unsafe people: 1) are concerned with the perception of "having it all together" 2) are religious instead of spiritual 3) apologize in lieu of repenting 4) demand trust v earning it
Wow! This is very eye-opening. I have been shutdown and judged so much in Bible study groups in church by people that appeared to have it all together. It was like my sharing made them uncomfortable and didn't want to hear it. I couldn't find help in my time of need even though by the grace of God I was helping so many. It's sad I can't find the support I need within the four walls of the church 😪
He asks why you would put up or be around someone who acts superior and is controlling, but what about people who are married to someone like that? They don’t have a choice.
Opposing religious and spiritual is so disappointing. Such a false dichotomy and leads people to rejecting the structure of religion for their spiritual life. I think he means something else but the words he is using leads to confusion about what religion is for and how spirituality works within it. It’s a both/and.
Jesus referred to religious people as hypocrites performing according to rules without having a relationship with God because they were hiding their truth. Religion gets in the way of relationship. God says religion is dead works while relationship bears good fruit of love.
"Religious people don't want to go to hell. spiritual people don't want to return to hell."
I'm so grateful to you and John for being there for us.
unsafe people: 1) are concerned with the perception of "having it all together" 2) are religious instead of spiritual 3) apologize in lieu of repenting 4) demand trust v earning it
Wow! This is very eye-opening. I have been shutdown and judged so much in Bible study groups in church by people that appeared to have it all together. It was like my sharing made them uncomfortable and didn't want to hear it. I couldn't find help in my time of need even though by the grace of God I was helping so many. It's sad I can't find the support I need within the four walls of the church 😪
Happens so often because some are in denial themselves
Wish someone had taught me this earlier in my life. My family and husband are toxic and the sources of my misery.
Did anyone else have it end before he got to question 4 at the end? There's no sound at like 18:20 mins
He asks why you would put up or be around someone who acts superior and is controlling, but what about people who are married to someone like that? They don’t have a choice.
Well the reason people let unsafe in is often desperation or incredible loneliness or maybe needing an advocate
Lost audio at same point as others..
Religious people say " you can only call me on Tuesday between 5vand u because I have friends to be with."
Thanks for sharing 👍
Religious people snap " I can't come to help you on your whim" and " I can't help you for two weeks because I have a a life"
Religious people say " nope can't help do er on yer own"
9:49 YES
Opposing religious and spiritual is so disappointing. Such a false dichotomy and leads people to rejecting the structure of religion for their spiritual life. I think he means something else but the words he is using leads to confusion about what religion is for and how spirituality works within it. It’s a both/and.
Jesus referred to religious people as hypocrites performing according to rules without having a relationship with God because they were hiding their truth. Religion gets in the way of relationship. God says religion is dead works while relationship bears good fruit of love.