Izizathu ezenza abantu besifazane bangeke balunge ukuba nesithembu

[@promisesmanga6271]

Uyabona lena eyesthembu yona noma ungayichaza kanjani uzame ukuyibeka ngendlela evuna amadoda kodwa Ayikho yinhle & ayimnandi akekho umunt ojatshuliswa uku share umunt amthandayo Neva

[@bongumusadludla9693]

Qinisile sisi sthembu sijabhulisa muntu oyedwa kuphela ingane ziyahlukumezeka nabafazi bayahlukumezeka ubani othanda sthandwa NGO thando lesbili😪

[@heavenewmalaza9359]

Isizathu sesithembu ubufebe kuphela finish and klaar

[@imogenemathe6723]

Isithembu esabafazi aba desperate qha!

[@nonzuzomasondo4713]

Whee musa awusiyeka ave nje uthanda ukuncindezela abantu besifazane

[@whereisfikile]

Isizathu sinye nje kuphela ukuthi angeke nawe wavuma to share umfazi omthandayo nenye indoda, nenza ngathi nazi abafazi okudlula bona .

[@thembelihlekofi3989]

Isithembu is about the man, it's about them all the tym

[@nkosenyengubane6267]

Seconded

[@zetmbonambi4425]

Ingabe ushiswa yini baba ngoba loludaba alufuni wena. Qhubeka wena wengeze abakho nezingane kusekude zifike ku 21.Qinisa kuloko uyekele abanye kuloludaba. Ephuzwini lokuzalwa kwezingane ezi nezibongo ezihlukile, kuvele kuyenzeka kakhulu baba. Baningi abesifazane abanezingane 'zamadoda ezibongo ezihlukile. Niyaxaka ke madoda ngoba nimfuna umuntu wesfazane aniqome noma esho kahle ukuthi unesoka lakhe kodwa niqhubeke nithandane naye, senithuswa yini. Eyomzimba ongalungele anibe nisayicabanga, Baningi omakhwapheni abazivumela ukuba ikhwapha. Mina soze ngangena isithenjini noma sayiphi nje inhlobo ngoba ngizithandela ukuthula ngizithandele ngedwa umyen wam angfune stress.

[@snayenothando924]

Ngingaba nesthembu ngigweme ukukhulelwa ngiwakhombise ukuthi nawo ayabhangqeka nje kungabi ndaba zalutho

[@portiamahlangu4610]

Yazi mina angimuzwa ukuthi uthini umseleku xem Ayihlangani nje lento ayikhulumayo Ukhulumela I side lakhe Isithembu sijabulisa indoda but umfazi nengane bayahlukumezeka Akekho umfazi ofuna ukulanywa finish and klaar yikho begcina beloyana esithenjini ngoba omunye nomunye ufuna kusale yena yedwa

[@user-xo6yx3xm5u]

Ayikho indaba yesithembu. Udodi nje. Isithembu ubufebe nje. Thanda umfazi oyedwa. Umuntu unenhliziyo eyodwa. Ngeke uthande abantu abaningi mseleku

[@bonganisiyabonga1133]

Engan naba nje uyabathanda ?wt u say

[@azandemahaye]

Well for some of it's a dream to marry a bunch of men if men can do it why can't women.

[@nkosinathimkhize7294]

Do it

[@azandemahaye]

I shall and I will invite you to my five weddings 😊❤❤

[@silentlessons4221]

didnt u listen to what he said?

[@bhekidlamini1199]

Abantu besfazane bayalala nabanye abantu beslisa bekhuleliswe omunye umuntu weslisa I am talking from experience kukhona omunye Usisi owayenginika strong and engamithiswanga yimi so kyuyenzeka bangokleva kabi abantu besfazane 😂😂😂😂

[@portiavilakazi9921]

But watch out Mr Mseleku le show yakhoo izokubangela izitha nenzondo nesdina kubantu besfazane nd izobhidliza eminye imshado. Hlebela lamadoda owaphelezelayo ukuth wena wenzenjani b4 ucele kwabakho

[@mercyhlapo4741]

💯

[@philmonzakhele716]

Uyabheda wena lemali iyakuhlanyisa

[@imogenemathe6723]

Portia Vilakazi well put, lobaba ubhidliza imizi yabantu. Is not like his wives are happy. They have sex on his own terms and he calls this marriage? This is not marriage is a sex platter where he can chose where to f**k. Labafazi bathanda izinto they need to work harder if they claim that they are working. Makayeke uku qhuba ivangeli lobufebe makafebe yedwa.

[@Zesiphile805]

Imogene Mathe uqinsile

[@sifisombhele2050]

Yaz abantu besifazane bayathanda ukukhuluma kuveli namanje wonke umuntu wesfazane usesithenjini ayikho indoda engajoli siveli siyajola so kuncono ukuthatha isithembu kunokithi kudlalwe umacashelana

[@cynthiaphakathi9179]

Mnxxx

[@leledladla1637]

Can we go back to the reason of isithembu in the family. All the reasons given nowadays are completelly different from the initial reasoning behind isithembu. Right now its all about commiting adultery and selfishness... manipulating your wife to accept your dirty behaviour in the name of culture! PLEASE!

[@sivuyileroli5390]

Ithini ireason le uthi makubuyelwe kuyo coz I'm interested ukuyizwa?

[@nokuthulasabeliwe4034]

Isthembu ayi suka wena mseleku angikufuni kwami uyophuma ngamanzi ashisayo ngeke ngize ngilinde nje nokuthi ubingelele suka ayi

[@thulisilekhethile2319]

Nami dear, uyohamba angakayichazi leyo nkulumo yakhe

[@mandisamandisa3377]

Ngyanithanda sham nami uyophuma ehlehla nyovana 😆

[@nokuthulasabeliwe4034]

Singaphela umseleku edla kahle nabafazi bakhe thina siyoba yini omalambane esibaqoma .angazi noma bazitshela ukuthi bazophila njengomseleku saze sasha bafazi

[@bongsndimande1284]

Isthembu silungela abamubalwa iningi luyafosa nje mina angisifuni kusizani ukwakha umundeni omkhulu ozokhula ungangenelani uhlezi ubhekene neziqu zamehlo esikamkhuku sakithi namathe sisasabana akukho ukuthembana iwona ke umndeni lowo ?

[@thobisilelungie6292]

I know y'all are feminists but admit he is putting through some valid point s

[@nokuzolambethwa838]

Nigilungile N gingedwa kwami

[@lungilembanjwa]

Lol 😂 Very convenient to list issues of WHY isithembu sabantu besifazane singalungile when women have been crying about isithembu for centuries. Anive nisile boFeleba

[@nkosenyengubane6267]

Usibiza ngofeleba nkunzi!

[@puro210]

Uyabheda lo!

[@politendlovu5804]

impela nje baba Mseleku, nami ngithi kunjalo bengizosho lokho uma ngibuzwa hahaha

[@octaviazulu8007]

Eyyyyyy isthembu asikho ryt nje qha..... Kuke kuthiwe eyabantu ababili ayingenwa kodwa ngicabanga ipain yabazali bamakhoti uma eselanyaniswa umtanabo

[@sibonisomkhwanazi3557]

Hhayi wayibeka baba yacaca. Kodwake labo besifazane abasifunayo isithembu banelungelo abazame. Laba abangafuni ukuba sesithenjini uma indoda ifuna kanjalo badedele abafunayo bona bayohlala phansi ekhaya.

[@bongiepeter7227]

Ndiyakuva Mthombeni, from what u said I can say umntu ongenamali or let me say financial stable shouldn't be in polygamy. Uyakha nganton imizi ungenamali🤔

[@lazalaza4957]

Bobo B if you noticed they want to marry women who are financially stable so that they can work for them

[@nothandoncube3222]

Ebheda okaMseleku. Ezicabangela kolakhe uhlangothi.

[@sunrise7640]

Ayikho nje lento le. Amadoda athatha isithembu just want to be legal febarists.

[@ntsoakimotapanyane5689]

🚮🚮🚮🚮 normalizing ubufebe nje

[@slindilengcobo6749]

Cha umuntu wesifazane ucindezelekile akekho umuntu ofuna ukubhangqwa nomunye umuntu both side bonke ubuhlungu buya enhliziyweni akwazi ukwenza into ejabulisa wena nje wedwa shuthi indaba ingawe la wena ubhoza yaloluthando wena ozokwenza into oyithandayo ayikho ibhoza othandeni

[@maah-pdeeh9726]

i nkanuko yokungakwazi ukuyibamba. pls bo baba siyanihlonipha but nathi sihlonipheni. khethile...khethile

[@nosmilomkhonzamelus5367]

Good Baba

[@zanelembanjwa9216]

Indoda efuna isthembu ayibe nemali

[@nomfundowenzile7387]

😭😭😭 angfun nokuzwa

[@ntokozontanda5112]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@luvunoluvuno5907]

Yebo umuntu wesifazane ngeke akwazi ukuba nesthembu

[@bonieboni9356]

Heyi khawume khehle uyasithethelela esi sithembu thina asisqali kwasona asisifuni tuu ngaphandle koba ufuna kubulawane

[@xolelwandzelu754]

Yindlela yakudala Kade kuncindezelwa abantu besifane laa kwazulu and it's doesn't make sense in our days coz we know what the Bible say "indoda ayibe nomfazi oyedwa"

[@khetombimbi8457]

Usatana wakususa amahloni wakwenza ukuthi umsebenzele for his kingdom , this is the voice of the devil talking into your mouth , baba phendukarepent come to Jesus Christ of Nazareth uyaxolela , isithembu bubuthakathi uhlukumeza abafazi , uzozondwa ngabantu abango mama , wena phila kweyakho i planet sufuna nabanye abantu benze lento imbi uyenzayo ibuhlungu kangaka yhooo bawo siza ingane yakho ubabu Mseleku pls Lord Jesus

[@welaseelihlesoni6476]

Izingane zizothatha isbongo sam sakith

[@nkosenyengubane6267]

Ayikho leyonto✋

[@sbusisolawrence976]

Dankie baba injalo lento,and yibo abasbophisayo bethi silalenabo ngenkani,but umlobolile umshadile lomuntu kanti thina ascabanganga ukuthi ngalesosikhathi esbadinga ngaso sometimes imizimba yabo ikhathele bese sizithole sesixabana nabo

[@ladyfranny443]

So sexist 😔no, no, no👏🏽

[@mbalenhle564]

Uyadina wena mseleku naleythembu zakho oshumayela ngazo njalo

[@bongiwezaca2721]

Mxm!!!awukwazi yini ukwakha umuzi nomuntu oyedwa???
Mina nje if my bf wathi ufuna isthembu, ngizophuma kanje👉🏻👉🏻👉🏻
Ngoba nje ninenkanuko nina!!

[@mfokagwamanda9741]

What if ufuna izingane eziningi kunalezi ongamunika zona wena 🙏🏿shwele bengibuza nje

[@nkosenyengubane6267]

Uma uqeda ukhumphma lapho kuyangenwa ngapha.

[@bongiwezaca2721]

@@nkosenyengubane6267 🤣🤣🤣hawemah waze wanghlekisa

[@sbusisolawrence976]

Baba Mthombeni isthembu asisibi uma abantu besfazane bengacabanga kahle ngalento thina madoda ucansi siyakwazi ukulwenza Monday to Friday bona if bekwazi ukwenza kanjalo may be bangagcina othandweni olusha,once bajwayela bayaqala bakhale ngokukhathala ,BANGIPHIKISE MANGINAMANGA.

[@khetombimbi8457]

Umntu owenza njalo there's spirit behind , lonto ithethukuthi awunaskhathi sokuthandaza ubonge uJehovah wakho for your days of ur life and your family akuphe yona , mbonge uJehovah uThixo wakho ungeka gugi ungekathi awundiyolele usakwazi ukuzihambela ayeza amathuba apho umntu ezothi efuna ubonga uJehova kube kuphele iskhathi sesingasekho edlale ngaso ulibele zizinto zomhlaba , azipheli zona , ngumntu ophelayo kusezo shuba abantu balibele kukudlala ngamathuba uThixo abaphe wona sisezokhala ama yeye kube ku late ,repent peoples of God Amen

[@singathamjana5084]

maXhosa nali ithuba lethu ba sithathe abafazi kwa Zulu sibathande thina

[@nono.c.m6951]

Only kwaZulu hayi kwa Xhosa asibuthathi ubububhanxa

[@lazalaza4957]

Mxm

[@mqimbebhoshamthokozisi7621]

Bayeke laba tata bajabuliswa yikho lokhu ukuzalela entabeni

[@thabileduma575]

Mna angifune ndoda yes2 futh angifune mfazana wes2 emzin wam yes kowam umuzi *aksiwo okababa owam*. Futh indoda micamth iyonglandela loluhlelo lakaMseleku olusha Eyyy bafo ungawacosha eyincuncu lawoma camera akho konke nalesosndindwa enobe nifike naso🤞🤞 ngbafune oSotobe bephelele 🤞🤞

[@hopemohola6369]

I feel sorry for you😂

[@pamelanqobile1026]

Akunandi ukuthi ungasuka Kyle nods uyekule kanjalonjalo but it is should b ok with women for u man ukuthi usuke ulomfazi uyekulo usuke kuloyo uzekuye

[@bongekaqwabe4831]

Iqiniso lelo Mthombeni I come from polygamy and ngiyamubong God ngokuthi baba wami waba nesithembu cz 2day sinoCc no Bhuti ekhaya sibaningi kumnandi but ke Baba wasihlanganisa isithembu sakho

[@eyiubusukhathazilebowenabk4181]

Ayi bandla umuntu wesfazane ugcindezelekile nje

[@user-xo6yx3xm5u]

Bazokwazi ukuba naso. Bazohlulwa yini. Uyabheda Mseleku

[@lungelokhumalo3096]

uthini vele?

[@nkosenyengubane6267]

Uthi isithembu kumele sithathwe indoda ayi umfazi .

[@ninginyembe3380]

Iqiniso ngiyezwa mina

[@nosiphomasobahlemakhunga3092]

Kahle kahle Musa Mseleku lento ingani madoda

[@nosiphomasobahlemakhunga3092]

Izokwenzeka njengoba yenzeka kunina nani ninamagame nje nathi k kuzoba njalo Mseleku

[@nompilozendani2869]

Hayi andivumelani nje nesthembu ndxolela ukuba yinkomo edla yodwa. Kunoba ndnganyamezela ubudenge

[@lebzmolefe5156]

Hheshe mbemi izwilelo ukube malale omama ongena ndlebe angeke ezwe kodwa onendlebe oyozwisisa elami lelo

[@bonieboni9356]

Heyi khawume khehle uyasithethelela esi sithembu asisqali thina asisifune tuuu

[@lebzmolefe5156]

@boni kodwa iqiniso uyalizwa,,,,mabekumithisile kumele wazi ukuthi uyi,,second hand akekho umuntu othanda into esetshenzisiwe mina ngakumithisa ngiyakuthatha ngoba angiyithengi isecondhand nami cabanga sewuyi stepfuther or stepmother in age of 30 i kaka leyo.

[@mhlakaza-sa]

Cha uyayibeka lento babumseleku nami ngingomunye wabantu abafuna ukuthatha isithembu uma isikhathi sesiryt

[@ntuthukodludla394]

Yah iqiniso lelo mfowakithi

[@imogenemathe6723]

Lendaba yesithembu ubufebe bodwa besebathi bandisa umuzi. Le eUK khona indoda enezingane eziwu 21 emfazini oyedwa. Amadoda afebayo! Cha! Umusani bo!

[@dumisanimkhizehisthirdnon3049]

batshele mseleku esethu kuphela isithenbu yithi abantu yibo izimbambo lol