Shaved my head because I got tired of washing my hair after each COVID-19 ICU shift!

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  • Опубліковано 15 вер 2024
  • I have been working in the COVID-19 ICU in NYC, and have been washing my hair after each shift, losing sleep staying up to dry it (so I don't get sick since it's cold in NY!), and my hair has been reaping the consequences by slowly getting more and more dead. It was already dead from bleaching, and my hair lady is miles away from me right now in Florida.
    I wanted to take away the burden of having a two-colored head (half brown and half blonde) and of having to consistently dye it, and clippers cost the same price as hair dye supplies (hard to find because of the pandemic)....So, I shaved my head!
    I don't hate it at all. I thought that I would. I was so fed up with dealing with it after every shift that I didn't care to think about how I would feel after. But I actually love it. I probably won't keep it shaved, but it was definitely a fun experience to have with myself, and a great experience in general- I recommend every woman shave their head at least one time! It's the rawest version of yourself and a great feeling.
    It's been a few days since I shaved my head, and I have worked a couple shifts- it was definitely the greatest decision for myself. My life and daily cleaning/sanitizing routine is so much easier now.
    Thanks for watching!
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  • @AlyssaGray
    @AlyssaGray  3 роки тому +49

    Consider buying my coworkers and I a coffee! ko-fi.com/alyssagrayyoutube

    • @NathalieBoynton3862
      @NathalieBoynton3862 3 роки тому +1

      Have sent some $ for drinks etc

    • @doratiscareno5856
      @doratiscareno5856 3 роки тому +2

      This will be over soon
      NO MORE COVER UPS

    • @doratiscareno5856
      @doratiscareno5856 3 роки тому +1

      DONATE YOUR HAIR TO CANCER VICTIMS

    • @cc-ci5dq
      @cc-ci5dq 3 роки тому +1

      @@doratiscareno5856 what? coverups? what are you talking about? you can’t donate bleached/ruined hair

    • @cc-ci5dq
      @cc-ci5dq 3 роки тому +1

      @@doratiscareno5856 most of those places sell the hair as wigs to everyone not just cancer patients. not all cancer patients give a fuck about being bald.

  • @crystalaustin4535
    @crystalaustin4535 4 роки тому +5903

    In 2009 I had brain surgery. They had to shave me bald. I learned quickly it's just hair. It will grow back. Rock that girl 👑 you are still beautiful.

    • @AlyssaGray
      @AlyssaGray  4 роки тому +325

      oh my gosh you beautiful soul! thank you for sharing! I'm lovin' it!:)

    • @crystalaustin4535
      @crystalaustin4535 4 роки тому +38

      Thank you 💞

    • @just.p3achy
      @just.p3achy 4 роки тому +25

      I had head surgery in 2016, I wish I would've shaved my head back then

    • @rolphahl7515
      @rolphahl7515 4 роки тому +4

      I was 1k like! You go gurl

    • @musicmama2864
      @musicmama2864 4 роки тому +15

      I have an undercut from brain surgery. They shaved from the ear downwards on one side, so I evened it out around to the other side. Not quite the same as having the whole head shaved, but I love it! So much cooler this summer. Hope your surgery was successful. Mine was. I'm pain-free!

  • @crabbaby6949
    @crabbaby6949 4 роки тому +25236

    I have no clue why this was recommended to me but I absolutely love it

  • @AwayWays
    @AwayWays 4 роки тому +3444

    “If you can’t handle me when I’m bald, you don’t deserve me when I have hair” suddenly my favourite quote 🤣

    • @thread_witch
      @thread_witch 4 роки тому +39

      I feel this so much right now 😂 I had to shave my hair recently because of health issues and at first I was really sad but her saying that made me feel empowered lol

    • @noahhamilton8649
      @noahhamilton8649 4 роки тому +6

      Shave your hair

    • @kayleemarinell747
      @kayleemarinell747 4 роки тому +1

      1k like😂

    • @sweetkorn.
      @sweetkorn. 4 роки тому +4

      @@noahhamilton8649 done 😂
      Like a month ago. Grows quickly in beginning though.

    • @metsl1870
      @metsl1870 4 роки тому +1

      Amen 🙏

  • @lucybaikie2357
    @lucybaikie2357 3 роки тому +335

    “If you can’t handle me when I’m bald then you can’t have me when I have hair” hehehehe that’s gold

    • @jolin8493
      @jolin8493 3 роки тому +1

      no its not, its just stupid play with words.

    • @masonbailey2814
      @masonbailey2814 3 роки тому

      I can handle you with hair and bald @lucy baikie

    • @terryscott9010
      @terryscott9010 2 роки тому +1

      I like short hair on a woman I like it buzz cut laptop they all look sexy and gorgeous to me

    • @vernondavis6095
      @vernondavis6095 2 роки тому +1

      if your bald i would love it

  • @nathaliej5299
    @nathaliej5299 3 роки тому +4926

    Instead of quitting because of personal reasons.. She cuts her hair to still continue to help people without letting the reasons be a burden. Just wow! Respect, you are a beautiful person!

    • @jessical6719
      @jessical6719 3 роки тому +17

      Personal reason? It’s hair.

    • @thatpeachfromcmbyn1
      @thatpeachfromcmbyn1 3 роки тому +8

      @@atomicgoldrush ?? are you good, stop being an ass

    • @atomicgoldrush
      @atomicgoldrush 3 роки тому +5

      @@thatpeachfromcmbyn1 thanks 😊 🙏 😘

    • @thatpeachfromcmbyn1
      @thatpeachfromcmbyn1 3 роки тому +3

      @@atomicgoldrush no problem babes 🥰

    • @the_ffca_me
      @the_ffca_me 3 роки тому +2

      I know right! She doesn't quit and find a different job or just give up with what she's doing.

  • @trishaaa1042
    @trishaaa1042 4 роки тому +5137

    Y’all, she just nailed 500 different hairstyles.

  • @cryinginmelodrama
    @cryinginmelodrama 3 роки тому +3308

    She decided to go bald and instead of being nervous about it she was trying on different haircuts in the process!!!!!! ma'am what does it take to be like you😭😭😭😭

    • @sridhanya451
      @sridhanya451 3 роки тому +34

      I actually did it in this may 😛😛😛 I just got fed-up of my coloured hair and decided to go bald so that i can have all natural hair when it grows again🤣

    • @poppysplayland
      @poppysplayland 3 роки тому +11

      @@sridhanya451 is being bald a relieff?? im considering to shave my hair

    • @sridhanya451
      @sridhanya451 3 роки тому +31

      @@poppysplayland cant say its a relief. But i will tell my own experience.
      *I dont have to wash my hair often (saving on hair products, Rubberbands, and hair accessories)
      * I've been suffering acne, breakouts since forever, but after shaving my head I have had clean Face. I dont even breakout once a month now. I'm guessing its because the hair falls on face and The Sweat from scalp/hair Falls through face and causes acne. I dont have body acne too now
      * My mom is supportive of this, she even helped me Shave the back of my head as i couldn't do it. Every parent may not be supportive of this😪 Not only parents U have to deal with relatives and frnds and people u know.. if you think u can handle them and shut them off (talking about outsiders.) Then sure go for it.
      * Be mindful that it takes lot of time to grow back the hair.
      * You may or may not look good in Bald head.
      Just be prepared for everything and do it for urself if u want.
      It have its plus and minus.
      For me it was mostly plus
      I wear a hoodie when i step out so people doesn't really know i shaved my head. And i get to be freeee without having to worry about my hair.
      Now i dont cover my head Bcoz its grown like 2-3 inches and i sort of look good. So have no reason to cover my head. I looked bad with shaved head🤣🤣

    • @sridhanya451
      @sridhanya451 3 роки тому +3

      @juliet yeah 😛😛😛

    • @luluroblox9176
      @luluroblox9176 3 роки тому +6

      Sri Dhanya wow, your so brave

  • @judycee4
    @judycee4 3 роки тому +46

    As a 20 year cancer survivor, my hair has never completely recovered from my treatments. I’ve learned to love it short. You look great! And was grows back will be beautiful.

    • @cydkriletich6538
      @cydkriletich6538 3 роки тому +1

      Same for me, Judy. Ten years remission from double breast cancer and bilateral mastectomies. I didn’t lose all my hair, it just got really thin in spots and has never fully recovered. I’d love to just shave my head, just to know what it feels like! But, I have ugly moles and other bumps on my scalp that would look awful! So, I have gone COVID gray (love it: it’s naturally silver blue!) and love the ease of short hair. Congrats on your 20 years! 💞

    • @Amethyst12thheaven
      @Amethyst12thheaven Рік тому

      Red devil chemo takes your hair. It’s awful. But here I sit watching women diy shave. I’m at the point where mine HAS to come off. Hope you both are well now🙏💟💗

  • @Karlaofallpeople
    @Karlaofallpeople 3 роки тому +5156

    What an incredible woman. To give up a job, time with her fam & SO to go and help people. Living in a hotel and working long hours. She's a hero
    edit: wording

    • @hellothere3842
      @hellothere3842 3 роки тому +12

      I agree 💜

    • @stuchly1
      @stuchly1 3 роки тому +69

      Only for people to boycott any of her efforts and the efforts of thousands others and organise riots against the wearing of masks.

    • @princecharlesontour8971
      @princecharlesontour8971 3 роки тому +7

      @@stuchly1 yeah honestly

    • @userloll
      @userloll 3 роки тому +10

      Hair isn’t everything lmao chill wit yo “wHaT a StRoNg wOmAn”

    • @lucycobabe
      @lucycobabe 3 роки тому +48

      @@userloll i think they mean how she moved a far distance and has put so much of her life behind her just to help others

  • @chempanda6388
    @chempanda6388 4 роки тому +4808

    You are the boss lady. Being in the hospital right now is like health war zone, you are a warrior queen always.

    • @AlyssaGray
      @AlyssaGray  4 роки тому +177

      thank you!!😭😭😻💕

    • @chempanda6388
      @chempanda6388 4 роки тому +26

      @@AlyssaGray thank you
      It's important to recognize and appreciate fellow colleagues.

    • @lizthedisjointedzebra692
      @lizthedisjointedzebra692 4 роки тому +33

      Bruh. Legit. I get SO DEHYDRATED because I(and every other healthcare worker) am just sweating buckets under layers and layers of PPE. I seriously think that we should be allowed to stop by the ED after our shift for a saline IV, it's THAT BAD.

    • @daphnerondeau8520
      @daphnerondeau8520 4 роки тому +1

      I have shaved my head more then 1 time it does make your head ish even more

    • @rykensnow
      @rykensnow 4 роки тому +4

      That’s a really nice comment. Just please don’t compare a flu to war :) thanks

  • @ash-bob3398
    @ash-bob3398 4 роки тому +10210

    “Are you worried you’ll look like a lesbian?”
    “No, because lesbians are awesome and a lesbian could look like anyone”
    THANK YOU! Hair does not equal sexuality!!!!
    Edit to add: Lesbians are awesome and you should be able to wear whatever hairstyle you want without people assuming things about you in anyway!!

  • @awfullyquiet8147
    @awfullyquiet8147 3 роки тому +39

    I shaved all of my hair off yesterday and now I'm enjoying this whole new journey.🤗

  • @almostwhizzer
    @almostwhizzer 4 роки тому +2222

    Reasons you are great:
    -shaved head that looks amazingg
    -you don't care abt people thinking ur lesbian or a boy
    -you are super chill
    -you are working with covid patients??
    Seriously you are the best

    • @plien2184
      @plien2184 4 роки тому +79

      And the fact she thinks lesbians are awesome 😉👌 (quote: I mean, what do lesbians even look like. It could be literally anybody) = is sooo right 🌈❤️♥️🧡💛💚💙💜🖤

    • @almostwhizzer
      @almostwhizzer 4 роки тому +5

      Yess!!

    • @GayCorvidae69
      @GayCorvidae69 4 роки тому +3

      • MarbleWood • YES

    • @AlyssaGray
      @AlyssaGray  4 роки тому +24

      thank you!!!❤❤❤❤

    • @ziggy33399
      @ziggy33399 4 роки тому

      • MarbleWood • agreed. You’re the best.

  • @rose-je1hf
    @rose-je1hf 3 роки тому +2376

    I like that she doesn’t even care that she’s cutting her hair while her talking about stuff she’s such an amazing person keep up your work love you.

  • @miaholloway7311
    @miaholloway7311 4 роки тому +1397

    I loved when she said while we’re here we should see what I would look like with bangs

    • @kluvxii
      @kluvxii 4 роки тому +13

      I was waiting for that word

    • @dianamiller6745
      @dianamiller6745 4 роки тому +8

      At 13:41 this cut makes you look like lady Gaga

    • @heytheredollfacex
      @heytheredollfacex 4 роки тому +5

      You look cute with bangs.

    • @callmeswivelhips8229
      @callmeswivelhips8229 4 роки тому +1

      Epic

    • @lailamicciche2543
      @lailamicciche2543 4 роки тому

      I said that and cut bangs...... that same day I chopped it off, and now it looks like I shaved off only my bangs. Lmao oops

  • @neonstream6935
    @neonstream6935 3 роки тому +284

    I shaved my head once, I advise every woman try it once, it’s fn liberating!

    • @neonstream6935
      @neonstream6935 3 роки тому +2

      @Prashant M lmao I think it’s different when your other or someone else tells you to shave their own head hahaha it can be a little traumatic, and yeah it’s not for everyone! Personally though, if your girlfriend tried it once she could hate it but love the fact that she could say she did it. Sorry she got upset with you lmao.

    • @makemeghostface4u875
      @makemeghostface4u875 2 роки тому

      @Sociopath The Serial Killer ♡

  • @LisaLana
    @LisaLana 3 роки тому +595

    The fact that she shaved her long pretty hair without hesitation proves how much it bothered her going through the proces of washing it. She could have also quit the job, but instead she shaved her head and kept working and helping everybody during this incredible difficult time. Much respect. Love from amsterdam x

    • @grrpae4932
      @grrpae4932 3 роки тому +1

      Helemaal gelijk😌

    • @-afrodite
      @-afrodite 3 роки тому +4

      @Wren Linnet yeah u can, she doesnt owe anyone anything

    • @koo-core7274
      @koo-core7274 3 роки тому +17

      @@-afrodite youre definitely not an adult. its not about owing anybody anything. its about the fact that life does not make it easy to just quit your job because you want to, unless you want to face the consequences which include eviction, not being able to pay bills, etc.

    • @gculver
      @gculver 3 роки тому

      @@-afrodite No... you really can't

    • @-afrodite
      @-afrodite 3 роки тому

      @@koo-core7274 not what i meant. wren here said said she should stay at her job because its theres a pandemic. she doesnt owe anyone her time thats what i meant. not being in debt etc

  • @racheldye4127
    @racheldye4127 4 роки тому +2553

    The hotel room cleaners are going to go in the bathroom and be like someone changed their identity in there

    • @twill1007
      @twill1007 4 роки тому +13

      😂

    • @ruru99592
      @ruru99592 4 роки тому +35

      They'll have a stroke when they see how much hair they have to clean up

    • @robl1799
      @robl1799 4 роки тому +9

      I still remember the first time I shaved my head. It was messy🤣

    • @prihaps
      @prihaps 4 роки тому

      😂😂🤣🤣🤣

    • @robl1799
      @robl1799 4 роки тому

      @@eliteaz8297 everybody has their own way

  • @themarschievous
    @themarschievous 3 роки тому +2112

    when she started shaving, she was worried of the hair falling on the floor and not going bald, I NEED THIS TYPE OF CONFIDENCE IN LIFE 😂

    • @littleviolet5284
      @littleviolet5284 3 роки тому +17

      Same my mum wants me to have short hair since it's easy to take care but I love my hair so If my hair got cut even a inch I would scream cry and throw a big tantrum...

    • @jelkafabianova2801
      @jelkafabianova2801 3 роки тому +9

      @@littleviolet5284 i am the exact opposite, i would shave my had, have a pixie, bob, any kind of short hairstyle... but my mom loves my hair long so i cannot cut them

    • @littleviolet5284
      @littleviolet5284 3 роки тому +4

      @@jelkafabianova2801 oh... Well you can just cut your hair short when you grow up while now you can just keep it long to make your mum happy also some people look good in long hair then short hair while some look good in short hair for me it's long hair if I got short hair I'm sure I'll not look good but most importantly we should do what we want we have to be comfortable with our life after all

    • @rumanashaikh738
      @rumanashaikh738 3 роки тому

      Samee😂😂😂

    • @Adryelle_24
      @Adryelle_24 3 роки тому

      @@jelkafabianova2801 someone I know would do the same thing if their mom let them

  • @Karenfranco25
    @Karenfranco25 3 роки тому +184

    Don’t know why UA-cam recommended, but I love the look and your personality

  • @oliviaschiebler9478
    @oliviaschiebler9478 4 роки тому +1630

    i have never seen anyone shave their head on UA-cam without making a huge deal about it. I love how she's just excited and going for it. such a badass!

    • @Julia-ie6pd
      @Julia-ie6pd 4 роки тому +26

      Yes, all the girls are like: *cutting the smallest piece of their hair* OH MY GOD WHAT DID I DO I’M CRAZY all the time....

    • @allstr8peopledeservetodie10
      @allstr8peopledeservetodie10 4 роки тому +4

      Lakto za ok so? Lmfao get your pick me energy out of here

    • @eleanorcooper2101
      @eleanorcooper2101 4 роки тому +1

      Ikr

    • @onceupxn
      @onceupxn 4 роки тому +8

      Larissa dos Santos
      Yeah. I shaved my head, after I watched her video. 😂

    • @soyunpanconqueso
      @soyunpanconqueso 4 роки тому +2

      You can check the channel of SAARA, she also shaved her hair without fear jajajaja amazing

  • @YesJosephine
    @YesJosephine 4 роки тому +985

    “I have other thing to spend my time on that’s not my hair” that’s amazing. Love it!

  • @avawilson7130
    @avawilson7130 4 роки тому +3024

    Im so happy she isnt one of the annoying girls that is screaming the whole video because shes cutting off a centimeter of hair. You just get straight to the point and isnt annoying.
    (edit) OMG IVE NEVER GOT THIS MANY LIKES TY!!!!!!!!

    • @AlyssaGray
      @AlyssaGray  4 роки тому +287

      i think i'm super annoying but glad that you don't❤

    • @Cassxowary
      @Cassxowary 4 роки тому +46

      Don’t judge, people are that way for a reason.

    • @angelicasysnila5476
      @angelicasysnila5476 4 роки тому +33

      Yeah It's like, 1st chop : Aaahhhh omgg
      Second chop : OMG!!! JSGDISJZJAJNHJHh mom!!!!!!!
      Lol 😂😂may be they get so amazed so they just scream

    • @_derpity_7043
      @_derpity_7043 4 роки тому +45

      @@Cassxowary they're literally just chopping if a bit of hair and they go like AFDHDHDGDRSSGTHJGHF like seriously if you don't wanna do it don't do it NOBODY IS FORCING YOU

    • @shadesofvioletcat
      @shadesofvioletcat 4 роки тому +5

      I mean how many of these types of videos do you even watch

  • @zoen.6459
    @zoen.6459 3 роки тому +22

    Bless you. My best friend is an ICU nurse and I’ve heard all the stories. You and every other ICU nurse out there are true heroes.

  • @valeriecontreras732
    @valeriecontreras732 3 роки тому +1688

    See u in 10 years when this randomly gets recommend ed again for no reason

  • @mayakth44
    @mayakth44 3 роки тому +932

    “i just wish it wasn’t bleached so i could donate it”, you truly are a fantastic person. Even after choosing to shave your hair to continue to help people you want to do even more. I wish there was more people like you in this world! 🥺

    • @maelle-7463
      @maelle-7463 3 роки тому +13

      Some hair-donation organizations can take bleached hair (thinking about Fake Hair Dont Care in France)

    • @mujeebkhawaja6981
      @mujeebkhawaja6981 3 роки тому +3

      Instead of wishing become the person bro

    • @mayakth44
      @mayakth44 3 роки тому +3

      @@mujeebkhawaja6981 i try to be that person. I can’t help people like she does but i cut my hair every year and donate it. I do what i can and i just hope other people can try and do good things too.

    • @simply558
      @simply558 3 роки тому +1

      @@mujeebkhawaja6981 Not everyone can tho

    • @grabmynuts
      @grabmynuts 3 роки тому

      @@mujeebkhawaja6981 my hair doesnt grow as fast to donate frequently

  • @goprocoolness812
    @goprocoolness812 4 роки тому +2388

    She had no hesitation 😂

    • @AlyssaGray
      @AlyssaGray  4 роки тому +212

      haha none at all

    • @itz_cuddlyteddy5890
      @itz_cuddlyteddy5890 4 роки тому +16

      Agreed!!

    • @bish3167
      @bish3167 4 роки тому +7

      Exactly :0

    • @elmoelmo456
      @elmoelmo456 4 роки тому +1

      she's trying to make it so even in everything but if I shave my head off I would just like make it look crazy cuz you're going to shave it off anyways

    • @robl1799
      @robl1799 4 роки тому +1

      It feels great

  • @luxxxx9170
    @luxxxx9170 3 роки тому +24

    "I hope I look like a badass" girl you are the definition of a badass

  • @KearaGraves
    @KearaGraves 3 роки тому +3457

    hell yeah... i love this IDGAF mindset! you're such a badass!

  • @maliyahkae6059
    @maliyahkae6059 4 роки тому +2060

    Everyone else shaving their head: “i cant believe i’m doing this”
    Her: “i cant believe i’m doing this in my hotel room”

    • @maliyahkae6059
      @maliyahkae6059 4 роки тому +13

      i don’t know why I’m here Thank youu 😭. Means a lot 🥺 👉👈

  • @palolaurenti6269
    @palolaurenti6269 4 роки тому +1156

    omg she is so clear about what she wants, I want to be like her! without fears! love u💕

  • @kathleenwest7797
    @kathleenwest7797 3 роки тому +18

    I am a 63 year old female, been shaving my head for past 5 years. Feel liberated. Get lots of compliments from other females who wish they had courage to do same. I just tell them to try it, hair grows back.✌

  • @xenowhore
    @xenowhore 4 роки тому +215

    I shaved my head for the first time in my life in March and I have never felt more confident, badass, and attractive in my entire life. No joke! Can't believe it took me 36 years.

  • @kylaraymone4019
    @kylaraymone4019 3 роки тому +1226

    she didn't even FLINCH on that first cut like most people do, she just WENT for it! Wow!

  • @wannabandaid
    @wannabandaid 4 роки тому +372

    Just imagine Brad Mondo, beginning of video “nooo girl what are you doing!?”... 22 minutes later: “but why do I love this!?”

    • @-p0ll0-73
      @-p0ll0-73 4 роки тому

      @brad mondo

    • @nimanixo
      @nimanixo 4 роки тому

      Literally all his videos 😂

    • @jesska16
      @jesska16 4 роки тому

      We need to get Brad Mondo on this asap!!!! ❤

    • @thedragonofdoom9838
      @thedragonofdoom9838 4 роки тому +2

      @@jesska16 this was in one of his videos

  • @glitterlim
    @glitterlim 3 роки тому +58

    I shaved my head for the first time yesterday and I really recommend it to everyone, such a nice feeling

    • @moonandsun4903
      @moonandsun4903 3 роки тому +2

      Since its been a little while since you have shaved your head, would you still recommend? Cos more than tempted!!

    • @glitterlim
      @glitterlim 3 роки тому +3

      @@moonandsun4903 yes I would definitely still recomend it (: it has now grown out a bit but I think I'm gonna keep it short for a while😊

    • @moonandsun4903
      @moonandsun4903 3 роки тому +3

      @@glitterlim been wanting to do it for so long but lately it's more of a need haha, this has helped and I now know its only hair, thank you!

    • @glitterlim
      @glitterlim 3 роки тому +1

      @@moonandsun4903 happy to help and I'm sure it'll fit you! 😊

    • @moonandsun4903
      @moonandsun4903 3 роки тому +2

      @@glitterlim I did it🙉

  • @oshy2128
    @oshy2128 4 роки тому +942

    “Am i scared I’m gonna look like a boy? Boys are awesome
    But I’m a girl, and I’m comfortable with that”

    • @AlyssaGray
      @AlyssaGray  4 роки тому +40

      ❤❤❤

    • @pennywilson6293
      @pennywilson6293 4 роки тому

      Do it

    • @oliviaconti6064
      @oliviaconti6064 4 роки тому +1

      I love your profile pic

    • @eitakou
      @eitakou 4 роки тому +4

      I feel connected to that statement... Like I want to be a boy but I'm also comfortable as a girl so I get confused

    • @luiza2801
      @luiza2801 4 роки тому

      .

  • @aparna1168
    @aparna1168 3 роки тому +1183

    This really inspires.. in a society where a girl without hair is considered as the worst among everything... u really is an inspiration..

    • @junxzckmultistan8405
      @junxzckmultistan8405 3 роки тому +49

      I always keep my hair very short and got an undercut done ..my hair is almost ear length but I get a lot of smack talk from my teacher saying why you tryna look like a boy but I am the most comfortable with my short hair my mom never objects me from shaving my hair but the ppl in my school stare at me and keep on calling me a trans or gay ..,Idc bcuz I am happy to be whoever I am and I support all sexualities so the homophobes in my school can go and SUCK a dick

    • @emy._.
      @emy._. 3 роки тому +11

      @@junxzckmultistan8405 good for you girl! You do you :)

    • @elizabethmolloy3908
      @elizabethmolloy3908 3 роки тому +25

      Not taking away from this awesome woman. I am just confused, " in a society where a girl without hair is seen as the worst among everything." The "worst" among everything?
      Are you referring to women in American society? If so, i must say how inaccurate this statement is and how you said our society holds such belief. I would say that's just false. I'm hoping I missed something on this. Also, not trying to offend, genuinely curious as to hear what you meant?

    • @aparna1168
      @aparna1168 3 роки тому +7

      @@elizabethmolloy3908 i was not referring to American society.. I just meant the society where we belong. And let me add, how confidently have u replied that your American society is not like this. I just loved that and hope for a society where women are confident to say like this..(in my country)

    • @elizabethmolloy3908
      @elizabethmolloy3908 3 роки тому +3

      @@aparna1168 thank you for clarifying. I know there are still those who think that nonsense in America and I am not naive to it being the majority of thought in societies not of my own, but what you said was very humbling and really clear to me how I take things like having the choice to wear my hair how I like it, for granted. Thank you for that. 💜 You deserve to feel the exact same freedom. Please forgive me for such a rude and presumptuous comment. I apologize for making, but i am however glad it lead me to hear what you had to say. Thank you!! : )

  • @sunnysummer4934
    @sunnysummer4934 4 роки тому +1275

    Other girls: „Oh my god I cannot believe I am doing this.“
    She: „ Oh my god, the hair is going to be everywhere.“ 😄
    Queen! :)

    • @allstr8peopledeservetodie10
      @allstr8peopledeservetodie10 4 роки тому +2

      Wtf is wrong with you

    • @Johanna-yx2pw
      @Johanna-yx2pw 4 роки тому +20

      FR E SH A VOCA DO what’s wrong with you wtf ?

    • @Thelilmissbz
      @Thelilmissbz 4 роки тому

      “This looks awesome” lol

    • @antichrist4449
      @antichrist4449 4 роки тому +2

      I shaved my head a year ago and I shave the sides like once a month. The little hair spikes...hurt...they go everywhere and it is so annoying. If you are gonna do this cover your shoulders.

    • @ihateyouall7026
      @ihateyouall7026 4 роки тому +1

      You shouldn’t compare girls.

  • @SF-ce1qn
    @SF-ce1qn 3 роки тому +5

    I’m here because I want to shave my head...I’m 54....I swim a lot and am sick of taking care of my hair to fit in with societal expectations. We are suckers...coloring, styling, products, the time wasted...etc..
    Thank you for being on frontline of the the pandemic!

  • @user-ho9us8wx5r
    @user-ho9us8wx5r 3 роки тому +569

    I love her confidence she just so chill to me.

  • @prim6381
    @prim6381 3 роки тому +3416

    why is no one talking about how she looks exactly like meghan trainor

  • @mallissajackson6233
    @mallissajackson6233 4 роки тому +1223

    Am I the only one that thinks she’s prettier with a shaved head it really shows off her features and pretty eyes I think the long blonde hair is just so typical but the shaved head truly makes her features stand out

    • @vernondavis6095
      @vernondavis6095 4 роки тому +11

      she is prettier hope she keeps it and maybe puts the razor to it

    • @simonagrigoruta
      @simonagrigoruta 4 роки тому +6

      Ofcourse her features stand out because she's wearing make up.

    • @elizabethm.4916
      @elizabethm.4916 4 роки тому +13

      I was thinking the exact same thing! Her eyes totally pop even more without all the distracting hair. She looks amazing!

    • @feliciaann721
      @feliciaann721 4 роки тому +7

      Simona Grigoruta you do realize she was wearing makeup before she shaved her head, right?

    • @simonagrigoruta
      @simonagrigoruta 4 роки тому +3

      @@feliciaann721 yes, I see that. What I ment it is make up that makes her features stand out, not the baldness. If she was not wearing make up at all, you would not see those features as clearly.

  • @MissVirtualEyes
    @MissVirtualEyes 3 роки тому +4

    Your reasons for shaving off all of your hair is absolutely justified and valid. With your highly dangerous job and the amount of time and energy it takes from you, it's understandable that you need to do what's convenient and comfortable. Thank you for doing the job you're doing to save the lives of patients with covid and being there for those who may not make it out too. You are a very brave and big-hearted young woman and with a great guy who loves and supports you. You look beautiful with hair and just as beautiful with it all shaven too. In fact, all the more because there is now more focus on your beautiful facial features. You're admirable so I'm subscribing.

  • @devin3838
    @devin3838 3 роки тому +1081

    “what does a lesbian look like? a lesbian can be anybody.” PREACH BBY

  • @grayskindablue
    @grayskindablue 3 роки тому +243

    I don’t even mean this specifically about her hair- but she seems SO comfortable in who she is and unbothered by what anyone else might think. That level of not just confidence but comfort within yourself is admirable and such a wonderful thing to see.
    As a side note, it looks badass.

  • @kayland.5724
    @kayland.5724 4 роки тому +182

    I love that she literally rocked every length. I'm subscribing. Not just for her looks, but her personality is bomb af

  • @crystalsoulsgacha6561
    @crystalsoulsgacha6561 3 роки тому +452

    "a lesbian can be anyone"
    Me, who's bi and incredibly girly with extremely long hair (and no desire to cut it shorter than shoulder length): THANK YOU

    • @CandlesnKisses
      @CandlesnKisses 3 роки тому +1

      You single?

    • @crystalsoulsgacha6561
      @crystalsoulsgacha6561 3 роки тому +1

      @@CandlesnKisses Unfortunately, yes

    • @CandlesnKisses
      @CandlesnKisses 3 роки тому +1

      @@crystalsoulsgacha6561 you got Twitter ? FB ? IG ?

    • @crystalsoulsgacha6561
      @crystalsoulsgacha6561 3 роки тому +9

      @@sr0716 I know, I'm saying that people shouldn't assume that just because someone's lesbian they need to have super short hair or just because someone has short hair they're lesbian. They're 2 things that don't relate to each other at all and we need to stop acting like they do. But if a lesbian or bi person has short hair that's obviously their choice and they're awesome too :)

    • @crystalsoulsgacha6561
      @crystalsoulsgacha6561 3 роки тому +5

      @@CandlesnKisses Well yeah but I was mainly joking, I'm a minor so I don't really think you'd want to date me

  • @MMAJE5
    @MMAJE5 3 роки тому +739

    She reminds me of Meghan Trainor. I'm sure she's heard this before.

  • @aurixiaispreppy7454
    @aurixiaispreppy7454 4 роки тому +251

    i just watched this woman shaving her head and i don't regret it

  • @tejasramteke2296
    @tejasramteke2296 4 роки тому +1775

    It's just something about a woman with shorts hairs that screams power....R-E-S-P-E-C-T 3000...

    • @AlyssaGray
      @AlyssaGray  4 роки тому +48

      Hahah love this comment, thank you!!

    • @princesslamour1985
      @princesslamour1985 4 роки тому +5

      True

    • @lindsaybyrd1125
      @lindsaybyrd1125 4 роки тому +40

      @Kate M.hunter nobody cares about what you think they look and smell like. If your basing that off of a haircut thats your own problem. Its an opinion, and its disrespectful. Dont hate on people because your insecure. If we were to take what you said about cancer patients and flip it, that would be like me saying if a cancer patient wears a wig they are disgusting because i think they should stay bald because that have cancer and they shouldn't have hair because of their meds, or that people with cancer that don't lose their hair are disgusting because they have hair and alot of others dont.

    • @Vincent1996
      @Vincent1996 4 роки тому +26

      Kate M.hunter Jesus, Karen. Whoops...*Kate*. Damn autocorrect. If it’s not from cancer? You know there’s a whole lot of other illnesses that cause hair loss? Well, rather treatments that cause hair loss. Chemotherapy causes hair loss, not cancer. Like, people who have transplanted organs/skin grafts have to take immunosuppressive medications that often cause hair loss. So, you can piss off with your broad generalizations. Disgusting?! What’s disgusting is YOU, going around throwing Names around at people based on their hair/stylistic decisions. It’d be egregious(maybe) if she snuck into your(what I can only presume is a cave and/or swamp)living apace, and cut YOUR hair. Did you watch the actual video or did you just skip right to the clipper moments? Her reasoning was practical and completely understandable. Pass your judgements onto yourself, or other hateful people, not ESSENTIAL medical personnel(nurses) who are just trying to do their jobs , whatever it takes. If you listen to her reasons, they’re pretty selfless. Why don’t you make like the Ogre you are, and piss off home to your swamp🙄

    • @nadalynscrochettutorials9921
      @nadalynscrochettutorials9921 4 роки тому +5

      @Kate M. Hunter even if she doesn’t have cancer She can have a shaved head. It doesn’t matter if your fat or of your skinny if you have long hair or if you’re bald God loves YOU. You should listen to You Say by Lauren Daigle I’m praying for you next time you want to
      Say something just don’t.

  • @caelumlucis
    @caelumlucis 3 роки тому +17

    Timestamps
    (I’d just watch the video tbh cause she’s really funny and cool :)
    Shoulder length: 6:40 and 7:35
    Back: 8:04, 9:11, 10:22
    Bangs: 11:42
    Bowl cut: 12:32 and 13:28
    Tiny snip: 13:51
    Bowl cut pt 2: 14:09, 14:22 and 15:07
    Bowl cut pt 3: 15:51, 16:38 and 17:15
    The first shave!: 18:32
    Shave: 19:15

  • @runsusierun80
    @runsusierun80 4 роки тому +550

    I am laughing so hard right now and I am so glad that you did transitional haircuts before the final product! God bless you for having such an amazing sense of humor about life, because life is freaking ridiculous right now and the only way to get through all of it is to laugh. 😂😂❤️

    • @AlyssaGray
      @AlyssaGray  4 роки тому +39

      Glad you liked it!! This comment made me smile so much, because it made me think back to when I was doing the transitional haircuts and how funny it was to me as well. Definitely was a ton of fun! You're so right about life and the world right now. At this point, I'm like "whats next?!" oh yeah, murder hornets haha

    • @catscl0set
      @catscl0set 4 роки тому +4

      Truth sister !

    • @Supernaturawr
      @Supernaturawr 4 роки тому +1

      And she looks great in all of them! Bald, the pixie, the bob, the long bob, everything looks ~chic hahahaha

  • @ZoeyBorrelli
    @ZoeyBorrelli 4 роки тому +522

    okay but why does she literally rock EVERY STYLE SHE CREATED

    • @mile89na
      @mile89na 4 роки тому +2

      My same thoughts

    • @tanyanguyen3704
      @tanyanguyen3704 4 роки тому +1

      Unfair! Lol

    • @wren_roeglass
      @wren_roeglass 4 роки тому +4

      I mean, makeup transforms features. She has great eye makeup and lipstick on, with a smooth face. Those things can help anyone rock anything :) (I take things too literally sometimes so)

    • @kyrawins6252
      @kyrawins6252 4 роки тому +3

      In a word: confidence. She rocked every look because she believed she did and acted accordingly.

  • @haircuttincasey
    @haircuttincasey 4 роки тому +112

    Two things.....1: As someone recovering from COVID-19 THANK YOU for everything you're doing! 2: you look gorgeous!

    • @AlyssaGray
      @AlyssaGray  4 роки тому +9

      Thanks for sharing!! I hope you are feeling better and that you and your family are healthy! and thank you!!

  • @mitzelx
    @mitzelx 3 роки тому +74

    I can’t imagine not watching this at 4am

  • @Octavia2016
    @Octavia2016 4 роки тому +699

    Love your attitude!!!!! My mantra is “if you don’t like the way I look then don’t look at me”. I’m a 62 yr old grandmother, love really short hair & don’t own makeup.

    • @litchtheshinigami8936
      @litchtheshinigami8936 4 роки тому +16

      Short hair is the best.. no knots no nonsense no need to put it back in certain situations and scramble for a way to tie it.. i rarely ever wear makeup but when i do i go for the most out there makeup i can (blue or purple lipstick and dark eyeliner )

    • @c0llapsingst4rs
      @c0llapsingst4rs 4 роки тому +10

      You go Sandra!!

    • @mommy2kitty
      @mommy2kitty 4 роки тому +6

      I'm 65 and you make me want to try it!!

    • @lanagrace2959
      @lanagrace2959 4 роки тому +5

      Sandra Perkin I love you profile pic:)

    • @uoxanna945
      @uoxanna945 4 роки тому +5

      amazing 💖

  • @CalamityJane831
    @CalamityJane831 4 роки тому +538

    I am a RN with Covid patients. I have been thinking about doing this & it’s as if UA-cam read my mind & recommended this

    • @AlyssaGray
      @AlyssaGray  4 роки тому +70

      thank you for taking care of covid patients and being on the frontline

    • @pinkcherry9695
      @pinkcherry9695 4 роки тому +6

      @@paulacosta9550 ok hun, so first of all no one asked for your toxicity ☺️

    • @Breighyn
      @Breighyn 4 роки тому +12

      @@paulacosta9550 Did you watch the video? She shaved her head because its become a burden because of the added stress and requirements of her job due to the pandemic. Like just shut up, you're fucking awful.

    • @isabellamerrigan8074
      @isabellamerrigan8074 4 роки тому +1

      Heartsy Kpopper did they delete the comment

    • @debdekarski809
      @debdekarski809 4 роки тому +9

      Acute dialysis RN here working the Covid too. Been thinking about shaving my head too. My hair is thick and the hats are hot and I’m sick of washing it too. Plus I wear a hat at work so is is going to know. So glad I found your video

  • @brookemaxon3523
    @brookemaxon3523 3 роки тому +432

    Girl I’m not gunna do it, I’m just thinking bout it..
    I’m just thinking bout it!!
    Girl I did it....

    • @sneh5748
      @sneh5748 3 роки тому +9

      Wow! How do you feel??

    • @maybememories925
      @maybememories925 3 роки тому +5

      Really? Aaaand?!

    • @motionmadness2735
      @motionmadness2735 3 роки тому +3

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @sneh5748
      @sneh5748 3 роки тому +2

      @@brookemaxon3523 good for you!😁

    • @tyblips
      @tyblips 3 роки тому +3

      Legit this was my immediate thought when she was talking about how she thought about it for like 4 days lmao

  • @Katherine-nz5dz
    @Katherine-nz5dz 3 роки тому +223

    most girls cutting their hair: OmGG I cant EvEN believe I did THiSss
    Alyssa: I wish my hair wasn't bleached so I could donate it

  • @msjellyfishstar13
    @msjellyfishstar13 4 роки тому +239

    Honestly I think this suits her so much better than the long blonde hair, the short bob when her hair grows back will be really cute too!

    • @AlyssaGray
      @AlyssaGray  4 роки тому +27

      yeah the blonde hair was an impulsive thing that I did and just kept it going but so happy to be rid of it and back to my normal shade

    • @litchtheshinigami8936
      @litchtheshinigami8936 4 роки тому +4

      The blonde makes her face look too pale and kind of flushed out.. her darker hair would make her face look a lot warmer

  • @marselijaneredford3161
    @marselijaneredford3161 3 роки тому +217

    "HAIR DOESNT MAKE YOU A PRETTY PERSON"
    YES GIRL!!!

  • @Gold-sf1kq
    @Gold-sf1kq 3 роки тому +217

    I love how she would rather shave her head than quit helping patients with the virus

  • @Precious.Marketing
    @Precious.Marketing 3 роки тому +4

    Girl!!! You look so much better bald! It brings out your big bright eyes!!! I have been considering shaving my head for a couple of months now. You just encouraged me! Thank you!! Bravo!!!

  • @aj6338
    @aj6338 4 роки тому +96

    We always talk about toxic masculinity but never healthy femininity?... I don’t even think it has a real term. I love how confident she is in herself, regardless of her hair length. She is comfortable with her own self expression and doesn’t let others define her. So cool!

    • @AlyssaGray
      @AlyssaGray  4 роки тому +14

      I love this comment and you🥺🥺💕💕

  • @Eeeeeeeeerie
    @Eeeeeeeeerie 4 роки тому +448

    Short bangs look great on her! The mullet was bomb as well. And then bald head totally made her look badass.

    • @AlyssaGray
      @AlyssaGray  4 роки тому +36

      Thank you!💕

    • @kayleeerickson8739
      @kayleeerickson8739 3 роки тому

      Alyssa Gray also your supporting people with cancer by shaving your head

  • @gneepgnarp
    @gneepgnarp 4 роки тому +889

    I never understood y people think someone shaving their head means they're mentally ill or unstable, like no lmao thats not always the case JUST LET PEOPLE SHAVE THEIR DAMN HEAD😠😠😠😠😠😠

    • @thatbitchnoemie
      @thatbitchnoemie 4 роки тому +36

      Because of what Britney Spears did in 2007

    • @ihateyouall7026
      @ihateyouall7026 4 роки тому +12

      It’s because of Britney.

    • @litchtheshinigami8936
      @litchtheshinigami8936 4 роки тому +1

      I mean my hair is shaven on the sides but the top is longer

    • @gurpleraven
      @gurpleraven 4 роки тому

      @@thatbitchnoemie what did she do?

    • @taoist32
      @taoist32 4 роки тому +1

      Afrah Johar She went crazy and shaved her head as an act of rebelliousness.

  • @fadedxdreamer0
    @fadedxdreamer0 3 роки тому +34

    I wasn’t even looking for this, but it’s the most wholesome thing I’ve seen in a while.

  • @MiniM69
    @MiniM69 4 роки тому +278

    Bald angels walk among us! Stay safe and thank you, lady!

    • @AlyssaGray
      @AlyssaGray  4 роки тому +5

      M thank you!! stay healthy!

  • @freddiecheriee
    @freddiecheriee 4 роки тому +1122

    Alyssa : *explains all the reasons she’s sick of her hair* Me : that’s what I call an unproblematic queen

  • @AlyxRhae
    @AlyxRhae 4 роки тому +325

    When she said "What do lesbians even look like?" That made me so happy. There isn't a look to a specific sexuality or gender. I personally think real men can wear make up and pink because they aren't afraid to damaged their poor fragile masculinity.

    • @jj5643
      @jj5643 4 роки тому +5

      This ^

    • @lhlychee
      @lhlychee 4 роки тому

      dysphoria for trans men though 😳

    • @diora266
      @diora266 4 роки тому

      YES! i fucking HATE it. FUCK THE STEREOTYPES!!!

    • @peepinsleep409
      @peepinsleep409 3 роки тому

      she also said "I look like a boy. And boys are awesome." that was so cute haha

  • @Thefarunlitunknown
    @Thefarunlitunknown 3 роки тому +4

    I just shaved my head earlier this evening and now I’m on UA-cam looking at other amazing women shaving their heads, but this video is by far my favorite. You’re an incredible human, and the definition of total badass!!

  • @jojomtz927
    @jojomtz927 3 роки тому +201

    i love how she’s always like “i love it” “this is awesome”. she doesn’t even regret it one bit

  • @hwagner717
    @hwagner717 4 роки тому +498

    brad mondo was quaking when you brought out the scissors haha

    • @hwagner717
      @hwagner717 4 роки тому +5

      @*sips tea* YES

    • @davidmyers-wakeman5515
      @davidmyers-wakeman5515 4 роки тому +19

      Yesss
      *When you love watching someone watch someone else you love watching*

    • @cameliaterrellservantofJesus
      @cameliaterrellservantofJesus 4 роки тому

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @pscaravelli
      @pscaravelli 4 роки тому +1

      You look SO BADASS!!! Seriously, you look way better bald. You have the face for it! All that yellow hair was distracting from your pretty features! Rock it, girl! 😍

    • @jaievans5155
      @jaievans5155 4 роки тому

      😂😂😂

  • @worldallaround8466
    @worldallaround8466 3 роки тому +76

    I am also a doctor and I m also fed up of washing my hair every shift..my hair is falling like anything...this is a good idea

  • @mknapp7718
    @mknapp7718 3 роки тому +3

    Just found this by accident. I almost NEVER cut my hair. I like it long. I was amazed at how cute you were with a shaved head! You go girl. Be true to yourself and you can’t go wrong. 10 extra points for finding a guy that will support your decisions. He sounds like a keeper.

  • @user-qg1sr9mp7f
    @user-qg1sr9mp7f 4 роки тому +71

    Gurl what the hell. I have been wanting to shave my hair for years and I never did it. You did it so impulsively, i love that. I am going to shave my hair tonight, just gonna do it without overthinking it. Thanks for giving me the courage, you look stunning.

    • @sara-ql1xs
      @sara-ql1xs 4 роки тому +5

      Did you do it?☺😂

    • @user-qg1sr9mp7f
      @user-qg1sr9mp7f 4 роки тому +26

      @sara 15 yes! It feels sooo good lol! Best decision ever made

    • @sara-ql1xs
      @sara-ql1xs 4 роки тому +4

      @@user-qg1sr9mp7f that's awesome😎 I'm thinking of doing it too but my parents would freak out lol

    • @user-qg1sr9mp7f
      @user-qg1sr9mp7f 4 роки тому +2

      sara 15 My parents were so shocked lol, they are still trying to act normal. it’s your body, your hair, have fun with it. ❤️ maybe you can try a short haircut so they can get used to it haha!

  • @pearlajai
    @pearlajai 4 роки тому +545

    As soon as you said “what does a lesbian even look like? A lesbian can be anybody” I laughed and subscribed! I hate how they’re stereotyped to look a certain way it’s so sad. This was so real of you!’

    • @zarakb2522
      @zarakb2522 4 роки тому +12

      Literally! I’m a femme lesbian and everyone always assumes I’m straight and when I tell them I’m not everyone is shocked 😂😂

    • @egzi9160
      @egzi9160 4 роки тому +9

      I agree! I’ve been thinking of having my hair cut short (I had that once and loved it) but everybody keep telling me that I’d look like a lesbian. I mean.... really? I loved that sentence “what does a lesbian look like?” Exactly!!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 👌🏼

    • @vernondavis6095
      @vernondavis6095 4 роки тому +1

      @@egzi9160 some lesbians do have short hair but I have never seen a lesbian with a shaved head just do it

    • @allstr8peopledeservetodie10
      @allstr8peopledeservetodie10 4 роки тому +5

      vernon davis mam what? the way you look has NOTHING to do with your sexuality idiot

    • @nonsensetalk8953
      @nonsensetalk8953 4 роки тому +2

      @@allstr8peopledeservetodie10 It does in a way.Certain lesbians have a particular look..ie.butch lesbians look masculine.Some gay men go for certain looks,such as the leather look,in the eighties

  • @katielynnweber672
    @katielynnweber672 4 роки тому +65

    This shows just how confident, beautiful and amazing you are! You don't care what people think and that is awesome. My goal someday. Way to go girl. You look gorgeous!

    • @AlyssaGray
      @AlyssaGray  4 роки тому +5

      Thank you so much!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @sgh869
    @sgh869 3 роки тому +43

    They're spying on my thoughts now that's how this video was recommended to me, great .I hope to get the courage to do this once in my life.

    • @tyblips
      @tyblips 3 роки тому +3

      Just do it. So many people might complain but in the end it's your head. Like, I had long ringlets past the middle of my back, went from a side shave to nothin past the shoulders for the past like 6 years and I love the short styles!

    • @phantomfae_2323
      @phantomfae_2323 3 роки тому +1

      sara_zkh h do it! You're gonna look like a complete baddie. Go for it! It grows back!!!

    • @whatamidoing5656
      @whatamidoing5656 3 роки тому

      me too

  • @alecBernard
    @alecBernard 4 роки тому +669

    "What does a lesbian looks like anyway? A lesbian could be anyone"
    Yes! Say it louder please

    • @livchapman8013
      @livchapman8013 4 роки тому +8

      yesssss u support mah fam 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

    • @litchtheshinigami8936
      @litchtheshinigami8936 4 роки тому +3

      Exactly i have a pixie cut and have had someone ask me if i was lesbian.. i’m asexual thank you !

    • @abbygrace1367
      @abbygrace1367 4 роки тому

      @@litchtheshinigami8936 what does asexual mean?

    • @litchtheshinigami8936
      @litchtheshinigami8936 4 роки тому

      @@abbygrace1367 someone who is asexual isn't sexually attracted to anyone now there are different types like aromantic wich is someone who doesn't want anything when it comes to romance either and then there is a difference where some are sex repulsed and others don't mind it or do actually like it. now there is a type that can be sexually attracted with is demisexual these are people who need to get to know someone first and will be attracted to their personality instead of physical form like a homosexual bisexual or heterosexual would be. in my own case i'm asexual heteroromantic inching more towards being demisexual but because i've never actually met a real person that i actually have been attracted to. those i have don't exist a good example of someone like that would be Garak from star trek deep space nine

    • @abbygrace1367
      @abbygrace1367 4 роки тому

      @@litchtheshinigami8936 oh wow. That all sounds so complicated, but thank you so much for telling me.

  • @kayleeamelia6074
    @kayleeamelia6074 4 роки тому +310

    famous last words: "i probably should have googled this"

  • @beccamatlock2376
    @beccamatlock2376 4 роки тому +174

    You look BEAUTIFUL! As a girl who has shaved her head previously as well, that “awkward” growing out stage goes by quick. It does look a little weird when it’s that fuzzy length and if you’re prone to cowlicks, that can make it worse. But your hair is sooo healthy from it, it grows so quick. Also, a growing out tip to help stimulate the follicles and help hair growth, massage works better than any product when growing out a shaved head. My hair grows so slow but after shaving it, I had a full on bob after about 8 months. Whether you grow it back out or decide to upkeep it, it looks stunning on you. (: Thank you so much for your volunteered service in such a scary time. 💕

    • @AlyssaGray
      @AlyssaGray  4 роки тому +11

      Ha! I think I'm just hitting that awkward puffy growing out stage and it makes me laugh whenever I look in the mirror or get out of the shower and its soooo fluffy! Def going to start massaging my head, thanks for the tip! Looking forward to the bob phase! thanks for the tips and kind words!

  • @cjphights8324
    @cjphights8324 3 роки тому +1

    The nurses who traveled around during the pandemic don't get enough credit or respect thank you for all you did that takes a lot of courage to choose to work extra during a deadly pandemic.

  • @ashleyschmidt2413
    @ashleyschmidt2413 4 роки тому +177

    “While I’m here, I might as well see what I look like with bangs” 😂😂😭😂

  • @clairejaakkola9476
    @clairejaakkola9476 3 роки тому +160

    “People are gonna think that I lost my shit and I dont really care” yass queen

  • @karlyk.2096
    @karlyk.2096 3 роки тому +259

    She seems like the kind of person that's really easy to get along with, with anyone..... and she is just the kind of person you want to be around

  • @cookiecloudcrumblesofficia8876
    @cookiecloudcrumblesofficia8876 3 роки тому +30

    Other girls: *panics* OMG I CANT BELIEVE IM DOING THIS OMG!!!! IM SO SCARED EEEEEKK!
    This queen: *trying on different hairstyles and jokes about it, being really chill*

  • @Vincent1996
    @Vincent1996 4 роки тому +182

    During the first 5 minutes I was just like “girl, it’s your hair, it’s your choice. You don’t have to justify your decisions to anyone but yourself”🤷🏼‍♂️. That being said, I completely understand. Your reason was very practical! I had a double lung transplant a little over 2 years ago. My hair was down to my waist, and being terminally ill was exhausting. I couldn’t keep up with keeping my hair “presentable” and focus on warding off death. After the transplant, I spent a few weeks in the ICU, a month and a half(?) altogether inpatient. Basically, I cut it off because it was a lot of work. I got overheated really fast because of how hard my body was working just doing daily tasks. I cut it all off, too. A very long-windex way to tell you: it’s not THAT impulsive and it looks good! Hair grows back! Take care of yourself, whatever that means to you! Thank you for doing what you’re doing in New York!😌

    • @thread_witch
      @thread_witch 4 роки тому +3

      Jet I’m in a similar boat right now! I have nerve issues from yeast overgrowth and it’s made my whole head burn and itch. I have to keep it shaved and basically ice my head at all times lol I just overheat is easily. I’m to a point now where I realize it’s just hair and it doesn’t define my worth ✨

    • @arielroblesruiz9466
      @arielroblesruiz9466 4 роки тому +1

      @@thread_witch God bless you! Prayers & hugs Sis! ❤️🙏🏾💯

    • @Vincent1996
      @Vincent1996 4 роки тому +1

      Thea Rose yes! I have serious nerve damage in my chest from the surgery and it itches ALL THE TIME. Whenever I sweat, itch. Whenever I wear a sweater, itch. Whenever I wear clothes in general, itch: it’s awful. If it was on my head I’m positive I’d be shaving it too, Sis! It ABSOLUTELY DOES NOT Define your worth! If you’re comfortable with it, and you radiate confidence, “naysayers” will fall in line. I’m glad you’ve found a way to handle it, my friend!

  • @kaitlynmohr
    @kaitlynmohr 4 роки тому +232

    The hotel maid is gonna think u went through something rough lol. All that hair in the bathroom garbage

  • @anqeldqisy8093
    @anqeldqisy8093 3 роки тому +314

    Dude just imagine, if you wanna shave your head you could just like cut your hair however you want before you do that-
    Just like cut bangs and maybe go for a bob and play around with your hair and then you can just shave everything off

    • @griiaaa
      @griiaaa 3 роки тому +17

      I am actually planing to shave my head and also thought about trying different hairstiles first. The problem is that i am not at all self confident and just too afraid of the reactions and the attention I will get from my schoolmates. So I am just not doing it even though I really want

    • @griiaaa
      @griiaaa 3 роки тому +2

      I wish I was an selfconfident as her

    • @TeezyBee
      @TeezyBee 3 роки тому +8

      anonym blabla just do it for yourself! While in the process of shaving it off do the hairstyles, no need to show anybody or let anyone see. Maybe you’ll find a cute style to rock when your hair grows back! I’m sure you’ll look great in any hairstyle ❤️

    • @griiaaa
      @griiaaa 3 роки тому +1

      @@TeezyBee thank you

    • @narnia1233
      @narnia1233 3 роки тому +2

      That is an idea. I haven’t had bangs since I was a little kid, but I have a large forehead and have wondered what bangs would look like now as an adult. Not sure if I’d hate them because my hair is not straight or thick. Afraid they’d look like a poodle puff or something, but it’d give you confidence if you’re just shaving it all off. Unfortunately I don’t want to shave my head, cause my face is ugly and honestly I feel better if I can hide my side profile with hair a bit. 😆

  • @erikazauzig6111
    @erikazauzig6111 3 роки тому +4

    I love your free spirit. Thank you for helping people with COVID-19. You're amazing! 💜

  • @Victoria-sn2xd
    @Victoria-sn2xd 3 роки тому +452

    Imagine acne sufferers would have this much confidence to just walk around completely bare and say fyck it.

    • @rileys7231
      @rileys7231 3 роки тому +5

      Aka Ethan Dolan. 🤷‍♀️

    • @pospina112
      @pospina112 3 роки тому +25

      I am like that😀😀 i mean i dont even use make-up, mascara or other shit🤐. I just use bb cream sometimes🙂 and i am totally fine🥳 everybody respects that and for my age(15) i am very thankful for that because other are going for full make-up you know. And yea i forgot to say: i have acne for like 3 years now. It has been all over my face but now it is getting better!! Praying for everybody who has to go thru that 😌 you can do it!!😘😘😘😘

    • @ayalienee8634
      @ayalienee8634 3 роки тому +12

      They should 😊👍 nothing wrong with it, also much healthier for the skin.

    • @gurke1272
      @gurke1272 3 роки тому +1

      I've had both and don't find them comparable in the least.
      Having a shaved head did not bother me, it was in fact very comfortable.😉
      It's also neither painful nor a disease.
      Severe acne is a whole different issue. It's painful and your whole face looks like a crater-like bright red burn so that without camouflage make-up passersby startle and most conversation partners look at you as if they were witnessing an accident.
      It was an annoying time.
      Nowadays I only wear make-up on special occasions.
      At prior comments:
      I'm glad you are so confident and comfortable with it.🤗
      That being said make-up needn't be harmful to your skin. Skin-friendly make-up does not contain ingredients that clog up your pores, worsen acne or dry out your skin. For skin diseases or sensitive skin I recommend getting cosmetics solely at a pharmacy.
      Also foundation is not supposed to be visible or feel heavy on your skin (less is more).

    • @notwilla
      @notwilla 3 роки тому +2

      Yes what an awesome world

  • @zahava.kaplan
    @zahava.kaplan 3 роки тому +431

    I love how confident she is.

  • @dolycha5323
    @dolycha5323 4 роки тому +64

    I shaved my head in nursing school because a teacher kept giving me a hard time about the little curls on my neckline. I had hair down to my waist at the time. I liked it when I did it too. By the time I graduated, it had grown out to a pixie length, about 3 inches or so. I kept it short for another 5 years or so...but I eventually let it grow again, it's down to my waist again now.

    • @RealGlowup
      @RealGlowup 4 роки тому

      This ☝️👏👏👏

    • @RealGlowup
      @RealGlowup 4 роки тому +3

      It’s too bad everyone were probably oblivious to your feelings / motivation behind your cut.

  • @anxious3mpath
    @anxious3mpath 4 роки тому +75

    The dedication to care more about the patients than your looks is everything!

  • @marissavera2599
    @marissavera2599 4 роки тому +338

    I love it!! Every now and then I think about shaving my head!! Hair does not define beauty at all!!!

    • @AlyssaGray
      @AlyssaGray  4 роки тому +33

      thanks love! since shaving my head, i feel so empowered and still feel beautiful!! every girl should shave their head at least once in their life! such a good feeling to start fresh and not have to worry about it!

    • @jillrowlan7517
      @jillrowlan7517 4 роки тому +7

      @@AlyssaGray I'd love to shave my head too but shaved headed on women only look good if you have a pretty face, so I won't be doing it.

    • @yvonnewaswa97
      @yvonnewaswa97 4 роки тому +2

      True

    • @lindsayguedea7721
      @lindsayguedea7721 4 роки тому +4

      JILL ROWLAN that’s ridiculous. You’re beautiful

    • @crazydiamond4565
      @crazydiamond4565 4 роки тому +4

      @@jillrowlan7517 You are beautiful! If you do it, I'll do it! I'm 62 and growing out my gray. It's only grown out an inch so I would totally cut it off at 1 inch! Ahhhhhhhh! 😜🤪😝

  • @maralizaramos2072
    @maralizaramos2072 4 роки тому +38

    I shaved my hair for cancer research when I was 15 and it taught me from an early age that hair doesn’t make you who you are. And I feel like I became a better person and way less vain. Good job with this! I’m a nurse too and I totally understand this whole ordeal! Lol
    best wishes with this crazy time, you’re doing an amazing job!

    • @egzi9160
      @egzi9160 4 роки тому

      I love this comment! Hair doesn’t make you who you are!!! 🥰

  • @jenniferbarreno7666
    @jenniferbarreno7666 3 роки тому +8

    I love how she used lister bandage scissors ✂️ lol 🤍