Lesson: Emotional Attunement As A Criteria for Relationships-

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  • Опубліковано 29 січ 2025

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  • @heidimancini
    @heidimancini 27 днів тому +1

    Nice shirt 😊

  • @heidimancini
    @heidimancini 27 днів тому +1

    First of all, she’s videoing him so you don’t even know if this is a real transaction that is going on between the two of them or if they’re doing it to get attention and likes on social media. Her response to his plea for an emotional bid. She was not very compassionate. However, getting a little snippet into somebody’s life doesn’t necessarily mean that that’s how they really live or that’s really what’s going on. I feel bad that men feel so alone and that they can’t be vulnerable, women are getting used to men opening up also. In the past men have been taught to be emotionally strong and not show their feelings so when A man does sometimes it may seem a little bit awkward, but it should be allowed especially in intimate relationships with your partner. so men will check out and give up on themselves because they feel they can’t be vulnerable? Being a woman and having experiences in my life, I was on the other side of that with a man that was emotionally unavailable or man and I hear many women talk about, the same issue. Women have hung in there regardless. And over many years some women have been in emotionally devoid relationships along with abuse that goes with that. We should have empathy for both sides and it does come down. I think two relationship equality when it comes to vulnerability men should be just as vulnerable as women and not be made fun or dismissed. sometimes in that relationship, maybe that guy complains or he whines a lot and she’s just tired of hearing him. I’m not siding with her, but you’re only getting a very small look into their relationship. Maybe he hasn’t validated her or let her be vulnerable in the relationship either way, looking at that it’s clear that they are not on the same page emotionally as a couple, and trying to connect. these are usually relationship issues individually and personally to air your personal grievances on the Internet. I feel is possibly a breach in the partnership. Why would you want to video that in the first place and then post it so the whole world could put their point of view on there and their projections? Communication is important and how we communicate in our relationships and listening is very important even if we don’t agree emotional compatibility obviously is lacking in that relationship so rather than air on social media, maybe go to a therapist to help them communicate better or just end the relationship, it’s the lack of accountability and want to solicit commentary from strangers about your relationship. I believe is inappropriate on so many levels because everybody’s experiences are going to be so different and how that they would handle things or what they are compatible with putting up with, I think men should be allowed to be vulnerable and show their feelings and be able to open up to their partners without judgment, honestly, most men are not vulnerable with their partners because they have also been taught not to be. So when they are, maybe some women have a difficult time excepting it or learning it for the first time from their partner and they react in a non-caring way. Clearly, this relationship has issues. I think the video can teach women and couples about vulnerability on both sides and how important is to both sexes to be validated and heard. Thanks for a great video!