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I dated a filipina online and in person. I fell in love with her and the Philippines. We will celebrate 11 years married this summer. I am blessed. Thanks Pea for the videos
I was married to an intelligent, strong, independent, and beautiful American born Filipina for almost 15 years before she died way to young. She was a 22 year old 3rd year college student when we had our wedding and I was the first and only man she ever did anything with. From first kiss to wedding night to the birth of our son. Something that has been lost in recent generations is a feeling that I can’t even describe that you only experience from being the only man your wife has ever shared the most intimate and personal part of her life with. It’s not a macho thing or pride thing, it’s more a feeling of being the most special man ever. A woman can only give that part of herself to one man ever and for her to give that to you and make a vow to be yours and only yours forever is without a doubt the most overwhelming and deeply personal almost spiritual feeling I have ever felt. She made me want to be a better man every day of our life together. We never argued or raised our voices at each other, never went to sleep angry and when she became so ill that the doctors suggested she go into a special facility I said no. I wasn’t going to let strangers do what I promised her I would do on our wedding day nor was I going to let them rob her of her dignity. I took care of her 24/7 for 25 months, doing everything for her. I learned how to do her makeup and hair the way she liked it. I bathed her and pampered her and dressed her, I even took care of all her personal/private hygiene issues. As time went on she needed a wheelchair but refused to let me remodel our home to accommodate one. So 10-15 times a day I picked her up, held her in my arms close to my body and carried her anywhere she wanted. It was only a few weeks before she passed that she told me how being in my arms so much every day gave her the strength to get through each day and she wouldn’t have had that in a facility full of strangers. She made me promise to remarry and not be alone and also said I would have to go to the Philippines to find a woman worthy of a husband like me. During those 25 months my son who was 11-13 years old saw firsthand how a real man keeps his vows and takes care of the woman he loves. I will be arriving in the Philippines this year 2023. Please pray I find the right Filipina for me. Cheers
Damn, that's how a man and husband does it! Your son is getting to see first hand such great acts. I'm a bit jealous coming from parents who have 4 divorces under their collective belts.
I really hope you do find another partner and I think going to the Philippines will be good for you . I am a 60 year old widow female and I know how it feels to loose the person you love most in life . I just wish I was healthy enough to travel even as a female I’m sure I would find a better partner overseas .
You’re a role model for every young man today. Your wife must have been so blessed and unfortunate at the same time. I wish you finding another partner worthy of taking the place of that girl who loved you so much to become your devoted wife.
The fact that she analyzes and correlates the variables with each situation she’s involved in that promotes a good solution to the issues at hand. Intelligence and articulation within her verbalization that she voices is absolutely immaculate.
-Any time Angel talks, I listen. She is very insightful. -They say honesty is the best policy. I say honesty is the ONLY policy. -My wife LOVES your channel. She's always laughing and saying "that's so true" about things you say about Philippines, Filipinas, and even about us Western guys. That's how I know you are on point... -3rd date rule... this is applicable only when two Westerners are dating. I don't think the 3rd date rule applies when dating someone from another culture. Looking forward to the 2nd video!!
Honesty is the best policy for sure, but you're unlikely to get 100% honesty from any filipina, it's just how they were brought up, to deflect, blame, or deny any wrongdoings. Pea has discussed these traits at length in prior videos.
@Andreas Müller lol very pessimistic fella. You meet…the right Filipina…say middle class, you will not be asked for monies ..they just want the best life for the daughter,it’s that simple. All the best.
@Andreas Müller lol …you’ve been bitten. I’ve never been taken advantage of…that’s maybe your experience, don’t project the bad side…good things are not going to come to you. Chill out…Filipina’s are general have the most beautiful hearts. Good luck 🤞..all the best 👍
A woman introducing her new man to the parents is a big step, as it opens her up to judgement and criticism from people she will have to deal with even after the relationship fails (if it does). It also implies that she is serious and isn't ashamed of her choice.
@@philliprosenthal3325 Exactly …this has been my experience, I was pretty shocked when my partner introduced me to her family ..in pretty short time. Her whole family were shocked as her last relationship was approx 5 years previously. I was treated like a king lol ..and this is in a middle class family in Manila. Filipina will evaluate..your suitability etc…4 years on. GLTA. 🙏
I just found this channel,I am from the US,I did not know that there was still true ladies left in the world,very refreshing and respect to all you ladies
It’s so good to hear what Filipina women want and how they want to be loved and pursued. I can’t wait to travel there this year and experience the beauty of the islands as well as the amazing women who not only look amazing but their mentality is total opposite of what we deal with here in the western world. Thanks Pea for this panel of information. Greatly appreciated!
Not as opposite as you’d think. I’ve been living here for 4 months and they’re more western than I’d hoped. Social media is the destroyer of all good things.
@@TheVaryus interesting. Thanks for the heads up. That damn social media travels well I see 🤦🏽♂️. Maybe when I’m over that way later this year we can link up and drink a few cold ones and you can fill me in a little more in depth.
Pea, I always find these videos interesting. Working overseas, I interact with both Filipinas and Western women and the more I talk to both, the more I understand why "Passport Bro" is a thing. Just listening to the convo you can see the personalities of Filipinas and why it is so easy for men to gravitate to. Truly refreshing
@@nexjuberbar2791 jeez fella, what’s the best …modern with traditional values of course..still god fearing …family values but without the money responsibility of the supposed poorer Filipina’s. Take your choice …😊all the best 😊
@@nexjuberbar2791 From my experiences, I cannot help to think that what a Filipina says is not the same as what they do. Being said, be careful everyone.
@@TheFilipinaPea Hey Pea i have a question. Do the girls over there have a preference between Americans europeans Africans or asians? Are there things they keep in mind while searching for a relationship?
please laugh at me, but i have learnt more in 20min from this video than i have for the entire 42 yrs of my life anywhere else, and i was raised by a single mother who never taught me a single thing about what women want or how to approach women etc...
As soon as Pea mentioned losing the V, they all went very, very quiet. Like they were dead inside, re-living a personal trauma. Pea had to apply conversational CPR to keep the interview going. Well done, Pea. Saving UA-cam lives.
Smart ladies. I especially agreed with Angel quite a bit on her answers to the questions. I don't remember which of the ladies brought up the trust issue. To me, trust can be the hardest thing to earn, and the easiest thing to lose.
This is how it's supposed to go. You meet the person and you ask them on a date so you can get to know the person. It may take multiple dates before you feel comfortable enough to be in an actual relationship. Once you're in a relationship you get rid of all the other people that you was dating at that time so that you can concentrate on what it would be like to be married to this person. You do married people activities and you concentrate on if that's where you want to be in life. This involves you learning how to take care of each other and sharing the bills and responsibilities around the house. And after all of that stuff is said and done, you finally get married because now you have an understanding of how you want the rest of your life to go with this person. You now know what to expect. If you can't concentrate on this your marriage fail. Women in the West don't want you to get to know them. they just want you to get into a serious relationship and instantly start paying their bills. You don't even know what they actually look like most if the time because they're covered in makeup an fake attachments like hair, nails and eyelashes. So if you make that commitment to marry her , you.now become responsible for a person who has nothing to offer you but a lot to take from you. 🤷🏾♂️
There is a huge problem in your dating strategy. If both people are keeping their dating options open with potential suitors it detracts from the dating and courtship. More appropriately after 3-4:dates a conversation should occur about dating and only communicating with one another to see if you are right for a relationship. If you have constant interaction with others it disrespects the person you are dating as you are keeping your options open. That ruins trust because he or she might even be dating others and like the other person more. If so don't waste your time as that person does not know what they want. A person that knows only dates the person that is at the top of their list. Why should someone be dating others and risk their top choice.
@@RCFSULAW you said the exact same thing as me🤦🏾♂️ date multiple people in the beginning until you find the 1 then concentrate on that one and get rid of the others. This is when you are now in a serious relationship. How did you miss that. 🤷🏾♂️
There probably is just something wrong with me but if I find out the girl I like is dating around, I turn off. Even if we aren't exclusive. I don't like women who are just women. I like particular women. So, typically, it's rarely once in a long while I'll find a girl I actually like. I can't have options for the sake of having options like others can.
But these girls in the video are wild. ,These type of Filipina you have to avoid with. Avoid these type of filipina, plenty of filipina, more deserved to be love,wife material. Im filipino male btw
@@vent9606 … You can say they’re like outspoken and less traditional, but wild!? It’s not that they’re like the type of girls that are having a high bodycount just for the fun of it. Wild girls, I don’t think you’ve really met one yet, will eat you alive, chew on you and spit you out, on to the next.. Imo they’re open and more a bit westernized in thinking that is, but that’s okay, as long as there’s respect, good conversations,… I do believe, they look for the same most of us do, and that’s finding that unicorn, that will love and cherish the hell out of them, in mutual respected ways. And yahhh, they might be more open and knowing, but that’s what Westeners like. What do you have from a partner, that doesn’t know anything about anything? I think, all 4 of them actually are excellent wife material, to the right guys that is, and that may not be your taste, but that’s okay.. Maybe you should try to open up a bit, or maybe try date a Western woman, you might start to think differently! Have a blessed day po 🙏🏼
Good Morning Pea! I really LOVED how Angel opened the topic of discussion in this video. I served in the U.S. Navy for 12 years and my first duty station was the Philippines. prior to going there, I ran around San Diego, California. I did my fair sharing of running around in the Philippines and other countries too. During all of that time I saw couples out together and slowly but surely I wanted that too. I was all getting too old to be clubbing it up too. Now I wouldn't date anyone that I have not considered marrying. I am also exclusive when it comes to dating. I had friends while in the U.S. Navy that dated multiple women and was always amazed at how they did it. Whenever I met a woman, the first thing they would always tell me is that they weren't going to have any of that! My biggest rule is regarding cheating. It is NOT a mistake but a selfish choice. I tell women if they are going to cheat, make sure the person they are cheating with is MUCH better than me in every way and do not come back to me ever! For some reason, they always would and I NEVER EVER took them back and forgave them. No amount of money, no amount of power, not one's physical appearance should cause anyone to make the choice to cheat on someone you said you loved. Sadly the military exposes one to lots of things regarding relationships and separation due to the job and it really isn't good at all and causes lots of trust issues. Great video. and there at the end is my Asawa!!
"I tell women if they are going to cheat, make sure the person they are cheating with is MUCH better than me in every way and do not come back to me ever". Interesting. I like that. Thanks
I hope you will find love and trust in women one day I was in war special forces in Bosnia fighting against Serbs train by x army best soldiers are one that doesn't have to lose anything but what we fight for God gives you one life to live but you can't look what people around you doing you are not them you are who you are look at Jesus life what he did how he lives that would give you all answers
If they cheat let them walk away never go back. Had it done to me ripped my heart out. I'm a single father now her loss not watching her son grow up. If she loves you she will stay. If not move on
@Andreas Müller you are just a one idiot who can't have simple conversation with out insulting people because of people like you there is war everywhere and to answer your question yes Allah I give blessings to someone else not you and that one never said anything because he has education and respect for others you should get some books and read it not just seating in front of TV and trusting what they said for your information I am who I am and for sure I am better person than you have blessed day and God bless
I’m glad Pea discussed the issue of waiting until marriage to have sex. I’ve always been surprised that so many Filipinas list themselves as Catholic, yet there are still so many single mothers there. Personally, as a conservative and a Christian, I would prefer (and respect!) any woman who wanted to wait until marriage.
If you aren't a *minimum* ripped 6'0" hundred thousandaire Chad/Tyrone, you'll get basically no attention in current year. I got the height at least, working on the other two 💪
There are a lot of Filipino bloggers these days, but top to bottom your content is the very best, Pea. I'm going to miss your insights when and if you quit doing your great videos. You are very much appreciated.
I always make the lady I'm seeing exclusive but if she wants to talk to other guys, that's ok as long as she talks to me about it? Hiding contact with other people is a danger sign! The moment for horizontal jiggy-jiggy is up to the couple I think, you'll know when its right if you pay attention! Loved this session! Hope everything is OK at home and for the family lovely Pea! ❤️🥰😘
My wife of 24 years left me devastated. I never saw it coming. So I haven’t touched another woman since 1999. Only her. I am retiring to PH in 2 years (was 5 but my company is keeping me on as a consultant, Yayy!) I believe a high body count is bad for men too so I will not touch another woman until I know she’s the one. Love your work Pea! You are as smart as your are beautiful.❤️❤️
Giving inspires receiving it’s pretty simple in my mind . It’s like gifts there is joy in giving a great gift to someone you love it makes you happy as well .
It's an absolute gem of a video Pea! Witnessing these intelligent women sharing their opinions, experiences, and wisdom with you and amongst themselves in such a respectable manner is priceless! Great content, ladies! 🎉
I'm one that said that the one who invite someone should pay, for me it's like common sense and I lived my life like that. Now I'm not from the US when the dating world looks like absolute crap been for the women that are all over social media (and the one that give you an idea of the overall) and for men who look that as an obligation. When Angel mention the idea of splitting the bill, sounds so different for the overall idea that you see as a foreign from the US that it's insane. It shows that all depend on the intension and how someone express themselves. I'm planning a trip to Philippines and with all the videos around here and also yours's Pea every time I'm seriously thinking of finding a partner for the rest of my life. Besides that Filipinas are gorgeous, the way they see things is very... I really like it.
Pea, just discovered the channel recently. Quality content. Your intelligence grabbed me right away and keeps me watching. Your UA-cam success is well deserved.
2:40 to answer your question to the audience. I’m traditional, I like to pay on a first date, but I appreciate the gesture to split. Really funny, I met my Philippina girlfriend here in Belgium, she live here, makes her living here, so when we visited the Philippines, we shared cost, as a couple, but she handled the payments as she still has an account in the Philippines, we settled up afterwards. But, in touristy places where you see many westerners with Filipinas, restaurant staff for example would hand me the bill. The puzzled look on their faces when my gf took the bill from me and paid. Clearly, they aren’t used to that and expect the westerners pay.
women's words and actions are two different things. what they say they want and what they will tolerate or participate in and what they are attracted to, are all different and can change depending on her mood, environment and many other factors.
Angel…the correct answer is to always offer to pay your share. A good man will always say no…but the offer is appreciated. Also…just a tip, if a man opens your car door, reaching over and opening his means a lot too.
Pea OMG! look at Angel! She really came out her shell. I knew it, she was always my favorite out the three. And yes, I watch you to learn the Filipino culture before I move there.
This is a good video for us foreigners who are going to come over there seeking a relationship. A lot of this information needs to be put on the table when you first go on your date because if she is dating someone else you get to decide whether or not you want to continue on in that relationship instead of her, hiding it and hurting you later on
As a upcoming 65 year old Marine, I have been to the Philippines 4-5 times, obviously Olongapo, and Cebu, I would like to chime in, when two consensual adults go on a date, it's to meet and greet, after the first date then maybe get physical, you do have to see if your are both compatible with either other, physically and mentally.
One thing that impressed me about these girls is how smart and articulate they all are. They seem like professional, college educated girls. Having someone to communicate with intelligently is as important if not more important to me than just the physical relationship. Where do you find Filipinas like them? I'd like to know.
I'm going to give you some good advice. If the guy is an American and he pays, he's interested. If you offer to pay or pay half and he accepts, he's being polite. American men are afraid of emotional back lash or confrontation. Most mature American men want to feel emotional connection first. They won't admit it, but it's true. I like how thoughtful Philippino women are.
Good morning my friends! Thank you for another fine video Pea. You’re doing a great job of making us even more anxious to date in the Philippines. I hope you get in touch with the tourism bureau soon so that you can start making some money for all of the people you bring to your beautiful country.
I subscribed to your channel, I have learned so much just in a couple of hours! Not just about PH culture, but about human nature in general. Thank you for the honesty, and the comedy! I think I am gonig to be watching all your videos to learn more :)
Good evening Pea nice to see the panel again hope all is still well with the family after the fire the cat sends his best wishes and said to have the best weekend you can 🐈⬛
Interesting conversation. No judgement but I think by the answers Lauren has a more modern American woman type thought process. She definitely stood out almost opposite from the others as far as pretty privileged. No disrespect to her but she is definitely the one if your a guy you should be shying away from. Most Filipinas want to please and take care of their husbands she said she wants to be pleased. She said it’s ok to date multiple people same time then tried to change it after Frichi gave her answer about talking to a few but only dating one guy. Pay attention guys, the red flags always show up but you have to pay close attention. Watching videos like this is how you learn and see the differences. Thanks Pea and thanks to all the ladies for being honest. Again sorry to Lauren if you are offended, just being honest on my take, but don’t worry I’m a old fat married to a Filipina already so I’m not someone you would want to date or even care about my opinions. This is for the guys to learn from.
@@TheFilipinaPea It would be interesting to hear from some less educated girls though. Maybe their opions would be different to girls who went to college? Might be harder to find ones that speak good English but they are there. 😉
@@normm I’ve already interviewed women of every age group, teens to sixties, from all parts of the Philippines, provinces to cities. Look back in my list of videos and you’ll see them all 👍😊
It's been over 20 years since my marriage ended and I've dated anyone. I don't even want to bother dating here in the States. Looking forward to coming to The Philippines next year now that I'm retired :-) Thank you so much for all these wonderful videos, Pea. You really are one-of-a-kind.
Men watch this channel because they are considering stepping outside of their culture to find a significant other. The more we learn about you the better we understand you. That helps us to make better choices and to understand your needs, wants and desires. In other words, what you want in a relationship.
She is on point, articulate, about herself, and what she is confident in. Her heart is large, but just real. She is the opposite and equal reaction to myself.
Hi Angel, regarding "splitting the bill." My Sister was dating a guy she was really crazy for and asked me for advice. She said/asked, "Rich always pays for our dates and I feel bad, because I offer to pay half and he refuses." I just laughed and said, " do you always say "thank you" when he pays?" She said, "of course!" I said, "don't worry, the fact that you say "thank you" and offer pitch-in sets you above the competition. That being said, if you really want to win his heart, when you say "thank you," move close to him, look into his eyes, smile and give him a nice kiss." Months later, he proposed and they married...smiles!!
It's wonderful to delve into the mind of Filipinas. Especially when four lovely ladies are so candid about matters. As for a Filipina having a problem with their man watching your videos. I've been down that road. I'm not giving up the treasure that is Pea. BTW, she's gone and I'm still watching your videos. 😂 It was good to see the familiar faces and the new one. You always have the best content. Be safe
Greetings from Costa Rica.🏖 I am a man of means and single. Having lived a large part of my life in Europe and the U.S. I was very impressed with the Filipina who stated she would be happy to split the bill on the first date! This speaks volumes to her positive character. I have never been to the Phillipines, I am however planning to visit in the near future.
Best decision I ever made was to find me a Filipina! Selling my home in Manuel Antonio C.R. area and planning to move this year! Been here 14 years and ready to leave now. Bye bye Costa Rica hello Philippines! Where are you located Pura Vida?
@@ericlee2931 I agree. I think the man should pay, even if the woman makes more money. It's about roles. Good men are supposed to be chivalrous. It's like a man opening a door for a lady. A lady COULD open a door for a man, but that's just awkward because the roles don't dictate that. Men and women ARE NOT EQUAL (at least in ALL ways). They are DIFFERENT. Women do some things BETTER (or worse). Men do some things BETTER (or worse). Before anyone gets mad I mean in general. Yes, SOME women are stronger physically than SOME men, for example. And that's okay. That's why the two teaming up make such a strong and positive thing.
Kudos to the woman that had the same answer on who pays as my favorite date before marriage had. i took her out, then at the end of the date she asked me out for a simpler dinner and movie. It set the tone, and showed her expectations as an equal.
You should always make your dating intentions known. But why some people love that part of the game of not expressing their intentions, at least not honestly. Whatever they might want to call it in the title, it comes down to hurting someone intentionally. It’s a game that they want to win. That means they have to make the other person lose.
Even after being intimate, we still saw others and were open about it. We were upfront about seeing other people. After 3-4 months, we decided to be exclusive.
Awesome ladies! Shining examples of why Western men are traveling to meet you. Not many women exist like you in Western society. The ones that do exist, are criticized and judged by other women. I am hoping to meet my future wife in the Philippines before 2023 is over. Thanks for inspiring hope and happiness❤💃🌹
Each time I see one of your videos I find myself nodding in agreement with every word. Everything seems so broken in America, men and women treating each other horribly. The amount of hate thrown at one another between genders, races, creeds, is horrific. We're all supposed to be in this together, but instead everyone wants to blame one another for their own unhappiness. I've learned a lot about the Philippines from my filipino friends here in America (and more recently from your channel) and everything I've seen or heard of the Philippines is such a breath of fresh air. It's swiftly become my dream to move there some day.
"Healing" means, I have been ran through and now it's time to find a "good guy". Person initiates the date pays, she herself will never ask a guy so it's the guy, lol. Western feminism is getting there and it's affecting the thought process. It's only a matter of time.
On virginity... As a guy who chose not to indulge with the few times I was offered, I have a hard time being okay with someone who did as a serious partner. I can understand if it was like once, in the confines of a relationship that was leading to marriage. But after that, I just can't take them seriously unless they were unlucky and it happened again. Also, if they were an exception (like they are widowed or the guy they were going to marry died) I better never hear it brought up. If they do or try comparing me to their previous partners, I'm instantly dumping them. Don't want to know or hear of it. I just feel gross thinking the person I marry has given herself away to someone else. Again, there are exceptions. But, it doesn't change the fact that she isn't entirely my wife.
I just came back after seeing my Filipina we talked for 7 months and I went over and spent the week with her and Cebu and her home in Zamboanga. We're both Christians so we limited our physical activity to just kissing no sex before marriage is what we believe in. She's an excellent kisser has a wonderful attitude works very hard and makes good money but is incredibly frugal that lives in a little shoebox. On my day of my birthday is the day before I came back to America I knew that I had to have her and asked her to marry me and she said yes. We are now back in the States planning our wedding it will be in the Philippines cuz that's where all her friends are. We have to go through the long grind to bring her over to United States which is now according to the statistics will take anywhere from 17 to 33 months. I am rather curious if anybody in here knows if I submit the paperwork to have her brought over as a fiance then get married eight months later do I have to start the whole process over again or does having the marriage license actually make things easier if anybody knows there's lots of foreigners in here. And that second girlfriend left some foreign guy better get her phone number she's serious about finding a guy
Hello Pea. Is there a possibility that we can get the story behind Lauren? I get the feeling that she is from the U.S. Hearing her story about transitioning to the Philippines would be interesting. I would be interested in hearing her story.
Till you ask a Filipina to be your girlfriend, till you meet her family you are not a couple a Filipina will not be exclusive she will keep options open. It's old school in the Philippines ❤
I really like this video as it can show younger men that no matter the age of most Filipinas, they seem to have a very good "traditional" view, despite using technology now more than ever, tinged with more modern views and reality in life and love. I have noticed that unlike in the West, they had not even once mentioned physical attributes and financials, but feelings and a serious life as a couple. They seem to think about the man and themselves as one couple...Not two people that are just "together" in words...Not deeds. And in American English, they can express themselves with any good things and problems they have and want to resolve. This good reputation in MY opinion makes Filipinas a great choice among others for serious relations and for wives. I can personally attest to this long ago if you are both in tune. And you will not see many [tasteless] tattooed women, with nose rings, piercings, and more as you would see in the West and even Thailand, as markings like that to me...Scream stay away and find a good and proper lady as something may be [very] amiss. And Filipinas have great skin too! Though I did see one Filipina there that did have tattoos, she still seemed very nice and would appeal to men that liked markings and "skin art" and being younger it is understandable. This is a very nice, interesting interview, and will help many Filipinas and the Philippines to attract what I hope...Are good men to come there for long-term fulfillment, exploration, and love, as well as to know the Filipino people and their culture. Good one for men of any age to see and relate to. Peace!
Great vlog!!! Lauren is a great addition to your group. She’s upbeat with an easy smile. Well done putting out this content. I find it very informative to learn about cultural norms.
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I am 66, widower, can't get it up no more because of my prostate, so what good would a wife or girlfriend do for me?
guys don't care if you still have your cherry, just as long as you still have the box it came in!
i love you . your so funny and talented and full of good advice . love your personalety
do you have an older sister ??? ( wink--- tongue in cheek ).
The way "dating" is defined certainly has changed since the 60's.
I dated a filipina online and in person. I fell in love with her and the Philippines. We will celebrate 11 years married this summer. I am blessed. Thanks Pea for the videos
11 years! Congrats to you both! ❤️❤️❤️
Praise God
Congrats
KEEP TELLING UR JOINED HARTS STORY. PLEASE/ THANKS
All the best, good bless you guys 😊
I was married to an intelligent, strong, independent, and beautiful American born Filipina for almost 15 years before she died way to young.
She was a 22 year old 3rd year college student when we had our wedding and I was the first and only man she ever did anything with.
From first kiss to wedding night to the birth of our son. Something that has been lost in recent generations is a feeling that I can’t even describe that you only experience from being the only man your wife has ever shared the most intimate and personal part of her life with.
It’s not a macho thing or pride thing, it’s more a feeling of being the most special man ever. A woman can only give that part of herself to one man ever and for her to give that to you and make a vow to be yours and only yours forever is without a doubt the most overwhelming and deeply personal almost spiritual feeling I have ever felt.
She made me want to be a better man every day of our life together. We never argued or raised our voices at each other, never went to sleep angry and when she became so ill that the doctors suggested she go into a special facility I said no.
I wasn’t going to let strangers do what I promised her I would do on our wedding day nor was I going to let them rob her of her dignity.
I took care of her 24/7 for 25 months, doing everything for her. I learned how to do her makeup and hair the way she liked it. I bathed her and pampered her and dressed her, I even took care of all her personal/private hygiene issues.
As time went on she needed a wheelchair but refused to let me remodel our home to accommodate one. So 10-15 times a day I picked her up, held her in my arms close to my body and carried her anywhere she wanted.
It was only a few weeks before she passed that she told me how being in my arms so much every day gave her the strength to get through each day and she wouldn’t have had that in a facility full of strangers.
She made me promise to remarry and not be alone and also said I would have to go to the Philippines to find a woman worthy of a husband like me.
During those 25 months my son who was 11-13 years old saw firsthand how a real man keeps his vows and takes care of the woman he loves.
I will be arriving in the Philippines this year 2023. Please pray I find the right Filipina for me.
Cheers
Damn, that's how a man and husband does it! Your son is getting to see first hand such great acts. I'm a bit jealous coming from parents who have 4 divorces under their collective belts.
I really hope you do find another partner and I think going to the Philippines will be good for you . I am a 60 year old widow female and I know how it feels to loose the person you love most in life . I just wish I was healthy enough to travel even as a female I’m sure I would find a better partner overseas .
Damn this makes me cry reading this😢. Your such a good man with a pure heart to your late wife God bless you brother and always loves you
Thank you for sharing this and giving a deep perspective on what love is and can be. All the best to you, Sir.
You’re a role model for every young man today. Your wife must have been so blessed and unfortunate at the same time. I wish you finding another partner worthy of taking the place of that girl who loved you so much to become your devoted wife.
The fact that she analyzes and correlates the variables with each situation she’s involved in that promotes a good solution to the issues at hand. Intelligence and articulation within her verbalization that she voices is absolutely immaculate.
Lauren sounds like she was born in the United States. Thank you for another wonderful video Pea!
I was thinking the same, very western vibes from her.
I believe she was, yes 👍
My thoughts too, very western woman answers. The kind foreigners aren't interested in.
Yes every second word "like" Australian girls talk the same.
@@ejtaylor73 exactly I don't think most western men liked her vibe at all. Traditional filipina for the win
-Any time Angel talks, I listen. She is very insightful.
-They say honesty is the best policy. I say honesty is the ONLY policy.
-My wife LOVES your channel. She's always laughing and saying "that's so true" about things you say about Philippines, Filipinas, and even about us Western guys. That's how I know you are on point...
-3rd date rule... this is applicable only when two Westerners are dating. I don't think the 3rd date rule applies when dating someone from another culture.
Looking forward to the 2nd video!!
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Honesty is the best policy for sure, but you're unlikely to get 100% honesty from any filipina, it's just how they were brought up, to deflect, blame, or deny any wrongdoings. Pea has discussed these traits at length in prior videos.
@@barnabyzelman Well, Barnaby, I got REALLY lucky. I've been with my wife 6 years, married 4... she's never lied to or misled me.
@@Murph_. That you know about... There will have been a few porkies.. Porky pies, everybody lies 😂🎉
*Crap Game*
She reminds me of Bea Arthur in The Golden Girls.
I think I’m convinced. Philippines, here I come.
Did you make it?
If so, is it what you expected?
Meeting the family of a Filipina is a big step in the dating process, and usually means you and your partner are exclusive.
@Andreas Müller lol very pessimistic fella. You meet…the right Filipina…say middle class, you will not be asked for monies ..they just want the best life for the daughter,it’s that simple. All the best.
@Andreas Müller lol …you’ve been bitten. I’ve never been taken advantage of…that’s maybe your experience, don’t project the bad side…good things are not going to come to you. Chill out…Filipina’s are general have the most beautiful hearts. Good luck 🤞..all the best 👍
A woman introducing her new man to the parents is a big step, as it opens her up to judgement and criticism from people she will have to deal with even after the relationship fails (if it does). It also implies that she is serious and isn't ashamed of her choice.
@@philliprosenthal3325 Exactly …this has been my experience, I was pretty shocked when my partner introduced me to her family ..in pretty short time. Her whole family were shocked as her last relationship was approx 5 years previously. I was treated like a king lol ..and this is in a middle class family in Manila. Filipina will evaluate..your suitability etc…4 years on. GLTA. 🙏
I just found this channel,I am from the US,I did not know that there was still true ladies left in the world,very refreshing and respect to all you ladies
It’s so good to hear what Filipina women want and how they want to be loved and pursued. I can’t wait to travel there this year and experience the beauty of the islands as well as the amazing women who not only look amazing but their mentality is total opposite of what we deal with here in the western world. Thanks Pea for this panel of information. Greatly appreciated!
Not as opposite as you’d think. I’ve been living here for 4 months and they’re more western than I’d hoped. Social media is the destroyer of all good things.
@@TheVaryus avoid these girls, not a wife material. Theres a lot of nice and humble Filipina, educated and have morals. Not these girls.
@@TheVaryus interesting. Thanks for the heads up. That damn social media travels well I see 🤦🏽♂️. Maybe when I’m over that way later this year we can link up and drink a few cold ones and you can fill me in a little more in depth.
its not the opposite, its the same just slightly less delusional...give it 10 years and they'll catch stupid western mentality en mass
Pea, I always find these videos interesting. Working overseas, I interact with both Filipinas and Western women and the more I talk to both, the more I understand why "Passport Bro" is a thing. Just listening to the convo you can see the personalities of Filipinas and why it is so easy for men to gravitate to. Truly refreshing
This. 100%.
That was nice and informative. Seems like a Filipino woman is exactly what I'm looking for. 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🏆
Wow this was a really frank video. I don’t often see Filipinas open up like this to the world. Can’t wait for part two.
Thanks Arnold! I talk with all types 👍
Modern westernized non-traditional beautiful filipinas
@@nexjuberbar2791 jeez fella, what’s the best …modern with traditional values of course..still god fearing …family values but without the money responsibility of the supposed poorer Filipina’s. Take your choice …😊all the best 😊
@@nexjuberbar2791 From my experiences, I cannot help to think that what a Filipina says is not the same as what they do. Being said, be careful everyone.
I can always count on this Young Lady to refresh my morning with engaging and pleasant entertainment.
That’s my job, and I take it very seriously! 🤣🤣🤣
@@TheFilipinaPea Hey Pea i have a question. Do the girls over there have a preference between Americans europeans Africans or asians? Are there things they keep in mind while searching for a relationship?
please laugh at me, but i have learnt more in 20min from this video than i have for the entire 42 yrs of my life anywhere else, and i was raised by a single mother who never taught me a single thing about what women want or how to approach women etc...
As soon as Pea mentioned losing the V, they all went very, very quiet. Like they were dead inside, re-living a personal trauma. Pea had to apply conversational CPR to keep the interview going. Well done, Pea. Saving UA-cam lives.
Cos there not traditional women, to Westernised already unfortunately..
@@empiresrikesfat yep!
@@empiresrikesfat yeah I picked up on that with the 2.
I don’t expect a woman to be a virgin I expect her to know what to anticipate.
Yeah those "friends" they mentioned were definitely not just themselves
Peas skin tone is so beautiful when compared to the other ladies!
Smart ladies. I especially agreed with Angel quite a bit on her answers to the questions. I don't remember which of the ladies brought up the trust issue. To me, trust can be the hardest thing to earn, and the easiest thing to lose.
This is how it's supposed to go. You meet the person and you ask them on a date so you can get to know the person. It may take multiple dates before you feel comfortable enough to be in an actual relationship. Once you're in a relationship you get rid of all the other people that you was dating at that time so that you can concentrate on what it would be like to be married to this person. You do married people activities and you concentrate on if that's where you want to be in life. This involves you learning how to take care of each other and sharing the bills and responsibilities around the house. And after all of that stuff is said and done, you finally get married because now you have an understanding of how you want the rest of your life to go with this person. You now know what to expect. If you can't concentrate on this your marriage fail. Women in the West don't want you to get to know them. they just want you to get into a serious relationship and instantly start paying their bills. You don't even know what they actually look like most if the time because they're covered in makeup an fake attachments like hair, nails and eyelashes. So if you make that commitment to marry her , you.now become responsible for a person who has nothing to offer you but a lot to take from you. 🤷🏾♂️
There is a huge problem in your dating strategy. If both people are keeping their dating options open with potential suitors it detracts from the dating and courtship. More appropriately after 3-4:dates a conversation should occur about dating and only communicating with one another to see if you are right for a relationship. If you have constant interaction with others it disrespects the person you are dating as you are keeping your options open. That ruins trust because he or she might even be dating others and like the other person more. If so don't waste your time as that person does not know what they want. A person that knows only dates the person that is at the top of their list. Why should someone be dating others and risk their top choice.
@@RCFSULAW you said the exact same thing as me🤦🏾♂️ date multiple people in the beginning until you find the 1 then concentrate on that one and get rid of the others. This is when you are now in a serious relationship. How did you miss that. 🤷🏾♂️
There probably is just something wrong with me but if I find out the girl I like is dating around, I turn off. Even if we aren't exclusive.
I don't like women who are just women. I like particular women. So, typically, it's rarely once in a long while I'll find a girl I actually like.
I can't have options for the sake of having options like others can.
But these girls in the video are wild. ,These type of Filipina you have to avoid with. Avoid these type of filipina, plenty of filipina, more deserved to be love,wife material.
Im filipino male btw
@@vent9606 … You can say they’re like outspoken and less traditional, but wild!? It’s not that they’re like the type of girls that are having a high bodycount just for the fun of it. Wild girls, I don’t think you’ve really met one yet, will eat you alive, chew on you and spit you out, on to the next.. Imo they’re open and more a bit westernized in thinking that is, but that’s okay, as long as there’s respect, good conversations,… I do believe, they look for the same most of us do, and that’s finding that unicorn, that will love and cherish the hell out of them, in mutual respected ways. And yahhh, they might be more open and knowing, but that’s what Westeners like. What do you have from a partner, that doesn’t know anything about anything? I think, all 4 of them actually are excellent wife material, to the right guys that is, and that may not be your taste, but that’s okay.. Maybe you should try to open up a bit, or maybe try date a Western woman, you might start to think differently!
Have a blessed day po 🙏🏼
Good Morning Pea! I really LOVED how Angel opened the topic of discussion in this video. I served in the U.S. Navy for 12 years and my first duty station was the Philippines. prior to going there, I ran around San Diego, California. I did my fair sharing of running around in the Philippines and other countries too. During all of that time I saw couples out together and slowly but surely I wanted that too. I was all getting too old to be clubbing it up too. Now I wouldn't date anyone that I have not considered marrying. I am also exclusive when it comes to dating. I had friends while in the U.S. Navy that dated multiple women and was always amazed at how they did it. Whenever I met a woman, the first thing they would always tell me is that they weren't going to have any of that! My biggest rule is regarding cheating. It is NOT a mistake but a selfish choice. I tell women if they are going to cheat, make sure the person they are cheating with is MUCH better than me in every way and do not come back to me ever! For some reason, they always would and I NEVER EVER took them back and forgave them. No amount of money, no amount of power, not one's physical appearance should cause anyone to make the choice to cheat on someone you said you loved. Sadly the military exposes one to lots of things regarding relationships and separation due to the job and it really isn't good at all and causes lots of trust issues. Great video. and there at the end is my Asawa!!
"I tell women if they are going to cheat, make sure the person they are cheating with is MUCH better than me in every way and do not come back to me ever". Interesting. I like that. Thanks
I hope you will find love and trust in women one day I was in war special forces in Bosnia fighting against Serbs train by x army best soldiers are one that doesn't have to lose anything but what we fight for God gives you one life to live but you can't look what people around you doing you are not them you are who you are look at Jesus life what he did how he lives that would give you all answers
If they cheat let them walk away never go back. Had it done to me ripped my heart out. I'm a single father now her loss not watching her son grow up. If she loves you she will stay. If not move on
@Andreas Müller you got that right.
@Andreas Müller you are just a one idiot who can't have simple conversation with out insulting people because of people like you there is war everywhere and to answer your question yes Allah I give blessings to someone else not you and that one never said anything because he has education and respect for others you should get some books and read it not just seating in front of TV and trusting what they said for your information I am who I am and for sure I am better person than you have blessed day and God bless
I’m glad Pea discussed the issue of waiting until marriage to have sex. I’ve always been surprised that so many Filipinas list themselves as Catholic, yet there are still so many single mothers there. Personally, as a conservative and a Christian, I would prefer (and respect!) any woman who wanted to wait until marriage.
Did you ?
@@gochillessmith4137 Did I what?
Glad I'm married: I thought dating was bad a decade ago but compared to today it was soooo easy.
Yes, you made it just in time 🤣👍❤️
Its horrible out here.
@@patriotheropatriothero8939 That's what I hear and it's sad.
If you aren't a *minimum* ripped 6'0" hundred thousandaire Chad/Tyrone, you'll get basically no attention in current year. I got the height at least, working on the other two 💪
@@Mozzarella_Cheese_Addict DON'T sink to THEIR level!
You know how to "please" me. You give it to me twice a week & it's always a satisfying experience. Thanx Pea !!
Well put, lol. I guess we will find out in part 2 if they hold the lumber while they slumber 😲
Only twice? 😢🤣
@@TheFilipinaPeaTwice a week is fine. I want you well rested so your efforts are always at peak performance. I prefer quality over quantity.
Enough with the saucy innuendos! I have kids that read this comment section!
@@ARedMotorcycle LOL !!
You ladys are 4 of the 5 best looking women I’ve ever seen from the Philippines . My wife is the fifth one.
There are a lot of Filipino bloggers these days, but top to bottom your content is the very best, Pea. I'm going to miss your insights when and if you quit doing your great videos. You are very much appreciated.
I’ll never quit! Until I do 🤣
Nice to meet Lauren, see Angel & Fritchie again.. 😊
More Lauren please! Laurens mannerisms, personality, and charm are wow.
I agree :)
Lauren is the one with brains
Lauren is to finesse men of their resources lmao
Lauren has a great disposition and highly intelligent
Lauren is a western woman, stop.
I always make the lady I'm seeing exclusive but if she wants to talk to other guys, that's ok as long as she talks to me about it? Hiding contact with other people is a danger sign! The moment for horizontal jiggy-jiggy is up to the couple I think, you'll know when its right if you pay attention! Loved this session! Hope everything is OK at home and for the family lovely Pea! ❤️🥰😘
Yes, as long as everyone’s open about it 👍
Condoms should be easily available for STD protection, not just birth control.
My wife of 24 years left me devastated. I never saw it coming. So I haven’t touched another woman since 1999. Only her. I am retiring to PH in 2 years (was 5 but my company is keeping me on as a consultant, Yayy!) I believe a high body count is bad for men too so I will not touch another woman until I know she’s the one. Love your work Pea! You are as smart as your are beautiful.❤️❤️
Giving inspires receiving it’s pretty simple in my mind . It’s like gifts there is joy in giving a great gift to someone you love it makes you happy as well .
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It's an absolute gem of a video Pea! Witnessing these intelligent women sharing their opinions, experiences, and wisdom with you and amongst themselves in such a respectable manner is priceless! Great content, ladies! 🎉
Really enjoyed this Pea ❤️ each beautiful woman having merited comments.
I'm one that said that the one who invite someone should pay, for me it's like common sense and I lived my life like that. Now I'm not from the US when the dating world looks like absolute crap been for the women that are all over social media (and the one that give you an idea of the overall) and for men who look that as an obligation.
When Angel mention the idea of splitting the bill, sounds so different for the overall idea that you see as a foreign from the US that it's insane. It shows that all depend on the intension and how someone express themselves.
I'm planning a trip to Philippines and with all the videos around here and also yours's Pea every time I'm seriously thinking of finding a partner for the rest of my life. Besides that Filipinas are gorgeous, the way they see things is very... I really like it.
Thanks for the content Pea! Much love from Australia
Ant! How are things down under? 👍❤️
Pea, just discovered the channel recently. Quality content. Your intelligence grabbed me right away and keeps me watching. Your UA-cam success is well deserved.
2:40 to answer your question to the audience. I’m traditional, I like to pay on a first date, but I appreciate the gesture to split.
Really funny, I met my Philippina girlfriend here in Belgium, she live here, makes her living here, so when we visited the Philippines, we shared cost, as a couple, but she handled the payments as she still has an account in the Philippines, we settled up afterwards. But, in touristy places where you see many westerners with Filipinas, restaurant staff for example would hand me the bill. The puzzled look on their faces when my gf took the bill from me and paid. Clearly, they aren’t used to that and expect the westerners pay.
Hahahha yessss agreed😂😂
women's words and actions are two different things. what they say they want and what they will tolerate or participate in and what they are attracted to, are all different and can change depending on her mood, environment and many other factors.
WELL AND BRAVELY SAID...NOW LETS HIDE
Angel…the correct answer is to always offer to pay your share. A good man will always say no…but the offer is appreciated.
Also…just a tip, if a man opens your car door, reaching over and opening his means a lot too.
Pea OMG! look at Angel! She really came out her shell. I knew it, she was always my favorite out the three. And yes, I watch you to learn the Filipino culture before I move there.
This is a good video for us foreigners who are going to come over there seeking a relationship. A lot of this information needs to be put on the table when you first go on your date because if she is dating someone else you get to decide whether or not you want to continue on in that relationship instead of her, hiding it and hurting you later on
It's good video for people that constantly get it wrong, even in the Phillippines.
Waiting by my television for part two🤣🤣🤣❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
Hey Pea, did you send me your WhatsApp number? Someone sent a number and I wanna make sure it’s you before I call it
Very good interesting, informative and entertaining video. I loved it from beginning to end.👍🏽
As a upcoming 65 year old Marine, I have been to the Philippines 4-5 times, obviously Olongapo, and Cebu, I would like to chime in, when two consensual adults go on a date, it's to meet and greet, after the first date then maybe get physical, you do have to see if your are both compatible with either other, physically and mentally.
ExacTLY SIR
One thing that impressed me about these girls is how smart and articulate they all are. They seem like professional, college educated girls. Having someone to communicate with intelligently is as important if not more important to me than just the physical relationship. Where do you find Filipinas like them? I'd like to know.
Not in Manila 😂
i have many friends in Manila. Not this type of girls in the video. They are more preserved, girls in the video are all wide.
I'm going to give you some good advice. If the guy is an American and he pays, he's interested. If you offer to pay or pay half and he accepts, he's being polite. American men are afraid of emotional back lash or confrontation. Most mature American men want to feel emotional connection first. They won't admit it, but it's true. I like how thoughtful Philippino women are.
Passport bro haters will dislike your video 😂💔
Thanks and keep up the good work ❤
Good morning my friends! Thank you for another fine video Pea. You’re doing a great job of making us even more anxious to date in the Philippines. I hope you get in touch with the tourism bureau soon so that you can start making some money for all of the people you bring to your beautiful country.
Hahahahaha
I never try to make you anxious (that’s just a bonus) 🤣🤣🤣
I subscribed to your channel, I have learned so much just in a couple of hours! Not just about PH culture, but about human nature in general. Thank you for the honesty, and the comedy! I think I am gonig to be watching all your videos to learn more :)
Good afternoon Pea! How is your health? Please take care of yourself and keep us entertained
Thanks! I’m tired, but that’s nothing new 🤣👍
In the Phillipines, if you say " Wanna watch Netflix at my house" and she says yes. She is probably going to sleep with you. Fun video Pea...😁
Great Video Ms. Pea...I watch all your videos...All your guest on this video are beautiful quality Filipina's especially Lauren.
Very entertaining. Can't wait to see the part 2 😅💗
Leah! I see you’re doing well 👍👍👍
(The video with your sister is coming up soon) ❤️
@@TheFilipinaPea Thank you Ms. Pea 💕yey I'm excited to watch thaa one too💗
2 GOATs 🐐🐐
Good Morning, Ma’am. Hope you’re well over on the other side of the planet!!
Fairly well, thanks 👍👍❤️
Lauren's smile is bright and Intoxicating! Thanks Doc Willis
Good evening Pea nice to see the panel again hope all is still well with the family after the fire the cat sends his best wishes and said to have the best weekend you can 🐈⬛
Wish you could bring your cats over for a play date 🤣🤣🤣
Interesting conversation. No judgement but I think by the answers Lauren has a more modern American woman type thought process. She definitely stood out almost opposite from the others as far as pretty privileged. No disrespect to her but she is definitely the one if your a guy you should be shying away from. Most Filipinas want to please and take care of their husbands she said she wants to be pleased. She said it’s ok to date multiple people same time then tried to change it after Frichi gave her answer about talking to a few but only dating one guy. Pay attention guys, the red flags always show up but you have to pay close attention. Watching videos like this is how you learn and see the differences. Thanks Pea and thanks to all the ladies for being honest. Again sorry to Lauren if you are offended, just being honest on my take, but don’t worry I’m a old fat married to a Filipina already so I’m not someone you would want to date or even care about my opinions. This is for the guys to learn from.
Excellent video Pea. Looking forward to seeing more.
Holy smokes they all speak great English and very well educated like you pea wow!!
Yes, sometimes it makes a better discussion when everyone is fluent 👍
@The Filipina Pea I completely agree love ya you're the best !!!
Better than the ABWs (angry black women) that are trashing these lovely ladies and passport bros.
@@TheFilipinaPea It would be interesting to hear from some less educated girls though. Maybe their opions would be different to girls who went to college? Might be harder to find ones that speak good English but they are there. 😉
@@normm
I’ve already interviewed women of every age group, teens to sixties, from all parts of the Philippines, provinces to cities.
Look back in my list of videos and you’ll see them all 👍😊
It's been over 20 years since my marriage ended and I've dated anyone. I don't even want to bother dating here in the States. Looking forward to coming to The Philippines next year now that I'm retired :-) Thank you so much for all these wonderful videos, Pea. You really are one-of-a-kind.
Pea, another great video. I am looking forward to the 2nd part, and yes, it is important to give as well as receive.
Men watch this channel because they are considering stepping outside of their culture to find a significant other. The more we learn about you the better we understand you. That helps us to make better choices and to understand your needs, wants and desires. In other words, what you want in a relationship.
bro yeeees!!! 👀
Well said!!!!
Hey Pea. Better late than never. No power here but I do get to watch your fantastic video. Hope all is well with you
No power? Are you sure you’re not already in the Philippines? 🤣🤣🤣
She is on point, articulate, about herself, and what she is confident in. Her heart is large, but just real. She is the opposite and equal reaction to myself.
Hi Angel, regarding "splitting the bill." My Sister was dating a guy she was really crazy for and asked me for advice. She said/asked, "Rich always pays for our dates and I feel bad, because I offer to pay half and he refuses." I just laughed and said, " do you always say "thank you" when he pays?" She said, "of course!" I said, "don't worry, the fact that you say "thank you" and offer pitch-in sets you above the competition. That being said, if you really want to win his heart, when you say "thank you," move close to him, look into his eyes, smile and give him a nice kiss." Months later, he proposed and they married...smiles!!
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 good tips Filipina pea keep up the good content 😎💪🏾
You watch, I’ll make ❤️❤️👍
Great insight, this is a beautiful panel of ladies.
It's wonderful to delve into the mind of Filipinas. Especially when four lovely ladies are so candid about matters. As for a Filipina having a problem with their man watching your videos. I've been down that road. I'm not giving up the treasure that is Pea. BTW, she's gone and I'm still watching your videos. 😂 It was good to see the familiar faces and the new one. You always have the best content. Be safe
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My wife listens to Pea's videos with me. Mostly agrees with Pea.
Greetings from Costa Rica.🏖 I am a man of means and single. Having lived a large part of my life in Europe and the U.S. I was very impressed with the Filipina who stated she would be happy to split the bill on the first date! This speaks volumes to her positive character. I have never been to the Phillipines, I am however planning to visit in the near future.
Best decision I ever made was to find me a Filipina! Selling my home in Manuel Antonio C.R. area and planning to move this year! Been here 14 years and ready to leave now. Bye bye Costa Rica hello Philippines! Where are you located Pura Vida?
I’d love to hear your impressions once you’ve been here a while 👍👍👍
Spilt the bill?? Fast track to the "friend zone" You surrender your leadership
@@ericlee2931 I agree. I think the man should pay, even if the woman makes more money. It's about roles. Good men are supposed to be chivalrous. It's like a man opening a door for a lady. A lady COULD open a door for a man, but that's just awkward because the roles don't dictate that. Men and women ARE NOT EQUAL (at least in ALL ways). They are DIFFERENT. Women do some things BETTER (or worse). Men do some things BETTER (or worse). Before anyone gets mad I mean in general. Yes, SOME women are stronger physically than SOME men, for example. And that's okay. That's why the two teaming up make such a strong and positive thing.
@@beaumershon3066 I can relate! I have been in Guanacaste for 15 years. I am also ready for a change.
Kudos to the woman that had the same answer on who pays as my favorite date before marriage had. i took her out, then at the end of the date she asked me out for a simpler dinner and movie. It set the tone, and showed her expectations as an equal.
You should always make your dating intentions known. But why some people love that part of the game of not expressing their intentions, at least not honestly. Whatever they might want to call it in the title, it comes down to hurting someone intentionally. It’s a game that they want to win. That means they have to make the other person lose.
Even after being intimate, we still saw others and were open about it. We were upfront about seeing other people. After 3-4 months, we decided to be exclusive.
That would be a deal breaker for me.
Angel is wifey material. She's got that healthy mindset as well as consideration for others.
Awesome ladies! Shining examples of why Western men are traveling to meet you. Not many women exist like you in Western society. The ones that do exist, are criticized and judged by other women. I am hoping to meet my future wife in the Philippines before 2023 is over. Thanks for inspiring hope and happiness❤💃🌹
The ones that do exist are usually always married and happy too.
Im Filipino male, i dont trust these type of Girls in the video.
Each time I see one of your videos I find myself nodding in agreement with every word. Everything seems so broken in America, men and women treating each other horribly. The amount of hate thrown at one another between genders, races, creeds, is horrific. We're all supposed to be in this together, but instead everyone wants to blame one another for their own unhappiness. I've learned a lot about the Philippines from my filipino friends here in America (and more recently from your channel) and everything I've seen or heard of the Philippines is such a breath of fresh air. It's swiftly become my dream to move there some day.
It’s very broken and toxic in America. I am loving these videos cause I know Filipinas that are so cool and loving
I am from the US. After hearing Lauren, wow. Wish I wasn't my low 50s. I might like chatting with her and possibly visiting to get to know better.
"Healing" means, I have been ran through and now it's time to find a "good guy". Person initiates the date pays, she herself will never ask a guy so it's the guy, lol.
Western feminism is getting there and it's affecting the thought process.
It's only a matter of time.
I think the matter of paying for the date should be predeclared. It’s just not worth introducing a complication about.
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Angel has changed a little..all good.. she stands out.
And this is why passport Bros or flying to the Philippines. Everything they have said about dating should be. 🗣️📢))) Bless you.
watch videos of guys that already had the experience...female nature knows no borders
On virginity... As a guy who chose not to indulge with the few times I was offered, I have a hard time being okay with someone who did as a serious partner. I can understand if it was like once, in the confines of a relationship that was leading to marriage. But after that, I just can't take them seriously unless they were unlucky and it happened again.
Also, if they were an exception (like they are widowed or the guy they were going to marry died) I better never hear it brought up. If they do or try comparing me to their previous partners, I'm instantly dumping them. Don't want to know or hear of it.
I just feel gross thinking the person I marry has given herself away to someone else. Again, there are exceptions. But, it doesn't change the fact that she isn't entirely my wife.
The key to happiness in life is to.............give.
3rd date rule? I guess I always skipped the first and second when I visited Philippines. Hope I didn’t do anything illegal.
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Oh wow! No worries!
Then can I give you some of mine? 🤣
Angel is so well spoken.
Lauren is absolutely adorable
Conversation sounds like western women. Men have no problem paying for a date as long as you really like them.
HELLO ! EVERYONE FROM HOUSTON TEXAS USA 🇵🇭👍🙏🇺🇲
I just came back after seeing my Filipina we talked for 7 months and I went over and spent the week with her and Cebu and her home in Zamboanga. We're both Christians so we limited our physical activity to just kissing no sex before marriage is what we believe in. She's an excellent kisser has a wonderful attitude works very hard and makes good money but is incredibly frugal that lives in a little shoebox. On my day of my birthday is the day before I came back to America I knew that I had to have her and asked her to marry me and she said yes. We are now back in the States planning our wedding it will be in the Philippines cuz that's where all her friends are. We have to go through the long grind to bring her over to United States which is now according to the statistics will take anywhere from 17 to 33 months. I am rather curious if anybody in here knows if I submit the paperwork to have her brought over as a fiance then get married eight months later do I have to start the whole process over again or does having the marriage license actually make things easier if anybody knows there's lots of foreigners in here. And that second girlfriend left some foreign guy better get her phone number she's serious about finding a guy
Good evening Pea. Hope you're having a good day.
It sure was a busy one! 👍👍❤️
Very easy to see who has been westernized here. That you for all you do in showing and teaching us about the Philippines, Pea.
Thanks Jay! 😊👍
Thanks!
John! You always try to make my life easier, and I appreciate it 👍😊
Hello Pea. Is there a possibility that we can get the story behind Lauren? I get the feeling that she is from the U.S. Hearing her story about transitioning to the Philippines would be interesting. I would be interested in hearing her story.
Agreed. She looks and talks like an American girl
Yep, she has been westernized some for sure
Wow! Every one of you speaks English so well! Impressive!❤
Till you ask a Filipina to be your girlfriend, till you meet her family you are not a couple a Filipina will not be exclusive she will keep options open. It's old school in the Philippines ❤
I really like this video as it can show younger men that no matter the age of most Filipinas, they seem to have a very good "traditional" view, despite using technology now more than ever, tinged with more modern views and reality in life and love. I have noticed that unlike in the West, they had not even once mentioned physical attributes and financials, but feelings and a serious life as a couple. They seem to think about the man and themselves as one couple...Not two people that are just "together" in words...Not deeds. And in American English, they can express themselves with any good things and problems they have and want to resolve.
This good reputation in MY opinion makes Filipinas a great choice among others for serious relations and for wives. I can personally attest to this long ago if you are both in tune.
And you will not see many [tasteless] tattooed women, with nose rings, piercings, and more as you would see in the West and even Thailand, as markings like that to me...Scream stay away and find a good and proper lady as something may be [very] amiss. And Filipinas have great skin too! Though I did see one Filipina there that did have tattoos, she still seemed very nice and would appeal to men that liked markings and "skin art" and being younger it is understandable.
This is a very nice, interesting interview, and will help many Filipinas and the Philippines to attract what I hope...Are good men to come there for long-term fulfillment, exploration, and love, as well as to know the Filipino people and their culture.
Good one for men of any age to see and relate to. Peace!
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Traditional filipina, not the girls in the video. Plenty of wife materials in the Ph.,i dont trust these girls the video.
Im Filipino
Loved the dating video talk. All four of you look beautiful 💖
Lauren is the reason I'm booking a ticket. Be there soon!
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IDK man she's pretty but she spammed "like" a ton in that convo...
@@TheFilipinaPea Lauren is sweet, look forward to meeting a girl like her when I come.
Pea, we have so much in common.
I don't believe in segs on the first date either.
Let's get that out of the way before we go anywhere.😂
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Great vlog!!! Lauren is a great addition to your group. She’s upbeat with an easy smile.
Well done putting out this content. I find it very informative to learn about cultural norms.
Waiting for the body count reveal of The Filipina Pea❤😂
You're a patient man.