I wonder if some people don't understand the adage about counting their chickens before they hatch. Also, narcissists aren't well known for their reasonable decision making ability.
My brother and i keep trying to convince or mom to just do something fun with it instead of keeping it for us, it seems to me if you need to depend on inherintace then your not really managing your money well
My mother and father tried to leave all to my mentally challenged brother, who would have lost his SSI until it was spent down, and not a cent to the other four of us, except our oldest sibling prevented this by having them see an estate planning lawyer. Great injustice prevented!!!
That's good for your brother as well. This way he still gets monthly SSI so he can't blow it all at once and still has an income to survive on. If he had gotten a huge inheritance, he could lose his SSI permanently, have to pay back a huge sum, would likely blow through the money, then be broke with no way to get his SSI back. I hope someone is managing his bills for him. I hope everyone gets a fair deal. Good on the eldest for looking out for everyone.
It doesn't always work out so well. I took care of my parents for almost a decade. They told my brother he could take any family things, but I would get the house and money. My father got mild dementia and never changed his will. My brother just said he didn't remember their talk and I had to give him $94,000. Now I get to live in this old house without enough money to maintain things as I should. It is surrounded by giant trees and it costs a lot just for tree work.
I was one who made ultimate sacrifice when my brother passed away, my mother approached my sister and I and said she was going to split her inheritance in half, I said no. My brother would have wanted the money given to our nephew. She never changed her will but because of the state we live in, the money was put in trust because my nephew was a minor. (I'm grateful for honestly, she tried to cash it in.) My nephew is clueless to my sacrifice and has treated me badly. I recently demanded that I be there when he is told of his trust fund as she refuses to tell him he's "loaded") It will explain why I have said repeatedly you will one day regret how you treat me. He treated me poorly and I now know why, he heard of all the crap talking that was done behind my back. I don't hold it against her. It hurts to know he believes the bad things he has heard behind close doors. I won't lie, it hurts but in the end the truth will come out.
if I have the kind of sister I'm gonna cut ties with her who is after our parent's inheritance at all I Dont wanna deal with that golddigger and toxic sister like this in this story
They are lucky because generally the person who does the most, gets the least. I've seen parents try to impress the child who doesn't give them the time of day, after they die, snd to hell with the good ones.
Whenever somebody refers to somebody else's actions as insolence, it's basically a huge red flag that they're a narcissist, if that wasn't already clear by that point with the way she stole a ton of money and tried to hoard the entire inheritance to herself and planned to kick out her mother and sister, while crowing about how great she is for being willing to wait for them to move out.
It was common practice at the time of the Regency (1800) in England for heirs of rich men to take loans from bankers to live a luxurious life as soon as the heir heard that his father was in poor health and possibly dying! But when the old man recovered, the younger man was often in a fix how to pay interest and repay the loan!
Maybe, maybe not. In my part of the world, for example (I'm in Kansas, USA), it's not common for the lawyers to keep wills in perpetuity. The American Bar Association's Model Rules of Professional Conduct only require the lawyer to keep files for five years.
Why didn't the family through this daughter in jail for stealing 80k ? She's just greedy entitled and selfish. Love how she thinks she's getting everything but it's a fake just like her. Tell her to prove it in court
My sister tried to get my fathers life ins on the day he died. She was not even beneficiary. The money went to pay for my mothers nursing home. She was so mad that she couldnt get the money from the nursing home. LOL
My siblings and I are close and we are pretty upright and honest. If one of them did something like this, the other siblings and I would hunt them like prey until we brought them down and took back what they stole. Either in money, or in grevious bodily harm.
Oopsie! "Legal rights share" is a European (mainly UK) legal term, describing the portion of the estate reserved for the spouse, not the children. Kayleigh's mother had a legal rights share, not Kayleigh.
I'm the eldest in my family. When our mum died, I didn't get anything, but I'd already spoken to my m, so I already knew about it. I had no relationship with my mum, as she was abusive towards me, so when she wrote her will, I told her I didn't want anything! That way, I don't have to have anything to do with my stepfather and siblings. I'm 9 years older than my sister, and 10 years older than my brother, so I don't have anything to do with the either, and I'm more than happy to keep it that way!
I bet that after staying away for a year or so, Kayleigh comes back to try to patch things up with mom and persuade HER to write a will favoring Kayleigh. And She may have some persuasion power, something growing that is showing as a bulge in her belly. OP was unwise to let K go without getting it in writing that K would never dispute the will or seek to take money / property from mom and OP!
Needs to have a dispute clause in the will. Leave $1 to anyone you don't like, so they can't claim to be forgotten & then include "anyone who disputes the will as written relinquish all claim to any inheritance" (meaning they won't even get the $1).
I don't know of any US state that allows the spouse to be disinherited. And you don't get to transfer the assets until the probate court accepts the will dirt bag. So no you don't get the money the day of the funeral.
"Why should the will I HAVE be invalidated because you got a new one!?" Uh...because that's the LAW. ANY time someone makes a new will that is completely different from the original, the original becomes null and void, thus cannot be held up in a court of law!
Legitimste Wills MUST be filed with the County Courthouse in which the person lived, to.prevent this crap. The lawyer keeps a copy, and the person filing the Will keeps a copy The original is filed with the Courthouse.
Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser, i wasn't going to let my marriage of 18years crash.
KAYLEIGH LET HER EGO GET THE BEST OF HER TOO AND KAYLEIGH KNOW THAT TOO AND KAYLEIGH IS VERY FUNNY AND A JOKE AND A COWARD TOO KAYLEIGH WILL BE EATING THOSE WORDS NOW TOO KAYLEIGH SHOULD NOT GET NOTHING
Why don't you people ever call the cops on idiots like Kayleigh? she stole from you guys. It's disgusting Kayleigh thought she was going to get everything and her mom and sister would get nothing, what's in the LEGAL will is how things will go.
My father was very rich. My mom and sister took everything...my mom died 2.my sis got everything. I am an engineer and went on early pension. I have lots of money.haha. she will not inherit anything from me .
Kayleigh might be able to spend her mountain of debts on hand me downs from a Thrift store! Or she could make herself a coat using rags of many different colors, sewn completely together. With a 🪡 and 🧵.
Few actions are as foolish as spending money you think you’re going to get.
This is one of the most simple but authentic financial tips young people need to completely understand!
I wonder if some people don't understand the adage about counting their chickens before they hatch. Also, narcissists aren't well known for their reasonable decision making ability.
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Yea. How does people do that? It's so unrealistic but true, i guess.
She counted her chickens before they hatched
She don’t realize that you’re not guaranteed. No one should think they are getting an inheritance.
My brother and i keep trying to convince or mom to just do something fun with it instead of keeping it for us, it seems to me if you need to depend on inherintace then your not really managing your money well
My mother and father tried to leave all to my mentally challenged brother, who would have lost his SSI until it was spent down, and not a cent to the other four of us, except our oldest sibling prevented this by having them see an estate planning lawyer. Great injustice prevented!!!
That's good for your brother as well. This way he still gets monthly SSI so he can't blow it all at once and still has an income to survive on. If he had gotten a huge inheritance, he could lose his SSI permanently, have to pay back a huge sum, would likely blow through the money, then be broke with no way to get his SSI back. I hope someone is managing his bills for him. I hope everyone gets a fair deal. Good on the eldest for looking out for everyone.
@@paulagoeringer9466 not to mention the people and possible relatives who would use him for his money and then drop him like a rock when it's all gone
@@velvety2006 yeah, the slightest whiff of money and the worst people come crawling out of nowhere to try and take whatever they can.
I like the voice actors, especially the one who did Kayleigh.
Don't count your chickens before they hatch.
It doesn't always work out so well. I took care of my parents for almost a decade. They told my brother he could take any family things, but I would get the house and money. My father got mild dementia and never changed his will. My brother just said he didn't remember their talk and I had to give him $94,000. Now I get to live in this old house without enough money to maintain things as I should. It is surrounded by giant trees and it costs a lot just for tree work.
I was one who made ultimate sacrifice when my brother passed away, my mother approached my sister and I and said she was going to split her inheritance in half, I said no. My brother would have wanted the money given to our nephew. She never changed her will but because of the state we live in, the money was put in trust because my nephew was a minor. (I'm grateful for honestly, she tried to cash it in.) My nephew is clueless to my sacrifice and has treated me badly. I recently demanded that I be there when he is told of his trust fund as she refuses to tell him he's "loaded") It will explain why I have said repeatedly you will one day regret how you treat me. He treated me poorly and I now know why, he heard of all the crap talking that was done behind my back. I don't hold it against her. It hurts to know he believes the bad things he has heard behind close doors. I won't lie, it hurts but in the end the truth will come out.
Why would you think your dad would leave just you anything? Didn't she think it would change when she stole from her dad? Just stupid and entitled....
How entitled the disowned feels.
if I have the kind of sister I'm gonna cut ties with her who is after our parent's inheritance at all I Dont wanna deal with that golddigger and toxic sister like this in this story
They are lucky because generally the person who does the most, gets the least. I've seen parents try to impress the child who doesn't give them the time of day, after they die, snd to hell with the good ones.
Greed is never a good look on anybody. Kayleigh is too oblivious and immature to understand this.
"Can't you not be a selfish moron just once in your life?!" Tell off that Kayleigh! I have wanted to say something similar so many times
Whenever somebody refers to somebody else's actions as insolence, it's basically a huge red flag that they're a narcissist, if that wasn't already clear by that point with the way she stole a ton of money and tried to hoard the entire inheritance to herself and planned to kick out her mother and sister, while crowing about how great she is for being willing to wait for them to move out.
She's been disowned yet she has the will giving her everything? Doesn't sound right!
She must have stole an old copy of it somehow. I think that's illegal to steal, temper with, or forge someone's will.
Watch the whole thing before commenting.
It was common practice at the time of the Regency (1800) in England for heirs of rich men to take loans from bankers to live a luxurious life as soon as the heir heard that his father was in poor health and possibly dying! But when the old man recovered, the younger man was often in a fix how to pay interest and repay the loan!
There would be a copy of the will at the lawyers office.
Maybe, maybe not. In my part of the world, for example (I'm in Kansas, USA), it's not common for the lawyers to keep wills in perpetuity. The American Bar Association's Model Rules of Professional Conduct only require the lawyer to keep files for five years.
This is some good voice acting. 😊😊😊
Why didn't the family through this daughter in jail for stealing 80k ? She's just greedy entitled and selfish. Love how she thinks she's getting everything but it's a fake just like her. Tell her to prove it in court
I would talk to a lawyer before I let her have a goddamn dime and make her show that she has it
I m so glad I only inherited a burial platz from my mom😁
She needs to talk to lawyers
Doesn't disowning a daughter meant that she inherits nothing?
Disowning means nothing without something legal to back it up.
You can disown a person, or you can disown a person legally....2 different situations
What about probate that takes time
working in a bathhouse? is that the new way of describing a brothel? i bet sis is getting many happy endings
My sister tried to get my fathers life ins on the day he died. She was not even beneficiary. The money went to pay for my mothers nursing home. She was so mad that she couldnt get the money from the nursing home. LOL
What is it that family that they demand respect😮
I heard someplace that loyalty decides the family and not blood.
If he disowned you, you get nothing. End of.
My siblings and I are close and we are pretty upright and honest. If one of them did something like this, the other siblings and I would hunt them like prey until we brought them down and took back what they stole. Either in money, or in grevious bodily harm.
Oopsie!
"Legal rights share" is a European (mainly UK) legal term, describing the portion of the estate reserved for the spouse, not the children.
Kayleigh's mother had a legal rights share, not Kayleigh.
What does she think being disowned means? LMAO
I'm the eldest in my family. When our mum died, I didn't get anything, but I'd already spoken to my m, so I already knew about it. I had no relationship with my mum, as she was abusive towards me, so when she wrote her will, I told her I didn't want anything! That way, I don't have to have anything to do with my stepfather and siblings. I'm 9 years older than my sister, and 10 years older than my brother, so I don't have anything to do with the either, and I'm more than happy to keep it that way!
I bet that after staying away for a year or so, Kayleigh comes back to try to patch things up with mom and persuade HER to write a will favoring Kayleigh. And She may have some persuasion power, something growing that is showing as a bulge in her belly.
OP was unwise to let K go without getting it in writing that K would never dispute the will or seek to take money / property from mom and OP!
Needs to have a dispute clause in the will. Leave $1 to anyone you don't like, so they can't claim to be forgotten & then include "anyone who disputes the will as written relinquish all claim to any inheritance" (meaning they won't even get the $1).
@@theresakruse1655 That will do!
This is so sad and a daily occurrence, be careful how you raise your children.
I don't know of any US state that allows the spouse to be disinherited. And you don't get to transfer the assets until the probate court accepts the will dirt bag. So no you don't get the money the day of the funeral.
so some "artistic licence" was used no big deal it is like the "instant divorce" just by handing in the papers
"Why should the will I HAVE be invalidated because you got a new one!?"
Uh...because that's the LAW. ANY time someone makes a new will that is completely different from the original, the original becomes null and void, thus cannot be held up in a court of law!
It is possible to replace or update a will, you know?
“Faze”, not “phase”.
Legitimste Wills MUST be filed with the County Courthouse in which the person lived, to.prevent this crap. The lawyer keeps a copy, and the person filing the Will keeps a copy
The original is filed with the Courthouse.
See dad rich u not rich its dad money, not yours
Jeez. I can’t imagine spending 160k (80k stolen + 80k loan )without having a sizable asset that can can hold value. Something like a house or land.
Funny 😅😅
Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser, i wasn't going to let my marriage of 18years crash.
@Rose Allen well not the orthodox way but i was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer
@Rose Allen her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE, and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster.
@Rose Allen you can look her name up online and you will find all you need.
Sometimes divorce is the only way out. Divorce saved my sanity after 30 abusive years
Does anyone who writes these things have a single clue about correct grammar??
Why is she entertaining the idea she has a legit will, im sure it's fake... I hope its fake
KAYLEIGH LET HER EGO GET THE BEST OF HER TOO AND KAYLEIGH KNOW THAT TOO AND KAYLEIGH IS VERY FUNNY AND A JOKE AND A COWARD TOO KAYLEIGH WILL BE EATING THOSE WORDS NOW TOO KAYLEIGH SHOULD NOT GET NOTHING
Why don't you people ever call the cops on idiots like Kayleigh? she stole from you guys. It's disgusting Kayleigh thought she was going to get everything and her mom and sister would get nothing, what's in the LEGAL will is how things will go.
"skin of the bear" comes to mind, might be wrong animal, checked, was right.
My father was very rich. My mom and sister took everything...my mom died 2.my sis got everything. I am an engineer and went on early pension. I have lots of money.haha. she will not inherit anything from me .
So fake.
Same old Apple Texts Story with genders changed. Can't you guys come up with something creative and original of your own.
Kayleigh might be able to spend her mountain of debts on hand me downs from a Thrift store! Or she could make herself a coat using rags of many different colors, sewn completely together. With a 🪡 and 🧵.