Toxic Masculinity vs Real Masculinity | The 11th Hour | Episode 9

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  • Опубліковано 29 лис 2024

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  • @emdadurrahmanjami7706
    @emdadurrahmanjami7706 8 місяців тому +70

    Masculinity according to Islam
    1. Stand for your rights/haqq.
    2. Fulfilling your promises, man of words.
    3. Focus in right direction set by Allah.
    4. Toughness/ physical strength.
    5. Knowledge.
    6. Being disciplined.
    7. Emotional intelligence.
    8. Anger management.
    9. Self control.
    10. Lowering your gaze.
    11. Good behaviour
    12. Softness/humble.
    13. Do justice even with those with whom you have differences.
    14. Goes to mosque regularly.
    15. He's very hygienc.
    16. He cries infront of Allah.
    17. He know how to make a good decision.

  • @useryt289
    @useryt289 8 місяців тому +104

    Commenting this with a much guts so that i don't forget... I had feminine side but I will (IN'SHA'ALLAH) make myself masculine.....
    1. To learn and to ride a bike (as I was afraid before) now I definitely will
    2. I will (IN'SHA'ALLAH) take a decision for myself (as I'm confused about a matter bowadays)
    3. I am going to Masjid and will (IN'SHA'ALLAH) continue foing so
    4. Indulge in some physical exercise
    5. I will be consistent in these (IN'SHA'ALLAH) (Nowadays I am asking ALLAH ke mujhe jo ilm ata kiya hai usspar amal karne wala banaye, Allah humsab ko jo ilm mila hai usspar Amal karne wala banaye or achay kaamon mein hamari madad farmaye )

    • @useryt289
      @useryt289 8 місяців тому +3

      @@userx74bvx43vx I'm gonna start from these points I had mentioned, just take baby steps first eventually we can achieve the goal...

    • @userx74bvx43vx
      @userx74bvx43vx 8 місяців тому +2

      @@useryt289 actually i have gender dysphoria & split personality type disorder that's why i'm feminine. I have tried a few steps above but they didn't work. However ruqiyah works but i am unable to maintain it do it only once a week or even a month :(

    • @afshanmanikpethe5469
      @afshanmanikpethe5469 8 місяців тому +2

      Ameen ya Rabbul 🤲

    • @mzubairfighters2940
      @mzubairfighters2940 8 місяців тому

      May Allah gave u strength

    • @useryt289
      @useryt289 8 місяців тому

      @@mzubairfighters2940 thanks it was much neede dua at this time because I was delaying these tasks and today I thought I'll do it this really helped me (for that's the Reason I actually wrote that down ❤️

  • @gouharansari4461
    @gouharansari4461 8 місяців тому +291

    Who was waiting for mugheera luqman 😊😊😊

  • @fizzaa8129
    @fizzaa8129 7 місяців тому +3

    These are the qualities a women want in men.

  • @beyondtheworld8605
    @beyondtheworld8605 8 місяців тому +39

    آپ لوگوں کے چہرے پر ماشاءاللہ کتنی رونق ہے ۔۔ اللّٰہ پاک ہر نوجوان کے چہرے پر دین کی ایسی ہی رونق ہو ۔۔ آمین

  • @shahmamoon7380
    @shahmamoon7380 8 місяців тому +41

    The sound of mugheera bhai and the example hits straight to heart...

  • @Pandagaze
    @Pandagaze 8 місяців тому +38

    Mugheerah bhai hits different, making me feel so happy 🥲❤

  • @oppanaya
    @oppanaya 8 місяців тому +17

    An episode on arrogance and how to deal with arrogance in our hearts would be very appreciated

  • @qoobsmcdoobs1
    @qoobsmcdoobs1 8 місяців тому +11

    I am an overseas Pakistani and these types of topics being discussed in Urdu in Pakistan makes me so happy and reassured. Please keep discussing these topics in the complex manner you all do. You do a beautiful job of balancing stories from seerah and tabi'een, plus practical advice. You have no idea how life is made difficult for men in the West. They are constantly blamed for all the problems in families and the culture has put women on a too high of a pedestal, turning them into angels.

  • @Binte_Irshad
    @Binte_Irshad 8 місяців тому +5

    Sir Mugheerah luqman my fvrt❤💫I miss dorah Quran 2024😭

  • @tkhushirana
    @tkhushirana 8 місяців тому +69

    These gems are truly making our 11th hour of this Ramadan season the best. May Allah bestow His blessings on you for such an amazing episode.
    Jazak Allah...

  • @mrym517
    @mrym517 8 місяців тому +11

    was waiting for mugheera desparately., and then finally, i am listening to daurae quran that he had given last ramadan so beneficial, may Allah reward mugheera g.Topic was on point and the gems discussing the topic was another level mashallah

  • @jurisgenius.
    @jurisgenius. 7 місяців тому +5

    THIS IS END... THEEEE END............. BLOWN AWAY . THE BESTT EXPLANATION OF MASCULINITY. INDEEEDD... AMAZZINNNNNNNNNG

  • @INDIA-er6dv
    @INDIA-er6dv 8 місяців тому +11

    Finally , the one of the best quran reciter Qari Mugheera Luqman bhaiya ❣️❤️😊🌛 Allah swt poore ummat ko jajayekhair de . حَسْبُنَا اللَّهُ وَنِعْمَ الْوَكِيلُ

  • @lumibrite
    @lumibrite 8 місяців тому +5

    Yo guys if you're reading, I loved the stories of sahaba , really humbled me as a 18 year old, we need more barakallah

  • @uzratamkeen7943
    @uzratamkeen7943 8 місяців тому +8

    Feminine traits par bhi podcast karein plzz
    Alhamdulillah this was very beneficial..jazakallahu khairan kasira

  • @MissPerfect423
    @MissPerfect423 8 місяців тому +4

    this show is worth it man u guyz are doing an amazing job to guide youth towards islam in a perfect manner
    May Allah Almighty bless u all with his countless blessings ameeeen HUGE RESPECT 4 U ALL mainly Tuaha Sir🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @Shk._i
    @Shk._i 8 місяців тому +5

    3 legends in one frame.... + The topics you choose are really needed jazak'Allah ❤

  • @sehrishrasool19
    @sehrishrasool19 8 місяців тому +5

    It feels like i saw Ustaad mugheerah luqman after ages..❤

  • @Sadiyafarooq123
    @Sadiyafarooq123 8 місяців тому +38

    Wheres brother abu saad nd brother ali E without them this episode feels like its incomplete. There's logics nd reletable questions i am missing all of this

    • @ummehabiba7747
      @ummehabiba7747 8 місяців тому +7

      This is so disrespectful towards brother Mugheera and brother mohammad ali. They are here to guide us and share their honorable thoughts with us and people keep asking about other brothers

    • @k2gamerz
      @k2gamerz 8 місяців тому +1

      And khurram alvi Also

    • @Sadiyafarooq123
      @Sadiyafarooq123 8 місяців тому

      ​@@ummehabiba7747 i didnt mean to disrespect them i also respect them i am just saying it would be great if Brother ali, abu saad nd khuram alvi is along with all of them

  • @saminagillani2813
    @saminagillani2813 8 місяців тому +5

    Ma sha Allah ❤
    Mugheera and Ali bhai are my fvrt....Allah ki rehmatein aur barkatein hoon ap ky liye.Jazak Allah❤❤

  • @imranprime
    @imranprime 8 місяців тому +7

    Plzz do some sessions on dealing with anxiety depression fear of future...this is the biggest challenge for us

  • @mehreenkhan355
    @mehreenkhan355 8 місяців тому +1

    Skipped many episode and jump to episode 9 for sir mugheera...MashaALLAH he is very humble the way he talk MashaALLAH

  • @BinTFarooQ
    @BinTFarooQ 8 місяців тому +3

    These guys are choosing exactly relevant topics. Mashallah BarakaAllah

  • @UzmaFiaz-d9j
    @UzmaFiaz-d9j 8 місяців тому +10

    Abu Saad Bhai Crying in the Corner like Bro Masculinity ka topic aur mjhy ni bulaya😂 But SubhanAllah it was very beneficial and You gyz left no crumbs like literally covered almost every single thing JazakAllah khairan Kaseera ✨

  • @gouharansari4461
    @gouharansari4461 8 місяців тому +8

    Have you zikr today ?
    Please recite this. 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️
    📿Subhanallah (×10)
    📿Alhamdulillah (×10)
    📿Allahu Akbar (X10)
    📿Asthagfiruallah (×10)
    📿La ilaha illallah Muhammadur rasoolulah (×10)
    📿La ilaha illahual hayyulkayyum (x10)
    📿Ya hayyu ya kayyum (×10)
    📿Hasbunallahu vani'mal wakeel (×10)
    📿Allahummaghfır lil muslimina wal muslimat, wal mu'minina wal mu'minat (x3)
    📿Astagh-fi-rulla-hal Azeem, al-lazi la ilaha il-la
    📿Huwal-Hay-yul-Qayyum wa aa-tubu i-laih(x3)
    📿Allahumma ajarni minannar (×10)
    📿Allahumma Inni as Aluka al Jannah (x10)
    📿Allahumma inni Audoobika min adabil qabr (x10)
    Copy and share as a shadkaii jariiya

  • @A.Ks7909
    @A.Ks7909 8 місяців тому +2

    a greattt session Alhamdulillah, covering & eliminating lots of doubts...😊👍
    .جزاك الله خیراً brothers

  • @Khadijalaskar13
    @Khadijalaskar13 8 місяців тому +8

    May this ramadan bring iman in every Muslim's Life ❤

  • @hooriyakhan168
    @hooriyakhan168 8 місяців тому +1

    The way they all talk soft spoken MashAllah tabarakAllah❤😭

  • @mdshaikh1375
    @mdshaikh1375 8 місяців тому +4

    Ustaadh Mugheerah Luqman ♥️🔥

  • @asimmehmood8689
    @asimmehmood8689 8 місяців тому +7

    The background behind tuaha sir its outstanding 🔥❤️

  • @afshanmanikpethe5469
    @afshanmanikpethe5469 8 місяців тому +1

    Ma sha Allah 😊 Tabarak Allah ❤️
    Ki Mohammad se wafa to hum tere hai Yeh Jahan Cheez hai kya Loho Kalam bhi Tere hai 😊
    Labbaik Ya Rasulallah 🌹

  • @ahmed_servant_of_Allah
    @ahmed_servant_of_Allah 8 місяців тому +8

    ❤Love from Jammu and Kashmir (India)

    • @antseverafter5538
      @antseverafter5538 8 місяців тому +2

      Indian (illegally )occupied Kashmir

    • @baloch231
      @baloch231 8 місяців тому

      May Allah bless you. We are ashamed that Jammu and Kashmir brothers write India Infront of their name. It shows that they lost their faith on Pakistani nation

    • @ahmed_servant_of_Allah
      @ahmed_servant_of_Allah 8 місяців тому

      @@baloch231 Aameen
      We are showing our love ❤️ bhai jaan

  • @proudhindustani
    @proudhindustani 8 місяців тому +2

    Love for mugheerah bhai ,he is just so on point

  • @aroojfatima1769
    @aroojfatima1769 8 місяців тому +5

    Tuaha ibn jalil is my favourite teacher!

  • @CheckMyPlaylists
    @CheckMyPlaylists 8 місяців тому +5

    Anyone who is watching this podcast, please do like, comment and share this video, so that algorithms find it useful and recommend it to more people 👍

  • @MohammadZafeer-b8y
    @MohammadZafeer-b8y 8 місяців тому +2

    Assalamualaikum brothers...
    As a student sometimes it feels like burn out with academics...
    Our academic system is like that we have to involve in studies for 12 hrs or so especially for competitive exams like NEET and IIT JEE..
    for these exams we have to give multiple attempts.. trying to get that particular course....
    So make video on such topic which describes the solution for students who can focus on academics as well as islamic knowledge too..

  • @YucraSaleem
    @YucraSaleem 8 місяців тому +3

    Topics on point👍 references on point👍 ma shaa Allah

  • @goodthink6184
    @goodthink6184 8 місяців тому +1

    *اگر کسی دن آپ کا رشتہ کسی ایسے شخص سے ختم ہو جائے جس سے آپ محبت کرتے تھے۔ تو اُس کے سارے راز اور کہانیاں اکٹھے کر کے کسی کونے میں دفن کر دیں اور کبھی کسی کو اس تک پہنچنے نہ دیں کیونکہ رشتے ختم ہونے کے بعد بھی اخلاقیات نہیں مرنی چاہیے۔*

  • @huzaifahfarhan3520
    @huzaifahfarhan3520 8 місяців тому +3

    One of the best of THE 11TH HOUR SHOW

  • @farhan2404
    @farhan2404 8 місяців тому +10

    Youth members are working very hard may Allah bless them ameen

  • @AnaS-yn7sv
    @AnaS-yn7sv 8 місяців тому +7

    Gym ❤ boys 😍 may look you toxic but we've fear of Allah ❤️ in our heart

  • @mrym517
    @mrym517 8 місяців тому +1

    mugheera is such an intellectual person ,he defines everthing very clearly wid examples

  • @Userabcdefg-h5w
    @Userabcdefg-h5w 8 місяців тому

    Assalamualaikum everyone recite this after every Salah/نماز
    ⬇️⬇️👇👇
    Take screenshot
    Subhan Allah 33 times
    Alhamdulillah 33 times
    Allaho Akbar 34 times
    Surah ikhlas 3 times
    Surah falaq 3 times
    Surah naas 3 times
    Surah kafiroon 3 times
    Ayatul kursi 3 times
    Surah fatiha 1 time
    Durood e Ibrahim 3 times
    May Allah guide all of us Ameen

  • @AdnanHassan1995
    @AdnanHassan1995 8 місяців тому +3

    Finally Mugheerah Sir Came 🥰

  • @muhammadawais8189
    @muhammadawais8189 8 місяців тому +1

    11th hour main Sheikh mugheerah ko dekh kr dil khush ho gya☺️🥰

  • @MuhammadAshraf-kf7kl
    @MuhammadAshraf-kf7kl 8 місяців тому +1

    First time m n ap logun ko msg kia h ...during scrolling m n apki videos dekhi...bht achy content p then bht Acha way of talking...everything is amazing

  • @AmnaAshraf-eb4yu
    @AmnaAshraf-eb4yu 8 місяців тому +2

    Watching your podcast daily while making iftari is my fvrt time of the day❤️🥰

  • @artacadmey_4u
    @artacadmey_4u 8 місяців тому +1

    اللَّهُمَّ صَلِّ وَ سَلِّمْ عَلَى نَبِيِّنَا مُحَمَّدٍ

  • @samanfatima2825
    @samanfatima2825 8 місяців тому +1

    I’m listening youth club regularly from two years Allhamdulilah , you are doing very good job Ma sha Allah keep it up❤May Allah bless and protect all of you more and more . I’m living in kSA and when I’m alone and I feel homesick I played a video from youth club and and it’s giving a feel that I have a family in my surrounding which giving me good instructions and upbringing me in a very good way Allhamdulilah I’m listening very signle word and trying to implement in my life . I’m praying for all of you every time . And I have a wish that I will marry a person from youth club and I’m making duas for this In sha Allah I will get .

  • @ImtiazMart-w4f
    @ImtiazMart-w4f 8 місяців тому

    MashaAllah hm logo ko logo k ghulami sy Nikal kr Allah k ghulami Mai dal rhai hy .

  • @tahaa313
    @tahaa313 8 місяців тому +1

    Impeccable choice of Topics this Ramzan!

  • @hooriyakhan168
    @hooriyakhan168 8 місяців тому +2

    SirMugheera luqman and muhammad ali are love😭😭😭💕💕💕love this epi

  • @shaziatahir3689
    @shaziatahir3689 8 місяців тому +2

    Allah ki khas rahmtey ho app sab pe

  • @mfurqan8274
    @mfurqan8274 8 місяців тому +2

    Allah hamy Deen ko samjhny ki tofeeq ata farmay Ameen🤲

  • @Sidra-g1m
    @Sidra-g1m 8 місяців тому +3

    اللهم صل على محمد وعلى ال محمد كما صليت على ابراهيم وعلى ال ابراهيم أنك حميد مجيد اللهم بارك على محمد وعلى ال محمد كما باركت على ابراهيم وعلى ال ابراهيم أنك حميد مجيد

  • @Anas-bs9ou
    @Anas-bs9ou 8 місяців тому

    Mugheera bhai ka knowledge aur words ke andar clarity Mashallah allah bhai k ilm me aur izafa karey ❤

  • @shaffidar958
    @shaffidar958 8 місяців тому +1

    Jazakallah brothers Allah tallah aap sab bhaiyoo ko salamat rakhe ameen suma ameen

  • @talibilm456
    @talibilm456 8 місяців тому +1

    Barakallah fiiq finally wait is over my favourite sheikhs together mugheera bai and tauha baii❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @onlinework8592
    @onlinework8592 8 місяців тому

    58:22 just love it how mugheerra bhai summarized the whole thing about what kind of men women likeee and vice versa❤

  • @Amazonmagister
    @Amazonmagister 8 місяців тому +2

    this man change my whole life❤❤❤❤❤❤🥺

  • @Theradiantreviewer-q9b
    @Theradiantreviewer-q9b 8 місяців тому +1

    May Allah Accept Our Worships And May He Almighty Forgive Our All Sins.

  • @HafeezUllah057
    @HafeezUllah057 8 місяців тому +1

    Sir kia hii setup up hai MaShaAllah 👌👌👌 Aur Sir Mugheera K aane se tu char chand lag gayee 😊😊

  • @jurisgenius.
    @jurisgenius. 7 місяців тому +1

    YAYYYYY.... WOMEN FEEL SAFE WITH NOT MEN WHO ARE BEING PORTRAYED TODAY

  • @BinteazeeZ
    @BinteazeeZ 8 місяців тому +1

    Subhan Allah...worth watching
    This episode is nevertheless pre-marriage counselling.
    Jazakallahu khaira Brothers🍀

  • @nargisperveen4323
    @nargisperveen4323 8 місяців тому

    Allah ne hame ata kiya h usme raji rahne me hi khair rakhi h allah ne.inshaallah isi me falah milegi or iska ajr zaroor milega.❤

  • @asmatariq3530
    @asmatariq3530 8 місяців тому

    I am watching every day new episode during sehri. My Imaan graph more boost. Amazing program fantastic heart melting topic , way of talk speak so effective

  • @ummeali2092
    @ummeali2092 8 місяців тому

    یوں قتل سے بچوں کے بدنام نہ ہوتا۔
    افسوس کہ فرعون کو کالج کی نہ سوجھی۔

  • @User_05-s
    @User_05-s 8 місяців тому +1

    Much needed Guest waiting so long for this combo (M Luqman) 🎉

  • @Islamic__yc___page_
    @Islamic__yc___page_ 8 місяців тому +5

    Share this video with others ❤

  • @Mountainbreezeadventures
    @Mountainbreezeadventures 8 місяців тому +1

    MashaAllah 3 legends ❤ MashaAllah me most favourite Scholars❤ YC

  • @AshrafGaming-777
    @AshrafGaming-777 8 місяців тому +6

    Love from India🇮🇳❤

  • @Hareem_queen620
    @Hareem_queen620 8 місяців тому +8

    Namaz is the key of success ❤

    • @Faizy97
      @Faizy97 8 місяців тому +1

      Yes Also dua in Tahajjud is key to success

  • @humabilal8695
    @humabilal8695 8 місяців тому

    U brothers are gem of a kind.. you are doing wonders.. Allah apko jaza e kher de. Aameen

  • @hassantahir55
    @hassantahir55 8 місяців тому

    That 18 or 19 year old man, mentioned by Ali bhaie might be youth club's product.
    You people are doing extraordinary work. People have different perspectives about us( I mean z generation) but I think we are in safe hands Inshallah 💪

  • @MuhammadAshraf-kf7kl
    @MuhammadAshraf-kf7kl 8 місяців тому +1

    Am really impressed by tuaha bhai but you all are very informative personalities..

  • @zafaralam6524
    @zafaralam6524 8 місяців тому +2

    Every one is goat but ma is love

  • @ShahzadHassanBangash
    @ShahzadHassanBangash 7 місяців тому

    Beautiful podcast, Mashallah, help me alot as a young man

  • @MalikMoon-n5g
    @MalikMoon-n5g 8 місяців тому

    Jazak Allah hu Khairan kaseeraa brother's....❤

  • @jurisgenius.
    @jurisgenius. 7 місяців тому +1

    YEAH SIR I DO NEED FAMILY BUT UPDATED MEN(right men) HEE NHI MIL RHY. HOPING FROM ALLAH. SABAR CARRIES KHAYR. I.A. :)

  • @IbnAhmad970
    @IbnAhmad970 8 місяців тому

    This was the greatest of all episodes , MASALLAH

  • @rashidkhan_752
    @rashidkhan_752 8 місяців тому

    great video subhanallah may Allah accept it from you and guide us to right path

  • @iqraPT
    @iqraPT 7 місяців тому

    JAZAKALLAH O KHAIR ✨

  • @Raf-bn9lj
    @Raf-bn9lj 8 місяців тому

    Ma Sha Allah another great podcast by Tuaha Ibn Jalil Bhai and Youth Club Pakistan team! These episodes are true Imaan boosters during Ramzan 🇵🇰🏴☪️

  • @javeeriyajabeen8777
    @javeeriyajabeen8777 8 місяців тому

    Allah bless you all. your content is changing lives everyday.

  • @HassanNawaz-f7x
    @HassanNawaz-f7x 8 місяців тому

    Thanks for inviting Muhammad Ali
    Please invite Dr Waseem

  • @rafayasim8284
    @rafayasim8284 7 місяців тому

    Aaah literally the best topic according to the times ❤

  • @nahiduzzamannayeem6759
    @nahiduzzamannayeem6759 8 місяців тому

    Jajakallahu khyrn
    Love From Bangladesh

  • @cadiachan9284
    @cadiachan9284 8 місяців тому +1

    Masha'Allah happy to see Mugheerah bhai

  • @BlueSky78683
    @BlueSky78683 8 місяців тому

    As Salaam Ali Kum Brothers, great initative for the youth and us adults :) I'd suggest taking this a step further and developing some sort of meet and greet (something like that) for us adults who are looking to get married... Who are looking for themselves. It's so hard in this day and age to find someone nice and have a religious POV.

  • @Sfurqam2355
    @Sfurqam2355 7 місяців тому

    Mugheera bhai is my favorite scholor😭❤

  • @user-ep_hadiya_
    @user-ep_hadiya_ 8 місяців тому +2

    Missing abu saad and ali E without them episodes are incomplete

  • @miradnanamin2583
    @miradnanamin2583 8 місяців тому

    Trio❤ اللّٰہ پاک آپ سب کو مسکراتا رکھے آمین ❤️

  • @junaidmalik6028
    @junaidmalik6028 8 місяців тому +2

    Love u all brothers for the sake of Allah ❤️

  • @GeoHub75
    @GeoHub75 8 місяців тому +1

    Allah ham sub to iman ke lazat Naseeb kary kaho ameen

  • @HZA887
    @HZA887 8 місяців тому +4

    Assalam o Alaikum
    I have a question from the members of podcast
    I hope you will help me in clarifying my confusion
    Is it not okay if a girl wants to participate in physical sports even in the proper hijab and covering as these sports are associated with masculinity
    And the 2nd thing if the reason for the participation in these type of sports is to make her self strong physically, emotionally) because a female is not always with her mahrams where she feels comfortable and can show her feminine traits as we know she has to study and other stuff like internships, jobs and in those places she is with strangers where she needs to be strong enough to protect herself ( although i firmly believe that ayat ul kursi will save a girl from every harm)
    Or if she wants to participate because she likes these types of sports (like horse riding, swimming ,badminton etc.)

  • @muneeburrehman4690
    @muneeburrehman4690 8 місяців тому +3

    Need timestamp for different topics within this podcast.
    I'm sure many wouldn't watch the full due to hectic Ramadan routine.

  • @sjt4321
    @sjt4321 8 місяців тому +2

    جزاکم اللہ خیرا کثیرا

  • @daniyalahmadofficial
    @daniyalahmadofficial 8 місяців тому +1

    Mugheerah luqman is amazing

  • @tasha550
    @tasha550 8 місяців тому +1

    muhammad ali my fvrt😍❤️