Why We Waited to Have Sex | Sean and Catherine Lowe, The Bachelor
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- Опубліковано 15 вер 2024
- Sean Lowe, a former bachelor on ABC’s The Bachelor, talks with his wife, Catherine, about their commitment to wait until marriage to have sex. Despite the criticism he and his wife received over their decision, Sean speaks about the positive things that came from the media exposure and their choosing to wait until marriage.
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what a genuine man . hopefully i find a husband like him who centers his relationship over the one who gives life ..GOD .
forever dclove ever thought about going to the bachelor?
forever dclove iiiiiii
And you'll find him in church....not a bar.
Yes I agree with you
forever dclove he’s amazing
"we've had sex now" Catherine's face is priceless
and everyone started clapping lolll
I love it! Wait till marriage...that's when you open your most precious gift!🌹🌹🌹❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏
"A lot of people say they're Christian but don't live it out." So true..
Lisa L As my priest says there are Christians and there are the Baptized
If people did live out the bible,we would all be killing each other.I am so happy to not be a delusional christian
Amber Ehrlich nope, sorry, got it wrong there....
WOW so beautiful when there are still Godly men out there
Sean you are not only handsome, but a vessel God has and will still continue to use
God bless your marriage
@@OneTreeHill0123 you must have bad experience with some who called themselves Christians but they are bunch of good Christians out there.and i will pray for you to meet them and hopefully you will accept Jesus as your savior.stay safe and blessed
For me personally, I find this message so encouraging. Sean and Catherine are a normal and happy couple saying “it’s not weird to wait” & I find that really wholesome.
So thanks Sean and Catherine, I think a lot of us needed to hear that
Powerful testimony!!!! My husband and I waited till we got married and we are still going very strong after 30 years!!
That's awesome!!
Test drive the car my foot. They are the only bachelor couple that lasted thus far. Now we know why!
I was talking specifically of the Bachelor, not the Bachelorette.
true
Ashley and JP is perfect too
well that couldn't be further from the truth.. Research :)
Girl, there's others that have lasted.
“Not having sex is an act of obedience.”
Absolutely. And God truly honors that.
My husband and I waited until our wedding night to have sex. No it's not perfect at first.. but that's what you do. You grow together. Now.. it is amazing. We are so connected and love is what kept us together through it all. Waiting sounds insane but it works. God has your best interests at heart. We now have a lovely 2 year old ❤️
Julia Bennett God bless your family
Julia Bennett GOD BLESS YOU
Ok but don’t make it out to be the only way It worked for you. And that’s wonderful. Ive been with my husband 28 years and we had sex on the first date. We were that hot for one another. It happens in many ways. 2 years isn’t that long either...no offense.
I mean, you just made some bold statements like “love kept us together”. Ok...for 2 years. I wish you both the best of luck! Truly. Just Many things keeps people together not just losing virginities with each other. Promise. 😂
Same here! And it just gets better and better! Been married for almost 11years and have three beautiful kids! Would definitely not exchange it for anything!
I'm not a virgin but had to learn the hard way. Sex is definitely for marriage , now I'm celibate and waiting for the right guy and our wedding night. From what I've experienced Sex outside of marriage is meaningless
That is amazing! I'm rooting for you! I hope you find a man of quality who respects your decision. :)
Sex inside of marriage can be meaningless too lol!! But I back your decision. I was brainwashed by the culture and didn't wait. So many hurts, disappointments, feeling used etc.
Reabetswe Iman Moabi Same here. We live and we learn. I'm so glad we serve a forgiving GOD!
Thank you for speaking the truth.
Right💯. I'm not a virgin but I've put that down for some years now.!!Waiting for my Mr.Right.
Now I think this is the best man in the bachelor entertainment.
it annoys me to no end when people talk about "sexual compatibility." that has no bearing on a long-lasting, loving marriage. you don't have to test the waters to see if he/she is "good in bed." most people are not "good" their first time, whether it's in regards to sex, skateboarding, or making pancakes. good sex doesn't just happen; it requires patience and communication. plus, you wouldn't know if someone was bad in bed if you had never had sex before anyway. sexual compatibility does not exist.
u said it too well. bless yo soul
Texas honey God will bless you. keep it up. let's do it so our children can have a tangible example that it is very possible. Thanks a lot.
phiona Justine Ndiwalana thank you. God bless you.
Stiffinnie Saunders thank you and God bless.
texas honey Thank you.
"We've had sex now" 😂😂😂😂 her face
Jennifer Violet Rightttt, lol.
Jennifer Violet Priceless 😍 you can see she's inlove
This gives me hope that good and God fearing men still exist out there
How is he God fearing ,after playing with 11 women..touching and caressing them....where is purity ,where is the biblical standard of relationship? where is the fear of GOD
IN GENESIS JOSEPH RAN FOR HIS LIFE !!!!
@backcountry powderhound thanks for the concern.
I come from the school of thought that you can't carry fire on your bosom and not get burnt and we FLEE all appearance of youthful lust .
I understood from the talk that it's OK. to engage in an unchrustian episode (expose yourself to trials )while being a professed Christian..I didn't hear him condemn or advice against it,
Whichever way let God (his word)be true , it's the only way a young man can keep his ways upright psalms 119.9
I believe also that purity supercedes physical sexual intimacy.. (it starts in the mind) you can be a Virgin. physically but dirty inside.
Am not judging just another 2 cents. Am happy for any young person desiring to live for christ including them .☺
Such a wonderful couple. I love them and their devotion to God.
Catherine was forced into his faith.Everything about their life is centered on Sean.If you watch the wifeswap with the both of them,their relationship is bothersome.They definitely have a traditional biblical marriage.The woman is stuck at home tending to the man,Sean organizes bible studies with his friends.He doesn't allow Catherine to go out and make new friends in Sean's hometown.He wants to say he is a christian,yet goes on the bachelor and makes out with a bunch of women?He's a hypocrite.I cannot stand religion!
@@OneTreeHill0123 How was she "forced" into anything? I don't recall hearing about anyone holding a gun to her head. If they have an unhealthy relationship dynamic, it's unfortunate, but ultimately it is her choice to remain in such a relationship.
This is amazing. God bless their marriage.
Ebube Obiagwu Ameen
I'm 16 but I want to wait until marriage too and I get teased for it all the time. even at a Catholic school none of my friends understand why
Girl.Many blessings to you. Anyone who teases is not your friend. When I was in high school I told everyone I was waiting.There were some people who didn't believe me but most resepected my decision. You can do it stay strong.God will reward you for your faithfulness.
Hang in there. When I was 18, I was taunted and called "Ice Princess" by my own SISTER because I wanted to wait! Sure, it bothered me until I realized that she had serious regrets about some things she had done in her past and was projecting her negativity on to me. I've made a lot of mistakes in my life. Waiting until my wedding night (almost 30 years ago) was not one of them. God bless.
you can do it Caitlin Kelly. Nothing wrong with waiting until marriage. I'm 32 and I'm a virgin and waiting until marriage.
Caitlin Kelly it's a pity that kids at your Catholic school are teasing you. Catholics shouldn't be acting like that. I'm a Catholic and I'm definitely going to wait for marriage. I'm actually disappointed in them, because As Catholics They should be encouraging you. 😔
Caitlin Kelly be strong. keep the faith. ignore the Hypocrites!! u are only accountable to HIM (God). hope u will inspire other teens to keep their virginity til marriage.
Catherine is such a lucky woman to be the wife of a God-fearing man.
A good woman is being blessed by God with a Godly man👏👏👏🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻yaaaayyy Praise the Lord
Yes. Sean was a great bachelor stood by his beliefs and also found someone on the season that agreed.
Sean raised the Bar. Best show so far of 24 seasons. Thinking Matt James will do a great job also. Can't wait.
Sean and Catherine, I always admire you both , a very good example to a young generation ...God bless your marriage..
Proudly waiting till marriage despite all the talk
Meaghan Kehoe
Hi Meaghan ,
I have a son who is looking for a Godly woman, he is 27yrs old.
He decided to abstain, but he had had a sex prior to the bachelor.
You won't last
I feel so much better when I hear that other couples are waiting for marriage. we always get mocked but in the end its to honor God
I like how he said that us young people won't regret waiting. It meant a lot to me, because there are SO many times when I doubt, and I just think about giving in. But with God's help, I'll remain steadfast.
u shouldn't give in/up. Obeying God is worth every sacrifice.25 here and waiting
It's worth it. Especially for your spiritual level. I'm from different part of the world with different belief. But I did wait until married. Now I'm in my 11th wedding anniversary and still going strong. You'll find the right man when the time is right
this is absolutely beautiful!! I love that they waited, I think the strongest marriages are built on discipline
1.23 Catherine's reaction so priceless, she covered her face, when Sean said, "we have sex now" of course at that time, they already married, hahaha!!!
I love their honesty and appreciate their openness with their lives.
I am a Muslim and we are not allowed to have sex before marriage. I never did before I got marriages and I know I married the love of my life, if you take this decision even tho it is hard for a lot of people in our generation then you will appreciate your love and you will never think about someone else but your person.
I love this two couple
Yess 🌹
as a Muslum, I can say we always waiting first Marriage Night, and you know, it so nice! that makes our marriage be strong!🫶🕌
Preach!! Amen Sean. Let the world laugh, but stay true and committed to God and you will receive your crown of glory...
This is what God is asking of us, exactly what this couple did, they are OBEDIENT to God. Thanks to both of you for being such a great example.
Amen. What an awesome testimony. let the truth be known. what a true blessing for this couple.
And what an awesome gift that God allowed them to have a platform so big like the bachelor to be able to share this powerful message! Just amen!
I can't speakhighly enough of these two. They are so perfect for each other. We need more stories like this. I'm celibate and I have been for a really long time. But it will all be worth it in the end.
I love the message you are putting out there for people who are waiting till marriage. It's so motivational and inspirational. To those who don't wait, please don't be enablers who mock or force others to follow your path. Let everyone deal with their body the way they want to. Their body, their decision. I hope and pray that one day all women who are waiting get a husband just like Sean. Prayers and blessings to all!!
I agree that waiting is a great choice. However, I don't think anyone is "forcing" anyone to have sex. Ultimately, it is a decision to be made on an individual basis, and people should take it upon themselves to make the decision that is best for them regardless of social norms or anyone mocking them.
This is the best way, me and my husband waited, and it was Beautiful. It is Gods plan and it's so special, its sacred.
You answered this better than the more recent bachelor and bachelorette shows.
Woooooow so blessed to hear when Sean said....thats just an act of obedience 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻👏👏👏😘🥰love you both...may the Lord God cont.to bless and keep u all brothers and sisters in Christ 🥰
So much respect for them. This makes him so much more attractive too! I wish I had waited.
I love this so much! That was a great message and I stand by it as well! LOVE GOD!!!
Very good,why start sex before Marriage when you have sex continualy in Marriage
What an awesome testimony!!!!!
That couple should get a certificate of achievement!
lol it's called a marriage certificate. unfortunately, that's more like a participation trophy... :P
This is so beautiful! Lately, I have been feeling quite alone in my own decision to wait until marriage. But, it’s like God answering my prayers or telling me “you’re not alone” because I’ve been coming across so many new and different people who made the same promise to themselves and their boyfriend/girlfriend. No, I haven’t found that guy yet and I know God is teaching me how to be patient. But this is just so encouraging! Thank you 💕
Kim Johnson
Hello Kim,
My son is 27 yrs old and is looking for a Godly woman.
father I thank you so much for this couple. Lord pls guild them in more level of obedience and everyone of us that reading this who are yet single. This I pray to the glory of your name. Amen!
Stiffinnie Saunders Amen. Thank you
That was a waste of time and breath for you.Nothing fails like prayer.
so amazing!
This is the definition of perfectly compatible
Wow! I love this guy! Living a holy, spiritual life should be seen as badass! They are both Badasses!
Takes alot of courage and faith to stand on ones values even when society or others mock you
In the end their relationship was solitified with the love trust and respect for themselves and then each other on their wedding night
Their faith amd commitment is an inspiration that doing the right thing isnt easy but in the end the blessings are unmeasurable
Now they inspire others who face this same world belief that we should test drive each other before committing ourselves
Outstanding examples of truly living what you say you believe
awww this is so beautiful
Thank you for REPRESENTING!!!💯
Love these two so much!
LOL, my friend wanted to wait for marriage before she had sex, come to find out after a couple days after their vows, she's allergic to semen. Made me laugh so hard cause I've never heard of something like that but so far, they're pretty happy together and although they have the regular marital problems they're still in love.
We need more couples like that.
They are such a hot couple omg
Obedience is better than reproach
Amen and Amen! It is such a positive
I am thrilled for this couple... when as a couple, we waited... we saw Jesus in each other. It was overwhelming and TOO intimate to describe... SO WORTH WAITING!!!!!
She's pretty
Of course he's good looking.
Very inspiring!
How refreshing to see such a wonderful couple honoring values and God's word!!
GREAT story, good luck to you both............and do what YOU want
My then fiancee and I made a promise to each other to stay celibate and not have sex until on our honeymoon. It was a great decision as we avoid the sexual tension and peer pressure during our courtship. You get to know the other person on a deeper level and most importantly our relationship was Christ centered.
I really like what you and fiance did.
Beautiful and Godly couple.. God bless them.
OMG, May The LORD recieve all the Glory!! I'm speechless
love them
I hope to find a husband like this. Congratulations
im muslim and i approve this message!
wanderer me too!
wanderer
Same here well done to both of them ❤️
@zadose It's kind of normal, the Quran doesn't claim that the revelations before it were false. It says that they (Bible and Thora) were modified by men. Muslims believe the Quran came as a final version that is protected so it cannot be changed. Hence the similarities :)
@@yasmine9046 but your Quran is put together by men too! Who compiled the Quran...? Ibn somebody somebody....
Well it should be pointed out also that neither one of them were virgins' they just decided to wait in their relationship
God bless you guys 💖
1:23 Sean went: Are you happy now?
The opposite of Faith is not doubt but disobedience. - Dr. Tony Evans
Mg favorite bachelor season
God bless them always 🙏🏻❤️✝️❤️ I am almost 25 and waiting to marriage never even dated or kissed. God provides always in his perfect timing. 🙏🏻✝️❤️❤️❤️
Gorgeous couple!!
Wow what an incredible couple! Can't wait to find a guy like this
Hanna Kim
Hi Hanna, I have a son who is looking for a Godly woman. He is 27 yrs old.
Hanna Kim,
My son is 27 yrs old an is looking for a Godly woman.
omg my dream guy..
He's taken, sorry. Do not lust after another person, because you commit adultery with your heart.
He's gorgeous, true, but there are many prospects out there for you. Don't lose sight of them! :)
Best decision ever made
Amen
The best man the best girl I respect both of them
How BEAUTIFUL 😭❤️
I hate how this world uses sex as a means to define if a couple are "compatible". They compare it to test-driving a car before buying it. The REAL test drive should come with learning about the person's heart, motives, goals, beliefs, values, likes/dislikes, etc. Sex, like all things superficial, fades with time and decline of health. A lasting marriage needs to have a stronger foundation than just sex.
thank you Sean!
The best couple from The Bachelor franchise and let this be a lesson of what happens when you put God at the core of your relationship. It works!They are one of the very few couples that are still married and _happily_ married with children, and they proved that not everyone has to be worldly/secular even though we live in a secular world.
Same thing Jesus taught us, that He is sending us out in the world like a lamb among the wolves.
Long time guys.luv you
Kudos to my boy Sean, at least we have a normal couple here, what's with this have sex before marriage, that's just twisted to think that being balanced is having sex before marriage, I love this couple.
OMG LOVE THEM LOVE THEM LOVE THEM YESSSSSSSSSS
I have watched your journey in Bachelor and i love you both...
I'm Buddhism from when I was born I am married to Christian gentlemen . I do believe that God is good . I only feel proud to have one man in my life . Sometimes I think its not a big deal but I also feel jealous at lady who is going out to have some fun and enjoy their life . Everyone different though so no judge .
Anyway I’m very happy where I’m at right now that’s all matter.
That's good.be blessed and i hope your husband will introduce you to our savior Jesus christ
tha a is amazing word's g.b.u sean and Catherine Lowe love u gus stay blessed as always under God😍😍😍😍😍😍
Love this couple
That's a respectable thing to do and their choice and from the beginning from them meeting each other and seeing them together I knew they were soulmates and perfect for each other and I'm so happy they are together!!! And awesome parents ❤❤❤❤
Who cares? It's their private life. I don't know about waiting until marriage, but one of the biggest issues we do have in this culture is people having sex before they EVEN KNOW EACH OTHER. You're talking about the most intimate act that can possibly take place between two people, and there is this expectation that you must do it within 3 dates?? Give me a break. First of all, most people under the age of 35 in this country still don't realize that you can get STI's and STD's thru oral sex alone. They also think that condoms will protect you from pregnancy. False, I knew a couple in college who got pregnant in college despite the use of condoms and birth control pills. Secondly, the number one key to great sex in a long lasting, committed relationship is communication. People who do not know each other have not achieved a level of intimacy and honesty to where they can honesty talk about sex. They just don't. It's an uncomfortable subject, and any premature discussion of it is going to lead to people getting hurt. Wonder if the girl was sexually molested at 6 years of age (1 in 5 women in this nation are as kids), or if the man has major issues with premature ejaculation. You really want to trust those issues to someone who doesn't give a living crap about you? Be my guest. My issue with this whole subject is that I firmly believe if this couple had waited to do the nasty until, say, 10 months into the relationship, the vast majority of Americans - especially young people - would still be freaking out. You spend way more time with your partner while you're dressed.
The best couple ever
Ideal relationship😇😇💖💖💖
I love them
Love them!!!
But what do single people do who never find a mate ?
Wait, sometimes lots of years. It is better to wait a long time than to be in the wrong relationship. I believe too that intimacy is designed for married people only and God will bless such a marriage.
John Erickson.,..and in the same way God also blesses those that remain single. If someone who is single makes a decision to abstain from sex out of obedience to God, He will bless them more than they could think or imagine.
John Erickson.,..and in the same way God also blesses those that remain single. If someone who is single makes a decision to abstain from sex out of obedience to God, he will bless them more than they could think or imagine.
I guess they just sit around and read their bible all day long.
Good Couple
Great couple.
Awesome, I agree
Praise God for this stance!
I dont think the question had anything to do with the answer.