how to be alone but not lonely | Vlogtober Day 21

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 295

  • @evrytingkriss
    @evrytingkriss 18 годин тому +109

    Love how you're living your best life, Kim. Your life didn't end just because your marriage did. You go girl!

    • @sharonp9462
      @sharonp9462 16 годин тому +1

      You go girl😍😍🔥

  • @hazelamgordon
    @hazelamgordon 17 годин тому +99

    Sometimes what didn't work out for you REALLY worked out for you

  • @Nickyd2024
    @Nickyd2024 17 годин тому +51

    Self love is everything, I wish more women would learn this

  • @e.wilson729
    @e.wilson729 13 годин тому +13

    Alicia Kim, there is a saying, "What doesn't kill us, makes us stronger." The ending of your marriage knocked you down, but thank God that He raised you back up, set you on your feet, and continues to strengthen you. He also gave you courage to leave your familiar surroundings of Florida and move to another State. Not to mention, He gave you strength, courage, and ability to drive all those miles and make it to your new home safely. It definitely wasn't easy, but God!!! Vlogtober has been very enjoyable. I find that when I feel lonely, spending my time praying and worshipping helps a lot, as well as getting out of that environment for a while also helps. The park you're in is beautiful. Be safe and keep sharing your daily adventures. You're inspiring others to do something positive in a bad situation. God bless you.

  • @susanollivierre6905
    @susanollivierre6905 16 годин тому +37

    @kim you have become one of my favourite person to watch on here

  • @julineplunkett3114
    @julineplunkett3114 16 годин тому +21

    I lived alone too being living by myself for over 17th years and I love it God is good

  • @shantanaredman
    @shantanaredman 16 годин тому +22

    The best thing you can do for you is love yourself ❤.

  • @pathall9757
    @pathall9757 17 годин тому +24

    I've been watching your vlog lately, and I'm so proud of you . When you said I'm alone, but I'm not lonely, that is growth ,keep going, you're special ❤ ,blessings in abundance...

  • @lakicreations2094
    @lakicreations2094 17 годин тому +17

    This solo picnic is all the good and positive self care vibes. I love these types of outings and journal/ sightseeing moments. Blessings to you!

    • @tamara8061
      @tamara8061 15 годин тому

      You took the exact words I was coming to express to Kim...it's all about self-care!!! I love it.

  • @sandravolel8806
    @sandravolel8806 17 годин тому +18

    Kim, that’s one difference between FL and NY/NJ, people like their own space and they are comfortable in their own skin. Not that people don’t have friends but they are also not afraid to spend time by themselves. I hope with time you start making friend.

  • @mauvettekavanagh3476
    @mauvettekavanagh3476 17 годин тому +15

    I am so inspired by you, the way you explore and just get up and go.

  • @sociologypastpapers4772
    @sociologypastpapers4772 16 годин тому +14

    You're such an inspiration girl. Look here, the greatest company to keep is your own. It feels so good. When you master that then you can defeat all odds.

  • @valalexander497
    @valalexander497 16 годин тому +17

    I love how refreshing your videos are,this new side of you is a vibe.
    Love how real and authentic you are,keep the positivity coming through hun❤❤❤❤

  • @susanmorgan6333
    @susanmorgan6333 17 годин тому +27

    Thank you kim for including us on what was meant to be your day off🙏🏾❤️

  • @vernysim7188
    @vernysim7188 17 годин тому +15

    This is so potent!!! I'm older than you but I'm also learning from you.
    Can't wait to see what you'll be doing a year from now, you are a brilliant young lady.

  • @DecodaHarris
    @DecodaHarris 15 годин тому +7

    Girl, it's awesome that you are able to be comfortable by urself. I need me some alone time

  • @choosen2be
    @choosen2be 18 годин тому +28

    I really enjoy your videos,feels like I am hanging out with one of my girlfriends after a long day of work

  • @IamDrDee
    @IamDrDee 17 годин тому +20

    Being alone doesn't mean you are lonely. I've been single most of my adult life. It only got a bit depressing during the winter months in the U.S. However, I always enjoyed my own company. I traveled around the world by myself. I met nice people along the way. I moved back to Jamaica to be with someone I had been dating for a few months. However, things only lasted a few months once I moved back. I had gotten used to having them around, and I couldn't imagine life here without them. I wanted to pack up and run. However, I decided to stay in the country I love so much. Now, I am back to enjoying my own company, going out and enjoying this beautiful island, and taking regular trips overseas again!

  • @deslynevelyn3304
    @deslynevelyn3304 16 годин тому +9

    I do love your content and you may not even know how much I appreciate them. Am sure the persons who look forward to these daily updates way outnumber the ones that don’t appreciate and I am certain that you have been a source of inspiration to me and am sure I can vouch the same for many others. You taught me that I do not have to be in a crowd to enjoy myself and I am definitely gonna try these solo dates more often. Love you Alicia and continue doing you and always remember you are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem and smarter than you think👍🏾 ❤

  • @julineplunkett3114
    @julineplunkett3114 16 годин тому +28

    If vlogtober is this good can’t wait for vlogmas ❤️

    • @sharonp9462
      @sharonp9462 16 годин тому

      Say no more. CAN’T WAIT ❤

  • @latonyayoung5100
    @latonyayoung5100 15 годин тому +4

    Kim you’ve found peace. Spending time alone is not a bad thing. It shows strength and confidence. Be blessed my dear.

  • @Mrs.Spencer
    @Mrs.Spencer 17 годин тому +18

    I'm going to miss vlogtober😢

  • @janice179
    @janice179 17 годин тому +31

    Can't keep a good woman down, showing love from Jamaica 🇯🇲

  • @loveshan9868
    @loveshan9868 17 годин тому +10

    These videos are therapy for me ❤

  • @angel777J
    @angel777J 16 годин тому +5

    Kim, I admire your strength as a young lady. Keep going. I always look forward to see your vlogs. I’m cheering you on in the backgrounds.

  • @schaincastellanos2633
    @schaincastellanos2633 17 годин тому +11

    Hi! Kim these videos are very inspiring to me thank you as you heal yourself, you are healing others as well.

  • @SophiaStewart-f3i
    @SophiaStewart-f3i 17 годин тому +9

    I love you Kim. Your strength inspires me. Sending Blessings your way!

  • @kerrishagreen2445
    @kerrishagreen2445 16 годин тому +3

    Keep on making yourself happy. Happiness comes from within.

  • @Spiceylifeja21
    @Spiceylifeja21 15 годин тому +2

    Everyday is a day worth living for self, love on you girl personally I love being alone don’t mind having visitors but I treasure my alone time very much .thank you for thinking about us . Blessings !!

  • @delvorinebowman4734
    @delvorinebowman4734 16 годин тому +4

    These videos are an inspiration for me. Going through some hard times can really be rough. But, watching these videos can really help others.

  • @SashanaReid-Nugent-ij5wn
    @SashanaReid-Nugent-ij5wn 16 годин тому +3

    So true, being around people makes you wanna put them first and make them happy too. I love the solos❤

  • @YvonneSamuels-t2z
    @YvonneSamuels-t2z 17 годин тому +8

    Babygirl I'm enjoying all of your vlogtober video cant wait to see what will vlogmas be like ❤🎉

  • @Hyacinth-xn2lp
    @Hyacinth-xn2lp 16 годин тому +3

    Soooo proud of you Kim! You are growing and glowing and all will be well! Trust God and stay focused. God has great plans for you! Remain classy girl!

  • @jadiiboo828
    @jadiiboo828 15 годин тому +3

    Kim I look forward for your vlogs each and everyday seeing how you are growing and taking control of your life after everything in the pass, it is just magnificent ❤ u are a very strong woman very motivational to me ❤❤❤ big up

  • @SharonWilliams-l9m
    @SharonWilliams-l9m 16 годин тому +2

    Kim I love how you’re enjoy life.

  • @chancelynstewart7184
    @chancelynstewart7184 17 годин тому +9

    Blessings my daughter... was waiting for your video all day❤❤❤

  • @mushymoshy
    @mushymoshy 5 годин тому +1

    What a 🌸beautiful camping spot Ms. Kimmy💕

  • @sandraholder1010
    @sandraholder1010 15 годин тому +1

    I love the growth I see in you. This is a side of you that is very refreshing. Sometimes the things that happen to us not only causes us to grow but prepares us for our true call. I believe there is much more for you to do and this is just your growing process in preparation for the next chapter in life. Wow, I se great things ahead. No matter what happens, stay in the peace of God. It’s a place for transition and transformation.

  • @jacquelinemcdonald6317
    @jacquelinemcdonald6317 17 годин тому +7

    I buy myself flowers all the time, it just makes me feel good. Been waiting for the vlog since 4:30pm lol ❤

    • @susanmorgan6333
      @susanmorgan6333 17 годин тому +1

      I but myself flowers all the time too,

  • @soniaabrahams2091
    @soniaabrahams2091 15 годин тому +1

    Love how you keep your own company you shop alone you go out alone I admire you Kim don’t know how you do it.

  • @nadinebell8240
    @nadinebell8240 16 годин тому +5

    Kim, I would like to suggest that you write a book. Your channel is inspirational. Good job. 🎉

  • @Crissyjswayvlogs
    @Crissyjswayvlogs 17 годин тому +2

    I’m loving the self care vlogs. It’s so important to prioritize self care. I love doing solo picnics and then you had such an amazing view ❤❤❤❤

  • @julineplunkett3114
    @julineplunkett3114 16 годин тому +3

    Awe we love you Kim for thinking of us .❤ like we think about you 🇯🇲

  • @dskitchen2122
    @dskitchen2122 14 годин тому +1

    Me say Kim, I just love how these vlogs keep coming in ... girl, you're doing it. Love love this vlog hun 💕

  • @TRISH-473
    @TRISH-473 4 години тому

    Kim, you don't understand how we appreciate you. You are unique and such a rare gem. Live life unapologetically ok, sweetheart. The only way is up from here. CAN'T WAIT FOR VLOGMAS INTRO LOL. YOU HAVE ONE MONTH REST.

  • @joanedwards3321
    @joanedwards3321 14 годин тому +1

    Girl , you are an inspiration to the world 🥰🥰🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @babbiebailey519
    @babbiebailey519 16 годин тому +3

    Go girl! You are the best. Just continue to have fun and enjoy your own company until God send Mr Right.

  • @fruggoalmil3563
    @fruggoalmil3563 17 годин тому +4

    It is good your explorer October series is appealing to viewers like me. Keep going.😂❤

  • @CooperKarly
    @CooperKarly 15 годин тому +1

    Hey Kim, your vlogs are my therapy. I look forward to them daily ❤

  • @kerri-annmalcolm6913
    @kerri-annmalcolm6913 17 годин тому +4

    You are awesome Kim. You are your best cheerleader

  • @marcilenesinclair6337
    @marcilenesinclair6337 16 годин тому +3

    Big up Kim, my motivator.
    Don't let anyone get your deep, dark, secret book. We all do have deep, dark secrets. Love you, girl.

    • @gracemitchell373
      @gracemitchell373 15 годин тому

      Fr i write in codes so in case no one will ever understand what i write

  • @geraldinerandolph6945
    @geraldinerandolph6945 14 годин тому +1

    When you are comfortable with yourself, you can conquer anything. I am so proud of your adventures, May God Continue to Guide and Protect your New Life. Peace and Love from NYC 🙏🏼💜✝️

  • @ramonawest49
    @ramonawest49 17 годин тому +4

    So true, I am so comfortable being in my own company...the relaxation and self thought ❤❤❤❤

  • @jeanharvey6489
    @jeanharvey6489 15 годин тому +1

    "Gwaan do di do"Kim.Blessings.

  • @taneishabrown5806
    @taneishabrown5806 13 годин тому

    I’m always waiting for the right time to watch your vlogs, relaxing in my coach, after a warm bath. It’s always so relaxing watching you. You definitely have an audience hear Kim, love your vibes.

  • @LTWShav
    @LTWShav 13 годин тому

    You bring so much peace and positive vibration Kim with every single video you have been posting ❤

  • @sherikareid5244
    @sherikareid5244 16 годин тому +2

    I have been separated for three years and I love watching your vlogs , they motivate me a lot. I loved my husband but he didn’t love me the same

  • @shakamara
    @shakamara 16 годин тому +2

    I’m loving the message today. 🎉🎉 That sunshine on your skinnnnnnnnn!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @kathleenhyacinth2163
    @kathleenhyacinth2163 12 годин тому

    I’m so proud of you, you are doing an amazing job getting to know your city and living your best life. Thanks for the beautiful vlogs you may not know how much you are inspiring others and helping them through their struggles in life. You are a blessing stay blessed. Love you ❤❤❤

  • @ladygemini123
    @ladygemini123 15 годин тому

    I enjoyed spending the time with you. I spend a lot of time alone as well because I've found that most so call friends are not really friends, they just want to use you. So continue to enjoy your own company whenever you feel like it.

  • @dedrianngarvey232
    @dedrianngarvey232 16 годин тому +2

    I enjoy your company Kim. I feel team girl power over here

  • @mommyof3b
    @mommyof3b 15 годин тому +1

    Am learning alot from you am a loner dont have any friends mom of 3 in a relationship i would want to have a friend like you your an inspiration to me i enjoying watching all your video blessings to you and respect 🙏🏾 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾💗

  • @nadinedavis5136
    @nadinedavis5136 11 годин тому

    Just like that young lady you spoke about, I recently moved to another country and watching your videos motivate me to be able to be by myself right now. So I look forward to watching these adventures that you're going on. Even today I was so lazy and didn't want to get out after being inside from Thursday evening and I said to myself you need to be more like Alicia and just go out there and explore 😊

  • @edithbright2931
    @edithbright2931 14 годин тому

    Kim, you are one old soul. It's so enlightening to hear all the advice given. I look forward to these volgs because they are so soothing. Take care of your fabulous self. Thanks for sharing

  • @alpharomeoa.k.ashygirl4347
    @alpharomeoa.k.ashygirl4347 14 годин тому +1

    Enjoy...kim. Self love is utmost🎉🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹

  • @Harris-Smith
    @Harris-Smith 15 годин тому

    You make me feel good today. Since migrated to the USA, all i do is work to home. You are making me start having the urge to explore. Thanks girl

  • @latoyaedwards5074
    @latoyaedwards5074 14 годин тому

    This is just lovely…. I’m so happy and proud of you Kim
    Up up from here, may God bless you always

  • @NadieshaBrown
    @NadieshaBrown Годину тому

    Dropping gems!!!!💎 this was needed!!! Thank you Kim
    Just so you know, big up crew does not want October to end!!!! I wish every day was Vlogtober 😩 Hope you’re planning Vlogmas because we are on the journey with you!!!

  • @Jonjon-yl8me
    @Jonjon-yl8me 11 годин тому

    Totally agree.. about self care and feeling gorgeous!...these tips work for the colder winter months as well. The same goes for homelife. Your thought process is just brilliant. You are so ready for this undertaking. I fet that feeling of renewal when I watch your videos of independent Kim.😊 Hey! This therapy thing ..Works😊

  • @traceymckay3286
    @traceymckay3286 3 години тому

    Kim I am going through a rough time with my partner, and trust me these videos help to relax and find inner piece. You are indeed a strong and an empowered woman and like your videos. ❤

  • @faith4270
    @faith4270 15 годин тому

    Those days are very important Kim, i enjoy them. Thanks for sharing Kim. Have a blessed week

  • @charmaineandrews5435
    @charmaineandrews5435 12 годин тому

    Love this so much🎉I tell people that i no longer wait for others to make me feel good...I do so by myself.❤

  • @magssampson5988
    @magssampson5988 10 годин тому +2

    This is America people don't have the time to mind no one business it is to much going on in they mind that's why I love this city,the Caribbean life style is completely different as you settle in to your space you would get the hang of it just live life as it comes,life is lesson to be learn and as the days goes by we are still learning, God created in his own image so we can understand each other and what this world 🌎 is all about people needed to focus on him and not the things of the world,just stay bless.,💜💜💜👍🙏

    • @justbeingoctavia
      @justbeingoctavia 9 годин тому +1

      I completely agree with everything said xx

  • @Chanettes_Unique
    @Chanettes_Unique 16 годин тому +3

    I was burning up today. I didn't feel no chill lol. I can't wait for u to experience winter. I hate the snow with a passion, and January and February are the oldest months on this side of town.

    • @gracemitchell373
      @gracemitchell373 16 годин тому +1

      Can you imagine my knees hurting and it’s not winter my mom always tell me to dress warm now am getting older am paying the price 😢

    • @Chanettes_Unique
      @Chanettes_Unique 15 годин тому +1

      @gracemitchell373 i have the same problem with my knees 🤣😂

    • @gracemitchell373
      @gracemitchell373 14 годин тому

      @@Chanettes_Unique please take care of it get it check out i found out it’s arthritis I always wearing rip up jeans pants in the cold time i love to stay cool so now I ofto keep my knees warm

    • @Chanettes_Unique
      @Chanettes_Unique 14 годин тому +1

      @@gracemitchell373 i did, I have the same thing, almost in my shoulder too

    • @gracemitchell373
      @gracemitchell373 13 годин тому +1

      @@Chanettes_Unique yes i hear that i comes elsewhere where too take care of it the pain so hot

  • @normamowatt9999
    @normamowatt9999 16 годин тому +1

    Alicia, you're so right. Do what makes you happy.😀👌🏼

  • @angellawalker4948
    @angellawalker4948 16 годин тому +2

    Hi Kim love, love, love your makeup today it's so natural and beautiful ❤ I love that you show that u can date yourself. You don't have to have company all the time. I need to do this more often. I think the only thing is that when you spend so much time by yourself it's like it takes a lot of effort to spend time with others because you enjoy your own company so much. This is my experience btw. Love u girl ❤

  • @empresslifeinlondon6926
    @empresslifeinlondon6926 17 годин тому +4

    We are so spoiled. Thank you ❤

  • @ts4950
    @ts4950 4 години тому +1

    During the week NY Waterway has ferries that take you to the NYC. You might enjoy the water view from the ⛴️
    I would suggest checking the schedules before you do it because they stop running for a few hours mid day.

  • @ayannakirtonhynes6732
    @ayannakirtonhynes6732 14 годин тому

    Love the mantra: Just go! I too have learned to enjoy my own company over the years. It ain’t half bad ☺️

  • @MelliDiary
    @MelliDiary 14 годин тому

    Love the alone time talk ❤ I totally agree and can’t wait to slow my days down and spend time with me , reading, jogging and just soaking up my days ❤

  • @ann-mariebryan3256
    @ann-mariebryan3256 7 годин тому

    Good girl God is using u to talk to somebody ❤ u are a blessing

  • @sharonp9462
    @sharonp9462 15 годин тому

    Your vlogs are my go to bed mini series, I’m in bed by 8:00 pm to cuddle up watching. Have a great restful night. Love you Kim. Big up yourself ❤❤

  • @Lisa-qj1fu
    @Lisa-qj1fu 17 годин тому +4

    “And To my Big up crew gwaan do di do”😁💕Hi Kim

  • @Ch3re3ce
    @Ch3re3ce 12 годин тому

    This was such a lovely and peaceful vlog. It was well needed on a Monday like this after the day I had. ❤ thanks

  • @sensif8369
    @sensif8369 11 годин тому

    Alicia, I am divorced. I was with the same person since I was 14. Since the divorce, I've bought my own car (a new one) and my own house. There is such a freeing feeling that comes with being single at times. I was part of a unit so long that I lost myself in that relationship. A lot of people think that when you get a divorce that you just sign papers and move on, but I had to grieve the relationship. I had to heal. Even though I was the one that filed and wanted out, I went through a period of self doubt and feeling depressed. I had to find ME. I had to figure out who I am and what I like/love. I've even gotten selfish with my time. I hang out alone and with my friends/family, and I love my life. There are times that I look back and think to myself, "I didn't know my own strength". I thought I'd struggle after the divorce, but I'm doing better than when I was married. Emotionally, it was a a bit tough, but once I got over that hurdle, it's been free flowing. I'm in a great place now. The happiest I've been. Your time is coming...

  • @lornawright4217
    @lornawright4217 3 години тому

    KIM I JUST LOVE HOW YOU BEING YOURSELF AND STEP OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE.NOTHING IN LIFE ALWAYS PERFECTS.YOU FALL DOWN GET UP DUST YOURSELF OFF ,BECAUSE ONCE THERE IS LIFE THERE IS HOPE ,KEEP ON DOING YOU LOVE AND GOD RICHES BLESSINGS.❤❤❤🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @JamesB02
    @JamesB02 15 годин тому +1

    Hello 👋🏽 Alicia, until you purchase another vase , you can place your roses 🌹 or flowers 💐 in a tall drinking glass. 😉

  • @blessedqueen2627
    @blessedqueen2627 15 годин тому

    You looking so good girl, in your own element no longer walking on egg shells. Proud of you❤

  • @christinefrancis3451
    @christinefrancis3451 17 годин тому +2

    I really lock to your videos, I came on 4:30pm looking for your video because I remember you said u will post at that time everyday

  • @toriannhewwing1098
    @toriannhewwing1098 14 годин тому

    That’s right live u life Kim …. Nuh mek nobody stress u because life is too short , going to really miss the vlogtober videos ❤

  • @chocolatekidd7469
    @chocolatekidd7469 16 годин тому +1

    I waited till I fell asleep 😊 I was anxiously waiting on your adventure for today 😂 you go girl keep living your best life ❤

  • @hazelbradford4224
    @hazelbradford4224 15 годин тому

    Go girl! Self love to the max! God's continued blessings and coverage.

  • @hettiejohnson8578
    @hettiejohnson8578 15 годин тому

    Well after working so hard every day you know the last thing I do is check for your volgs too love this woman ❤❤❤😊

  • @ingareid8680
    @ingareid8680 12 годин тому

    Very proud of you ❤ continued growth and success.

  • @cooljazzy2682
    @cooljazzy2682 11 годин тому +1

    1:30 I just LOVE listening to you speak. You speak so eloquently ,even when you're using colloquial language. Yes,I'm a sapiosexual. I appreciate intellect 😊😊

  • @Chanettes_Unique
    @Chanettes_Unique 16 годин тому +2

    The dinner looks so delicious. Every time i was your videos and u play those soft music and the end, i cry. What I'm crying for, i don't know 😂. It just sounds so sad😢

  • @Heritha-ju7pn
    @Heritha-ju7pn 13 годин тому

    Kim I am so happy seeing you living your best life ❤

  • @dianetaylor8278
    @dianetaylor8278 16 годин тому +1

    Such a beautiful and meaningful video THANKYOU xx ❤❤❤

  • @bridgettehumes184
    @bridgettehumes184 12 годин тому

    You go girl never alone God is always with you blessings 💞🙏 Happy New week 💟

  • @Sandra-xn1vg
    @Sandra-xn1vg 15 годин тому +1

    Kim girl am here alone also but am not lonely...Thank God...girl when I feel bored I just go to the Mall an search every clearance rack lol... den back to my yard dwl