Sierra & Eric: Is This The Honeymoon? 😬💍 Love & Hip Hop Atlanta
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- Опубліковано 20 чер 2023
- After a secret marriage, the strain in Sierra & Eric's relationship is only growing larger. 💔 #MTVTuesdays
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"All you care about is your kids, businesses, and family" ☠️☠️☠️ he really said it like all she cares about is bags, shoes, and cocaine 😩
Exactly this
Right!!!!!! I am surprised they got this far..as soon as he said that and she said he does things to annoy his kids..not cool. Not a good fit for eachother at all!
So he supposed to stay with somebody that don't pay him no mind
@@LaniDan-q8gwe don’t know if she does or doesn’t..never forget we only see what we see..this tv ish 😵💫😂🤷🏾♀️ from this video and this video only it comes off like he wants to be number 1 and that is or at least that should never be the case when you have kids
@@LaniDan-q8ghe should have stayed tf awy from a MOTHER
"All you worry about is your kids, your family and your businesses" Red flag LMAOO
Thought I was the only one that caught that
RIGHT! Like sir do you hear yourself???
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If she not tending to her man that proposed to her she should be let loose.
LMAO RIGHT 🤣🤣😂💀💀
Calling her those foul names in front of her children especially a SON is a most definite deal breaker. ✌🏾
In front of the kids or alone in private. He shouldn't be calling her anything bad. They just got married. He's supposed to be enjoying her not disrespecting her. So sad. I agree with you 💯💯💯 I just wanted to add that on.
@@93lbBALDSPOTSonya absolutely agree it's worse to me that he would be extra disrespectful and do it in front of her children. Smh
@@iamtinaexeinmyopinion I know 😔😔😔😔 she went through all of that just to marry him only to turn around and have to divorce him.
@@93lbBALDSPOTSonya a lot of times humans don't give themselves time to heal from trauma or at least really work on healing an just go from relationship to relationship. A lot of people don't wanna deal with themselves, sweep stuff under the rug about themselves an look for others to jump in an save them. Vicious cycle.
Facts!!!
If a man don’t love ur kids.. I feel like he can’t love you
Not true
@asiatenay definitely true. Explain how a man can love his woman when he doesn't fully accept her children?
I agree
Not true!! Westernized women mindset is sickening!!!
Those are not small children .. sierra is immature
Sierra went from her Husband, to BK, to Eric. Like girl you need to just be alone for awhile and heal. 🙄
I was just thinking "wasn't she just crying over some BL person?"😅. She definitely needs to focus on herself.
And that right learn to be by yourself for a while when you divorce someone
At least she doesn't choose men over her kids 🧏♀️
🎯 🎯 🎯
exactly
Eric went through her daughter purses and trashed her room. Dude is a whole weirdo! He doesn’t just want a “female” with no kids, he wants one that revolves her whole life around him.
Yeah, him saying “female” was weird.
That's crazy!!!!What episode? I'M LATE.😂😂
@@msjrenefulim so tired of this trend and it kills me when women use it too even referring to themselves lol.
Wow, really? What real man does that? Straight juvenile
Who knows if it’s true
I respect sierra for putting her priorities first. Some women will do anything to keep a man including putting their children last
A husband is a priority too. Granted they aren’t married yet and may not me, but your spouse is a priority
They don’t get that.. those bad ass grown kids move on with their lives
Your husband should be a priority over the kids. Both are very important.
@@christinerocha4023ot bad ass grown kids lmao i was going to say arent her kids older now besides the last boy from her marriage
@@kenya88831you sound like a horrible mom
I think he wanted her ALONE but that’s not her. She’s a mother and a business woman so you can’t judge her for being the way SHE REALLY IS! He wanted something that he’ll never get from her, the real her 😫
Best comment whew 👏🏾😮💨
You said !! 👏🏽…. They are not compatible
Yes I've met a man like that before it's so sick like she said she has to leave slow sad and scary
But this is the real her...that's what he got right..he wanted something he can't get from her....but he fell in love with the idea...relationships ain't no try out or anything to play with and people like this learn FAST..
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He shouldve stayed single. If he didnt want a woman with kids, why would you go and do the opposite of that? That's not something to compromise on...just pack it up bruh
Agreed
yeah he settled big time, definitely not a criteria people should compromise on
I just said that. Smh.
Very true
Cause a man falls in love with what he sees and he fail in love with fillers and bbl and wigs
No wonder she didn’t make him a priority! He’s pathetic and disrespectful
Is pathetic and disrespectful? And when nobody wants to date, a woman with kids, you guys start disrespect and the men, but it's OK. That's why you should go be with a single woman with no kids and leave all you women with kids by yourselves. So you guys can get all these pathetic losers we don't want to guys
If y’all watched the whole episode, this man trashed her daughter room he’s a weirdo and gives controlling. Why would she need to ask about her underage son coming home
Yes he went through her daughter's purses and stuff. That's a weirdo
That’s why I’m saying that he is a danger because that’s not normal and to be calling a child whore etc.
Shooter needs to come and check him.
Hes a jealous man with nothing to lose. She needs to run
We only have one side of the story
Wheich episode is it?
Eric’s 1st mistake was getting with a woman who has kids. He just said it himself that he didn’t want one. Sierra and her kids are a package deal - you can’t have one without the other. I salute her for putting her kids first. Eric’s 2nd mistake was calling her out of her name in front of her kids. It. Ain’t. No. Way. When a person shows you who they are believe them. If that was my house that mf’s shat would be packed and outside with locks changed.✌🏾Life is too short to be dealing with that kind of BS. Period.
I agree with you 1000% but now she married him so she can't just pack up his stuff and throw it out at this point. Because now that she's married to him. I mean she can throw him out but his name is probably on the lease so legally she can't. So that's why she said she's making her get away.
Period!!!
@@katechathomas1978MARRIED WHAT
Women with no kids still aren’t trynna make a make there whole existence he needs to learn healthy living n learn love comes from self 1st tf
Dude u clearly said you didn't want a women with kids ummm
She should of stayed single and worry about herself and her kids
I agree, sierra needs a man to be calm, peaceful and loving
@breannaregans4074 she runs them away
Being single alone with kids is not easy. It takes it if e edgy, mental health, physical health and emotional health to do that. 2 is better than 1
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Sierra has got to stop the bull💩💩
DAMN. This was very real. Some people don’t realize that YES, you may have to change for marriage, and if you can’t change, don’t get married.
True, I kinda get the guy in this situation. And I think it's quick to think he doesn't love Sierra and her kids, whilst in this scenario, all I see is a man, a partner who is wrongly judged and isn't heard. All the guy was saying is, Sierra needs to try to communicate with him prior to bringing her children in a space they are used to sharing by themselves. It isn't to say he doesn't love Sierra's children but that it's like moving in your partner's mother-in-law to your house as a couple, without having the needed communication n meetings prior to creating space for that adjustment, especially when clear and obvious differences are a given. He is not Sierra's biological father, and does not mean he can out of character whenever he wants, but that such must be a process, that needs conversations n communication enough in order for everyone to respectfully bond.
Facts.
Change what? Her kids? Lol
@@richmondbreya6187 this comment wasn’t pro-Sierra or pro-Eric. When I watch this I see two people who are making their partner their opp. I always tell my friends that your partner should not be your enemy.
Not really he knew she had kids and if he didn’t wanna date anybody with kids he shouldn’t have made any acceptions
"My next female" said A LOT and enough for me..
I’m a female and I call girls/women/ladies females/female humans because when I was a child I refer to my dresser as “lady” and she was extremely offended, said I made her sound old. Female human is a factual term and I don’t use it as disrespect, it’s just a simple word to use.
@@stephifox9955no one cares if you don’t mean disrespect grow up. Most women don’t want to be called that so call us what we are: WOMEN. we aren’t animals. Have some decency
Im from NyC he’s from BK us New Yorker refer to woman / gyal as female it’s the norm for us. I’m the context he used it I wouldn’t use it In that way
What wrong with female
It’s the context around how “female” became normalized as another way to dehumanize women. Men are not routinely referring to other men as “males”. The historical context of sexism plays a part as well, women who were referred as females were reduced to their ability to reproduce and please men while women were reserved for protection, care, and humanity. There is no reason to refer to women as females. We are human, not animals in a nature documentary.
Sir, your blaming Sierra for YOU compromising YOUR desires...You can't blame her for you trying to force a relationship you really did not want. Yes, you love her, but you didn't want who and what SHE CAME WITH
I don't think its that I just think he feels her kids are her priority( as they should) bit he isn't 1 at all
@@Ldraco17he literally said he didn’t want to marry somebody with kids.. yet still did, now he’s putting his issues off on her 🌚
@@maybellllllll yeah but thats nothing against them per se. He just envision his first kid with someone who didn't
@@Ldraco17 yet he didn’t do that, so why is he deflecting his issues towards her? He created a boundary for himself and broke it himself. He can’t be mad at nobody but himself. But Sierra knew from the beginning so she could of cut it off as well. The realist shit a person ever told me was don’t let down a boundary you set for yourself because of your love for the other person.
@@maybellllllll i completely agree but I feel sierra needs to take accountability too. And by that I mean she sort of set herself up for failure in a way.
Sierra let that man go!! If he jealous of ur kids and the bond u got with them, he gotta go! Men need to understand the kids will always come first!! That’s jus how a mother is!! Period!! I applaud Sierra for standing her ground she is beyond right 💯 right!!! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
I am so CONFUSED as to why this man is JEALOUS that this mother puts HER KIDS FIRST??? THEYRE HER KIDS???
@@kiki13451 most men like this who don’t have kids, have this “all about me” mentality so they can’t handle it when they’re not the center of attention in the relationship. Most expect the mother to drop the kids and just focus of him, sad but it’s true
4 REAL????
Honestly, this is so refreshing of her. Love that she stands behind her kids !
Yes indeed!
Exactly, that is exactly what she should do, be alone, and the school keep dating random men. Does she get with one that treats your even worse? And let the man go be with somebody who does not have any kids and can live his own life. That is what you woman should get.
Respect for Sierra putting her babies first ❤❤
I love this, it's making me wonder why the top comment is so liked by almost a thousand people, it said "she should have stayed single and worried about herself and her kids".... Like I can't believe that many educated people literally can't see that Sierra puts her kids first, but of course all the negative comments have to be like the most because a lot of people that watch this unfortunately think that they are better than the people in the actual show 💯
That's not even what this is about, the man just wanted for his wife to spend more time with him and to be heard.
That's bias comment some parents show they kids too much love. I actually seen this with parents with their kids over each other.. women put they kids first to the point they block off everybody else
Y’all keep saying this but she married this man. If her kids came first she would have never married him. What’s wrong with y’all
@@BabyGirlTiny what are you talkin about? Sierra said that he acted completely differently in the beginning of the relationship, as a lot of men do. Especially because statistics show that men are more narcissistic than women. LMAO are you okay? He's not going to see this sweetheart.
Bruh. Her kids should come before you. I couldn’t be with someone like that
Disrespecting her in front of her son, she’s better off without him
I know that's right
Exactly
I married my wife when she was 37 and couldn’t believe she didn’t have kids. Best decision I made. We are expecting in 3 months.
Then you should go be with a guy who has kids already and leave all the single men with no kids to be with sing a woman with no kids. You guys want to have kids from previous relationship, and then wanna still have men who have no kids, and then you yourselves don't want to have any more kids, you guys are selfish, that's why men should not get women with kids. There are so many women in this world who have no kids and deserve to have their first child. With a man who has no kids and leave you guys to your own demise
Why would he buy her food and not himself 😤 THAT IS INSANE! He really purposely didn't himself food to see if she would buy him food? Such a mind F*ck😢
It was a test to see if she would have his back 😂😂 y’all be assuming bc he expects love from his soon to be wife that he hate them kids he don’t , if u in a relationship yes your kids come 1st but your man comes directly after 😂 all that man want is love. It goes to show y’all don’t listen cause all y’all care about is y’all self
@@chiefingmagician3108naw it goes to show that y’all just believe anything a man say. Common sense wouldn’t say let me buy my husband food after he bought me food because grown ass people don’t have to play games like that. Grown ass man would’ve bought his food at the same time instead of looking for a reason to have an issue
@chiefingmagician3108 you don't "test" humans, you communicate your needs and either they're met or they're not. Additionally, it makes zero sense to buy her food, but not buy yourself some just to prove some silly point.
@@cmapit3220 well if women can test to see if somebody care then so can men good day cause. If rolls was reversed and he was eating and there was no food for her it would be a problem pebble brain 🧠
@@chiefingmagician3108Not really. Some adults are just too mature for childish games. Learn to communicate like an adult if you have a problem
I called it! I knew it was something about him. Why would you get with a women that has kids if you don’t want your current partner to have kids? You’re making yourself miserable. The fact that he pretty much said that he wants him to be before her kids is insane.
@@janelleedwards7513 Exactly, and there are plenty of women who have a business (s), married with kids and prioritize their husbands.
Honey. HONEY.
1. Calling your partner ‘my female’ is disgusting.
2. Being jealous of a woman’s relationship with her kids is disgusting.
3. Disrespecting a woman in front of her kids is disgusting.
4. Asking a mother to love you (her bf of 2 days) like she loves her kids is DISGUSTING. That’s her children. Her babies. Don’t ever compare.
Sierra run.
Right thank you 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
So I'm assuming that you have kids. Also, that is why single men should stay away from women like you with kids and get women who don't have kids. So that is one less problem that they have to deal with. And leave you guys alone with your exes and your kids.
HONEY!
What’s wrong with the world female. When you fill out a job application it’s asks if you are female or male so what’s the issue
@djdeznyc it's dehumanising. No one refers to their man as male.
It’s seem like sierra just gives anyone the time of day she needs to learn to be by herself
“My next female” that’s concerning LOL
When he said my next female I knew this whole thing was doomed 😂
I was sure he was the problem when he said that 😭
Not girlfriend or wife just “female”.. he might as well said “my next bitch..”
That was the part that got me. He doesn’t respect her or her kids; I don’t see why she’s with him AT ALL. No man will ever disrespect my baby and think his home is with me. Absolutely not.
I’m a female and I call girls/women/ladies females/female humans because when I was a child I refer to my hair dresser as “lady” and she was extremely offended, said I made her sound old. Female human is a factual term and I don’t use it as disrespect, it’s just a simple word to use.
When a man starts a relationship with a woman who has kids he needs to understand that those kids come first no matter what and treat and respect love them as he would do his own .
That is not his children
That same respect goes to women who get with men that has kids. The Women goin have to be second to his kids then
@@jaybarnes8720no it's different because a mother always put her kids first, a wife puts her kids above her husband that's just our natural instinct
@@jamelahallsdyer that's a double standard
@@jaybarnes8720 no it's just reality
GURL!!!!!!!A man who does not give your children respect and treat them with love and nothing but love GOTTA GO!!!!!!
A deal breaker is a deal breaker even after you get married. He needs to leave her be...
Ever since they moved to MTV it’s definitely giving MTV 😅
The confessionals are MTV asf 😭
Wym
@@urmomlover_1they probably mean the show moved over to mtv channel
Lmao found this out the other day i was surprised. Like when did they move 😂
Yea
“What you compromise to get you must compromise to keep.”
“Gates is not even your last name”😂😂😂😂😂
That's what didn't make sense to me. She said her full name, then he said "he said that's not even your last name, that's your husband's", then she says "why are you always bringing my ex-husband up, who cares?" He literally sat there and said " you are the one that brought your ex-husband up and started talkin about him, not me".... When he literally brought her ex-husband first, because she said her name and because of no other reason. He's a gas lighting, POS, narcissist. And if nobody caught that interaction where he said all that and tried to tell Sierra that she brought her ex up first when he's the one that did, then I'm really surprised.
She said her name at 3:10, he said at 3:16 that it was her ex husband's last name, then at 3:20 she states that he's always trying to bring up her ex, and then at 3:25 that she was the one that brought it up. Like that shit blows me out of the water that people don't catch that, and they still try to blame Sierra for shit 💯
@@colleenharrison1638gates is not a last name she kept her ex husband last name. It’s Thomas
they are forever having confrontations and fixing things. 😩😩
" all you do is worry about your business and your kids" She's a mother she's supposed to worry about her kids. This is why I cannot stand men like WHAT!?? If you didn't want a woman that has kids then don't get with a woman that has kids. At the end the day, like most men, he wants to be her number one priority. Just leave him and focus on bettering herself and her kids lives. How are you mad at a woman that's trying to be a good mother?!?
"All I want is for Sierra to show the same love that she shows her career and her family" This is why is better for women to be single. His pride is hurt because Sierra has a successful career and she values her children. ITS CALLED BEING A MOTHER. These two obviously should not have gotten together. It seems like all the comments in his comments section is defending the man. When the man is being downright sexist. However, it's bad for Sierra to be in this relationship because her kids are seeing this. It's a unhealthy and toxic environment. You don't need to keep a man who disrespects your kids. It irritates me on how he's acting like he didn't know Sierra had kids. She is on National Television, it is blatantly obvious that this woman has kids. 🤦🏿♀️ Let's be real he is mad because the child that's in the house is not his and that's wrong. THE CHILD IS INNOCENT!!! I'm tired of him acting like the victim when he's obviously the perpetrator.
"You said your husband's last name." He's obviously jealous because she has her husband's last name but they were married and she took his last name. I don't understand why there are comments defending him when he's obviously the main issue. Sierra NEEDS to let him go.
" a powerful black woman who's not going to let any man try her." 👑
Nobody is reading your essay.
Perfect example of why you should NEVER COMPROMISE your needs/priorities. You start blaming your partner for you lacking them.
I think the problem is Sierra doesn't know how to be by herself. She's been with one man to another man since she was 13 yrs old. She had her daughter at 14. I think Sierra is scared to be alone!
Yea girl. That darkness that ppl don’t like about themselves will surface when they have to be alone. That can be scary
she had her daughter at 15 boo
@@mariomiller1499 does it really make a difference?! She was still a KID!
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Yup me too
In today’s climate, where women are constantly putting their men before their children, some going as far as taking them out of this world or allowing their boyfriends to do it, Sierra has definitely gained my respect for putting her kids first and I’m sure the respect of real mothers out there.
This man is suppose to love everything about her. Align your lives with each other and see what she can show you that can change your life bozo
I wish her and her children strength, peace, positivity and wellness
The fact he says her children instead of the kids or our kids says a lot about him.
“I always wanted my next female not to have kids” If you don't like children why are you with somebody with kids?
The thing is this conversation went left because she heard him but didn't listen or address what he actually said. He said I don't feel loved she jumped to something else instead of asking why he feel that way. He said she could've set him down and put it on the table when her son came in stead of just springing it on him. Especially with her having older children. He right that wasn't cool of her. No one trying to stop your children from children from coming but you could've given him a heads up you knew it wasn't emergent. He right I wouldn't feel like that was my home either if you just gonna keep moving behind my back ❤
Wow... Shooter & B.K. both shaking their heads. It's a Sierra problem. She should have never entertained this Man knowing he didn't want a woman with Kids..
He never said he didn't love her kids. He said he didn't know how to establish himself with them or where he fit in as they were already big which is a valid concern especially if Sierra never took the time to incorporate him or make him feel comfortable....
But don’t call b and h in front of the kids tho n expect them to respect him
Some times it's necessary to take time out for yourself and kids❤❤❤ sierra hope you find your peace 💕💕🕊️🕊️
I'm glad Sierra sees that Eric is bothering her kids. There alot of women who bypass this and side with the man. Eric is a big jerk.
What a useless relationship 👎
I use to like Sierra but the show really exposed her true nature. I applaud her for putting her kids first but when it comes to relationships she's just lazy as hell. She expects her dude to bend over backwards for her but she isn't suppose to make any adjustments for him. Best example is when Eric surprised her with a condo and she was bitching and moaning about it being too small. Like damn, the man is trying to make things right and you're ungrateful as hell! Sierra is clearly the type who don't respect a dude that doesn't treat her like shit or cheat on her. With both Shooter and BK, she stayed with them after they done had side chicks galore and only finally left because of peer pressure. Now I'm not saying Eric was right for calling her names in front of her kids. That's just outright disrespectful as hell but in the beginning he was doing what he could to make her comfortable and she constantly gave him her ass to kiss. If you keep treating people with disregard for no reason after a while they're gonna snap. She needs to just be by herself because she's too damn selfish to be in a relationship.
It's hard to believe those red flags weren't there before she said"I do". She needs to take a break from all these relationships and stop bringing these men around her kids.
Mama said I didn’t want a woman with kids but I loved her. How do you love her but don’t love her kids? You see her you see her kids. They go together
You should make himself happy. Leave her a** alone with her kids. So she can put her kids first. By herself and go be with a young woman who has no kids. No baggage and lives his life
This is why being a step dad or being in a relationship with a woman with kids is not a good deal for a man who is childless.
So basically she got a man that was different then the rest of the dudes she had on here, he's treating her better then they did but treating him like shit. WOW
Sierra does not know how to compromise at all. She’s always in survival mode.
I agree she's always running too and she never listen if u listen to Eric this man want the relationship she's the problem
@@samaramalcolm-uu7loAgreed!
It’s draining. I can’t stomach her
Eric... just go! You settled sir👋🏽
I understand her relationship with her children, but how can she expect HIM to make her his number one priority while he’s not a priority? That’s not good either.
I can not with Sierra!! She is so juvenile in her way of thinking, and she is never gonna be in a healthy and loving relationship because she doesn't want to fix her faults and grow as a woman emotionally. Her growth is always material and flamboyant.
True I kinda get the guy in this situation. And I think it's quick to think he doesn't love Sierra and her kids, whilst in this scenario, all I see is a man, a partner who is wrongly judged and isn't heard. All the guy was saying is, Sierra needs to try to communicate with him prior to bringing her children in a space they are used to sharing by themselves. It isn't to say he doesn't love Sierra's children but that it's like moving in your partner's mother-in-law to your house as a couple, without having the needed communication n meetings prior to creating space for that adjustment, especially when clear and obvious differences are a given. He is not Sierra's biological father, and does not mean he can out of character whenever he wants, but that such must be a process, that needs conversations n communication enough in order for everyone to respectfully bond.
Playing victim while plotting to move right under this man's nose. Where is the loyalty.
@@eliek2014 I hope this guy never gives up on being the good guy that he seems to be ..as he awaits on finding his match.
@@LifeIsGood49 are you nuts? Did you not hear when she said he calls her b*tches and h*oes in front of her son?
@@eliek2014 are you nuts? Did you not hear when she said he calls her b*tches and h*oes in front of her son?
I’m gonna call Sierra “Can’t Get Right” from now on smh 🤦🏽♀️
😂😂😂😂
Omg 😂😂😂😂
🎯😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Wasn’t sierra the one being flaunting this dude around praising him when they first go together?
Then when he calls her out on her narcissism she plays victim.
How many of her relationships haven’t worked out?
Who’s the common denominator?
FOOOHHHHH
Exactly
Me and my are a package deal. Whether they're grown or not they're still my kids. That will never change.
Despite what seems to be a popular belief in the comments I want to play devil's advocate for a second.... If you are seriously dating someone and you have a set up with your children that may suddenly change - especially if that means someone coming to live with both of you - that *should* be a discussion you have with your partner and even your child. You set boundaries, establish understanding so *everyone* can feel comfortable (as change can come hard for some) if you truly love em. Also, if someone is telling you how you make them feel that is not the time to say "you do this too"; that's not healthy. You can only address one issue at a time. Now if he really was calling her out her name in front of the child.... That's a different discussion.
It’s giving housewives
😂😂😂
Let me just say this they both have valid points . The problem with a lot of women like Sierra they're not intelligent enough to understand what it takes in order for a relationship or marriage to be successful
Every season, Sierra is engaged to a different guy. There's never a wedding...she states that, she and Eric got married already...she has the same storyline, every season...girl bye!
Family structure, shared goals, and similiar parenting styles play a huge part in the success of a relationship where children from previous relationships are present. Much love to them
Exactly 💯💯💯
SierrA Is selfish and cant communicate, he said he wants more attention and she switched in on him.Imagine being vulnerable and then the person not listening
Sierra let that Man go your kids come first
I’m not understanding how she missed these red flags prior to marriage. Your kids no matter how old will always be a package deal. He’s obviously not built to be married to someone with kids. He settled probably assuming he could change how she move and now he’s mad.😂
I don’t think he is saying he doesn’t want the kids around I think he wants attention as well. When you are married you have to balance and make time for your partner. Her kids are older so it should be a level of respect for everyone including him giving the kids respect. Kids grow up and don’t even want you in their business/ life. Better start learning balance and building a life for yourself outside of your kids. Motherhood is great but you are more than just a mother.
I really feel like that is the biggest piece!! Some of us get taught (directly and/or subconsciously) that we have to put our kids and businesses/jobs first and then we can take care of our man, instead of realizing that there has to be a balance to all of it... her being a young mother and having to do everything for herself taught her that unhealthy mindset.. as we grow, we have to realize that we have to unlearn toxic and unhealthy behaviors to be emotionally stable and healthy in our relationships.. and for inner peace.. trips, stuff, and other materialistic things are temporary........
This is giving me red flags 🚩 NEVER let someone tell you they should be before your kids . I used to think she was unfair to him but now seeing this, I like him waaaaay less now
Sierra isn’t dumb she knows what she’s doing. She knows she has to kill Eric’s name and character because she’s done dirt and when her dirt gets revealed the focus won’t be so bad because by that time Eric’s name and character will be in the dirt and she’ll become the victim and get what he deserves. 🤦🏽♀️ the acts of a conniving woman 👩🏽. Man some people are so simple minded easy to get over on.
I see that too. She’s very conniving and vindictive. She enjoys emasculating men to boost her ego.
He did this to himself,he shouldn’t have compromised his wants and needs for sierra he new he didn’t want a woman with kids
I don't understand why people are applauding Sierra and saying she's great for making her children her priority...what are they seeing that I'm not? If man doesn't like your children, is treating your children poorly, or is harassing your children, you should've packed his crap up and kicked him out Or you leave. How is she getting applause when she's staying with the man who doesn't like her children? I'm not saying she's a bad mother by the way. I'm saying the red flags are there and yet shes choosing to stay.
I can not stand a man that gets jealous of some damn kids 🚮
This made me so sad for her smh who would've known she was going through this!❤️🙏🏽
Her storyline is so redundant and tacky. All she does is chase after men and get in relationships that are based on absolutely nothing. Seems like her kids are accessories in all this MESS
That doesn’t make sense. They’re literally fighting because her kids are a priority 😂 you just make shit up
‼️ That part
Starting to realize misery lives company and Sierra is miserable! She seems to do a bit of self sabotage.
Hence her face. Smh
@@empressleesa2252 💀🥀
This reminded me of that scene from mean girls when Regina told Cady that a ll Aaron cared about was school, his family, and his friends and Cady was like “is that bad?”
Shoulda left the first time he disrespected her in front of her kids. That is an ignorant man child 🤦🏾♀️
The way he said "next female" tells me all I need to know about him 😒
i’m confused what structure ?? the only discipline they should be getting is from their mom . He wants to be her first priority and everything else can fall in line after smh 🤦🏼♀️ please let this man go . it’s too many RED FLAGS 🚩
Tht whole u got some food for me knowing he brought food and it was for her was funny af😂😂😂😂why he play so much
That's why I say people with no kids should be with other people without kids. Don't be a stepparent before you're a real parent.
Sierra stand your ground, I'm so proud of you and respect you for that. Nobody comes before your children..
They’re BOTH wrong and anyone who says otherwise is being biased. Her throwing her name in his face knowing it’s her ex husbands is wild crazy. He probably expected to marry her and have her with his last name and she kept that last man’s. I’d be so hurt. She’s also wrong for not communicating with him with bringing her child into the home. LISTEN, She’s supposed to be a mother first. But, communication rules the world. No matter how he would’ve responded, he should be given the opportunity to. He didn’t want children and married her thinking the son would be with the dad. He lowkey feels tricked. On the other hand, she’s a grown woman and it’s her obligation to let her child love with her if he chooses, regardless of how her man feels. Parents should always put their child before any relationship. Disrespecting her in front of the child, ofc you feel uncomfortable like sierra said. Now you have animosity built up for a child who more than likely doesn’t respect you because you calling his mom names infront of him. I’m all for a woman not marrying and turning into a servant. They’re both wrong and need communication therapy.
Buying someone food and then asking where your food at is toxic af. Sir you was at the restaurant 😂
He’s delusional!😂😂😂😂putting him before her kids LOL HE BEST WAKE!
She has no intentions or interest in listening to anything he had to say...totally dismissed him while he tried being vulnerable and saying "I need love" that's a deal breaker so it's obviously over and it won't get any better...
Thank you
Damn .. everytime I come back to this show .. it’s another one
Lmfaooooooo the man bought her food and didn’t buy any for himself and asking her for food😭
she is the problem, she is not compromising, and that has been a problem with their relationship.
I knew you were a man before opening you DP. You might need to rewatch this. A man calls a woman all sorts in front of her children and treats her like trash and you want her to do what???? Come on and don’t show that’s you’re not clever outside!
Tf? How does she need to compromise? Watch the whole episode . Dude is jealous of her relationship with her kids! He even said he wanted a female with no kids. He needs to go ahead and get the divorce and get a female with no kids . He wants sierra to himself . Her kids come first PERIOD!
@@ladyn5273so sierra mouth innocent? 😅 I’ll wait bc the thing you’re focused on was said wayyy after he explained why he feels the way he does which isn’t bad at all 😂😂 y’all know that man right which is y y’all so hard pressed once again another female dodging accountability like Michael Jordan on the court
@@chiefingmagician3108 No I have a problem with a grown man going into an 18 year olds bedroom and going through her things.
I have a problem with a man calling a woman out her name.
I have a problem with a man having his wife’s child come and stay with them.
As a woman we know when something is suspect and that man is suspect.
@@ladyn5273 cool what that got to do with their conversation tho ? Exactly nothing sit down 🪑 cause you focused on the wrong thing. They’re as talking about their relationship not the daughter n her room. Y do y’all always bring up stuff when y’all close to having to take accountability? He said he wanna be loved and prioritized not “ I DONT WANT YOUR KODS AROUND” he clearly said he don’t feel loved or prioritized so what that gotta do with ole girl room ?
Sierra you fell in love too fast.....Take some time off. Six months or a year before you date the next man.
I definitely get what she is feeling. I went through the same thing! Men get jealous of male kids!
He's jealous of her kids. Cut him loose.
Blending families ain't no joke...and women we are very protective of our children! The fact that her kids are older definitely makes it harder but as someone who went thru this they can definitely work thru this issue as a whole! I wish them the best
Fboy sense is tingling
There's a lot I could say about this but Eric doesn't come off as a bad guy to me. People are constantly bringing up the fact that he said he didn't want someone with kids to make it seem like he was the one playing games or something, but he was just probably willing to give the situation a chance because of how he felt about her, and Sierra does seem like a cool person, but in this instance, I'm kinda understanding where Eric is coming from. I don't believe that Eric is jealous of Sierra's kids, but at the same time, they are married, so for him to want Sierra to spend more time with him isn't wrong, and doesn't mean that he's wanting her to neglect her kids. I just feel like Eric should divorce her and move on.
He gave her a chance because she had money
@@lethalbeauties6182 He has his own.
Always go with your gut instinct if your heart is not feeling to go with a woman with kids
Never compromise your standards. Cause this is what happened. He settled. He's still young he can still move on and find someone with no kids
A “good guy” doesn’t call a woman disrespectful names, especially around her children. He’s very selfish, immature and abusive. He’s a gaslighter.
@@lillybethford1915 You don't even have any context as to what may have led to him saying that to her (if he actually did). She may have been disrespectful to him, but I suppose you don't want to consider that possibility.
Sorry but the food is one big ass red flag 🚩
He acts like a teenager with his first girlfriend. "My next FEMALE." 🤢
I’m a female and I call girls/women/ladies females/female humans because when I was a child I refer to my hair dresser as “lady” and she was extremely offended, said I made her sound old. Female human is a factual term and I don’t use it as disrespect, it’s just a simple word to use.
@@stephifox9955 It's not a simple word to use. It's more often than not used in a derogatory way. But most importantly, its roots tie back to slavery when white slave owners used the term "female" to other black women and liken them to an animal to justify the experiments and violence they inflicted on them (look into the history of gynecology).
If your kids come first in a marriage then just stay single. How is it you want to come first in his life but he has to settle for 4th n shit.
That's why the relationship doesn't last.
He wanted them to adjust to his life but he didn’t want to adjust to theirs?? That’s weird.
First, he should have not disrespected her by calling her out her name PERIOD! Mason will NEVER respect him! Over twenty five years ago a man called me a bih. I threw beer in his face and drew a knife on him. And wished he would have tried to do something; he would have been sliced up. I further called his mother and grandmother a bih. That was back in the day. Now, I would just end the relationship. I will NEVER accept a man calling me out my name, NEVER!
I never knew she had a son