Question...why are the men commenting on here so upset and offended, could it be he is talking about you....if you are doing what your suppose to do as a man, Pastor Bryant would not be a threat to you...go on preach Pastor Jamal!!!!!
I particularly like he part about being still. Too many of us have an almost addiction to being in a relationship. Part of loving yourself is being able to be alone with, and self improving yourself. If I don’t have my own place and no job for example I have no business trying to get in a relationship. Another rule I live by is at least giving myself a strict year plus before getting into another relationship if I was previously in one, too many of us are jumping into something new a month and two months after having been in a previous relationship. No time to reflect and work on yourself, just bringing bad habits and resentments into the next relationship...
First, let me say I love my strong, Christian, intelligent, got it going on MEN. Next, some men do not want to settle down, due to the lack of taught standards about real, good, beautiful women, who sometimes get pushed aside or passed over cause; we will not put everything God gave us on public display or give out free cookies(sex) with every single man we date. Everyone wants to be loved, yet love can't be like instant mashed potatoes, by just adding water(sex) and wham you got LOVE! Instead of letting it grown and mature into what can be called, "beautiful and standing the test of time". I still hold on to the pray that God has made me a true soul-mate; a special Man! Just as he has made me, a special woman for that Man too. We all have to learn to be real with ourselves, others and accept that nobody is perfect. Love is an action word and your taking two imperfect people, putting them together to create a perfect union. Ups and downs, good and bad will happen but love covers a multitude of sins and is the greatest thing a person can give another person.#I'm still learning what God has for me is for me. #Learning and growing into a Provb.31 happy, woman.
It's a lot I could say here. Everyone's situation is different. And you can spend years with a person and not even know them. My issue is weak "FOLKS" mamas boys who don't wanna fight for the marriage. But hey everything happens for a reason right? What doesn't kill you makes you stronger.
I hear ya sista. I was in love with a mommas boy too. I sent him the video of Pastor Jamal speaking about, a man has to get rid of Madea. He told his momma. 😄
I'm sure God has chastised Pastor Jamal Bryant for making his mistakes in his marriage..This is why he is teaching/preaching to let you know what the word of God says so you won't be foolish and make the same mistakes!! Remember nobody is perfect!!
+Melanie Reed yeah cheating and now finding out he has a son out of wedlock does not give him the right to preach anything. tHE MEN NOW ARE A JOKE AND BLACKS NEED TO STOP GIVING THESE PHONY PASTORS A PASS.
+love jones.... That's why I Praise God for my life and Not Man...But The word of God will always go forth and The Power God will always defeat evildoers and people who chooses to continue in their weakness of sins.. and That is something they will have to deal with of their sins and face judgement day!!.
Melanie Reed I agree. I had respect for this man until his wife said he was a cheater, cheater pumpkin eater and I just found out he has a son out of wedlock. How does he call the pastors who support trump "These hoes ain't loyal" when he is not loyal to his family or God? This why people stray from church. They have so much faith in these false prophets who disguise themselves as angels.
+love jones...Well baby..The best thing we can do as Christians ourselves. .Is to always stay Focus on the word of God, Study to show ourselves approved and aligned up with His word..Never get caught up in man..Never do that!! Stay always prayed up!!..Peacefulness unto you!
Much respect to you...I just avoid the concept of marriage and relationships- it's much to complicated- but who it's for, which it isn't for all men or women, do the right thing by it
Once again a pastor simply telling women what they want to hear AND NOT THE TRUTH. Let him tell that to a room full of self employed, single men,who own their own property or have their housing in their own name plus tangible investments. They will immediately check him and tell him what the problem is. HOWEVER, this pastor would be singing a totally different tone to that audience I'm sure. A man who wants to use the family finances towards building wealth instead of buying blonde weave, shoes and clothes is not trying to control a woman, he's just being a responsible adult. How many women pass up men who can provide for themselves and family for some other type of man with "swag" AND NO JOB? Maybe these women are too busy looking for men THEY CAN CONTROL. Oh and btw no need to "BACK DOOR THE MEN IN" rev. I'll pass on that.
Love your missing the message. Once a man handle all of his animals, he will find the right women. Meaning, when men prepare themselves as God ordained them to, he will find a women is ready as well!!
+A. New Paradigm I agree with this. It's common in church nowadays. The preacher teaches a safe sermon to appease the women in the congregation. I agree that the truth can be watered down in church. No church is perfect. Shoot... I dealt with a woman who was more concerned about hair and makeup instead of trying to build real wealth. She was actually raised in the church, a virgin and all that other stuff. I have seen preachers bash men in the pulpit just to appease the women. But like I said before, no church is perfect. I still think Jamaal Bryant is an awesome teacher. I just think that we have to get out of error with the Word. The divorce rate is too high. We have to do better.
I am BLACK WOMEN not running after the man. But a black men less second class citizens including jobs, employment etc., that's not true I am single, independent woman profressional woman . My thoughts i don't play games. There is soft ness , strong BUT sometimes 'I GOT YOU". we work issues .
Hmm, if I could hug Pastor Jamal Bryant . He seems to understand sooooo much about life and relationships. It seems many men are saying they can’t find any good women and women are saying there are no good men and I believe that is erroneous in itself. There are no good people anyway as the Bible says, which is why we are to strive to be godly , simply because only God is good. I believe that it’s at that time when a man is seeking God that a godly woman draws him without effort because their souls are unison when traveling on heaven’s frequency . If one’s soul is of the earth and another of the world, then the cohesion may be there initially, but it’s just temporarily. Souls & spirits/Spirit will eventually conflict with each other.
TOWNCAR PLUSH SMOOTH not for everyone. As a man if there is no conviction within you that says I want to get married one day then chances are it may not be for you.
The primary prerequisite for a man and woman to marry each other is that they truly love (not lust) each other and work together as loyal partners. Together they must be committed to work out any problem. It is incorrect to say that the man must have a house first without knowing his situation. Do not give any man authority in what they say you must have before you marry, instead your authority comes direct from God's Word. If your man loves and is loyal to you then support him. If he is not loyal and commits adultery, then by all means you have the right to divorce him; same goes for the women. Last point, stop listening to TV shows, movies, magazines, and others trying to tell us about what material things we should have. What's important is that we have each other and that we are making it work for us.
+That Dude One reason is that you are not always going to be a young man desiring to be in the "dating" game. I believe men NEED wives, but of course it cannot just be someone who looks good. I have seen many older men (50+) who are miserable because they don't have a family life and when you get older and possibly sick, it is nice to have someone who loves you, is there for you and has your back "in sickness and in health". If you are still young and want to play the field then I guess there is no benefit.
Leslie Brown At one time marriage was those things. What you are referring to is security. How ever more than half of marriages end in divorce so there is a 50/50 chance that you will still wind up dating. In short men once married for security, now that security no loner exist.
+GameChanger00100 I thought I was talking about LOVE and COMPANIONSHIP not security, but maybe I am confused. You don't need a mate to be secure. You can have a great job, loyal friends and close family, but that is not the same as having someone who truly loves you and is there for you in thick and thin. I know that so many couples get divorced but I am glad I know a few couples (not the majority) who have been married for more than 25 years and still like/love/respect each other. Not sure why some people are blessed/lucky and are able to work it out, but I still believe/know there is a such thing as true LOVE and COMMITMENT, even if it escaped me. IT DOES EXIST.
Many people both male and female continually refer to black males as men. Black females if you quietly refer to them as males instead of men, you will begin to see them differently. They are black but they are not men.
"WHY do I offer the same thing the animals do?' 9:12 C'mon now sir! ...I was thinking about this once... too many men pursue **brace yourself church folk** vagina. EVERY woman has a vagina. In fact THAT is how we determine who is born woman and who is born man. Brothers, if your going to pursue a woman get you a good one with good character, good heart, wisdom, intelligence, sense of humor, useful skills in home or outside the home to go WITH the vagina. Someone who offers more...
Men and women can both take blame for a lot of things. A lot of damage has been done that I believe is irreparable by our own powers at this point. Add in the world court systems that are not in favor of men which leads a lot of men just not seeing the benefit of marriage nowadays. Me personally, I’d have to be with a woman for at least 5-10 years before even thinking about getting married. And I’m not talking about just looks because that doesn’t mean anything once you get past that honeymoon phase of a relationship and the red flags start to pop up.
Man y'all dudes all mad at this man and he's spouting nothing but truth. Brothers I'll tell you of a truth you have to stop listening to these other people saying all preachers are silver tongued snakes, trying to seduce women. That would be no different than a white person saying all blacks are lazy. Now if you're smart y'all won't argue that. Of course we know some preachers out there are exploiting their power, but to say all is hypocritical on your part, because you know you wouldn't want to be categorized as lazy because of other lazy blacks... (get ready for this) even if they were the majority! #useyourbigbrains
Dr Bryant, you said, " man has dominion/authority over all the animals and created things,except Woman!" You might want to read the (B-Clause) of Genesis 3:16. To "rule over" is AUTHORITY in whatever language you speak! This is the same tactic Satan used on Eve...
Question...why are the men commenting on here so upset and offended, could it be he is talking about you....if you are doing what your suppose to do as a man, Pastor Bryant would not be a threat to you...go on preach Pastor Jamal!!!!!
because he is phoney
Because he is a fake and a simp. That's why we're offended
You didn't do your homework I see. This man is a hypocrite and a phony, paying for hookers in shit, girl please!!
any man who could tell on his self deserves respect
This guy is going hard. No Wonder u demons hate him
I particularly like he part about being still. Too many of us have an almost addiction to being in a relationship. Part of loving yourself is being able to be alone with, and self improving yourself. If I don’t have my own place and no job for example I have no business trying to get in a relationship. Another rule I live by is at least giving myself a strict year plus before getting into another relationship if I was previously in one, too many of us are jumping into something new a month and two months after having been in a previous relationship. No time to reflect and work on yourself, just bringing bad habits and resentments into the next relationship...
First, let me say I love my strong, Christian, intelligent, got it going on MEN. Next, some men do not want to settle down, due to the lack of taught standards about real, good, beautiful women, who sometimes get pushed aside or passed over cause; we will not put everything God gave us on public display or give out free cookies(sex) with every single man we date. Everyone wants to be loved, yet love can't be like instant mashed potatoes, by just adding water(sex) and wham you got LOVE! Instead of letting it grown and mature into what can be called, "beautiful and standing the test of time". I still hold on to the pray that God has made me a true soul-mate; a special Man! Just as he has made me, a special woman for that Man too. We all have to learn to be real with ourselves, others and accept that nobody is perfect. Love is an action word and your taking two imperfect people, putting them together to create a perfect union. Ups and downs, good and bad will happen but love covers a multitude of sins and is the greatest thing a person can give another person.#I'm still learning what God has for me is for me. #Learning and growing into a Provb.31 happy, woman.
truth is not everyone is cut out for marriage even some good people die single all you can do is pray that God sends a good mate into your life.
why do most churches assume everyone desires to be married? they are relentless in this... everyone does not desire to marry and its not a sin...
CALIDEE HOLMES Yup getting married is not a commandment.
Preach bro jamal, do Jesus work!!!
It's a lot I could say here. Everyone's situation is different. And you can spend years with a person and not even know them. My issue is weak "FOLKS" mamas boys who don't wanna fight for the marriage. But hey everything happens for a reason right? What doesn't kill you makes you stronger.
I hear ya sista. I was in love with a mommas boy too. I sent him the video of Pastor Jamal speaking about, a man has to get rid of Madea. He told his momma. 😄
I'm sure God has chastised Pastor Jamal Bryant for making his mistakes in his marriage..This is why he is teaching/preaching to let you know what the word of God says so you won't be foolish and make the same mistakes!! Remember nobody is perfect!!
+Melanie Reed yeah cheating and now finding out he has a son out of wedlock does not give him the right to preach anything. tHE MEN NOW ARE A JOKE AND BLACKS NEED TO STOP GIVING THESE PHONY PASTORS A PASS.
+love jones.... That's why I Praise God for my life and Not Man...But The word of God will always go forth and The Power God will always defeat evildoers and people who chooses to continue in their weakness of sins.. and That is something they will have to deal with of their sins and face judgement day!!.
Melanie Reed I agree. I had respect for this man until his wife said he was a cheater, cheater pumpkin eater and I just found out he has a son out of wedlock. How does he call the pastors who support trump "These hoes ain't loyal" when he is not loyal to his family or God? This why people stray from church. They have so much faith in these false prophets who disguise themselves as angels.
But I agree completely
+love jones...Well baby..The best thing we can do as Christians ourselves. .Is to always stay Focus on the word of God, Study to show ourselves approved and aligned up with His word..Never get caught up in man..Never do that!! Stay always prayed up!!..Peacefulness unto you!
Much respect to you...I just avoid the concept of marriage and relationships- it's much to complicated- but who it's for, which it isn't for all men or women, do the right thing by it
Once again a pastor simply telling women what they want to hear AND NOT THE TRUTH. Let him tell that to a room full of self employed, single men,who own their own property or have their housing in their own name plus tangible investments. They will immediately check him and tell him what the problem is. HOWEVER, this pastor would be singing a totally different tone to that audience I'm sure. A man who wants to use the family finances towards building wealth instead of buying blonde weave, shoes and clothes is not trying to control a woman, he's just being a responsible adult. How many women pass up men who can provide for themselves and family for some other type of man with "swag" AND NO JOB? Maybe these women are too busy looking for men THEY CAN CONTROL. Oh and btw no need to "BACK DOOR THE MEN IN" rev. I'll pass on that.
Charles Owens Peach!
Love your missing the message. Once a man handle all of his animals, he will find the right women. Meaning, when men prepare themselves as God ordained them to, he will find a women is ready as well!!
A. New Paradigm That is why I left that type of a church
+A. New Paradigm I agree with this. It's common in church nowadays. The preacher teaches a safe sermon to appease the women in the congregation. I agree that the truth can be watered down in church. No church is perfect. Shoot... I dealt with a woman who was more concerned about hair and makeup instead of trying to build real wealth. She was actually raised in the church, a virgin and all that other stuff. I have seen preachers bash men in the pulpit just to appease the women. But like I said before, no church is perfect. I still think Jamaal Bryant is an awesome teacher. I just think that we have to get out of error with the Word. The divorce rate is too high. We have to do better.
I have gained knowledge from this message Preach!!
Real talk Bryant...
Very deep and enlightened
God bless you highly favored man of God..... continue inspiring us with your wisdom
So many need to hear this. I am upset that I cant see the whole sermon...... but this was a blessing.
I am BLACK WOMEN not running after the man. But a black men less second class citizens including jobs, employment etc., that's not true I am single, independent woman profressional woman . My thoughts i don't play games. There is soft ness , strong BUT sometimes 'I GOT YOU". we work issues .
I love this message!!! Unfortunately it ended to quick! Wow
Hmm, if I could hug Pastor Jamal Bryant . He seems to understand sooooo much about life and relationships. It seems many men are saying they can’t find any good women and women are saying there are no good men and I believe that is erroneous in itself. There are no good people anyway as the Bible says, which is why we are to strive to be godly , simply because only God is good. I believe that it’s at that time when a man is seeking God that a godly woman draws him without effort because their souls are unison when traveling on heaven’s frequency . If one’s soul is of the earth and another of the world, then the cohesion may be there initially, but it’s just temporarily. Souls & spirits/Spirit will eventually conflict with each other.
I didn't hear anything about why black men are not marrying women....but I guess that wasn't the intention of the talk.... Get married...why???
Amen!! He is the messenger and the Holy Spirit is the author! The truth will set us free
Preach preacher.... the truth is the truth 👍
Whaaaaat?!!! Yesssss!! I LOVE this message!!!!!
Real Talk..preach Pastor Bryant!!!
Nuff said in that short amount of time.
Amen, Amen, Amen... Oh God Almighty, how you always know what I need to hear. Thank you Jesus.
Tried it,didn't like it, became unhappy, filed for divorce, now I'm happy. Period........
TOWNCAR PLUSH SMOOTH not for everyone. As a man if there is no conviction within you that says I want to get married one day then chances are it may not be for you.
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WOW POWERFUL WORD....
Lord Im running trying to make a one hunnit. I gotta get going. Im slow they used to tell me.
The primary prerequisite for a man and woman to marry each other is that they truly love (not lust) each other and work together as loyal partners. Together they must be committed to work out any problem. It is incorrect to say that the man must have a house first without knowing his situation. Do not give any man authority in what they say you must have before you marry, instead your authority comes direct from God's Word. If your man loves and is loyal to you then support him. If he is not loyal and commits adultery, then by all means you have the right to divorce him; same goes for the women. Last point, stop listening to TV shows, movies, magazines, and others trying to tell us about what material things we should have. What's important is that we have each other and that we are making it work for us.
Preah Black Man
My God speak that.. Amen
Are parts 2 & 3 on youtube? I checked but couldn't find them.
It's a great restate password in play immediately. So photos never recall or recount.
If you are saved, it is the will of God for your life!
Praying to God trying to get out of a atheis relationship. So true.
Good Lord.....
GOOD STUFF.
Some truth
You can see the whole sermon. Search for part 2 &3. I have all three. Contact him and you can order the sermon.
Can someone give me one benefit for a man to marry?
Reginald Person How is the dating game better than the marriage game?
Reginald Person I thought that you were saying that marriage is a better alternative to dating.
+That Dude One reason is that you are not always going to be a young man desiring to be in the "dating" game. I believe men NEED wives, but of course it cannot just be someone who looks good. I have seen many older men (50+) who are miserable because they don't have a family life and when you get older and possibly sick, it is nice to have someone who loves you, is there for you and has your back "in sickness and in health". If you are still young and want to play the field then I guess there is no benefit.
Leslie Brown At one time marriage was those things. What you are referring to is security. How ever more than half of marriages end in divorce so there is a 50/50 chance that you will still wind up dating.
In short men once married for security, now that security no loner exist.
+GameChanger00100 I thought I was talking about LOVE and COMPANIONSHIP not security, but maybe I am confused. You don't need a mate to be secure. You can have a great job, loyal friends and close family, but that is not the same as having someone who truly loves you and is there for you in thick and thin. I know that so many couples get divorced but I am glad I know a few couples (not the majority) who have been married for more than 25 years and still like/love/respect each other. Not sure why some people are blessed/lucky and are able to work it out, but I still believe/know there is a such thing as true LOVE and COMMITMENT, even if it escaped me. IT DOES EXIST.
preach!!
❤
this is a lie. ADAM told Eve what not to do. But SHE listened to Jamal Bryant
Many people both male and female continually refer to black males as men.
Black females if you quietly refer to them as males instead of men, you will begin to see them differently. They are black but they are not men.
The pastor is very very heavy
+Larry Spencer yeesss very serious...
"WHY do I offer the same thing the animals do?' 9:12 C'mon now sir!
...I was thinking about this once... too many men pursue **brace yourself church folk** vagina. EVERY woman has a vagina. In fact THAT is how we determine who is born woman and who is born man. Brothers, if your going to pursue a woman get you a good one with good character, good heart, wisdom, intelligence, sense of humor, useful skills in home or outside the home to go WITH the vagina. Someone who offers more...
Where can I find the full sermon?
This is why women are not getting married.
Men and women can both take blame for a lot of things. A lot of damage has been done that I believe is irreparable by our own powers at this point. Add in the world court systems that are not in favor of men which leads a lot of men just not seeing the benefit of marriage nowadays. Me personally, I’d have to be with a woman for at least 5-10 years before even thinking about getting married. And I’m not talking about just looks because that doesn’t mean anything once you get past that honeymoon phase of a relationship and the red flags start to pop up.
Man y'all dudes all mad at this man and he's spouting nothing but truth. Brothers I'll tell you of a truth you have to stop listening to these other people saying all preachers are silver tongued snakes, trying to seduce women. That would be no different than a white person saying all blacks are lazy. Now if you're smart y'all won't argue that. Of course we know some preachers out there are exploiting their power, but to say all is hypocritical on your part, because you know you wouldn't want to be categorized as lazy because of other lazy blacks... (get ready for this) even if they were the majority! #useyourbigbrains
marriage to hell by Steve Irungu Jermaine
Dr Bryant, you said, " man has dominion/authority over all the animals and created things,except Woman!" You might want to read the (B-Clause) of Genesis 3:16. To "rule over" is AUTHORITY in whatever language you speak! This is the same tactic Satan used on Eve...
I've never run after a May-An!! ha ha
Is Jamal Bryant Married?
Why is this guy giving marriage advice to anyone? There's not a black preacher in America I would take advice from.
Where was this sermon when he was committing adultery? Sounds good to the average woman, but doctrinally, very bad eisegesis, pretext, and prooftext
He is wrong