There are SSSOOOO many black man that know how to treat their women and families, let’s not use slavery as an excuse for every mistake a black man does
Facts, whether they realize it or not they are justifying the behavior. We all know right from wrong, and we all were taught the golden rule as children, treat others the way you want to be treated. We must hold black men to task without excuses. Because the behavior will only continue especially if no consequences follow. I'm so sick of the struggle love rhetoric, if you know better you should do better.
True but I think there is something to be said about black families being broken up and most of them not having fathers around and not seeing healthy examples of marriage. That can and does have an affect on young black men.
@@LiLmSzDiVa to Adrienne's point though, as a Latina myself, it's not just Black fathers who don't show up. My father left us when I was 5 months and was not there for any of his 6 children (6 different women), except for 1. My point is, some men are just flawed and need to recognize that in order to make a change. I will not dismiss Loni's point, but I did not like how she shut Adrienne down because men of all races/creeds do this - the whole machismo thing in my culture is so outdated.
The only thing I disagreed with was when Loni told Adrienne that it wasn't across the board. The specific reason that she gave pertaining to Black men was correct, but men of other races and ethnicities have their own reasons as to why they cheat.
can we stop making EXCUSES for grown ass men. we stay treating 30/40/50/60 year old like they children! God gave us all sense and we allow men not to use it
i agree with you guys, but i think they just mean it's an even bigger deal when he's so high profile and he's making his family susceptible to hate. NOT THAT IT'S THEREFORE FINE; the candidness is appreciated and it's still not ok
I respect the Black Community and their history. Bur slavery is not an excuse for this behavior. Cheating is not something that is being pass down by genetics. This is about how a man chooses to carry himself. Adrienne was right, this is something that happens in every race. Let’s stop trying to make excuses for black men and using slavery. It was a very hard time for black people and they suffered a lot. Let’s have some respect for the survivors of slavery, please.
We should stop applauding people for "transparency" after messing up. There's nothing applaud-able about such, plus I believe they're making money from such documentaries too so it's not like it's an atonement.
@@obedbhiziki Telling the truth about something the world already heard about? Honestly, no one is perfect so I'm trying not to judge. I'm just saying there's no need for such applause.
I get what you’re saying, but it’s not like he needed the money. He’s not hard up so he didn’t have to come out with a documentary to tell his story and be honest with his fans. And not just honest but honest about Everything. He didn’t shy away from things that are already in the media. He didn’t make light of anything. He was absolutely transparent and to me that is worth applause. Some people still lie or don’t want to talk about anything during interviews even tho the story is out there.🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
If they’re not transparent about it and leave it to our imaginations we come up with our own conclusions about their life and that’s not right I’m glad he Is showing everyone real struggles that a lot of people have to go through and that cheating doesn’t stop just because you’re famous we need people to be transparent and I applaud anyone who has the strength to do so
I don’t like when loni shut down Adrienne , In the Hispanic community there’s a lot of machismo. Sorry but it’s also other ethnicities and cultures that are either going through the same thing or worse. I think Adrienne should be able to also talk about our problems in our community as Latinos and Hispanic
I love Loni but she was giving him a excuse. Just because you don’t wanna go back to where you was before doesn’t mean that you have room to go outside your marriage. You can be loyal and get this money and work hard without going outside of your marriage. Plus cheating is not just in black community or culture, that’s in all cultures like Adrienne said. Slavery doesn’t define cheating. Cheating is a selfish move. Slavery is a while different type of topic. It’s not just black men that cheat it’s all men, all men of different races.
Loni be looking at Amanda for approval every time she talks… Making things about Race just to be in Amanda‘s good graces it’s pathetic so glad she’s outa here so things can go back to normal
SOME men will only be loyal to their friends, if they truly don’t have a good relationship w their mom or the women in their lives. It doesn’t matter if their woman is pregnant on dialysis, the respect isn’t there and that means some trifling ass actions will follow 🤷🏾♀️
Amanda has really come into her own on this show -- at first she seemed a bit out of place but now she really vibes with the other Real hosts and contributes to non-political topics. Love the presence she brings to the show.
Loni was a little all over the place for me. Like I get where she was trying to go but them pit stops along the way I was like *insert nick young confused meme*
loni dont make excuses for him , he's an adult and knows right from wrong , black women are very loyal to their men and they never use their history as an excuse to cheat .
lonis dramatic eye roll 9:12 she tried so hard to justify cheating when there’s no way to justify it. she made it a race thing when adrienne and jeannie were right, it’s for every race and ethnicity background. not everyone has to go thru slavery to have a broken family. many children don’t grow up with fathers more than mothers, statistically it’s more of a male issue, not race issue.
I'm confused. Did Loni go too soft with Kevin Hart disrespecting (not just A woman but HIS woman), trying to cushion things for him, but then say she thinks with Harvey Weinstein it goes back to "I'm powerful, I can do whatever I want..."? Where was that with Kevin Hart? You didn't think maybe he felt powerful and could do whatever he wanted, too? He could have lost his integrity from all that "hard work" and power and felt he could just cheat no problem. Just trying to figure out her logic.
So when Amanda is QUIET 🤫 right away they want to give her a spot light so she can speak her mind but when Jeannie is quiet or they keep interrupting they give Zero care what so ever! LowKey Loni has always enjoyed seeing jeannie down, when Tamar was in the show how was jeannie treated and now it’s repeating its self!
Working hard is NOT AN EXCUSE. Kevin is worth MILLIONS and he works hard to stay making even more money. But, No one needs million of dollars in the bank. He could be happy saving the money he has now and living his life with his family. However, he is obsessed with fame and the money and power that comes with it. His short man complex and insecurity is making him act this way where he would never stop and he does not care what comes with it. Any smart respectable man would pick his family over money and once you start spiraling out of control you would leave that life. This is why people with A LOT of money have high suicide rates and depression because they loose everything for money and fame and it's not worth it.
Slavery isn’t the cause of why black men aren’t faithful to their woman. Democrat policies starting in the 60’s that were supposed to “help” the black community made things so much worse for them, and the community just keeps voting for those who make those policies.
If you can betray the person you "love" the person you are supposed to spend the rest of your life... Probably the only person who will be by your death bed. How can you be ture and genuine to anyone. Cheating makes you a trash person period.
I think everybody had a solid point, but Ms.Loni you know damn well race has nothing to do with cheating. Did our ancestors suffer and died through slavery? hell yea, but cheating NO. The problem with that comment is making it seem like black men can’t be faithful or treat their women right and that’s not good. Cheating is an all person thing.
There are SSSOOOO many black man that know how to treat their women and families, let’s not use slavery as an excuse for every mistake a black man does
Facts, whether they realize it or not they are justifying the behavior. We all know right from wrong, and we all were taught the golden rule as children, treat others the way you want to be treated. We must hold black men to task without excuses. Because the behavior will only continue especially if no consequences follow. I'm so sick of the struggle love rhetoric, if you know better you should do better.
True but I think there is something to be said about black families being broken up and most of them not having fathers around and not seeing healthy examples of marriage. That can and does have an affect on young black men.
@@LiLmSzDiVa to Adrienne's point though, as a Latina myself, it's not just Black fathers who don't show up. My father left us when I was 5 months and was not there for any of his 6 children (6 different women), except for 1.
My point is, some men are just flawed and need to recognize that in order to make a change. I will not dismiss Loni's point, but I did not like how she shut Adrienne down because men of all races/creeds do this - the whole machismo thing in my culture is so outdated.
Exactly !!!!
Kinda disagree with Loni, I don’t think it’s a specific thing for Black men. A lot of them are able to not cheat, you can’t generalise a whole race.
Right. That’s not a black men thing that’s an ALL men thing. Periodt.
Yes
She did not say all black men cheat. She is speaking from HER experience.
The only thing I disagreed with was when Loni told Adrienne that it wasn't across the board. The specific reason that she gave pertaining to Black men was correct, but men of other races and ethnicities have their own reasons as to why they cheat.
What does being faithful have to do with slavery its morals values faith respect
Say this louder for the people in the back, way up on the mountain tops....
can we stop making EXCUSES for grown ass men. we stay treating 30/40/50/60 year old like they children! God gave us all sense and we allow men not to use it
I knowww. I was so confused
@@lentskababe Omg, this comment. It smacked me right in the face. I might have to print and frame it!
Bro if they interrupt jeannie one more time 🙄🙄🙄🙄
Always. It seems like they hate when she gets applause, so they try to cut her off as soon as possible.
Dude. Pisses me off.
But she was talking a lot though and she took up the majority of the time...
A trueee “Man” makes sure their family is well taken care of both secure and emotionally.
I love the way Jeanie thinks. She’s so right!
There is no excuse for cheating.
STOP APPLAUDING PEOPLE FOR TRANSPARENCY AFTER CHEATING/ MESSING UP. PERIODT!!!
Nobody is perfect but it does take a lot to own up to your 💩. I’m just sayin.
Anastasia Lash I definitely agree with you sis.
i agree with you guys, but i think they just mean it's an even bigger deal when he's so high profile and he's making his family susceptible to hate. NOT THAT IT'S THEREFORE FINE; the candidness is appreciated and it's still not ok
Especially considering they’re getting some things out of this.
I respect the Black Community and their history. Bur slavery is not an excuse for this behavior. Cheating is not something that is being pass down by genetics. This is about how a man chooses to carry himself. Adrienne was right, this is something that happens in every race. Let’s stop trying to make excuses for black men and using slavery. It was a very hard time for black people and they suffered a lot. Let’s have some respect for the survivors of slavery, please.
We should stop applauding people for "transparency" after messing up. There's nothing applaud-able about such, plus I believe they're making money from such documentaries too so it's not like it's an atonement.
At least they’re telling the truth and not lying. I’d rather someone be transparent then be a hypocrite and lie to everyone
@@obedbhiziki Telling the truth about something the world already heard about? Honestly, no one is perfect so I'm trying not to judge. I'm just saying there's no need for such applause.
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I get what you’re saying, but it’s not like he needed the money. He’s not hard up so he didn’t have to come out with a documentary to tell his story and be honest with his fans. And not just honest but honest about Everything. He didn’t shy away from things that are already in the media. He didn’t make light of anything. He was absolutely transparent and to me that is worth applause. Some people still lie or don’t want to talk about anything during interviews even tho the story is out there.🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
If they’re not transparent about it and leave it to our imaginations we come up with our own conclusions about their life and that’s not right I’m glad he Is showing everyone real struggles that a lot of people have to go through and that cheating doesn’t stop just because you’re famous we need people to be transparent and I applaud anyone who has the strength to do so
I agree with what Amanda said tho, men will say “word is bond” “manhood is integrity” but don’t say it only applies to their bros 😩
LET JEANNIE TALK!!!!
I don’t like when loni shut down Adrienne , In the Hispanic community there’s a lot of machismo. Sorry but it’s also other ethnicities and cultures that are either going through the same thing or worse. I think Adrienne should be able to also talk about our problems in our community as Latinos and Hispanic
Well said!
I think this is a case of trying to impress Amanda going wrong 😬😬
I love Loni but she was giving him a excuse. Just because you don’t wanna go back to where you was before doesn’t mean that you have room to go outside your marriage. You can be loyal and get this money and work hard without going outside of your marriage. Plus cheating is not just in black community or culture, that’s in all cultures like Adrienne said. Slavery doesn’t define cheating. Cheating is a selfish move. Slavery is a while different type of topic. It’s not just black men that cheat it’s all men, all men of different races.
Loni be looking at Amanda for approval every time she talks… Making things about Race just to be in Amanda‘s good graces it’s pathetic so glad she’s outa here so things can go back to normal
Exactlyyy
10:46 my favorite part because i love when adrienne gets firey over issues he’s passionate about 🙂.
SAMEE
SOME men will only be loyal to their friends, if they truly don’t have a good relationship w their mom or the women in their lives. It doesn’t matter if their woman is pregnant on dialysis, the respect isn’t there and that means some trifling ass actions will follow 🤷🏾♀️
Amanda has really come into her own on this show -- at first she seemed a bit out of place but now she really vibes with the other Real hosts and contributes to non-political topics. Love the presence she brings to the show.
Tam has such a pure heart. Love her❤
Amanda I’m going to miss you on the show girl... but bigger and better things are on the way queen. You killed the BET awards ❤️
Thank you for finally adding the air date! 🙌🏻
Who knew it would take another DayTimeEmmy win for this to happen. 🤣
Loni was a little all over the place for me. Like I get where she was trying to go but them pit stops along the way I was like *insert nick young confused meme*
loni dont make excuses for him , he's an adult and knows right from wrong , black women are very loyal to their men and they never use their history as an excuse to cheat .
Why Loni making it a race thing like how did this become a race thing in the slightest y’all tooooooo extra smh 🤦🏻♀️
lonis dramatic eye roll 9:12
she tried so hard to justify cheating when there’s no way to justify it. she made it a race thing when adrienne and jeannie were right, it’s for every race and ethnicity background. not everyone has to go thru slavery to have a broken family. many children don’t grow up with fathers more than mothers, statistically it’s more of a male issue, not race issue.
Adrianne's sarcasm 😂😂😂 I can't
See how Tamera was confused when loni was talking... that was me
Let Jeannnniie talk damn!!!!
Tamera is so annoying always cutting Jeanie off
I'm confused. Did Loni go too soft with Kevin Hart disrespecting (not just A woman but HIS woman), trying to cushion things for him, but then say she thinks with Harvey Weinstein it goes back to "I'm powerful, I can do whatever I want..."? Where was that with Kevin Hart? You didn't think maybe he felt powerful and could do whatever he wanted, too? He could have lost his integrity from all that "hard work" and power and felt he could just cheat no problem. Just trying to figure out her logic.
YALL POSTED A RECENT FULL GIRL CHAT, HELL HAD OFFICIALLY FROZEN OVER LOL
It’s not that dramatic .. you can find full episodes on dailymotion, if you were truly dying over it you would have found it , lol
loni made no sense lol she wanted to sound deep nd it backfired ... theres no excuse to cheating .. dont include slavery to that bs
They keep reposting this same video 😭😒
So when Amanda is QUIET 🤫 right away they want to give her a spot light so she can speak her mind but when Jeannie is quiet or they keep interrupting they give Zero care what so ever! LowKey Loni has always enjoyed seeing jeannie down, when Tamar was in the show how was jeannie treated and now it’s repeating its self!
Working hard is NOT AN EXCUSE. Kevin is worth MILLIONS and he works hard to stay making even more money. But, No one needs million of dollars in the bank. He could be happy saving the money he has now and living his life with his family. However, he is obsessed with fame and the money and power that comes with it. His short man complex and insecurity is making him act this way where he would never stop and he does not care what comes with it. Any smart respectable man would pick his family over money and once you start spiraling out of control you would leave that life. This is why people with A LOT of money have high suicide rates and depression because they loose everything for money and fame and it's not worth it.
Men, no matter what race, can cheat, Loni.
What the hell was that comment? lol
Wow..that Kevin hart topic hit a nerve with tam😳
Slavery isn’t the cause of why black men aren’t faithful to their woman. Democrat policies starting in the 60’s that were supposed to “help” the black community made things so much worse for them, and the community just keeps voting for those who make those policies.
YESS THANK YOU!!!
Damn I forgot how loud y'all's show is
When will (us) black people stop blaming everything on slavery? Own your problems and deal with it.
If a woman cheated no one would say oh well she worked hard, no one excuses a woman for cheating so dont excuse men
Can Loni leave the show
Y’all did loni wrong with that thumbnail
I like that Amanda started to change up her hair style, that way aA & Tamera couldn’t copy
If you can betray the person you "love" the person you are supposed to spend the rest of your life... Probably the only person who will be by your death bed. How can you be ture and genuine to anyone. Cheating makes you a trash person period.
The REAL seems like a PR Agency for Kevin Hart. Good OR Bad they talk everything Kevin Hart...😂
Jeannie felt so out of the convo when Amanda was on lol. She could not handle being at the end haha
Why are they uploading clips they've already uploaded?
Gail A. They deleted all the short clips, just so they can post them as longer girl chat vault vids. They’re playing games
Ofentse Makonya They deleted a bunch of long videos as well. It’s so annoying.
Toxic masculinity is a sin!.
10:45 😂😂😂😂 Adrienne
Joe Budden is always saying something controversial.
I think everybody had a solid point, but Ms.Loni you know damn well race has nothing to do with cheating. Did our ancestors suffer and died through slavery? hell yea, but cheating NO. The problem with that comment is making it seem like black men can’t be faithful or treat their women right and that’s not good. Cheating is an all person thing.
I’m disappointed and sad that I have no faith in romance in life rn .
If a man cheated on me when pregnant and made that excuse i would be like see ya
No Loni 🤚 this was a bad time to bring up slavery. Integrity is cultivated.
LONI needs to be canceled !!!
What did she do?
Ohhh Loni… this is all men.. Adrienne is right..not a black thing
And yet Jada gets roasted while having a mutual separation from will!
Lmfao shady af posting this right now
Kids see thatb they don't want to get married.
Yo y'all talk to much over eachother
Hey guys I’m super early
I’m tired of Loni speaking on Black Men, as she’s with a White one. 🙄 You is biased. You is bitter. You is dismissed
A outfit 😍
REALLY???? TAMARA, CHEATING = SELFISH , DISHONEST NO CONFIDENT, LIARS ....... BUT THEY ARE NOT BAD PERSON HAHAHA YOU ARE NOT SO SMARTTTTT
Jeannie to Amanda: “you ain’t gonna find anything in there cuz it’s all up there”
Throwing subtle shade. Not feeling her.
Was looking for this comment! lol and I think Amanda caught it and made the “ protecting their ego “ comment at Jeanie! But maybe I’m reaching!! Lol
Loni speaking truth 🤭
Nope 👎
A trueee “Man” makes sure their family is well taken care of both secure and emotionally.