I contracted HIV as a teen experimenting with multiple men | Tuko TV
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- Опубліковано 9 лис 2024
- Duncan Kimathi once was introduced to gayism and eventually contracted HIV. However, meeting his wife has been his silver bullet, and now with a new identity, the man says he believes his path changed because of her. Duncan speaks to Yvonne Kawira about his experience and why he hid his HIV status from his wife until she discovered it.
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Am soo curious to know alipataje hiyo ugonjwa na alikua gay🙄
@@liliankemmy9358 Kwani gay awapatangi?kwanza they get easily cos the anus tissue are so much exposed...kindly read...
@@liliankemmy9358 through having sex with men. Gay ,means having sex with the same sex..example man and man, or woman and woman
I appreciate him telling his story but tricking someone into a relationship without disclosing your HIV+ status is attempted murder
Stop cheating yourself..my cousin aliwacha dawa for almost two years ati ameokoka kwa pastor Owuor after taking ARV's for over ten yrs. Aligonjeka gafla na akafa. Kunywa dawa kijana hata kama umeokoka.
Legally you should have been arrested for knowingly putting someone else's health in danger. That lady deserved to be told the truth from the word go, if she got sick it would have been something different and it's nothing to be proud of that the truth was hidden from her.
True.mtu anaficha mwezake ako na ukimwi,,,,ingekua ni mm ungenitambua.iyo siku.ningekumaliza...beta ungesema ukweli ajichagulie decision
So true. This man entered in a relationship with an innocent woman without telling her his HIV status. What were his intentions??? And then, when he suspected that his wife might have caught it, he takes both of them to get tested!! If it happened that they are both positive, he was going to play the blame game. Do you think he was going to disclose the truth then?? This man is a SNAKE
Kweli kabisa
@@georginamakena1660 me too this man is ignorant foolish selfish demon..his reasoning is so poor Jesus I pity his foolish wife..she shd be careful what else will he hide from her ..he put her on danger thats hatred not love
Well said!…
Your wife seems naive, but love is love. She is your guiding light, to teach you to put away your self centered and selfish ways. Deliberately putting someone in danger is not love my brother. Face all of your demons and make decisions that will not only benefit you but your "loved ones" too! Please, do not only rely on rapid HIV tests, which have false results; make sure you have a blood ELISA test for confirmation. Good luck to you. God performs miracles everyday. I admire your faith.
Imagine this is the litmus test to find out if the woman can endure anything mvumilivu and that makes her wife worthy. Twisted af
I just love how Yvonne does her interviews she's a good interviewer and listener ❤❤❤❤
Wishing this guy all the best. Live long and thank you for being honest with yourself and the world. Not many have courage to speak out about their “private life”
Hiding your HIV status isn't good,lots of children were left orphans and were miserable when I was growing up....I felt sorry for them,they were moving from one relatives house to another,all because one partner decided to keep his/her affair and HIV status secret
Please don't stop taking medication....being saved is not being foolish
HIV is demonic, most of the diseases on this earth are coming from evil spiritual world and we can refuse them, depends on the level of your faith
I appreciate your bravery and the way you've been taking care of yourself despite the challenges,as a HIV professional I would encourage you to continue taking your ARVS, you're still HIV positive,the test can show false results especially if you had already achieved viral suppression,if you continue not taking your meds,your partner is at risk of getting infected since you're not on treatment, prayer is good but it doesn't eliminate HIV from the body,hope you change your mind and take your drugs
True
Good advice.
@@betty541 Thanks 👍
-If he is Hiv positive and makes sex unprotected is it possible not to transmit the virus to his wife ? 🤔
@@alexandrustoica3924 It is a matter of time before he infects her if he chooses not to take the medication unfortunately.
So sad what our teens are going through,protect your children from the evil of this World😭😭🙆
Duncan, I wish you could help talk to men who are trapped in the spirit of gayism. It is a spirit that can leave with prayers and hardwork. I pray that you continue in the same path
Please don’t rush him. Allow him to express himself. Be patient. It’s not about asking questions.thanks you
Kweli
Kweli
My question is if the role were switched.. would he stick by her?like she did
Alfu kijana kunywa dawa,If you don't you are done your wife is done,HIV is chronic...and once you take your medication religiously the viral load suppress and that's why you test negative and that makes it safe for your wife and for you too
Science and religion does not go together...unadanganywa na pastor na unatafuta kifo
I don't think kama angekaa na uyo dem
Excatly . Hawa Mapastors are liars or it’s just a way of trying to infect her
That Wife🥺🥺❤
She has a big heart
This couple should not relate ignorance with believing in God, those are two different things. Stopping medication isn’t something to keep going around preaching NKT
Exactly my thoughts
You can say that again
Yeees! Thank you!
I think he took his meds and got to the point where hes undetectable and now has stopped, that viral load will increase. The ignorance is scary. God helps those who help themselves.
This is one selfish man, He knew his status and knowingly infected someone and kept quiet for sometime. Hio kukimbilia church it's just GUILT. When the viral load is low a false negative is possible, you are still HIV+
Yeah..this scares me a bit because so far the guest seems to not understand viral load..and he seems, specifically, not to know that he is still at risk of infecting his partner. I actually think Tuko should put a warning up advising people not to stop taking their meds..otherwise it seems unethical somehow.
Also the lady needs to love herself a little more. What will she do if this guy one day gives into temptation like he's said and goes back to his old ways and leaves her infected? Totally not worth it
@@betty541 i totally agree
@@cornishtea32 yes, we need to love ourselves more
This is false! A person will test positive whether they have a high or low viral low and whether they are on medication or not.
Take your medications kijana,… this is how Babu wa Loliondo killed many people
Good luck young man but still keep taking your medicine. You can live a healthy long and productive life.
Dude needs to continue taking his ARVs without fail.
Somebody to tell him....
The lady is prayerful. God heals all diseases. Mungu anaponya 🙏🏽
Or just makes us smart to take medication. Im sure even he face plams himself when he sees that the medication has been provided but y'all still want some supernatural element. At that point dying from a preventable or manageable disease is a choice. Its like praying to God to win the loterry when you dont even buy a frigging ticket! Its common sense folks!
Only mistake u dd was to hide ur wife, I love ur courage to accept u was positive I thank God u was nega may God heal u completely he is the only medicine get well completly🙏
Yes hiding your status from your wife was a terrible decision, but kudos for having the courage to speak out your truth, and in public👏👏... And come on guys, this is the same God who raised the dead to life, what is HIV to Him?? Duncan God really loves you, don't dissapoint Him by going back to that life ever again God bless you and your wonderful wife
But ppl should test first before engaging in sex.
please read about how science works. diseases si story na God. You have to take your medicines or die with your faith.
@@lorraineatieno6544 Even after testing, use protection. Using ARVs suppresses the virus making positive people test negative.
Thanks to the lady❣️❣️I really appreciate her so much for keeping strong to stay around her husband, so many different stories but may God grant you success in this life 💝💝💝
Continue taking your meds, the viral load maybe low but you can never turn negative
God help our young men , They’re lazy to work or to look for a jobs, they get wasted I can’t hold my tears !
God has a great plan for you Duncan
To God be the glory, he is the one who heals ,all the glory belongs to him
I feel that an individual should be more responsible for their own life, we shouldn't just trust anyone. All the best to this couple, only God can judge.
May God continue keeping this man strong and safe,,,God will never leave those who believe and trust Him.
People should just embrace their sexuality, it saves so much trouble and heartbreaks for others.
Thank you!! When they tell stories they always try to make it look like they were deceived and taken advantage of
God healed you to God be the glory and your wife is a woman of great faith. I kindly request you not to be discouraged by people's unbelief. GOD healed you from HIV and you're not the first person to heal from HIV so many people have healed and testified .Mark 9: 23 All this are possible to him who believes.
Very true I don't know why people find it difficult to believe that God heals
You know the Bible tells us,,'if you believe
Wewe ni mjinga. Who told you God heals HIV. Ujinga and ignorance in Africa ni mingi. Read facts about HIV.
At least at last you acknowledged men are human beings and they need to be listened too 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Am not sure what to comment hapa. We need to hear story ya mrembo aka wife and the family. More deliverance is required. Block all those guys texting you about your past. Don't chat them at All! It's not your wife who should fight your battles of rejecting these men. You should do it and it should come from within you. She should never call your potential lovers. NEVER!
Some women are desperate. Why would you stay married to a gay chapati seller who is terminallly ill? You can just be his friend and support system. Lets be serious
It’s her choice and her life. He is on medication so she will just have to take prep the rest of her life.
I know Dan he has a golden heart i never new this side of his life
😂😂😂😂😂
@Grace you spoke my mind
@@missdesireindependance5194 We know it’s her life and choice but as women we can say she deserves better.Let’s not encourage women to settle for less.
Desperation and ignorance in one basket 🧺….She needs to love herself regardless..
Anyways kila mtu na life yake
Please please please please please please 🙏😭😢Bro itu bu ndakuromba... (I am begging you )in the name of God go back to another hospital where no one knows the story of kuombewa and all that.. seek another opinion without anyone having to dictate where you take the HIV test .meanwhile take your medication before the test. !! Kindly
Please Aids don't have cure! Continue taking the ARVs as much as you believe in God. Make sure you care Enough not to infect your partner!
Kweli kabisa life Ni muhimu Sana ...
sure....he is risking his life
As much as be clams to be hiv -ve, he seems to be in denial, how did he even stop taking medication.?....please go back to your medication
well said too much denial
You are brave and you will be fine I think every couple whether married or not should be mandatory to do a test and whatever the outcome remain faithful to your partner.. It's not the end of life there God of second chances
Absolutely
But why are people judging interviewer atakua poa with time me ata sioni issue
Hakuna vile mtu anaeza kosa kushtuka,,,, something is not adding up
There is some denial here, unfortunately, based on the decisions he has made so far.
PLEASE TAKE YOUR ARVs! Ni hayo tu kwa sasa..viral suppression can give a false negative test. Be informed and act accordingly if you love your family.
Please take your medicine......
I'm here 7 months now I've never taken that arv even I don't know how it looks like... But my salvation life it has been one million plus.....prayers v gone....v trusted in Jesus.......bible has been my best friend n praises I believe at my age I won't die this young by HIV I believe......by his stripes I'm healed n my faith .... connecting myself in Jesus teaching n healings in his ministry!!! Faith is real!!!!! V never disclosed my status with any family member but more than 100 pastor's true I've gone at them n we have prayed!!!!! Mimi sjui hata ntaturnia negative wapi,sjui sai m negative ama ......Yani healing is my nature nd my name!!!!!
I can still like it here anyone to connect me bado I get some prayer's ...........Jesus is saying believe even before u see!! Believe in me believe in my words believe I'm the lord who forgives all ur sins n heals all ur disease
Stopping medication sets yours partner at risk..you should have continued with your meds coz right now I think you are more likely to infect your partner
If I was that lady I would take off...love based on deceit is not love....coz he got HIV as a result of gayism...what's shocking is why the lady is there? Kwani wanaume wameisha?
Yaan shoga,afu yuko na ukimwi,kweli siwezi bora nisiolewe.tabu yote ya nini.nawachukia sana mashoga jmn
Well, I have listened to a few documentaries about the origin of HIV and the stigma that it was associated with in South Africa. So many people died as they secluded from society, and then gay men were persecuted as the constitution did not include LGBTQ rights. I commend this guy coming out despite societal stigma, and to the point of having a family is truly inspiring.
Life is music and he really played to the tune, people out here are struggling with straight families and perfect health bills but don't even have half the balls this guy has....Godspeed bro, wewe uko fiti.
Glory to God continue trusting God umepona and that's is hakuna jambo ngumu kwa Mungu cha muhimu nikuwa na imani tu umepona na mtaenda far in Jesus name na umuichie huyu Mungu tu
I feel like this guy was so rushed in this talk show. I can tell he wanted to tell us more. Please Yvone give the interviewee more time to express themselves. Meanwhile for the young guy, please resume your drugs because maybe the virus has been suppressed right now but it will show again.
Yes normally she doesn't give time to tell us more
Yrue
Then she asks very leading questions to summarize the whole thing haraka haraka
@@mercyamina4449 very true. I thought I was the only one that notices that in almost all her interviews
True.
This is mostly done by Men.... Even me my youngest sister was hidden by her partner yet ,he was on ARv ....I don't trust men...... it's good to know status before starting relationship....
I feel bad for the wife because he really is attracted to men more than women. Why be with a woman if that’s not what you really want? The wife needs to be on Prep medication. I wish them the best!
I agree with u. He should be with who he feels attracted to. The society is very judgmental though. He himself he thinks being gay is abnormal. How can u help such a person. He has already condemned himself so he is gonna fake it and keep living a lie
True. He's just very selfish and self-centered.
@@annienjoki3157 ,👏👏👏👍
Kimathi may the Lord cover you with His precious blood and your wife. Our God heals and there’s no disease God cannot heal. Wish you all the best in your life
We need the wife hapa Kwa show...we should hear her story
But mbona watu wa HIV wengi they give up 😳😳😳coz even if hautapona but those drugs are free ,so kumeza tu iko na uzito gani??juu hujui utakufa sahii au utakufa ukiwa na 100yrs,coz cancer ♋️,Diabetes,tumours,hazina dawa ya kupona at some stages??you spend a lot and at the end of the day unakufa,HIV ni nzuri please okoka na umeze dawa
I am sorry for the guy may God be with him...but hapo kwa putting the wife's life in danger hapana
This man is very handsome,. He needs to start taking his medication n be positive about it. People take medicine,even diabetics n hypertension patients take medicine on daily basis
That's not a big deal.
There diseases which are spiritual and they can be prayed about but there others which you supposed to take medications
Our God is faithful he can heal whatever but let not be brainwashed by anybody
True
Yvonne resembles a Nigerian Nollywood Actor by the name Chizzy Alichi
Exactly...i also noticed that
I pray that God will give this brother strength and long life,,, anyone can pass through such a situation... secondly we need to encourage him to continue with medication so that you and your family can live well and longer🙏🙏 God is with you man,,we love you 😍😍
The interviewer did a great job. The questions were insightful, researched, and appropriate. She found her own style of interviewing that her predecessor would be proud I imagine
Etii you love her heart?? And you ,went as far as hiding your status too bad,,,,Mungu akusamehe,.
Yvonne Ni mrembo 😍 black beauty
❣️❣️❣️ asante sana
Kuna wanawake warembo jamani dunia hii.. Na huyu ni mmoja wao .. Yvonne ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
I think God has put people who love you in life. A step mother and a wife, who knows all about your dark side na bado amekushikilia. Please take your medication if you two are planning to get a child, without infecting the minors.
Anyway I have learnt a lot about life. Waah! I don't know whether these are the end times, or it's still far 😭😭
Dancan take heart but what you did wrong was hiding your staters from your wife
Aki uyo dem Ako desparet Aki, but Swez blame chali ndio mwenye makosa alingoja dem a fall inlove ndio amwambie
U should put sub tittles in English cause i believe these interviews are watched all over the globe
The (cc) button up there translates
Agree
Salonists tuko na moyo safi sana may the good Lord keep on protecting and blessing the works of our previous hands 🙏 amen 🙏
Why are you cutting off your guest when he is trying to explain himself?
Woooooow,what a great testimony
Kimathi kimathi kimathi...tafadhali kunywa dawa plzzz🙏
I normally have a question for the gays...If your fathers were gays where would you have come from?
It was not fare at all you could have disclosed to her......To be honest you are a selfish guy and for the lady take PREP we all believe in God but we don't risk...na nimeenda 🏃
😌😌the guy is soo cute pole sana
Happy to see you Yvonne. Didn't know you left Sg. Congrats on the new role
Please take your medication
Afadhali uedelee kumeza tembe,,coz its lyk afya yenu unaeda Chini,my observation 🙏
You have a good wife. Infact she's an angel but she's too naive unfortunately. And you too as well Kindly talk to HIV counseling experts to talk to you about the dangers of not taking your Arvs.
Some times the virus refuse to show when tested..and it can continue harming you...or may be a mistake happened during first testing
You are supposed to test again 3 months after first test because it CAN take up to 3Month for it to show up on test results
People who have attained viral suppression often get negative results. It doesn't mean they are negative. It means the viral load is so low that it cannot be detected easily by the rapid tests.
Bottom line: ARVs are long life medications. He needs to be taught this at the CCC. I wonder where he attends his clinic, they need to enlighten him.
@@kadzo6614yeah
The window period to test for hiv is three months
It's not good to expose someone else to hiv or any STD for that matter
...very selfish and ignorant. You are not negative
@Henry howard thats a lie....there I no cure, otherwise your so called doctor would be a millionaire today..
Henry howard stop misinforming others, have some shame when you lie dude
@Henry howard what is your story
@Henry howard really
I have nothing positive to say.ill be quiet
Huyo bibi akunyue prep awache ujin…🙄🙄
We love God but we should also be wise.
Yvonne u r very intelligent , cool, smrt, name them ....best interviewer of the yr ....kudos gal ....Dan meza Dawa for HIV has nothing to do with God ....just take yr med and trust in God and everything will be ok .....
This is precious and very encouraging. Thank you so much for your kind words.
Please take your medication 💊
After HIV counseling and you still expose the innocent girl it's purely being malicious and evil.
Don't stop medication ...adhere to turn despite dat u ar now saved,kunywa dawa kijana ndio hiyo Afya yako ikae vizuri,but kama umeturn negative hapo sijui utameza dawa za nni?
Thank God for your life, you went through a lot. Please, my advice for you is to continue with your medication.
Aki I'm believing in God for a miracle aki wuuuuuuuuuuuiiiii
Someone to connect me with a pastor niombewe hadi...it's 7 Months now ..v never taken that arv but nayo kuomba nimeomba na nimeamini....aki mungu wangu mimi
Huyo Dada ana ❤️ mdg ndani ya moyo mkubwa
Glory be to Almighty God,you are a man!! Thank you Jesus! Thank you God!
Yvonne you're so beautiful...ile black beauty 🥰🥰🥰🥰
I also feel like sharing my story about my journey with vitiligo
Heee lakini vile Mimi najipenda siwezi ona dawa ya ARV na nikose kukuconfront hell noo that was selfish of you to hide your status from your wife....and to the wife aki if you love yourself you wouldn't live with someone who is not taking Arvs cause now is the time you can easily get the virus
I pray for you. May you know the love of Christ!
Humble guy mungu akubariki na nakuombea maisha marefu na pia upate familia inawezekana unaroho safi sana
Not sure if the wife is brave or naive.
I would have been upset he didn't disclose this outright. Period.
I like your topics but need adequate subtitles
You hid your status from your wife, you've stopped taking your arvs, you are miserable
This lady is naive, let her take prep😢😢😢
Sorry for that, but please continue taking medication.