"It wasn't really SA if you got wet, why would you get wet if you weren't aroused and you didn't want it?" According to her logic that statement checks out, if she agreed to it I'd accept her point.
I was thinking along those lines. The body does what the body does. It is a response to stimuli. She even says he was passed out just laying there doing nothing.
Doing something against your will is still SA! I mean, if it counts as SA when it happens to a woman while she is drunk then the same thing applies if it happens to a man. 😮
Story 3: OP is an absolute sea unit. She herself said that in the video he looked half dead and unconscious. Her boyfriend was r**ed and most likely drugged and instead of getting him help she claims he cheated on her and breaks up with him. She's making s**t up in her mind to justify believing that he cheated on her. Alcohol technically can inhibit the effect of ED meds but there's no guarantee especially if he's normally healthy with no issue with it. Denouncing his SA by comparing it to her SA is one of the worst things she could have done. "Well I was penetrated but he wasn't so therefore he wasn't r**ed" is absolutely ludicrous. He literally wasn't conscious therefore could not consent.
I'm with you, on all the above. Glad I don't need to type it all out lol. Although I do think she needs time to think herself, especially given her previous circumstances. With all the people from comments & friends telling her almost the same thing, a sensible person would talk to somebody more knowledgeable. However it seems she thinks she is the authority on Male SA, ironically enough that's sexist & borderline misandry. Dude sounds almost like she may be his 1st serious relationship too, just a hunch especially since the guys targeted him like that. I'm down with her trying to sort things out here, and those guys need to feel punishment
Eh the law see its the same way in many cases and it's conpletw ba. A man and woman can both be absolutely smash and consent in the moment to have sex. The woman wakes up, regrets it and claims sa because she was too drunk to consent. This ignores the fact the man was also too drunk to consent but he is normally automatically at fault.
The retroactive jealousy could be surmountable, but the blatant disrespect in concealing the truth that she cheated (I assume they were supposed to have been exclusive) probably isn't.
Yes. The roommate was "Top Dog" on campus, and his wife lost the competition to "win his heart" and settled for OP. And yes..she kissed OP afterwards..He will never get over it. OP is not even aroused by her any more...
Yeah I don't see it being any other way, we don't learn from the trickle truths when the initial relation stops so I can be sure it went all the way till he graduated. Then for her to reestablish contact knowing this betrayal that she was supposedly terrified to reveal, THEN private messaging to obsessive levels according to MC indicate no remorse, no intention to ever be honest unless caught & yes, surely cheat once roomie comes calling like she was easily doing visiting him in the dorm when hubby was in class. Slut. Well, atleast she is "sorry he feels hurt", and "just wants to get back to her life 😂
Story 1: OP's deluding himself saying it's for the kids. He kept dodging in the responses for whether or not she seemed remorseful about it. That's telling me that she wasn't, along with the fact that she friended the roommate. She's lying about something else and I would hazard a guess that she either slept with him or that he took her virginity not the husband like she claims. I would have asked to see the messages between them. If there's nothing going on between them then there should be no problem with showing them. Instant time to figure things out if she even shows a HINT of trying to hide them. If she wasn't already I'm thinking she's going to cheat on OP again.
She didn't tell him because she was terrified of losing him. Not terrified enough to not do it in the first place or to not keep doing it. But we have to believe she was because she wouldn't lie after years of lying to him, right?
@sugarbeef That's why they need to do DNA testing, marriage counseling, and an intervention with the friend to know the whole truth. She kept a big secret and is still in personal contact with the friend... there's too much comfort between them, that suspicious enough to know something more happened.
Story 3 pissed me off. Her BF was SA'd and she blamed him because he was hard. Oh she knows better than me because she was a victim. That last comment is what makes it worst. Smfh🤦🏾♂️
Last Story: I'm not inclined to say it was SA, even in this case. But OP is hyper focused on how hard he was as an indication of whether or not he was raped, and that is as much bull shit for men as it is for women and getting wet. Just her decision to focus on that really put me off.
In her own words she said he looked half dead and unconscious. So I'm going to assume by that he was just laying there not moving. It's absolutely disgusting of her to completely discount rape because she was conscious for her assault and only the one who is penetrated can be a victim.
S1: clear cut case, Op needs to leave. His wife will never be able to earn his trust back S2: Op is doing the right thing S3: another reason I stopped dating and when I get back I'll never date a girl with a serious past like Op's. She's been SA'd and now suddenly she's and expert and can determine who's been through it too and who hasn't and to her, guys can't be SA'd and even with clear evidence of her ex boyfriend being assaulted right in front of her, she's the victim. You can't win with women ever if they already have chosen what they want to think. This right here is the reason why most guy that are victims of any type of abuse will never come out, people make a joke of it
FYI Story 3 is probably ragebait. I found the original post and surprise, surprise everything is gone and the account got suspended. I found another video with "all the updates" and the OP doubled then tripled down AFTER she got concrete proof her BF actually got SA'd. So yeah at this point I'm fairly certain it's fake. Edit: The title of the original was: My (F25) Boyfriend (M28) cheated on me while drunk at a bachelor party and still having admitted to it. Should I just end things with him? by ThrowRACheatingparty The title of the repost is: OP finds evidence of her boyfriend having sex with another woman at a Bachelor's Party. It's worst then what it seems.
S1 She will say if asked why not bj for the husband is she will say that she was traumatized by giving by to the roommate even though she did it happily and willingly multiple times.
Story 1. The foundations of the marriage are built on dishonesty. the wife took away to OP’s agency. Had he known at the time would he have continued on? He’s right to be upset and would be justified to divorce
"It wasn't really SA if you got wet, why would you get wet if you weren't aroused and you didn't want it?"
According to her logic that statement checks out, if she agreed to it I'd accept her point.
I was thinking along those lines. The body does what the body does. It is a response to stimuli. She even says he was passed out just laying there doing nothing.
Doing something against your will is still SA! I mean, if it counts as SA when it happens to a woman while she is drunk then the same thing applies if it happens to a man. 😮
Story 3: OP is an absolute sea unit. She herself said that in the video he looked half dead and unconscious. Her boyfriend was r**ed and most likely drugged and instead of getting him help she claims he cheated on her and breaks up with him.
She's making s**t up in her mind to justify believing that he cheated on her. Alcohol technically can inhibit the effect of ED meds but there's no guarantee especially if he's normally healthy with no issue with it.
Denouncing his SA by comparing it to her SA is one of the worst things she could have done. "Well I was penetrated but he wasn't so therefore he wasn't r**ed" is absolutely ludicrous. He literally wasn't conscious therefore could not consent.
Yeaaa when she said that, she lost me im glad i ain't the only one
I'm with you, on all the above. Glad I don't need to type it all out lol.
Although I do think she needs time to think herself, especially given her previous circumstances. With all the people from comments & friends telling her almost the same thing, a sensible person would talk to somebody more knowledgeable. However it seems she thinks she is the authority on Male SA, ironically enough that's sexist & borderline misandry.
Dude sounds almost like she may be his 1st serious relationship too, just a hunch especially since the guys targeted him like that. I'm down with her trying to sort things out here, and those guys need to feel punishment
Must be from Europe
Eh the law see its the same way in many cases and it's conpletw ba. A man and woman can both be absolutely smash and consent in the moment to have sex. The woman wakes up, regrets it and claims sa because she was too drunk to consent. This ignores the fact the man was also too drunk to consent but he is normally automatically at fault.
The retroactive jealousy could be surmountable, but the blatant disrespect in concealing the truth that she cheated (I assume they were supposed to have been exclusive) probably isn't.
No, they are literally DONE.. how many times did she suck his roommate thing then kiss him afterwards. DONE
Yes. The roommate was "Top Dog" on campus, and his wife lost the competition to "win his heart" and settled for OP. And yes..she kissed OP afterwards..He will never get over it. OP is not even aroused by her any more...
Story 1 she slept with the roommate jmo. Then she was messaging him over Facebook. Yeah she wants the roommate
Yeah I don't see it being any other way, we don't learn from the trickle truths when the initial relation stops so I can be sure it went all the way till he graduated. Then for her to reestablish contact knowing this betrayal that she was supposedly terrified to reveal, THEN private messaging to obsessive levels according to MC indicate no remorse, no intention to ever be honest unless caught & yes, surely cheat once roomie comes calling like she was easily doing visiting him in the dorm when hubby was in class. Slut.
Well, atleast she is "sorry he feels hurt", and "just wants to get back to her life 😂
Story 1: OP's deluding himself saying it's for the kids. He kept dodging in the responses for whether or not she seemed remorseful about it. That's telling me that she wasn't, along with the fact that she friended the roommate. She's lying about something else and I would hazard a guess that she either slept with him or that he took her virginity not the husband like she claims.
I would have asked to see the messages between them. If there's nothing going on between them then there should be no problem with showing them. Instant time to figure things out if she even shows a HINT of trying to hide them. If she wasn't already I'm thinking she's going to cheat on OP again.
Roommate had 1st dibs. He better get the kids tested too.
She didn't tell him because she was terrified of losing him. Not terrified enough to not do it in the first place or to not keep doing it. But we have to believe she was because she wouldn't lie after years of lying to him, right?
@sugarbeef That's why they need to do DNA testing, marriage counseling, and an intervention with the friend to know the whole truth. She kept a big secret and is still in personal contact with the friend... there's too much comfort between them, that suspicious enough to know something more happened.
@@doncjack5913 I don't even think marriage counseling is gonna fix that one. Then again it might work with this guy he's so naive.
Anyone in here found the story in reddit? Is there any update in this?
Story 3 pissed me off. Her BF was SA'd and she blamed him because he was hard. Oh she knows better than me because she was a victim. That last comment is what makes it worst. Smfh🤦🏾♂️
Last Story: I'm not inclined to say it was SA, even in this case.
But OP is hyper focused on how hard he was as an indication of whether or not he was raped, and that is as much bull shit for men as it is for women and getting wet. Just her decision to focus on that really put me off.
In her own words she said he looked half dead and unconscious. So I'm going to assume by that he was just laying there not moving. It's absolutely disgusting of her to completely discount rape because she was conscious for her assault and only the one who is penetrated can be a victim.
S1: clear cut case, Op needs to leave. His wife will never be able to earn his trust back
S2: Op is doing the right thing
S3: another reason I stopped dating and when I get back I'll never date a girl with a serious past like Op's. She's been SA'd and now suddenly she's and expert and can determine who's been through it too and who hasn't and to her, guys can't be SA'd and even with clear evidence of her ex boyfriend being assaulted right in front of her, she's the victim. You can't win with women ever if they already have chosen what they want to think. This right here is the reason why most guy that are victims of any type of abuse will never come out, people make a joke of it
FYI Story 3 is probably ragebait. I found the original post and surprise, surprise everything is gone and the account got suspended.
I found another video with "all the updates" and the OP doubled then tripled down AFTER she got concrete proof her BF actually got SA'd.
So yeah at this point I'm fairly certain it's fake.
Edit:
The title of the original was: My (F25) Boyfriend (M28) cheated on me while drunk at a bachelor party and still having admitted to it. Should I just end things with him? by ThrowRACheatingparty
The title of the repost is: OP finds evidence of her boyfriend having sex with another woman at a Bachelor's Party. It's worst then what it seems.
Could be ragebait or it could be someone that is actually like that.
Those people do in fact exist.
❤❤❤ Loved all 3 of the stories!
She literally sucked up to him
Story 3, whichever “friend” sent those videos to the gf is not his friend.
S1 She will say if asked why not bj for the husband is she will say that she was traumatized by giving by to the roommate even though she did it happily and willingly multiple times.
I don't understand how guys are in nonBj marriage
She's not attracted to OP.
This channel always seems to post OPs that are spineless on top of the soy filled voice narration
Story 1. The foundations of the marriage are built on dishonesty. the wife took away to OP’s agency. Had he known at the time would he have continued on? He’s right to be upset and would be justified to divorce
Such disrespect.
S2 op has nobody to blame but himself, this happens when you stay with the first love instead of sampling different dishes.
Story 1 Divorce Divorce Divorce!!!!!.And if you can find your roommate go wipe his ass and if you can't hire someone to do it for ,you!!!
I agree. These guys get away unpunished most of the time.
Time to change that.
Omg 😮story 1
If she doesn’t like pleasing you she’s not into you
Story 2: Truly a woman moment
Story one head doctor 😂😂 part-time that it
Wow, story 1 is like 10 years old with no follow up post. Would have liked to have seen what happened if it was a real story.
Story 2,she’s been having multiple lovers for years??? Dude you’re blind….Dump her
Story 2: 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
she reconnected with him on FB after all that time?
commme on man
Story 2 they know at urologist forsure if it’s an std
Oof