the reality of living alone in your 20s

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  • Опубліковано 23 гру 2024

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  • @Nikola23888
    @Nikola23888 Рік тому +23

    I've been living alone since I was 18, now I'm 27. I've always enjoyed being alone. sometimes it's boring, but tomorrow is a new day. I hope it comforts you ❤️

    • @tapuout101
      @tapuout101 10 місяців тому

      I think its how you look at it? When youre alone it takes away the way ups and way downs. I feel its more like you are not real happy and not real sad. lol How great does it feel when your partner cheats? or you even have to worry about it? In 2024 women are on Instagram getting 100s of DMs a Day. Everyone is cheating.

  • @beachyxxcharli
    @beachyxxcharli Рік тому +47

    i can understand being alone is hard i don’t think i’m going to be ready when i move out either but we’re all here for you i hope it gets better

    • @Romeochan-ze5jy
      @Romeochan-ze5jy Рік тому

      Maybe for you I am used to be lonely so now I'm stronger

  • @KevinF-yl5mz
    @KevinF-yl5mz Рік тому +15

    Giving up coffee is huge. I think you need to get a routine established. Get up at a reasonable time in the morning so you can get a workout in, take care of your work and have some time in the afternoon for some playtime/decompression. I know it's hard to talk yourself into going to bed before midnight, but a fixed schedule will do wonders for your headspace. Love the videos, Sarah! Take care of yourself and I look forward to the next one. Remember, get a routine going. I think you'll do better.

  • @DaanMeeus
    @DaanMeeus День тому +1

    Sarah, just know that all of ur followers will always support u and that u never need to feel alone. I also wanted to tell u that even when i had exams i would still watch u because u cheer me up. I,love ur moving series btw❤

  • @Yoyo_Lav24
    @Yoyo_Lav24 Рік тому +46

    I love how you still keep up with your energy even if it’s hard to live alone!

    • @bigbob3772
      @bigbob3772 Рік тому +5

      There is NOTHING hard about living alone when you are 20 years old. NOTHING! It's soo easy, it's amazing. Get back to me when she has lived alone for 4 MORE DECADES- THEN YOU will see the real truth.

  • @WolfaRiio
    @WolfaRiio Рік тому +4

    I started living alone at 17 (technically 18, but that's when I officially moved out of my parents' place). The initial thrill of independence made things seem simpler... and, they kind of are, unless, of course, you're relying on someone else for things like rent/bills. However, after a while, the solitude can sneakily play tricks on your mind. Beyond the cliché advice of self-care, I'd strongly recommend actively making friends, engaging with people, and expanding your social circle. Trust me, as someone who cherishes alone time, I've learned that at 30, having a support network you can rely on is invaluable. I wasn't even aware I was struggling with depression, but actively making friends and expanding my social circle played a significant role in helping me overcome most of it. At this point, I'm almost never depressed. Much love to everyone and wish you all the best in everything you do. YOU ALL GOT THIS!!!

  • @aryanr1681
    @aryanr1681 Рік тому +3

    Ok I know being alone is so depressing and difficult but your vibe is unmatched. I don’t live alone so idk how it actually feels. Youre never alone with your subs and it’s great you’re finding things to do on the side to keep you occupied!

  • @meredithmoore-v9v
    @meredithmoore-v9v 12 днів тому

    You are so real for watching Gilmore Girls, its such a comfort show. And also, never feel embarrassed about going to the kids section for Legos, its the best and you're doing great.

  • @shrutipatel2003
    @shrutipatel2003 Рік тому +42

    Can we just appreciate how much Sarah does for us ❤❤❤love you Sarah ...you and your videos makes me happy ❤❤❤

  • @avg18
    @avg18 Рік тому +6

    I hope you are feeling better Sarah. I really do. It might be hard sometimes filling the hours, so cooking for you is definitely a good activity😊

  • @cassandracelestia7856
    @cassandracelestia7856 Рік тому +8

    your videos complete my day, sarah! thank you for just being a ray of sunshine ❤

  • @TheBeatboxHitmanTwo
    @TheBeatboxHitmanTwo Рік тому +1

    You can do it young lady. I'm sure many viewers and myself support you on your journey 🤝. May each day of yours be as beautiful and bright as your face and smile. Gimme a high five! ✋🏾

  • @Beccastaceyxx
    @Beccastaceyxx Рік тому +9

    Sarah these vlogs are inspiring me because I’m moving out soon and I’m scared but I know I’ve got you to watch and it’s going to be good ❤

  • @katherinealejandre576
    @katherinealejandre576 Рік тому +2

    i love how sarah is stil entertaining with these videos i can really relate to you in some ways (except i do not own a place) but i rent alone ilove you sarah

  • @joseijosei
    @joseijosei Рік тому +3

    I was living alone since the age of 18, because that's when I started college. I'm 28 now, and I came to live with my parents to give a shot at my life with them as an adult, and I can't believe all the things I accomplished in less than a year. From buying a great car, to solving a knee problem my mom had that was always in my head, and being more socially active than ever.
    What youtubers like Denmo say is 100% true. You need to move out from your city and parents house, not stay in your comfort zone, and take care of yourself and your life, because that experience truly changes you, but once you have all that figured out, I truly recommend to give your "old life" a shot, and see how things change now that you're an adult, to just enjoy life for a couple years, maybe save money to buy your own place, start some projects while helping your parents. The only downside is that things change. They're not going to be the same as they were when you were a teen. It may be for the better, or it may be for the worst. If things are bad and boring, and you are not willing to make an effort to regain part of your old life, you always have the option to go back to your apartment.

  • @Samantha-vlly
    @Samantha-vlly Рік тому +1

    I just felt like the chaos feeling of this vlog and it’s totally fine🤍

  • @cadence0121
    @cadence0121 Рік тому +1

    i just moved out recently at 18 and its scary, i def feel how u feel, u got it girlie

  • @RyBee
    @RyBee Рік тому

    Great video, its incredibly relatable. I've been living alone for the past 1-2 years in Brooklyn NY. The first year was filled with excitement but something felt missing. Recently out of nowhere I would get these waves of depression. Having a good balance with social time and house chores really helps. Ups and downs alone is really a thing. We've worked really hard for this, and its okay to cry. Keep on the grind we got this 💪

  • @Trinanimeworld
    @Trinanimeworld Рік тому +1

    You not alone we with you and it is sometimes scary staying by self especially when you use to being with family and friends then yes it scary but we love you and keep staying positive you are a amazing person and you deserve this beautiful apartment and everything else you got hope this make you feel better ♥️💖

  • @amine_glory
    @amine_glory Рік тому +9

    You've got this, you're doing amazing sweetie 🥰

  • @Naluohashii
    @Naluohashii Рік тому

    Sarah watching your vids make my day! Don’t be sad ik it can be tuff but stay positive 🫶🏼

  • @NotAubreyRobloxx
    @NotAubreyRobloxx Рік тому

    WAIT OMG GURL I NEVER KNEW U HAD A VLOG CHANNEL OMG SLAYYYY

  • @manuelzyt8583
    @manuelzyt8583 Рік тому +462

    YOURE NOT ALONE REMEMBER THAT JESUS IS ALWAYS WITH YOU , AND THAT WHENEVER YOU FEEL LONELY YOU CAN GRAB THE BIBLE AND READ HIS WORD MUCH LOVE SARAH , NOTHING BUT BLESSINGS MAY COME TO YOU ! STAY SAFE 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🤍🤍

    • @LittleHouseEdits_812
      @LittleHouseEdits_812 Рік тому +17

      exactly.

    • @yng27
      @yng27 Рік тому +26

      Can’t read the bible 24/7 , no disrespect but it’s not always the answer

    • @LittleHouseEdits_812
      @LittleHouseEdits_812 Рік тому

      actually it iis but you wouldnt know so stop judging other people@@yng27

    • @manuelzyt8583
      @manuelzyt8583 Рік тому

      @@yng27 you haven’t found the love of Jesus bro the whole Bible is the manual on how to live a good life and God it’s always the answer he helped me through dark times !🙏🏻🫡

    • @b_l_i_s_s
      @b_l_i_s_s Рік тому +22

      ALLAH is the only lord✨☪️

  • @thenativebrookie
    @thenativebrookie 10 місяців тому

    This is exactly how I feel sometimes living alone at 26 and watching made me feel better. I just do the most random stuff to stay entertained

  • @Wendoglass
    @Wendoglass Рік тому +1

    ive been with you since less than a million subs up until now ❤❤❤❤❤I dunno why i love tour vid

  • @samya_22
    @samya_22 Рік тому +1

    Be happy sarah we’re always with you❤

  • @maldonado_eli
    @maldonado_eli Рік тому

    AAAAAHH this vid is amazing, the saddness is chaoticccc

  • @bosunvlogs8576
    @bosunvlogs8576 Рік тому +2

    Started living alone since 18 and have never looked back 😮also not important been watching Sarah since the lock down

  • @Sorroxas89
    @Sorroxas89 Рік тому +1

    Living alone sucks but you have good energy. The right kind of people will find there way to you.

  • @rachelcharley7111
    @rachelcharley7111 Рік тому

    we all care for your health!!!! your health comes before anything!!!

  • @marccolomayt82094
    @marccolomayt82094 Рік тому +3

    I love when Sarah posts❤❤

  • @takis1613
    @takis1613 Рік тому

    when i feel lonely i just hangout with my friends and chill at a cafe or shop at a mall ❤

  • @beatbox_avenue
    @beatbox_avenue Рік тому +1

    Its just sad when someone is living alone and you still keep up your energy even if its struggles you to live alone :(

  • @MMCJoe.
    @MMCJoe. Рік тому

    YOU.....alone someone will change it someday hopefully. Good thing you don't drown yourself in like depressing stuff. I love the energy.

  • @liambradbury2895
    @liambradbury2895 Рік тому +1

    "Mother trucker sun of a gun slurp slurp" is my new catchphrase 6:49

  • @Justkidd0w
    @Justkidd0w Рік тому

    Liking the video before watching it because I already know it's going to be a banger ❤

  • @ericsonstate2062
    @ericsonstate2062 Рік тому

    We love u sarah keep it up!! U make my day every time u post🫶

  • @Cheonsa1
    @Cheonsa1 Рік тому +1

    Sarah is ON TOPPP

  • @Fatimazahrabeads
    @Fatimazahrabeads Рік тому

    Hi sarah how r u i am so obsessed with ur vlogs and everything they’re so relaxing and entertaining and funny bcs ur smile is so gorgeous and u should always say to yourself u strong and capable in ur guts and i know it is hard that are living alone but we feel u as ur fans and ilysm u have been the best UA-camr ever to me and everything ilysm 🫶🏻❤️ ur the best

  • @gabriela8118
    @gabriela8118 Рік тому

    omggg the portuguese song in the beginning!! sending love from Brazil ❤❤

  • @Ebukats
    @Ebukats Рік тому +1

    I GYATT 0:08 to understand your pain😥

  • @cyno962
    @cyno962 Рік тому

    What you can do is go to some sort of hobby club every week or two. Another idea is to make plans with family to meet up every week. Before I moved, i got to visit grandparents, aunts, cousins and uncles every Saturday. We'd have board games, take walks, watch shows, and make food together or we'd each bring our own foods.

  • @joe3001
    @joe3001 Рік тому

    Just clicked on your video after appearing on my app and i can relate and know the feelingpf of living alone for 6 years now and with time you get to enjoy it its a privileg your your own king/ queen your own boss whatever the hell you want to do you can do😂❤🎉 also the toilets in the morming are always free nt occupied.. just keep ya head up theres lots uf us going thru the same knowing that helps and living alone doesnt mean you cannot connect, socialize…🎉🎉💃💃

  • @ocy-8694
    @ocy-8694 Рік тому

    love the vlogs it’s a vibe to watch

  • @adaobiuwaks9703
    @adaobiuwaks9703 Рік тому +4

    Everything will be fine Say Say. This is a phase and it’ll pass. ❤️

  • @AuSsIeRaTLeader-lm9xh
    @AuSsIeRaTLeader-lm9xh Рік тому +6

    The fact that she almost sweared and said other words for her younger viewers ❤️

  • @iamrociogri
    @iamrociogri Рік тому +1

    GOD AND WE YOU’RE SUPPORTERS ARE ALWAYS WITH YOU SENDING LOVE AND GOD KEEP BLESSING YOU 🙏❤

  • @mahveenmajid3988
    @mahveenmajid3988 Рік тому +2

    First
    Also i loveeeee ur vids
    Like can We apriciate what she does for usss

  • @hettymellisa5813
    @hettymellisa5813 Рік тому +2

    Don't worry gal u got us❤

  • @Pablo-br9lo
    @Pablo-br9lo Рік тому

    Best UA-camr in this game ❤️🙏we love you

  • @theluck-fp9bf
    @theluck-fp9bf Рік тому

    im so gratefull i came across this video, for the pass 4months i have been living with my sister who stay faraway from my hometown, i got no friends here and on top of that my girlfriend suddenly stop talking to me🥲 what i notice is that stress can make your hair fall😅 which is kind a strange. Your video makes me relief THANKYOU.

  • @natalymendez3838
    @natalymendez3838 Рік тому

    I’m in love with that recipe!!! My mom makes the same thing!! It’s the besttt!!

  • @Electro096
    @Electro096 Рік тому

    I've yet to watch the video but I thought I'd comment first, I can't wait to live on my own, even tho I'm around people now I like being on my own anyway. I'm a outcast and always will be.

  • @elizabethpeterson1644
    @elizabethpeterson1644 Рік тому

    My parents let me stayed in our vacation home alone when I started to working in mid May when I was 18 going on 19 years old. They did come to visit on the weekends. The house was our vacation home for number of years. I even had a cat with me to keep me company. I think that I won’t get homesick too much with him. This cat was a very good cat. The place that I used to work at was just down the road from the house. I just rode my bike towards my job. When I worked after 2pm to closing shift that I walked to my job and back home. I do missed the place. I didn’t have a car back then or a driver’s license. It was a fun job. I always did try to have fun or even joked around with my co-workers. That was the late 1980’s.

  • @DakotaMason-ke7nw
    @DakotaMason-ke7nw Рік тому

    Your never alone you have us ❤

  • @LittleHouseEdits_812
    @LittleHouseEdits_812 Рік тому +2

    i love ur vids!!!!
    aslo im one of the first 19 comments

  • @Xanoliaaa1
    @Xanoliaaa1 Рік тому +1

    114th like would have been 54th hahah I was too at the age 12 but yeah 3 months ago I started to loose depression then gained after 1month about 2months ago but now still being 12 I won so get into new activites and new environment like visiting your Family having Becca over and stay mostly on YT and don't leave your house alot that will make it stronger

  • @AudreyWhitefield
    @AudreyWhitefield Рік тому +1

    Please do a Christmas decor shopping vlog! I need to get in the spirit!

  • @SesileeTorres
    @SesileeTorres Рік тому

    OMG THOSE SOPAS ARE THE BEST

  • @MarcShorty23
    @MarcShorty23 Рік тому

    I would recommend getting a radio and leaving it on it changes the vibe also getting yourself a mountain bike 🚴it’s really good I prefer that then the gym 😊👍👌

  • @itsme_angelx
    @itsme_angelx Рік тому +1

    Sarah I loveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee ❤ur vlogs u put so so so so much effort and time .please reply cus you are the BEST

  • @lincoln537
    @lincoln537 Рік тому +1

    God is always with you and you are super sweet, energetic and everything in your apartment is in order and super clean and plus we are having similar thoughts lol so I feel you and I hope the Lego set will be ok also for me hah. And we have ups and downs, that is completely normal. Look at EKG it means we are alive! If it would be flatline only well that would be another story. You are doing great! Keep being awesome. I can send you postcards if it makes your day brighter

  • @aleena8524
    @aleena8524 Рік тому +1

    I love your video sarah grace you vlogs are the best ❤❤❤

  • @elenachristodoulou23
    @elenachristodoulou23 Рік тому +2

    One word to describe you INDEPENDENT 💫

    • @elenachristodoulou23
      @elenachristodoulou23 Рік тому +2

      Love your videos Sarah I love how you have grown and became independent and responsible your amazing and inspiring

  • @JaimeCruz-b7p
    @JaimeCruz-b7p Рік тому

    Ur not alone sarah u got us beautiful ♥

  • @jasmine23.x
    @jasmine23.x Рік тому

    early!!! love the vids sarah keep it up!! hope your doing well🤩

  • @user-yy3ii3gj2s
    @user-yy3ii3gj2s Рік тому +2

    Hey sara i love you vids sm and your so pretty

  • @reinartarquero5619
    @reinartarquero5619 Рік тому +3

    Hello what a amazing video sarah ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Samantha-vlly
    @Samantha-vlly Рік тому

    I can't imagine myself moving out of my parent's house. So overwhelmed thinking about
    Anyway, it's fine to feel this phase of life☃️

  • @lizarr_5
    @lizarr_5 Рік тому

    PROUD OF YOU❤

  • @metaldemonseanknels
    @metaldemonseanknels Рік тому +2

    Living alone for me was some of the least stressful times. Meaning after I stopped having roommates

    • @KenRolls
      @KenRolls Рік тому

      Won't the room mate knack u

    • @KenRolls
      @KenRolls Рік тому

      Won't the room mate knack u

    • @metaldemonseanknels
      @metaldemonseanknels Рік тому

      @@KenRolls not sure what that means, but having roommates just made things more complicated

    • @KenRolls
      @KenRolls Рік тому

      @@metaldemonseanknels does it meAn having room mates u will be sharing even the bed or pls elaborate some of us live in Africa we ain't familiar with such American habits

    • @metaldemonseanknels
      @metaldemonseanknels Рік тому

      @@KenRolls so roommates here is what a flatmate would be for you. USUALLY you have your separate rooms and you share common spaces like living room kitchen and dining room, sometimes bathroom but depending on the house sometimes you can have your own bathroom. Basically roommate here = flatmate there.

  • @LanceJones1991
    @LanceJones1991 Рік тому +1

    You’re not Sarah God is always with you you remember you have to trust the Lord God loves you Sarah you’re amazing person that happens to me all the time I’m always alone but I’m not alone I always have faith enjoy your life everything is going to be ok 🙏🫶❤️

  • @miguelkennedy9520
    @miguelkennedy9520 Рік тому

    Sarah Grace Vlogs makes the best videos ever :)

  • @tattoocerebralpalsyguy
    @tattoocerebralpalsyguy Рік тому

    You’re amazing and doing great don’t be sad ❤❤️👍🏽

  • @brincsterbrincster8959
    @brincsterbrincster8959 Рік тому +3

    I just started watching both of your UA-cam channels and I enjoy the fact that you are yourself no matter what other people think. Very energetic, Kind, Supportive,loving and enthusiastic😎. I wish I could find someone out there with the same personality as you. Besides that I am going to be 20 here soon on Dec 2nd.
    Useless things to know about me
    Born 12/02/03
    19 1/2years old
    Height: 6foot 3inches

  • @peanutsfinger
    @peanutsfinger Рік тому

    She has my dream life, real estate worker, small apartment, dream bank acc, dream routine, dream everything.

  • @Rosewolf29
    @Rosewolf29 Рік тому +1

    I found being alone but having a pet helps a ton…that and a tv or internet.

  • @suufirirash6377
    @suufirirash6377 Рік тому

    - Ur my favorite UA-camr!

  • @sebysebyt12
    @sebysebyt12 Рік тому

    U can live alone but ur family is always whit you ❤

  • @rudyquezada7088
    @rudyquezada7088 Рік тому

    I've been watching your other channel, I had no idea this one existed ? I was like how did I miss all these videos 🤔

  • @bubble.in.euphoria
    @bubble.in.euphoria Рік тому +1

    To us that support both channels💯❤
    Love your content so much

  • @RosaliaMeneses-ub3bu
    @RosaliaMeneses-ub3bu Рік тому

    Wow! you were filming this on my birhday! 🥰

  • @mrstofu2
    @mrstofu2 Рік тому +1

    Sis in Christ you're in the same predicament as my 22 y/o son. Working on yourself before marriage is great while waiting for your spouse.

  • @joeyespares4546
    @joeyespares4546 Рік тому

    Being alone is good sometimes.. enjoy the moment... we are here yoyr followers🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭 ms sarah...😇😇😇

  • @LuisGNuñez-q9j
    @LuisGNuñez-q9j Рік тому +1

    Trust your self because you can make UA-cam explode and unite the universe together 😊❤also were did the lego go😅😭😭

  • @billdewitt669
    @billdewitt669 Рік тому

    ❤❤Sarah You Are Awesome, Sweet ,Funny and most of all Blessed. It's ok to be sad because that is an emotion , but remember seasons change always. Thank You for sharing your life and being so fun to watch. ❤❤Ok Beautiful Lady, Mmmuuuaaa, God Bless You Sarah, Peace ❤😊

  • @trappy4212
    @trappy4212 Рік тому

    Hey I’m 20 moved out at 19 I had gotten a puppy and it has helped me out so much!!!!!!

  • @keithbennett5519
    @keithbennett5519 Рік тому

    Amazing video Sarah as always

  • @override39
    @override39 Рік тому +1

    living alone is ok but is scary sometimes just keep busy and keep working like a pro

  • @blloudatelier
    @blloudatelier Рік тому

    This made me cry🥺

  • @mopedmike8317
    @mopedmike8317 Рік тому

    It’s ok I am turn 40 and have a full time job with no car and no but living with parents I miss being on my own but I been durning Cirkul water there no sugar and no calories I give up drinking soda for almost a year I noticed a big difference I been wanting to buy a house but housing market is high right now and getting an one bedroom apartment in my town there’s a waitlist for 2 years can’t wait for tax time so hopefully I will get a place

  • @malakobtel8954
    @malakobtel8954 Рік тому

    am 12 years old and you ampres me so much evry product you use i buy it i sweaaar

  • @brycecolegrove-ju3vd
    @brycecolegrove-ju3vd Рік тому

    Saraahhhhhhh Chai has caffeine! Prob why you feel better after! haha Great vlog once again! Keep it up!

  • @rickyschannel9497
    @rickyschannel9497 Рік тому

    I just started living alone by myself and I just turned 19 haha and yeah I will say it can get sad but I try to be happy😭😭

  • @JuanMartinez-ke4qw
    @JuanMartinez-ke4qw 11 місяців тому

    lol random thought but do you use the stainless steel container for anything else other than face cleansing?

  • @dodoscreation6984
    @dodoscreation6984 Рік тому

    being an Indian i am really proud because at the age of 16 to 20 we don't leave our parents and stay with them

  • @Rendanik
    @Rendanik Рік тому

    Gya....Ahem, Looking good. Love the vlog and being independent is goals

  • @joshuacorrea3007
    @joshuacorrea3007 Рік тому

    Gyatssss😌
    🕺

  • @simeonbyron6685
    @simeonbyron6685 Рік тому

    Loving the content keep it up we love you ❤

  • @imbraziliangirl
    @imbraziliangirl Рік тому +1

    And this Brazilian songgg 🇧🇷