✨let's chat✨ advice to single moms, influencing has changed, breakups, out growing old habits + more

Поділитися
Вставка
  • Опубліковано 8 вер 2024
  • Hey friends, Had to make some time to sit down, do my makeup and chat with y'all about life lately! Just checking in to see how y'all are doing 💕
    insta ♡ @jaemajette
    / jaemajette
    twitter ♡ @jaemajette
    / jaemajette
    titkok ♡ @jaemajette
    tiktok.com/jae...
    camera i use ♡ sony zv-1
    how i edit ♡ final cut pro
    ♡ who is jae? ♡
    ☀ pisces ☀ | ☾ pisces ☾ | ↑ scorpio ↑
    from norfolk, virginia
    business email ♡ hello@jaemajette.com

КОМЕНТАРІ • 180

  • @reginalewis1150
    @reginalewis1150 4 місяці тому +54

    The single mom convo hit differently. I've been one my son's almost 15 years of life and he is kind, well adjusted, and got more passport stamps than most adults. I wish men would hold each other accountable like they try to hold us accountable. They love hollering about women being accountable, like we ain't holding it down SOLO.

  • @Esthee_and_arts
    @Esthee_and_arts 4 місяці тому +163

    Girl, I was just catching up on Arnell’s videos and thought about how y’all would make 💣 podcast hosts and have so many good, real, helpful, and inspiring girl chats, q&a’s, and even business/event gatherings/meet & greets. Literally could picture the whole thing out mentally- I pray that’s something that will come down the pipeline ☺️ anyway, i love to see & listen to you- now ima finish the video!

    • @loneebazemore1137
      @loneebazemore1137 4 місяці тому +3

      You know what they really would and give some boom content

    • @Shaiverse
      @Shaiverse 4 місяці тому +2

      THIS

    • @dominique5562
      @dominique5562 4 місяці тому +2

      I’d definitely tune in!

    • @Esthee_and_arts
      @Esthee_and_arts 4 місяці тому

      @@loneebazemore1137 Right!

    • @Esthee_and_arts
      @Esthee_and_arts 4 місяці тому

      @@dominique5562 🥹 I really hope it happens 🤞🏾

  • @veliciawilliams1018
    @veliciawilliams1018 4 місяці тому +47

    Such a profound statement Jaelah. Having a supportive community. That is where UA-cam started. It wasn’t selling and influencing. It was a group that related to your content. ❤. Continue to do what fills your cup Jaelah.🎉🎉🎉

  • @CourtinSessions
    @CourtinSessions 4 місяці тому +34

    👏🏾👏🏾
    I had to change my perspective on being a single mom. It’s what you make of it and best point was you don’t want to remain in a relationship that you are not happy in!!! Love you tribe ✨🌺

  • @melodya4833
    @melodya4833 4 місяці тому +5

    I’m picky too in fact someone mentioned to me how selective I am in friendships. It was said as if it was a character flaw or off putting however I think it’s the perfect way to be. No drama! Completely focused. Not everyone should experience your energy but when you find your people that embrace you organically they become your tribe forever

  • @shelbyspellman3046
    @shelbyspellman3046 4 місяці тому +30

    JAELAHHHH , every time I watch you , I realize why I’ve been here so long . You speak to where I’m at from mindsets on motherhood, seeking God over humanity and truly just wanting to be and connect . Never change ! You’re not strict , you’re intentional!

  • @MikalaLeinani
    @MikalaLeinani 4 місяці тому +37

    Say that single mom stuff again!!! Yess girl! Single moms chose peace over everything! We need to be in our best state of mind and in our peacefulness for our babies! Being raised by a single mother I find that we are the strongest out here! 💪🏽

  • @d.houston5278
    @d.houston5278 4 місяці тому +21

    I JUST became a single mom and I really needed to hear this. I think because of how society looks at single moms, when it don’t work even we believe the lies. I’m out here scared, but seeing women like you and Arnell make me feel like it can be lit.

  • @make_emfall_inlovee
    @make_emfall_inlovee 4 місяці тому +6

    You touched on sooooooooooo many elephants. Thank you for being real and relatable . Appreciate you , keep being great🫶🏾

  • @beuncamalone
    @beuncamalone 4 місяці тому +12

    love these chit chats 🤍 definitely my go to community for sure , as a “single parent “ . . i don’t even blame folks anymore 🤷🏽‍♀️ because if you’re not a parent you really don’t get it .
    I don’t be having nobody to talk to either , so i get it girlie

  • @A_afropuff_
    @A_afropuff_ 4 місяці тому +5

    I’m so glad you touched on the single mom thing. People be talking so much shii about us. When actually I be happy having a ball with my son.

  • @jasminewilliams2494
    @jasminewilliams2494 4 місяці тому +5

    There are people who appreciate you for being just who you are. You continuing to be AUTHENTIC in the midst of all this fake stuff will pay off in the end. The fact that you see and realize this separates you.

  • @ItzKarmanii
    @ItzKarmanii 3 місяці тому +1

    I’m going thru a horrible breakup currently and when you popped up I had to watch this I’ve been watching you from the VERY BEGINNING. I just want to say thank you!💯 after watching this among other videos you remind me I’m going to be fine me and my baby will be ok now I just have to figure everything out. A place to live, how to support myself etc.

  • @AuthenticallyJess
    @AuthenticallyJess 4 місяці тому +6

    It's so crazy hearing you talk about things I've been talking to God about just in that last few weeks! Being a single parent with a military spouse, staying grounded, choosing yourself, sexuality and how being with women brings out my traumatic masculinity?!! Girl you don't know how refreshing it is hearing from another woman dealing with the same sh!t

  • @JayWilli8888
    @JayWilli8888 4 місяці тому +4

    As someone who isn't a mom, the single mom discussions anger me so much. You are such an inspiration for all women and always speak the truth!

  • @_Tiffany_Michelle
    @_Tiffany_Michelle 4 місяці тому +11

    Jaelah talkin' her shit again and I'm always here for it! 👏🏾

  • @asiablackgrl6482
    @asiablackgrl6482 4 місяці тому +3

    Thank you for standing up for single moms! I was raised by one and we were never down bad! My momma is a boss! My dad was an anchor so I appreciate mom for taking care of business. Thanks for sharing your life with us, Jae 💕

  • @Ceceliiaatf
    @Ceceliiaatf 4 місяці тому +5

    I’m literally frying my eyes with the brightness all the way up curled up in the bed 😭🥰 loveeee you girl.
    I felt you on the not having someone to talk to 🥴!

  • @msashleynicole222
    @msashleynicole222 4 місяці тому +1

    This video reminded me why I love your channel. I have been watching you for years and learned so many little gems. Your appreciated ❤️

  • @1999savanna
    @1999savanna 4 місяці тому +2

    YOU ARE ALWAYS ON TIME 😅🫶🏾…. I was a wife and now I’m a baby mom, single mom, milf and you couldn’t have said it any better 😂. My daughter is TRULY A BLESSING. And because of her I’m 15x better 💁🏽‍♀️

  • @desandriapatton4070
    @desandriapatton4070 4 місяці тому +3

    JM you said a mouth full home girl.. our baby boys are a blessing.. but it’s person you had the baby with.. we do what we have to do.. & pray daily... but “it won’t always be like this”. Love you chick… have an awesome day..

  • @amandaparfait9468
    @amandaparfait9468 4 місяці тому +1

    Damn this whole video really spoke to me. Thank you sis for being so transparent. I pray for nothing but happiness, peace, & blessings for you & your son

  • @kevneelomax143
    @kevneelomax143 4 місяці тому +3

    I think the single mom debate comes from ppl cant fathom that 2 things can be true. Yes im single and yes im a mom but my life didn’t stop just because the relationship didn’t work after having our son

  • @VibrantPeace
    @VibrantPeace 4 місяці тому +2

    44:04 this !!! You’re not status driven you are purpose driving ❤ and this why I rocks with you !!!!!!!!

  • @amberskye290
    @amberskye290 4 місяці тому +13

    This really resonated. Choosing yourself is hard as hell. I’ve grown to be accustomed to unhealthy break ups where it was so catastrophic that there is no coming back, but one that you have to choose urself is soooo much harder. Forcing yourself to stand on business be having me sliding down the wall crying

  • @dmcd0nald
    @dmcd0nald 4 місяці тому +7

    just in time! my son just went down for a nap & my doordasher around the corner lol

  • @t.d.8829
    @t.d.8829 2 місяці тому

    ElLF eyelid primer works really well. I apply it all over my lid, wait a few seconds to let it dry down a bit, tap it in, and repeat at least once. Then I apply setting powder and pressed powder. You can leave it like that or apply eyeshadow.

  • @goddess10468
    @goddess10468 4 місяці тому +2

    The level of excitement I just felt🎉Friennnnn I was wondering about you this morning after watching Arnell❤ I love Y'all I swear I feel like the aunty watching my favorite nieces❤❤❤❤

  • @shamerafye5035
    @shamerafye5035 4 місяці тому +6

    I was so bored at work ! So happy that you posted a video ! ❤

    • @miraclecooke9728
      @miraclecooke9728 4 місяці тому +1

      rigggghhhtt...gone get me right on through my shift

  • @drisworld
    @drisworld 4 місяці тому +1

    I felt the building community part HEAVY! 😭 my whole channel/brand is based on being your true authentic self. Liikkeee, I’m not trying to sell anything, I just want to vibe w/ people and help people grow Fr 😭😭😭.
    Also, I loovveee this makeup look. Definitely inspired me to practice more! ☺️💞

  • @daishakeirre
    @daishakeirre 2 місяці тому

    I needed this video so much! Thank you for sharing your thoughts on single moms. Society def makes you feel like the bottom of the totem pole when you are one. This helped me change my perspective so much 🙌🙌🙌😩😩😩

  • @Amber.Jackson91
    @Amber.Jackson91 4 місяці тому +2

    Can you just give us another hair tutorial?! Thanks😂🤭🥰🥰 this style and your curls are so freaking pretty Jae!!!

  • @MikalaLeinani
    @MikalaLeinani 4 місяці тому +1

    Make up ATE! Conversation ON POINT! Everything resonates! 🤍🤍 sending you love and peace of mind goddess.

  • @SHEaintPlayn
    @SHEaintPlayn 4 місяці тому +1

    Girl I resonate with your eyebrow story!! I had mine waxed and burned so thin in 9th grade as well!! Got a bang cut too just to cover them shits up omg 😆

  • @clairissaimani
    @clairissaimani 4 місяці тому +9

    I never clicked a YT notification soo fast 🤸🏾‍♀️🤍

  • @nobodybutchass
    @nobodybutchass 4 місяці тому +1

    I’ve missed you!! I’ve been in and out of watching my fav UA-camrs, but your makeup came out chefs kiss😍 you’ve grown so much & ILYSM when I watch your videos it literally feels like I’m chit chatting with my online bestie! I suck at making friends especially now as a young adult but I consider a few content creators as besties and I’ve never met anyone in person! But I agree with every point made in this video!

  • @hiccup363
    @hiccup363 4 місяці тому +1

    firstly , I wanna thank you for putting me on to a bunch of new makeup products you love/ are really good bc i’m literally going to sephora tomorrow haha. And 2nd i’m from chesapeake so please let me know if you do another subscriber meet up🥰 I saw you once in person at Busch Gardens but didn’t get to speak ,would love the opportunity to give you a hug ❤ thanks for being authentic. you definitely inspire me to analyze my life & set intentions

  • @thecurebykalisa
    @thecurebykalisa 4 місяці тому +11

    Tajette Tuesday!!! ❤

  • @brandis.5867
    @brandis.5867 4 місяці тому +1

    Also. You look BEAUTIFUL 😍. You already flawless but this beat is… chefs kiss!

  • @itsmookiemook
    @itsmookiemook 4 місяці тому +1

    RIGHT ! "CUZZZ ima get the last drop" w my country a**** too! lol as you should!

  • @CieLocd
    @CieLocd 4 місяці тому +1

    Everything you said HAD TO BE SAID ! You spoke nothing but real

  • @marissamills7538
    @marissamills7538 4 місяці тому

    I had to rewatch this again & idk why I wanna hug you & dap you up at the same time 🤗. You speaking to my soul!!! Chillllllllleeee!!!

  • @uniqueajana
    @uniqueajana 4 місяці тому +2

    I swear you ALWAYS ON TIME 🩵😭

  • @reality1012009
    @reality1012009 4 місяці тому

    i love this and i love you for your authenticity! i been here since the losing virginity story time & i love your growth and im really glad you’re a spiritual baddie now cause it’s not a lot of us ❤❤

  • @iammarlishia5233
    @iammarlishia5233 4 місяці тому +2

    Hair looks so good Jaelah 😍

  • @PlanetButta
    @PlanetButta 4 місяці тому +2

    Girl I missed you so bad! Needed to comment before even watching. I hope all is well with you and Jax 🤍🤍🤍

  • @remifnky
    @remifnky 4 місяці тому +1

    i loooved this whole video. also j please give me the secret ingredients to this wash n go 🤧💓

  • @Iambuthayna
    @Iambuthayna 4 місяці тому

    Been rocking with you since 2017 and you’re always authentic and genuine and I agree with you 💯 on everything 🫶🏾

  • @shiannrucker5255
    @shiannrucker5255 4 місяці тому

    I appreciate whenever you post🩷 be needing your vibes

  • @emeraldkaysgarden
    @emeraldkaysgarden 4 місяці тому

    Thats wild...i am not active on social media (except youtube subscriptions)....but i am not shocked folks are increasingly crazy. This world is wild asf...protect yourselves mentally, physically and emotionally. We are in a spiritual war and the battle isnt for the flesh but the spirit. Love you Jaelah boo, been fw you since you were in the Airforce❤

  • @daarmonet
    @daarmonet 4 місяці тому +1

    hey jae i love your catch up/advice type videos they are so helpful and keep me so engaged ❤

  • @TameriahReed
    @TameriahReed 4 місяці тому

    Jae baby you did it again! 💜I craveee this type of content! U literally ate with every topic! Specifically the bm/single mother take! 🍽️🍽️🥹 like when i say i feel so seen! As another pisces u literally took the words out my mouth!! 😩💗 just wanted to give you your flowers ! I love you hun! 🥰

    • @TameriahReed
      @TameriahReed 4 місяці тому +1

      A little transparency… ive been having a hard time trying to balance motherhood and life, and specifically stepping into my perspective on content creation!! Speaking on this topic helped open my eyes to why i felt that way, social makes it hard for us to express ourselves! Rather it be good or bad! Definitely just helped me sets some new perspectives for myself… moving forward 🥹💜💜

  • @Some1sAuntie
    @Some1sAuntie 4 місяці тому +1

    I love these nuggets of wisdom you drop in your videos. It’s refreshing and I learn a thing or two in the process. #Some1sAuntie ❤️

  • @TiaJaNa
    @TiaJaNa 4 дні тому

    Ok but this hairstyle eats downnnnnnnnn baby 🫰 👏 😂😂 sorry I’m new here ❤

  • @user-gs7yr9mb3p
    @user-gs7yr9mb3p 4 місяці тому

    Us single moms are dope AF… we look good AF we smell good AF, we got our own business we get to the bag, and quite honestly I think everybody hattin on us, cause they could never do what we do on they best day. And another thing we not gone put up with our moms put up with, we not gone sit up and cry over no man we not gone put up with him not being loyal and we not gone put our kids through no BS, we are so at peace and that’s priceless.

  • @neeeshii
    @neeeshii 4 місяці тому

    I purchased the Ami Cole mascara & Estée Lauder foundation.. Now I need that contour stick. 😍

  • @tam06111
    @tam06111 4 місяці тому +1

    I'm so happy you are back!!!

  • @haveboldfaith
    @haveboldfaith 4 місяці тому

    You are simply gorgeous! The eyeliner accentuated your eyes beautifully. Really well done! Also, regarding the “cookie-cutter”, inauthentic sales-pitchy videos, I couldn’t agree more. I’m finding myself watching fewer & fewer because so many are just sounding like commercials anymore. 😔

  • @smithsmith107
    @smithsmith107 4 місяці тому +1

    Your hair so pretty

  • @CreTaylor
    @CreTaylor 4 місяці тому

    Girll this!!! Thank you! ❤ we needed this.

  • @collegecurlee
    @collegecurlee 4 місяці тому +1

    Bingooo. This has probably been the best retrograde I’ve had lol but seeing all the drama seems to have filled me with gratitude that things aren’t as bad as it may seem. Regarding the single mom discussion, I stopped engaging because people are so unwillingly to see your perspective and I refuse giving it energy. Us moms know the real deal and our kids do too!

  • @mialinguia
    @mialinguia 4 місяці тому

    This hairstyle is so cute.. can we get more hair videos?

  • @SwtnSourEzell
    @SwtnSourEzell 4 місяці тому

    I loved this chit chat!! N ima have to copy the way u do ya liner😜 I totally agree bout the single mom topic. FACTS

  • @emeraldkaysgarden
    @emeraldkaysgarden 4 місяці тому +1

    Hey boo i just saw your Savage Fenty bra ad. ❤❤❤

  • @FullyLovingYourself
    @FullyLovingYourself 4 місяці тому +1

    Your skin is glowing! ✨

  • @jakharimalik
    @jakharimalik 4 місяці тому

    💗 U ! So many GEMS and Authenticity

  • @Barb801
    @Barb801 4 місяці тому +2

    I genuinely enjoy this talks. And you’re so relatable it’s crazy.

  • @georshelemiata3910
    @georshelemiata3910 4 місяці тому

    I’m here for the more community feel!

  • @Aliaaa
    @Aliaaa 4 місяці тому

    why am I still cackling at the fork in the road part 😭 I need help. Okay. *continues video*

  • @niahnicole
    @niahnicole 4 місяці тому

    Baby, I've been here since we been using Vaseline in our hair, okay?!😂😂
    A major key that helped me with oil/shine is "priming" with powder after the primer. I got that hack from Jackie Aina yrs back and it's been HELLA effective!!

  • @giovannanicolas8299
    @giovannanicolas8299 4 місяці тому

    I agree with everything you said. ❤️❤️. You are the best. Keep doing what you are doing. Support from NYC.

  • @Mellioniare17
    @Mellioniare17 4 місяці тому

    It's the authenticity for me >>>>>

  • @courtneyemm8894
    @courtneyemm8894 4 місяці тому

    Good parents single or not are revolutionary for the next generation. if you don’t want to date a parent, don’t. But single parents are way makers ❤

  • @Allofalexis_
    @Allofalexis_ 4 місяці тому +1

    Hey!!!🥰 As a mua who's new to creating content it was so refreshing to hear you talk about the content creator role vs the influencer role! I am more so about creating the community like you said. I want to get a bag🤑 but only of its authentic. I just cant get on God's internet playing with ppl money 😂

  • @NikwaXO
    @NikwaXO 4 місяці тому

    Yasss I can't wait for next gathering it's been to love 😩😩

  • @camillelauren2485
    @camillelauren2485 4 місяці тому +1

    Oooooou lord knows when I need you.

  • @Jus_Melanin
    @Jus_Melanin 4 місяці тому +1

    Friend, here are some questions to ask yourself to help with your “dilemma”: Sex organs aside, what is it that attracts you to women? What qualities are you drawn to? Are they exclusive to women only? If you met a man that had those qualities would you no longer desire women?

  • @mellymel008
    @mellymel008 4 місяці тому

    OG Follower herree! Your hair has always been goals ❤

  • @itsmookiemook
    @itsmookiemook 4 місяці тому

    loved this video !!! thank u Jay

  • @rauellelovee4402
    @rauellelovee4402 4 місяці тому

    Babyyyyy I NEEDED this video

  • @taeboogie7304
    @taeboogie7304 4 місяці тому

    FIRSTTTT❤❤❤❤ girl where you been! let me get my popcorn and chocolate 🍫 I missed these girly talks

  • @its.ige_9009
    @its.ige_9009 4 місяці тому +1

    Jae I missed you so much 🥹

  • @sunnydaynocloudz
    @sunnydaynocloudz 4 місяці тому

    DEAD WEIGHT WAS IT FOR ME....NEEDED THAT MY GIRL.

  • @Jasmine.Deny1
    @Jasmine.Deny1 4 місяці тому

    Ommmggg I needed this😭😭😭

  • @Ana_theeofficial
    @Ana_theeofficial 4 місяці тому

    This was so good 🥰💕

  • @Sunkisssed23
    @Sunkisssed23 4 місяці тому

    The ELF dupe for Milk was nice and sticky… but it burned thee mess outta my skin! That was my first time ever getting chemical burns like that.

  • @LadyLynn2123
    @LadyLynn2123 4 місяці тому

    Yessssssss girl cause if they wanted to the would period…….!!!!

  • @ghazlyntarae
    @ghazlyntarae 4 місяці тому

    19:02 oooouuu talk about it!

  • @dionnafarriel7296
    @dionnafarriel7296 4 місяці тому

    OMG LOVE THE VIDEO

  • @miraclecooke9728
    @miraclecooke9728 4 місяці тому

    not me already here in 3 minutes....girl lemme find out im addicted to you lol

  • @LovingMelanin
    @LovingMelanin 4 місяці тому

    My Madeline spray got dented like that too 😂😂 one drop and it’s all over

  • @quantia9213
    @quantia9213 4 місяці тому

    Heavy on the “they might be slow” 😩

  • @Enhancedbybritt
    @Enhancedbybritt 4 місяці тому

    Duo lash glue it’s good on the brows too

  • @Vibe.With.E
    @Vibe.With.E 4 місяці тому

    Hey booo. I Don’t Know If The soap Helped yet, But I Have This Idea that Dry shampoo or just whatever those pads that catch oil/shine might help too? Anyway, my day is made whenever you post 🫶🏽

  • @kklutz08
    @kklutz08 4 місяці тому

    Girl my whole ENGINE went out in this retrograde 😩 and my birthday was on the solar eclipse. I’m laying low to the flo 😞

  • @mialovezit
    @mialovezit 4 місяці тому

    “What would you do if ya son was at home” 😂😂😂

  • @neesh2011d
    @neesh2011d 4 місяці тому

    I just got that Estée Lauder and it def fire

  • @ayannafreeman6312
    @ayannafreeman6312 4 місяці тому

    Pleaseee start a podcast! I love hearing you talk

  • @loneebazemore1137
    @loneebazemore1137 4 місяці тому

    Gurl right when I got 10 left on my break

  • @jadejahrobinson
    @jadejahrobinson 4 місяці тому

    One of the UA-camrs I watch puts powder on her brows to get rid of the shine