I knew he had passed away due to the comments but getting to that last update had me bawling. I wish nothing but the best for OP and I hope she’s able to find some kind of happiness.
I had a feeling this was going to be the outcome (OP's husband dying, not everything else) but confirmation fucking sucks :( OP probably shouldn't be on reddit with people commenting how stupid she was for going along with everything. Because let's be real, I doubt others would've fought about it. Most people tend to go along with things to "Keep the peace."
The final update has enough context clues to tell you they’re probably not on Reddit at the moment. If they’re proof reading what she’s writing they’re gonna be there monitoring her internet use too.
I was really worried this as going to happen. She was clearly massively codependent on her husband and the fact that she put her everything into him made me really concerned that she wouldn’t be able to handle his passing. I’m so sorry for her loss, but I also hope that they help her find a reason to live outside of her husband
I wouldn't say they were codependent so much as she already didn't have many people or outlets in her life and losing the one person she felt like would ever understand her was hard on her. It doesn't sound excessively dependent on him, just in love with the person she married. We see this often in old and young couples, natural loss or tragic loss. When you lose someone you believe to be your soulmate, it shakes your well being. Having no support system, however, is what is making it just that much harder for this woman
my god, i've been following their story for so long. i'm so so so so sad he's gone ): i was hoping she'd say he took his sweet time recovering but he's doing well now... or at least getting there. i hope she can heal from this and be as ok as possible, no one deserves to go through this. keeping her in my thoughts.
Honestly, MIL acted horribly through this whole situation. I understand her reasoning, but when her son (OP’s husband) started dying her plans needed to change. She basically ignored her son while he was dying, and she made his last couple of weeks of life incredibly difficult. The guy literally went into the hospital thinking his mother didn’t love him as much as she loved his violent, drug addiction brother. If you can’t alter the plans then she absolutely should have looped them in
I remember this story but this is the first time seeing the last 2 updates. It’s very sad and tough to hear. Poor husband in his final days though his mother loved his crappy screw up brother more than him especially when his condition deteriorated. My heart breaks for OP and I hope she can find peace and forgive herself. 😢
Hi, i wanted to firstly tell you that the way you have been running this account is really great and amazing. I also had a question, have you ever planned making a spotify account for scaling stories, i truly belive if you made one youd have many people who would love that. I think many people would like listening to stories in the background which youtube isnt always best for. No need to respond. Wish you the very best.
Yupp we all love Scaling stories, they do the best Reddit stories. I’ve tried a few other accounts but I couldn’t even tell you their names cause they weren’t scaling stories 😂😂
People on internet(in general) really sucks, she was trying her best every day…. People still blame her. She wasnt doctor, husband probably want to meet with his family. She need it support and suggestion, help but no people start blame her for everything I bet doctors are more to blame then her (they know the stuff and they aware of ignorance of people) because her husband wasnt really fine because less then year his brain bleed again…. Consequences die…. Is like when cutting leg of person, put it cloth and send the home 60% die after…. Operation success dosent mean the recovery is gonna work, maybe they destroy or left so much damage untouched then brain start bleed again
I think everyone will most likely agree adulting is hard but the most hardest thing is its to continue on living for those who have passed on in their family.
i cannot even imagine... i went through something so damn similar, and even still my brain is trying desperately to block out the heart wrenching grief i know she is going through... i just wish OP finds peace, no matter what that looks like for her.
I feel so sorry for OP and her childhood abuse normalizing what MIL did. OP shouldn't have been made to feel bad about her yelling at her MIL. That woman deserved every f*cking word. Her son was dying and all she thought about was adopting her granddaughter and throwing a party with all of them. She only saw him so she could drive him to the party! She prioritized visiting the hospitalized GF. She left with her partner instead of staying behind. She did not 'need' to return, she needed to stay.
@@rukiakuchiki6187I’ve been following this page for awhile, they only “repost” if new updates have been released instead of doing a “part 2” like most TikTok pages like to do.
@@rukiakuchiki6187is it that hard to move the red bar across the screen? this is a new level of laziness i think we need to open up your brain and study you
I knew he had passed away due to the comments but getting to that last update had me bawling. I wish nothing but the best for OP and I hope she’s able to find some kind of happiness.
I read the top comment about the update being sad and stopped reading them so I wouldn’t spoil it. I was REALLYY hoping he wouldn’t die.
I remember this story and the final update has me sitting here bawling. That poor woman.
I had a feeling this was going to be the outcome (OP's husband dying, not everything else) but confirmation fucking sucks :( OP probably shouldn't be on reddit with people commenting how stupid she was for going along with everything. Because let's be real, I doubt others would've fought about it. Most people tend to go along with things to "Keep the peace."
The final update has enough context clues to tell you they’re probably not on Reddit at the moment. If they’re proof reading what she’s writing they’re gonna be there monitoring her internet use too.
I was really worried this as going to happen. She was clearly massively codependent on her husband and the fact that she put her everything into him made me really concerned that she wouldn’t be able to handle his passing. I’m so sorry for her loss, but I also hope that they help her find a reason to live outside of her husband
I wouldn't say they were codependent so much as she already didn't have many people or outlets in her life and losing the one person she felt like would ever understand her was hard on her. It doesn't sound excessively dependent on him, just in love with the person she married. We see this often in old and young couples, natural loss or tragic loss. When you lose someone you believe to be your soulmate, it shakes your well being. Having no support system, however, is what is making it just that much harder for this woman
my god, i've been following their story for so long.
i'm so so so so sad he's gone ): i was hoping she'd say he took his sweet time recovering but he's doing well now... or at least getting there.
i hope she can heal from this and be as ok as possible, no one deserves to go through this.
keeping her in my thoughts.
Honestly, MIL acted horribly through this whole situation. I understand her reasoning, but when her son (OP’s husband) started dying her plans needed to change. She basically ignored her son while he was dying, and she made his last couple of weeks of life incredibly difficult. The guy literally went into the hospital thinking his mother didn’t love him as much as she loved his violent, drug addiction brother. If you can’t alter the plans then she absolutely should have looped them in
I remember this story but this is the first time seeing the last 2 updates. It’s very sad and tough to hear. Poor husband in his final days though his mother loved his crappy screw up brother more than him especially when his condition deteriorated. My heart breaks for OP and I hope she can find peace and forgive herself. 😢
Hi, i wanted to firstly tell you that the way you have been running this account is really great and amazing. I also had a question, have you ever planned making a spotify account for scaling stories, i truly belive if you made one youd have many people who would love that. I think many people would like listening to stories in the background which youtube isnt always best for. No need to respond. Wish you the very best.
i second this!!!
Yupp we all love Scaling stories, they do the best Reddit stories. I’ve tried a few other accounts but I couldn’t even tell you their names cause they weren’t scaling stories 😂😂
I hope so too. But Spotify is very expensive to get your stuff out there, I hope they’re able to do it though
honestly youtube premium lets you do what you are thinking, it isnt costly and i got rid of my spotify bc i like this more tbh
The way I busted out crying when she said he died & she tried to join him 😢
People on internet(in general) really sucks, she was trying her best every day…. People still blame her. She wasnt doctor, husband probably want to meet with his family.
She need it support and suggestion, help but no people start blame her for everything
I bet doctors are more to blame then her (they know the stuff and they aware of ignorance of people) because her husband wasnt really fine because less then year his brain bleed again…. Consequences die…. Is like when cutting leg of person, put it cloth and send the home 60% die after….
Operation success dosent mean the recovery is gonna work, maybe they destroy or left so much damage untouched then brain start bleed again
Damn, that's horrifying... I don't blame her for being suicidal after all that.
I had a feeling this would be the outcome judging by the comments. I hope someone can help her. It is so sad
I think everyone will most likely agree adulting is hard but the most hardest thing is its to continue on living for those who have passed on in their family.
This is absolutely heartbreaking, I am so sorry for your loss, please stay strong things will feel better soon, sending hugs and love❤❤❤❤❤
i cannot even imagine... i went through something so damn similar, and even still my brain is trying desperately to block out the heart wrenching grief i know she is going through... i just wish OP finds peace, no matter what that looks like for her.
I was not mentally ready for that update 😭
I was hoping that wouldn’t be the update 😔
NOOOO! I was hoping this wasn’t the update 😭😭
the comments spoiled it for me
OMG...no words!
I feel so sorry for OP and her childhood abuse normalizing what MIL did. OP shouldn't have been made to feel bad about her yelling at her MIL. That woman deserved every f*cking word. Her son was dying and all she thought about was adopting her granddaughter and throwing a party with all of them. She only saw him so she could drive him to the party! She prioritized visiting the hospitalized GF. She left with her partner instead of staying behind. She did not 'need' to return, she needed to stay.
The one thing I still can't get over with this story is that they took a man, who had a brain bleed, to a house with a known violent drug addict. 🤦
did you delete one of the videos from yesterday
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Repeat
It's an update with the original story there
@eyez409 ok still
@@rukiakuchiki6187I’ve been following this page for awhile, they only “repost” if new updates have been released instead of doing a “part 2” like most TikTok pages like to do.
scalingstories always gives the entire story in one video when there’s a new update
@@rukiakuchiki6187is it that hard to move the red bar across the screen? this is a new level of laziness i think we need to open up your brain and study you
🥹🥹 I was already upset when i read the updates yesterday. I hate that op lost her person