl and really knew how to make a guy feel good, kinda like: "if circumstances were different, I'd be all over that idea cause you're pretty cute" 😊
I'm just debating on giving them a note
Ha this hit me real bad at the end. It’s just so hard to move on sometimes tho. Yah I’m still hanging in with this.
Gonna ask tommorow, wish me luck
I don't know if I should be proud or disappointed that I recognised all the references
I have the amount of courage to ask him out, I'm just nervous about the reaction, what i would say and people around us. I've never dated before, so it's new, and yes i am friend's with my crush, I think we like each other... ❤❤❤❤❤ AFTON IF YOU ARE READING THIS I LOVE YOU MAN!!! YOUR THE BEST GUY I'VE EVER MET IN MY LIFE!!! 😊😊😊
Got my crush’s number, gotta work up the courage to do ask them if they want to meet up for coffee sometime. To add to obvious shyness I’ve got social anxiety, adhd, and generally don’t do well in most social settings. However I do find it fairly easy to talk to her. Hope it works out between us.
Edit: got rejected and I’m dealing with it via gaming sessions and lots of music
My problem is that my crush has a girlfriend. I am not afraid to ask him out. How do I deal with this situation? My mental health is going south and it's awful 😞