We reject women left, right and center. Next time how about making a video on why men actually have started to ignore and reject women and not play with the title.
You’re a conservative 👌🏻 they aren’t (it was obvious from their “...don’t talk about this don’t talk about that politics” and being ok with double standards in the favour of those that want equality. So saving you pennies is wise who knows when someone woke is going to cancel you out and you loose your job or bank loan
For those asking about negging: if I'm not wrong, it's a pickup artiste technique where you put down/insult/belittle the other person. The idea is to put them in a lower position so that they will be the one who tries to impress you instead of the other way around. The term negging is derived from the word "negative" (I think)
There is absolutely NO double standard to being late. It's unacceptable behavior for anyone, regardless of gender, to be late without notice. Within reason of course. It's one thing if someone blows a red light and crashes into you. It's another if you just don't give yourself enough time.
No woman has even talked to me in 20 years. All I do is work and cry alone at home wishing it would end. I'm already 59 and I feel like shit all the time.
It’s when you compliment a girl while insulting her to lower her self esteem and make yourself look better. An example would be like “you’re pretty smart for a girl” or “wow, you’re so kind I almost forgot you were fat”. Its not common anymore but it still exists sadly
@@TheBoomstickBros "wow you're so kind i forgot you were fat" is absolutely awful to say, but if you say something like "You know, you're actually pretty smart... for a girl" in a playful way, it will display confidence and masculinity and and as long as it's obvious that you're kidding it will only make her attracted to you (almost only works on above average looking girls)
Where do you draw a line between being "cheap" vs being frugal..? As a student, I want to go through school debt free, and am almost through doing that. I also intend to be financially independent one day, which involves watching my spending quite heavily now, so I don't have to in the future. But you'd say this is off-putting...?
My problem with eye contact during a conversation is that I get distracted in their looks and I completely get zoned out in what they're telling me. That's kinda why I speak while looking away hahahaha
I’m not cheap, I’m economical. I’m saving for our future (house, car, retirement, and potentially kids). Groupon and happy hour saves my pocket on many occasions.
If you don’t live in LA or even the USA, don’t bother to watch this video. Being cheap? European women don’t care about this as long you work, they’re independent and have their own job.
Okay, so. 1 smell good look good, 2 good manners, 3 good eye contact, and smile, 4 good conversations, 4 good topic's, 5 looks greatly independent, 5 good punctuality, 6 be honest, 10? don't tell her she looks beautiful, women expect so much from a guy it's unfair
Nate Pepin, yes, it's skewed toward woman. But who one's who have the best deal are the guys that woman feel natural attraction for. Average dude a lot of the times accept's subpar conditions, since all the good offers are for the minority I mentioned earlier.
Did the definition of rejection change or is it gender fluid? I thought rejection meant.... Rejection. Also every topic of conversation you mentioned, are people supposed to talk about the weather or just exchange Amazon wish lists? I can't speak for anyone else here, but if I can't discuss any of those topics, I won't be speaking long. Period
AWxInc oh ok i respect that but it is not unprofessional to do that. On the contrary the discourse is extremly professional and opens new horizons and doesn t close them. is it the permanent dealing with something that improves and brings new ideas for new designs or similar. I am an german architct and i speak from experience. I love your channel and will continue watching but this is a pity. But i also believe that guys like macklemore and g eazy does not have stylists, they have their own awesome and individual taste.
Well this video confirms it I'll never be good enough for any women. I'm just too flawed of a human being.I just can't do anything right there's too many things wrong with me.
Mostly all were common sense expect eye contact, eye contact can be tricky as you may look creepy if you stare too much. I know I have this problem as when I can feel that they get intimidated by me, I bailed out or stop looking completely. we
You should change your YT name back to Ashley Weston. It looks more official that way. Anytime I see your new name in my feed I automatically think it's spam
the shit thing about me that I don't like most of the time to eye contact while talking only to one person; I like to give them my ear so I can hear them clearly, for sure I sometimes give them my eye contact but only when the talking is done.
M H it's a pickup artiste technique where you put down/insult/belittle the other person. The idea is to put them in a lower position so that they will be the one who tries to impress you instead of the other way around. The term negging is derived from the word "negative" (I think)
Nicholas Tan ah ok got ya. Hm .. idk if that's just a girl's psychology, but as a dude if a girl approached me with a put down/insult/belittling comment, I don't think I'd be trying to impress her... would probably take it as an indicator that the girl had a vastly different outlook/attitude towards life, had been hurt and never forgiven the dude that hurt her, was just a rude person or egotistical, or ...ya I guess wanting attention and going about it in an abrasive way. I'd prob note it, be kind to her, etc, but it would prob move her into a 'no thanks' camp from the get go when it came to any sort of more than friends relationship... If it even moved to friends haha. Guess I couldn't do those pick up artist things tho lol.. bc I figure I wouldn't want a girl to act like that to me, so why would I act like that towards girls? 😁 Crazy stuff... thanks for the insight.
Aha, need to pick up a dictionary and look up the term rejection: rejection noun UK /rɪˈdʒek.ʃən/ US /rɪˈdʒek.ʃən/ C2 [ C or U ] the act of refusing to accept, use, or believe someone or something: The government's rejection of the plans is a setback for us. C2 [ C ] a letter, etc. that tells you that you have not been successful in getting a job, a place on a course of study, etc.: I've applied for ten jobs, but I've had ten rejections/rejection letters. C2 [ U ] the act of not giving someone the love and attention they want and expect: He never asked her to marry him out of fear of rejection. In short, turning someone's stomach by smelling bad is not rejecting them, nore is table manners. Its not even being rejected! you are not looking to initiate. A more appropriate (sticking in the R's) would be repulsed, or repulsing.
Cheap? Paano kung marunong ka lang mag impok or mag ipon para future? Dapat ba palagi kang bumili ka ng branded na kasuotan? Pwede naman maging simple lang. Pwede naman kayong kumain sa simpleng kainan lang. Pwede naman maging masaya sa mga simpleng bagay. Diba?
Since when is punctuality more important to men than women? I'm a man and I've found punctuality has nothing to do with gender, in fact I prefer working with women as I find them more reliable but that's my own experience.
I would like to add one more thing to this list. Bragging about yourself. Women hate cocky guys. Guys think women would throw themselves at them if they hear about what car they drive, how much money they make and how expensive something they have is. Please stop doing this gentlemen, you are killing your chances. Ask her more questions about her to show interest in her. Listen to what she says and comment on specifics of what she says. Guys listen is to what she says, you will surely hear her likes and dislikes and if you remember, that is brownie points.
One day woke up realized relationships lead to marriage and marriage is prison for a man. Now I walk to a different tune, avoid relationships all together.
I think this video is about ways you're repulsing women without knowing, not necessarily rejecting women, which I am determined not to do, women are a bit playful by nature, well atleast the women i am blessed to know anyway and to just reject them like that is not cool
You're using the wrong words for your title. You should change "reject" to "turn offs" Rejecting is when a woman will actually approach and hit on you and you don't return the ball. I think the closest example you got near to was eye contact during a conversation. But this is just a weird one because girls HATE it when guys stare at them. Right? It's creepy. And if you're in conversation it's trying too hard or being intimidating if you're just giving googly eyes. Women need to be more flexible. That's all there is to it. Stop making decisions based on 1 minute of impression and effort. Nobody is perfect. Feel a person out for awhile. It's not speed dating ffs. Chances are the only time a woman will ever approach is because they already know the guy pretty well. Like a co worker or a freind of a freind who is always showing up in social circles. And they do that thing where they'll just get their lady freind to ask you if you like her rather than a direct approach.
Why are you making it out that guys who are dating is extremely challenging compared to women, women should like you for you, women always say the generic expression "if you can't handle me at my worst you don't deserve me at my best" majority of men aren't gifted with amazing genetics, I've had cosmetic surgery to help me in the looks department even then, I'm underweight, pale skin, with long fingers and I did for myself not for approval of women
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We reject women left, right and center.
Next time how about making a video on why men actually have started to ignore and reject women and not play with the title.
Dude, yes. Your comment is so spot on
You’re a conservative 👌🏻 they aren’t (it was obvious from their “...don’t talk about this don’t talk about that politics” and being ok with double standards in the favour of those that want equality. So saving you pennies is wise who knows when someone woke is going to cancel you out and you loose your job or bank loan
This should be titled "10 ways you're repelling women...."
Goddammit. Emphasing my points with asparagus. So that's what I've been doing wrong all along
Lol! Sorry to kill it for you!
glebshevtsov hilarious
My dad emphasizes his points with a knife in his hand... it’s the worst!
I remember using a cup of coffee for that, one night that I drank 10 cups
For those asking about negging: if I'm not wrong, it's a pickup artiste technique where you put down/insult/belittle the other person. The idea is to put them in a lower position so that they will be the one who tries to impress you instead of the other way around. The term negging is derived from the word "negative" (I think)
Its always the men´s fault, even if he didn't anything wrong.
Some ppl fold their arms because it’s actually physically comfortable
There is absolutely NO double standard to being late. It's unacceptable behavior for anyone, regardless of gender, to be late without notice. Within reason of course. It's one thing if someone blows a red light and crashes into you. It's another if you just don't give yourself enough time.
What's more awkward than a lack of eye contact is the presence of eye contact coupled with judgemental/hostile/contemptuous expressions.
Oh yeah... 😒
I remember a guy looking at me like that and had no idea why he hated me so much
If I'm not giving you eye contact, I'm not feeling you.
Love your work, but vid should be titled 'reasons you're being rejected by women', not the other way around.
wth are you talking about
I reject a women by being cheap ? I am confused , as if any man likes being broke . Being cheap is not a form of rejection.
No woman has even talked to me in 20 years. All I do is work and cry alone at home wishing it would end. I'm already 59 and I feel like shit all the time.
You have the best user name on yt though! 😀
what is negging?
Bryan M making a backhanded comment, a subtle insult where the person you’re doing it to needs your approval. Manipulation.
Watch Kingsmen
It’s when you compliment a girl while insulting her to lower her self esteem and make yourself look better. An example would be like “you’re pretty smart for a girl” or “wow, you’re so kind I almost forgot you were fat”. Its not common anymore but it still exists sadly
@@TheBoomstickBros "wow you're so kind i forgot you were fat" is absolutely awful to say, but if you say something like "You know, you're actually pretty smart... for a girl" in a playful way, it will display confidence and masculinity and and as long as it's obvious that you're kidding it will only make her attracted to you (almost only works on above average looking girls)
How about making a video on 10 ways You're Rejecting Men Without Even Know it
Great idea!
ami nai Directed at gay men? I'm not sure if that is Ashley's expertise.
True but this is a mens chanel so it's meant to help bros.
Thanks for enlightening
+ami nai Great video idea for the gay men (like yourself) who watch this channel.
Where do you draw a line between being "cheap" vs being frugal..? As a student, I want to go through school debt free, and am almost through doing that. I also intend to be financially independent one day, which involves watching my spending quite heavily now, so I don't have to in the future. But you'd say this is off-putting...?
Yeah, real rich people are very frugal.
eye contact is not easy for everyone ...
Yeah I suck at it. If I get eye contact with a girl i’m like: 2 seconds at max or she will think i’m a pedofile
Montevideo true...but can be improved with practice
Sandeep Dhiman True.
Practice
Montevideo Yeah eye contact is extremely difficult for me it makes me feel nervous.
You always bring good energy in your videos.
My problem with eye contact during a conversation is that I get distracted in their looks and I completely get zoned out in what they're telling me. That's kinda why I speak while looking away hahahaha
I’m not cheap, I’m economical. I’m saving for our future (house, car, retirement, and potentially kids). Groupon and happy hour saves my pocket on many occasions.
groupon and happy hour is alot different than ppl busting out buy 1 eggmcmuffin get 1 free etc..
the concept is the same. Groupon and happy hour are two of the many ways I save money. I use coupon codes as well.
Lol what are you a soccer mom
Really bruh!!! I'm a college student. I don't have it like that as yet. I'm in the come up stage, so saving is curcial.
Thomas speaks the truth. This is what was meant. Frugal = awesome. Cheap in all ways, all the time = bad for everyone around you, male or female.
If you don’t live in LA or even the USA, don’t bother to watch this video. Being cheap? European women don’t care about this as long you work, they’re independent and have their own job.
10 ways to make sure women leave me alone. Apparently women haven't realized some men want to be left alone.
PREACH
Hey😤.
I Cross my arms cuz it comfortable
I don’t smile cuz its comfortable
Okay, so. 1 smell good look good, 2 good manners, 3 good eye contact, and smile, 4 good conversations, 4 good topic's, 5 looks greatly independent, 5 good punctuality, 6 be honest, 10? don't tell her she looks beautiful, women expect so much from a guy it's unfair
Sexual selection hasn't nor will it operate on fairness.
Mvp
Nate Pepin, yes, it's skewed toward woman. But who one's who have the best deal are the guys that woman feel natural attraction for. Average dude a lot of the times accept's subpar conditions, since all the good offers are for the minority I mentioned earlier.
Doing these things isn't just for woman, they improve your life
Is it really worth it for the coochie
If she fat, she done. It's not me, it's her lol
Did the definition of rejection change or is it gender fluid? I thought rejection meant.... Rejection. Also every topic of conversation you mentioned, are people supposed to talk about the weather or just exchange Amazon wish lists? I can't speak for anyone else here, but if I can't discuss any of those topics, I won't be speaking long. Period
My friend is dirty and has bad etiquette, he has a gf but I don't.
The nurse effect 🤔
Bad boys always get the girls don't listen to this crap
yep bad boys always get them, beacuse they choose the bad boy.
pls do a series with male celebrieties and their styles and start with G Eazy. I feel like it would boost your subscriber number massively
We will never do this because it's extremely unprofessional for an actual working stylist (Ashley) to comment or breakdown other stylist's work.
AWxInc oh ok i respect that but it is not unprofessional to do that. On the contrary the discourse is extremly professional and opens new horizons and doesn t close them. is it the permanent dealing with something that improves and brings new ideas for new designs or similar. I am an german architct and i speak from experience. I love your channel and will continue watching but this is a pity.
But i also believe that guys like macklemore and g eazy does not have stylists, they have their own awesome and individual taste.
love the videos, what watch is Dorian wearing?
nonsense! I emphasise my points with asparagus all the time!
Yeah, what am I supposed to use? Celery?
That's the problem, you need to be comfortable with yourself first, getting women by acting different than your true self never works.
I watched it a little to check if I was doing everything correctly to avoid women
What’s with the channel name? Why’d you change it from Ashley Weston?
Because she has business partner now? Aw x Inc?
Just a thought. Dunno
Audio is very low on this video.
I completely understand and you guys are absolutely right and I appreciate it.
As a man I don't agree with the double standard on punctuality. Respect of one's time is a two-way street.
Well this video confirms it I'll never be good enough for any women. I'm just too flawed of a human being.I just can't do anything right there's too many things wrong with me.
Mostly all were common sense expect eye contact, eye contact can be tricky as you may look creepy if you stare too much. I know I have this problem as when I can feel that they get intimidated by me, I bailed out or stop looking completely. we
Poor Dorian got the the small seat. Maybe have him be just slightly taller.
Thanks Ashley.. plz make a video on dating tips for Introverts with do's and don'ts..
Dorian has great taste in watches.
I really liked this topic, you should make more videos like these!
So ignore all the wonderful double standards, but make sure you FAKE the confidence. .easy as pie!
What does “negging” mean??!!
Nothing will work if you do it badly, untimely, and in an uncalibrated manner. And yes, that includes negging.
Ummm. Ill reject whoever I want. Thanks.
spoken like a true G. cut of the same cloth, we are dawg
Nice video,job well done
You should change your YT name back to Ashley Weston. It looks more official that way. Anytime I see your new name in my feed I automatically think it's spam
DjRussianBeats Agree.
The new name looks amateurish.
We're expanding outside of just me, so it will not make sense moving forward. Thanks for input, though!
Great info here, thank you.
I wish that eye contact thing would be a thing.
Nonsense
the shit thing about me that I don't like most of the time to eye contact while talking only to one person; I like to give them my ear so I can hear them clearly, for sure I sometimes give them my eye contact but only when the talking is done.
No problem
Hey goodmorning had a question Being overly passionate can be another one?
I’m rejecting woman by being poor.
Me :sees title..
Simple answer I don't care lol
dont assume they dont know it
Better title: 10 ways you're repelling women without even knowing it.
I think you are going to be a Tiger mom whether you have any Asian genes or not.
seanautube what’s a tiger mom?
Would be more accurately titled: how not to look unattractive to women.
So Dorian is wearing no pants, I guess.
What is “negging?” My native language is English and I’m from the US and I’ve never heard of this.
I’m rejecting women on purpose,
Juice ain’t worth the squeeze
I’ll keep my time, money & sanity thank you
You go girl!
That’s what I tell them when I’m done with them, “you go girl, right outside. You’re Uber is here” lmao
...what is "negging"?
The rest was pretty much common sense.
Good reminders.
And a lot of them regardless of people's sex.
M H it's a pickup artiste technique where you put down/insult/belittle the other person. The idea is to put them in a lower position so that they will be the one who tries to impress you instead of the other way around. The term negging is derived from the word "negative" (I think)
Nicholas Tan ah ok got ya.
Hm .. idk if that's just a girl's psychology, but as a dude if a girl approached me with a put down/insult/belittling comment, I don't think I'd be trying to impress her... would probably take it as an indicator that the girl had a vastly different outlook/attitude towards life, had been hurt and never forgiven the dude that hurt her, was just a rude person or egotistical, or ...ya I guess wanting attention and going about it in an abrasive way. I'd prob note it, be kind to her, etc, but it would prob move her into a 'no thanks' camp from the get go when it came to any sort of more than friends relationship... If it even moved to friends haha.
Guess I couldn't do those pick up artist things tho lol.. bc I figure I wouldn't want a girl to act like that to me, so why would I act like that towards girls? 😁 Crazy stuff... thanks for the insight.
Only classy women care about these things.
David Arbelaez
Sure, cause most women like guys who smell like the toilet at an indian restaurant and talk about pee while eating.
Aha, need to pick up a dictionary and look up the term rejection:
rejection
noun UK /rɪˈdʒek.ʃən/ US /rɪˈdʒek.ʃən/
C2 [ C or U ] the act of refusing to accept, use, or believe someone or something:
The government's rejection of the plans is a setback for us.
C2 [ C ] a letter, etc. that tells you that you have not been successful in getting a job, a place on a course of study, etc.:
I've applied for ten jobs, but I've had ten rejections/rejection letters.
C2 [ U ] the act of not giving someone the love and attention they want and expect:
He never asked her to marry him out of fear of rejection.
In short, turning someone's stomach by smelling bad is not rejecting them, nore is table manners. Its not even being rejected! you are not looking to initiate.
A more appropriate (sticking in the R's) would be repulsed, or repulsing.
Cheap? Paano kung marunong ka lang mag impok or mag ipon para future? Dapat ba palagi kang bumili ka ng branded na kasuotan? Pwede naman maging simple lang. Pwede naman kayong kumain sa simpleng kainan lang. Pwede naman maging masaya sa mga simpleng bagay. Diba?
Jose Britz Francisco a good wife is an investment. Making urself more presentable will increase ur chance to land a smart beautiful lady.
poor dude... some of us will never understand
Women have too high of expectations
Audio was kinda low for the video maybe you were to far from your mic idk
Being cheap is smart
Some more girl repellent: "Mom knows that I RULE the basement".
You're pretty, but not as pretty as the girl on my waifu pillow
wait most of those apply to me...
Since when is punctuality more important to men than women? I'm a man and I've found punctuality has nothing to do with gender, in fact I prefer working with women as I find them more reliable but that's my own experience.
did you style chadwick boseman because i think i saw you in a pic with him
So keep doing these things to piss women off? Gotcha 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Audio is pretty low in my headphones..
Joshua Peterika it is a poor quality recording, I have the same problem.
Maybe you’re going deaf.
I would like to add one more thing to this list. Bragging about yourself. Women hate cocky guys. Guys think women would throw themselves at them if they hear about what car they drive, how much money they make and how expensive something they have is. Please stop doing this gentlemen, you are killing your chances. Ask her more questions about her to show interest in her. Listen to what she says and comment on specifics of what she says. Guys listen is to what she says, you will surely hear her likes and dislikes and if you remember, that is brownie points.
^ Truth. Ignore at your own peril.
Why care about girls. I try not to look at girls but instead look at the guys
One day woke up realized relationships lead to marriage and marriage is prison for a man. Now I walk to a different tune, avoid relationships all together.
When you are going to make video for opposite gender.
I think this video is about ways you're repulsing women without knowing, not necessarily rejecting women, which I am determined not to do, women are a bit playful by nature, well atleast the women i am blessed to know anyway and to just reject them like that is not cool
Double standard for being late? IDK about all that
I rejected many women in past
You're using the wrong words for your title. You should change "reject" to "turn offs" Rejecting is when a woman will actually approach and hit on you and you don't return the ball. I think the closest example you got near to was eye contact during a conversation. But this is just a weird one because girls HATE it when guys stare at them. Right? It's creepy. And if you're in conversation it's trying too hard or being intimidating if you're just giving googly eyes.
Women need to be more flexible. That's all there is to it. Stop making decisions based on 1 minute of impression and effort. Nobody is perfect. Feel a person out for awhile. It's not speed dating ffs.
Chances are the only time a woman will ever approach is because they already know the guy pretty well. Like a co worker or a freind of a freind who is always showing up in social circles. And they do that thing where they'll just get their lady freind to ask you if you like her rather than a direct approach.
dorian is very lucky!
some men not like real bright lipstick and fingernail paint..too much make up..too bright..make up good when looks natural or lose to natural
Neggin? Word? I can think of multiple examples of why thats wrong.
Good then I'm doing things right by having unkempt hair, I don't want to be in a shity relationship
Or just winner the lottery/have lots of money.... none of these points matter.
Rejecting womqn feelis like your a god
You should do a fragrances recommendations video.
Why are you making it out that guys who are dating is extremely challenging compared to women, women should like you for you, women always say the generic expression "if you can't handle me at my worst you don't deserve me at my best" majority of men aren't gifted with amazing genetics, I've had cosmetic surgery to help me in the looks department even then, I'm underweight, pale skin, with long fingers and I did for myself not for approval of women
Eye contact don't mean much she could all ready be taken some just be day dreaming wish my man looked like that
I clicked on this video thinking this was going to be some weird SJW crap...
-but I was wrong, this is pretty helpful.
He is so cute nice guy. NICE GUY
You mean repelling women .....
What is Negging Ashley, I'm a mature guy from the UK and have never heard of this expression.
the first two are obvious
This was pretty lame, that woman wears the pants and I hate it.
Why don't you just make video explaining to women we aren't doing on purpose then? What nonsense.
D W - Come on, they have to find ways to shame more men . . . .