I met some great girls from facebook after it went public. That only lasted about 3 years and then simps ruined it. Simps are the ones giving women their massive egos
@@JIEON.C well maybe we can at least agree that dating apps are not effective when it comes to a man or a woman wanting to find a long-term relationship that eventually leads to marriage
As an average guy there’s just absolutely no reason to go up to a girl anymore and no because she’s cute is not a reason everything is just so shallow and superficial today
Too much cultural drift to reliably date based on appearences. Which is to say you can't assume they have any compatible beliefs. Unforunetly though, women don't want men anymore because they independance now. I think they are basically right, not at large, but in the microscale of their lives they don't need men. I have this friend who is relatively succussful and independate and is worried about dating because basically a man can't offer her anything other then a warm body. Malcom Collins puts it as emotional masturabation. Dating just to feel like you have a relationship when no one needs it so it isn't real. They have these insticts to have a strong and useful man, but don't want to be reliant on men at the same time. So the good men have no insentive to be strong and useful because women don't really want it. This just leaves men who are dickheads, low iq, or enough of a cuck to accept not have any value or psychopathically taking women. This leaves women hopeless. As far as I can tell at the moment, the only way to date is to basically look for a princess trapped in a castle and rescue them. In other words, find a women who is willing to be earnestly vulnerable to you, not in a superficial emtional way, but basically be reliant on you materially in some way. Then you actually have something to do as a man, and she gets something out of it as well. Not that they shouldn't not be tough or should be weak, but just vulnerable. The tradeoff is you become relient on her for meaning, and home making. That how we are evolutionarily wired as far as I can tell. If you sought for that you can find a real relationship.
Yes, that would make it easy for the man to get attention and to attract a lot of women, but doesn't necessarily mean he will find a woman that's worth the risk of getting married and having kids. Geniune, kind, smart and emotionally stable women willing to submit are extremely hard to find, basically unicorns. And i'm not even saying she needs to be a stunner nor she needs to work or make good money, just an average girl that has great morals and these character traits above is rare these days.
Of course they will ignore the elephant in the room. Female narcissism. All in the name of the self-esteem movement, we were told to drill into our daughters' heads that they are wonderful and perfect JUST THE WAY THEY ARE, they don't need to change a thing for anyone - you be you, you DESERVE the ABSOLUTE BEST, Don't you DARE settle. All this and we wonder why they honestly believe they deserve a top tier 1% guy. We joke about the 80/20 rule, but women that end up with a top 10% guy feel like they are settling. We've created a harem culture where 80% of women will only consider the top 10% of men for anything long term. They will certainly sleep around with guys in the top 20% but one night stand only. So needless to say, the top 10% of men have zero interest or need to "settle down" when literally ALL the women are throwing themselves at them. ESPECIALLY with modern women who are 6's or 7's but think they deserve a 10, and who will INEVITABLY get bored with the relationship, because they've destroyed their ability to pair bond with all the guys they've slept with, so the guy will lose half his shit and 40% of his future income, when she decides she wants something new. When you can already sleep with whoever you want, to tie yourself down and commit to future financial ruin, would be the definition of insanity. Deal with THOSE things, and all the little stupid, inconsequential shit you talked about, will correct itself.
I think this is where it comes from…or at least a corrupted copy of it. “Fear not, for you will not be put to shame; And do not feel humiliated, for you will not be disgraced; But you will forget the shame of your youth, And the reproach of your widowhood you will remember no more. - Isaiah 54:4 For seven women will take hold of one man in that day, saying, “We will eat our own bread and wear our own clothes, only let us be called by your name; take away our reproach!” - Isaiah 4:1
I dont approach at all. The only way I will talk to a girl is if shes making it 100% obvious that shes interested. Its not enough for a girl to look at me constantly or to even throw in a compliment. She has to flirt with me and tell me that she finds me attractive.
@@r.m5883 the problem is I live in a small town so there isn't enough women in my area for one of them to like me. If I move to a city nobody will want me because I'm not a Chad.
Online dating does work if you take it seriously. I met my wife on coffee meets bagel. I am 7 years older than her and I would have never met her in real life. Our social circles and interests would never intersect. The only way i would have ever met her is online, and I am very grateful for the tool.
It's not like there's dating apps out there without disingenuous algorithms and business models but the majority are. A broken clock is right twice a day. Coffee Meets Bagel might be one of them. It's a saturated market with dating apps with most of them having no end in losing you as a paying customer so they perpetuate that online dating apps are where'll you find 'the one". Problems today with dating app users (and some off these are just dating/matchmaking w/o dating apps) in no particular orders. 1. Liars 2. Pride 3. Hypergamy 4. Red pillers 5. Catfished 6. Carouseling (which is just doom scrolling on an app with no intention of dating which I find is like at least 30-40% of users) 7. Arrogance 8. Sexual deviants 9. Hook ups only
@@TOhara-eb2lp Yes. 90% of the people on these sites are liars. And they aren't even embellishments. For every 99 nightmare experiences maybe there's 1 success of finding a match with a successful loving relationship leading to marriage.
Been single for 5 years. Dating is a joke now. Everyone has their phones in their hands constantly and no one can be consistent enough to spark any interest whatsoever
Speaking as an older viewer, dating is so difficult because the younger generations have lost their social skills. You don’t know how to date because you can’t go anywhere without your phone. PM, text, etc….you never talk to anyone face to face. You think I’m an old fogey, I know, but that’s the answer. Also, it has always much more difficult for men because we have to do all the asking and deal with all the rejection.
I'm 36 years old and half of my coworkers are Gen Z and I definitely notice this. They have zero social skills and rely on you to do all the heavy lifting. It's one reason why I feel like I relate more to my parents' generation than to people in their 20s, even though I'm only about a decade older than them, but I find them to be so different and strange to deal with.
I gave up I’m done with the bull crap done with the endless ghosting, rejection and being ignored. All I get from the apps are foodie dates or scammers nobody legitimate.
I went to 2 weddings in 2023 and both couples met at work. It’s very confusing to me because so many strongly advise not to let yourself be involved romantically at work.
Same here. Through the years there have been a few women in the offices I worked in that looking back I wish I had asked them out. Also where I work (a research institution) many of the scientists/researchers are married to fellow scientists/researchers. Don't tell me they didn't meet each other while at work.
It has its risks -and that goes for the dating part of it - ( marriage is a whole nother thing) if things go bad you still have to work there, - If you like employer and job it something to consider the pro's and con's on. as a man it only takes one scorned woman to ruin your reputation. Choose wisely.
Internet/social media culture is unbelievably destructive. Young people today have no clue how to have real relationships, let alone face to face conversations.
From what I’ve seen a lot of it has to do with the “grass is greener on the other side” mentality, people think as soon as they run into hard times it’s time to jump ship. Or, they keep the back door open instead of closing it and fully committing. I think social media influences that mentality because all people often see is only the good in relationships. In reality, a successful marriage survives and thrives by working through those hard times together before God. Also, the younger you get married the better because you get to grow up together and shape one another (the older you become the more set in your ways you are, leaving little room for growing WITH your spouse). Been with the love of my life for 12 years and counting.
It's not the age its maturity of couple. But the fact is the human brain isn't fully developed until 25 yrs of age, which makes it harder to make informed decisions about marriage. That is why Studies show that marriages of couples that marry between 20 -25 end in divorce 60% of the time. And maybe christian may not divorce at that rate, but it doesn't mean they have good marriage - A girl gets married at 20 or 21 and by the time she's 29 she's feeling like a old married woman with 3 kids, no education beyond high school, and she starting to feel the only thing she's good for is producing, and raising kids, cleaning house, and making meals, and being sexually available for her husband.
If anything, people jumping ship after a difficult season isn't a sign of immaturity. Because even immature people will stick around with a partner they truly want to stay with and commit to despite difficult times. In reality, when people leave when times get tough, it's really because they realized that they were never truly in love to begin with.
"An excellent wife who shall find. For she is far more precious than rubies." (King Solomon, approx. 850BCE) It's not that dating suddenly became difficult. It was always rare to find someone you truly connect with and can be good life partners with.
As a man who had a good amount of success on dating apps (both meeting my wife and prior to that), this advice is fantastic. Whenever men are complaining about a lack of romantic possibilities, the first thing they should be asked is what they are doing to change that. More often than not, the answer is dating apps and nothing else. Dating apps are a fine option, but they should not be the only one being used. People need that face-to-face interaction, both for romance and everyday life. And the only way to do that is to practice. I also frequently see men complaining about the deck being stacked against them, and my reply is to stack the deck in your favor. Find an environment where you are comfortable, be yourself, and be nice and polite to everyone. Your suggestion of run groups isa fantastic one, but pretty much any social gathering can be subbed in as long as it is a comfortable environment. And occasionally putting yourself in an uncomfortable environment is also a good idea, for no other reason to increase openness to new environments and experiences. And thank you for letting women know that they are as responsible for finding dates as men. It can be a tricky dance, but both sides are equally in need of practice.
Not having patience and being too obsessed with people's red flags only are one of the real reasons why modern dating is so difficult. People are being fed by the social media gurus and pop culture narratives that if you find out even one red flag in your partner, then walk way. But every person in this planet are filled with red flags!
People need to get off their phones and get real about dating. It's is not a relationship unless you are meeting regular in person. Dating apps including Instagram have killed the old school dating. Guys get frustrated because the algorithm is stacked against them. The Chads will get most of the women. Women are left frustrated with non commitment from men they meet online. And few people are serious about marriage and family in their 20s anymore.
Creepy isn't really a thing, it's just guys going up to women and talking/asking them out and the women just think they're ugly and unattractive so to not put the blame on themself being vain and self-centered they deflect and just say they're creepy and assaulting
@@joelbellJBthis. There are absolutely full-on creepers out there. Also, a lot of awkward sorry sad bitter boys, frustrated chumps, and dorkwad losers who feel entitled to the woman of their dreams just because
It depends on the woman. Sorry to break it to you, but women are not villains and neither are men. Some people are genuinely creepy and others are not. When I was single, a good looking man approached me, but I became instantly turned off when he proposed marriage to me (sadly he was not joking). I did not know him. A stranger proposing marriage is instantly creepy for most women in the US.
People are too insecure now. Years ago I had one girl not even be able to admit we had been on a date (we were on a dating app). Iv heard girls amongst themselves describe being asked on a date as too much of a serious move. They dont seem to understand nowadays that a date is a non commitment meet up to just hang out and see what the vibe can be. Getting to know someone isnt commitment. You can try to get to know someone and make time for only them and it doesnt mean you are locked in. Girls try to control the guys lead, guys give up and are too afraid to be straightforward in order to avoid girls putting up walls to quick. Girls are quick to make judgements, men get tired of negative reinforcement and preemptive rejections. Sometimes men try to be nicer to appease any female insecurity, then women look at them like they are weak as a response. Guys build resentment towards women. Guys become cold since being nice didnt work, they are told they are too nice, then women complain men arent nice to them. Guys feel they are entitled to more of a chance, women feel entitled to judge quickly. Men expect women to rationalize like men.Women are impatient if a man isnt acting very ideal or charming in their eyes, but desire men to be patient without limits for them. Men think they can build up a tally of good moments in their favor, women often are just in the moment willing to make judgments off of what they feel is right in the moment instead. Both sides come in with expectations based off of previous failed interactions. Most people are heavily narcis.sistic today aswell because of apps. People dont know how to socialize or be relaxed. Its the culture. Iv heard of christian women coming up with a checklist of a "perfect" guy that God will send them. Its not healthy. Both just need to enter into the interaction willing to accept the other person and build with them, not expect a finished product from the start.
The worst decision the creators of Match, eHarmony, or whatever the first dating app was ever made was to monetize it. Anyway, I'm autistic and thus pretty much every way men get dragged would be easier to pull off on me. I'm naive, so I wouldn't recognize if someone was just manipulating me. I don't understand social cues and situations, so I wouldn't know how to start approaching people. I'm also awkward in person (partly due to that lack of understanding), so I feel like I'd be recorded and put on blast way more easily than most people. In short, I want to find someone but I'm terrified of what could happen if I don't come off as the absolute ideal.
Brother I'm in the same damn boat. You're not alone. I feel stupid sometimes cause it's like "well I'm sorry I assumed they were telling me the truth, didn't expect a bunch of games and deception". And then someone's like you gotta be smarter and im like I'm trying. Plus text leaves very little room for context cues and tone and body language so it's even worse.
As soon as my grandparents die I can start looking. I’ll be in my 40’s by then, but no woman in her right mind would want to get involved with a caregiver like me. I swear it feels like I’m never gonna be free….
In my experience, dating sites only work in some areas. Where I live, people do not engage. The profiles get made but they don’t want to pay for it. I will never pay for it again. In person meets is better. It’s the natural way.
Not for me, I’m very straight up what I want & direct . Also, When we are out or home 🏡, smart devices are “ OFF “ ‼️ So, we can enjoy private time is “ AKA Private “ 🔥 People need to be more up front about what exactly they want in a relationship I don’t use dating apps, I see someone I’m interested in, I approach them. Quite Simple
They ask if you want to “hang out” because its more subtle than; do you want to Go to dinner and possibly become a bf & gf thing? I can see the kind of person you are by just reading your comment. Peopel do the bare minimum from the start. If she doesn’t appreciate the gesture then she can always walk. 🙄
@@Maiseymax696 Girls are too insecure sometimes for that language. Iv heard many women not respond well to being asked to get dinner etc. They take it way too serious and think you are inlove with them. Thats why guys try to dilute the language. But sure not all guys are thinking that much about it. Iv seen women act like getting asked out isnt simply just about getting to know each other, they act like its a request for a relationship, like some sorta unwritten contract. I personally havent had that issue since i only asked when after knowing them for a bit. But i see girls mock guys for asking them out, they act like they were just proposed to, or like hes a stalker. Its very weird and unfair to the guys.
After my experience, if any woman would be interested, I'd have some questions. 1. How much will she demand for alimony? 2. Does she want the house? 3. How much will she want in settlement? Needless to say, the easiest way to win is not to play.
If a woman you just met already has answers to these questions, then you should run away. Both men and women must discern whether their partner is a good match when dating. If the risk is too great, then just don’t date. I have zero interest in a man’s assets as I owned my own home and paid it off before I ever met my husband. However, if I were single again and a man asked me those questions all of a sudden, I would assume he is still hung up on his ex wife and refuse to date him. Bitter people are never attractive. I’m sorry if you got burned, but you need to resolve those issues or just not date. Being single is a perfectly valid option
Well since people have met in the comment section. I’m a single, hard working man. I work in radiology. 37 years old. 1 English Bulldog, no kids but want kids. I live in Ohio and open to relocation unless you’ve always wanted to live in the Ohio River Valley.
I mean, as long as your not being obviously/intentionally creepy when flirting with someone, there shouldn't be this huge stigma against. Take interest, or take it as an ego boost and move on.
Everyone is always looking for better. It’s inevitable that a fight or argument is going to happen but what’s different is people will take that as a signal to leave this person lmao.
She... 1. Doesn't know how to make herself approachable. 2. Doesn't know what to say when she is approached. 3. Doesn't know how to interact with a guy. 4. Doesn't know how to respond to a guy who follows up with her(i.e. leaves him on read) 5. Doesn't know how to date
Personally I find it hard to just talk about Mt problems. If is express that j get nervous and anxious around women, then people just give me r/thanksimcured advice or they say go to therapy. When I say I have heard it before, they bully me. Years of this have made my.confidence low and given me more anxiety around women. That is the real problem i face and there is no solution. And no therapy is not an option.
"Wow, I'm so glad I found you!" "Lol, so should we meet, IRL?" "Oh, I can't take you out--I spent all my money on this dating app, so I could meet you."
Most women have unrealistically high expectations. In their youth they have fun with Chad and Tyrone. When they get older tgey are either not able to attract Chad and Tyrone or they realize that Chad and Tyrone aren't husband and father material. Then they SETTLE for the nice, Christian provider-and they let him know it-every day of his life! We want women who live us as much as we love them. In the U.S. its hard to find women like that.
Dating is difficult because it's hedonistic predators stalking one another instead of stoic people of faith authentically seeking love and a lifelong mate within the marriage bond / sacred vow. Everybody over 25 should just get out of the pool, because if you're a woman over 25, you've already chosen to remove yourself from the marriage pool. It's not going to happen.
lol. Not true. I got married at 38. My options were better in my 30s since it becomes much easier to determine whether a man would make a good husband. During your 20s, a person’s stupidity might be due to their young age or it could be their personality. Once a person reaches their 30s, you can definitely assume that any stupidity they exhibit is part of their personality so they are not going to grow out of it. Being picky paid off for me as I have an amazing husband. All of my friends who married in their 20s are divorced and have a ton of kids, so no one wants to date them.
@@23magneta Well, of course all individuals have different lives with different opportunities, like balls falling through a pachinko machine. Pretty rare to find a man who wants to marry a woman so old with no possibility of forming a family. Most marry to start a family.
I don’t know if this is true because it is only something that I’ve read (more than once) but a big part of the problem is that all women think they are 10’s. (Seen that one more than a few videos) while guys honestly say that they are 6’s,7’, etc. so you have all these women fighting for the rare male 10 and every other man below a 10 is just ignored. I’m long out of the dating world, thank goodness, but this is how I hear it is. Is there truth to it?
You basically are saying what the majority of online dating is summed up. It's the bottom 10% of women seeking out the top 10% of men. But the bottom 10% think they are like 9s and up. Then the half decent guys with no real drama/baggage that are like the 6 or 7s like you mentioned get disenfranchised by the whole thing. And men aren't putting up with it and that's why movements like MGTOW and Red Pill formed because men can tough it out and be single. Women try to say that are independent but it's just our wiring. Everyone has intrinsic value and has dignity but the arrogance and the puffery of women online is bad. Don't get me wrong online dating men can be like that too but it's worse from my observation with the women.... you'll have a woman with 3 kids overweight and separated looking for the 666 combo...6 figures, 6 pack abs, and a 6 inches you know where because she's delusional and thinks she's a solid 9 or 10.
Handsome guys ask them how they rate themselves so all of them will say they are 9 and 10. If the man is ok and speak with them for 10 minutes now they can like him.
I think my face or personality must be a 4 because I've never had a boyfriend, and I'm 28. I went on my first date ever last year and pretty sure that guy just dated me out of pity
For men be 6 ft tall, 6 pack abs, make over 100K a year, for the average man give up as already invisible. Will never ever find love. Turn to accepting a AI robotic companion is the final option left
Haven't watched through yet but I've got a feeling that they'll mostly ingnore what men are saying is wrong and somehow find a way to not hold women accountable for their behavior. I'll guess I'm about to find out
Oh, it's not that difficult to get a date. Pretty much anyone can get one, because lots of people have bad taste. My teenage sister has a boyfriend. A manager at my job is married. No shame in being single.
*Why Is Dating So Difficult Now?* 1) Because everybody seem to have their OWN rules about what to do and what's appropriate. 2) They don't have Jesus Christ up in the forefront of the relationship.
Try becoming single after 30 as a man in a small town. Gym has basically no women. Bars is almost all couples and no single women. Never really see single attractive women in the grocery store. Apps are a total bust. Been feeling out some churches to see where I fit in and there’s no single women 20’s-30’s in them. The only women that want to talk to me are married/not single. They say you have to fish where the fish are. Idk where that is anymore.
COVID made us awkward lol! People were already dehumanizing thanks to devices & Amazon. Went to a singles mixer, they had a bingo game to get everyone to talk, the amount of girls that played the game played it to win instead of getting to know to know the person. One of tasks was playing connect 4, every girl I asked ( I didn’t want to play it but it was part of the game) acted like it was beneath them rofl! Guys stay single, high value morons aren’t worth it .
Its easy to understand why. You have to great women here Brett and Lyla. 2 men got blessed and found 2 great. They are probably 2 good women out of thousands and thousands. Their husband are fortunate they got the good women. Rest of us have to settle for women who are ran thru liberally brain washed. Forget about cooking or cleaning theyre not even loyal. They want 6 ft 6 figure men but they are ran thru. Why would any sane man settle for that?
So funny it was a fad for sorority girls to meet guys on tinder when they literally sit next to guys in class everyday and going to fraternity events every week. But I get it, girls standards can get pretty high when there are dozens of top guys messaging them on tinder, but mostly only average guys chatting them up in class and fraternities. But still… so funny lol
Because the whole process of dating is wrong and problematic dating should be substituted by courting that is valuing specially women like in my religion islam
Brett Cooper is a young, physically attractive, talented woman. Her personality on her show appears to be outgoing and vivacious. She generally appears well-groomed and dressed appropriately. It was natural that men would be attracted to her and want to approach her, even for just conversation. So many young women lack in these areas, often through no fault of her own. Men generally are not attracted to females who are older, less than conventionally physically attractive, introverted, serious, dressed inappropriately or look like something the cat dragged in. Most young and even older women can have the physical “glow up”, but still not be that physically attractive short of getting plastic surgery. If a woman’s natural personality is introverted and serious, it’s hard to change that without looking awkward or phony. If women is not physically attractive and with a naturally friendly personality, it’s unlikely a man will want to talk to her, much less ask her out. This was true even before dating apps.
The average woman thinks they're too good for an average man now. So men need to bring more to the table than ever, but we're getting anlower quality lady
Beth!!!..... you are not a relationship expert! The fact anyone is coming to you for it is laughable. Setting up dating events? 🤣🤣🤣 Who do you think you are? You dated one man before your now husband. Probably out of desperation. Way to play the field and see what is actually out there.
Yet her advice to women about being approachable is on point. Furthermore, a woman like her is never desperate. Decent looking and high status, she has no shortage of guys who’d date her.
It's difficult at all ages. The illusion of optionality is a big part of it. Also, sex has become transactional and devalued. Add to that social media, breakdown of the church and nuclear family.. recipe for bad outcomes.
My now GF and I knew each other in high school- we both graduated in 2019 & we only had mutual friends. I only hit her up earlier this year (on Instagram) after seeing her like Brett’s posts on Instagram- dating apps weren’t working, but Brett’s posts did! First girlfriend since 2019 too.
Social media and dating apps give women an illusion of infinite choices, thats whats messed up
Social media is just a tool. A tool can be used correctly or abused. The accountability needs to come from the people.
I met some great girls from facebook after it went public. That only lasted about 3 years and then simps ruined it. Simps are the ones giving women their massive egos
@@heatison11 I would say that it gives men the same outcome
@@Firstwasthewordhaha, no.
@@JIEON.C well maybe we can at least agree that dating apps are not effective when it comes to a man or a woman wanting to find a long-term relationship that eventually leads to marriage
As an average guy there’s just absolutely no reason to go up to a girl anymore and no because she’s cute is not a reason everything is just so shallow and superficial today
Too much cultural drift to reliably date based on appearences. Which is to say you can't assume they have any compatible beliefs. Unforunetly though, women don't want men anymore because they independance now. I think they are basically right, not at large, but in the microscale of their lives they don't need men. I have this friend who is relatively succussful and independate and is worried about dating because basically a man can't offer her anything other then a warm body. Malcom Collins puts it as emotional masturabation. Dating just to feel like you have a relationship when no one needs it so it isn't real. They have these insticts to have a strong and useful man, but don't want to be reliant on men at the same time. So the good men have no insentive to be strong and useful because women don't really want it. This just leaves men who are dickheads, low iq, or enough of a cuck to accept not have any value or psychopathically taking women. This leaves women hopeless. As far as I can tell at the moment, the only way to date is to basically look for a princess trapped in a castle and rescue them. In other words, find a women who is willing to be earnestly vulnerable to you, not in a superficial emtional way, but basically be reliant on you materially in some way. Then you actually have something to do as a man, and she gets something out of it as well. Not that they shouldn't not be tough or should be weak, but just vulnerable. The tradeoff is you become relient on her for meaning, and home making. That how we are evolutionarily wired as far as I can tell. If you sought for that you can find a real relationship.
After a bunch of failed relationships that started in person over years, I finally met my wife on Christian mingle. ❤
"Christian mingle" sounds like a dating app/website that might actually work (apparently it did for you, so congrats).
You’re lucky, that site is a dumpster fire now!
Granted it only takes one!
The religious types are the worst. You just won't find out till it's too late.
Dating is so simple , be tall, be rich, be handsome and be fit, thats all.... you are welcome guys
/takingnotes
Yes, that would make it easy for the man to get attention and to attract a lot of women, but doesn't necessarily mean he will find a woman that's worth the risk of getting married and having kids. Geniune, kind, smart and emotionally stable women willing to submit are extremely hard to find, basically unicorns. And i'm not even saying she needs to be a stunner nor she needs to work or make good money, just an average girl that has great morals and these character traits above is rare these days.
@@Vladi2102but if a man does not have these attractive attributes in the first place he will never even be able to date these women
Usually I would say be white too. But white guys are struggling too lol
1. Dont be a 304
2. don't play games
3. Let your intentions be known
4. Don't put up with irrational behavior
5. See 1
come on man that list eliminates 99% of western women... then you dont even added that 1% look for top 1% men only
@@bandita2068Let's not get retarded here.
just the 1st eliminates like 80% of women nowadays.
A what?
@@samstromberg5593 304 is a h*e. If you put it in a calculator and flip it upside down, that's what it looks like.
Of course they will ignore the elephant in the room.
Female narcissism. All in the name of the self-esteem movement, we were told to drill into our daughters' heads that they are wonderful and perfect JUST THE WAY THEY ARE, they don't need to change a thing for anyone - you be you, you DESERVE the ABSOLUTE BEST, Don't you DARE settle.
All this and we wonder why they honestly believe they deserve a top tier 1% guy. We joke about the 80/20 rule, but women that end up with a top 10% guy feel like they are settling.
We've created a harem culture where 80% of women will only consider the top 10% of men for anything long term. They will certainly sleep around with guys in the top 20% but one night stand only. So needless to say, the top 10% of men have zero interest or need to "settle down" when literally ALL the women are throwing themselves at them. ESPECIALLY with modern women who are 6's or 7's but think they deserve a 10, and who will INEVITABLY get bored with the relationship, because they've destroyed their ability to pair bond with all the guys they've slept with, so the guy will lose half his shit and 40% of his future income, when she decides she wants something new.
When you can already sleep with whoever you want, to tie yourself down and commit to future financial ruin, would be the definition of insanity.
Deal with THOSE things, and all the little stupid, inconsequential shit you talked about, will correct itself.
I think this is where it comes from…or at least a corrupted copy of it.
“Fear not, for you will not be put to shame;
And do not feel humiliated, for you will not be disgraced;
But you will forget the shame of your youth,
And the reproach of your widowhood you will remember no more.
- Isaiah 54:4
For seven women will take hold of one man in that day, saying, “We will eat our own bread and wear our own clothes, only let us be called by your name; take away our reproach!”
- Isaiah 4:1
I dont approach at all. The only way I will talk to a girl is if shes making it 100% obvious that shes interested. Its not enough for a girl to look at me constantly or to even throw in a compliment. She has to flirt with me and tell me that she finds me attractive.
You will wait till you 40 and nothing will happen....you have to take a risk
@@Gerhard2770 honestly you might have a point.
Sometimes the flirt is fake. She just wants attention and is jerking you around.
It’s a numbers game, you gotta get out there
@@r.m5883 the problem is I live in a small town so there isn't enough women in my area for one of them to like me. If I move to a city nobody will want me because I'm not a Chad.
Online dating does work if you take it seriously. I met my wife on coffee meets bagel. I am 7 years older than her and I would have never met her in real life. Our social circles and interests would never intersect. The only way i would have ever met her is online, and I am very grateful for the tool.
I’ve been married for 26 years and never went on an online dating site but isn’t everyone just lying their asses off about every aspect of themselves.
@TOhara-eb2lp that's what I mean by take it seriously. If you lie on your profile then it's not going to work.
It's not like there's dating apps out there without disingenuous algorithms and business models but the majority are. A broken clock is right twice a day. Coffee Meets Bagel might be one of them. It's a saturated market with dating apps with most of them having no end in losing you as a paying customer so they perpetuate that online dating apps are where'll you find 'the one".
Problems today with dating app users (and some off these are just dating/matchmaking w/o dating apps) in no particular orders.
1. Liars
2. Pride
3. Hypergamy
4. Red pillers
5. Catfished
6. Carouseling (which is just doom scrolling on an app with no intention of dating which I find is like at least 30-40% of users)
7. Arrogance
8. Sexual deviants
9. Hook ups only
@@TOhara-eb2lp Yes. 90% of the people on these sites are liars. And they aren't even embellishments. For every 99 nightmare experiences maybe there's 1 success of finding a match with a successful loving relationship leading to marriage.
With apps it’s never been so easy except people the dilemma of choice on them
Been single for 5 years. Dating is a joke now. Everyone has their phones in their hands constantly and no one can be consistent enough to spark any interest whatsoever
"Everyone" and "no one", "constantly " and "any" is all or nothing thinking. It is neither true nor helpful.
Speaking as an older viewer, dating is so difficult because the younger generations have lost their social skills. You don’t know how to date because you can’t go anywhere without your phone. PM, text, etc….you never talk to anyone face to face. You think I’m an old fogey, I know, but that’s the answer. Also, it has always much more difficult for men because we have to do all the asking and deal with all the rejection.
You mean there people outside of the phone screen??? no way, that is not real for phone zombies
I'm 36 years old and half of my coworkers are Gen Z and I definitely notice this. They have zero social skills and rely on you to do all the heavy lifting. It's one reason why I feel like I relate more to my parents' generation than to people in their 20s, even though I'm only about a decade older than them, but I find them to be so different and strange to deal with.
Your half right. Women and their values have changed.
I gave up I’m done with the bull crap done with the endless ghosting, rejection and being ignored. All I get from the apps are foodie dates or scammers nobody legitimate.
I went to 2 weddings in 2023 and both couples met at work. It’s very confusing to me because so many strongly advise not to let yourself be involved romantically at work.
Same here. Through the years there have been a few women in the offices I worked in that looking back I wish I had asked them out. Also where I work (a research institution) many of the scientists/researchers are married to fellow scientists/researchers. Don't tell me they didn't meet each other while at work.
Yeah thats becoming more and more common, Its wierd.
@@jeff-crankyxer1931 maybe they met through the channels of work - through the same research - Not at there exact place of work, per say?
It has its risks -and that goes for the dating part of it - ( marriage is a whole nother thing) if things go bad you still have to work there, - If you like employer and job it something to consider the pro's and con's on. as a man it only takes one scorned woman to ruin your reputation. Choose wisely.
@@sitka49 Good point. I'm sure that's the case with some of them, but I'm sure a fair number of them they were working with each other too.
Internet/social media culture is unbelievably destructive. Young people today have no clue how to have real relationships, let alone face to face conversations.
Pride. We have become so prideful.
From what I’ve seen a lot of it has to do with the “grass is greener on the other side” mentality, people think as soon as they run into hard times it’s time to jump ship. Or, they keep the back door open instead of closing it and fully committing. I think social media influences that mentality because all people often see is only the good in relationships. In reality, a successful marriage survives and thrives by working through those hard times together before God. Also, the younger you get married the better because you get to grow up together and shape one another (the older you become the more set in your ways you are, leaving little room for growing WITH your spouse). Been with the love of my life for 12 years and counting.
It's not the age its maturity of couple. But the fact is the human brain isn't fully developed until 25 yrs of age, which makes it harder to make informed decisions about marriage. That is why Studies show that marriages of couples that marry between 20 -25 end in divorce 60% of the time. And maybe christian may not divorce at that rate, but it doesn't mean they have good marriage - A girl gets married at 20 or 21 and by the time she's 29 she's feeling like a old married woman with 3 kids, no education beyond high school, and she starting to feel the only thing she's good for is producing, and raising kids, cleaning house, and making meals, and being sexually available for her husband.
If anything, people jumping ship after a difficult season isn't a sign of immaturity. Because even immature people will stick around with a partner they truly want to stay with and commit to despite difficult times. In reality, when people leave when times get tough, it's really because they realized that they were never truly in love to begin with.
"An excellent wife who shall find. For she is far more precious than rubies." (King Solomon, approx. 850BCE)
It's not that dating suddenly became difficult. It was always rare to find someone you truly connect with and can be good life partners with.
First seek the kingdom of heaven and all these things will be added to you. The Lord knows the desires of your heart ❤️
The Lord couldn’t possibly care any less about what you want or need. God is entirely indifferent to our suffering.
@@BruceJC75 God bless you
Jesus loves you and God sent His son Jesus to die on the cross that you may spend eternity with Him. God bless
As a man who had a good amount of success on dating apps (both meeting my wife and prior to that), this advice is fantastic.
Whenever men are complaining about a lack of romantic possibilities, the first thing they should be asked is what they are doing to change that. More often than not, the answer is dating apps and nothing else. Dating apps are a fine option, but they should not be the only one being used. People need that face-to-face interaction, both for romance and everyday life. And the only way to do that is to practice.
I also frequently see men complaining about the deck being stacked against them, and my reply is to stack the deck in your favor. Find an environment where you are comfortable, be yourself, and be nice and polite to everyone. Your suggestion of run groups isa fantastic one, but pretty much any social gathering can be subbed in as long as it is a comfortable environment. And occasionally putting yourself in an uncomfortable environment is also a good idea, for no other reason to increase openness to new environments and experiences.
And thank you for letting women know that they are as responsible for finding dates as men. It can be a tricky dance, but both sides are equally in need of practice.
Not having patience and being too obsessed with people's red flags only are one of the real reasons why modern dating is so difficult.
People are being fed by the social media gurus and pop culture narratives that if you find out even one red flag in your partner, then walk way.
But every person in this planet are filled with red flags!
People need to get off their phones and get real about dating. It's is not a relationship unless you are meeting regular in person. Dating apps including Instagram have killed the old school dating. Guys get frustrated because the algorithm is stacked against them. The Chads will get most of the women. Women are left frustrated with non commitment from men they meet online. And few people are serious about marriage and family in their 20s anymore.
I am not fearful of asking a girl out, but I don’t want to deal with taking girls out
Creepy isn't really a thing, it's just guys going up to women and talking/asking them out and the women just think they're ugly and unattractive so to not put the blame on themself being vain and self-centered they deflect and just say they're creepy and assaulting
Creepy means you're not a chad.
I disagree, because we know that there are men who actually are creeps.
But I get your point.
@@joelbellJBthis. There are absolutely full-on creepers out there.
Also, a lot of awkward sorry sad bitter boys, frustrated chumps, and dorkwad losers who feel entitled to the woman of their dreams just because
It depends on the woman. Sorry to break it to you, but women are not villains and neither are men. Some people are genuinely creepy and others are not. When I was single, a good looking man approached me, but I became instantly turned off when he proposed marriage to me (sadly he was not joking). I did not know him. A stranger proposing marriage is instantly creepy for most women in the US.
People are too insecure now. Years ago I had one girl not even be able to admit we had been on a date (we were on a dating app). Iv heard girls amongst themselves describe being asked on a date as too much of a serious move. They dont seem to understand nowadays that a date is a non commitment meet up to just hang out and see what the vibe can be. Getting to know someone isnt commitment. You can try to get to know someone and make time for only them and it doesnt mean you are locked in.
Girls try to control the guys lead, guys give up and are too afraid to be straightforward in order to avoid girls putting up walls to quick. Girls are quick to make judgements, men get tired of negative reinforcement and preemptive rejections. Sometimes men try to be nicer to appease any female insecurity, then women look at them like they are weak as a response. Guys build resentment towards women. Guys become cold since being nice didnt work, they are told they are too nice, then women complain men arent nice to them. Guys feel they are entitled to more of a chance, women feel entitled to judge quickly. Men expect women to rationalize like men.Women are impatient if a man isnt acting very ideal or charming in their eyes, but desire men to be patient without limits for them. Men think they can build up a tally of good moments in their favor, women often are just in the moment willing to make judgments off of what they feel is right in the moment instead. Both sides come in with expectations based off of previous failed interactions. Most people are heavily narcis.sistic today aswell because of apps. People dont know how to socialize or be relaxed. Its the culture. Iv heard of christian women coming up with a checklist of a "perfect" guy that God will send them. Its not healthy. Both just need to enter into the interaction willing to accept the other person and build with them, not expect a finished product from the start.
Dating has always been a headache. I can't handle all the excuses and rejections.
The worst decision the creators of Match, eHarmony, or whatever the first dating app was ever made was to monetize it.
Anyway, I'm autistic and thus pretty much every way men get dragged would be easier to pull off on me. I'm naive, so I wouldn't recognize if someone was just manipulating me. I don't understand social cues and situations, so I wouldn't know how to start approaching people. I'm also awkward in person (partly due to that lack of understanding), so I feel like I'd be recorded and put on blast way more easily than most people. In short, I want to find someone but I'm terrified of what could happen if I don't come off as the absolute ideal.
Brother I'm in the same damn boat. You're not alone. I feel stupid sometimes cause it's like "well I'm sorry I assumed they were telling me the truth, didn't expect a bunch of games and deception". And then someone's like you gotta be smarter and im like I'm trying. Plus text leaves very little room for context cues and tone and body language so it's even worse.
As soon as my grandparents die I can start looking. I’ll be in my 40’s by then, but no woman in her right mind would want to get involved with a caregiver like me. I swear it feels like I’m never gonna be free….
Another issue is people don't know how to be faithful. This all stems from their relationship with God.
Yes, so yes!
In my experience, dating sites only work in some areas. Where I live, people do not engage. The profiles get made but they don’t want to pay for it. I will never pay for it again. In person meets is better. It’s the natural way.
Not for me, I’m very straight up what I want & direct .
Also,
When we are out or home 🏡, smart devices are “ OFF “ ‼️
So, we can enjoy private time is “ AKA Private “ 🔥
People need to be more up front about what exactly they want in a relationship
I don’t use dating apps, I see someone I’m interested in, I approach them.
Quite Simple
Unrealistic expectations, wanting a fantasy over a reality. Inflated ego from prior options.
Well Brett I read the signs and she ghosted me. So no more I’m done.
In my area (rural) everyone is just too casual they’ll ask if you want to “hang out” … like at our big age in our late 20s? No thank you.
You’re a little picky no?
They ask if you want to “hang out” because its more subtle than; do you want to Go to dinner and possibly become a bf & gf thing? I can see the kind of person you are by just reading your comment. Peopel do the bare minimum from the start. If she doesn’t appreciate the gesture then she can always walk. 🙄
@@nathanielcava4128how hard is it to ask someone on a date? Hanging out is friend zone language
@@Maiseymax696 Girls are too insecure sometimes for that language. Iv heard many women not respond well to being asked to get dinner etc. They take it way too serious and think you are inlove with them. Thats why guys try to dilute the language. But sure not all guys are thinking that much about it. Iv seen women act like getting asked out isnt simply just about getting to know each other, they act like its a request for a relationship, like some sorta unwritten contract. I personally havent had that issue since i only asked when after knowing them for a bit. But i see girls mock guys for asking them out, they act like they were just proposed to, or like hes a stalker. Its very weird and unfair to the guys.
@@heythere6983facts brah!
This is my favorite episode. :)
Glad to see the comments section is largely supportive and positive. Hopefully that'll last😅
After my experience, if any woman would be interested, I'd have some questions. 1. How much will she demand for alimony? 2. Does she want the house? 3. How much will she want in settlement? Needless to say, the easiest way to win is not to play.
Stop 🛑
Have to live a little
Damn
@@zcorpalpha2462 I learned those questions from living and gaining experience.
If a woman you just met already has answers to these questions, then you should run away. Both men and women must discern whether their partner is a good match when dating. If the risk is too great, then just don’t date. I have zero interest in a man’s assets as I owned my own home and paid it off before I ever met my husband. However, if I were single again and a man asked me those questions all of a sudden, I would assume he is still hung up on his ex wife and refuse to date him. Bitter people are never attractive. I’m sorry if you got burned, but you need to resolve those issues or just not date. Being single is a perfectly valid option
Well since people have met in the comment section.
I’m a single, hard working man. I work in radiology. 37 years old. 1 English Bulldog, no kids but want kids. I live in Ohio and open to relocation unless you’ve always wanted to live in the Ohio River Valley.
I mean, as long as your not being obviously/intentionally creepy when flirting with someone, there shouldn't be this huge stigma against. Take interest, or take it as an ego boost and move on.
Everyone is always looking for better. It’s inevitable that a fight or argument is going to happen but what’s different is people will take that as a signal to leave this person lmao.
I think a big part of the problem is that for much of the population, dating has no purpose or goal beyond entertainment.
She...
1. Doesn't know how to make herself approachable.
2. Doesn't know what to say when she is approached.
3. Doesn't know how to interact with a guy.
4. Doesn't know how to respond to a guy who follows up with her(i.e. leaves him on read)
5. Doesn't know how to date
I’m autistic and what even may seem awkward signs, for me, are invisible. My wife basically had to tell me she likes me.
Personally I find it hard to just talk about Mt problems. If is express that j get nervous and anxious around women, then people just give me r/thanksimcured advice or they say go to therapy. When I say I have heard it before, they bully me.
Years of this have made my.confidence low and given me more anxiety around women. That is the real problem i face and there is no solution. And no therapy is not an option.
It’s difficult for men, it’s easy for women.
"Wow, I'm so glad I found you!"
"Lol, so should we meet, IRL?"
"Oh, I can't take you out--I spent all my money on this dating app, so I could meet you."
Most women have unrealistically high expectations. In their youth they have fun with Chad and Tyrone. When they get older tgey are either not able to attract Chad and Tyrone or they realize that Chad and Tyrone aren't husband and father material. Then they SETTLE for the nice, Christian provider-and they let him know it-every day of his life!
We want women who live us as much as we love them. In the U.S. its hard to find women like that.
Wrong
@@zcorpalpha2462 No, I am correct.
Dating is difficult because it's hedonistic predators stalking one another instead of stoic people of faith authentically seeking love and a lifelong mate within the marriage bond / sacred vow. Everybody over 25 should just get out of the pool, because if you're a woman over 25, you've already chosen to remove yourself from the marriage pool. It's not going to happen.
lol. Not true. I got married at 38. My options were better in my 30s since it becomes much easier to determine whether a man would make a good husband. During your 20s, a person’s stupidity might be due to their young age or it could be their personality. Once a person reaches their 30s, you can definitely assume that any stupidity they exhibit is part of their personality so they are not going to grow out of it. Being picky paid off for me as I have an amazing husband. All of my friends who married in their 20s are divorced and have a ton of kids, so no one wants to date them.
@@23magneta Well, of course all individuals have different lives with different opportunities, like balls falling through a pachinko machine. Pretty rare to find a man who wants to marry a woman so old with no possibility of forming a family. Most marry to start a family.
@@23magneta As for the friends who married and divorced, that's very typical behavior for unfaithful women.
I don’t know if this is true because it is only something that I’ve read (more than once) but a big part of the problem is that all women think they are 10’s. (Seen that one more than a few videos) while guys honestly say that they are 6’s,7’, etc. so you have all these women fighting for the rare male 10 and every other man below a 10 is just ignored. I’m long out of the dating world, thank goodness, but this is how I hear it is. Is there truth to it?
You basically are saying what the majority of online dating is summed up. It's the bottom 10% of women seeking out the top 10% of men. But the bottom 10% think they are like 9s and up. Then the half decent guys with no real drama/baggage that are like the 6 or 7s like you mentioned get disenfranchised by the whole thing. And men aren't putting up with it and that's why movements like MGTOW and Red Pill formed because men can tough it out and be single. Women try to say that are independent but it's just our wiring. Everyone has intrinsic value and has dignity but the arrogance and the puffery of women online is bad. Don't get me wrong online dating men can be like that too but it's worse from my observation with the women.... you'll have a woman with 3 kids overweight and separated looking for the 666 combo...6 figures, 6 pack abs, and a 6 inches you know where because she's delusional and thinks she's a solid 9 or 10.
Handsome guys ask them how they rate themselves so all of them will say they are 9 and 10. If the man is ok and speak with them for 10 minutes now they can like him.
I think my face or personality must be a 4 because I've never had a boyfriend, and I'm 28. I went on my first date ever last year and pretty sure that guy just dated me out of pity
@@Maiseymax696interesting even very fat women can find somebody or quite ugly if they are avtive
For men be 6 ft tall, 6 pack abs, make over 100K a year, for the average man give up as already invisible. Will never ever find love. Turn to accepting a AI robotic companion is the final option left
Haven't watched through yet but I've got a feeling that they'll mostly ingnore what men are saying is wrong and somehow find a way to not hold women accountable for their behavior. I'll guess I'm about to find out
If tom brady got cheated on, what chance do we really have????
Oh, it's not that difficult to get a date. Pretty much anyone can get one, because lots of people have bad taste. My teenage sister has a boyfriend. A manager at my job is married. No shame in being single.
The sexual revolution combined with the internet has ruined dating.
*Why Is Dating So Difficult Now?*
1) Because everybody seem to have their OWN rules about what to do and what's appropriate.
2) They don't have Jesus Christ up in the forefront of the relationship.
Women on social media every day tell men not to approach
95% divorce rate… zero chance of a man being able to raise his kids.. man, dating is ruff
Dating isn't tough for girls. Not sleeping around is tough for girls and high status guys.
I met my wife through Bible study at church.
10/10 can recommend
Yep. I’m a millennial and I’ve experienced some of this too. I’m Andrew.
Great advice. Thank you, Lila and Brett. May God bless you and your families.
Try becoming single after 30 as a man in a small town. Gym has basically no women. Bars is almost all couples and no single women. Never really see single attractive women in the grocery store. Apps are a total bust. Been feeling out some churches to see where I fit in and there’s no single women 20’s-30’s in them. The only women that want to talk to me are married/not single. They say you have to fish where the fish are. Idk where that is anymore.
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Dating is just something that those grown ups do.
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COVID made us awkward lol!
People were already dehumanizing thanks to devices & Amazon.
Went to a singles mixer, they had a bingo game to get everyone to talk, the amount of girls that played the game played it to win instead of getting to know to know the person. One of tasks was playing connect 4, every girl I asked ( I didn’t want to play it but it was part of the game) acted like it was beneath them rofl!
Guys stay single, high value morons aren’t worth it .
Its easy to understand why. You have to great women here Brett and Lyla. 2 men got blessed and found 2 great. They are probably 2 good women out of thousands and thousands. Their husband are fortunate they got the good women. Rest of us have to settle for women who are ran thru liberally brain washed. Forget about cooking or cleaning theyre not even loyal. They want 6 ft 6 figure men but they are ran thru. Why would any sane man settle for that?
I mean, be attractive ya’ll and boom all problems solved, if you can’t fit it then find meaning somewhere else
What about stop dating and start courting?
Courting worked for milenias....
2 married women talking about why dating now in days sucks...
😂😂😂
So funny it was a fad for sorority girls to meet guys on tinder when they literally sit next to guys in class everyday and going to fraternity events every week. But I get it, girls standards can get pretty high when there are dozens of top guys messaging them on tinder, but mostly only average guys chatting them up in class and fraternities. But still… so funny lol
Hello beauties, just throwing myself out here.
Single and ready to mingle, will tell more about myself with each like 😊
Get your passports boys.
Unrealistic expectations!!!!
Because the whole process of dating is wrong and problematic dating should be substituted by courting that is valuing specially women like in my religion islam
Brett Cooper is a young, physically attractive, talented woman. Her personality on her show appears to be outgoing and vivacious. She generally appears well-groomed and dressed appropriately. It was natural that men would be attracted to her and want to approach her, even for just conversation. So many young women lack in these areas, often through no fault of her own. Men generally are not attracted to females who are older, less than conventionally physically attractive, introverted, serious, dressed inappropriately or look like something the cat dragged in. Most young and even older women can have the physical “glow up”, but still not be that physically attractive short of getting plastic surgery. If a woman’s natural personality is introverted and serious, it’s hard to change that without looking awkward or phony. If women is not physically attractive and with a naturally friendly personality, it’s unlikely a man will want to talk to her, much less ask her out. This was true even before dating apps.
Wow AI is getting good.
@@bandita2068 HAHAHA. She's cute but I would not say she is really attractive. Lila Rose is better looking imo.
@@anthonylogiudice9215agree, Lila Rose is a classic beauty. Brett is Ben Shapiro but female
The average woman thinks they're too good for an average man now. So men need to bring more to the table than ever, but we're getting anlower quality lady
Men love more authentically than women.
Men should stop overthinking
This !!
Women should be more direct
They should also stop dating in general. It's a waste of time and that time is better spent getting their lives together.
yeah and then we would be still monkeys on the tree :D
Women should stop telling men how to think!
Beth!!!..... you are not a relationship expert! The fact anyone is coming to you for it is laughable. Setting up dating events? 🤣🤣🤣 Who do you think you are? You dated one man before your now husband. Probably out of desperation. Way to play the field and see what is actually out there.
99% of social media millionaires are experts in attention economy 1st and foremost :)
Yet her advice to women about being approachable is on point.
Furthermore, a woman like her is never desperate.
Decent looking and high status, she has no shortage of guys who’d date her.
As much as I like Brett and what she’s doing to make dating better you’re right lol.
@@andyjones3304 If it has holes, it has available men. Irrelevant.
Is that Ben Shapiro in drag?
It's difficult at all ages. The illusion of optionality is a big part of it. Also, sex has become transactional and devalued.
Add to that social media, breakdown of the church and nuclear family.. recipe for bad outcomes.
Catholics, Christians, Jews, Agnostics, please pray for Israel's existence & safety. ✡☦✝
I am a palestinian christian I will pray that Israel stops their evil acts. The wages of sin is death. Their sins are catching up to them
Stop killing babies nazi israel
Nazi israel
Why? They hate Jesus and Christians.
Dating apps are gambling 🎰 apps!
Hypergamy
So basically brett has absolutely 0 clue. Got it.
Nice tan Brett
All the whining mama’s boys in the comment section. Grow up. Start by taking a shower and go for a walk outside. Beg God for forgiveness.
My now GF and I knew each other in high school- we both graduated in 2019 & we only had mutual friends. I only hit her up earlier this year (on Instagram) after seeing her like Brett’s posts on Instagram- dating apps weren’t working, but Brett’s posts did! First girlfriend since 2019 too.
That’s so cute that she had people meet through her comment section. Omgosh 🥹🥹🥹
Never happen for someone like me never
@@BrianWaller-qe7gr because is fake bro, maybe one in 100.000 but lets be real that's most BS.
I heard people are getting together from Twitter