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  • Kandi and Todd talk about how they had to adjust from single-life partying to focusing on their marriage. Also, making sure there's always gas in the car. ;)
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  • @CremedelaCreme777
    @CremedelaCreme777 4 роки тому +89

    “...And then you ask to use my car.. drive it all day & don’t fill up the tank!” *Beyoncé voice*
    Kandi wrote those lyrics so you KNOW she’s not playing about men doing the ⛽️. And I feel her 100%!!

  • @sheree1994sa
    @sheree1994sa 4 роки тому +190

    Unfortunately we're livin in a society where men want to be treated like kings but don't Want the responsibility of being a man

    • @striving1
      @striving1 3 роки тому +7

      That🤷🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @TheLunzDen
      @TheLunzDen 3 роки тому +7

      We also live in a society where women want to be treated like Queens but don't do queen like things so maybe we all gotta look within

    • @changeoffocus1074
      @changeoffocus1074 3 роки тому +1

      Both S A & Karl are correct... lol ...
      Ppl somehow find ppl that aren’t yoked!!!

    • @thandosbistro6458
      @thandosbistro6458 3 роки тому

      Mmmmmmmmmm.

    • @CocoChanelle-1
      @CocoChanelle-1 9 місяців тому

      @@TheLunzDenjust ask for what you want. If she loves you, she will try to accommodate.

  • @adelitenyamhanga7823
    @adelitenyamhanga7823 4 роки тому +95

    Her love language is acts of service

    • @chinemeremudoh3732
      @chinemeremudoh3732 3 роки тому +1

      Exactly! So glad you cut through the "noise" and got to the meat o the talk. All the comments about he must do this, and men must do that,..bla bla bla. Nobody noted how she didn't say the things that HE DID DO!

    • @giabrooks2717
      @giabrooks2717 3 роки тому

      Yes, because I am the same way, my love language is an act of service.

  • @quanishajackson1438
    @quanishajackson1438 4 роки тому +49

    I agree with kandi my man always makes sure everything is okay with my car maintenance gas included

  • @CassieAfricanQueen
    @CassieAfricanQueen 3 роки тому +24

    I’ve been with my husband 18 years and YES it’s a southern thing. My hands don’t touch a gas pump and I don’t keep up with gas prices shortages outages or leaks. LOL. A husband is a provider and that includes providing my gas. A husband is a protector and that includes protecting me from running out of gas and being stranded. Thank God there are still some good men left in this world. Happy wife happy life. Happy husband happy wife. Love wins 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

  • @greenghost3756
    @greenghost3756 4 роки тому +87

    I can't stop laughing while watching this, can't stop thinking of her mom talking about how short they both are with big bobble heads🤣🤣😂her mom is a trip

    • @britjj5126
      @britjj5126 4 роки тому +7

      Mama Joyce 😫😂😂 I wonder if she regrets some of the things she said about Todd when they first got together. Her little grandson Ace looks just like her😅 The little cutie.

    • @nickylnr
      @nickylnr 4 роки тому +6

      @@britjj5126 sure as hell she has no regrets..

    • @laj4186
      @laj4186 Рік тому

      That's that D.S.G.G. In us Kandi! I shouldn't have to think about gas let alone touch a filthy gas pump!

  • @joannapilgrim
    @joannapilgrim 4 роки тому +27

    "You're right"- best line

  • @denardjones7077
    @denardjones7077 4 роки тому +90

    That's definitely a southern thing. My grandpa said "A woman has no business touching gas pumps with a man." I thought that was CRAZY as a kid... but it's definitely GAME! Heck he was married 60 years, so he must know something.

    • @2Lovelifedaily
      @2Lovelifedaily 4 роки тому +10

      Man! I believe this wholeheartedly. If a man is present, I should never have to touch that pump. This has ended a possible relationship for me. Respect for women is of the utmost importance. All women.

    • @trinimarie9974
      @trinimarie9974 4 роки тому +2

      Exactly

    • @coachhbosoccer
      @coachhbosoccer 4 роки тому +7

      African families are kinda the same. We don't expect our ladies to pump their own has although they can

    • @novalove4790
      @novalove4790 4 роки тому +12

      It's a southern old school thing. It really hit home for me when I was at the gas station and this older lady asked me how to pay for gas at the pump and the whole process. Her husband had just passed away, and he always handled that kinda stuff... It really caught me off guard but it enlightened me on how much times have changed from then to now.

    • @CremedelaCreme777
      @CremedelaCreme777 4 роки тому +4

      Nova Love awww reading that just made me so sad 😔

  • @Rocioslane
    @Rocioslane 4 роки тому +61

    I love watching these videos so much, there's so much transparency and just straight up realness

  • @taylorduvernay9789
    @taylorduvernay9789 4 роки тому +16

    That "I am a Leo "🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. Sounds very familiar, it's our world, you all live in it 👑. I love this couple

    • @sierrac4157
      @sierrac4157 2 роки тому +1

      Tell it. Proud leo ♌️ over here

  • @karenbenton3921
    @karenbenton3921 4 роки тому +18

    Kandi is a Taurus we love hard and we are devoted to our men. A beautiful couple.

  • @Drawingboredi
    @Drawingboredi 4 роки тому +32

    I love seeing all the different relationships. They have their rules and it works or it does not but there is love.

  • @sunshinesunflowerz1647
    @sunshinesunflowerz1647 4 роки тому +22

    Thank you for fixing the sound.

  • @ajemroberts3903
    @ajemroberts3903 3 роки тому +6

    Every woman has their thing and standards and good for her in articulating hers. I like the honesty. I, on the other hand was not and did not marry a man that doesn’t pull some weight. Women need to set their standards early and not get caught up in the clouds because some men will make full use of that disadvantage.

  • @lakeishaslovingteachings6704
    @lakeishaslovingteachings6704 4 роки тому +6

    Im a Taurus with a Leo and baaaaby when I say he don’t wanna do NOTHING! 🤣🤣 this too cute and funny

  • @alainapullock81
    @alainapullock81 3 роки тому +9

    Man..she make all that damn money and married him? Dont clean? Dont take the trash out? What you here for bruh? This is making me appreciate my husband a lot more. Especially with kids his ass need to clean up and help

  • @Joy_LaFaye
    @Joy_LaFaye 3 роки тому +4

    Y’all are so cute!! Ya’ll’s bond are so adorable!! Thx immensely for sharing this!! The nuggets are powerful!! 🙌🏾❤️

  • @Ruffbone85
    @Ruffbone85 3 роки тому +8

    I'm a Leo too but I handle all the manly duties and cook as well

    • @tashawnahamilton6558
      @tashawnahamilton6558 3 роки тому +5

      Exactly, I don’t believe zodiac signs have anything to do with it but each marriage have their own rules. They have money so they might have a housekeeper. My husband is a Leo, he will cook and clean the kitchen, take care of the car and the handy work inside and outside of the house but the major cleaning in the house is my job. He will also do laundry.

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 4 роки тому +11

    Yeah anyone that drive the car last should put gas in the car if it was low. That is just common courtesy. Sone people see things differently though, and that is okay. That is why we have to learn to express ourselves in a healthy way. When it comes to any type of relationship.

  • @DimpledNatural
    @DimpledNatural 4 роки тому +29

    Does he do anything around the house?

    • @HEReIAM829
      @HEReIAM829 4 роки тому +2

      She said he went to produce a show so I guess he's a producer ❤

    • @DimpledNatural
      @DimpledNatural 4 роки тому +8

      @@HEReIAM829 let me clarify, around the house lol

    • @catharinewilks9424
      @catharinewilks9424 4 роки тому +1

      Yes, he has one area in lock for sure

    • @HEReIAM829
      @HEReIAM829 4 роки тому +1

      Oh ok lol

    • @ajjajk
      @ajjajk 4 роки тому +2

      Cute couples, but I see her with a lot of eye-roll and screw face, let’s hope they hang in there.

  • @teejay8910
    @teejay8910 4 роки тому +6

    Hello Happy Monday 🌞...
    I love Kandi &Todd's love story 💞..They are a true
    Black Love Couple..
    Thank you..
    New Subscriber...
    Stay safe be happy..
    Sincerely Tee Jay

  • @mystarlife
    @mystarlife 4 роки тому +6

    Omg! My mom has the same opinion about putting gas in the car. My dad always does that for her and she is the one using more the car. I never understood it to be honest.

  • @shamykanichols1984
    @shamykanichols1984 4 роки тому +18

    Yes, please keep the tank full or at half.

  • @rferguson445
    @rferguson445 4 роки тому +12

    I love them together.

  • @energy5351
    @energy5351 4 роки тому +2

    Hi guys I am so glad yall still together. You guys are wonderful 👏👏👏👏👏👏 Maturity the two worlds becoming one

  • @LilAlpo1
    @LilAlpo1 2 роки тому +2

    She's adorable and always has been.

  • @lf5163
    @lf5163 3 роки тому +5

    That gas thing is real.

  • @rpcrealpeopleconsulting6324
    @rpcrealpeopleconsulting6324 3 роки тому +7

    Kandi has insecurities bought on by her insecure none trusting mom

  • @lhamilton6041
    @lhamilton6041 4 роки тому +1

    @2:52 😂 I needed that laugh 😂
    OMG I’m totally binge watching the episodes!

  • @teddywhite3461
    @teddywhite3461 3 роки тому +1

    That is definitely a part of protecting and providing for your woman...

  • @helenebutler723
    @helenebutler723 4 роки тому +7

    Beautiful couple

  • @rogers5622
    @rogers5622 3 роки тому

    The Tickets are one of my favorites

  • @CocoChanelle-1
    @CocoChanelle-1 9 місяців тому

    It makes the woman feel like you are protecting her and care about her safety. That she doesn’t get stranded somewhere in the dark running out of gas. He should also check the air in the tires and oil before she leaves for a long trip.

  • @maxinetba
    @maxinetba 4 роки тому +3

    Awesome content

  • @JD-fg1nx
    @JD-fg1nx 4 роки тому +10

    Sounds like a sorry dude.

  • @teejaybee9
    @teejaybee9 4 роки тому +4

    "you right"

  • @thisisshauna6986
    @thisisshauna6986 4 роки тому +5

    All I really got from this was that gas ⛽️. That ish is soooo serious. Keep gas in my realm car. My husband will have this down to a tea. Gas in car equals last relationship.

  • @cedmc6711
    @cedmc6711 4 роки тому +3

    I love her!!!!

  • @teejay8910
    @teejay8910 4 роки тому +2

    Hello All..I'd like to thank the Persons who like my comment..It's greatly appreciated.. Have a wonderful Sunday.. Sincerely Tee Jay 🤗

  • @user-gg4vh9jx8j
    @user-gg4vh9jx8j 3 роки тому +4

    Unequally yoked couple that came together for business purposes.

  • @DreamChaserAtlanta
    @DreamChaserAtlanta 4 роки тому +7

    A man that doesn't pump the gas is kind of a deal-breaker. My sons are teenagers now and they pump the gas when they are with me

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 4 роки тому

      That is odd. I get what you are trying to say. But that is odd to make that a deal breaker.

    • @DreamChaserAtlanta
      @DreamChaserAtlanta 4 роки тому +4

      @@ladennayoung2939 yeah it may seem odd to some but pumping gas is one of those gentlemen things. And if a man isn't a gentleman I can't do it.

  • @sadadevries5875
    @sadadevries5875 4 роки тому +2

    Not awkward at al ... I mean there’s a way to saying things like this

  • @ylpitts1
    @ylpitts1 2 роки тому +1

    Yeah I’m a southern woman and my husband pumps the gas hell most our cars I don’t know where the whole is my husband will not let me or my daughters pump gas and he opens my car doors any door and our girls always say if a man doesn’t do the things my dad does for you I don’t want him
    My oldest daughter is 22 my second is 18 and the baby is 15 and they all looking for their dad in a guy

  • @ladyyaya78
    @ladyyaya78 3 роки тому

    Awww, I love me some Kandi!! 🥰😊😘💕💕💜

  • @latifajenkins6547
    @latifajenkins6547 4 роки тому +12

    Terrible I wouldn’t be married to a man like that at all

  • @rosemaryrivers66
    @rosemaryrivers66 4 роки тому +4

    Yes I have a dang Leo man.. LAWD

    • @sunshinesunflowerz1647
      @sunshinesunflowerz1647 4 роки тому +3

      Rosemary Rivers Treat him right. Communication is key. - a Leo lady ❤️

    • @rosemaryrivers66
      @rosemaryrivers66 4 роки тому +1

      @@sunshinesunflowerz1647 I do !!!!! I love my hunny ❤.Thanks

  • @michaelcampbell5849
    @michaelcampbell5849 3 роки тому +2

    Fill up the tank.

  • @destinypalin5657
    @destinypalin5657 2 роки тому

    Love this 😍😘

  • @shavodkahudson7051
    @shavodkahudson7051 4 роки тому +7

    So, on top of everything else he sorry as hell too???

  • @adelitenyamhanga7823
    @adelitenyamhanga7823 4 роки тому

    The gas thing is a thing ...and some women think men should lock the doors

  • @JloveLamar
    @JloveLamar 22 дні тому

    Everything she says TRUMPS how she lets Mama Joyce treat him. Love you, Kandi, but im gone be ALL the problems if i have to deal with Mama Joyce 😂

  • @chanellefoster4711
    @chanellefoster4711 3 роки тому

    HELLOOOOOOO!!!!!! I believe that 100000000%

  • @bOmBAsTiK
    @bOmBAsTiK Рік тому

    Damn, Kandi seems unhappy like they ain't gone make it...

    • @jamesthomas2152
      @jamesthomas2152 Рік тому +2

      She looks happy to me this was 3 years ago 🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @bOmBAsTiK
      @bOmBAsTiK Рік тому

      @@jamesthomas2152 Ok girlfriend maybe you right

    • @jamesthomas2152
      @jamesthomas2152 Рік тому

      @@bOmBAsTiK I am right mr man hands

  • @9mind236
    @9mind236 4 роки тому

    😬

  • @FWCLILSUS
    @FWCLILSUS 4 роки тому +2

    They are so FAKE! You never know when she's telling the WHOLE truth so it's very deceiving!

  • @derrickstingley6895
    @derrickstingley6895 2 роки тому

    Kand is

  • @MrNanah38
    @MrNanah38 4 роки тому +1

    They look like brothers and sisters so weird.

    • @lantonetteboothe3930
      @lantonetteboothe3930 2 роки тому

      Ppl say couples start to look alike after awhile ppl think my husband and I look alike too. I’m my opinion we dnt

  • @yogaqueen1527
    @yogaqueen1527 4 роки тому +6

    They wont last

    • @tabithabrice5905
      @tabithabrice5905 4 роки тому +4

      6yr in neither one of them going anyway

    • @wandaerving3065
      @wandaerving3065 4 роки тому +1

      They good

    • @ajjajk
      @ajjajk 4 роки тому +3

      She need the old school man not a young guy who looking for someone to look after him.

    • @MrsSamanthaStar
      @MrsSamanthaStar 3 роки тому

      I'm thinking the same thing🤦🏾‍♀️ she will not give up easily, but i don't see it

  • @Judy1201.
    @Judy1201. 4 роки тому

    Not that serious Kanda.

  • @brodeythedisciplinebarber1117
    @brodeythedisciplinebarber1117 3 роки тому

    Happy wife happy life... bullshit lol

  • @s2891j
    @s2891j Рік тому

    He seems boring