If you want to GROW IN DISCERNMENT in your DATING LIFE and not waste your time ⏰Get my husband’s book “Unraveling Deception Discerning Darkness” AMAZON LINK: a.co/d/fdUCRsZ To book a Women's one-on-one Christian Life Coaching session with me (Ladies ONLY) Or if you have a question for me and you're not ready for coaching, I can send you a personalized video response. Click the Link BELOW: stan.store/ascendwithvantines I look forward to helping you in your daily walk with God :)
5:00 its cause by lusting over someone to masturbate so we know lust is a sin and that is the only way that people get to that pleasure point of view, so of course its wrong
also i see lights in the background, do you celebrate christmas?, cause i see that as idolatry and since we know christmas is based on lies and not Jesus’s actual birth so we shouldn’t celebrate worldly holidays
Jackie I appreciate you sharing a different perspective on Christian relationships like where a person say "hey I'm focused on the lord and I'm not looking for anything serious" in terms of a person leading another person on. That doesn't get talked about enough. But usually when a person shows insensitive behavior; we have to check them on that. I thank you for sharing things when it comes to self that I need to be more aware of. I can only hope to be better. God bless you!
Yes brother- you always share so much wisdom ! Thank you for your input I know your comments also help so many ! I wanted to also thank you for praying and encouraging others in the lives and other comments you truly have a love for people I admire!!!
@@jackieVanTine_ You are so welcome Jackie! I been through some things and I'm always happy to help others based on mistakes I made and what God has helped me with. It's a blessing to be apart you and your husband ministry. Keep up the great work my friend 😊🙏🏼✨
That’s the worst thing to do. Gotta run to the Lord Jesus first, what could we really do on our own without Him, much less when hurt and not in the right state? Run to Him first, run back to Lord Jesus even until it becomes first nature!
Recently The Lord revealed to me that I genuinely feel unloved - by everyone. This was causing me to retreat because I legit didn’t believe anyone cared- not even God. This shocked me. I can’t fix this myself, I had to ask God to help me. It’s a deep wound and the good news is He is willing and able to fix whatever it is that causes you to isolate. He’s not keeping it a secret ❤
It is unfortunate, that a lot of my family are narcissistic. But it just sheds light even more to the dynamic to those who follow Jesus, and those who don't; which ultimately leads us to pray for them and as you said, give them GRACE. It also makes us put ourselves their situation, and more often than not, they are in pain as you said. We know this because we were in pain before Jesus gave us PEACE.
I love that you and your husband go so deep and bring to light topics that a lot of pastors won’t even talk about. I am trying fix my biggest issue which is pride. I get upset when things are not going the way I want them to or when I get criticized. I think it has a lot to do how I grew up. My dad always tries to complain about almost anything. How can I best control these triggers? I also have had a lot of anxiety which is my biggest issue. It is hard for me to grow and's change. I am trying to get better it.
Man God is speaking!!!!! Me and my best friend have been arguing and fighting so much lately and he has constantly been putting me down and questioning my actions and our dynamic and every time have been nothing but apologetic and loving and caring and forgiving but every couple days he always is targeting me or rebringing up old conversations. And it’s at the point where I do not care if the relationship falls apart.
Yep, people don't understand commitment nowadays. If they cut and run at the first sign of trouble after denying and dismissing your feelings for months, they were never gonna make it in the long run. Not unless they genuinely worked on themselves anyway...
Father, I pray for Jody, give her the strength that she needs and fill her with confidence that you will provide, and that she does not need to settle for less. I pray that you give her discernment on whether the situation needs her to extend grace, or if she needs to place healthy boundaries and let you work on this person. I pray that you will make a way where there is no way, and you will encourage her and give her a faith and trust in you that you will provide in Jesus’s name I pray
Thank you so so much for your donation to our ministry we are so grateful for you and we pray the Lord multiply all you give for His Kingdom for you and your family! I hope you have a wonderful Christmas with your family and are more blessed than you blessed us!!!
Aw, God bless everyone to have the cutest most beautiful most precious love sent from God, although Gods love is the priority, I pray everyone has a beautiful relationship with their partners as well amen 💕💕
I haven't for the last 16 months. I was delivered. I appreciate this content because we need to have these uncomfortable conversations. And I was delivered from homosexuality as well. And, it all started with repentance and renouncing!!! AMEN 🙏🏻 JESUS 👑 the victory is in Christ. I love and forgive. And I still fall short in other areas. Put on the full armor, God bless everyone 🙏🏻
For 1.6 years I've on-off situation & unbelievable pain with this person and I loved so much still was ready to surrender to God still I've seen so many signs! Whenever I wanted to give up on this person I used to get signs, even after praying that should I pray for that person I instantly & constantly got positive signs Omg! Now after so many test & trials this vdo is resonating that this person wasn’t right. Then why I was automatically drawn to this person even after trying so much & even after being ready to give up. Why I was praying for getting this person although I Didn't wanted to pray for this person as if Almighty was guiding me all the time. I'm so much surprised more than shocked! That person is my twin flame
Oh snaps, this was too timely. My ex just tried to spin the block on me but thank You Holy Spirit for speaking through your disciple because man oh man, I prayed He would make it plain and clear that I response to oh boy or not and it's giving revelation not to do so. Glad I didn't respond mwahahaha
This is exactly what I've been saying to my husband lately... Coming up to 15 years and I'm now born again and I don't feel we belong anymore, but I can't leave my marriage because of the vows I made before God to this Man (Even before Jesus saved me) I don't know what to do.... HELP!!!!!
To be honest, I am guilty of these things. I have hurt several people by leading them on. I didn't realize it and I feel horrible. Please forgive me Lord.
My engagement ended a couple of months back. My fiancé is an innocent angel, but has pulled away from the relationship many times (prior to our engagement) and finds it hard to understand what emotional damage this is causing to me. Two months following our engagement breakup, she has asked if we can give it another try. I’m lost and need your prayers. God bless 🙏🙏
I went through something similar but we never got close enough to have a relationship but it still bothers me, it was tormenting knowing she'd pull away at any given moment for any given reason. I'm glad to know i can stand alone now.
Amen! Been struggling wuth depression... and the other thing. 😢 been really hard year for me. After leaving a 4 yr long abusive relationship. But i did get on my feet and i have come so far thus year. But still battling depression isolation lonliness... But what u said about mastur....and it causing homosexuality makes so much sense thunking abiut my ex how he acted sometimes and knowinf his father was..just the demeanors he would do. Its all clicking now. Bc there were times i thought it..
Dealing with this right now with my mom. I pray she hears me and God’s message. But on another note I recently put a friendship on pause because God told me I was making him a distraction and that He needs to work on me, I’m getting in His way. Thankfully he understood and I pray he doesn’t think I’m “abusive,” I’m just following God’s will. I explained to him what happened, I got a sign from God that I need to remove distractions (I knew he was becoming a distraction, when I really start developing feelings for someone they become a focal point in my life, too much of one) so God told me He needs to cleanse me and form me, with me alone. I asked for signs, sign if I should be honest with him about my feelings and signs when I should do it, He said I need to be honest and then I didn’t get an answer on when so I went to sleep, woke up randomly two hours later to him messaging me and took that as my sign to tell him right then and there. God later confirmed in my dreams I am healing and becoming a better version of myself. ❤
Right, it's all good to you bring up FB female friends gets very defensive, and I do everything for you, you don't stay busy enough wondering what I'm doing ugh 😫 I'm praying for God to get a hold of him 🙏
When I started disconnecting from my narcissistic husband and getting very very close to God and Jesus Christ I ALSO got very very UNINTERESTED in sex. I had already been masterbation free for years and couldn't figure out why I did not like to do this. I literally could not masterbate. It does not work for me. You have answered so many questions about self for me that I just didn't ask God. I truly appreciate you and your videos❤😊🎉❤.
If anyone could pray with me: My mom’s cousin, her name is Athena, she has stage 4 breast cancer that grew 500% in only 2 months.. I’m trying to send any prayers I could to her, praying for a miracle. Thank God we serve a God of miracles.. if you could pray for her even just once that would mean so much
Always follow God first and no mortal man or woman, no matter how intense you feel for them. Thats how we may love even more as we follow the commands and directions from God. This is good since He knows better about relationships in our lives than we do. Trust in your connection to Him and the peace in your heart when you follow his will. I have been alone my whole life with a lot of pain and prayed many times for a woman to be by my side. I know God has not brought her to me beacuse he can see the whole picture and what is best for me so I trust in him. The most important is to folllow Jesus and take his hand when we fall. Just like Job if our lives becomes filled with pain and the ones we love are taken away from us dont despair but love God as the love and peace is the way through Jesus of why we are here on this earth.
Jackie, my wife has been like this. Right now she has caused us to be legally separated. Its been 5 months and nothing is changing. What do I do? Can you pray that God will give me wisdom??
Bro don't ask her for prayer. You must act and not rely on others to do so. I would end the relationship and wish her the best. If you don't find peace in mind it's best to stay single. You must seek Christ if you want to heal and have wisdom.
🙏 Father, I pray that you will bless Saul with a strong heart and that you will help him guard it! Give him wisdom and instruction through your Words and even through dreams on next steps in his relationships and other decisions that he has infront of him currently in Jesus’ name I pray amen!!!
If you do it as an addiction I can see it as a sin. The body is made to do things like this on a every now and then basis. I think people think 2much in2 this and make a big deal out of NOTHING. I'm a Christian man and that's my opinion. --Mike PS. Just because you're a Christian or Follow the Lord doesn't mean you can't do thE "bad boy" image at the same time.....People of God are not all geeks and preps and p*sys. You can be a bad-ass and be a man of God any day of the WEEK! God will back me up.
if you want divine man you will be repulsed fisicaly by him there even not going to be a platonic love you want an angel to make original sin that destroyed the world and make fallen angels. Work with what you have divine are not sinners so there will be sterile situation. Wake up.
If you want to GROW IN DISCERNMENT in your DATING LIFE and not waste your time ⏰Get my husband’s book
“Unraveling Deception Discerning Darkness”
AMAZON LINK: a.co/d/fdUCRsZ
To book a Women's one-on-one Christian Life Coaching session with me (Ladies ONLY)
Or if you have a question for me and you're not ready for coaching, I can send you a personalized video response. Click the Link BELOW:
stan.store/ascendwithvantines
I look forward to helping you in your daily walk with God :)
i literally think of my mom
thats why i’m trying to show her the Bible
5:00 its cause by lusting over someone to masturbate so we know lust is a sin and that is the only way that people get to that pleasure point of view, so of course its wrong
also i see lights in the background, do you celebrate christmas?, cause i see that as idolatry and since we know christmas is based on lies and not Jesus’s actual birth so we shouldn’t celebrate worldly holidays
Please pray that God will take this affliction away from me
Jackie I appreciate you sharing a different perspective on Christian relationships like where a person say "hey I'm focused on the lord and I'm not looking for anything serious" in terms of a person leading another person on. That doesn't get talked about enough. But usually when a person shows insensitive behavior; we have to check them on that. I thank you for sharing things when it comes to self that I need to be more aware of. I can only hope to be better. God bless you!
Yes brother- you always share so much wisdom ! Thank you for your input I know your comments also help so many ! I wanted to also thank you for praying and encouraging others in the lives and other comments you truly have a love for people I admire!!!
@@jackieVanTine_ You are so welcome Jackie! I been through some things and I'm always happy to help others based on mistakes I made and what God has helped me with. It's a blessing to be apart you and your husband ministry. Keep up the great work my friend 😊🙏🏼✨
So true when I'm in pain and dealing with stuff I can't share I withdraw isolate and only rely on myself
That’s the worst thing to do.
Gotta run to the Lord Jesus first, what could we really do on our own without Him, much less when hurt and not in the right state?
Run to Him first, run back to Lord Jesus even until it becomes first nature!
Rely on Jesus Rita He is your best friend!
Recently The Lord revealed to me that I genuinely feel unloved - by everyone. This was causing me to retreat because I legit didn’t believe anyone cared- not even God. This shocked me. I can’t fix this myself, I had to ask God to help me. It’s a deep wound and the good news is He is willing and able to fix whatever it is that causes you to isolate. He’s not keeping it a secret ❤
It is unfortunate, that a lot of my family are narcissistic. But it just sheds light even more to the dynamic to those who follow Jesus, and those who don't; which ultimately leads us to pray for them and as you said, give them GRACE. It also makes us put ourselves their situation, and more often than not, they are in pain as you said. We know this because we were in pain before Jesus gave us PEACE.
I love that you and your husband go so deep and bring to light topics that a lot of pastors won’t even talk about. I am trying fix my biggest issue which is pride. I get upset when things are not going the way I want them to or when I get criticized. I think it has a lot to do how I grew up. My dad always tries to complain about almost anything. How can I best control these triggers? I also have had a lot of anxiety which is my biggest issue. It is hard for me to grow and's change. I am trying to get better it.
Study the book of Proverbs. It'll help you with that.
it is interesting how I get random thoughts and your next point is exactly about that thought. You seem really led by God
I NEEDED THIS. Thank you ❤️ I keep praying, justifying actions & God is relentlessly showing me to a point I can no longer blissfully ignore.
Please pray that God will take this affliction away from me
Man God is speaking!!!!! Me and my best friend have been arguing and fighting so much lately and he has constantly been putting me down and questioning my actions and our dynamic and every time have been nothing but apologetic and loving and caring and forgiving but every couple days he always is targeting me or rebringing up old conversations. And it’s at the point where I do not care if the relationship falls apart.
Yep, people don't understand commitment nowadays. If they cut and run at the first sign of trouble after denying and dismissing your feelings for months, they were never gonna make it in the long run. Not unless they genuinely worked on themselves anyway...
Yes, this is my situation. Please pray for me to be stronger.
Father, I pray for Jody, give her the strength that she needs and fill her with confidence that you will provide, and that she does not need to settle for less. I pray that you give her discernment on whether the situation needs her to extend grace, or if she needs to place healthy boundaries and let you work on this person. I pray that you will make a way where there is no way, and you will encourage her and give her a faith and trust in you that you will provide in Jesus’s name I pray
@ Amen thank you so much! 🥹🙏 God bless you sister Jackie.
This word is for me. Thank you Jackie.
Thank you 😊
Thank you so so much for your donation to our ministry we are so grateful for you and we pray the Lord multiply all you give for His Kingdom for you and your family! I hope you have a wonderful Christmas with your family and are more blessed than you blessed us!!!
Aw, God bless everyone to have the cutest most beautiful most precious love sent from God, although Gods love is the priority, I pray everyone has a beautiful relationship with their partners as well amen 💕💕
I welcome the loving presence of God in my life.
Thank You God for everything you blessed me with 🙏🌼🪔
True! Feminine spirit. For most narcissint personality!
Yup! The spirit of Jezebel is the spirit of narcissist
It's not a feminine spirit, it's a spirit pretending to be feminine.
In fact it's mocking true femininity
Amen! Great message! Thank you so much for always putting so much effort into your videos to tell others revelations from the Holy Spirit / God
Great post, deep sermon and very good to understand. Albert. Thank you!
Glad you enjoyed it Albert - love to see you in the comments brother :)
I haven't for the last 16 months. I was delivered. I appreciate this content because we need to have these uncomfortable conversations. And I was delivered from homosexuality as well. And, it all started with repentance and renouncing!!! AMEN 🙏🏻 JESUS 👑 the victory is in Christ. I love and forgive. And I still fall short in other areas. Put on the full armor, God bless everyone 🙏🏻
For 1.6 years I've on-off situation & unbelievable pain with this person and I loved so much still was ready to surrender to God still I've seen so many signs! Whenever I wanted to give up on this person I used to get signs, even after praying that should I pray for that person I instantly & constantly got positive signs Omg! Now after so many test & trials this vdo is resonating that this person wasn’t right. Then why I was automatically drawn to this person even after trying so much & even after being ready to give up. Why I was praying for getting this person although I Didn't wanted to pray for this person as if Almighty was guiding me all the time. I'm so much surprised more than shocked! That person is my twin flame
Oh snaps, this was too timely. My ex just tried to spin the block on me but thank You Holy Spirit for speaking through your disciple because man oh man, I prayed He would make it plain and clear that I response to oh boy or not and it's giving revelation not to do so. Glad I didn't respond mwahahaha
Girllll God is you Father and HE HAS YOUR BACK! Listen to what He is speaking into your heart ♥️
We all have things that get on our nerves. It's a matter of letting it slide.
Everytime… I always apologized. I never got an apology.
Amen praise the lord for this message! Thank you for delivering this message ma'am!
Season greetings, body of Christ family. Albert.
Anyone who never emphasizes with you certainly doesn't have your best interest guaranteed
This is exactly what I've been saying to my husband lately... Coming up to 15 years and I'm now born again and I don't feel we belong anymore, but I can't leave my marriage because of the vows I made before God to this Man (Even before Jesus saved me) I don't know what to do.... HELP!!!!!
An MD in s video on masturbation said that not doing it increases your testosterone, so that is another kind if cure, besides the deliverance.
To be honest, I am guilty of these things. I have hurt several people by leading them on. I didn't realize it and I feel horrible. Please forgive me Lord.
❤️❤️❤️
My engagement ended a couple of months back. My fiancé is an innocent angel, but has pulled away from the relationship many times (prior to our engagement) and finds it hard to understand what emotional damage this is causing to me. Two months following our engagement breakup, she has asked if we can give it another try. I’m lost and need your prayers. God bless 🙏🙏
At this point move on brotha. Focus on yourself and Christ. She did it once she'll do it again. It may be hard but Christ can only help you heal.
Keep seeking God and praying. Look for signs of his peace and blessing. Don’t get confused by the UA-cam algorithm
This in my eyes from my experience is a technique to try and control you 🙏🔥
I went through something similar but we never got close enough to have a relationship but it still bothers me, it was tormenting knowing she'd pull away at any given moment for any given reason. I'm glad to know i can stand alone now.
Keep on going 🕊️🌸✝️
Amen! Been struggling wuth depression... and the other thing. 😢 been really hard year for me. After leaving a 4 yr long abusive relationship. But i did get on my feet and i have come so far thus year. But still battling depression isolation lonliness...
But what u said about mastur....and it causing homosexuality makes so much sense thunking abiut my ex how he acted sometimes and knowinf his father was..just the demeanors he would do. Its all clicking now. Bc there were times i thought it..
Yes vanity is a huge problem
Dealing with this right now with my mom. I pray she hears me and God’s message.
But on another note I recently put a friendship on pause because God told me I was making him a distraction and that He needs to work on me, I’m getting in His way.
Thankfully he understood and I pray he doesn’t think I’m “abusive,” I’m just following God’s will. I explained to him what happened, I got a sign from God that I need to remove distractions (I knew he was becoming a distraction, when I really start developing feelings for someone they become a focal point in my life, too much of one) so God told me He needs to cleanse me and form me, with me alone. I asked for signs, sign if I should be honest with him about my feelings and signs when I should do it, He said I need to be honest and then I didn’t get an answer on when so I went to sleep, woke up randomly two hours later to him messaging me and took that as my sign to tell him right then and there. God later confirmed in my dreams I am healing and becoming a better version of myself. ❤
Right, it's all good to you bring up FB female friends gets very defensive, and I do everything for you, you don't stay busy enough wondering what I'm doing ugh 😫 I'm praying for God to get a hold of him 🙏
When I started disconnecting from my narcissistic husband and getting very very close to God and Jesus Christ I ALSO got very very UNINTERESTED in sex. I had already been masterbation free for years and couldn't figure out why I did not like to do this. I literally could not masterbate. It does not work for me. You have answered so many questions about self for me that I just didn't ask God. I truly appreciate you and your videos❤😊🎉❤.
❤🙏 much love sister Jackie proud of you God bless sister
Much love to you brother-hope you are having a great week 😊
@jackieVanTine_ aww thanks amen sister Jackie God bless same pray you're having blessed week so far 🙏
@ thank you 😊
@jackieVanTine_ welcome sister Jackie 🙏😁
If anyone could pray with me:
My mom’s cousin, her name is Athena, she has stage 4 breast cancer that grew 500% in only 2 months.. I’m trying to send any prayers I could to her, praying for a miracle. Thank God we serve a God of miracles.. if you could pray for her even just once that would mean so much
Praying for miraculous healing for Athena 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼
Thank you for this!
For sure Steven :)
Always follow God first and no mortal man or woman, no matter how intense you feel for them.
Thats how we may love even more as we follow the commands and directions from God. This is good since He knows better about relationships in our lives than we do.
Trust in your connection to Him and the peace in your heart when you follow his will. I have been alone my whole life with a lot of pain and prayed many times for a woman to be by my side. I know God has not brought her to me beacuse he can see the whole picture and what is best for me so I trust in him. The most important is to folllow Jesus and take his hand when we fall. Just like Job if our lives becomes filled with pain and the ones we love are taken away from us dont despair but love God as the love and peace is the way through Jesus of why we are here on this earth.
Amen sis praise the lord Almighty 🥰🥰🙏🌟💪🌟✨🤗🤗👍
Thankyou so much❤❤❤
Bryan Duncan- Let Me Be Broken
I kid you NOT, Majority (if not all) of my relationships in the past..please pray for me Fam.
Pain!
Great Teaching ❤
Thanks Rosie :)
I LOVE OVE YOU 😻💓💖 BOOP!
Wow… 😮🙌🤍✝️
I just had a dream about someone telling me to go to a site and type in 777-7777 what does this mean because I don’t understand it.
Thank you ❤
Jackie, my wife has been like this. Right now she has caused us to be legally separated. Its been 5 months and nothing is changing. What do I do? Can you pray that God will give me wisdom??
Bro don't ask her for prayer. You must act and not rely on others to do so. I would end the relationship and wish her the best. If you don't find peace in mind it's best to stay single. You must seek Christ if you want to heal and have wisdom.
😇❤️
I KNOW IM A CREEP!
You just walk away, and leave someone yo car about without even a "Goodbye" ??
Yeah she was like this thank god I left
It's a Sin. But God, is taking forever to send the right men, to people.
I'm A SUPER FLY CHRISTIAN
Me as a single person 🤔 interesting
Helps for future reference!!!
@@jackieVanTine_It probably will God bless you Jackie 🙏
THE SUPERFLY CHRISTIAN
IM WORKING ON MY COMEDY CLUB NOTES 🎶💦👆👉
AMENNNN!
🙏 Father, I pray that you will bless Saul with a strong heart and that you will help him guard it! Give him wisdom and instruction through your Words and even through dreams on next steps in his relationships and other decisions that he has infront of him currently in Jesus’ name I pray amen!!!
@ AMEN! thank you sister blessed be the LORD 🤍🙏
@ Please keep me in your prayers
I AM GOING TO BE A NUN, IM CONTACTING THE POPE AND WISH ME 🤞🤘⏰ LUCK,, I HOPE I GET ACCEPTED
I HAVE A WONDERFUL 😊 SENSE OF SMELL ! IM SPECIAL
If you do it as an addiction I can see it as a sin. The body is made to do things like this on a every now and then basis. I think people think 2much in2 this and make a big deal out of NOTHING. I'm a Christian man and that's my opinion.
--Mike
PS.
Just because you're a Christian or Follow the Lord doesn't mean you can't do thE "bad boy" image at the same time.....People of God are not all geeks and preps and p*sys. You can be a bad-ass and be a man of God any day of the WEEK! God will back me up.
🛐✝️💟🙏
The Bible says something about a nagging wife…. I let go she left.
I'm getting me a flip phone so I can stop watching porn
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ITS SO DARK IN TYOUR STUDIOS ITS A TRIGGER IM GETTING HOT JACKIE SORRY
if you want divine man you will be repulsed fisicaly by him there even not going to be a platonic love you want an angel to make original sin that destroyed the world and make fallen angels. Work with what you have divine are not sinners so there will be sterile situation. Wake up.
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Thank you, sweetie GOD BLESS y'all's 🙏🙋💟
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ITS SO WRONG ! STOP 🛑 WATCHING PORNO! I DONT WATCH THE TRASH 🗑️ I TAKE THE TRASH OUT
not saying this is bad, but ebook Magnetic Aura makes it look basic
this is cool and all, but ebook Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki shows the whole picture
trusting this over the ebook Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki? no wonder the same cycles keep happening
why stick to surface-level stuff when the ebook Magnetic Aura hits you with the real truth
Everytime… I always apologized. I never got an apology.