We have been colonized to think and act in ways that go against our best interests. BM are pathetic and treat us like trash because they lack power in themselves and externally in the world.
well dealing with anyone who hasn't done ANY work on themselves or does not see any reason to even know what they want for the future but puts all their own sh*t onto the other person is all that's truly out here...for real. This show is a last ditch effort for majority of these folks and this shows the chaos happening in our society. Always pointing fingers at each other, nobody doing no kind of accountability or work on themselves...it's crazy! But whatever...may the force be with ya'll. LOL
It’s okay for her to be upset. She came into this situation with an open mind and heart to find a husband and it didn’t turn out the way she hoped. She’ll move on and find someone worthy of her time and love.
This is the perfect exam of a man that feels inferior or has a complex towards a woman that has more than him he acts act to push her away cause he doesnt have the guts to just say or admit that hey idk if I can do this because you make more than me there are men out there that actually have the guts to admit this which is respected!
I can’t fathom how the experts are trying to figure out a solution and have a conversation about what’s going on with these two people individually and as a dysfunctional married couple. Can’t they just divorce before decision day. Couples on this show have divorced way before decision day so idky it’s hard to divorce this season. It’s infuriating.
I don’t even watch this show…but in the tiny clips I’ve come across….he has told her in a million ways HE DOES NOT WANT HER. even from the house tour, his intimidation and man-child personality was on 10. Girl, wake up-someone worthy of you is around the corner waiting on you to come to your senses. He wants a 19 year old fast food worker so he can feel like a king.
I have been watching it and at this point she’s actually getting on my nerves now. She’s embarrassing herself and should have left the show episodes ago. She begging him and is denial
Emem makes sooo many excuses for this dude. Like she's literary trying to force this guy. Hes 🗑 move on. The desperation is real. Its incredible that she feels hurt by that....GIRL where is your self worth?? Omg
I'm not sure why she's upset when he said,'doesn't have the desire to continue with this marriage ' . His actions have demonstrated this, time and time again.
They need to get divorced pronto ikechi when you served emem with divorce papers 📃 you should have done it properly and called it a day get it over and done with seriously now
@lemonaid13 of course she has no self esteem ikechi is Clearly stating he can't be with her and here she is trying everything to make "things work" no just give up and move on seriously
@siddaye It's not his fault. It's her fault for not having any self-worth. You don't try to make things work with someone who CLEARLY does not want you and is even jealous of you. She's in danger and doesn't even know it because she wants a man sooo badly. It's pathetic, really.
@lemonaid13 true you do have a point there but I really do hope ikechi gets the rest of that divorce document and she signs it I mean emem did say she'd sign it in its entirety period lets hope she holds her end of that bargain 😉 😄
Ikechi projects how he feels about himself on other people. Emem has done none of the things he has accused her of. It would have been better for him to have just said, I am not attracted and got it over with, but that is not the issue, imo. Ikechi is insecure, and marriage hit him all at once. He's not ready, and this process isn't the fairytale he'd love to have but also doesn't feel good enough for. He's use to wooing women with his shadow, real interactive relationships require you to operate in your light. He's not ready. He made Emem an enemy in his mind out of fear of rejection.
I cant imagine this man's family watching him on this show, and not be embarassed. He is EXHAUSTING!!!!
Dealing with BM is like crashing your head into a brick wall. ......repeatedly.
We have been colonized to think and act in ways that go against our best interests. BM are pathetic and treat us like trash because they lack power in themselves and externally in the world.
well dealing with anyone who hasn't done ANY work on themselves or does not see any reason to even know what they want for the future but puts all their own sh*t onto the other person is all that's truly out here...for real. This show is a last ditch effort for majority of these folks and this shows the chaos happening in our society. Always pointing fingers at each other, nobody doing no kind of accountability or work on themselves...it's crazy! But whatever...may the force be with ya'll. LOL
@ I’m confused about why he was so thirsty to get on the show that he applied for it twice only to act like a child instead of an adult.
@lrwsf1 Wow! Didn't know that part.
Ikechi's cheap trick divorce paper backfired on him. He knew what he was doing was a scam. He just wanted to hurt Emem in front of the castmates.
This guy is not even at her level
He projects soooo much … I don’t understand how she can stand being around him
It’s okay for her to be upset. She came into this situation with an open mind and heart to find a husband and it didn’t turn out the way she hoped. She’ll move on and find someone worthy of her time and love.
This is the perfect exam of a man that feels inferior or has a complex towards a woman that has more than him he acts act to push her away cause he doesnt have the guts to just say or admit that hey idk if I can do this because you make more than me there are men out there that actually have the guts to admit this which is respected!
He is unhealed.
@@beauty4ashescontemporarysc802 actually she is. She's unhealed.
He's the only one not putting any effort to make it a marriage
“Good Grief Charlie Brown!!!” 🤦🏽♀️
I can’t fathom how the experts are trying to figure out a solution and have a conversation about what’s going on with these two people individually and as a dysfunctional married couple. Can’t they just divorce before decision day. Couples on this show have divorced way before decision day so idky it’s hard to divorce this season. It’s infuriating.
I don’t even watch this show…but in the tiny clips I’ve come across….he has told her in a million ways HE DOES NOT WANT HER. even from the house tour, his intimidation and man-child personality was on 10. Girl, wake up-someone worthy of you is around the corner waiting on you to come to your senses. He wants a 19 year old fast food worker so he can feel like a king.
I have been watching it and at this point she’s actually getting on my nerves now. She’s embarrassing herself and should have left the show episodes ago. She begging him and is denial
Emem makes sooo many excuses for this dude. Like she's literary trying to force this guy. Hes 🗑 move on. The desperation is real.
Its incredible that she feels hurt by that....GIRL where is your self worth?? Omg
I'm not sure why she's upset when he said,'doesn't have the desire to continue with this marriage ' . His actions have demonstrated this, time and time again.
@@juliajulia1835 I'm floored by this. I mean FLOORED that women behave like this. Absolutely floored. Like you only have to tell me once, if at all.
@lemonaid13. very true. I got a feeling she was waiting for him to decide it's over. Can't force someone to be with you
Girl let him gooooooo
They need to get divorced pronto ikechi when you served emem with divorce papers 📃 you should have done it properly and called it a day get it over and done with seriously now
Everyone is talking about how awful he is but what about her? She's trying to squeeze juice out of a dry lemon. No self esteem. ZERO.
@lemonaid13 of course she has no self esteem ikechi is Clearly stating he can't be with her and here she is trying everything to make "things work" no just give up and move on seriously
@siddaye It's not his fault. It's her fault for not having any self-worth. You don't try to make things work with someone who CLEARLY does not want you and is even jealous of you.
She's in danger and doesn't even know it because she wants a man sooo badly. It's pathetic, really.
@lemonaid13 true you do have a point there but I really do hope ikechi gets the rest of that divorce document and she signs it I mean emem did say she'd sign it in its entirety period lets hope she holds her end of that bargain 😉 😄
@@siddaye I hope so. I heard from another content creator that she has another man already. Possibly even married. This woman needs work.
That is super petty and a gaslighter
Ikechi projects how he feels about himself on other people. Emem has done none of the things he has accused her of. It would have been better for him to have just said, I am not attracted and got it over with, but that is not the issue, imo. Ikechi is insecure, and marriage hit him all at once. He's not ready, and this process isn't the fairytale he'd love to have but also doesn't feel good enough for. He's use to wooing women with his shadow, real interactive relationships require you to operate in your light. He's not ready. He made Emem an enemy in his mind out of fear of rejection.