You know as a man, it's hard for me to do this because of how society wants us to act. So you making an audio like this is what I need. Thanks and much love to you girl ❤
i think bottling emotions is not the best choice you don’t have to tell it to someone u can just cry it out one days it will all break if you pile it all without ever working on shortening the stack if you know what i mean
Ive never had a girdfriend/partner/relationship....i never had someone to come and sit by me and tell me that crying is allright. To let it out, to show her my emotions. Im sorry but this helps and breaks me....thank you!! I really mean it!
I'm glad this helps! It can be hard to find that release, especially around others, but once the flood gates open, it tends to leave you feeling more grounded and intune with things. I hope you'll find someone to share the experience with soon!
I know this is 2 years old and the odds of you seeing the comment are silm. But thank you, this video broke me in the best way. My fiance was like this woman. She recently died in a car accident. I haven't been able to cry. After this video for the past 2 hours I can't stop crying. I can barely type this
The fact that you're having to go through a loss like this is unjustifiable, and you have my deepest sympathies. I am glad that the audio was able to help even a little, and I want to thank you for commenting; though your pain isn't about me in the slightest, it's good to know that my work can provide comfort when others may need it. I'm sure that your fiance felt herself a very lucky woman to have you, as you were to have her. I hope that you can find peace and healing moving forward, and are able to cry as much as your heart requires. I know she will be able to live on through your wonderful memories, because I can feel how beautiful she was through your comment alone.
@@GingerbreadPiggethank you for responding. I'm sorry my last comment was so short. I was crying very hard as I was writing it. I don't think I've cried that hard in many years. Your audio was beautiful. It's almost as if you captured her personality. She was both shy and powerful. I've watched it six times now. I have been through trauma in my life and she was the only one that helped me through it. Her loss feels like an arm is missing. I have subscribed and I will continue to watch your videos past and present. Thank you for helping me break down this wall. And Vicki, I miss you. More than I thought possible
Thank you, this made my day. I've been bottling things up so much just so that no one in my family can criticise me for feeling this way on a lot of the serious stuff happening in my life rn but with this audio I feel a bit lighter than before. Thank you.
I'm so glad it was able to help you! Being able to communicate and express yourself is really important for your overall wellbeing, so it makes me smile hearing that this was able to relieve some pressure! Hope things start getting better!!
My mother today had told me things today I wish I did not want to hear. Hurtful things, words that made me feel worthless. But this, this has made me feel a certain relief and love I have never felt before. Thank you ma’am for this audio. It was…… beautifully helpful.
I know this is not real but letting out my tears while I listen to this is soothing. In real life, I would never let someone else see me cry and use it against me. Thank you for this. It is a safe haven for men indeed
I have been in many relationships, but this right here is something I never had. None of my girlfriends ever gave me the opportunity to actually tell them how I felt, let alone cry without some kind of backlash. Which doesn't make any sense seeing as how all I ever did was try to make them happy and be there for them like this. All I wanted was someone to talk to. As a guy, modern culture doesn't really allow us to show emotions like that, so I never really found what I was looking for. That is, until I found this video. I don't mind admitting that I almost began to tear up when I read the video title. Thank you so much. You are doing wonderful work and I'm sure you have helped a lot of guys like me.
I'm honestly pretty tired of the whole ''Men can cry'' saying. I have never once been told men don't cry or shouldn't show emotion I and a lot of other men just learned not to because a overwhelming majority of society will mock you, shame you, make fun of you and just straight up shun you. It's the same thing with men opening up about their emotions we've just learned that it way too often gets used against us in arguments or we get ridiculed for expressing our feelings, not to mention the possibility of losing a significant other after they lose attraction when you are seen as anything but a strong man. When we do finally open up it seems no one actually listens, wants to help or really gives a shit in general. Men who are hurting don't want to burden those close to them and don't want to be hurt even more by those around them so we close it all off so no one can use our pain to hurt us more. Why should we be emotional when it has a high chance of hurting us or just being brushed off? I'm the closest I have ever been to ending it so I talked to my sister a couple weeks ago about how I've had depression for 14 years now and have been suicidal for a while now and even though she was supportive and offered to help, it honestly just made me feel worse cause now she is burdened by my problems and knows how truly fucked I am. EDIT: I didn't mean for this to be such a negative comment I just needed to let it out I guess. I love your audios want to thank you for making them and putting so much time and effort into them it really comes through in your voice and acting. You have honestly helped me a lot to just clear my mind and get drawn into the story and settings of the audios. You are truly a wonderful person for making these audios and incredible talented. Thank you so much.
@UCaQ_qUvpQgdFO4wSor67udg crying releases toxins from the body so that's great I'm going cry if I want too and if people make fun of me I will tell at them and say fuck off you know lol
Society can say whatever they want, but the reality is that having emotions doesn't make you a wimp, it makes you human, we all have them. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise, if you ever need to talk dude I'm here
Even during movies when a sad scene comes, I basically try to bottle it up, and pretend to yawn when my eyes water, or rub them to pretend that I’m trying to wake up
Y'know, I like to think and act like I'm okay, and generally I'm fine, and then I listen to something like this and experience actual physical pain in my chest, which makes me realize that no, actually, I'm not doing so hot. Thanks for the audio, much love
Im sorry to hear that youregoing through a hard season friend i hope you find some comfort, and i hope you find the Love Jesus has for you God bless you friend, with God alongside you there´s nothing that can be agaisnt you
Just this week, I was watching a review for a show and when the narrator got to a portion discussing the protagonist going through a depression arc, emphasizing his constant feeling of failing his family/teammates, I legit teared up out of nowhere because it hit too close to home for reasons that are affecting me currently. I happened to be in a busy mall at the time (I work there), so I hastily packed my stuff and darted away so no one would see (The same thing almost happened again just today. Different reviewer, different topic, but a similar discussion on failure). Now part of me feels ashamed for trying to hide it while another part feels like staying would've been a cheap grab for attention.
You are so sweet, I started to cry! I loved your sincerity and your depth of emotion! It felt like you were talking to me directly, my lady passed away Thanksgiving eve last year, and my chest feels hollow, and you really touched me! Thank you!
My dad always taught my brother and I that boys don’t cry. No matter what. You break your leg? Walk it off. If we did cry, we got whipped and degraded and told we were worthless. Because of that I’ve built such a hard shell and big walls that sometimes I don’t recognize myself. It’s taken a lot of years to come to terms with my trauma and let myself open up, and even now I struggle. Videos like these always help me out. Thank you for this. Don’t stop what you do
Comments like this are always bittersweet, but I'm glad to know my work can provide some cushioning against a challenge like that; vulnerability is often a daunting task, even for the best of us, so any progress is something to be proud of. Thank you for listening and taking the time to comment!
It's never weak of a man to cry in front of someone they trust. It takes a lot of courage and strength to feel vulnerable to show their emotions. So, it's actually strong.
We often underestimate the power of comfort. Usually, we think we don't need it. But everyone does and you do it so well. It was everything I needed to hear. Thanks again!
This was exactly what i needed to hear rn Thank you I have a girlfriend, but she's overseas, so I've been using a lot of asmr like this to help me sleep OMGOSH YES I REMEMBER THAT COMMERCIALLLL
Why do people say"I don't wanna pry" as a segway into prying? You are funny and caring and I appreciate you trying to make me(a total stranger who you don't know and believes no one loves him) feel better. Thank you.
Got goose bumps from this audio...I don't know if you improv, do scripts, or what, but you're very good at making very real feeling characters and dialogue. Keep it up :) +1 Sub
Thank you so much for taking time out of your days to make these videos because it makes people feel appreciated and loved and the thought of that makes me feel so warm, these audios are really amazing. 💕
I needed this, alot more than i thought. Lost someome some time ago, not deceased, they just dissapeared from society, and havent got back to them. I really enjoyed their company, but now, they're just, gone, cant find them anywhere, cant get in touch either. It made me quite sad, and this kinda helped me just, process it. Thank you.
Man, I've heard good quality audios before, but this... This is just something else. I can't possibly describe with words how completely amazed I am by the insane amount of talent you have... I will definetly stick around and "Watch your career with great interest"... But, you know how sometimes you wish to have the power to listen to something for the first time again... Well, I kinda feel like I will definitely feel like that in the future, if that makes sense (grammatically speaking)
its videos like these that make me especially sad that i'll probably never have a partner/significant other. this shit hits hard dude edit: in case it was unclear this was extremely high praise
Loneliness is a hard trial to face, especially when you feel you're lacking in prospects. I'm excited for the future when you'll be able to eat those words!
I'm so sorry, pets hold a very special place in our hearts. I'm glad you're able to find support here, and hope you come out of your grieving process feeling renewed. I bet they were a lovely cat!
@@GingerbreadPigge UA-cam is so bad about notifications these days. Thank you so much for your kind words. Yes, she was very dear to me. She was a spoiled little queen, no doubt about that, but *my* spoiled little queen, you know? Again, thanks.
I can confidently say in my adult life, I've on cried a handful of times. Once when my first dog herniated her spine and needed put down. Once when I found out my dad died, then again seeing the despair in my mom after seeing him. When my grandmother literally died in my arms, and lastly when my next dog suddenly developed all the cancer and had to be put down within a week. This sounds more tragic then it is because it takes place over about 15 years. Do with this info what you will.
Wow this is just great I wish I actually had someone to cry to at some point. Instead of holding my tears for years. My mom and dad says I'm a man and I shouldn't cry. I don't have any friend In a close friendship to even be there for me at hard moments so im always left alone with my emotions at my hardest moments and everyone just assumes I'm fine cause I'm a man. I just hope everyone doesn't have to feel the way I do and they have someone there for them so they don't have to grow up with any trauma or any actual emotional or mental problems.
Its hard to be told as a boy that men dont cry. but it's infinitely harder to be told that by the women in your life, especially if it happens during those formative teenage years when a boy is just learning he's interested in women. Nothing will break a young man more than to know he's not always safe with his partner, and it leads to lacking trust, and fear. so this audio cuts deep for me. I never had this in my life. every girl I've been with ridiculed me for feeling emotions. and now I am messed up.
Society acts like men need to be the strong and mentally unbreakable and that if they cry then they aren’t acting like men and in most cases are tossed away for a different guy who hides their feelings better. So if you ever ask a man if he is alright or if he wants to be alone, than most likely he will smile and say he’s perfectly fine. But in reality he wants you to see through the fake smile and stay with him and just hold him. In my opinion holding a guy without asking what his problem is comforts him and let’s him keep his “male pride”.
Im dont post many comments at all, but I need to rant some I guess. My grandfather said some things that really got to me and I was crying but I made myself stop because I thought someone would walk in on me and see it and I didnt want that, and ngl I'm feeling very lonely but I cant get myself to talk to anybody because they're sleeping, and I dont wanna wake them just to worry them or annoy them or something... idk this video just helps some, so yeah...
I'm so glad that it can provide you some comfort. We all need someone we can talk to, but showing vulnerability is hard. I hope the audio is able to alleviate some of the lonliness, and that you discover someone who's more than happy to have you open up to them- they're probably closer than you think.
I never cry in front of my subordinates, being the Commander of The Corruption... I've kept my emotions hidden for so long, I'm essentially emotionless almost every moment of every day, but I can turn on my emotions like a switch, to make sure people around me don't get worried...
This kinda hurts I've been listening to gf ASMRs for a year now all because I'm so mentally broken and bitter and pretty sure my ex would lose her damn mind if I got with someone new.
I'd do anything in the world to get something like this, I don't wanna' pretend i'm something i'm not and I don't want anyone to have to do the same. Everyone should be allowed to be honest with their emotions. How dare they tell us how we have to act? why do they tell us these horrible things since the day we were born? I'll do everything in my power to change the world the little I can in my lifetime. No one should have to feel like this. No one should have to pretend to feel nothing.
I don’t really like crying.. because when i it turns into anxiety then from anxiety it turns into anger.. and if I keep going it becomes uncontrollable for the rest of the day.. I understand that’s it’s okay to cry.. but sometimes i want to but nothing comes out I just don’t know how to do it anymore
My uncle called me deadweight and this gave me the motivation to try to surpass him, thank you. Dumb in-jokes aside I got way too emotional from this, thank you. I’ve been holding back a lot and I needed to hear every word of this
Even though I know it's okay and I want to let it out I literally am physically incapable because I've suppressed it for so long. Even when my uncle died this week it took me a long time to break down.
This writing.... is so fricken incredible!! Like, do you want to help me write my short films!? Like, I love the rambling monologue about the grubhub commercial. Like, I made a whole scene from a movie, in my mind, just listening to that!
At last someone approached me and made me feel better without going "oh no he looks like he's gonna lose it and go on a fucking rampage lemme get away from it"..thanks🙂
I don't know if you will see this. I'm autistic and extremely socially anxious. It's made it hard to get jobs and I've never dated (v card still intact). I'm 33 now and I feel like a failure, it's so hard to express it to my family because they've been supportive and understanding. In a way not being happy feels like betraying them so over time I learned to just hold negative stuff in. Got worse ever since a death in the family. Future or lack thereof terrifies me. A shoulder to cry on really helps.
@@MarcusConnelly-w2n It can be rough grieving your own emotions and insecurities when you feel an expectation to express yourself a particular way. I can understand the dread and uncertainty of feeling behind the curve, whichever one it may be; while it's an outlook best changed from the inside, it can definitely be difficult and I sympathize as someone who is still going through the process, myself. The good news is, there's always a new future to make if we're willing to do the hard part and put ourselves out there, even with the occasional tears along the way; it's a little cornball to say, but exploring your emotions is a great way of better understanding your needs and wants, which is a big part of bringing in a brighter tomorrow! Thank you for your comment!! I'm glad you were able to get something out of the audio, and I hope one day you'll find yourself able to comfortably express yourself and achieve your goals. You're not a failure, you're just not where you want to be right now.
@@GingerbreadPigge I am a failure. In the 12 years since I graduated I couldn't find a job. I'm unemployable. That makes me undateable. I will never have a familiy of my own.
I haven’t cried since I was 16 I’m 20 now, I wish I could get away from this Jail cell of a house hold. I wish I could get away from it all, I feel so afraid to cry or maybe I can’t cry at all anymore. Maybe I’m too broken.
I really need to stop listening to these. I'm never going to find someone so no point torturing myself. So nice to imagine but just hurts more in the end.
You ever feel like ur not suffering like others enough to feel the way you do and like u don’t deserve attention for it? Like there’s people going through depression and anxiety while I’m here simply just bummed out a bit. Others are in worse situations and have it pulled together and I’m here being sappy about nothing
I agree with you on that but then again your your non well-being should still not be left without any concern any type of dammage or mental stress can lead to depression just know while you may feel left out of a bigger picture your pain is as equal to most people than you may realize
I am so overworked atm. But i feel like I shouldnt cry about it cuz crying will get me nowhere yknow? Its quite hard dealiing with it sometimes but i just feel like, since im not the best at school (trying to get better) that rather than crying about it, i should just work harder instead. Same with girls. Im a total bottom but when it comes to venting I feel like i shouldnt as it could come off as me being incompetent with my life choices. Also with therapy, I always stop myself at our school councelors door cuz im like "Nah, you chose this workload, you are going to work through it. Work it out on your own cuz you wont have anyone to help you in adulthood" All of this is super unhealthy I know but I dont know how to change.
I think knocking on your counselor's door is a great place to start. Burnout is a very real thing that always requires some form of reprieve, especially to remain able bodied and minded enough to continue your duties. It's kinda like putting rubberbands on a watermelon- if 1000 is making it crack, 1001 ain't gonna help. People hire personal trainers because they know it's ridiculously harder to work out on their own and they need the helping hand- it lets them learn their limits and teaches them the safest ways to get their desired results. Even if they decide to move forward on their own, they've acquired some knowledge on how best to do it. I hope you're able to take some time to rest and hash things out, however the best way is for you. Crying may not be a method you choose, but if it is, it can really take some of the edge off and help ground you, which is a good step in the right direction. I appreciate you opening up, it's good to put it on proverbial paper and get it out of your head. Best of luck!!!
I'm just going to shove everything deep down inside like I always do. And then in 20-30 years cut that piece of colon out with a tumor in it. It's worked for thousands of years so if it ain't broke, don't fix it. Just joking. This video got me right in the feels... need to hear more like it. So big giant thanks from my corner of this lonely world.
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You know as a man, it's hard for me to do this because of how society wants us to act. So you making an audio like this is what I need. Thanks and much love to you girl ❤
Society can suck it; it's healthy for men to cry
Glad you liked!!
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I love this image screenshot it. Because this is true. Society is just rude to men.
Wow do you want a fucking medal
Sadly what vesper says is to true
; - ; Can't I just do my usual technique? Bottling up my emotions and pretending I'm perfectly fine? I'm quite good at it.
same
i think bottling emotions is not the best choice you don’t have to tell it to someone u can just cry it out one days it will all break if you pile it all without ever working on shortening the stack if you know what i mean
@devon spinelli same dude
At some point your demons will get take over you if you don’t open up.
Im good at it too😎
I absolutely love when you go off on those tangents, it puts a super goofy smile on my face
Thank god, I'm bursting with them~
@@GingerbreadPigge
I love em too
To quote Soldier Boy, "You know what I do when I'm sad or scared?Fucking nothing."
RAHHHHH REAL MEN BOTTLE UP THE PAIN AND WRAP THEMSELVES AROUND TREES AT 100 MPH RAHHHHHH 🦅🦅🦅🦅
RAHHHHHHHHHH@@IJNAzooma
Huh this works, my usual tactic is “I’ll keep all my emotions right here, then one day I’ll die”
Lmao definitely got that technique down
*OOF*
I see that John Mulaney quote.
"Some day ill die, and all my emotions will come with me"
-some guy probably
We bottle everything up and then die at the age of forty from a Stress induced heart attack like real men
Her: "We're all individuals."
Me: _[Joker smile, looks at camera] "We live in a society."_
"...where gamers don't rule the world..."
Bwah bee scope pow
@@neuro7594 I used to roll the dice
Feel my di-
Ive never had a girdfriend/partner/relationship....i never had someone to come and sit by me and tell me that crying is allright. To let it out, to show her my emotions. Im sorry but this helps and breaks me....thank you!! I really mean it!
I'm glad this helps! It can be hard to find that release, especially around others, but once the flood gates open, it tends to leave you feeling more grounded and intune with things. I hope you'll find someone to share the experience with soon!
*Watches sad movie: Nothing*
*Listens to Gingerbread Pigge: flood gates open*
I know this is 2 years old and the odds of you seeing the comment are silm. But thank you, this video broke me in the best way. My fiance was like this woman. She recently died in a car accident. I haven't been able to cry. After this video for the past 2 hours I can't stop crying. I can barely type this
The fact that you're having to go through a loss like this is unjustifiable, and you have my deepest sympathies. I am glad that the audio was able to help even a little, and I want to thank you for commenting; though your pain isn't about me in the slightest, it's good to know that my work can provide comfort when others may need it. I'm sure that your fiance felt herself a very lucky woman to have you, as you were to have her. I hope that you can find peace and healing moving forward, and are able to cry as much as your heart requires. I know she will be able to live on through your wonderful memories, because I can feel how beautiful she was through your comment alone.
@@GingerbreadPiggethank you for responding. I'm sorry my last comment was so short. I was crying very hard as I was writing it. I don't think I've cried that hard in many years. Your audio was beautiful. It's almost as if you captured her personality. She was both shy and powerful. I've watched it six times now. I have been through trauma in my life and she was the only one that helped me through it. Her loss feels like an arm is missing. I have subscribed and I will continue to watch your videos past and present. Thank you for helping me break down this wall. And Vicki, I miss you. More than I thought possible
you have a soothing voice and you are an incredible VA, makes for incredible videos and perfect comfort audios
Thanks so much! I try to provide some pepto bismol for the soul~
Thank you, this made my day. I've been bottling things up so much just so that no one in my family can criticise me for feeling this way on a lot of the serious stuff happening in my life rn but with this audio I feel a bit lighter than before. Thank you.
I'm so glad it was able to help you! Being able to communicate and express yourself is really important for your overall wellbeing, so it makes me smile hearing that this was able to relieve some pressure! Hope things start getting better!!
This is one of the most real feeling conversations I've ever heard in an audio 🥺🥺
My mother today had told me things today I wish I did not want to hear. Hurtful things, words that made me feel worthless. But this, this has made me feel a certain relief and love I have never felt before. Thank you ma’am for this audio. It was…… beautifully helpful.
I know this is not real but letting out my tears while I listen to this is soothing. In real life, I would never let someone else see me cry and use it against me. Thank you for this. It is a safe haven for men indeed
I've never been more depressed, and I didn't realize till I listened to this, so both screw you and thank you
I have been in many relationships, but this right here is something I never had.
None of my girlfriends ever gave me the opportunity to actually tell them how I felt, let alone cry without some kind of backlash. Which doesn't make any sense seeing as how all I ever did was try to make them happy and be there for them like this. All I wanted was someone to talk to. As a guy, modern culture doesn't really allow us to show emotions like that, so I never really found what I was looking for. That is, until I found this video. I don't mind admitting that I almost began to tear up when I read the video title. Thank you so much. You are doing wonderful work and I'm sure you have helped a lot of guys like me.
I'm honestly pretty tired of the whole ''Men can cry'' saying. I have never once been told men don't cry or shouldn't show emotion I and a lot of other men just learned not to because a overwhelming majority of society will mock you, shame you, make fun of you and just straight up shun you. It's the same thing with men opening up about their emotions we've just learned that it way too often gets used against us in arguments or we get ridiculed for expressing our feelings, not to mention the possibility of losing a significant other after they lose attraction when you are seen as anything but a strong man. When we do finally open up it seems no one actually listens, wants to help or really gives a shit in general. Men who are hurting don't want to burden those close to them and don't want to be hurt even more by those around them so we close it all off so no one can use our pain to hurt us more. Why should we be emotional when it has a high chance of hurting us or just being brushed off? I'm the closest I have ever been to ending it so I talked to my sister a couple weeks ago about how I've had depression for 14 years now and have been suicidal for a while now and even though she was supportive and offered to help, it honestly just made me feel worse cause now she is burdened by my problems and knows how truly fucked I am.
EDIT: I didn't mean for this to be such a negative comment I just needed to let it out I guess. I love your audios want to thank you for making them and putting so much time and effort into them it really comes through in your voice and acting. You have honestly helped me a lot to just clear my mind and get drawn into the story and settings of the audios. You are truly a wonderful person for making these audios and incredible talented. Thank you so much.
@UCaQ_qUvpQgdFO4wSor67udg crying releases toxins from the body so that's great I'm going cry if I want too and if people make fun of me I will tell at them and say fuck off you know lol
This man speaks the truth
@Merciless Outlaw also truth
Society can say whatever they want, but the reality is that having emotions doesn't make you a wimp, it makes you human, we all have them. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise, if you ever need to talk dude I'm here
Even during movies when a sad scene comes, I basically try to bottle it up, and pretend to yawn when my eyes water, or rub them to pretend that I’m trying to wake up
I hope that you know that you’ve helped so many people with these audios, doing god’s work.
I'm so glad they're doing their job~ Thanks!
Y'know, I like to think and act like I'm okay, and generally I'm fine, and then I listen to something like this and experience actual physical pain in my chest, which makes me realize that no, actually, I'm not doing so hot. Thanks for the audio, much love
Im sorry to hear that youregoing through a hard season friend i hope you find some comfort, and i hope you find the Love Jesus has for you
God bless you friend, with God alongside you there´s nothing that can be agaisnt you
Just this week, I was watching a review for a show and when the narrator got to a portion discussing the protagonist going through a depression arc, emphasizing his constant feeling of failing his family/teammates, I legit teared up out of nowhere because it hit too close to home for reasons that are affecting me currently. I happened to be in a busy mall at the time (I work there), so I hastily packed my stuff and darted away so no one would see (The same thing almost happened again just today. Different reviewer, different topic, but a similar discussion on failure). Now part of me feels ashamed for trying to hide it while another part feels like staying would've been a cheap grab for attention.
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Emotional asmr sometimes has the most effect
You are so sweet, I started to cry! I loved your sincerity and your depth of emotion! It felt like you were talking to me directly, my lady passed away Thanksgiving eve last year, and my chest feels hollow, and you really touched me! Thank you!
I'm so sorry to hear that brother I hope you've found peace and hope she is at peace as well
@@jaybel3644 thank you! I have moved on, from the support of you and other UA-camrs! Thank you
My dad always taught my brother and I that boys don’t cry. No matter what. You break your leg? Walk it off. If we did cry, we got whipped and degraded and told we were worthless. Because of that I’ve built such a hard shell and big walls that sometimes I don’t recognize myself. It’s taken a lot of years to come to terms with my trauma and let myself open up, and even now I struggle. Videos like these always help me out. Thank you for this. Don’t stop what you do
Comments like this are always bittersweet, but I'm glad to know my work can provide some cushioning against a challenge like that; vulnerability is often a daunting task, even for the best of us, so any progress is something to be proud of. Thank you for listening and taking the time to comment!
It's never weak of a man to cry in front of someone they trust. It takes a lot of courage and strength to feel vulnerable to show their emotions. So, it's actually strong.
We often underestimate the power of comfort. Usually, we think we don't need it. But everyone does and you do it so well. It was everything I needed to hear. Thanks again!
I absolutely love your voice I have used your audios during most of my mental breakdowns so thank you for helping me get through my rough patches 💛💛
I'm so glad they can be of help, that's heartwarming to know!
..listening to stuff like this literally makes my soul cry no joke....
I feel a crumbling sensation inside me while I listen to these
This was exactly what i needed to hear rn
Thank you
I have a girlfriend, but she's overseas, so I've been using a lot of asmr like this to help me sleep
OMGOSH YES I REMEMBER THAT COMMERCIALLLL
Oh THAT commercial! Glad to know I wasn't the only one.
Why do people say"I don't wanna pry" as a segway into prying? You are funny and caring and I appreciate you trying to make me(a total stranger who you don't know and believes no one loves him) feel better. Thank you.
Got goose bumps from this audio...I don't know if you improv, do scripts, or what, but you're very good at making very real feeling characters and dialogue. Keep it up :) +1 Sub
Thank you!! I'm glad it pays off, because writing these suckers takes forever haha!
Strange how someone online can make me cry when I see and do things irl that should have made me cry, but I don't. Thank you. It was nice
..When your heart has been frozen for far too long and finally cracks.. Damn holding the tears back in is difficult
This made me feel loved thank you
Thank you so much for taking time out of your days to make these videos because it makes people feel appreciated and loved and the thought of that makes me feel so warm, these audios are really amazing. 💕
Damn this made me feel like letting it all out my pillow was kinda full of tears towards the end of the video nice work🥺🖤🖤
I needed this, alot more than i thought.
Lost someome some time ago, not deceased, they just dissapeared from society, and havent got back to them. I really enjoyed their company, but now, they're just, gone, cant find them anywhere, cant get in touch either.
It made me quite sad, and this kinda helped me just, process it.
Thank you.
Man, I've heard good quality audios before, but this... This is just something else. I can't possibly describe with words how completely amazed I am by the insane amount of talent you have... I will definetly stick around and "Watch your career with great interest"... But, you know how sometimes you wish to have the power to listen to something for the first time again... Well, I kinda feel like I will definitely feel like that in the future, if that makes sense (grammatically speaking)
being real here, like no cap, i don't cry since i was 8, holy shit, i don't think I'm human anymore
I hope you can someday, if you want to! It can be super therapeutic~!
Same shit for long time I didn't even noticed that, but I cant cry. I can shed few tears and that's all.
Thats good, crying makes someone weak
Kind of a weird comment to leave but the way the hair in this artwork turned out still makes me super jealous 👍🏽
its videos like these that make me especially sad that i'll probably never have a partner/significant other. this shit hits hard dude
edit: in case it was unclear this was extremely high praise
Loneliness is a hard trial to face, especially when you feel you're lacking in prospects. I'm excited for the future when you'll be able to eat those words!
Your voice is so freaking wonderful 😩
Thank ya!
My cat died this week, so yeah, crying is a thing, and audios like this help. Thanks.
I'm so sorry, pets hold a very special place in our hearts. I'm glad you're able to find support here, and hope you come out of your grieving process feeling renewed. I bet they were a lovely cat!
@@GingerbreadPigge UA-cam is so bad about notifications these days. Thank you so much for your kind words. Yes, she was very dear to me. She was a spoiled little queen, no doubt about that, but *my* spoiled little queen, you know?
Again, thanks.
I can confidently say in my adult life, I've on cried a handful of times. Once when my first dog herniated her spine and needed put down. Once when I found out my dad died, then again seeing the despair in my mom after seeing him. When my grandmother literally died in my arms, and lastly when my next dog suddenly developed all the cancer and had to be put down within a week. This sounds more tragic then it is because it takes place over about 15 years. Do with this info what you will.
I think ginger is the rock we all need 💕
Thank you for this.
Welcome, glad you enjoyed!
Would be nice to go somewhere with no one near you, miles away, just so one can scream and cry your heart out.
Wow this is just great I wish I actually had someone to cry to at some point. Instead of holding my tears for years. My mom and dad says I'm a man and I shouldn't cry. I don't have any friend In a close friendship to even be there for me at hard moments so im always left alone with my emotions at my hardest moments and everyone just assumes I'm fine cause I'm a man. I just hope everyone doesn't have to feel the way I do and they have someone there for them so they don't have to grow up with any trauma or any actual emotional or mental problems.
Thank you for making this
Its hard to be told as a boy that men dont cry. but it's infinitely harder to be told that by the women in your life, especially if it happens during those formative teenage years when a boy is just learning he's interested in women. Nothing will break a young man more than to know he's not always safe with his partner, and it leads to lacking trust, and fear. so this audio cuts deep for me. I never had this in my life. every girl I've been with ridiculed me for feeling emotions. and now I am messed up.
Everytime I listen to these beutifull asmr's, I always think about may from pokemon comforting me 😊
I cried so much during this video. This is simply the most wholesome video that has made me cry like this. Amazing ^^
Another excellent and truly beautiful addition to my collection.
i found diamonds whilst listening to this video
10/10!!!!
Thanks so much, how flattering!
Lovr these too much so realisric, was grinning like an idiot at times lol
Glad you liked it!!
I don’t open up about my feelings because they always get thrown back in my face.
Society acts like men need to be the strong and mentally unbreakable and that if they cry then they aren’t acting like men and in most cases are tossed away for a different guy who hides their feelings better. So if you ever ask a man if he is alright or if he wants to be alone, than most likely he will smile and say he’s perfectly fine. But in reality he wants you to see through the fake smile and stay with him and just hold him. In my opinion holding a guy without asking what his problem is comforts him and let’s him keep his “male pride”.
This is pure love❤
Im dont post many comments at all, but I need to rant some I guess.
My grandfather said some things that really got to me and I was crying but I made myself stop because I thought someone would walk in on me and see it and I didnt want that, and ngl I'm feeling very lonely but I cant get myself to talk to anybody because they're sleeping, and I dont wanna wake them just to worry them or annoy them or something... idk this video just helps some, so yeah...
I'm so glad that it can provide you some comfort. We all need someone we can talk to, but showing vulnerability is hard. I hope the audio is able to alleviate some of the lonliness, and that you discover someone who's more than happy to have you open up to them- they're probably closer than you think.
But you see, I have an impeccable technique, you see I bottle it all up and let it fester, and then one day I'll finally die
Well, I'm not that tough, but I don't wanna show that I'm weak either.
Ay, nothin weak about having emotions
All I can say is thank you for this I really needed to let it out I’m definitely subbing
I never cry in front of my subordinates, being the Commander of The Corruption... I've kept my emotions hidden for so long, I'm essentially emotionless almost every moment of every day, but I can turn on my emotions like a switch, to make sure people around me don't get worried...
Sometimes it's better to say I'm fine then to have people constantly worry..
holy shit her acting is amazing
Thanks so much! It's always a work in progess, so I appreciate it!
This kinda hurts I've been listening to gf ASMRs for a year now all because I'm so mentally broken and bitter and pretty sure my ex would lose her damn mind if I got with someone new.
I'd do anything in the world to get something like this, I don't wanna' pretend i'm something i'm not and I don't want anyone to have to do the same. Everyone should be allowed to be honest with their emotions. How dare they tell us how we have to act? why do they tell us these horrible things since the day we were born? I'll do everything in my power to change the world the little I can in my lifetime. No one should have to feel like this. No one should have to pretend to feel nothing.
God this reminds me so much of this one girl I liked
It's hard to cry but I won't hesitate to cry when with you
I just found this. Ive been so stressed man fuck i hate the night. Ptsd, heartbreak, premed, renewing my ems certs... Its all getting to me
I don’t really like crying.. because when i it turns into anxiety then from anxiety it turns into anger.. and if I keep going it becomes uncontrollable for the rest of the day.. I understand that’s it’s okay to cry.. but sometimes i want to but nothing comes out I just don’t know how to do it anymore
Can’t remember the last time I cried, probably been at least 3 years.
My uncle called me deadweight and this gave me the motivation to try to surpass him, thank you.
Dumb in-jokes aside I got way too emotional from this, thank you. I’ve been holding back a lot and I needed to hear every word of this
If you are by my side I feel comfortable enough to cry.
Even though I know it's okay and I want to let it out I literally am physically incapable because I've suppressed it for so long. Even when my uncle died this week it took me a long time to break down.
"Hold up! I gotta go get the tissues!"
Ah, a Pixar movie huh?
This writing.... is so fricken incredible!! Like, do you want to help me write my short films!? Like, I love the rambling monologue about the grubhub commercial. Like, I made a whole scene from a movie, in my mind, just listening to that!
I won't cry i won't be vulnerable because it lessens me to degrade myself for others self satisfaction
So..... I'm allowed to cry? This wasn't in my "Guide to Manhood 101", why did no one tell me that I can cry?
At last someone approached me and made me feel better without going "oh no he looks like he's gonna lose it and go on a fucking rampage lemme get away from it"..thanks🙂
I don't know if you will see this. I'm autistic and extremely socially anxious. It's made it hard to get jobs and I've never dated (v card still intact). I'm 33 now and I feel like a failure, it's so hard to express it to my family because they've been supportive and understanding. In a way not being happy feels like betraying them so over time I learned to just hold negative stuff in. Got worse ever since a death in the family. Future or lack thereof terrifies me. A shoulder to cry on really helps.
@@MarcusConnelly-w2n It can be rough grieving your own emotions and insecurities when you feel an expectation to express yourself a particular way. I can understand the dread and uncertainty of feeling behind the curve, whichever one it may be; while it's an outlook best changed from the inside, it can definitely be difficult and I sympathize as someone who is still going through the process, myself. The good news is, there's always a new future to make if we're willing to do the hard part and put ourselves out there, even with the occasional tears along the way; it's a little cornball to say, but exploring your emotions is a great way of better understanding your needs and wants, which is a big part of bringing in a brighter tomorrow!
Thank you for your comment!! I'm glad you were able to get something out of the audio, and I hope one day you'll find yourself able to comfortably express yourself and achieve your goals. You're not a failure, you're just not where you want to be right now.
@@GingerbreadPigge I am a failure. In the 12 years since I graduated I couldn't find a job. I'm unemployable. That makes me undateable. I will never have a familiy of my own.
Thank you for the good cry
I just feel so alone
Me personally , I will never show my emtions its a sign of weakness . If they get in they will use your weakness like kryptonite .
I'm crying again, i lost touch to a friend because i was a dumbass. I wanna see him again but i really messed up so i just needed some comfort.
I haven’t cried since I was 16 I’m 20 now, I wish I could get away from this Jail cell of a house hold. I wish I could get away from it all, I feel so afraid to cry or maybe I can’t cry at all anymore. Maybe I’m too broken.
I really need to stop listening to these. I'm never going to find someone so no point torturing myself. So nice to imagine but just hurts more in the end.
You ever feel like ur not suffering like others enough to feel the way you do and like u don’t deserve attention for it? Like there’s people going through depression and anxiety while I’m here simply just bummed out a bit. Others are in worse situations and have it pulled together and I’m here being sappy about nothing
I agree with you on that but then again your your non well-being should still not be left without any concern any type of dammage or mental stress can lead to depression just know while you may feel left out of a bigger picture your pain is as equal to most people than you may realize
Very good episode
That's Gonna be hard lass.
Anyway, great audio, really enjoyed.
I hope it gets easier for you! Thanks!!
wallahi we are finished
I am so overworked atm.
But i feel like I shouldnt cry about it cuz crying will get me nowhere yknow?
Its quite hard dealiing with it sometimes but i just feel like, since im not the best at school (trying to get better) that rather than crying about it, i should just work harder instead.
Same with girls. Im a total bottom but when it comes to venting I feel like i shouldnt as it could come off as me being incompetent with my life choices.
Also with therapy, I always stop myself at our school councelors door cuz im like "Nah, you chose this workload, you are going to work through it. Work it out on your own cuz you wont have anyone to help you in adulthood"
All of this is super unhealthy I know but I dont know how to change.
I think knocking on your counselor's door is a great place to start. Burnout is a very real thing that always requires some form of reprieve, especially to remain able bodied and minded enough to continue your duties. It's kinda like putting rubberbands on a watermelon- if 1000 is making it crack, 1001 ain't gonna help.
People hire personal trainers because they know it's ridiculously harder to work out on their own and they need the helping hand- it lets them learn their limits and teaches them the safest ways to get their desired results. Even if they decide to move forward on their own, they've acquired some knowledge on how best to do it.
I hope you're able to take some time to rest and hash things out, however the best way is for you. Crying may not be a method you choose, but if it is, it can really take some of the edge off and help ground you, which is a good step in the right direction.
I appreciate you opening up, it's good to put it on proverbial paper and get it out of your head. Best of luck!!!
@@GingerbreadPigge 😖 Thanks so much!
Ill try to find a way to deal with it all.
Again thank you so much for caring!
Every tangent makes feel more represented
I couldn’t cry if I wanted to. I’ve tried a few times after my siblings left the house, can’t do it.
Cant I just pretend? It would be better for everyone if no one knew my pain
Sometimes the only way to heal is to let others know you're hurting.
I'm just going to shove everything deep down inside like I always do. And then in 20-30 years cut that piece of colon out with a tumor in it. It's worked for thousands of years so if it ain't broke, don't fix it.
Just joking. This video got me right in the feels... need to hear more like it. So big giant thanks from my corner of this lonely world.
im conflicted
i cry anyways
thank you
Whole society wants tough men, but is it bad to be kind that others? They take it as weakness and sometimes we tend to cry so what??
Yeah...the “Like” button just doesn’t quite say it. BRAVO. SUBSCRIBED. You had me at...”oh...I could #@$& with that.” - True relationship speak.
It's a shame that in reality this is not how women react nor does any part of society look kindly on this.
you just didnt find the right person