Jada Edwards: Overcoming Heartbreak and Betrayal | FULL EPISODE | Better Together TV

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  • This week on Better Together, Laurie Crouch, Christine Caine, Jada Edwards, Jamie Ivey, and Janice Gaines discuss how to overcome heartbreak and betrayal. Listen as they discuss how to find the courage to love again.
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  • @BetterTogetherTV
    @BetterTogetherTV  3 роки тому +7

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  • @Webbgurl2000
    @Webbgurl2000 3 роки тому +91

    Boundaries. Forgiveness isn’t worth anything without strong boundaries. We are not meant to be half way houses for other people’s dysfunctional behaviors.

  • @kimspencer7677
    @kimspencer7677 Рік тому +2

    Every time someone hurts me I make a beeline to the Lord. I try not to run to anybody else till I hear from him. I found that it's a safeguard against slandering & gossiping. Learning to hear HIS voice in the small things & obeying is the key to intimacy with Jesus...
    Ps. 15:4b...who keeps an oath even when it hurts, and does not change his mind! It doesn't mean that I don't hurt...embrace the pain temporarily & obey...BECAUSE HE IS SO IN LOVE WITH US!

  • @tenacious1
    @tenacious1 2 роки тому +5

    Jada's testimony took forgiveness to a whole nother level for me!

  • @marjorymsuku9312
    @marjorymsuku9312 3 роки тому +29

    Forgive and release, or forgive and continue the relationship.
    The only pool we have from which to build relationships is a pool of broken people, that are still being perfected.
    I hurt my friends too...

  • @ChooseJoywithTisa
    @ChooseJoywithTisa 3 роки тому +39

    Thank you for this full episode. The enemy loves to attack relationships. We are rarely hurt or distracted by the actions of those we aren't in relationship with. I pray that we always honor one another as precious and chosen 💙

  • @awoniyioluwatosin1334
    @awoniyioluwatosin1334 3 роки тому +35

    Thanks for being real Ladies. I cried while watching. Forgiveness and accepting people after they have betrayed and hurt you can be hard.😔
    God help me.

    • @mariemarie1618
      @mariemarie1618 3 роки тому +4

      Yes, I'm struggling at this moment in my life. However, depending on the situation you have to know when it's time to leave some folk behind.

  • @OG_Genesis216
    @OG_Genesis216 3 роки тому +7

    This was such a good discussion. The ladies talked about "first betrayals and heartbreaks from family; forgiveness and emotionally re-engagement", and the ending prayer that states "not to be a self protector of our hearts to but give it to you (God)".
    This discussion was needed because true forgiveness is not always easy, but it is necessary. The devil will try to trick our minds with thinking that some friendships or relationships need to be ended because of misunderstandings, but God knows all, and if he can place it in our hearts to hear the other person's perspective, he can mend misunderstandings and allow us to see deeper than the surface. He'll give us discernment on if the person is genuine in their remorse or not and allow us to proceed from there. My prayer is to learn Godly forgiveness. Sit still when he says and move when he says. Amen 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @mariemuhammad7983
    @mariemuhammad7983 4 місяці тому +1

    Some things are human brokenness not betrayal. This is a person that just made a mistake. 💜💜

  • @nadinewise4744
    @nadinewise4744 3 роки тому +7

    Jada is so on point... very difficult to afford vulnerability after hurt. Even with forgiveness...

  • @annamc8228
    @annamc8228 2 роки тому +5

    I appreciate when there's honest conversations in Christian circles. Thank you, Christine and Jada

  • @nnnnnnnnnataliem
    @nnnnnnnnnataliem 3 роки тому +11

    I was kinda digging my hardened heart and not "letting" people hurt me again, but dang I know the holy spirit is talking to me through this and I want to follow Him 🕊️💕 Thanks ladies ☺️

  • @HappyBubblegum
    @HappyBubblegum 3 роки тому +14

    Jada Edwards shared some amazing nuggets here. Thank you so much.

  • @mariemuhammad7983
    @mariemuhammad7983 4 місяці тому +2

    I want to be an imitator of God and I can love again and step back into a relationship even when I’ve been hurt. 🔥🔥🔥

  • @litastar2455
    @litastar2455 3 роки тому +11

    I needed this thank you! i have experience lost of a loved one . friends who have left, and i stopped being vulnerable , i couldn't trust anyone . but hearing this has given me a NEW perspective, you can't look for God in people , thank you

  • @kimberlysnell2822
    @kimberlysnell2822 2 роки тому +1

    We can't control what happens to us, but we can choose how we respond.

  • @shristi5500
    @shristi5500 3 роки тому +16

    In this season of my life, I'm going through these things in my family, and it has caused me depression...
    Few days back, I was thinking, how could Jesus love and be good to the people around him, when in the fact no one was loyal to him, especially Peter who denied him and judas who betrayed him... But anyways Jesus loved them...
    So, in this process of figuring out how can I...
    This conversation has been a blessing... Thank you to each one of u... Specially Christine Cain...

    • @ChooseJoywithTisa
      @ChooseJoywithTisa 3 роки тому +4

      Yes. Trust requires us to allow people, who we know are fallible, access to our heart. But God would have it no other way. We break His heart 💔 all the time.

    • @shristi5500
      @shristi5500 3 роки тому +3

      @@ChooseJoywithTisa yes, that's true.

  • @cathyimani5932
    @cathyimani5932 3 роки тому +9

    This was like a healing balm for me. Been healing, have come far, but still going. Thank you for sharing, encouraging.

  • @marymajola2386
    @marymajola2386 2 роки тому +1

    I have always been a halfway house for person's dysfunctionality. Through forgiveness I have been free. I have learnt to forgive in advance. When that person comes attacking again am not hurt. I find myself feeling pity for them that they're in bondage if only they could let go. Forgiveness is powerful.

  • @Dakatari
    @Dakatari 3 роки тому +2

    Glory To God. Great Word's of inspiration Christine Cane, Laura Crouch, Jada Edwards, Jamie Ivey and Janice Gaines

  • @touchpoint4christministries444
    @touchpoint4christministries444 3 роки тому +4

    This is like real life therapy amongst others women of God that have also too!!been hurt!! .Thank you God for creating this platform 👏🏾🙏🏾💜🥰Thank you to each and every one of these new women blessed❗️

  • @fredajohnson506
    @fredajohnson506 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you Lord for healing me from being hurt by others and also taught me how to love again

  • @erinlove1988
    @erinlove1988 3 роки тому +1

    Wow Christine!!! Everything you were saying about Judas and Peter, the Holy Spirit has literally been showing me. This is the first time I’ve watched this episode, and I’ve having this revelation for the past week or two (or so it seems). My mouth literally dropped when you said this! Literally word for word! LITERALLY WORD FOR WORD!!! God bless you!!! If Judas had repented, he, too like Peter would have been forgiven, too.

  • @Jugina-Rae
    @Jugina-Rae 4 місяці тому +1

    Very good watch.

  • @MichelleSears
    @MichelleSears 3 роки тому +5

    I love all of the messages that you all share. They always encourage me to keep going, to keep the faith, and keep chasing after God even in my most difficult situations.

  • @kinitokaibai6361
    @kinitokaibai6361 3 роки тому +6

    Thank you Chris for your honesty & transparency, that spoke to me & my situation.

  • @desilife6435
    @desilife6435 3 роки тому +9

    Thank you ladies this was really good advice. I grew up watching and experiencing a lot of abuse so forgiveness is hard for me. I’m quick to cut people out of my life. I make a real effort not to hurt other people so I take it hard when others hurt me. I often don’t express my feelings because I’m trying to keep from hurting others especially if it’s a relationship I care a lot about. When I keep my feelings inside like that and the other person keeps trying to say or do things to hurt me I eventually get to the point when I just stop caring about them or the relationship. I find that sometimes people think I am such a nice person that they feel like that they can say whatever they want to me without regard for my feelings.

    • @vrintige
      @vrintige 2 роки тому

      I feel like I struggle with exactly this. I’m walking through this right now, and it sucks.

  • @lisagoldsmith7435
    @lisagoldsmith7435 Рік тому

    Just like Jada that’s how I am with the people that hurt me and I didn’t realize that I was taking Him out as my protector. Thank you for showing me this.

  • @anneodongo6234
    @anneodongo6234 3 роки тому +22

    Amen... Im in this season of forgiving and moving on hopeful of love in the near future

  • @giosandoval5626
    @giosandoval5626 3 роки тому +6

    We need spanish subtitles! This is soooooo good!!

  • @ngahuruharawira4134
    @ngahuruharawira4134 3 роки тому +5

    Thank you all 😍God knows I needed this and the timing of this word for me is perfect🙏

  • @siphokazimazonda4405
    @siphokazimazonda4405 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you, thank you for this discussion and pearls of wisdom! This was God speaking to me. ❤️🇿🇦

  • @AbbyImani
    @AbbyImani 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much! My prayer has been answered! God bless you! I've stopped self-protecting, from this day forward, in Jesus' name! I cast myself on God and trust Him to heal me, in case I get hurt again. Indeed, He is near to the broken-hearted!

  • @StrongHer40
    @StrongHer40 3 роки тому +7

    So good. Jesus will always be my example in this life. Love Him and people. #discern #wisdom #LOVE

  • @vernaharris4700
    @vernaharris4700 3 роки тому +3

    This is real talk. Thanks ladies. I learned a lot. I also appreciate the prayer at the end.😊👍❤

  • @jmladygodsgrace2788
    @jmladygodsgrace2788 3 роки тому +5

    I so needed to hear this. Thank you for sharing.

  • @rainrein37
    @rainrein37 2 роки тому

    Came across to this and my perspective changed. Thank you, Lord for all the things you can do in our relationships the moment we lay them at Your feet. Thank you, wonderful ladies! So many life-changing takeaways.

  • @mariemuhammad7983
    @mariemuhammad7983 4 місяці тому

    It’s worth it to become vulnerable again. 💜💜 because we see what God can do. I want to be an example. ⚓️

  • @amandakate1247
    @amandakate1247 2 роки тому +2

    What someone does doesn’t define you 🎯💯

  • @kimikardashian1638
    @kimikardashian1638 3 роки тому +3

    Three years of separation from my fiance, Immediately we got engage July 13, 2019, we got separated, I couldn't really know what led to that, all effort trying to get my fiance back prove abortive, it was frustrating, until I met someone who help me out with the right counseling, today my fiance is back, we are living happily like never before.

  • @deborahw.215
    @deborahw.215 3 роки тому +2

    This is so good. It really allowed me to think of how I can over emotionalize friendship instead of spiritualize them. Think like Christ.

  • @mariemuhammad7983
    @mariemuhammad7983 4 місяці тому +1

    We must always get the Lords perspective and hear what the Lord has to say about the relationship. ⚓️🔑

  • @maryfrancis8169
    @maryfrancis8169 3 роки тому +4

    This is awesome!! I am learning a lot, thanks!!

  • @aishagreen5638
    @aishagreen5638 3 роки тому +2

    Great episode such wisdom, blessed me!

  • @howoriginal1986
    @howoriginal1986 3 роки тому +2

    This is so timely!

  • @fredajohnson506
    @fredajohnson506 2 роки тому

    This was a incredible topic talking about. I know me personally been hurt in different areas in my life by friendship, marriage, and relationships in all but I thank God he heal my heart so can learn.always have heart to forgive, and to be able to be in realationship with other people and a marriage also Thanks to all you beautiful woman of wisdom.

  • @brendalusheljackson7330
    @brendalusheljackson7330 2 роки тому +1

    This is so helpful and well needed! Thank you!

  • @jemmy924
    @jemmy924 3 роки тому +3

    This is awesome!💞 Thanks for sharing🙂

  • @tamaratarere
    @tamaratarere 3 роки тому +3

    I love this, so timely ❤

  • @BecomingBre
    @BecomingBre 3 роки тому +1

    Look at my First Lady!! Love Mrs. Jada Edwards 💕

  • @cookingwithchefgilliang5405
    @cookingwithchefgilliang5405 3 роки тому +2

    This was amazing thank you Ladies 🙏🏾👏🏾🙋🏾‍♀️🙌🏾💚

  • @simplyteratha
    @simplyteratha 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for this message. I really needed to hear this today.

  • @distinctivesolutions2593
    @distinctivesolutions2593 2 роки тому +1

    18:47- 19:35.... Guilty on all counts... I'm guilty of the clinical& academic approach to forgiveness. Thanks Jada& ladies for helping me realize that I need to allow Christ to work through this area of my life...😊

  • @keelhe893
    @keelhe893 3 роки тому +2

    This was so good!!

  • @Ladylew122
    @Ladylew122 3 роки тому +3

    Amen blessings to you all. Thanks 😊

  • @chinwesdiary9175
    @chinwesdiary9175 3 роки тому +2

    This is so powerful. i relate totally. ♥️

  • @Randi-e3w6y
    @Randi-e3w6y 3 роки тому +2

    That part Janice. Knowing and hearing from God that I will be hurt again but I'm going to have to risk it but the lord is near to the Broken hearted

  • @stanley-rosegumede6277
    @stanley-rosegumede6277 3 роки тому +1

    I spoke about this topic today with a colleague at work.

  • @reneela3471
    @reneela3471 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you that helped

  • @peshywill1william945
    @peshywill1william945 3 роки тому +4

    💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕thankyou for this

  • @roots4140
    @roots4140 2 роки тому +1

    So Good!

  • @donyeamathis7584
    @donyeamathis7584 3 роки тому +4

    Yes Christine 🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️

  • @kiaburnett3720
    @kiaburnett3720 3 роки тому +1

    This was very good

  • @kearstenw3855
    @kearstenw3855 3 роки тому +2

    Wow Jada is so perfect

  • @roselineasante614
    @roselineasante614 3 роки тому +2

    Great nuggets of truth

    • @ChooseJoywithTisa
      @ChooseJoywithTisa 3 роки тому +1

      Right! So good to hear women share wisdom so freely ☺️

  • @LovePatience32
    @LovePatience32 3 роки тому

    On repeat right now

  • @yvettejenkins1599
    @yvettejenkins1599 Рік тому +1

    Awesome

  • @jmladygodsgrace2788
    @jmladygodsgrace2788 3 роки тому

    Yes @ 18:45 - 19:50.... speaking to me!

  • @BC-zm4vc
    @BC-zm4vc 3 роки тому +4

    Jada looks stunning 😍

  • @tenacious1
    @tenacious1 2 роки тому +1

    Her mother is wise

  • @shantechavis2489
    @shantechavis2489 3 роки тому +2

    Welp, I wasnt going to watch this one... guess I was wrong, needed it. 😔😌

  • @sbongilemajola4128
    @sbongilemajola4128 3 роки тому

    Soooooo needed

  • @lovefelix1566
    @lovefelix1566 3 роки тому +1

    Janice Gaines: We have the propensity to wound others badly as well. We have to choose from a pool of wounded people who are healing... just like we are

  • @monics5526
    @monics5526 3 роки тому

    i love this.

  • @lovefelix1566
    @lovefelix1566 3 роки тому +3

    Thick skinned but tender-hearted (That describes me perfectly Chrsitine Caine)

  • @sharonsheis3939
    @sharonsheis3939 3 роки тому +2

    My husband betrayed me in the worst way !! Not only was he talking to others about me but he didn’t tell me I didn’t know that we had issues to that degree! I was so broken it almost cost me my life how do you move on from that? I filed for divorce, he didn’t protect me and he caused the issues it hurt so bad I couldn’t physical get up

    • @motheowalerato701
      @motheowalerato701 3 роки тому +2

      So sorry you had to go through all of that 🥺 Forgive and make peace with what happened 🙏

    • @NT-bz5nh
      @NT-bz5nh 3 роки тому +1

      I’m in a similar situation. Give it all up to god and he will heal your heart in his way. Give this betrayal to him and ask him to make something good out of it.

  • @cwiley9212
    @cwiley9212 3 роки тому +2

    love Jada

  • @normacandelaria7683
    @normacandelaria7683 3 роки тому +1

    I understand what you mean I allowed my family to hurt but God had a Word for me. and not what I wanted to hear . but, I did as I was told He said forgive because I forgave you and love her because I command you to. and it seems all the pain left

  • @scooterlovya
    @scooterlovya 3 роки тому +1

    FORGIVENESS Period

  • @mariemuhammad7983
    @mariemuhammad7983 4 місяці тому

    I want to be that wife, that mother, that friend, that person that continues to step back into love. 💜💜 because God has loved me so much and I can love others this same way. 💯⚓️

  • @patriciaharris2259
    @patriciaharris2259 3 роки тому +3

    Amen 🙏🏾

  • @kimjesus4829
    @kimjesus4829 3 роки тому +1

    Amen good

  • @kar3n35
    @kar3n35 3 роки тому

    I have some triggers i know i didnt have before and now i do. I was so trusting i was never jelouse, and now i find to feel posessive and untrusting. If i saw them texting someone or talking to people in social media i would imedietly think they cheating. Now i think all men cant wait to cheat.

  • @mariemuhammad7983
    @mariemuhammad7983 4 місяці тому

    I am often reminded of how much God has forgiven me. This is the secret to why I forgive so quickly and hold nothing against anyone else. I don’t want the Lord to hold anything against me.

  • @simply_nikisha
    @simply_nikisha Рік тому +1

    Amen

  • @chosen1874
    @chosen1874 3 роки тому +1

    How do you know if are to forgive and stay or forgive and move on thats what im struggle with..i left but question myself if i made the right decision..i feel guilty

  • @teribartusek2359
    @teribartusek2359 2 роки тому +1

    Good point, Judas' betrayal was part of God's will in the redemption plan!
    Our betrayals might be as well. And so in that truth, the moving forward can occur like picking a new apostle after that betrayal.

  • @babiryewinnifred2079
    @babiryewinnifred2079 2 роки тому

    "You are going to be hurt again "! That is scary. But of course the Lord is near the broken hearts. There is a wound which is a scar but because it is a scar, sometimes it brings the memory

  • @laqueenabrown9444
    @laqueenabrown9444 3 роки тому

    I uses to have trust issues I would conversat with you and be friendly about I never really trust anyone... but now my trust issues has went in to another level I don't conversation smile not friendly just walk by or you might get a hi from me..

  • @chichis7768
    @chichis7768 3 роки тому +1

    💕💕💕

  • @antoinetterodriquez
    @antoinetterodriquez 3 роки тому

    💛

  • @lolaalaniz9620
    @lolaalaniz9620 3 роки тому +1

    🌸💕🌸💕

  • @shaniekmontieth2402
    @shaniekmontieth2402 3 роки тому

    So true

  • @nebiyahannarobles-pmintl2104
    @nebiyahannarobles-pmintl2104 3 роки тому +1

    This is messing with me Pastor Jada~stop the self-protecting completely to God. Ohh Adonai, you have to help me with this!

  • @islandslimting1838
    @islandslimting1838 2 роки тому

    Judas could NOT have repented. The Lord said "he sought it carefully with tears." There was no way for him to "repent like Peter."

  • @allthingsjanee7192
    @allthingsjanee7192 5 місяців тому

    This really came right on time, I was in a small group this week and brought up this topic thanks for diving deep on the reality of this situation👌🏾🤍

  • @marywalley4757
    @marywalley4757 3 роки тому

    Amen

  • @LaToya_here
    @LaToya_here 3 роки тому

    Amen