What happened to me and why i cut my hair

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  • What happened to me and why i cut my hair
    나에게 일어났던 일.. 그리고 머리를 짧게 잘라야만 했던 이유
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  • @adriennehilll
    @adriennehilll 2 роки тому +1260

    New hair on POINT 🔥🔥🔥

    • @jinandhattie
      @jinandhattie  2 роки тому +104

      💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

    • @kaiv4910
      @kaiv4910 2 роки тому +16

      @@jinandhattie i am judging you for this video. What an awesome person you are. Strong af 💪

  • @adriennehilll
    @adriennehilll 2 роки тому +1812

    Stay strong my love 🤍 better days are coming and we are all here for you. I have anxiety disorder and it’s honestly 10x more difficult to deal with it while in a foreign country.. sending so much strength and good vibes for you ❤️

    • @autumnnoelle9658
      @autumnnoelle9658 2 роки тому +5

      It really is! I also struggle with anxiety disorder and it feels so much more difficult to deal with it here..You're a strong person to Adrienne! I love and enjoy your videos :)

    • @DatsRocky
      @DatsRocky 2 роки тому +5

      I deal with it too! On a daily basis and it’s worse when I’m traveling anywhere. Anywhere that isn’t home.

    • @souzanasuzy4944
      @souzanasuzy4944 2 роки тому

      Go to the moskey you honna be okay be muslim sis

  • @raeanne8360
    @raeanne8360 2 роки тому +274

    Hey Hattie, this really hit close to home and brought me to tears. Your words of encouragement we’re powerful to me, more than you know. I will be on this journey with you, let’s keep fighting 💪🏾🇬🇧

    • @judyf3090
      @judyf3090 2 роки тому

      Same . I needed to hear this . Thank you !

  • @yvonnegrant5298
    @yvonnegrant5298 2 роки тому +132

    Hattie, after 30 years of being with my husband through major family illnesses, many happy times, and raising two boys, I've found that it is a good thing that we don't know what the future holds for us. The bad times will bring us down, but the spunky spirit inside of us will bring us better times. Your hair looks really pretty short so just listen to Jin. My hair journey also lead me to cut my hair short about a month ago......stress was not my friend and changed my hair.....so a haircut really helped. You are blessed with Jin and know that all of us here in UA-cam land will not judge you, but support you and pray that tomorrow is a little brighter for you. Also, short hair is so much fun to style.....change your part, get creative with the curling iron, and headbands look really great on short hair.....have fun with it.

  • @notmynaam5489
    @notmynaam5489 2 роки тому +571

    Every girl deserves a boyfriend/spouse like Jin. He is Hattie’s biggest encouragement, biggest motivator, cheerleader, supporter and the one who lifts her up more than anyone. Truly he is the best partner a girl can have, Hattie you are so so so fortunate, I wish you a lifetime of happiness together , im so happy to see that you guys are truly best friends❤it will be the best marriage !!

    • @pklass8718
      @pklass8718 2 роки тому +6

      Agreed! I need two like him… for my daughters, lol!

  • @kellimayor4580
    @kellimayor4580 2 роки тому +609

    I love you Hattie. You are a very strong, kind, genuine person. Stress can really impact you mentally, emotionally and physically. I'm glad you are doing your best to make yourself take control back from a negative traumatic experience. I think that is key in life is to not let a trauma drag you down and keep you down. You are amazing. You have a wide support in fans and Jin and family. Sending internet hugs.

  • @bethh5613
    @bethh5613 2 роки тому +123

    Sorry to hear you’ve had a difficult time! I imagine however that lots of viewers can relate & appreciate your honesty in speaking about it. I know I’ve felt like this before, and I think as difficult as some days may be, there is always a new tomorrow. ❤️ p.s. your hair looks so good, like a boss female movie protagonist 😍

  • @IsabelRodriguez-gb7tu
    @IsabelRodriguez-gb7tu 2 роки тому +51

    Okay I'm always like all for the long hair, but GIRL, that hairstyle genuinely looks so pretty on you! For real! It suits your face!

    • @hirozero146
      @hirozero146 2 роки тому +3

      I agree she looks best with short hairs

  • @oogaboogass
    @oogaboogass 2 роки тому +403

    I'm studying psychology,and I'm so glad you're talking about it and not hiding anymore it's the first step to healing!!all my love and support to you queen ❤️

    • @spotlight2531
      @spotlight2531 2 роки тому +1

      I don't know you but am about to enter collage.i want to learn psychology. Is it a hard subject and is it the only subject I have to learn if I want to

    • @oogaboogass
      @oogaboogass 2 роки тому +2

      @@spotlight2531 it is definitely harder than it seems with a minimum wage pay (in my country atleast) study is definitely harder with a salary on the low side, you can definitely take more subjects with it it depends on where you live fr. I would say go for it if you genuinely care about people and want to help not because of the money.

    • @oogaboogass
      @oogaboogass 2 роки тому

      @Hana☆ yes definitely!! I have anxiety btw also therapy helps I go to therapy for it and it's working so heal yourself before you heal others,even doctors get diseases yk lol it's all good

    • @shinjid3705
      @shinjid3705 2 роки тому

      @@oogaboogass wait dont u open ur own place when u finish? Cant u decide what price u charge for ur customers?

  • @fishfingers8441
    @fishfingers8441 2 роки тому +727

    Stay strong!!! I always get upset when online creators think they have this responsibility to share every detail of their up and downs with their audience so I felt relieved that you feel you can address what happened only to the extent your comfortable with. Even if it is more for legal reasons, I want you to know that you don’t need to feel inclined to share what you experienced at all unless a day comes you feel it’ll be helpful for you, we are always here regardless so don’t feel pressure to talk about that stuff!! Never knew I could feel so proud of someone I’ve never met haha, you’re one strong las, your new hair is beautiful and maybe will make you feel a lil weight off your shoulders I hope ❤️ take care of your self and well done Jin for your support, your more amazing than you realise ok xx

    • @jinandhattie
      @jinandhattie  2 роки тому +83

      Thank you!!!!xx

    • @srpluv
      @srpluv 2 роки тому +9

      @@jinandhattie awh, i love u guys!! take care of each other well and don’t let people take u down hattie!! and dw we love ur hair 🥺💘💞💞

    • @brandontrammel4581
      @brandontrammel4581 2 роки тому +1

      Facts

  • @madz1402
    @madz1402 2 роки тому +52

    going through a really hard time right now too and needed this to be honest. hattie you look amazing with that haircut. genuinely. makes me want to cut mine that short too. not only do i use my hair as my safety’s blanket, but it plays into my OCD as i have trichotillomania. so in a way, it’d probably be good for me to take that away
    inspiring

  • @user-tt9uw4ip9f
    @user-tt9uw4ip9f 2 роки тому +87

    영상에서 워낙 밝으셔서 이렇게 많은 힘든 일이 있을 거라곤 생각도 못했네요ㅠㅠ 이런 말 꺼내기까지 쉽지 않으셨을텐데 용기 정말 대단하세요!!👍 감정들을 숨기고 싶지 않고, 모든 걸 저희와 공유하고 싶다는 말에 감동받았어요:) 해티님 영상에서 꼭 밝은 모습만 보여주려고 노력 안해도 돼요! 저희는 있는 그대로의 해티님을 사랑하는 거니까요💗(물론 진우님도ㅎㅎ/ 이렇게 괄호에 진우님이 쓰신 자막이 인상깊어서 저도 똑같이 해봤습니다,,ㅋㅋㅋ) 그리고 해티님 머리 너무 예뻐요ㅠㅠㅠ 얼굴이 엄청 예쁘시니 뭘 하든 최고!!! Hattie you look pretty🥰 항상 응원하겠습니닷

  • @tamaramorrison2333
    @tamaramorrison2333 2 роки тому +104

    I'm glad you are seeking help, both with medication and therapy. You don't have to share with us, more than you're comfortable with. You are strong and you will get through all that you're going through. We support you and wish you great physical and mental health!! Your hair looks good at any length, so don't stress about it!

  • @sunduk0219
    @sunduk0219 2 роки тому +119

    Omg Hattie! 😍😍
    You looked super cool today! I told you that you look beautiful with short hair. It’s really suitable for you! You would be fine after few days you just need to get used to it cause you let the bad memories go with it! And I wanna say I’m always there for you and cheering you girl! 💕
    Also I love Jin’s reaction tho. He is so sweet and you guys are wonderful friends of us! Love you 😍
    Sora

    • @jinandhattie
      @jinandhattie  2 роки тому +16

      Omg thank you so much for being such an amazing friend!!!! 💖 love you too 💖💖💖

  • @katarinasakoschek5394
    @katarinasakoschek5394 2 роки тому +468

    So I just watched and HERE ARE MY THOUGHTS:
    1. It looks amazing - definitely feeling the Alice vibe. Think of all the cute outfits and hairstyles to come!
    2. I went through something traumatic too and decided to cut my hair off as a spiritual act of cutting away my past and dead ends. And it worked.
    3. I liked it at first but often missed my long hair. I never regretted cutting it though: it was something I HAD to do.
    4. Certain people in my life stopped talking to me ironically after cutting my hair and I realised cutting it did more than just cutting away bad vibes (it cut away people that no longer were good for me).
    5. I developed more and more confidence as the months went by as I no longer 'hid behind my hair' like you say (I did the same all my life till that point)... think of it like pruning the rose that you are - or shedding the dead leaves of your tree. You are shedding, cleaning, healing and growing.
    6. I was ever since taken more seriously in business (I have my own consulting business helping creatives and entrepreneurs make money online doing what they love) and I got more sales and clients than ever before.
    7. I felt more aligned in a spiritual sense to my true self and purpose: I started showing up for myself, for my team, for my clients, and for mny loved ones more than ever.
    8. I stopped people-pleasing as much. And I couldn't rely on my long hair to feel a sense of self worth anymore.
    9. I moved to France and travelled around Italy for a few months and met the most incredible, like-minded people.
    10. My hair is growing fast and I'm keeping it natural for as long as I can (the colour I had in for so long had damaged my hair really badly) and it's finally back to its natural strength and colour.
    11. I got a compliment the other day on my hair and it reminded me that beauty is a vibration, an attitude. Not a physical trait like hair. Hair is important but it means so much more than most people think. In certain traditions long hair symbolises wisdom, in others short hair symbolises power, confidence and fearlessness.
    12. I'm writing all of this to remind you of your own why. You wanted to cut your hair for a reason. To remind yourself of the real you. You have done it. You will have ups and downs but remember soooo many people love you. We all love you and support you 1000% even as strangers across the internet. Also, when it comes to your friendship breakup (these are the worst), there's a french saying: "une de perdue, dix de retrouvés" - meaning you lose 1 person, you find 10 more. Meaning that by letting go, you are creating new space for new people, things, opportunities, abundance, alignment.
    13. There is a reason we lose people in our lives too: we change frequencies all the time and the reason you broke up is because you were on such different wavelengths that there was no way you could still keep the bond. I don't know the situation but I want to remind you that this is all happening for your highest good and ultimate purpose. When we cut our hair we raise our frequency.
    14. You are enough. You are gorgeous, inside and out. You are helping SO many people just by being you. Keep going. Keep strong, like the strong soul you are.
    We love you!!!! You are gorgeous.
    Love, Katarina Sakoschek.

    • @gauravmukherjee7849
      @gauravmukherjee7849 2 роки тому +14

      This was not a comment, this was a thesis excerpt by a noble research scientist Katarina Sakoschek. Your findings are noble and will help everyone who faces this problem. Congratulations

    • @katarinasakoschek5394
      @katarinasakoschek5394 2 роки тому +8

      @@gauravmukherjee7849 I appreciate this so much - just based on experience !! hope it helps anyone going through something similar

    • @_winter_maryrose4684
      @_winter_maryrose4684 2 роки тому +6

      @@katarinasakoschek5394 thank you so much you have no idea that I needed this, thank you!💞💕✌️🙏 I am actually (getting out of quickly now!) going through a really hard time in my life and this was something I needed to hear to just give me that boost of energy and reassurance. (Even more by the fact that you on the other side of the world just so randomly! shared your experience of love with us). Im very positive rn, thank you💞💕❤️ 🙏🙏💕

    • @katarinasakoschek5394
      @katarinasakoschek5394 2 роки тому +4

      @@_winter_maryrose4684 I'm so happy this helped. I just felt compelled to share my experience in the hopes of helping someone like YOU

  • @Jirokun1337
    @Jirokun1337 2 роки тому +13

    Hattie looks so beautiful with new hair cut! Just remember, there's 1.6M ppl out there love what you guys do and all the positive energy you both bring in each video. We all here to support you 2!

  • @RoseRW
    @RoseRW 2 роки тому +47

    we love you hattie

  • @22emme22
    @22emme22 2 роки тому +123

    So sorry to hear you've been struggling. I too have been through trauma recently and also cut my hair from almost waist length(!) to bob length and it was so freeing for me as well. My hairdresser also cut mine too short lol but at least it's healthy and alive again. And it made me feel more like me. I'm slowly feeling more myself and I hope you find yourself again soon too. I really recommend a book called "The Body Keeps the Score" by Vessel van der Kolk. It's an incredible book about mental health and healing from trauma no matter what you've been through. It has lots of research on the best ways to heal from trauma as well. If you're worried about being triggered, you could always get someone to read it for you and highlight the parts that aren't triggering. I hope this helps, stay strong and well done for being brave enough to share your story. You're not alone. Lots of love from England ❤x

  • @adritasinha7039
    @adritasinha7039 2 роки тому +40

    just speaking about this to a community you have no idea how they will react to is the most courageous thing a person can do. Hang in there we all are here for you take caree

  • @marlennemartinez3197
    @marlennemartinez3197 2 роки тому +14

  • @cynkruse26
    @cynkruse26 2 роки тому +53

    Girl, that hairstyle is absolutely gorgeous on you!!!!! Jin was speaking literal facts. Keep feeling strong, and we’re all here to support! ❤️

  • @nourmohmoud460
    @nourmohmoud460 2 роки тому +106

    i have never related to someone that much i even cried with you, hattie we feel you and almost everybody has passed through a low part in our lives and its happens to make us stronger I'm so proud of you for sharing this with us and for being confident enough to free yourself by cutting you hair now its a new journey new hair new hattie i love you, stay strong your hair is also very pretty

  • @louisebutler3390
    @louisebutler3390 2 роки тому +9

    I’m sorry you’ve been feeling this way. Well done for reclaiming your mojo. You look gorgeous as usual. You’ve got this! Go Hattie! xx 🥰

  • @red23412
    @red23412 2 роки тому +2

    Stay strong Hattie, you are such a brave, strong and beautiful human being!!! ❤️ Everyone is here for you. I'm currently feeling lost because of something that has happened and I don't really like myself atm, so I'm going to follow your lead, thank you Hattie 💜 you can do this!!! (I love your new hairdo it suits you) 🥰

  • @Itsmanila
    @Itsmanila 2 роки тому +106

    Hattie. Thank you for this video. I've been going through a long and tiring journey of getting my happiness and confidence back and to know I am not alone makes me feel so much stronger than I felt an hour ago. I like the idea of all of us going through this journey in obtaining our true selves back. And your hair looks amazing!!!!! You could shave your head and still rock it, girl! Much love!

  • @korean__world
    @korean__world 2 роки тому +67

    Hattie we love you so much!!!! We want the best for you, don't feel alone we are all here for you!!!

  • @TessaBetke12
    @TessaBetke12 2 роки тому +26

    Thank you for even telling us the bare minimum Hattie. I can’t imagine what you and people who’ve felt like you have been through because I’ve never been through it myself, but whatever horrible things happened I’m so happy you’re taking small steps to go into a better era. That goes for everyone too. I’m happy that you are venturing into a new era ❤️ I’m rooting for everyone that’s going through this

  • @lillyroehr3457
    @lillyroehr3457 2 роки тому

    First of all
    It looks amazing Hattie! You look absolutely beautiful!
    I went trough a lot myself as well and felt way better after getting a new hair cut. Many people don’t understand that, but it just gives more confidence and makes you feel strong and independent again. It really helps overcome the trauma. I really hope you feel better soon and I’m extremely proud of you for making this video!

  • @Soobakguthartgi
    @Soobakguthartgi 2 роки тому +6

    진짜 장난없다 너무예쁨… 나도 얼마전에 인생을 나눈 친구랑 인연을 끊어서 해티의 기분을 비슷하게나마 느낄수 있어서그런지 넘넘 안아주고 싶음..
    근데 진우 반응 ㄹㅇ임 내 눈앞에 해티가 저러고 나타나도 난리쳤을거임 진짜 너무너무 예쁨 ㅠㅠㅠ

  • @user-ue3jz7ks3l
    @user-ue3jz7ks3l 2 роки тому +8

    해티 언니는 뭘 해도 다 아름다워요💜
    짱짱 강하니까 다 이겨낼 수 있을 거에용
    그리고 말하기 싫으면 앞으로도 굳이 힘들게 설명하지 안 해도 돼요🫠💛
    해티 언니 화이팅🌸🌸🌸

  • @suef.8969
    @suef.8969 2 роки тому +39

    Hi Hattie, I go by the saying: every stage of our life we meet someone for a reason and that person we think we will never leave, but it's not the case because people come and go (like seasons) into our life to teach us something or be there for us for sometime, some stay and some go for a reason. I understand what you're going through. I've been through the same thing I cut my hair when i was no longer friends with my only best friend 2 years ago and we were best friends for 10 years. I always remember the good memories with my friend but same time it was best for us to let go. People change but life keeps moving on, we need to keep moving too. Wishing you all the best and your new hair looks cool it's a nice change 😊

  • @Bunny._..-.
    @Bunny._..-. 2 роки тому +19

    Girl idk if you’ll see this but I absolutely adore that hairstyle on you. It looks really good. I wish I could could pull off that length :/

  • @justalittleiris823
    @justalittleiris823 2 роки тому +58

    We’re all here for you❤️ I’ve dealt with severe anxiety my whole life, it does get easier it just takes time. I went through a very traumatic event in 2020 and I’m still dealing with it. We all love you Hattie and wish you the best❤️❤️💗❤️💗💗❤️

  • @shannonheartsuu
    @shannonheartsuu 2 роки тому +63

    I’m so glad you shared this with us. I hope you can find your way back to your full self again and take time to process it all and leave it behind. I’m so excited for your hair btw, now I really want to see the Alice styled hair. ❤️

  • @valeriemellman6485
    @valeriemellman6485 2 роки тому

    Im so proud of you hattie it genuinely looks amazing on you, it would also look good with some thin curtain bangs. Were all here to support you!

  • @abbeyberning
    @abbeyberning 2 роки тому

    Hattie I genuinely love your hair! I’ve always been amazed at how great you and Jin are are stopping the stigma behind mental health. I’m just sorry you’re having to deal with such a majorly stressful situation. I’m wishing you the best ♥️

  • @switzerland5550
    @switzerland5550 2 роки тому +27

    해티 언니ㅠㅠㅠㅠ🥺🥺 밝은 영상 뒤에는 힘드셨다니.. 넘모 슬퍼요 끄흑ㅜㅜㅜㅠㅠㅠㅠ 그래도 다시 기운 차리고!! 스스로 다시 이겨내려고 하는 모습이 멋져요 ⭐️⭐️ AND HATTIE, REALLY REAALY YOU LOOK PRETTY 😭🤍🤎 진짜로 숏컷 너무 이쁜데요..? 언니 보고 현타왓잖아요ㅠㅠㅠㅠ 앞으로도 응원할게요💕 행운이 가득하기를🍀🍀 LUCKY

    • @switzerland5550
      @switzerland5550 2 роки тому +2

      Wow 우왕!!! 하트 곰아워요😽☺️

  • @stelakehayova774
    @stelakehayova774 2 роки тому +23

    Hattieeee omgg you're soo incredibly beautiful and strong and just the most amazing thing on tjis planet!!! I swear when i saw the new haircut i was in awe...... You're so precious to everyone here, and we all love you soo so much you have no idea ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Rauhwassermeer
    @Rauhwassermeer 2 роки тому +1

    You look absolutely STUNNING Hattie 😍
    #ladybonerincoming
    stay STRONG! You can do this! I have struggled for the past 4 years with my mental health, but this year I decided to leave that unhealthy mindset behind me and start to SHINE again ♡
    it's just in our stupid heads!!
    ... & always keep the law of attraction in mind ♡
    WE can do this! YOU CAN DO THIS HATTIE!!
    Rise like a Phoenix - you're such a lovely and heartwarming human Hattie! And always remember that Jin is right by your side - together everything is possible!

  • @charlottedelautre6433
    @charlottedelautre6433 2 роки тому +46

    It's sooooooooo lovely !!! Don't worry, take your confidence back 'cause you look sooooooo pretty with this hair ! Stay strong and believe in yourself ! You are a beautiful person and don't forget that. When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show her that you have a thousand reasons to smile. All I want for you guys, it's happiness and love ! I sincerely hope that my comment will help you Hattie...

  • @SilverStormPax1996
    @SilverStormPax1996 2 роки тому +80

    Hattie you are a beautiful, inspiring woman! The short hair looks beautiful! ♥ As hard as I know this was for you, thank you for speaking on the subject of mental health. As someone who struggles with anxiety, depression, and ptsd, youve been a massive, massive inspiration to me. ✨ As cliché as it is to say, I support you. I hope to encourage you. I know in the reality of things, I'm just someone from the internet typing out words on a comment section. But I do understand some of what you are going through. Breaking it off with a best friend, is extremely hard. Especially, when they are the ones to betray you. One of the sayings I have about depression that really seems to stick with people who don't struggle with it, is this. I tell them. "Do not pretend to understand. Do not pretend to know what we, who struggle, are going through. Until you have held a knife in your hands, only to have the courage to put it back, walk away, and rebuild your life, you wont understand. You will never understand what it is like to be so low, to be so down, to be so completely broken that you feel there is only one way out, only to have the strength, by no one else but your own strength, to get back up and fight like hell." This usually causes people who take mental health to lightly to take a step back and think for second. Struggling with mental health isn't a choice either, to many people think we choose it. We don't choose it. We don't want to feel that way. Telling someone who struggles with mental health to "think happy thoughts" "it could be worse" "its not that bad" "youre just dramatic" when you tell someone who struggles these things, you are breaking them down further. You aren't helping them. Sorry I know this is a long comment. Very passionate about this subject. Just know Hattie, that even though I am just an internet username on YT 😊, I support you, my heart understands, and Your light shines bright. You are and will accomplish such great things in this world. ♥

  • @khloecalvert9809
    @khloecalvert9809 2 роки тому +40

    Stay strong Hattie! I love you, and if I could give you a massive hug, I would. I'm so proud of how strong you have bee. You truly deserve the world. I love how genuine and kind you are, you honestly seeem like a great person to be friends with and to be around with. If you feel that you ever need to focus on yourself and your mental health and you feel like you need to take a break, go for it! You absolutely deserve it! Thank you so much for being honest with us, your fans. We love you! Continue being strong, you've got this! I love you!

  • @user-hr3cr4mu7m
    @user-hr3cr4mu7m 2 роки тому +2

    해티 새로운 스타일 너무 시원시원해보이고 예뻐요!! 진심으로 칼단발 느낌이라 ㅠㅠ 최소 안 어울린다고 걱정은 하지않으셔도 됩니다😳
    그리고 해티 어려운 일이 있었다고 하니 너무 마음이 아파요 ㅠㅠ 긍정적인 면모 뒤에 어떤 일들이 있었으면... 하지만 지금 치료 잘 받고 있다고 하니 너무 다행이에요!! 이 시기가 지나가면 한층 더 강해져있을거에요💪🏻 해티 힘내고 진우님도 진티들도 파이팅!

  • @oakpkdude
    @oakpkdude 2 роки тому +7

    After watching how sweet and supportive Jin is I would think you would be a very happy girl because he clearly loves you very much.

  • @_alpha_n_the_witch
    @_alpha_n_the_witch 2 роки тому +12

    You look so pretty with this hairstyle, Hattie💕 I'm also going through some hard times rn, so your intro made me feel a lot better, thank you for that and thank for opening up to us🤗 Sending you the biggest hugs, we love you sm💜

  • @queenVivi1
    @queenVivi1 2 роки тому +25

    Hi Hattie. Thank you for being open with us. I’ve experienced trauma in my childhood and never went to therapy. Your video encourages me to get help. I’ve always struggled in silence and I think it’s time to end that cycle. Thank you for sharing your story. 😊

  • @melsherm8161
    @melsherm8161 2 роки тому

    Sending you loveeee all the way from the States Hattie! Your hair looks BEAUTIFUL 💕 I saw the pictures on Instagram and I think it’s a really great look on you. I’m proud of you & will support you always ❤️

  • @vantae0613
    @vantae0613 2 роки тому +1

    i love the new look! take care of yourself hattie 💗

  • @abigailquirk8138
    @abigailquirk8138 2 роки тому +20

    I frickin love your hair ngl - I think it makes you look confident and glowing! I have suffered through things that left me feeling empty and not myself, but I am starting to take my life back and learn it only makes us stronger in the end. Whatever you have been through and continue to fight through, you've got this! We all love you

  • @inesouehbi2611
    @inesouehbi2611 2 роки тому +29

    We love you Hattie, you’re really strong and powerful. I can’t imagine how difficult it’s for you to talk about your situation, so 👏👏. And we’re all here to support you. We’re your friends/family/subscribers so we love you and are proud of you. Idk what happened but I’m sorry

  • @girlwith4cats
    @girlwith4cats 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for trusting us enough to be vulnerable and share what you’re feeling 💜 I haven’t felt myself since the start of the pandemic. It’s been two years and each day I feel less hopeful that’ll I’ll feel like me again. So thank you for your encouraging words, it uplifted my spirits a bit 🥲💕 Sending lots of love your way!

  • @user-my9tw8kd1m
    @user-my9tw8kd1m 2 роки тому +5

    해티님 힘내요!! 내가 젤 좋아하는 유튜버 해티님 ^^ 앞으로는 항상 행복한 일만 생겼음 좋겠어요 해티는 항상 이뻐요

  • @alainadacosta1222
    @alainadacosta1222 2 роки тому +19

    It looks so cute Hattie! It accentuates your piercings and suits you. Also, thank you for sharing about your struggles, sending support!

  • @ElizabethOB1998
    @ElizabethOB1998 2 роки тому +30

    Hattie, you are so strong and amazing. I know you were using a bit of comedy as a coping mechanism but you are such an amazing person and your guys' videos put a smile on my face whether I am having a bad day or good day. I know the feeling of cutting your hair as an attempt to find yourself again and it doesn't go exactly how you had planned. However, Hattie, your hair looks great x

  • @lilybethbibby2
    @lilybethbibby2 2 роки тому +15

    I've been struggling with PTSD, depression and anxiety since I was 14, thankyou for being brave and showing me im not alone that it's OK to struggle and that I need to get my spark back and not let this control me anymore😇 love you guys, and damn you look hot with that hair

  • @LuisLuxe
    @LuisLuxe 2 роки тому

    um hattie, you look STUNNING. the cut makes you look more youthful and brings out your bone structure more! def more model-esque lol

  • @TheJoycee112
    @TheJoycee112 2 роки тому +25

    Thank you for sharing. That must've been really difficult to actually say out loud. I've also been having mental health problems and I'm too scared to actually get help so all I do is texting my friends about it. Its good to hear/see that you want ti feel better and I'm happy that Jin is there for you. Your hairstyle looks good on you! Maybe get a few cute/cool hairclips to make it more fun?

  • @csk88
    @csk88 2 роки тому +11

    You look gorgeous with your new hair style Hattie!!

  • @librakels3844
    @librakels3844 2 роки тому +1

    Your new hair is giving 90's celeb/model vibes and I'm so here for it! I really love it; it looks so good on you!

  • @LR11306
    @LR11306 2 роки тому

    So proud of you! Also, that 90s type of haircut is IN STYLE right now!! I swear I've seen it all over Instagram go look!! So cute!

  • @marusatopa5670
    @marusatopa5670 2 роки тому +5

    we are really proud of you hattie

  • @mattiehill2796
    @mattiehill2796 2 роки тому +5

    You are amazing! I have loved watching all of you all’s videos! I just have to say, Hattie, I am going through something very similar as you in this moment of life. I have been feeling very low, depressed and somewhat numb and you have given me so much joy in your videos. I will support you all no matter what! And Thank you Hattie for giving great advice and helping me get my confidence and control of my life back! Sending so much love! 💜💜 Love the new hair cut! Very beautiful!

  • @cloudiaryeo
    @cloudiaryeo 2 роки тому

    The hairstyle looks amazing on you!! With sincerity and love ❤

  • @joanna980
    @joanna980 2 роки тому

    You look stunning 🤍 We love you Hattie, stay strong!

  • @moomooflower123
    @moomooflower123 2 роки тому +11

    I'm sorry to hear that you've been going through a lot, but I'm glad to know you have multiple pillars of support to help you during this rough time. Thank you for trusting us enough to share it with us🥺 I know how tough it can be with mental health... so I wish you the best during this healing journey of yours, you have my support!!! ❤❤❤ Also, that haircut is the absolute CUTEST!!! Short haircuts like those are great for rocking so many elegant/chic, cute, fierce, girl crush, etc looks 😁😁 Even though it wasn't what you were going for... I think you pull off this haircut amazingly~ IT LOOKS SO GOOD!!❤

  • @eunjioppa4803
    @eunjioppa4803 2 роки тому +83

    Hattie, first of all, you look absolutely incredible with that new hair. You're genuinely one of the prettiest people I've seen in my entire life. Even if you put a trash bag on your head you will still look like a goddess to me. And secondly, you opening up and your words about mental health are what I really needed to hear right now. I'm also going through a lot. This is the most I've ever had to deal with in my life. I have a loving boyfriend who is very very far from me and I feel very alone most of the time, I'm also very depressed and anxious, to the point where even my boyfriend sometimes gives me anxiety without any reason. But I'm trying not to give up and fight every day. It's hard. very hard to be fighting to feel happy and peaceful and it's so easy to get down the negative spiral. And It makes me feel very heard and seen, listening to you. You gave me the comfort I've been needing for a very long time. So, thank you for that. I hope and I believe that we can get through this and we can gain ourselves back sooner or later. I love you both a lot and I wish nothing but the best. Sending all of my love to you

  • @zedx6674
    @zedx6674 2 роки тому +52

    Hey Hattie. I can't say that I know exactly what you're going through but I have had PTSD anxiety and depression from a young age and I know how difficult it is to cope with these things. So glad you shared this with us. Never been able to relate to a person more. I'm just a drop in this ocean of people who love and care about you. Stay strong. You can overcome this, like you said - life is too short. Love you. Internet hugs x ❤️

  • @kylahknowles7460
    @kylahknowles7460 2 роки тому

    Thank you for opening up about your struggles!!! Praying for you!!

  • @theafourie2747
    @theafourie2747 2 роки тому +3

    Hattie you look so beautiful with the short hair! Thank you for sharing with us. I had gone through a really stressful and depressing time some time back. I was reminded that I was able to work through that and become the person I am now even though it was hard. I support you and I hope you can find your full self again! 💜💜

  • @katarinasakoschek5394
    @katarinasakoschek5394 2 роки тому +13

    keeping this vid as an open tab to watch now. here for you x

  • @FionaAWolfe01
    @FionaAWolfe01 2 роки тому

    Prayers and love, Hattie. Your a gorgeous lady.

  • @lilumartini
    @lilumartini 2 роки тому

    I love this! Jin is so right! Love your humor together! And love jin's support of hattie so much!

  • @ambarista5064
    @ambarista5064 2 роки тому +3

    Hattie, thank you! What you said in this video has helped me immensely. My mental health has been on the rocks, most especially for the past couple of years, and I had begun to feel pretty alone. Thank you so much for helping me to feel I’m not alone in this! You can and will get through this, love you tons Hattie! 💕

  • @Enyde59
    @Enyde59 2 роки тому +3

    Oh my dear Hattie, you look beautiful! For us you're really pretty, and that's the energy you are transmitting! I completely understand how you feel, I'm on that journey too! Let's keep moving forward with all the struggle, happy moments, and learning! Let's live! Jin is so cool and so kind for supporting you like this! Love both of you! Sending light! ❤️💞🕯️🕯️

  • @Margarita.Nazarenko
    @Margarita.Nazarenko 2 роки тому +1

    Hattie. You really are pretty. Really

  • @nian__2859
    @nian__2859 2 роки тому +4

    Hattie I really appreciate your honesty ❤️ I just wanted to let you know that you're loved and I'm really really proud of you. Glad to see Jin's support and your decision for a change (I know that it's not easy). Don't rush yourself and take your time, it's okay! There's no need to overdo yourself. Take care ❤️

  • @ContoseFadas.
    @ContoseFadas. 2 роки тому +3

    Sweet Hattie! You’re so loved! 💓 just know that. And also I’ve always thought you look stunning in short hair! Sending you energies of healing and love.
    Also just to add: I did the same thing last year! My hair as it is in my profile picture is right when I was in my lowest and wanted to do something radical. I’ve kept it that way ever since. It did help me!

  • @rikhmjustsomeguywithmousta4971
    @rikhmjustsomeguywithmousta4971 2 роки тому +8

    Stay Strong Hattie, we are with you.
    I’m glad you have someone like Jin who can share your emotions and make you feel more comfortable in this phase
    The Hair Looks Good

  • @TiffARMY
    @TiffARMY 2 роки тому

    your hair is gorgeous! And if you feel it is too sort, it won't take long for it to grow more. I love you Hattie! Whatever you are going through, please know we are with you and love you! Jin, please continue to be the amazing support system you have been for her.

  • @ngozichukwukaawanyai3043
    @ngozichukwukaawanyai3043 2 роки тому

    You look Gorgeous Hattie 🔥🔥🔥 just know the fam is here for you😘

  • @elizabethblueful
    @elizabethblueful 2 роки тому +5

    Hello Hattie! I want to say that you are strong, courages, and beautiful! 💪
    Thank you so much for this video, and I’m sending virtual hugs to you. By the way, your new hair cut is amazing! You are rocking it, and we love you!!!!! 💜💜💜

  • @lauraberner1575
    @lauraberner1575 2 роки тому +31

    Girly, I understand what you're going through and I'm so glad that you're making an effort to build yourself back up again. I've also had to make some changes in my life recently due to my deteriorating mental health, and I've already begun to feel so much better! Stay strong and we can get through this together! This includes anyone who is feeling this way 😊 Also, your hair looks stunning! 😍💇‍♀

  • @inadahl1216
    @inadahl1216 2 роки тому

    Love the new haircut, it looks soooo good on you Hattie

  • @larazimmer6399
    @larazimmer6399 2 роки тому

    You honestly do look pretty with your new hair cut! It suits you so well! 🥰

  • @Shubham-mt9ur
    @Shubham-mt9ur 2 роки тому +15

    Don't be disappointed we all are with you Hattie . We love you both Hattie and Jin . Stay safe and healthy 💝

  • @Nekochan093
    @Nekochan093 2 роки тому +4

    Honestly Hattie you’re so pretty you suit any hair style! I know what you mean about using hair as a comfort blanket. I didn’t cut my hair for about three years because I felt like I was holding onto it because of a traumatic relationship I had. It took me a while to be able to cut it off but I finally did it! In time we will work our trauma out. You should be so proud of yourself x

  • @TheClionaJ
    @TheClionaJ 2 роки тому +2

    Stay positive 🥰. I know what it feels like coming out the other side of traumatic incidents and how getting a transforming hair cut represents a new start! Keep being you and keep being strong! This too shall pass 🥰

  • @joeyyyff9642
    @joeyyyff9642 2 роки тому +3

    We're here for you girl! You do what you Gotta do! I'll be praying for you...you're so strong I know you'll bounce back stronger than ever before

  • @happy_0512
    @happy_0512 2 роки тому +3

    숏컷 너무 예뻐서 영상 멈춘건 안비밀.. 진짜 인생머리 아닌가요ㅠㅜㅠ? 너무 예뻐요!!!!!!!! 그리고 힘내세요!!!! 지금도 그대로 소중하고 빛나요!

  • @teahyungisafurry5857
    @teahyungisafurry5857 2 роки тому +4

    Hattie I'm here for you stay strong you got this

  • @hannalarsson985
    @hannalarsson985 2 роки тому

    Your hair looks gorgeous!!!!! A side part moment could look really good as well I feel like? It’ll give it like a ”freer” look? Thanks for sharing this with us, you’re so strong for doing that and I feel like it gave me some strength as well

  • @savannahalexandre4198
    @savannahalexandre4198 2 роки тому +2

    I actually discovered your channel a couple years ago when I was very depressed, not knowing how to be myself anymore. And your channel, the pureness of you both, and honest and joyful community you foster actually helped me feel better. It has taken a long time to get back to myself, and I’m not all the way there yet, but thank you for being you. I wish you the best on you’re journey to recover your fantastic self. 🥰

  • @user-re2ls5fs8m
    @user-re2ls5fs8m 2 роки тому +5

    해티❤ 넘 예쁜걸요! 요새 올라온 영상 보면서 기운 없어보이고 힘든 표정이 보여서 짠했는데 얼른 행복한 기억들로 채워지길 바래요!! 항상 해티의 밝은 기운 보면서 에너지 얻어갑니다!! 해티여서 예쁨❤

  • @constance4869
    @constance4869 2 роки тому +3

    This hair is really cute, you have a beautiful face. It will grow back in no time anyways. 🥰
    Do more of what makes you happy and leave everyone else's opinions at the door. You deserve to live your best life.

  • @Olivia-wm5zk
    @Olivia-wm5zk 2 роки тому

    you look fantastic with your new hair and we all are always there for you hattie!💓

  • @user-oz3gp7ng3s
    @user-oz3gp7ng3s 2 роки тому

    Thanks for sharing your feelings Hattie. You look pretty 🤩 gorgeous ❤️

  • @jadefornini
    @jadefornini 2 роки тому +4

    Fighting Hattie we love you 💗💗

  • @JayleeEnn
    @JayleeEnn 2 роки тому +5

    Seeing this late, but just wanted to say you still look lovely with short hair, Hattie. You have the face to pull it off!
    Happy healing ❤️

  • @alii3210
    @alii3210 2 роки тому

    hii hattie!! i’ve been following you guys for a little while now i just wanna say i am so proud of you i can’t imagine the pain and struggle you went through and i’m happy you took the time to talk about how you have been how your mental health is idk what you went through but i promise it will get better there always light at the end of the tunnel don’t forget that!! And i do been living the same situation as you mentally these past few months due to my ocd and toxic parents.. i really needed to hear that so thank you so much for saying that with your whole heart i love you

  • @btsarmyhere4359
    @btsarmyhere4359 2 роки тому +1

    You're an amazing inspiration Hattie we all love you.