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  • @marlenethompson5953
    @marlenethompson5953 6 місяців тому +92

    Come on people leave Danielle alone it’s making her upset ,and we all know she’s doing a good job of caring for Ed

    • @SnickleFritz-lx3ks
      @SnickleFritz-lx3ks 6 місяців тому +16

      Exactly caregiving is hard. Sending you all good vibes.

    • @1979ACR
      @1979ACR 6 місяців тому +11

      💯 she is doing a great job!❤❤

    • @user-oh2tk3lf9l
      @user-oh2tk3lf9l 6 місяців тому +6

      😢❤ good job Danielle xx I would be mentally exhausted 😩 I am and I am not even there ❤

    • @NuraCaicedo-xh2ok
      @NuraCaicedo-xh2ok 6 місяців тому +9

      You know as I watch all the videos of how they interact with Grandpa Danielle is the caregiver 99% of the time because Dan is always leaving to go to business take care of his business and different states I think that Danielle is an awesome person I never met her about what I see in the videos she's terrific and she cares a lot about Grandpa and she loves him so much❤❤❤❤😢 it's really sad that people say things about her that are not nice she's such a nice person you can tell

    • @NuraCaicedo-xh2ok
      @NuraCaicedo-xh2ok 6 місяців тому +3

      ​@@1979ACR💯 ❤

  • @PatriciaLopez-lk8dr
    @PatriciaLopez-lk8dr 6 місяців тому +43

    Its clear Ed loves you Danielle.

  • @ArtsyPhartsy123
    @ArtsyPhartsy123 6 місяців тому +40

    Danielle, you are a treasure ✨ Ed is so blessed to have you in his life… and we’re lucky to know you. 🥰

    • @mrsdsalnorcal
      @mrsdsalnorcal  6 місяців тому +5

      Ty ❤️

    • @ljpuleo8751
      @ljpuleo8751 6 місяців тому +3

      I totally agree!

    • @NuraCaicedo-xh2ok
      @NuraCaicedo-xh2ok 6 місяців тому +3

      It would be nice if I ever wanted a caregiver and I wanted to hire somebody I would hire her no doubt about it. I had a mother, and I wanted a mother. I would want a mom like her. I had a sister. I would want one just like her she's so genuine. Danielle we love you girl❤

    • @helenlooney3430
      @helenlooney3430 25 днів тому

      Love Dan and Ed. But wife got smart mouth needs be more nicer with Dan dad .no what it's like I did it.

    • @jillianfreeman8475
      @jillianfreeman8475 12 днів тому

      Uk

  • @pattysheldon656
    @pattysheldon656 6 місяців тому +39

    I wish those pain in the ass people would just leave you alone. No one has the right to pass judgement on anyone else. I completely understand that you are doing exactly what you need to do. Keep up the great work. You do have supporters out here!

  • @Lisa-Peter7875
    @Lisa-Peter7875 6 місяців тому +16

    Danielle, I love how you are always real. Straight to the point. You are amazing with Ed. 💕

  • @PatriciaLopez-lk8dr
    @PatriciaLopez-lk8dr 6 місяців тому +19

    People really dont understand Dementia. They can kick rocks! They dont understand how you love him.

  • @mariethompson4629
    @mariethompson4629 6 місяців тому +20

    Danielle, he is giving you a run for the money today.❤️ Hugs to you. I think you are doing very well. He is just being very obstinate today and that isn't easy. God Bless you.

    • @mrsdsalnorcal
      @mrsdsalnorcal  6 місяців тому +9

      I think so too! Haha he’s in bed and happy now b

  • @darciereed9595
    @darciereed9595 6 місяців тому +31

    You were great, Danielle!!! Ed does not always need to get what he wants right away.

    • @darciereed9595
      @darciereed9595 16 днів тому

      That's what I think too! Danielle is great with Ed!!

  • @joynielson8196
    @joynielson8196 6 місяців тому +9

    Danielle is doing a great job. How many daughter in laws would take care of their father in law with dementia. Ed is lucky to have a daughter in law that loves him. He loves and respects her tremendously.

  • @alisaloria7263
    @alisaloria7263 6 місяців тому +31

    He has his lucid moments, so your right total honesty and firmness is necessary.

  • @PatriciaLopez-lk8dr
    @PatriciaLopez-lk8dr 6 місяців тому +21

    Just stop people! Leave her alone!

  • @Cheyenne-s3g
    @Cheyenne-s3g 6 місяців тому +14

    Danielle, you are one of a kind. No one takes care of Ed like you. You have a precious bond with him that far surpasses any relationship he has had with anyone else in the world. I can't believe how unkind some of your listeners are.
    The guy who said you're not feminine enough sucks! You are extremely feminine and take excellent care of yourself.
    May God bless you and keep you safe, healthy and happy! You do an amazing job!
    How precious that Ed fell in love with your mom, and his son fell in love with her daughter...a match meant to be.❤

    • @mrsdsalnorcal
      @mrsdsalnorcal  6 місяців тому +6

      I appreciate it xoxo

    • @Cheyenne-s3g
      @Cheyenne-s3g 6 місяців тому

      When those trolls try to get you down, remember what an old cowboy told me years ago. "People who live in glass houses, should fuck in the basement." Night sweet lady.😮

  • @juliawest6249
    @juliawest6249 6 місяців тому +15

    Danielle you are a Godsend! I do know what you are going through and I swear I LOVE your sarcasm so much! People just don't have open minds!

  • @freewaycarstrucks
    @freewaycarstrucks 6 місяців тому +28

    Exactly! Easier said than done.!
    You'll never be criticized by someone who is doing more than you.
    You will ALWAYS be critici zed by someone doing LESS. Remember that.
    -Denzel Washington-

    • @freewaycarstrucks
      @freewaycarstrucks 6 місяців тому

      Denzel Washington
      How can you forget that We are living it. That last part by me.

    • @PatriciaLopez-lk8dr
      @PatriciaLopez-lk8dr 6 місяців тому +2

    • @BfreeWitMe
      @BfreeWitMe 6 місяців тому

      That's not true.

    • @freewaycarstrucks
      @freewaycarstrucks 6 місяців тому

      You believe what you want. My life experiences prove to me it IS100% true.

    • @deborahsprague8130
      @deborahsprague8130 5 місяців тому

      Good luck. I think I would just agree with whatever he says

  • @suzannep8371
    @suzannep8371 6 місяців тому +7

    Danielle truly loves Dad. Dad’s repetitions are endless and he is hard to pacify because he always finds another way to ask his repeated questions- over and over and over again. He responds to short sentences not
    Lengthy flowery ones. Danielle is GENUINE and only has Dads best interests at heart. Please also remember that Danielle is the Daughter-in-Law and not the Daughter and she runs herself into the ground putting her family’s needs first. I remarkable lady ❤

  • @gailcross4165
    @gailcross4165 6 місяців тому +29

    No need to explain. Take care.

    • @NuraCaicedo-xh2ok
      @NuraCaicedo-xh2ok 6 місяців тому +2

      People are just scared of people like her and me and everybody that are direct and redirect you to help you you know and why don't you just get over yourself leave her alone she's a beautiful woman with her husband that takes care of her and her father and she's awesome and so is her family❤❤❤

  • @lindac5494
    @lindac5494 6 місяців тому +10

    Silense is the best answer to people who don’t value words❤ you’re doing Great Danielle🫶 you have a heart of GOLD☝️

  • @user-ck8jv1xd7t
    @user-ck8jv1xd7t 3 місяці тому +4

    If u took care of someone with this sickness, u would understand. This is so hard. So if u dont know, keep ur mouth zipped. Ed is loved,and taken very good care of. Bless all of u.

  • @justine2520
    @justine2520 6 місяців тому +5

    You are a perfect lady to take care of his dad... Stay strong and inspiring ❤

  • @gggarrett6329
    @gggarrett6329 6 місяців тому +15

    You're doing a great job. Screw the blabbers They probably wouldn't do what you're doing. Love you. ❤

  • @musicman6699
    @musicman6699 6 місяців тому +8

    God bless you dear Danielle. Love you & Dr. Ed🥰💕

  • @yolandavasquez7387
    @yolandavasquez7387 6 місяців тому +14

    Your doing great Danielle ❤

  • @JAYCHITRA123
    @JAYCHITRA123 5 місяців тому +5

    You are great daughter in law. I know the pain and patience one needs to handle such situations

  • @veenaveto
    @veenaveto 6 місяців тому +13

    Danielle you do great taking care of Ed..I love how he thinks yall are close to the same age😅.. ❤

  • @BrandyStone-p8e
    @BrandyStone-p8e 6 місяців тому +6

    I took care of my father with dementia for 5 years. It was draining exhausting They are still them but they're not and it's like dealing with a forever two year old. I applaud you guys for what you're doing I could not do it any longer. My situation became that I was trapped in my house 24/7 because he needed constant watching And the wandering in the house in the night I wasn't sleeping. People will say things like.Oh, you were after his money or whatever well.I don't know too many people that would torture themselves for any amount of money.

    • @mrsdsalnorcal
      @mrsdsalnorcal  6 місяців тому +1

      It’s for love that’s for sure.

  • @lycrapitts3767
    @lycrapitts3767 6 місяців тому +14

    My hat is off and goes to you. Your husband should be very proud that you stayed back to take care of his father

  • @fay791
    @fay791 6 місяців тому +13

    You do brilliant with Ed Danielle whoever says different are deluded ❤

  • @TenaMiller-cr7eo
    @TenaMiller-cr7eo 6 місяців тому +15

    Ignore the "know it alls", home health would throw Ed into confusion and panic.YOU AND DAN ARE DOING EXCELLENT, CARRY ON.❤🙏

  • @doglover44
    @doglover44 6 місяців тому +13

    You and Ed were great tonight! Funny😂❤

  • @suefield5044
    @suefield5044 6 місяців тому +6

    I'm not even there, and my heart rate is up. Good lord,bless you

  • @chrstinehackleman1208
    @chrstinehackleman1208 6 місяців тому +11

    You r doing great!❤

  • @rocktomusic96
    @rocktomusic96 6 місяців тому +15

    Why wouldn't Dan leave Grandpa with you? You are a loving trustworthy person.

  • @PatriciaLopez-lk8dr
    @PatriciaLopez-lk8dr 6 місяців тому +15

    💯 Danielle. I get it! Thats Dementia....I lived it with my Dad. I think you and Dan are phemonal with Ed.

  • @wendyvanhorn2498
    @wendyvanhorn2498 6 місяців тому +5

    Him saying your same or close to him in age is HILARIOUS!!!😂😂😂 Danielle you are beautiful & look amazing 😉

  • @tereewall4024
    @tereewall4024 6 місяців тому +13

    I love that you talk to him constantly and keep his brain active... amd how you calm him down...I think you're doing great. Dont listen to them sidekicks no one needs a backseat driver lol

  • @jennylynnicholas6957
    @jennylynnicholas6957 6 місяців тому +4

    The people who complain have never had to deal with someone with dementia. I had to be very firm with my Mom otherwise nothing got done. I hated having to act that way but it was necessary. Because she was feisty.

  • @janegrantham538
    @janegrantham538 6 місяців тому +6

    Daniell, I would love to see anyone do as wonderful as you. You tend to Ed so good and kind. Let the trolls walk a mile in your shoes.

    • @janegrantham538
      @janegrantham538 6 місяців тому +2

      Sorry I spelled your name wrong Danielle. You are so funny sometimes

  • @TeiraJefferson
    @TeiraJefferson 6 місяців тому +4

    You do have patience with your father-in-law.Anybody on here should be able to see that?
    I love you danielle

  • @PatriciaLopez-lk8dr
    @PatriciaLopez-lk8dr 6 місяців тому +8

    You are really an angel!😊

  • @sandrathepanda757
    @sandrathepanda757 6 місяців тому +8

    Hi Dr.ED I'm watching you from Singapore❤

  • @gggarrett6329
    @gggarrett6329 6 місяців тому +5

    I feel for you Danielle. Been there done that and now doing it again at 72 yrs old
    ❤❤❤❤

  • @darlenelamountain2831
    @darlenelamountain2831 6 місяців тому +3

    You have a BIG heart! Days can be tough and you are an ANGEL for what you are doing...I think it's a GREAT job...

  • @sirena0772
    @sirena0772 3 місяці тому

    I love how he acknowledges you and All your hardwork for your family Danielle…you are so awesome 🤩 ❤

  • @farmwife209
    @farmwife209 6 місяців тому +3

    Danielle, you are an angel in disguise. Don’t give negative people any of your time, they have no idea what you’re dealing with.

  • @janestephenson1128
    @janestephenson1128 6 місяців тому +6

    He is perfectly quiet while eating

  • @virginiabuckland6227
    @virginiabuckland6227 4 місяці тому +2

    Yes Dan is lucky to have you looking after your Dad you are a wonderful lady

  • @terridevries4924
    @terridevries4924 Місяць тому +1

    I believe the glass is always 1/2 full....YOU ARE AN AMAZING HUMAN!! ❤❤❤

  • @ericaellis1121
    @ericaellis1121 6 місяців тому +5

    Praying you get some decent rest tonight. Goodnight grandpa and Danielle.

  • @SnickleFritz-lx3ks
    @SnickleFritz-lx3ks 6 місяців тому +3

    Danielle You are amazing and I appreciate you sharing the good, bad, and ugly. Its amazing what bricks people in glass houses are willing to throw at people that dont understand what its like to do all you do and HAVE done for him.

  • @marshallstrout2869
    @marshallstrout2869 6 місяців тому +3

    I Love yall ..you make me thankful to be alive. You make me smile.

  • @gggarrett6329
    @gggarrett6329 6 місяців тому +5

    I get so tickled at Dr. Ed. He is a hoot. Git to love him. ❤

  • @bettyel-ammouri747
    @bettyel-ammouri747 4 місяці тому +1

    I love you Danielle, l know what you going through. You so sweet Ed should be so glad he have you . Stay strong God blessed you!!!

  • @redelk114
    @redelk114 3 місяці тому

    Hi Daniel your doing a great job and appreciate you sharing candidly the truth to the ups and downs to this job for anyone who is enduring the trials that come with it and no one's is perfect ❤

  • @JoniNoain
    @JoniNoain 4 місяці тому +1

    I think you handle Ed very well! When you are firm with Ed he responds better!

  • @ericab936
    @ericab936 6 місяців тому +3

    The ones complaining are the ones who are constantly yelling at their kids. Take care of an adult with dementia and let’s see how they handle it. God bless u Danielle. 🙏🏾

  • @maryjoanangeles4030
    @maryjoanangeles4030 4 місяці тому

    Danielle and Ed' s relationship is like a childlike difficult father who has dementia and don't remember things most of the time. Ed reciprocates Danielle's hands on caring technique with much gratitude and fatherly affection. Every care giving case is unique and to cope with difficulties, a caregiver learns along the way how to deal with a particular patient more so if it involves a family. For a daughter in law, I think Danielle is doing absolutely great what she did to take care of Ed with Dan away for several days.

  • @alisaloria7263
    @alisaloria7263 6 місяців тому +11

    I’ve seen him with Mark, Marks firm with him too. There has to be a reason. Ed is stubborn.

  • @user-qu4sv5hd8k
    @user-qu4sv5hd8k 4 місяці тому +1

    Exactly D your totally correct on having to be stern!!!

  • @TeiraJefferson
    @TeiraJefferson 6 місяців тому +2

    You are not A horrible person.Who takes very good care of your father-in-law in my heart of hearts?I know You are the best

  • @user-qu4sv5hd8k
    @user-qu4sv5hd8k 4 місяці тому +1

    D your the best!!!! I respect you fully.

  • @LynDuleck
    @LynDuleck 6 місяців тому +3

    You have the patience of a saint from New Zealand ❤️❤️❤️

  • @irishpastry3534
    @irishpastry3534 6 місяців тому +5

    Love Daniëlle ❤️

  • @cinza766
    @cinza766 6 місяців тому +2

    Take a deep breath…..WeLoveYou❤️Ed loves you and Dan loves you❤💜💚 That’s ALL THAT MATTERS!!!!!!!! You’re AMAZING🤗

  • @terridevries4924
    @terridevries4924 Місяць тому +1

    I sing and dance off my STRESS!!❤❤❤❤❤ LOVE U SO MUCH!!🎉😂❤❤❤

  • @tanyapressley117
    @tanyapressley117 4 місяці тому +1

    The problem is ,is you are super nice to him when ur drinking and then talk to him so harshly when ur not drinking. That doesnt help his confusion situation, i wouldnt think

  • @AdrianaGuerrera-gq9xi
    @AdrianaGuerrera-gq9xi 6 місяців тому +2

    Danielle u are such a wonderful person
    I'm from Italy and i watch all your videos
    God bless you and all ur family
    Ed loves you everyone could see it!!!
    U and ur husband are doing a super beautiful job love u guys

  • @kitohara747
    @kitohara747 6 місяців тому +1

    Enjoy the rest of your day! You are doing an excellent service to ED and fellow caregivers!

  • @meanderingrain1854
    @meanderingrain1854 6 місяців тому +1

    He loves you danielle... he's known you all this time and you, him. You know each other's personalities and this is the way you communicate with each other. This is your norm for each other and he respects and treasures your relationship. It is plain to see. Much love to all of you❤

  • @joannconfer1144
    @joannconfer1144 6 місяців тому +1

    My heart goes out to you. No one knows exactly what you are going through. You deal with it the best you can. I know Ed loves you guys very much. He truly doesn’t know what it’s all about. He’s doing the best he can and so are all of you. I’m sending you a big hug, because hugs always make you feel better. Hang in there.💖🙏🙋🏻‍♀️😇

  • @KerryLeworthy
    @KerryLeworthy Місяць тому

    Danelle hats off to you.. I think you're strong to be able to do what you do and put up with Mr Ed

  • @veerpalsidhu7238
    @veerpalsidhu7238 5 місяців тому +2

    Danielle he enjoy you most, You made me emotional because of your pure love for this great man. I wanna see you and hug you very tightly. you won my heart my sweet lady. Lots and lots of love to you both❤❤❤❤❤

  • @geneascott
    @geneascott 6 місяців тому +2

    Danielle sending love and prayers always to you and your family, I do understand because I took care of my dad with dementia too….

  • @elizabethcraig28
    @elizabethcraig28 6 місяців тому +3

    Hi Danielle,sounds like you’ve been through a lot your a fantastic person ❤

  • @darrenstewart7952
    @darrenstewart7952 2 місяці тому

    I understand how you feel Danielle and you are right how hard it is you need to be firm

  • @beverleyellis1869
    @beverleyellis1869 6 місяців тому +1

    Dear Danielle, You endure with finesse! Brava! W O M A N! If I could, I would give you a great big great grandma hug! ❤

  • @mollycyrus6218
    @mollycyrus6218 6 місяців тому +2

    You do have to be firm. You do wonderful Danielle.

  • @smbproductions5458
    @smbproductions5458 Місяць тому +1

    Right. Who wants a total stranger in your home and in your life . I don’t blame you.

  • @NancyWilson-pp3ig
    @NancyWilson-pp3ig 5 місяців тому +1

    Hi Danielle I'm from Australia and lost my husband from this terrible sickness. It's a hard row to hoe sometimes you have to be firm other times you just have to be gentle. For you being his daughter in law you are doing a great job. Not too keen on the F word but that's your choice if it helps you go for it

  • @nunyabizznizzok
    @nunyabizznizzok 6 місяців тому +3

    Danielle your amazing and know it’s not easy

  • @bill8027
    @bill8027 4 місяці тому +2

    He just touched it! He wasn’t picking at it

  • @sandraalm7217
    @sandraalm7217 4 місяці тому

    You are doing great!!! Let her alone, no one knows what she does’! She is doing this alone today! Give her praise’nn😊

  • @terridevries4924
    @terridevries4924 Місяць тому +1

    I fucking love you Danielle!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤

  • @ladyboomer1765
    @ladyboomer1765 6 місяців тому +2

    I know Danielle's struggle and if you think she's harsh than you should see how a few unknown caregivers can be.

  • @Alex-xz8wz
    @Alex-xz8wz 6 місяців тому +4

    Missed you by a few mins!! My phone starting acting up earlier or I would have at the least said bye and enjoy the rest of your evening doll. Curl up with your book and treat yourself to a cheeky glass of vino..Much love girl love ya 😘😘🤗🤗🌻🌻🌻 xoxo

    • @mrsdsalnorcal
      @mrsdsalnorcal  6 місяців тому +2

      Next time! Love ya.

    • @Alex-xz8wz
      @Alex-xz8wz 6 місяців тому

      @@mrsdsalnorcal Love u lots xoxo

  • @NuraCaicedo-xh2ok
    @NuraCaicedo-xh2ok 6 місяців тому +3

    I just want to tell you that I think you guys are so awesome❤❤❤

  • @janicewhite4648
    @janicewhite4648 6 місяців тому +2

    Danielle 😊 i think your doing a hell of a good job. Doing what your doing isn't easy..

  • @georgiaspivey4535
    @georgiaspivey4535 3 місяці тому

    Hang in there. You got this. I took care of my mother with some dementia. I understand what you are going through with Ed.

  • @jennifermatthews1979
    @jennifermatthews1979 6 місяців тому +1

    You're awesome, Danielle! That struggle is R.E.A.L! You're doing better than your best! Girl power! You ROCK!

  • @user-oh2tk3lf9l
    @user-oh2tk3lf9l 6 місяців тому +3

    I love your come backs Danielle 😂 😅❤ great job xx 😘

  • @user-qu4sv5hd8k
    @user-qu4sv5hd8k 4 місяці тому +2

    I like your hoodie Ed!!

  • @capritiousLebea
    @capritiousLebea 4 місяці тому

    I think Daniel she is very strict and a strong human and she tells it like it is but deep down she is loving and caring. And she is being real all the time and herself she doesn't act for the camera.

  • @colorsonconcrete2114
    @colorsonconcrete2114 5 місяців тому +1

    I love it, I wish I had an ounce of your humor and strength. So much respect for you, please for the love of God keep staying the way you are.

  • @PatriciaLopez-lk8dr
    @PatriciaLopez-lk8dr 6 місяців тому +3

    I cant atand judgy people. Drink wine girl! We all have it.

  • @1979ACR
    @1979ACR 6 місяців тому +4

    Haha Danielle you are so funny😂 Keep up the great work piss on the haters.. CHEERS🍷

  • @user-mc9zv3yn1u
    @user-mc9zv3yn1u 6 місяців тому +3

    I bet the dogs love it when gpa sits down to eat!

  • @jenniferchaney3019
    @jenniferchaney3019 5 місяців тому +1

    ❤😊❤i feel less stress and normal after watching and listening to you thank you for being you

  • @user-cz8qu5pm4b
    @user-cz8qu5pm4b 3 місяці тому +2

    And this is on camera , I can imagine off camera ! She is disgusting with poor Dr Ed

  • @user-ty6fe3zl2k
    @user-ty6fe3zl2k 4 місяці тому

    You go girl. You are a good person. No one should judge anyone. Take care of you.

  • @stephaniehowes849
    @stephaniehowes849 6 місяців тому +1

    "You can't stay young forever Danielle!! "
    😂😂😂
    Let's get a bandage on that.. Lol...Haha

    • @mrsdsalnorcal
      @mrsdsalnorcal  6 місяців тому +1

      Haha

    • @stephaniehowes849
      @stephaniehowes849 6 місяців тому

      He was definitely Spicey yesterday!! As a caregiver, I know how hard those times can be! Literally Exhausting at time's! 💗

  • @clairegreen445
    @clairegreen445 4 місяці тому +1

    your amazing bab and doing a fab job