How to handle difficult family pressures if you live abroad

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  • Опубліковано 27 вер 2023
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  • @iamdeji
    @iamdeji 10 місяців тому +3

    I agree with you that unless the person made (or is making) a meaningful impact on your life, don’t help them satisfy their “wants”. Only satisfy their “needs” if you can. They also have to prove it is a need and not a want. All these unnecessary “wants” be putting pressure on a lot of us for no reason.
    Also don’t lend/give them money you can’t afford to let go because it will cause bad blood if they misuse the money or can’t return it. If you want to do something that involves lots of money that you can’t give away, find a way to do it yourself or use someone reliable that you can hold financially responsible if things go wrong.

  • @lindaingabire
    @lindaingabire 10 місяців тому

    Thanks for your generous contribution to society. Be blessed

  • @owene
    @owene 10 місяців тому +1

    Great job, and well said ! ! ABSOLUTELY on point, SALUTE ✌🏾👍🏾👉🏾💪🏾✊🏾💯

  • @jarretjarikre4323
    @jarretjarikre4323 10 місяців тому +2

    I really needed this reality check. Thanks Boss.

  • @sanohdjakakalle1293
    @sanohdjakakalle1293 10 місяців тому +1

    I can't stop watching the end excellent counsel 🙏🏾

  • @toniashola2075
    @toniashola2075 10 місяців тому +1

    Chorkor millionaire Sir, you have said it all... I have learnt a lot Sir. More grease to your elbow Sir . Appreciate 🙏

  • @mariemapendo8315
    @mariemapendo8315 10 місяців тому

    You are very wise brother. Thank you for sharing this. Africans man need to know this. Blessings.

  • @Maria-pc5kr
    @Maria-pc5kr 10 місяців тому +1

    Well done, sir. Your videos are always and eye open. God enrich bless you, sir 🙏 ❤

  • @Obatech20
    @Obatech20 10 місяців тому

    You look pretty good with this haircut. Thank you for this update.

  • @user-ss3qb3mb1j
    @user-ss3qb3mb1j 10 місяців тому +1

    Preach on brother we need such inspiration from u.

  • @user-rl6jo4zt5k
    @user-rl6jo4zt5k 10 місяців тому

    Mr. Chorko Millionaire. I have found your channel very useful to guide my life. I clearly have seen and will continue following you from Sierra Leone

  • @laverngordon
    @laverngordon 10 місяців тому +2

    My husband needs to hear this and understand it too.

  • @CharityOkai-yv8uj
    @CharityOkai-yv8uj 10 місяців тому

    Oh man, you videos are always inspirational

  • @batabairerobbie844
    @batabairerobbie844 10 місяців тому

    Mr. Chorkor Millionaire you're a very wise man! You have said it the way it is. Simply the truth! It's Terrible!Godbless you&your family 🙏👌🙌

  • @CharlesAnagor
    @CharlesAnagor 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you choker, your saying the truth God bless you.

  • @batabairerobbie844
    @batabairerobbie844 10 місяців тому +3

    Hahahaha, Chorkor Millionaire, I guess some African brothers are calling you crazy about this whole idea of family😂. You are 💯 %correct. God first,then your wife or Hubby. I will continue watching you for your transparency,honesty, kindness etc. Thanks you so much for treating your wife with dignity. Godbless ya'll🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏💯

  • @EguonoBlessing-hm8mz
    @EguonoBlessing-hm8mz 10 місяців тому

    I need this video seriously. God bless you

  • @user-ii2fx7em9i
    @user-ii2fx7em9i 10 місяців тому +2

    Bro. You are something else. Anytime I watch your video I get inspired.

  • @emmanuelopoku6506
    @emmanuelopoku6506 10 місяців тому

    Intelligent analysis and good suggestions

  • @beatricedugbatey3055
    @beatricedugbatey3055 10 місяців тому +3

    I love the way you are straight forward. Yes we need to create boundaries.

  • @mel-markeshun8624
    @mel-markeshun8624 8 місяців тому

    Blessed are you Sir ❤
    This is very insightful and worth hearing

  • @mosadogunoluwaseun6916
    @mosadogunoluwaseun6916 10 місяців тому

    Welcome my boss happy to meet you live today

  • @avatarlang1
    @avatarlang1 10 місяців тому

    Thanks , Chokor. Ryt on Point

  • @EvelynAbenaPokua
    @EvelynAbenaPokua 10 місяців тому

    God bless you for speaking the truth

  • @louiskalubi5048
    @louiskalubi5048 10 місяців тому

    Excellent ❤

  • @adesuwaestherohenhen5301
    @adesuwaestherohenhen5301 10 місяців тому

    God will continue to bless you.

  • @onedayoneday2077
    @onedayoneday2077 10 місяців тому

    Chorkor, this is Canada wisdom ooo, when you are down here the scenario is different. The pressure alone will bend you at some point .

  • @halimatusadiamohammed7590
    @halimatusadiamohammed7590 10 місяців тому

    THANK you for this session ❤

  • @onyetee
    @onyetee 10 місяців тому +1

    You are spilling wisdom sir

  • @larryolanrewaju1141
    @larryolanrewaju1141 10 місяців тому

    bro, good talk jor. God bless your wisdom

  • @priscilla695
    @priscilla695 9 місяців тому +1

    Wisdom 🙌

  • @user-ez5cb2iv7h
    @user-ez5cb2iv7h 10 місяців тому

    God bless you, sir.

  • @okobiaoseyi5914
    @okobiaoseyi5914 10 місяців тому

    Well spoken sir

  • @sanohdjakakalle1293
    @sanohdjakakalle1293 10 місяців тому

    Waw waw wawwwww
    Your wife is very very lucky
    My sister please take good care of your wonderful caring and loving husband.

  • @carlosarturoarengasquinter7445
    @carlosarturoarengasquinter7445 10 місяців тому +1

    Your words in this vlog are very strong, but full of wisdom. Even within the same country the extended family becomes accustomed to asking for money. It happens in South America and other places in the world. Greetings. Carlos Arengas, from Barranquilla, Colombia.

    • @chorkormillionaire
      @chorkormillionaire  10 місяців тому

      Thanks so much. I appreciate the kind words

    • @bernardokyere1703
      @bernardokyere1703 10 місяців тому

      @@chorkormillionaireHi Chorkor Millionaire, I remember you mentioned in your video with Yetunde’s family that you had a video on reasons some international students are refused PGWP. Kindly let me know when you will be uploading the video. Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @enombeludy5598
    @enombeludy5598 10 місяців тому

    Best advice ever

  • @victoriatandoh108
    @victoriatandoh108 10 місяців тому

    Well spoken

  • @PrinceApollosIbe
    @PrinceApollosIbe 10 місяців тому +1

    And the worst part of it is after spending all the money on them everyone wil desert you once ur pocket is empty.Spend wisely

    • @theresianthambi2663
      @theresianthambi2663 10 місяців тому +1

      Exactly and you end up dying of depression leaving their children and wives vulnerable

  • @karlblak7500
    @karlblak7500 10 місяців тому +1

    I simply cut off the suckers and move on,dont fall for there emotional black mail.Salute Chorkor ,i like that order

  • @user-mm2we3gz2b
    @user-mm2we3gz2b 10 місяців тому +1

    We really have to applaud Mrs Chorkor Millionaire 😢. She allows her sweetheart help people and I feel that's just amazing 🤩. May God bless you and your family. For all the help you render, God will rise up to favor and help you and all that concerns you in Jesus Mighty Name 🙏🤗😍❤️

  • @estherasa8063
    @estherasa8063 10 місяців тому

    Weldon brother you said it's all

  • @nerogyi7361
    @nerogyi7361 10 місяців тому +1

    Thanks for your advice bro

  • @EstherSower-ri8dn
    @EstherSower-ri8dn 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much chorkor . I'm inspired .

  • @bluecloud1715
    @bluecloud1715 10 місяців тому

    Watching from Zimbabwe

  • @Elanjemaclord
    @Elanjemaclord 10 місяців тому

    Greetings Snr man Respect

  • @user-cz1oz5kp9k
    @user-cz1oz5kp9k 10 місяців тому +1

    I was raised by extended family but I am constantly being reminded of how they raised me and would be nothing without them, i feel like a walking debt I can’t help myself

    • @chorkormillionaire
      @chorkormillionaire  10 місяців тому

      What a family you have. A heart of gratitude to those who held you down is a heart that receives more from God. May your family remain blessed

  • @Ian.mwangi
    @Ian.mwangi 10 місяців тому

    Asante Daktari

  • @joysamuelugori8945
    @joysamuelugori8945 10 місяців тому

    God bless you for speaking up. Very selfish and wicked

  • @patrickarmah6847
    @patrickarmah6847 8 місяців тому +1

    You are tooo wise bro

  • @evelynamuesi9584
    @evelynamuesi9584 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for this content

  • @Sawariolipliche
    @Sawariolipliche 10 місяців тому +3

    I named my sister a red cross head officer because she spent all her salary on family and friends. It's stupidity, you are right bro.

  • @cynthiaatsen2235
    @cynthiaatsen2235 10 місяців тому

    Well said

  • @princessakurugu4409
    @princessakurugu4409 10 місяців тому

    😢😢 thank you very much I really need this my marriage is in danger because of this family issues 😢😢

  • @michaeloppong1550
    @michaeloppong1550 10 місяців тому

    Thank you Boss

  • @stephaniepokua702
    @stephaniepokua702 10 місяців тому

    God bless you bro

  • @reginachiambasen7674
    @reginachiambasen7674 10 місяців тому +1

    Even in our home countries we face same challenges.

  • @margaretsimms7796
    @margaretsimms7796 10 місяців тому

    Good morning thank you for that information always wondering if that was real name

  • @Chopper1z
    @Chopper1z 10 місяців тому

    SCC Weija is my hood o 😅😅😅…greetings from Mississauga

  • @sanyafagbohun5538
    @sanyafagbohun5538 10 місяців тому

    The fact is that I don't have aunty, uncle to support me for this PoF issue despite using the tactics in your videos of how to humble ask for help, timing e.t.c
    Still i was turned down. Infact I'm feeling like a tree without root. So depressed.

  • @mercythomas-6481
    @mercythomas-6481 10 місяців тому +1

    God bless you sir

  • @Sarah-sy8fh
    @Sarah-sy8fh 10 місяців тому

    Wisdom

  • @hammeddestiny8373
    @hammeddestiny8373 10 місяців тому +1

    Fact, 😢

  • @davidazare5756
    @davidazare5756 10 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @bettylawal5117
    @bettylawal5117 8 місяців тому +2

    Chorkor You are talking to people in Diaspora O, they used Credit Card to look after relatives back home .

  • @ottoyisanoba5902
    @ottoyisanoba5902 10 місяців тому +1

    When you're struggling you won't see no single soul bro😂

  • @princessorlando3520
    @princessorlando3520 10 місяців тому

    Hi, I applied for a pharmacy tech in Canada and I was asked to write IELTS but I didn’t get the specific band required, what should I do?

  • @EguonoBlessing-hm8mz
    @EguonoBlessing-hm8mz 10 місяців тому

    I need to book an appointment with you seriously, how do I go about it

  • @user-yf1uj8cj1d
    @user-yf1uj8cj1d 10 місяців тому

    This is th e truth 😂❤

  • @sandraasimah1904
    @sandraasimah1904 10 місяців тому

    Chorkor pls how do I join your coaching subscription group?

  • @empressnanayaa982
    @empressnanayaa982 10 місяців тому

    Can I pls have your contact, there's this TV station called Super A1 offering Canada immigration to nurses, please how true is it? Is canada in need of nurses?

    • @chorkormillionaire
      @chorkormillionaire  10 місяців тому

      Pls Check the description box or my youtube channel home page About section for contact information

  • @0mayatv658
    @0mayatv658 10 місяців тому

    I want to book an appointment with u but no response from ur PA.kindly assist

    • @ogunmademichael3807
      @ogunmademichael3807 10 місяців тому

      Guy, rebook the appointment and have patient expecting a reply from him u r a joker

  • @mamapee-kay8956
    @mamapee-kay8956 10 місяців тому +1

    Hello chorkor millionaire
    I want to chat with u privately or join your premium class..pls how do i go abt it.. enjoy the good work

    • @chorkormillionaire
      @chorkormillionaire  10 місяців тому

      Pls Check the description box or channel home page about section for contact.

  • @mensahisaiah7899
    @mensahisaiah7899 10 місяців тому

    😂The slogan is Odaaŋ shala...

  • @beatricedugbatey3055
    @beatricedugbatey3055 10 місяців тому +1

    Even here in Ghana they want you to spoon-feed them mean while they are aware you also have family. But I thank God my family are not demanding but rather supportive

  • @EvelynAbenaPokua
    @EvelynAbenaPokua 10 місяців тому

    My in-laws ooooo Hmmmmmm

  • @laurettewedderburnellis8620
    @laurettewedderburnellis8620 10 місяців тому

    On target Chokor

  • @westafricxnflora
    @westafricxnflora 5 місяців тому

    😂😂😂

  • @reginachiambasen7674
    @reginachiambasen7674 10 місяців тому +1

    No one helped o….trained myself to school

  • @temitopeakanbi4732
    @temitopeakanbi4732 10 місяців тому

    Good afternoon sir. Please sir I don't know if I can get your number sir.

  • @hammeddestiny8373
    @hammeddestiny8373 10 місяців тому

    Fact, 😢