The sight vs memories question hits close to home. I wear glasses and have been for the last 5 years of my life. Even with my vision slowly deteriorating I would still rather lose it completely than my memories. I dont think I could truly enjoy life with perfect vision and not have the memories to follow me around.
Ooo that joy is the toughest emotion to feel hits home, and Ky saying she sets her bar so low, because then you can’t be disappointed is exactly my mindset. My therapist described me as an “optimistic nihilist” which he defined as: it is what it is, but it’s up to us to make the best of that.
Love these conversations! I helps to hear others talk about their mental health journeys. The new format works for the most part, but could always go longer imo. :)
Oh wow! That would you rather question Hit me really hard. I am fully blind and went blind in 2016. I am used to living as a blind person now and I can't even imagine what it would be like to lose all my memories. I wouldn't even get to enjoy having my site back.
Great discussion and questions. Thanks for doing these. It’s a unique way to connect with the humans behind some of the characters I love. The humans seem fun too. 😊
Another epic video. I haven’t seen either the Barbie or the Oppenheimer movie. The last movie I watched was the D&D movie with Chris Pine. After that I haven’t watched many movies since then. Being on the spectrum myself the feeling of not being able to read the emotions/ notion(s) of someone else, is very overwhelming and I tend to think it’s best to stay away from someone, so I don’t cause them any stress. Definitely looking forward to Ruby’s next travel Vlog.
2nd Question: If OP is doing ALL the cleaning what's the "equal chore" Because I have a townhouse and cleaning is like 90% of housework. The other is laundry/cutting grass but at least IMO I don't see those as equal time and I do ALL those.
(Spoilers) Funnily enough, memories are what broke me in Barbie because of all the flashbacks that played through that I think a lot of girls, like my lil sis, have retained growing up, and that I know were things I've experienced by my mother's recollection, but I don't remember an ounce of and that was a very depressing realization lmao. But making lasting ones with my sis now is 10x more important after witnessing my soul being crushed by the stiff, plastic hands of someone who tried to convince me a convertable was my dream car
I don't understand how people can live with moldy food and insects everywhere. That's just insane to me. I would have to bolt and figure out where to live later.
escapism is a way to cope with anxiety. I can vouch for that..... doesn't work for long but I've done it..... but also yes, avoidance and committing to distractions you're right is ADHD encouragement.
I havent seen the Barbie movie and dont plan to, mostly because it seems like you learn life lessons from it and that isnt what i want from movies. My ideal barbie movie would be a pink Truman Show remake. Maybe barbie gains sentience and escapes to the real world, only to accidently get involved in arms trafficking. Then she can use her can-do attitude to get out of the life and build a better future for herself. 🎉
The sight vs memories question hits close to home. I wear glasses and have been for the last 5 years of my life. Even with my vision slowly deteriorating I would still rather lose it completely than my memories. I dont think I could truly enjoy life with perfect vision and not have the memories to follow me around.
Ooo that joy is the toughest emotion to feel hits home, and Ky saying she sets her bar so low, because then you can’t be disappointed is exactly my mindset.
My therapist described me as an “optimistic nihilist” which he defined as: it is what it is, but it’s up to us to make the best of that.
Love these conversations! I helps to hear others talk about their mental health journeys.
The new format works for the most part, but could always go longer imo. :)
Oh wow! That would you rather question Hit me really hard. I am fully blind and went blind in 2016. I am used to living as a blind person now and I can't even imagine what it would be like to lose all my memories. I wouldn't even get to enjoy having my site back.
That is an amazing username. So badass
@@EnzymaticCatalysis thank you. She is my favorite representation of a blind character.
I would give up my memories ina heartbeat. Too many things I’d rather forget then remember
Great discussion and questions. Thanks for doing these. It’s a unique way to connect with the humans behind some of the characters I love. The humans seem fun too. 😊
Great video
But the maggot will become a fly fast like and the fly will die cause their lifespans are so short. Poor Maggie...😂
Another epic video.
I haven’t seen either the Barbie or the Oppenheimer movie. The last movie I watched was the D&D movie with Chris Pine. After that I haven’t watched many movies since then. Being on the spectrum myself the feeling of not being able to read the emotions/ notion(s) of someone else, is very overwhelming and I tend to think it’s best to stay away from someone, so I don’t cause them any stress.
Definitely looking forward to Ruby’s next travel Vlog.
2nd Question: If OP is doing ALL the cleaning what's the "equal chore" Because I have a townhouse and cleaning is like 90% of housework. The other is laundry/cutting grass but at least IMO I don't see those as equal time and I do ALL those.
Ruby and Yang talking about barbie
(Spoilers) Funnily enough, memories are what broke me in Barbie because of all the flashbacks that played through that I think a lot of girls, like my lil sis, have retained growing up, and that I know were things I've experienced by my mother's recollection, but I don't remember an ounce of and that was a very depressing realization lmao. But making lasting ones with my sis now is 10x more important after witnessing my soul being crushed by the stiff, plastic hands of someone who tried to convince me a convertable was my dream car
I don't understand how people can live with moldy food and insects everywhere. That's just insane to me. I would have to bolt and figure out where to live later.
Self medicating with music, movies or games? with all do respect that sounds like hes given into the adhd
escapism is a way to cope with anxiety. I can vouch for that..... doesn't work for long but I've done it..... but also yes, avoidance and committing to distractions you're right is ADHD encouragement.
I havent seen the Barbie movie and dont plan to, mostly because it seems like you learn life lessons from it and that isnt what i want from movies. My ideal barbie movie would be a pink Truman Show remake. Maybe barbie gains sentience and escapes to the real world, only to accidently get involved in arms trafficking. Then she can use her can-do attitude to get out of the life and build a better future for herself. 🎉
You DON’T want movies that speak to people on a deeper level?