Toxic Relationships: How A Woman Gets Her Power Back!

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  • @sonjalovestory4820
    @sonjalovestory4820 3 роки тому +27

    I just left the gym 🏋🏽‍♀️ and hit a milestone! I’m finally eating better tho. It really is therapy to be able to build confidence and feel good about myself.

    • @brandygillespie5419
      @brandygillespie5419 3 роки тому

      Thank you Jesus for this word & video!! Much needed!! 🕊💐❤

    • @thekogmatters
      @thekogmatters  3 роки тому

      🙏🏾🙌🏾🌹🌹🎉

    • @niyavernice
      @niyavernice 3 роки тому

      Yes therapy has helped me so much!

  • @yassyjazzy1394
    @yassyjazzy1394 3 роки тому +13

    Hallelujah thank u for helping me leave lord .. it was so hard I lost 17 years of mylife in a wrong marriage

  • @annettedawson8389
    @annettedawson8389 3 роки тому +13

    Yes, I am moving on and been lead by spirit. Yesssssssss going back to gym to get that revenge body! Amen

  • @Eva-ru8en
    @Eva-ru8en 3 роки тому +5

    Thank you! I'm 2 years out of "playing wife" for 7 years lol. And I feel like I've been tumbling in a tumble dryer for those 2 years. Only now am I thinking of leveling up lol. And your channel is motivating me to level up from the inside out because you are so beautiful inside and out. I feel at home here!

    • @thekogmatters
      @thekogmatters  3 роки тому +2

      Glory to God for your freedom🙌🏾🙌🏾 Thank you for your kind words🙏🏾 Keep moving forward 🌹

    • @mariaheiuraitchener2329
      @mariaheiuraitchener2329 3 роки тому

      amen me too , been tumbled plenty for the same amount of years. so thankful to God for empowering His daughters in this very hour amen God bless

  • @CrystalHfff
    @CrystalHfff Рік тому +1

    I've watched 3 so far tonight, and they have helped so much, and I'm smiling ear to ear . I'm so happy to have confirmation ❤ Glory to God 😊

  • @christinarivrs
    @christinarivrs 3 роки тому +6

    I wouldn’t have left me either 😂💕 love that YES 🙌🏾 KNOW WHO YOU ARE ! You are walking me through this thing. Thank you so much for your obedience.

    • @thekogmatters
      @thekogmatters  3 роки тому

      😆🤦🏽‍♀️😆 Hallelujah 🙌🏾🙌🏾🌹

  • @princesswilliams6182
    @princesswilliams6182 3 роки тому +1

    Yassss praise God he is talking to me….

  • @theinstructionalarchitect
    @theinstructionalarchitect 3 роки тому +6

    Lol! It's the "I wouldn't have left me either!" for me🤣😂🤣😂

  • @keesha1232
    @keesha1232 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you this is a great message! And some men don’t want to change or take care of their children sadly! I thank God for what he is doing and this word. As far as trying to be involved with another one God no!🙄 I look nice too not being prideful! However, I wouldn’t touch one with a ten foot pole, desire gone thank God!😊💃💃

  • @juliehaye7721
    @juliehaye7721 3 роки тому +4

    Millie I love you
    I receive this message with grace
    I God God continuous blessings upon your life always ...

  • @ebonijackson8734
    @ebonijackson8734 3 роки тому +4

    Hallelujah. God Bless You Swiss ❤️🧀 feel a strong breakthrough for these beautiful Queens 👑 May God be the glory. Keep pushing ladies my testimony is phenomenal and yours will be too. I made it out of my ⛈ #God IsLove❤️

    • @thekogmatters
      @thekogmatters  3 роки тому

      HALLELUJAH🙌🏾🙌🏾🔥🔥 yes swiss thank you Glory to God🙌🏾🙌🏾🌹🌹🌹

  • @luvtherapy
    @luvtherapy 2 роки тому

    You been all in my business!!! All of it!!! All of my concerns before God. I put your videos on and listen to sleep..look..I've been resting and I wake up to confirmation messages. Thank you!

  • @patriciabrown9034
    @patriciabrown9034 2 роки тому

    Yes. Thank you for your guidance Milli.
    Still in the recovery mode, and on oxygen 24/7, but I went on line today. I've found a site that offers a $139 divorce. On my way out! 💯

  • @74alyse
    @74alyse 3 роки тому +6

    Teaching my daughters that’s so sweet. I have 4 daughters and unfortunately 1 of them won’t speak to me or her older sister or baby sister. But my God is still on the thrown. Amen.

    • @thekogmatters
      @thekogmatters  3 роки тому

      🙏🏾🙏🏾🌹

    • @avamichellejohnson7050
      @avamichellejohnson7050 3 роки тому +1

      I’m dealing with this too. My oldest daughter is not speaking to me either but I know God will change it. Prayers for both of our situations.

  • @glennd.miller1123
    @glennd.miller1123 2 роки тому

    Loved it!!
    Oh I gotta help him -
    Gotta fix him ; (
    Gotta clean him up-
    Cuz he don't know!
    He's just naive ; (
    It's a game....oook?
    To keep you -
    on this
    Whirlwind,
    Rollercoaster-
    Ride of
    Stupidity!!!
    Cuz that's what it is!!
    When you
    Wake up,
    Look back,
    See what's going on-
    It's Pure Stupidity!!
    Just set it to good music :)
    That really hit home, I see it in my situation, only reversed.....
    God bless you, Millie!

  • @winterp89
    @winterp89 3 роки тому +4

    Millie,
    Just wanted to stop in and thank you for pouring into us. Thank you for allowing God to use you to inspire and lead.
    So full of thanks 💐

  • @chantalc3467
    @chantalc3467 2 роки тому

    I really appreciate your transparency! It’s so refreshing

  • @lessienorwood9576
    @lessienorwood9576 3 роки тому +1

    God give me the strength please to see you in this 🙏🏾

  • @churchbouiemcclendon2254
    @churchbouiemcclendon2254 2 роки тому

    🙏 thank you for the beautiful message

  • @lovealways1321
    @lovealways1321 3 роки тому +2

    Sis you've really been there and I can relate to it 100%. You are an inspiration and I always thank you for that. Love and blessings to you 🙏🏾

    • @thekogmatters
      @thekogmatters  3 роки тому

      God bless you and thank you for your kind words🙏🏾🙌🏾🌹

  • @ambassadorforChrist7777
    @ambassadorforChrist7777 3 роки тому +1

    ✝️💞💜✝️💞💜✝️💞💜✝️
    Hallelujah and Praise the Lord Woman of God! Many blessings to you and your family!✝️💞💜✝️💞💜✝️

  • @vighblanka4408
    @vighblanka4408 3 роки тому

    Amen

  • @vontalawrence2799
    @vontalawrence2799 3 роки тому +2

    Millie god speaks to me through you thank you soo much going threw divorce

    • @thekogmatters
      @thekogmatters  3 роки тому

      God bless you and continue to follow the Lord as he leads you into green pastures🙏🏾🙌🏾🌹

  • @mariaheiuraitchener2329
    @mariaheiuraitchener2329 3 роки тому

    Im just so thankful to God for Him revealing your channel - so spot riiiight on where Im at .... Lord God I pray Your Anointing remain upon this precious daughter of Yours and ask that you will bless her with all of Your desires for her ❤️🌺in the mighty name of Jesus Christ amen, Aloha from Kauai

  • @avamichellejohnson7050
    @avamichellejohnson7050 3 роки тому

    Right on time! Thank You Jesus!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @brendajones9110
    @brendajones9110 3 роки тому

    Jesus thank you for grace and mercy. Amen

  • @shad5637
    @shad5637 3 роки тому

    Bless you woman of God received some painfull news today but i no longer what to be involved with a narcissist please pray i can find accomodation and still get my child been through this for so so long bless you

    • @thekogmatters
      @thekogmatters  3 роки тому

      Father God, I thank you for providing everything your beloved needs in this hour as she trusts you and follows your leading. I thank you for a supernatural miracle for residency and that her child stay in her care in the mighty name of Jesus! Thank you Father I give you all the glory honor and praise in Jesus name, Amen 🙏🏾 🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @itgirlautumn
    @itgirlautumn 3 роки тому

    wow 💕

  • @janiceclement7122
    @janiceclement7122 3 роки тому

    Omg !!! That was the exactly same things he done. Was acting just like you said, but my guards was up and i see Straight through him.Smh😇💓🙏

  • @markesastewart4741
    @markesastewart4741 3 роки тому

    I receive ... You shonuff talking too me woman of God .I forgive myself and my ex daddy an his family I realease choosing to speak life over death because lm determine to become better not bitter .When the rubber met the road i got serious fasting an prayering has heal me from this unequally yoke. Iam dating myself lm loosing the weight l dont need.l am finding me its beautiful! Experience . I refuse to go back to the vomit an I own it taking responsibility but sadly some people going to point fingers ..🙏💜💐I discovered my pain is my friend not my enemy.

    • @thekogmatters
      @thekogmatters  3 роки тому

      Hallelujah 🙌🏾🙌🏾🌹🌹🌹🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @pinklove5267
    @pinklove5267 3 роки тому

    Thank you for your obedience 💕💕

  • @michellealcoran5885
    @michellealcoran5885 3 роки тому

    Thank you for your message. Time to grow up! Your words helped

  • @church6457
    @church6457 3 роки тому

    Amen! It gets better and better each week! Great word from the Lord!

  • @tinamiller8357
    @tinamiller8357 3 роки тому

    Thanks you for this message once again on time! Many blessing my friend in Christ!

  • @Amitchell7594
    @Amitchell7594 3 роки тому

    Sister you are speaking! & you be straight checking us. "Use your common sense"☺

    • @thekogmatters
      @thekogmatters  3 роки тому

      👀☺️🙏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🌹

  • @silviaveisz3312
    @silviaveisz3312 3 роки тому

    Thank you sister for your advice and also for your prayer, it was really helpful. I hope when the time comes I could have the strength to do it, it's been 18 years of struggle with this man 😪, I can't do it anymore, I have no strength and I have nothing else to give him, the well is dry, God help me to do it, I know It's the right thing to do, and I've got the confirmation, all I need It's a safe place for me and my son, but I am waiting on the Lord, He promised me a place, He will provide cause His not a man that He should lie. God bless you dear sis for this word, for your testimony, please pray for me too .

    • @thekogmatters
      @thekogmatters  3 роки тому +1

      Wow I actually felt led to pray for you on your other comment and did so there without you asking. Please check it and know that I am standing with you. Also God is going to do what he said he would as you know. Trust the process and don’t be so hard on yourself. You will make it🙏🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🌹

    • @silviaveisz3312
      @silviaveisz3312 3 роки тому

      @@thekogmatters Thank you my dear sis, I saw it , thank you again. One more thing, I am from Romania, I just wanted you to know how far God word did it get.

  • @womanoftruth
    @womanoftruth 3 роки тому +1

    GREAT Word Sis!!! Love you so much! #sistersinchristarethebest

  • @shad5637
    @shad5637 3 роки тому

    God did expose tonight that he was with another woman and it is difficult as we have a son yes God has woken me up thank you Woman of God

  • @steadfast3888
    @steadfast3888 3 роки тому

    OMGOODNESS GRACIOUS OK WE SHALL SEE WHICH ONE IT IS

  • @roseofsharon2098
    @roseofsharon2098 3 роки тому

    Love it!! Thank you so much ❤️. Blessings

  • @kimberlybivens7509
    @kimberlybivens7509 3 роки тому

    God Bless You sister I’m listening. 🙏🏽

  • @niyavernice
    @niyavernice 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much! I have been struggling sexually but I rebuke pornography and masturbation in the name of Jesus! This soul tie WILL be broken in the name of Jesus!!!!!

    • @thekogmatters
      @thekogmatters  3 роки тому

      Yes! Hallelujah 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🌹

  • @daneallen7214
    @daneallen7214 2 роки тому

    If you're in confusion go to the bible. When I did this God spoke through the first paragraph I laid my eyes on. It said "If they were of us they would still be with us." This meant that person was not in the midst of the Lord's and my relationship.👍And they were a Christian also.

  • @steadfast3888
    @steadfast3888 3 роки тому

    Yes ll of that!!!!

  • @thelovelybrittany22
    @thelovelybrittany22 3 роки тому

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @riimak4575
    @riimak4575 Рік тому

    🙏🏽💝

  • @gavinastoddard9710
    @gavinastoddard9710 3 роки тому

    Miss Millie, I was herring ur w.w.w.gods work threw you I love herring you o god bless you a million times okok thank you u r awesome god love you thank you for all your help today and support god bless you and your family Amen

    • @thekogmatters
      @thekogmatters  3 роки тому

      Glory to God🙌🏾🙌🏾 God bless you!!

  • @mariaheiuraitchener2329
    @mariaheiuraitchener2329 3 роки тому +1

    yes pure stupidity and sillyness lol
    love your expressions sis , so familiar - thank you Heavenly Father

  • @theremnant1104
    @theremnant1104 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for this message..All glory 🙌 all honor 🙌 and all praise be to God the Father 🙌❤️🙏 and the Lord Jesus Christ 🙌❤️🙏 and The wonderful Holy Spirit ❤️🙌🙏 Yes , I am moving forward as well, chugging along as Millie says. lol But thank you Lord 🙌 I feel much better about myself I am going to start working out and losing a few extra pounds and I am trusting God , my Father 🙌❤️🙏 with my future.. NO more looking back , ever again! And absolutely NO going back to the same place I have been stuck for many years.. Thank You My Lord🙏❤️🙌 for getting me out of this toxic relationship 🥰🙌 I feel like a new person.. May our Lord God bless each and every woman Who is , or has been dealing with toxic Ishmael marriages or relationships ❤️🙏we must know who we are in Christ first , and we must trust our Heavenly Father .. 🙏 He is going to take care of us in every way ..🙌❤️ I know this with all of my heart. Be blessed my sisters in Christ Jesus🥰🙌❤️🙏… we must follow God‘s plan for our lives and our latter will be much better than our former. in Jesus mighty name ..🙌❤️🙏And God will restore the years that the cankerworm ate. Hallelujah 🙏glory to God ❤️🙌🙏and glory to our Lord Jesus Christ❤️🙌🙏 and glory to the wonderful Holy Spirit ❤️🙌🙏 what a wonderful message this was 🙏thank you so much for your obedience unto our FATHER GOD 🙏 and thank you 😊 for All of your help dearly beloved Millie🥰❤️🙏

    • @thekogmatters
      @thekogmatters  3 роки тому +1

      I’m so happy for you!!! Keep moving forward🙌🏾🙌🏾🌹🌹

  • @LilmamaXoXo3
    @LilmamaXoXo3 3 роки тому +2

    Do you have a video on here of how God confirmed to you that your husband who you were married to wasn’t your kingdom spouse? And then how did he lead you through a divorce?

    • @thekogmatters
      @thekogmatters  3 роки тому +3

      No not a specific one however once my testimony is complete I will do so🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @nicolenicki162
      @nicolenicki162 3 роки тому

      @@thekogmatters can't wait...I'm in a state of confusion and need total clarity about what i should do and how I will know when it's time to leave

  • @jewishbride5010
    @jewishbride5010 3 роки тому +4

    I do not want a man who can not meet my needs, I do not want to pamper any man either. I do want a man who is a leader and takes the initiative while being sensitive to his own and my needs. Looking for that man who can create the 'extra' instead of just taking! In accordance with 1 corinthians 7:3 in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah!

  • @amberc2665
    @amberc2665 2 роки тому

    I honestly thought I was the only one who believed in Christian women not being in toxic relationships. A lot of pastors preach for the woman to stay and try harder and be nicer when a husband is mistreating his wife. I never agreed and would get frustrated that Pastors are tearing down Gods daughters! It is truly blessing me to hear someone else out there is teaching the healthy way of relationship for woman! I can’t say how happy I am! Thank you so much woman of God!

  • @TheDesireeMonique
    @TheDesireeMonique Рік тому

    Them knees. 😂

  • @anitacrittenden6627
    @anitacrittenden6627 3 роки тому +1

    Hello

  • @steadfast3888
    @steadfast3888 3 роки тому +1

    Not physical but verbal emotio al and absolutely NOT STRONG BOUNDARIES IS THE PART THATS MY FAULT IM NOT PERFECT EITHER

  • @steadfast3888
    @steadfast3888 3 роки тому

    GOD HAS TOTALKY EXPOSED IT IN WVERY WAY YOUVE SAID I mean Luke to the point of him just almost blatantly doing it and I think he "Acts"ime he do t know like it would not surlrise me to find out he's been sporting her around we live tiny s.all town idk who she is tho still...