Sorry mama you had to go through this because of your own father. I think is best to save the money and further support your sisters instead of paying lawyers.. given that they are older the case will get hectic and just drain you❤️❤️❤️
Yooooo I was also in the process of suing my father for maintenance, I gave up because the whole process was exhausting and mentally draining me and affecting my studies 😭😭...Just give him to God ,I can't imagine how hard it is ..but if you still have strength push it for your sister 😭😭
Yes ninja, these ladies think they are going to live forever and when they pass on their kids fall into literal poverty. They don’t want to protect their kids from the grave. They place their ego before their own children ai.
Some men really do shocking things, I have a friend who’s dad worked at transnet but was not supporting, so the mom went to get a court order to garnish his salary and he decided to rather quit his good paying job!! Haibo!
@@Noceepouryaz we are not asking for much even if you are not there atleast zama something,,now you have to leave your job because you don’t wanna support your child
Ohh mama🥺 Men are just something else hle, i can't imagine how draining it is to go in and out of court coz of your own Father hle! Love and light to you and your sister 🕯️God will definitely come through for you guys!! Your breakthrough is near.
You are 1000% correct queen ninja 😢 our justice system fails us dismally. I remember when I took my parents to maintenance in 2018 n both my parents were ordered to pay 400r each my dad never bothered even once to pay n nothing was done to him😢 How I wish my mother could have chose a better gent to father me!😢
It's so great you're fighting for your sister. Well done, Owamie. ❣️ Sending you positive vibes and prayers for strength to see this through. I know you will. 💪🏽💯
The system fails us so much i raised my son with my current husband for all his life life his father rocks up as a convicted criminal cries foul that he has a right to his child and boom he's granted primary custody
The government employee must nominate beneficiaries. There nomination forms to be completed. What I noticed is people working in local offices do not get a lot of information
It depends what the agreement was. When their mother passed on, the sister was still under 18, there is a good chance that they ordered the dad take everything under the impression that he will take care of the child
I think what you needed is a lawyer, the legal system will give you the run around when you don't have legal representation, e.g. the issue of assets, if you had a lawyer, they would hire an investigator, be able to subpoena all the necessary documentations and witnesses for your cause. I know lawyers are expensive and most people can't afford, but if you get a good lawyer, they are effective when it comes with dealing with the legal system, e.g. the issue of the pension fund, they had no right not to implement the garnish, if your father was not happy with getting zero from the pension fund, it is up to him to appeal that garnish, not for the pension to decide not to implement it
And guess what, with all the systems of this country rotten to the core....we've still kept the biggest contributors to the current state in power. How on earth can we expect better than what's happening now?! We're on our own 😢
you are a very strong woman ninja,and i respect you for that,i so wish i also had the courage to fight for my kids maitanance like you fighting for ur baby sista,this justice system is failing us when it comes to that,but i pray that God be with you in this journey,may he give you all the strength u need.❤❤❤❤❤
Hi ninja please do a video explaining ad advice about the dervoce process of someone who doesn't have money, where to go, how to start a process what they must do if they don't have money to start the dervoce process❤❤
Yoooh ninja im so soorry 😮😮 and in all this what is your mamkhulu doing to help?? Is she siding with your father/ she is the reason behind all this mathata?? Cos i feel that she should be the one calming the old man and put some sense to his head to love his kids
Where are the child rights organisations in cases like this. Because those are the platforms, you should be lobbying because the assumption that the remaining parent is entitled to spousal support should benefit the under aged children. Lobbying should be your best bet because even on an international level the SA legal system would have a case to answer on its children protection mandate for which the SA government is a signatory to, and may well be getting international funding for via UNICEF etc . As you rightly say, you can afford o but what of the ones who can't. Invite other child victims to your podcast lobby this because its not right
These shows that 1st wife enjoys seeing you guys going through so much. I believe she was supposed to call her husband in order. Normal Man will never behave so low, something is not right with old Man upstairs.
Queen🥰🥰🥰!! EDIT: I'm so sorry you're experiencing all this hey, trust me I know SA's maintenance court incompetence I experienced it FIRST HAND! Mom fought the sperm donor till I was an adult and never got her justice. But it's okay because she gets to reap the fruits of her labour by herself. I really hope you guys receive your justice soon.
Yhoooo Owamie, soo heartbroken by this video😢...I could say a lot but it's probably safe that I do not. Be strong my dear, that's all I can say for now; this journey can be quite a long journey. Needs a looooot of patience my love .... Did I not laugh at the last 2 minutes of this video mara😂
This makes me so angry , I'm working for Government every time i think about this spousal support i feel like crying . and the fact that I'm not happy and he has not been supportive for years even when he was working he will do small things and the rest its for him, alcohol and girls and i put the food on the table all he does are business that still requires me to pop out money from my salary and then if i die he will leave a comfortable life . I watched your previous videos of what you went through your marriage it was like you are talking to me. i pray for strength everyday to live😡
Someone needs to do a dissertation about our ain't shit parents. What kills me is that both parents tend to be ain't shit, then you wonder why it's said opposite attract😅. Perhaps it applies more with objects and not human beings.
Women should avoid getting married,especially if they have kids and a career. Their husbands come first when it comes to law. If they pass away first kids go through so much struggle
Eish maybe we need government ya makgowa back cos black ppl are working against each other and if you are financially struggling, then you are in bullsh**
It was not the responsibility of that stupid department to decide against the judges order. There's a judgment passed they were supposed to delivery if anything yiurbfather should go appeal and then get a new order . useless processes. Good in writting but absolutely useless in practice. Thats south A for u. No justice at all for victims. U should sue him for the run around
Iyoh it's so sad Mina my mom she still alive but they are divorced I wanted to go the legal route but I was drained and just allowed God to handle everything, today I'm the one supporting my father after everything he has done😭😭. I even dropped out cause he had someone in his life
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Another lesson learned here is that we should encourage our parents , especially mothers to have wills. 😢
I personally really love your personal stories.they shed a lot of light
Sorry mama you had to go through this because of your own father. I think is best to save the money and further support your sisters instead of paying lawyers.. given that they are older the case will get hectic and just drain you❤️❤️❤️
Yooooo I was also in the process of suing my father for maintenance, I gave up because the whole process was exhausting and mentally draining me and affecting my studies 😭😭...Just give him to God ,I can't imagine how hard it is ..but if you still have strength push it for your sister 😭😭
He will unalive you…fathers do that to avoid maintenance,it’s not worth it let it go.
I must say this girl is super brave...I admire her.
I hope you win this case because i know how family members and relatives can disappoint. All the best!
Yes ninja, these ladies think they are going to live forever and when they pass on their kids fall into literal poverty. They don’t want to protect their kids from the grave. They place their ego before their own children ai.
Owamie if your father has money high chance he's paying them. 😢
The same money he can use to support his kids.
Welcome back Ninja,I don’t understand why some fathers put their children through all this
It's HATRED towards the mother unfortunately and the poor offspring suffers.
Witchcraft is also a reality, parents turned against their own children.
@@VeryBerry481it’s a sad one😭
Some men really do shocking things, I have a friend who’s dad worked at transnet but was not supporting, so the mom went to get a court order to garnish his salary and he decided to rather quit his good paying job!! Haibo!
@@Noceepouryaz we are not asking for much even if you are not there atleast zama something,,now you have to leave your job because you don’t wanna support your child
@@Noceepour What a sad story. 😢
Your father is greedy I am sorry but also your step mother is not nice. Why can’t she as a woman feel for this poor kids without a mother?? Soo sad
Ohh mama🥺 Men are just something else hle, i can't imagine how draining it is to go in and out of court coz of your own Father hle! Love and light to you and your sister 🕯️God will definitely come through for you guys!! Your breakthrough is near.
You are 1000% correct queen ninja 😢 our justice system fails us dismally. I remember when I took my parents to maintenance in 2018 n both my parents were ordered to pay 400r each my dad never bothered even once to pay n nothing was done to him😢
How I wish my mother could have chose a better gent to father me!😢
🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
It's so great you're fighting for your sister. Well done, Owamie. ❣️
Sending you positive vibes and prayers for strength to see this through. I know you will. 💪🏽💯
Stay strong Owamie as much as this is affecting you trust me he is also feeling it. Don't give up ❤
The system fails us so much i raised my son with my current husband for all his life life his father rocks up as a convicted criminal cries foul that he has a right to his child and boom he's granted primary custody
Aybo njani and why 😢 sorry Sisi
primary custody? On what grounds?? Appeal sis
How does pension work in South Africa? Weren't they supposed to ensure that all dependents get their share?
The government employee must nominate beneficiaries. There nomination forms to be completed. What I noticed is people working in local offices do not get a lot of information
It depends what the agreement was. When their mother passed on, the sister was still under 18, there is a good chance that they ordered the dad take everything under the impression that he will take care of the child
@@LM-he7eb that's where they got it wrong. In Botswana the high court keeps the minor's entitlement in a trust until they are 21years to it.
@@malebs8332 You'd have to create a testamentary trust for that. If they do that, what will the child eat till they're 21?
Like Owamie said, they should have taken him to court while she was still minor, the he was going to be forced to take care of her
Stay strong mama ❤❤❤ man like that don’t change unfortunately .. God will see you guys through ❤
I can't wait for the day you come back and say "WE WON"😔
If they married in community of property you can take mamkhulu to maintanance
Don't worry my sister God will hear your plea and by His Grace will answer it, have faith God bless you and your sister
lol I was catching up with other videos then I saw new one is here😂
Owamie our fathers are capable of getting themselves in debts just to avoid paying maintenance money.
Capable of even quitting their jobs or even closing down their businesses.
I think what you needed is a lawyer, the legal system will give you the run around when you don't have legal representation, e.g. the issue of assets, if you had a lawyer, they would hire an investigator, be able to subpoena all the necessary documentations and witnesses for your cause. I know lawyers are expensive and most people can't afford, but if you get a good lawyer, they are effective when it comes with dealing with the legal system, e.g. the issue of the pension fund, they had no right not to implement the garnish, if your father was not happy with getting zero from the pension fund, it is up to him to appeal that garnish, not for the pension to decide not to implement it
And guess what, with all the systems of this country rotten to the core....we've still kept the biggest contributors to the current state in power. How on earth can we expect better than what's happening now?! We're on our own 😢
It has nothing to do with politics, all government workers are requested to nominate our beneficiaries, other people don't do that
It all shall be well. 😢don’t stop fighting for what’s right.
Take him to Moja love Pay papa geld
I think your father is working with someone in court
you are a very strong woman ninja,and i respect you for that,i so wish i also had the courage to fight for my kids maitanance like you fighting for ur baby sista,this justice system is failing us when it comes to that,but i pray that God be with you in this journey,may he give you all the strength u need.❤❤❤❤❤
I’m a coloured female and I’m the Owamie in my family… I don’t want to start 😭😭
Askies
@@LM-he7eb thank you, this means a lot🥹
I’ve been looking for a new upload all week
Hi ninja please do a video explaining ad advice about the dervoce process of someone who doesn't have money, where to go, how to start a process what they must do if they don't have money to start the dervoce process❤❤
Go to legal aid. Uncontested divorces are not that expensive.
Yoooh ninja im so soorry 😮😮 and in all this what is your mamkhulu doing to help?? Is she siding with your father/ she is the reason behind all this mathata?? Cos i feel that she should be the one calming the old man and put some sense to his head to love his kids
God will bless your pockets more sister❤️❤️❤️
but why are they not granting W/A for him to be arrested if he is missing court dates constantly? Mxm,our justice system though!
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Welcome back Queen Ninja.... UA-cam Mgosi is dull without you 😢😢 Really missed your energy
Your father is so cold hearted yoh 😭. A mere R2000 for your own daughter is too much? What a cruel man. But God will answer .
It's not even his money. Its the moms money
Did your father bribe these people or something? Eish.
Yooo it’s hard to talk negatively about an elderly person but it’s giving narcissist.
Because u tell the truth my dear don't worried about them tell ur truth
Where are the child rights organisations in cases like this. Because those are the platforms, you should be lobbying because the assumption that the remaining parent is entitled to spousal support should benefit the under aged children. Lobbying should be your best bet because even on an international level the SA legal system would have a case to answer on its children protection mandate for which the SA government is a signatory to, and may well be getting international funding for via UNICEF etc . As you rightly say, you can afford o but what of the ones who can't. Invite other child victims to your podcast lobby this because its not right
These shows that 1st wife enjoys seeing you guys going through so much. I believe she was supposed to call her husband in order. Normal Man will never behave so low, something is not right with old Man upstairs.
Fight wena owamie elwa hofihlrla o kgaoha molala if it takes that man has to play his part as motswadi hase bana balona bano ke bahae
We are so sorry that you have to go through this.Does your step mother have other kids from your step mother
Owamie kolunga mama, keep pushing one day it will be worth it
Queen🥰🥰🥰!!
EDIT: I'm so sorry you're experiencing all this hey, trust me I know SA's maintenance court incompetence I experienced it FIRST HAND! Mom fought the sperm donor till I was an adult and never got her justice. But it's okay because she gets to reap the fruits of her labour by herself. I really hope you guys receive your justice soon.
Welcome back. This situation is really sad
The Pretoria court yona 😭😭
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Ninjalicious welcome back home❤❤
Owamie there's a lot in your matter. I smell something rotten. I believe the court plp are working with /to protect your father
Yhoooo Owamie, soo heartbroken by this video😢...I could say a lot but it's probably safe that I do not.
Be strong my dear, that's all I can say for now; this journey can be quite a long journey. Needs a looooot of patience my love ....
Did I not laugh at the last 2 minutes of this video mara😂
Family /maintanance court is useless, I went to one in Dundee KZN they are all incompetent
Mamkhulu also trash.
It I have a question, aint you guys as your moms kid get money from the pension when your mom passed?
I hope she didn’t make a mistake if not including them
Owamie what is your step mom saying about all this? Is she not supportive of you guys so that your baby sister can go to school?
your skin is glowing Owamie.
This makes me so angry , I'm working for Government every time i think about this spousal support i feel like crying . and the fact that I'm not happy and he has not been supportive for years even when he was working he will do small things and the rest its for him, alcohol and girls and i put the food on the table all he does are business that still requires me to pop out money from my salary and then if i die he will leave a comfortable life . I watched your previous videos of what you went through your marriage it was like you are talking to me. i pray for strength everyday to live😡
Leave that marriage as soon as possible. You are being financially abused.
Someone needs to do a dissertation about our ain't shit parents. What kills me is that both parents tend to be ain't shit, then you wonder why it's said opposite attract😅. Perhaps it applies more with objects and not human beings.
Welcome back Queen 👸 💖
Women should avoid getting married,especially if they have kids and a career. Their husbands come first when it comes to law. If they pass away first kids go through so much struggle
Or set up a trust for your kids.
Eish maybe we need government ya makgowa back cos black ppl are working against each other and if you are financially struggling, then you are in bullsh**
Welcome yesterday I was angry honestly 😂😂😂😂but I still love you I miss you also
Ndo ni tuvha ❤❤❤
Why did he kick you guys out?
Within 🖤
Welcome queen ninja, u’re missed
Your story is exactly the same as mine however, my mom is still alive (thank God). She only divorced this guy
khotsianu vhana tshituhu tshau ofhisa
What I am learning from this, as a woman, you know ur man, especially if he has more than 1 wife.... Only share ur estate with ur children... Klaar!
It was not the responsibility of that stupid department to decide against the judges order. There's a judgment passed they were supposed to delivery if anything yiurbfather should go appeal and then get a new order . useless processes. Good in writting but absolutely useless in practice. Thats south A for u. No justice at all for victims. U should sue him for the run around
Ninja checking in💟💟💟💟
Its called a "living-annuity". Or a life-annuity with a guarantee
Iyoh it's so sad Mina my mom she still alive but they are divorced I wanted to go the legal route but I was drained and just allowed God to handle everything, today I'm the one supporting my father after everything he has done😭😭. I even dropped out cause he had someone in his life
Stop supporting him. You're rewarding bad behaviour.
Iyoh i really wish I could but he has no one
You were missed Ninja ❤️❤️❤️
If uyimbokodo😂 take that schmoney and buy a unit trust for your child shbhhubhu😂... They will Thank u!
We missed you Ninja...welcome back ❤
The silence is unusual 😂😂
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Gogo Manzini please
😂😂😂she can only do something if Owamie asks her,
Usengisa is to interrogate in English
I’m sorry Owamie this hurts 🥹
My Ninja you know Gogo Manzini why you want to struggle soo much
😂😂😂😂
Ninja where is Gogo Manzini 🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨
I've been waiting for you 😂😂😂😂❤❤❤
Dammmm your father Owamie 😮😮 ayyy l surrender, your mom's estate
But why still call him" My father?"
When is the next masterclass?
Soon ❤❤❤ July
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I am so tired I ran here..... I missed you
Owami i have been in that case is a loot.
I think Usengisa = to interrogate
Missed you Queen
Your dad his so evil 😈 I mean yooh he couldn't pay, whilst receiving ur moms pension funds from estate yooooh 😢
Just ask gogo Manzini to loya him ninja
Just searched for you just now
Interrogate (u sengisa)
If i was in your shoes i would give up and let him be, the disgusting part is that he is chowing your mom's money nx🚮